hi there..i wonder what happaned to your head scarves? Did you throw them away? if you still keep them, would you mind giving them to me? your head scarves are pretty..hehehe
i dont understand the muslims who are giving such comments like: im so sad, oh sister, i feel bad, etc etc. people!!! allah is not in need of her. she is the one in need of allah. her rejecting his religion is her rejecting allah. we are in no need of people like her. yes we have to do dawah and call people to islam but those who reject, then we say: but Allah is Rich (Free of all wants and needs),35/15 who goes astray does so to his own loss(17: 15) .
On my path to attaining true faith in islam, I left Islam a couple of times. I will tell testify their is absolutley nothing better than islam in this world. But you have to understand the times we are living in, these are the times of fitna like no other. The only thing that will keep you a muslim is gaining knowledge, so no christian, jew or whatever they are can come at you from left field. I will make major dua that Allah guide you back.
Remember If Allah so willed He could make you all one people: but He leaves straying whom He pleases and He guides whom He pleases: but ye shall certainly be called to account for all your actions.16:93Is he then to whom the evil of his conduct is made alluring so that he looks upon it as good (equal to one who is rightly guided)? For Allah leaves to stray whom He wills and guides whom He wills. So let not thy soul go out in (vainly) sighing after them: for Allah knows well all that they do!35:8
Sad...i feel bad for u sister but May Allah guide you to the truth.Though i feel extremely bad about it ,but then its between u and Allah.Who are we to say anything and for those who r saying bad things to this Sister.Please don't .U r a muslim and Act like one ,by advicing her and by doing Dua'a for her......Peace be upon u
aasaalamualaikum to the muslims brother and sister, astagferillah for the negative comments that yur leaving on @thankyoudarling page....she like everyone else has free will therefore it is nt right for you to blast her for a choice that she feels is right for her..as muslims i can understand y yu can get soo emotional about it but I do nt understnd your lack of aadab, keep yur darn thoughts to yourself...allah (SWT) has given her her free will so who are you to try and take that away from her?
where in the quran or hadith does it say that we have to make sure that EVERYONE WHO IS MUSLIM OR REVERTS TO ISLAM ARE FORCED TO STAY IN ISLAM?? Allah (SWT) gave her free will so that if she believed to practice and follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) and if she disbelieved that is between her and Allah (THE JUDGER). Who are you to judge something that does not belong to you? We are the SERVANTS of Allah and followers of islam not the ruler or owners of the religion...
@EiidAarafat we judge her by the way allah has judged people who leave or reject isla and that is: that they are kufar( apostates) she is a kafira now. that is our judgement and also the judgment of allah, for such people like her. and yes she has free will but the free will does not mean we can choose another religion and not being punished. the one who choses other then islam is gone be punished with hellfire for ever.
@muhammed421@muhammed421 i understand what your saying but the thing is whatever it was that attracted her to islam to begin with has disappeared from her heart and that okay, because allah guides whom he will and misguides whom he wills. Just because she disbelieved after she has believed does not mean she is doomed for life. Inshallah as long as she is breathing, everyday is a chance fr her to repent, therefore, as long as she's alive we should make duah for her or give her daw'ah.
@EiidAarafat .We should say kind words so that she can if allah wills will be lead back to islam again. Harsh words and comments would probably only make her more distant from allah and islam. You never know the power of a single word.
Inshallah may allah (swt) guide all those misguided.
....As a muslim WATCH WHAT YOU SAY for ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENTS THE COMMENT THAT YOU MAKE MAY BE USED AGAINST YOU!! Subhanallah think before you blast and ask yourself.... if the rasul (SAW) saw how you behaved would he have approved? i think both you and i know the answer to that. A believer is one that people are safe from their hand and mouth...do not be oppressors OR abuser subahanallah allah is watching you soo be careful and make istaghfar.
as for @thankyoudarling i pray that allah leads you back to the straight path and inshallah makes you firm in islam and also thank you for the videos….lastly to the muslim haters please learn what the religion teaches and what we believe in before you make an ignorant statement...dont be soo quick to be a keyboard warrior;)
If you have any doubt about Islam, please take yr little time to ask & seek time to hear the lectures about Islam especially for being a Muslims woman..
