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  • Just as I thought before I viewed..this "caoching" vid is useless. Not all women respond to "confidence" just like not all women respond to a man with a nice job. Women respond to HONESTY! I dare say that a woman is more likely to respond to an insecure, non-confident man that is honest BEFORE she responds to a confident man that is full of BS. Thank You.

  • i have two legs

  • I just hate how this dating coach generalize every man and woman, I dated a lot of girls, and every single girl I dated they were so different from each other,. they are a lot of nuts out there, you just have to be the right screw.

  • I think confidence in the context she's describing means internally strong,w/out acting needy or desperate.According to my theory about women called the counter clockwise productive principle,which is that women will always do exactly the opposite of what a guy needs or wants.If ur interested in other things & are happy without them,they'll of course want u more.I had an ex dump me 20 yrs ago,& now that she's useless for having a future and family with & my opinion of her is shot,she likes me.

  • I always wonder what "smell nice" can be. Sure, one can put on cologne and wash away the natural scent, but natural scent can be very attractive, too. How does one know to what degree to preserve the natural scent of the body as opposed to washing it all away?

    I disagree about her "comic book" comment. SOME women will enjoy comic books, too! If a guy is interested in comic books, why hide it? It's going to come out, eventually, anyway. Best to see if that's a common interest or not.

  • Lots of people here have commented so far that having lots of money is important for a man to be attractive to women. I know for a fact, at my workplace alone, that four men are married to women who make more money/are more successful than they are. So no, having lots of money is not a prerequisite to be attractive to women. In my experience, the guy who can offer the best overall package (career success, personality, intelligence, physical and mental health, etc.) wins the girl. Each woman has

  • horrible tips

    

  • You should never ever give up something you love for a woman. I agree. Do what you love as much as you can because sooner or later, the woman herself is going to make you give it up.

    True story people.

  • You should never ever give up something you love for a woman. I agree. Do what you love as much as you can because sooner or later, the woman herself is going to make you give it up.

    True story people.

  • Don't talk about Comic Books? Fuck her, then.

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  • Your a dating coach? If you were super hot then i would belive and listen to you but....your not. Also your tips sound like from the 1950's XDD well most of them.

  • ugly ass couch

  • too much work, too many videos

  • Be attractive to women = be black

  • @Mrarmageddon8 fuk blacks. Only whores with STD's like them because of their dicks. Black people only fuk white girls with low self esteem that are sluts who get paid 5$ an hour for sex. Its the only white girls they can get. 

  • @radnev007 this one of the dumbest comments .

  • @radnev007 My psychology teacher is a hot blonde, she is working on her PHD, and her Husband is African. FAIL

  • omg I searched for how to be attractive seen this video then seen video counter and I was like WOAH-138 thousand videos!!!!

  • Don't listen to anything a woman says about what women want. Do you think they are going to tell the truth and look like the shallow gold digging sluts they really are?

  • @welhungjohnson yup, no doubt. I had like nothing going on in the women department, then all of a sudden I go to law school and boom, like 20 women start talking to me in a span of 3 months.

  • @CaseRed0605 LOl ... the same think happen to my older bro too...

  • Well, I'm fucked. I look like a fat nerd.

  • sorry to say this, but it has nothing to do with passion but rather security. Of course, there will be a string of ill-conceived, unsubstantiated comments from "extra ribs", but it seems to be like this. Upon observation of the men who are with knock outs, they are the less emotional types and - dare I say it - rather dim; seed vessels.

  • I should'nt have to change myself to make myself attractive.Girls except you for who you are. Just be your self

  • 1) Own an Ferrari 458, F430 or an AUDI R8

  • @RS200PinkFloyd I have a bicycle =)

  • bullshit bullshit bullshit. i was left by my dream girl . we had HUGE feelings for eachother, then the richer, taller, older guy came around. i was dropped like a hot potatoe for him.

