DATING QUESTION: Sick of being the nice guy being taken advantage of?

[HowToFightMisandry]

Who the fuck listens to female advice anymore? You chicks don't know what the fuck you are talking about.

Guys: Sick and tired of being the nce guy being taken advantage of? Stay away from western women!

[TheBlackAnime]

Soo...I a guy should make a woman "earn" his attention/affection/l-word? Is this where the phrase "bitches aint shit" comes into play? O.O

[HoodwinkedbyanAngel]

I think this girl is really not talking about bread ~ she is looking fro loads of sperm

[gorillafix]

Dating advice from a woman - I don't think so. Chick want everything. Everything you do is wrong Everything you do is right, they dont fucking know. Your best bet is don't listen to bitches.

[kshppatel]

i used to being nice. what changed? i stopped giving a fuck. 

[SuperSumish]

she is just underestimating niceguys never listen or watch this videos i just came to tell all nice guys there no guys finish last every one will get their mate oneday believe me n stop watch nonsense

[SuperSumish]

stop listening this kinds of videos niceguys there is no truth in it she is american women with asian ethinity if she is raised in any part of asia she wouldnt be talk like this way

[sumish1000]

never listen to this kind of videos cos there is no truth in it everyguy will get their mate oneday. women who doesnt want a nice guy is a brainwashed babe just like this advisor .. iam so sick of these kinds of videos ya it makes you hopeless nice guys i came here for one reason i want all nice guys should never watch any kind reviews about niceguys..this girl review about nice guys is an insane american women cos you know america women is miserable than anywomen in this world

[warwolfii]

It's amazing that no matter what the problem may be, it's the guy's fault. So someone wrote a book about bitches, then it necessarily follows that men must be the problem. When is this kind of "reasoning" going to be seen for what it is? Women today are silly, shallow gold-diggers who are only out to have fun at your expense. Men, do not allow yourself to fall into this trap. Women want assholes. That's why they're always complaining that all they meet are jerks. Cause that's all they go for.

[TheBlackAnime]

@warwolfii agreed.

[MrMichael396]

WOMAN want your money your house your car and you have to be a carpenter,a maid . a butler a mind reader a doctor a lawer a cook a babbysitter etc etc etc are you are not a man .If you want to get laid pay a pro hoe not a hoe from your local city.You are going to pay no matter what might as well be with a babe and no fucking drama man .NO SINGLE MOTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[KuLuPee916]

I want to stick my bread in your oven.

[snirge]

You're good

[AllPro777]

Women are wondering why guys are not approaching them as much anymore? You know why ladies? We're tired. A lot of us are opting out of pursuing western women, and either just keeping to ourselves or going overseas and the trend is going to continue upward. We've grown tired of trying to cater to a standard that you yourself cannot meet. My buddy is 5'10, handsome, athletic and successful. But this girl who was like 4'9, 5'1 tops rejects him because he didn't meet her 6'2 requirement. Smh, women.

[JSmooth991]

Note... Don't give away bread for free...

[a084123]

FOREVER SINGLE !! : )

[Reddigitalmusic]

Very good way of putting it!

[AvengingDawn]

very insightful...

[dayvconsir]

When people do undeserved things for me I feel motivated to return the kindness in some way or at least show my appreciation. That's my nature, not a sense of entitlement. Good to know women are like this. No more selfless favors or romantic gestures. God knows I have been resented while observing girls who work desperately to please horrible, resentful men.

[sieracki001]

It's now all about violence. How much ass do you kick, get in fights and stomp the fuck people out. If you are not violent, at least potentially violent, you might as well forget american women altogether. You are going to be seen as a chump and they are "doing you a favor" by treating you like shit since they think that's what you want since you are nice. You either have to treat them like shit or you just forgettaboutit.