Gain more knowledge about Islam.. I'm sure you'll find Allah. Get to know Allah & his 99names. Know more about Rasulullah (Prophet Muhammad). Islam is the way of life. It include all of a person's life. We solve problem in our life according to Islam. Make prayer, Allah will help you.. InshaAllah~
"If good befalls upon you, then it is from Allah (SWT) (from his permission and Mercy), and if harm/evil befalls you, then it is from yourselves." 4:79
You SHOULDN'T apostate from Islam just because you feel that it's difficult to practice (or that it may be hard to understand), because if a person is a Beleiver and falls short in his Deen, then they have a chance for Allah (SWT)'s forgiveness. But if a person apostates/dies a Disbeleiver, then they will be punished for eternity.
*confused* So why did you apostate? (Please don't get offended, because I'm just wondering if you apostated because you had misconceptions about Allah (SWT), Muhamamd (SAW), etc.)
Muhammad (SAW) states in Hadithul-Qudsi (the Sacred Hadith in which he quotes from conversations with Allah (SWT) and the Angel Jibril (AS): Allah (SWT) stated: "I have FORBIDDEN Myself from (committing) oppression and injustice, and I have also forbidden it upon Mankind."
I just saw u for the first time in my life in the "Niqab" video, and I was so happy with what u did, but when I learned that u left Islam, I got sad! Islam says: do what ever u want. so, as long as you're happy now, it's all good. and it was a good move from u to reupload all of your videos to guide our sisters all around the world. God bless you :)
Many roads, one journey. Go where your heart takes you. Nobody has the right to tell you what to believe. Even if they did, belief is something inside you. Expect it to change throughout your life. What matters is that it is authentic. Forced belief will always leave you spiritually hungry.
I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you look great without the hijab. You have gorgeous hair. I am glad you made a decision that makes you happy. That's all that matters.
"The Prophet sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the Companions of the Prophet were reluctant to have sex with the female captives in the presence of their husbands who were unbelievers. So Allah sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." (Muslim 3433)
EVERYONE LEAVE HER ALONE! AND LET ALLAH DO THE JUDGING AND NOT US WE HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE SHE CAN DO WHAT EVER SHE WANTS BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE IS HER OWN PERSON SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND WHEN ALLAH JUDGES HER SHE'S THE ONE WHO IS GONNA GET QUESTIONED BOUT CONVERTING TO ANOTHER RELIGION. WE SHOULD JUST THINK ABOUT OURSELVES AND @thankyoudarling could you pls do a video on why you stopped being and Muslim, to me Islam is such a beautiful religion and there is nothing comparable
And also u looked so beautiful with hijab..And always u luked so pretty when u were a Muslim...But Now without the Hijab u luk like shit...Plx think about the hereafter..thats all...
@sweetcandy280 awww, please think about how allah would want you to act. why on earth would i feel the need to return to a religion when people say things like that to me? how many people turn to a religion because the followers of that religion insult them into it? don't think god would be very appreciative toward you for that. =]
@thankyoudarling girl I just want to say that its YOUR WISH whether you want to follow Islam or not. Islam isn't imprinted on a humans forehead when he or she is born and so does any other religion. And its your freedom of life to choose whichever path you want to. No one has any right or authority on you. My advise is, don't get attached to any religion or teachings. Be open and neutral to everything and you'll see the bigger picture.
@thankyoudarling Rofl sweetcandy280 is saying you look WORSE without a hijab on? Apparently someone doesn't know the purpose of "hijab" in mainstream Islam to begin with. It's to cover some portion of a woman's beauty (and adds nothing but a piece of fabric), because you know, it's not fair that men have to lower their gaze, so we must fabricate man-made shit that contradict what God in Islam actually said...lower thy gaze (asshole) [24:30].