  • You give your first point ZERO credibility by following it up with the statement "How can you TAKE CARE OF others when you cant take of yourself". Read between the lines. Translation: Money matters because with money you can TAKE CARE OF the woman. You said it, even if you didn't "say" it.

  • @driftingeric2k4 I interpreted it as meaning conscientious. To use the cliche, girls especially want emotional support. The "confidence" maybe sometimes gets mixed up with money, but I agree confidence is most important.

  • In New York, you need to have money as a guy, if you dont have it all I can say is: Good luck.

  • @Sepp00ppeS Well, I'm UK born and spent 7 years in the US and I had the same feelings when I went...but there's a lot of myths about the US. Never met anyone who wished me a 'nice day' that didn't do it with enthusiasm and a smile....not everyone is obese, about the same as the UK.....very few people carry guns....only a few churches are money driven......oh, and the Jelly Beans there taste much better than even the Jelly Belly here! My advice? Pack tonight and get on the next plane :)

  • The most attractive thing you can be is YOURSELF!!!

  • Rotten advice.

    type david wygant or ardady39 into the search bar for a video that doesn't suck

  • HERE'S HOW TO GET GIRLS

    1) Be Confident (Posture, Eye Contact, Speak With Authority and Don't Be Hesitant or Nervous when Approaching them).

    2) Act like you don't need them and make them prove themselves to YOU!

    3) Make them feel comfortable (comfort is necessary before intimacy)

    4) Demonstrate that you're a good provider & protector.

    5) Give them value and be different!

    THE 2 BEST PROGRAMS

    "The Game" by Neil Strauss

    "Pandora's Box" from MackMethods. com (awesome)

    Go!

  • Men and women saying that all that women want from a man is money and a job, just know you can't generalize. Even if you met 50 women with the same result, that is still not all women, and maybe you're just looking in the wrong area.

  • @amyvandevelde Classic NAWALT argument FAIL

  • @joethemechanic classic asshole.

  • Mostly i just try not too get arrested on the first date women are turned off by that

  • lol

    my cousin is studing and very very busy, because he needs money (he is doiing some jobs with a choir etc) - the typical stuff.

    and his hobby is playing soccer - his girlfriend left him, because he had to decide between her and soccer.

  • @Sepp00ppeS i think he left her actually haha

  • @landmine21

    sorry i wrote it in the wrong way (english is not my mother language^^)

    it was like that: she said to him, that he had to decide between her or soccer etc.

    so she didnt liked the current situation

    hope you got the little difference^^

  • @Sepp00ppeS Oh I see. Well I'm glad that he chose his passion over a woman. Kudos Bro. And what is your mother language?

  • @landmine21

    yeah i also think, that he made the right decision.

    my mother tongue is german. :o

    i guess you are from great britain?

  • @Sepp00ppeS Sadly not. I'm just an average American haha. That's awesome though you're German. I plan on visiting Germany and Sweden sometime in my lifetime. I have to visit my native lands haha

  • But what if you're fat?

  • What the heck makes her think lawyers make a lot of money... she must not know many

  • @Diucturnal If you like men, why do you care if women find it attractive.....?

  • This is total bullshit, the girl only tell you how she feels.

    Is like advertisting herself and teach people how to approach her.

    Appearence/Wealth/Confident/hu­murous....etc. are all important to any women. The more you have the more women you get.

    Like talking about whatever you interested (Guys' interests) might not be attractive to most women bcos they simply don't care when they first met you or not close with you. Use your "Brain properly" listen more and speak wisely.

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  • long term Money wins. short term you only get the awww moment.

  • Yea you dont have to be a doctor or lawyer guys, you can be Steven Spielberg. Its that simple

  • Best advice there: Don't give up all your time for a woman.

  • $ = Wealth = Security = Women = Empty Wallet

  • I like comic books... and I like girls that like comic books...

  • Hmm, I guess this is somewhat true. Yes, it does matter if you make money, but that typically isn't the number one factor for being attractive to the women I know.