[superslothification]

so thats why my gf dumped me for a cross eyed asshole, i was too nice and never made her work to get compliments and help. thank you, i can't be mr. giving 24 7

[mikelorenz121]

The difference is - a man wouldn't look at a woman as being 'less' or 'weak' because she's nice to him.

[dizzyhomie89]

can i throw a watermelon at you?

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[HeyBuddyGotALight]

be a douche, it works. every douche i know has bitches clamouring to be beaten and used by them.

[blackwolfsquadron]

ooh psychology for the rescue! great video

[JustineBieberxoxo]

Sick of being the nice guy?

Shove thje bitch into the corner and beat her with your fists in the head and gut untill you can beat her no more, or untill she is completely passed out and missing a few teeth.

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Then splash her with cold water and slap her awake, use the backhand since that is the bitchhand.

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Now ask her if you are still being too nice. If she says yes, beat her more. If she says no, beat her more. Then dump her barenaked in the city centre in broad daylight. "Too nice".... HAH!

[LeblueLegume]

@JustineBieberxoxo Thumbs up for comic value. Please don't try this at home ^_^

[JohnnieRhodes]

The other flaw in your theory is how the "bad guy" who does nothing to show respect or appreciation to the woman will receive all of the attention from her that is " undeserved " . These women take the role of low-self-esteem and self-abusing treatment from these men . They see it as a challenge and it is very unfortunate and upsetting to decent and classy men who only wish to show affection and kindness . This is why I love Asian women (only from overseas) . They desire this special man .

[JohnnieRhodes]

There is a flaw in your analogy . What if both sides or waiting for that special act which deserves reciprocation ? Then no progress or growth has been achieved , and if the man makes this first gesture , then he is perceived as this nice guy who is doing something nice that was not deserved by a previous act or gesture on her part , therefore giving something that she did not work for . I like the thought of your theory , but it does not apply in all situations .

[keilojr]

Grrrr u arouse my asian fever girl, having said that...i advise people the same...dont give too much, just enough to keep em wanting more

[michael616joaquin]

Only give material things when they don't ask, also deserve and will appreciate it.

[Mrarmageddon8]

Women are just retarded they expect men to follow this endless list of social norms and rules they put into place. They essentially don't want you to ever be yourself, they want you to be just a drone who fits into all their criteria to be attractive. 

[AllPro777]

@Mrarmageddon8

Exactly. Women today want men to be at a standard that they themselves can't meet. And God forbid you run into a high-acheiving woman with degrees and money. You'll never be good enough and she won't let you forget it.

[MassHolistic]

@Mrarmageddon8

Dude. Finally. That's the real deal right there. Treat them like crap to get the best results

[LOOKNG778]

Be an asshole to bitchy women and be polite to nice girls. Simple.

[TookanArrow2myASS]

i subscribed, because you make sense!

[jteruel671]

Men: Do not worship women as if they are gods. They are human as us men. They will sense a phony of you! Do not get into the pickup artist crap. It's pathetic and the real people who win is those who sell you that crap. And don't take advise from women. They don't know how to date other women (unless their lesbians), so take advise from men who date with women but don't follow PUAs. Don't be a nice guy/mangina! Lead, take risks, and heck for equality then it's split payment for dates!

[BunnaySango]

"nice guys" are D-bags in disguise. They do all these things for girls in hopes that they'll have sex with them. They say they're "different" from other guys when really they're EXACTLY the same!! And they have this uncanny ability to turn into assholes when their method doesn't work. Also, quit bitching about "friendzone". If you like a girl stop being such a wet blanket, if she doesn't feel the same way MOVE ON!!

[Cap285]

@BunnaySango Nice guys are not douchebags in disguise. However, nice guys do become douchebags because of morons like you. You've probably encountered Douche's who are in a rut and trying a new pick up game. I will not sit idly by why you spew bullshit about genuinely good guys. Take your 'wet blanket' and shove it. I'm not friends with women. Period. A male friend is a slave. Change your own tires, open your own jars and kill your won bugs.