I subscribed to your channel after watching those hijab tutorials...But After watching this video i UNSUBSCRIBED you...ill never view this unwanted channel again...GOOD BYE...
i think it is what you believe that is important.. being in a religion that everyone tell you is right does not make it the right religion. but if you believe it is right than it is the right religion. without the believe than there will be no religion. it is just what you choose to believe. BELIEVE
Mind you when I went through my struggle I didn't have the internet but we did have running automobiles lol, so I went to the masjid and became a fixture for quite a long time, reading every book I could get my hands on, Everything I have read and experienced has brought me closer to the beautiful idea that Allah is our Merciful and compassionate creator.
I sincerely hope that you find your peace in whatever you decide for your long term, and that you realize that there is only one God
As I read the Quran for the second time, I felt as though it mentioned my struggles and Allah was directly telling me those comforting words that I really needed to know, then I got to Surah Al Baqarah Ayat 286 and when I read it I could not stop sobbing. This is the Allah of mercy who I was longing for, and his mercy is given to us as a gift, just as our lives are gifts.
Which I stayed as a Born Again for three more years, I was attending a pentecostal church regularly and was "happy". I thought that I was guarunteed paradise because Jesus had died on the cross for my sins. I really was not comfortable with that idea though that God would put the sin of one, on the shoulders of another. I started to question this idea and was met with aversion. I decided to give the Quran another Go. (continued in another comment)
Bismillah :) I am unsure of your name but I want you to know that it is your choice whether or not you want to be Muslim and I don't hate you for that decision, I myself became Muslim over 17 years ago and practiced Islam for about a year, but soon fount myself dazed and confused so to speak, I thought this Allah in the Quran was not merciful and actually I started to feel that Islam was harsh, I became a Born Again Christian (continued in another cmt)
I am not sure if she was ever a "Muslim." Anyone can throw on a Hijab, Niqab or whatever and do a couple of videos to pose as one as a political agenda to defame Muslims in the end. Not being judgmental, but you never know!
@DKong10 and what exactly have i done since i left islam to "defame" it? i haven't done nor said a single word defaming islam. i still love it as a religion, i just don't believe in it.
slm. What don't you believe about the God in the Qur'an.? That source of peace and comfort you got is only found in Islam and recognizing the miracles of God. Now that you have "left" what's going to be your source of comfort and peace now?? surely not the old ways that made you turn to Islam in the first place. Please my beloved sister talk to a shaykh like shaykh Hamza Yusuf or Shaykh Yusuf Estes and watch The Deen Show. I will make dua that Allah guides you back to the truth aameen
@thankyoudarling I totally understand ur situation.Its good to be sceptical And I really dont like the people who tend to be pushy and tell u to shut up and just believe in Islam when u ask difficult questions and explanation on some stuff about the religion.But islam has always told us to seek knowlegde, its the people, in this case many peep who believe in islam and tend to feel superior to others, being ignorant. After seeking knowledge myself,It just strengthened my faith in islam takecare<3
Beautiful niqab tutorials mashaAllah! Lets make lots of dua for the sister rather that judging her. May Allah ta'ala grant us all guidance and keep us firm upon the righteous path always. Ameen
thankfully you left islam. look at how all these psychopaths who called you sister before treat you now. good decision. whats your other channel? I really wanna see it. thanks ;)
@sukkubusx As a muslim, i dont agree with your reasoning of her leaving. People should never be the reason for leaving or joining islam, its the heart that should. And im soo sadden by all these nasty comments of other muslims, its not a good way to sho fustration...ppl should accept and try to understand her situation. I totally agree with you when you say how they called her sister b4 and now not so much...it makes me sad. But that also shouldnt be any reason for any of her choices....
@MsAshali I think leaving the faith because of people is a HUGE factor. I am a convert myself to another religion and I can tell you that someone converting needs a lot of support and reassurance all the time. I saw some of Erin's videos how she described how she was treated at a mosque and I was disgusted. People are what makes the religion run. A convert is self conscious and scared and no matter how much they love the religion it will scare them away when being treated that way.