  • claire is the perfect example for women's mind: hypocrite, gives you a lot of bullshits, often telling lies with honest face and misleading you. if you want the real tips, go see and learn from women around you,they are all the same, they just want the hot stuff, they'll accept you for whatever you are if they are desperate or lack of choice, if they get a better chance there's big probability that they'll leave you

  • @shermanhakeem true true

  • women arent attracted to doctors? suuuurrrrrreee whatever u say lady

  • You got something against comic books Jessica Claire... You stuck up bitch

  • Duuuude.....the trick is to not seem eager........if a guy doesn't text it drives me freakin nuts

  • lol at using a fat old neckbeard as the guy in the sample clips to give fat old neckbeards on youtube hope ... trollololo

  • This is not true. In my experience, you can be confident, clean and nice. But if you don't have a good job, if you're not earning lots of money, and are not physically attractive, you're not going to be attractive to women. Women are always saying things like, "I love a guy who has a sense of humor", just to seem like a nice person, but it's far from truthful.

  • how can you be confident when you don't have lot's of money. Women wants a guy with a career and passion in life, but she wants a guy who earns a decent salary.

  • @welhungjohnson Meh, I have tons of money, career, etc. and nobody's throwing themselves at me. Where do you go to get women thrown at you?

  • Pile of crap, women want dough. Or do you seriously believe, all those old farts with models are hygenic and passionate?

  • Step 1 = Have a lot of money.

    Step 2 = Have a lot of money.

    Step 3 = Have a lot of money.

  • There is no single rule of what women like. While the category described in this video exists, it is not the only one. It's not even the one that's making itself most felt. The "best" women nearly always go for the cash. Because they can.

  • '...a lot of rumors going around that it's your job or your money that makes you attractive to women...' Errrr, no, it happens to be SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN.

    For example, women who were asked to grade men's appearance gave a significancly higher score when they were told that the man in question was rich. Most women are not aware of it since it is subconcius, but it definitely is so. If this woman is not even aware of this FACT, then why should anyone listen to her dating tips?

  • I completely and utterly agree with the passion. No man I dated ever had much money. I adored them... sometimes even loved them, just the same.

  • you got to be set-up before you get as these bitches.

    1. have a J-O-B!

    2. your own place to stay, it don't matter if it's big enough for only 2 people....just keep it clean & comfortable enough to want to stay at.

    3. your own car. it can be a BMW....make sure your car is clean.

    you DON'T have to be a "BALLA" to get with these hoes....just be set-up...a little something something....after high school is over, no girl will look at you if your not set

    ^^^^ these are tips for 19-25 year olds.

  • How to attract a woman if you are a guy:

    1.) Look like Greg Plitt or Rob Riches

    2.) Have a stable job that pays well

    How to attract men if you are a woman:

    1.) Just stand there and don't be too overweight.

    little unfair?

  • @andresvelazquez To be fair, I think women have it a lot harder in other respects of life. I mean, just think how hard giving birth must be =/

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  • 90% - money and job! But that's not enough - you have to be very passionate about your money and your job!

  • GRENAAAAADE! i say you should work on your hygene

  • dont talk about comic books? i get paid to draw them for a living. this video is garbage.

  • @welhungjohnson yep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • lmao it is soooooo true. I am one of THE most passionate people I know. I am also EXTREMELY good at art and tastes in clothes. Which, in combination with my intellect forms a witty charisma that I find sways others incredibly, incredibly easily. Why? Because they respect.....how passionate I am about things. So that's not it. Well dressed, intelligent, funny, super confident, kind, passionate, better at sports, art, science and math and ABLE to grow at things, faster than basically anyone

  • @welhungjohnson That's like saying all man wants is sex, this is pathetic, you need to stop stereotyping women like that, looks like you chase after the wrong ones, or perhaps they chase after you. I never cared for money and I can say that with all honesty, there is much more important things in life than a "fat wallet".