[Cap285]

@BunnaySango You don't like me? Fine. Not being your slave/shrink. See you.

[BunnaySango]

@Cap285

When did I say I liked you? Egomania is a serious problem you know.

[Cap285]

@BunnaySango Not you professor. Girls in general as far as being their friend. If A GIRL IN GENERAL, NOT YOU, doesn't like me that's fine. However, I will not listen to a females problems nor do her favors unless I'm getting something in return.

[BunnaySango]

@Cap285

Maybe you should word your posts better sir :3. Also, expecting sex in exchange for favors doesn't generally go well.

[Cap285]

@BunnaySango Maybe you should learn reading comprehension. And If I am doing a favor for a woman, I will be getting something in return. Until that time, change your own tires and open your own jars.

[cartel0025]

@BunnaySango Fuck it who plays nice when you can get american pussy for free? If that is your mentality of any guy of wanting sex then I like you! Dumb bitches make dumb assumptions and are easy to lay but hey I can't hate, like toilet paper use her up and dump it on the toilet for the next bitch.

[BunnaySango]

@cartel0025

I bet you get all the ladies :3

[cartel0025]

@BunnaySango I get the pussy and that's all I care

[bboyzjimmy1]

bitches suck dick better

[gip1279]

You are so beautiful.

[andrewcb88]

Are you Korean? My ex was Korean and she was crazy.

[afran17]

at first i didnt agree, but as i listened i realized ur right...but what does this say about human beings in general lol

[vena309]

I agree with the person who asked the question, why do women always settle for doush bags. It's true women do tend to settle for less because they prefer looks over whats from the inside of a person.

[Selestino84]

It is true because that happened to me I met this woman first she happens to be a nice person and I than I started to like her and I was treating her so nice that all sudden she started to kind of change with me by taking advantage of me by helping her move her belongings and changing her paper machine because of my kindness, it kind of hurt my feelings though..

[brucestrauss]

On a second note. I want to know if u have a partner. I'm betting u don't. Though u are a very attractive woman, most men prefer the simple kind, whereby we don't have to follow stupid rules & strive with great difficulty to get into ur pants.

[brucestrauss]

Why can't people just shut up & fuck. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one.

[joseg1984]

i was doing her homework before watching this. I did a bad job. she complained i told her to go fuck herself.

[PhilippeDucduOrleans]

nice advice but she turned it to make the guy the bad guy. come u women need to wake up and give guys a chance

[shinkoo]

Wtf who the hell likes bitches

[jarden69]

I need advice...there's a girl a lot younger than me I like at work and we flirted for a long time, but I could never make a move because of my position in the organization. We knew we liked each other though and used to talk EVERY day. Of course, I was the foolish nice guy all the time. Well, this new young guy gets hired and she is now going out with him. After that I started avoiding her to try and make myself scarce, so maybe she would miss me. Our whole relationship has changed, and now we

[MrEricswifey]

hey miss stirling why do i keep getting cheeted on

[Cap285]

How should I win a woman over? By calling her names and punching her in the face? Being nice to someone is worthless?! What in fuck kind of world do we live in now? Keeping dating douchebags you fucking idiot bitches

Guys: Don't have female friends. At all. You will be the guy changing tires, moving her furniture and have to listen to her bitch about the douchebag she nailed last night in the back of his 92 Mustang.

Live life for yourself. Fuck these bitches.

[FreeBeDrug]

@Cap285 Agreed. 

[zachfresh]

@Cap285 WORD.

[easternhero255]

@Cap285 Greatest Youtube Comment ever

[markw999]

@Cap285 amen



[ibmsony101]

These low beta doormats do not get anywhere with women, but instead of being introspective, they blame everyone for their rejection and frustration. Most of these guys are not worth the aggravation of explaining to them the errors of their ways. They will end up with an aging bitch who will cuckold them. These suckers can enjoy being sloppy 115th!

