Understanding Men: Where Are You Going Wrong With Men?

[JDNuvo]

I meet lots of men. But why can't I get a guy to want a serious relationship? I can't be that awful if they keep trying to talk to me. But I'm not that into them. What do I do?

[SwanNeckBeauty]

well ..there's this guy. I like him and he use to like me. not sure if he likes me now. he likes the sexy part of me ,but i just don't think he likes me personally..can i get some help please?

thank you for you time.

[eyesfullhearts22]

You have beautiful eyes. Also, your advices are so helpful, thank you!

[jezzieBell05]

Being attractive = being healthy. Work on getting healthy and love will come.

[BasilofOZ]

Could you please make some videos similar for Men seeking Women? Understanding Women?

[funkyfayy]

You're like a real-time HITCH :p

[palisboycrazy101]

you are so flipping hot.

[CHERRYqs]

you r yummy

[canalwaysbe]

You should totally date Taylor Swift

[MzSarahJade]

"Quali-y" Love that.

[bujeebuleeb]

WHY ARE YOU BEAUTIFUL

[aeolover1]

"am i being sexy enough" um definitely ;D

[OperaBubble]

You're smart and a great communicator! Helpful videos!

[livinghappyisachoice]

Easier said than done but very good advice :) and there is always room for improvement in everyone and the first step with that is to acknowledge your problems

[nurulaynMahsa]

I keep jepodising my relationships. I dont understand why! Im 23 and Ive met many amazing guys for my age. The last guy was everything I desired in a man, but I became withdrawn, mean and cold, didnt like being near him, and still he remained so loving and understanding, then I suppose I pushed him too far! Why am I so self-destructive!

[dw737489]

Umm.. Wait what was too distracted by your face and accent

[missjanebronte]

@tennisgurl206 but better!



[JerusalemSpiceSpace]

I have a new blog for women on What Men Want from Wives and I'm posting your videos because they're FANTASTIC and women need these tools.

[Spoofliferocks]

There's a guy I see everyday, we talk in a small group and alone we are pretty good friends but I've never really spent time with him other then when I run into him which is every single day (in school) I like him a lot but he is a little bit older then me, anyways if I were to ask him out could that all tumble apart? He seems pretty nice and he's open and mice to everyone... But will I lose all hope of being friends with him if I ask him out?

[Relationshipcoach1]

Very informative. Thanks

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[QueenOfParadise1]

Please make a video on how to keep the guy!!! plz plz plz

[QueenOfParadise1]

Keep the guy!!!!! that the problem

[SkinnyGirl125]

This is all very informative! Most dating coaches are general and vague, this is all very specific!

[BbysShh17]

i wish u were my bestfriend or part of my family! u seem so nice and kind :)

[fakecharacter]

you're so kind and understanding

[sometimesilovelife]

you should be on Harry Potter

[hhaannaaww]

i sooo wana meat you and just talke to you about my love life, cause i´m nou almost 19 years old never had a real boyfriend and boys just don´t talke to me in real life but when i meat then on internet they do. and it´s not like i´m not goodlooking cause i´m and a lot of people tel me that so it has to be the way of me just being me couse they already give up before they stard talking to me :(

[randomchick315]

marry me!;)

[sairaj1]

i attract emotionally distant man and trying hard to get close to decent men.

[893126509]

heyy i was wondering can u do a video where u can get over a guy

THANK-YOU

[candykis33]

Yes, Matthew, what is the problem?!?! I feel exactly like this sometimes. I think I am all three (sadly). :( How do you know when a man is being sincere if he asks u for ur number? I am a plus size woman & when a guy approaches me & says, " may i have ur number?", I feel self conscience & unsure of myself. Then I'm thinking, "why does he want to talk to me when all of these other slim/thin women are walking right by him?" U now, society says that plus size women r not attractive.

[veivien]

i think i'm fat and ugly...i can't attract ppl..n no one ever get attracted to me....

[chenmengxue]

@tennisgurl206

i was so gonna type that lol

[joyusu]

you can read my mind sir

[ChristopherAngelies]

Ok heres a Queston

For you sir how do you

find a man that wont leave in

a month ?

[yarie18]

I love ur videos very insightful. Can u make a video about how to keep a guy interested without becoming like a psycho IDK an appropiate word for that but that's the idea lol

[alexandruthegreat95]

XxPumkinSpicexX I know this guy (who I used to have a crush on) and I never knew if he liked me or not...the problem was that he was a little flirty with everyone so I could never tell if he was serious. So maybe, and it's just a guess, maybe you're the same way? Maybe try calming down a bit? Lol

[priya7916]

@alexandruthegreat95 i have the same story lol the only difference is that he was my best friend

[RachelCarbo21]

1 ov my problems is am a shy person, boy show there intresterd but i fine it abit hard to show my feelings in that person even though i like him but dont no how to approach or show i am intrested in him?

[OhNinaNina]

This guy is my ideal man...lulz

[SerendipitousJ]

I definitely have issues with keeping the guy. We end up breaking up, and then he comes crawling back when I'm already over him. What gives, this seems to be a continuous cycle with me! :S

[ssscybro2]

@XxPumpkinSpicexX because 1) he actual think that hes the one in the friend zone

2) hes shy ,if you have made a move and he says he does not like you like that (what you feel can be actual be

lust or he actually cant think of losing your companion ship) but i can say that us guys find it harder

to date our friend because of a serious love we have for you....and in some cases we fall for our friends

but we dont act on those feeling. so just be you,make him miss you a bit and see what happens

[ViperRebby]

I laughed when he said "Do you know where to find them, would you know them if you saw them" That was kind of hilarious. : D

[belleme10]

thanks thast what i want to hear

[JolieJb]

I have a pb with keeping the ''heart'' of the guy...usually they stay with me for a long time...but i do not feel love or romance ..its always more physical than anything else. how can i change it??

[ssscybro2]

@JolieJb what do you and him talk about what things do you tell him

if all yu give him is sex thats what you will get....me feel as much emotion a women

we just express it in a diff way.....make him feel god about him self(but not inflate his ego) and you have a man who will start opening up with you.ps this is me personally but it wont hurt to try.

[thesparitan]

As a man I find this advice accurate. From my personal experience I will go up to a girl in a book store or any store if she gives me positive eye contact. Its a great way to meet high quality guys often because men are not usually looking to get laid when they are just chilling at a book store or whatever and if they are creeps just walk away lol.

[1955stefanie]

I need help on those three areas. Is he a therapist ? .... I wish I could go to see him.. But I'll have to cross the Atlantic Ocean.. Does he has a book?

[1955stefanie]

@tennisgurl206 i totally agree.

[Rosiiee17x]

finally! some good quality advice from a mans point of view! y did it take me so long to stumble upon your videos lol!

[chandni143]

you remind me of daniel radcliffe i think its the way you talk and you sound like him as wel,

by the way your beautiful

[Ferrinas1]

@chandni143 I totally agree with you :)

[Nappitude21]

out of all this knowledge he must not be single...he cant be single lol..so ladies...stop being desperate

[thebeatles4eva09]

I would like to date you what do I have to do for that to happen :-)

[key1810]

if i didnt see his face i would think hes Harry Potter

[XoXoButterflyoXoX]

marry me:) 

[mathwiz2000]

I need help asking a guy I met to prom. The problem is he lives about 2 1/2 hours from me. So, we can't hangout like I want to.

We are both busy training for target shooting and going to comps for it. Which is how we met. I will see him in a couple of weeks at another comp. Should I ask him then and how should I bring up the subject of prom?

[maikor3]

awesome advice :-) ya take one step at a time

[tumblweed32]

insightful! thanks!