  • @welhungjohnson Well said. Since we're on the life topic watch Zeitgeist: Moving Forward on youtube it's free. 

  • hi, jessica,

    Please give us some advise, regarding, ethnics men dating white girls. I am from Pakistan and I am attracted to only white girls. I have a horrible time finding the right girl for me.

  • Claire, you should give me a blow job.

  • 0:27 : )

  • when you have a lot of money in your wallet its when you can take care of yourself logically :D

    even though (i dont know how you write it correctly xD) its always a good advice to have passion on what you do. is THE advice.

  • Dating tip for guys: Don't take dating tips from women.

  • @michetox good one

    

  • It totally IS the job and the money :D

  • dont you know that one tip i have heard is : never lissen to womans dateing advice.(vin ...somebody)

  • "You should never give up something you love or something you need for a woman" Very profound statement.

  • "if you don't take care of yourself... how could you possibly take care of someone else?"

    oh yeah.. right.. because women can't take care of themselves.

    slam dunk, claire.

  • @welhungjohnson I agree totally - most women are shallow and are only interested in cash.

    about 10 years ago, when I had a fairly decent job, and my wallet was thick, I had about 2 or 3 girlfriends, they hung around me like a rash, since then, I've sadly been unemployed for a few years (for personal reasons) and no woman has ever given me the time of day since.......

    oh, and their not keen on balding men either, you need a full mop of hair and money.

  • film makers don't make money?? =P tell that to James Cameron.

  • @welhungjohnson

    Gonna go out on a limb here and guess the only woman who has ever thrown herself at you was a Rosie O'Donnell look-a-like after she mistook your beat up face for a vagina.

  • @TheRadiantstate Way to troll...I admire that in a person.

  • It's not money- or if it is, then maybe you guys should consider the types of women YOU are attracting. Ever wonder what the one common denominator is in the failure to get laid? YOU. So maybe you guys aren't finding love or quality beaver not because you don't have money, but because you are misogynists, bitter, and small-wanged. Just think of how much of your bitterness is picked up on by potential love interests..Good luck with that.

  • Yeah, for women a filmmaker would seem more attractive because there's the possibility that you could be making bank in ten years. If you haven't made it by then, expect her to jump ship.

  • yeah and when I do all the crap she says and "care for my time", the woman goes all feminist on me and accuses me of being insensitive lol

  • @welhungjohnson AHAHAHAH!

  • I'm unemployed (looking for a job), I play video games about 20 hours a week, I live with my parents at age 24, I'm not the nicest guy in the world, I don't care what other people think and I own a mediocre car..... and yet I have a beautiful girlfriend that is model material, she adores me and we've been together for 8 months. Soooo ummm obviously every situation is different. I'm about the opposite of what you would think would be the ideal mate for a girl, but I'm still successful.

  • @Trancemaster2052

    you're the bad boy, that's what all chicks like until they are ready to settle down

  • @MikeG82 Yeah I guess so.

  • Money doesn't do shit when it comes to picking up women

  • BULLSHIT

    money is everything...

  • This is bullshit every girl says all you need to be is confident, well obviously if your confident you probably have money and thats all a girl wants.

  • @parsleysprigs WOW, that is totally wrong. You need to be confident to be and keep a girl. Those who want money will just be after your money no matter what. Even a guy who works at burger king will get a really hot chick as long as he portray himself as a person who can stand up and provide for her.

  • @RumbleHD You see that's where it's fucked, why is it you need to provide for them. I'm good on all that been there done that,  and then pretty soon they take everything you do for granted and just leave you anyway. I think your better off slapping her around so she gets really excited when your nice to her, she'lll be like omg he didn't hit me after he got home from work and he's not even drunk to top it off he doesn't smell like a cheap whore.

  • @parsleysprigs I"m not going to insult you so here's the thing. I don't think that all women are like that. I mean you have a lot of good points. Women like to be treated like they are appreciated. Like in your example, you said if a guy hits them all the time but comes home and doesn't hit them then she feels good. Same with a lesser example. If a guy doesn't call his wife at work but suddenly calls her and sends flowers to her work then she also feels appreciated.