[ShinobiManDem]

@ibmsony101 sounds to me like someone has a chip on their shoulder

[ibmsony101]

No, i have known a few of super beta dudes. It used to bother seeing them throw their lives away for the first skank that came along.

[TheMoistCamel]

@Cap285 I agree with 99% of what your saying, but not about the friends bit. I'm a male, and if one of my MALE friends asks me to help them out, it's not a problem. If one of my FEMALE friends asks for help, I'll help them too!

Yeah the female friend might not able to help me in the same way; e.g moving furniture, but anything they could do, I'd always completely trust them to do it. Just like a male.

[QuirkyGengar]

Don't be a nice guy towards American Women. But don't go out of your way to belittle them, only stand up to them if they insult you or look at you funny. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of stuff, let alone from strangers so why would you?

Nice guys, take picks from Foreign Women who value marriage and serious relationships as much as you do and save your virginity for them. The smart ones will know that smart ones save themselves for those whom they truly love.

[UltraDOG17]

"If nice guys finish last, then i guess beautiful chicks expired fast©" (my original quote, by the way ;D) don't change the true essence of you for nobody. People can't handle genuineness. So, why settle down to degrade yourself?

[scheisskind69]

more starcraft, less this

[jteruel671]

Men: Be the asshole. Better yet have that don't give a fuck attitude with women. They dig it!

[ShinobiManDem]

ive never really thought about it like that, ive never attracted a woman using money or anything but if a girl is with me she should never have to worry about anything ever again. i like to provide and am very alpha male but because of this i do get taken advantage of alot and am yet to find a nice girl.

maybe i should stop spoiling my girlfriends :S

anyway thanks for the awsome video xx

[MissSinglefied]

@ShinobiManDem Don't stop spoiling your girlfriends! Just make sure they appreciate and are grateful for everything that you do.

[ShinobiManDem]

@MissSinglefied Thanks, shame none of the girls i meet are as down to earth as you seem.

[MissSinglefied]

@ShinobiManDem There's a ton of down to earth girls, you just gotta keep your mind and heart open!

[tkbabalu]

@MissSinglefied don't forget your wallet

[sumish1000]

@MissSinglefied cont) in europe and america girls have no patience they think only thing is lick their pussy all time but we r different. those girl of europe & america never wait for a guy who she can make him strength like the girl do here in asia. girl gives him time to understand what she is and nice guy who is quiet person never bothers who is talking he starts talk like a confident men girl you have to wait for sometime means never have to wait too long every men can be confident cos of u

[mrwonderfulman2011]

@MissSinglefied Well said Ms, I'm impressed!

[DutchLatinBoy]

@MissSinglefied I got an question . I recently got an girlfriend but like you said I am always to nice and always show my love to her but never get something in return for it and with something in return i mean that it would be nice if she would show as wel how much she loves me instead of the onesided relation that nearly everything comes from my side. I talked with her about it and she said she isn't really the cudely-24/7 lover relation type any advices? Sorry for my bad english ;)

[nemesisbreakz]

@ShinobiManDem how do you get taken advantage of if you're an alpha? And by your post you sound like a Beta to begin with.

[ShinobiManDem]

@nemesisbreakz basicly i provide and care for the girl im seeing.. i dont enter into relationships unless im serious and 60% they aint :/ in that sence im taken advantage of being an alpha male doesnt mean nothing can fuck with you. think before you type, especially commenting on somthing that has nothing to do with urself lol ;)

[sumish1000]

@MissSinglefied stop making vdeo of nice guys you make the difference of good guys and nice guys what the hell you would think of yourself there no differernce between a nice guy and push over ppls who representing nice guys is the person who girl cant understand cos he is different girls are like blah blah they never shuts their mouth and he talks only when he drink too much alcohol or after a lots of days of friendship he starts talk but you have to wait but u girls want everything fast(cont

[ShinobiManDem]