@sukkubusx I guess I din't look at that, since I cant relate but im sure you do need support, it makes sense. Im just so sadden that some muslims would show such an ugly side when someone is trying to convert..its very awful to hear...Im helping someone whos learning about Islam right now...I hopfull that shes not experiencing such negativity...I hope somehow ...harder said then done..ppl looking to convert can oversea such negative ppl who represent the religion..and look deeper into the faith.
Why are there so many dislikes? I'm not Muslim, I just watched some of the videos out of curiosity for this culture. Everyone should be doing/ believing what they are most comfortable with as long as they don't harm others. I think as long as you stay honest to yourself and are a compassionate and kind being, you will find your way to paradise, no matter what your religion may be.
@thankyoudarling: Thanks for the great niqab vids. I find them very useful since my mom-in-law keeps bugging me to switch my niqab style. :)
@people: Just leave her alone. There's no point arguing. Every person is accountable for his/her own deeds. Who are we to decide her life? Please stop judging.
"Let the one who never sinned through the first stone"
Why are some so quick in criticizing and judging others?
Being a Muslim or not, is a matter only to God and oneself. Really... demanding her to remove this and that?! Who are you? Who gave you such authority? Do you really thing it's that kind of atittude that MIGHT make her reconsider her choice?
She has done a huge favor to so many people by reposting the videos (and doing them in the first place!), we should only be gratefull.
I'm not sure if that completed my comment :/ question was how could someone so deep in their faith, they were considering covering their entire body for Allah swt, leave their religion? But another ontop of that, what was it that made you leave? I do apologize if this is invasive, but as I said, I am a revert and considering niqab and am just overly curious! I do hope to hear a reply and once again, anxiously await one! Assalam oalekum -3
@ohfamous i came to realize that i was more in love with what the religion offered in terms of comfort and stability than actually believing in it. i still read the qur'an now and then, and i still get the same comfort from it, but i don't believe in the god it talks about.
@survantofALLAH No one is guaranteed Paradise, (except the companions of Nabi (saw) who were promised Paradise). No one. Not even a person who prays 5 times/day. U may not know that there's a certain action of this person that Allah dislikes that'll place him in Hell. As well as a sinner who does a tiny action that Allah loves so much that'll put him in Paradise. No one should think that just because he prays, he's entitled for Paradise. If there's pride, he's no better than the next person.
@thankyoudarling Those words that give you confort and stability are the words of Allah, Im not sure I understand.its contradicting. Please do explain..if in your heart you cant find an honest explaination then I hope you realize that there was no explaination in leaving islam. I think your a beautiful and wise person..who has hit a bumpy road. Please find your path. I look at your past vids and see such a strong willed individual...you made me a muslim born feel I should step up in my practice
Salams sister, I know this is an EXTREMELY personal question and I would have messaged you instead of commenting, but being on my phone, it doesn't allow it, I'm just curious as to what you had learnt before making the decision to leave Islam. I'm a revert of over a year alhamdolillah and couldn't imagine my life without Islam. I hope I don't offend you or seem nosey but I just wonder how someone so deep in their faith that they had considered covering their entire body for Allah swt, could lea
It makes me wonder what makes you convert to Islam in the first place and turn away from it, all I can say is Allah chooses whom He will to be a Muslim apparently you're not one of them, do I hate u, no, actually I feel sad for u, you have the chance yet u throw it away, by the way if you ever change your mind pls try to erase the tattoo on your wrist, peace
@zaicesaridi i have 6 tattoos and it's not as easy as erasing it. it will always be there in some way so there's no point in further changing my skin, that is if i ever did "change my mind back".
"thankyoudarling" did not just leave Islam for the general criticism of it, if that. She's not a blind-follower like the vast majority of religious people are and at one point came to the conclusion there's no sense in having extra-religious sources (hadith/sunna) to explain the word of God who happens to say in his own book that it's a finished and detailed one, and since Islam relies heavily on these other sources it makes sense to her that something's clearly not right here.
@Meteora759 The life of prophet (peace and blessing of God be upon him) was an example of how to live in accordance to the teachings of the Quran. Neither the sunnah or hadith (traditions) of the prophet (peace be upon him) add or take away anything from the Quran, they are all in accordance to it. Therefore we are ultimately following the word of God - the Quran. Hope this clarifies the issue.