  • Every woman is different so this information is bloody useless. This isn't sex and the city for christ's sake. She either likes you or she doesn't. Someone once told me when I was young that women care about 2 things: Money and your ability to earn it. Thatalways stuck in my mind. I'm not saying it's true but....

  • Rule #2: never take any dating advice from a woman.

    Why? This...

  • i am a garbage man and i love it, however i use lots of colon, and i am very interested in waste management, recycling AND women.

  • Job and money is everything to women, this is total bullshit.

  • @USAFFountain is it like that there in usa too..

  • @USAFFountain Great jobs and money make men happy and confident. Its a transitive property.

  • @USAFFountain THAT IS A LIE for me atleast... i dont care if they have lots of money but i wanna make sure they have a job and are responsible and hard working and secure

  • @USAFFountain im a guy....not broke but not rich either....and it is true...money and job are not everything..if you think they are...your doing something wrong!

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  • I'd bang the shit out of her

  • Do I still have to talk about comic books when we're in a 69 position?

  • she clearly recorded all of these in one night, probably after not getting laid after a trip to the bar.

  • To any guy who wants success in dating:

    Pick up another language and go overseas. What dating coaches and Pick up artists don't want you to know is that there is much better fish OVERSEAS. Here in America, you have to have game to pick up women. Many women overseas however, actually APPROACH YOU!!!

    So stop listening to these "dating experts" and learn another language!

  • @ApollosInsight lol or go to another country that speaks your language, like England.

  • wow man that will maybe attract a girl who works in a coroners office or forensics but never ever say that

  • wow man that will maybe attract a girl who works in a coroners office or forensics

  • is it okay to be passionate about playing videogames all day? What about if you work at McDonald's for a living? I mean, the woman said that if you're passionate about something, then that helps to raise your value, right? SO if I was on a date and I told the girl "You know, I really love getting up at 5am and carrying the big bucket full of grease to the dumpster out back, and when that aroma hits my nostrils, I stand there and think to myself....mmmm, chicken shit!" Is that a good line?

  • she is right...it's about how you present yourself. Staple some $100 bills to your face, carry around a copy of your bank balance and if the numbers add up, ching ching...lay time!

  • whats your name again..i didnt cutch it lol

  • How to be attractive to women? Be self-confident, funny and at least half a head taller then her, and have them be slightly BELOW your league. (You know, go for kind of cute instead of smoking hot, unless you really can afford a hypothetical trophy wife of course, more power to you then.)

    Of course you can't learn being funny, and learning how to be self-confident is pretty hit or miss. Nor can you determine how tall you are.

    Sad fact is, you got it or you don't.

  • @Shavarnarak

    On the upside though, as long as you aren't downright fugly or monstrously fat or something, looks don't actually matter as much as people thing. Style, presentation and general hygiene are still important, but if you see these guys who slept with like a hundred women, most of them are average to below-average looking. It's true! They're generally not male models.

  • I don't speak Navaho code. Try 1s and 0s.

  • honey i am all into you can we have adate at sunsetboulvard illsnog your breath oudaya

  • I loved to collect football action figures, My ex thought it was the coolest thing. Then she talked me into selling it, and I made $8000, spent maybe 800 dollars or so. Now the action figures value went down, Listen to women?

  • Damn, it's going to be tough...

  • @FrenchExpat1

    thats what she said!

  • Haha...being a doctor or a lawyer will definitely get you more women than not get you women...this video's advice is clearly trying to sound like looks and material things don't mean anything to women; sorry to say but this is FALSE. Not to say that women won't like a guy for who he is, but even the most down to earth girl is going to like a dude with cash, muscles, or an accent.

  • lol, they want you to have other interests so that they have something to take away from you later and use as a bargaining chip.