@sumish1000 That made like no sense atall.... slow down and think before you type, or better yet dont type anything :) from what i could gather there was no good messages or even a real quetion hidden in there

[sumish1000]

@ShinobiManDem my message doesnt sense to you cos my messages is about nice guys for girls not for you its a simple message for girls who come up to read the whole theory its simple and understandable iam not questioning any body "if you want make a guy better you have to stay with him girl if a girl have patience nice guy will going to be a winner"

[ibmsony101]

"very alpha male"? Say what? Alpha males do not get taken advantage of by definition. They are the leaders of the pack who women throw themselves at. Many dudes think that they are alphas, but alpha males are rare creatures that people gravitate to, look up to, fear, obey et cetera!

[ShinobiManDem]

@ibmsony101 i have no trouble with women atall, i just seem to attract skets lol, and the alpha complex aint rare lol you seem very keen to try to put someone down you dont even know. grow the fuck up ;) im deff more of a leader and there is nothing to say an alpha complex cant fall for a girl and get hurt....

[Wytchfinde]

@ibmsony101

Just ask Mel Gibson about being an alpha and how much money he's losing in the process of divorce.

[ibmsony101]

Mel G is not going to be living in his car or a shitty rented room because between alimony and child support he has no money to live on. He does not have to be one of these destroyed men who cannot move on with his because his evil ex keeps dragging him to court to suck the last bit of money and dignity out of him. He will live well, see his children as much as he was when he was making movies, and he will fuck many attractive women. How many divorced middle aged men can do that?

[Wytchfinde]

@ibmsony101

In some sense, you did get the point of my last post. Because most men would experience exactly what you state could happen thanks to anti-male laws and Western culture overdosing on feminism.

[machinaking]

Man fuck this bitch! Ha did you like that?

[zuhairreza41]

Forget all these huge comments, you are very pretty!!! Nice video and advice! :)

[IDiedForYou1776]

If the women is gonna take advantage of you because you're a decent guy than she isn't worth anything to begin with, its not human nature and most women ASSUME ALL nice guys are pushovers rarely do they open their eyes long enough or wide enough to see the true person that they just assumed is a pushover or that they took advantage of...Women now a days need to mature and realize they make their own dating problems

[sumish1000]

there no difference in nice guys and push overs if you are a nice guy you are a pushover thats it you do anything for her thats what we are n your advising so stupid lady know what a nice guy means a poor guy, less confident, caring and you tell about whole story is wrong what u told is about strong man but nice guy means yeah he will stay strong for his girl only place nice guy finish first is place called asia its a place girls loves guys like us

[thecrown871]

to date/marry who waits till marriage and if you don't mind may i ask as well where can i look for a virgin woman to date/marry who waits till marriage like i am

[thecrown871]

i understand your answer but what if you are going after the right girl who is a nice girl/or a good woman then she still chases after douche bags are we nice men and good men suppose to be mean and abusive can you please clear it up on what's going on what's up with that and some nice guys and good men like me are still virgins and waited till marriage then women just throw away their virginity like it's nothing why is that and yes I'm still looking for a virgin woman

[rabbit4400]

nice video. liked it

[truth3712]

NO, I DON'T BELIEVE ANY OF THIS. If u are nice guy and your finishing last it's because you are unattractive. Acting like a jerk isn't going to do anything but make the girl not want to let you down easy. workout, get a hair cut, that's what you really need to do.

[lunarman29]

NO, we DON"T like bitches!!!!!

[MissSinglefied]

@lunarman29 I am glad YOU don't like bitches!

[lunarman29]

@MissSinglefied It's a misconception that men prefer bitches. I actually prefer one who is a decent person. most men are like me.