@Meteora759 Hadith is do help muslims understand the Quran in a more simplistic way, the Quran is a very beautiful and a hard read for many people. The Hadith, is a main source of explanation of the Quran, the prophet was revealed to the Quran, who would be better to practice it, and the hadith illustrastes the prophets practices and therefor reflects a better understanding of the quran. There is nothing wrong with that. sources are a guide/help. The quran is complex for an ordanairy person.
@Meteora759 the message that was given to his messenger is finished yes. the book was revealed to the prophet and his message was finished. the message of the prophet was not only the revelation but also his explanation(sunnah). what is so hard to understand that this vers: 'This day I have completed your Religion(5:3) means the religion is completed? where do we find the religion? what are its sources? quran and sunna!! where is the contraditon?
@Meteora759 for excample: if i want to learn about, for excample, rulings of prayer. there are 3 books about 1 message(prayer) that explain the completeness of prayer. do u find this strange and contradicting? if u do then there is seriously something wrong and i advice u to visit a doctor.
@muhammed421 First of all, when it comes to something like religion it's kinda dumb to insult someone's intelligence, as nothing can be truly proven. What your comments has shown me though is like the vast majority of blind-following religious people, you don't think for yourself nor come to your conclusions - something the Quran commands. I advise you stop being like Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus etc. and use your brain first and foremost. I invite you to free-minds[dot]org. :)
Thank you for keeping the hijab tutorials up, I have recently "come back" (did my shahada Mon 13th Sept) and am just beginning to wear hijab, so your videos are absolutely helping. I wish you peace on your path and that you may find happiness whatever you choose to do. As'saalam alaykum, sister.
She didn't want to be a scapegoat anymore. That's what's going on in the world right now, Muslim's are being constantly harassed, prosecuted & targeted by the media. She obviously does not want to be a target to all this therefore she left Islam. She is a perfect example of a self-ashamed, inferiority complex former Muslim who is afraid of defending her previous faith against all this. She was never a true Muslim anyway so it brings no regrets to anyone. May you find peace with your way of life.
@993ironman no, but good try. i've actually defended islam and muslims more since i left it, even though i don't believe in it. you're the perfect example of the self-infatuated, judgmental muslims that i'm glad i disassociated myself from.
@thankyoudarling Why do i for some reason feel that you are being a typical hypocrite & lying about all this? Either way, i could care less about you. Although i must say, i kind of find it hard to believe that you even were a "Muslim" in the first place. You are one of them apostate-pride people who think leaving religions is some sort of popularity contest. If you did leave, why make a big deal about it? The fact to the matter remains that no one cares. I want nothing to do with you. Goodbye!
@thankyoudarling Also keep in mind, i only represent "myself." I am not speaking on behalf of other Muslims, i don't give a damn about other Muslims, i am speaking as myself from one person to another. That is one the main issues you bigots don't understand, just because i write up a comment in regards to you, you automatically assume i am some all sovereign Muslim leader speaking on behalf of every single Muslim on this planet. Get this concept saved in your head, i only speak for "myself."
@thankyoudarling Gotta throw a block on your sorry arse "thankyoudarling," sorry for my language guys, but i did not want to hear this bullshit from this bigot, i curse myself to why i even bothered to write a reply on your video two months ago. What was wrong with me? I don't give a flying fuck about anyone besides myself. Do whatever you want, your life does not concern me nor your actions. Goodbye!
@993ironman How dumb can you get? You said you want nothing to do with her and here you are writing a whole bunch of stupid comments saying you don't care. It seems to me that you DO care for taking out your freaking time writing this crap. Now who's being a typical hypocrite? People like you are the ones who give bad name to Islam. The ones who are so "pumped up" about Islam but their appearance is far from being Muslims, having no manners and respect, using foul language, etc.
um if u dont knw her n her situation then y r u judging her...i tink u shud fix urself as a Muslim rather then telling sum1 else what their doing is wrong...instead of telling them these kind of stuff u should pray for them..thats what a real Muslim would do...May Allah protect us from Satan and the temptation of this world..ameen..
sis i do recommend u give Islam another try..inshaAllah..May Allah make things easy for u..ameen
hi there..i wonder what happaned to your head scarves? Did you throw them away? if you still keep them, would you mind giving them to me? your head scarves are pretty..hehehe
mellochacha 1 week ago
And lol what kind of Muslim-like username is "sweetcandy280"? That's what you'd expect a pornstar to name herself.