    If they think you are only interested in women, they know you will be too confident in yourself to manipulate and they'll move on.

  • what the hell are you talking about?! comic books rules!

  • @bigkemp

    Hell Yes!!!

  • What is attractive to women is good looking men. If you dont have the looks then give up.

  • Everything a girl wants, I don't have:

    Looks, personality, money, etc

    fuck this.

    single for life :(

    or remains of it

  • @tjmick1992 all you really need is compassion. love people. love their flaws. they may love you and your flaws back.

  • @tjmick1992 ^^^ the women in the video is not a real woman. she is a consumer. she is a product of television and the corporations. you don't want that type of woman. you will find the right woman if you learn how to have compassion and be true to yourself.

  • @tjmick1992 you'd rather be single because you believe that YOU don't have any looks, personality, money because that's what EVERYTHING girls want?? Well, then you've got a lot of work to do! Besides, that's not really what's going to make you attractive to a lot of women because that's only YOUR perspective of yourself. You'd be lucky enough to meet a woman who can actually see that you have personality and some money (if you work hard enough to achieve it). you're likely to gain her respect.

  • @QuoGirl Ok. And how will I know when I have achieved the "goal" of making her look at me in a better light than I do to myself, how the fuck will I know this?

    I ask mostly cause I noticed a girl I work with stared at me for about 5 seconds, than went home as she was supposted to do. I don't know if she was looking in my general direction, or directly at me. I couldn't see any facial expressions either.

  • @tjmick1992 5 seconds is pretty LONG to be staring at a guy. even I don't look at a guy for more than a second, attractive or not (unless he was looking somewhere else and he would never be able to see that I was looking at him for that long). So how do you know if she was looking at you in a good way? OK, if you catch her looking at you for more than a second (a lot goes on in a person's mind even for a split second glance), you could either give her an inquisitive look like "what?" or smile.

  • @QuoGirl

    I don't know. This was from across a parking lot.

    She opened her car door, turned around, looked (in my general direction) for a while. 5 seconds is an educated guess.

  • @tjmick1992 Well, like I said. pretty long enough gaze at an opposite sex for no particular reason when there MIGHT be. maybe she saw something about you that made her stop... your wardrobe might be different from how it would normally look? maybe you shaved? (I notice this about guys and depending on how well I know the guy, I'm not afraid to compliment them about it hehe) whatever the reasons for it, if you really care to know, then just try to smile and see how many girls will stop and stare.

  • @tjmick1992 Also, let's say you smile at her after you caught her "staring", if she smiles back, then that's a good thing. She might try to smile at you the next time you see her. It's little things like these that will catch interest in a girl. But if she doesn't smile back, then she was just staring for some reason you'll never know unless you ask. I'm not saying that you go ask her about it but if you do, I'm sure she'll look at you more differently. Actions speak louder than words, remember?

  • @tjmick1992

    Aw, hey that's not true. There's someone out there for you! =]

  • @Mariezee44

    I thank you for the input, but I do not see how I could ever date a women. I can't talk to them in the way you should on a date. I have NO confidence in much of anything right now.

    I just feel lonely and want that to stop. Sadly I see no way to rid of that feeling...

  • i agree with this so much but then again you get those guys that expect you to drop everything and hangout with them even after you inform them you are busy. not trying to be pushy just through out a hook-line but maybe you should make a video about how guys can do things other than like hygienic stuff that can be a major turn off like bossiness and all that :) but i enjoy your videos alot girly

  • girls are sadistic, materialistic, lookin for a man makes 'em opportunistic, they're lyin' on the beach perpetratin' a tan so that a brother with the money can be their man!

  • What state and city does this woman live in? I've watched every video and I don't have a clue...

  • @notessimodude Lol it says it in the beginning of every video >_< fail

  • @Blainne1 That was a joke.....

  • @notessimodude We have to investigate! ..than we can close her beautiful lips for a little while!

  • @notessimodude new york...

  • @TheSeprioth sarcasm...