[ApollosInsight]

To any guy who's considered to be a "nice guy" in the dating scene looking for a decent gal:

Stop watching these dating vids! The truth is, nice guys are at the bottom of the "dating barrel" in America, Canada, the UK, and in Australia. If you visit Russia, Ukraine, Vietnam, the Phillipines, Thailand, Brazil, and Costa Rica, you'll see that being a "nice guy" takes you VERY far w/ women who're 10x hotter than westernized women.

In fact, look up "American women vs. Foreign women"

[chanbites]

@ApollosInsight , you left out Japan....LOL...

[MissSinglefied]

@ApollosInsight There you go. All nice guys should move to a different country. Sounds viable to me.

[ApollosInsight]

@MissSinglefied I didn't say MOVE to a different country, I said DATE WOMEN who are from different countries. And thanks for proving that some western women such as yourself how illiterate you are.

[MissSinglefied]

@ApollosInsight Woah, let's not get mean here, especially if you're speaking as a "nice guy." My video is to help guys not to be taken advantage of because they're nice. The fact is, there are going to be ungrateful people everywhere in this world, so it doesn't hurt to find ways to protect yourself from those people.

[ApollosInsight]

@MissSinglefied No, I'm not being mean here. The fact is, you completely distorted what I said. I simply provided some advice on us nice guys finding our ideal woman elsewhere and you completely took it out of context.

And just to inform you, b/c of the fact that international dating is becoming popular, your advice for nice guys to date is becoming more vague.

Please don't take that as an insult.

[MissSinglefied]

@ApollosInsight Not taking it as an insult. I understand and appreciate your advice for guys to think "outside the box" when it comes to dating. I agree, international dating is becoming more prevalent in the US. However, it does not take away from the fact that a nice guy can meet a not-so-nice-girl no matter where she's from. And *hand shake*. I am glad you've found success with foreign women!

[ogicabp4u]

Watch 'Nice Guys finish first' Richard Dawkins , 1987 - explains everything.

[TENNSUMITSUMA]

if you dont give it away, shell pay even less attention. and the 'bitches' are the one with

1 a body that looks like it aced puberty, not a five year old boy

2 will fuck us instead of acting nervous and scared the moment anything sexual comes up much less the actual trying to start sex by the guy. dont know why you nerd girls keep trippin over yourselves like u think boys still have cooties or some shit.

simply put guys dont need girl that wont fuck em

thats why guys go for 'bitches'

[donteversendmeshit]

if women don't like you for being good to them, its because she's the WRONG damn woman. let her go find her BET dream man. let him use her up and leave her with 3 kids, bad credit and 8 miles of stretch marks. walk away laughing quietly to yourself and quit trying to force a connection. you're wasting your time and all of your gott-damm money. while your waitin' on a retard to come to her senses...10 women that WANT you just walked by. get up and "run for ya life" dumb-ass, b4 she drives off.

[MissSinglefied]

@ssh83 Basically it's "tit for tat," in other words, "equivalent retaliation." You do something nice, and if she doesn't reciprocate (do something nice back, show appreciation, etc), then you should not jump into doing something else nice for her. It may sound a little petty, but with "nice guys," this is the only way to measure a girl's true interest in you.

[ogicabp4u]

@MissSinglefied haha 'tit for tat' [That's Dawkiins research that is!! - watch 'Nice Guys finish first!' explains a lot of wot u say!] no wonder Richard Dawkins had the opportunity to marry three times....I'm mean don't get me wrong I love RD but he looks and sounds like an old woman.

Don't be a WussBoy and don't be an Ahole either - bottom line.

[ssh83]

"make the girl earn that piece of bread." o.o

Sorry that's too high level for us guys. You need to walk us through that step by step.

[uirmeg]

nigahiga brought me here



[O0oSorousho0O]

@uirmeg look @ my comment lol

[Smyyusuf]

you should get a job on the millionaire matchmaker

[MissSinglefied]

@Smyyusuf Haha, maybe!

[rabitshadow]

Wow, really good analogy

[Livingmydyingdreams]

you are really smart i never thougth of it that way