Meteora759 1 month ago
i dont understand the muslims who are giving such comments like: im so sad, oh sister, i feel bad, etc etc. people!!! allah is not in need of her. she is the one in need of allah. her rejecting his religion is her rejecting allah. we are in no need of people like her. yes we have to do dawah and call people to islam but those who reject, then we say: but Allah is Rich (Free of all wants and needs),35/15 who goes astray does so to his own loss(17: 15) .
muhammed421 1 month ago
On my path to attaining true faith in islam, I left Islam a couple of times. I will tell testify their is absolutley nothing better than islam in this world. But you have to understand the times we are living in, these are the times of fitna like no other. The only thing that will keep you a muslim is gaining knowledge, so no christian, jew or whatever they are can come at you from left field. I will make major dua that Allah guide you back.
theproudONE92 1 month ago
Could you make a video on why you left Islam?:)
ServantOfAllah567 1 month ago 3
owww..THANKSS,you're very thoughtful to still have the videos up.THX!!! i just discovered your channel 2011
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Remember If Allah so willed He could make you all one people: but He leaves straying whom He pleases and He guides whom He pleases: but ye shall certainly be called to account for all your actions.16:93Is he then to whom the evil of his conduct is made alluring so that he looks upon it as good (equal to one who is rightly guided)? For Allah leaves to stray whom He wills and guides whom He wills. So let not thy soul go out in (vainly) sighing after them: for Allah knows well all that they do!35:8
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Sad...i feel bad for u sister but May Allah guide you to the truth.Though i feel extremely bad about it ,but then its between u and Allah.Who are we to say anything and for those who r saying bad things to this Sister.Please don't .U r a muslim and Act like one ,by advicing her and by doing Dua'a for her......Peace be upon u
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aasaalamualaikum to the muslims brother and sister, astagferillah for the negative comments that yur leaving on @thankyoudarling page....she like everyone else has free will therefore it is nt right for you to blast her for a choice that she feels is right for her..as muslims i can understand y yu can get soo emotional about it but I do nt understnd your lack of aadab, keep yur darn thoughts to yourself...allah (SWT) has given her her free will so who are you to try and take that away from her?
EiidAarafat 2 months ago
where in the quran or hadith does it say that we have to make sure that EVERYONE WHO IS MUSLIM OR REVERTS TO ISLAM ARE FORCED TO STAY IN ISLAM?? Allah (SWT) gave her free will so that if she believed to practice and follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) and if she disbelieved that is between her and Allah (THE JUDGER). Who are you to judge something that does not belong to you? We are the SERVANTS of Allah and followers of islam not the ruler or owners of the religion...
EiidAarafat 2 months ago
@EiidAarafat we judge her by the way allah has judged people who leave or reject isla and that is: that they are kufar( apostates) she is a kafira now. that is our judgement and also the judgment of allah, for such people like her. and yes she has free will but the free will does not mean we can choose another religion and not being punished. the one who choses other then islam is gone be punished with hellfire for ever.
muhammed421 1 month ago
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Meteora759 1 month ago
@muhammed421 @muhammed421 i understand what your saying but the thing is whatever it was that attracted her to islam to begin with has disappeared from her heart and that okay, because allah guides whom he will and misguides whom he wills. Just because she disbelieved after she has believed does not mean she is doomed for life. Inshallah as long as she is breathing, everyday is a chance fr her to repent, therefore, as long as she's alive we should make duah for her or give her daw'ah.
EiidAarafat 1 month ago
@EiidAarafat .We should say kind words so that she can if allah wills will be lead back to islam again. Harsh words and comments would probably only make her more distant from allah and islam. You never know the power of a single word.
Inshallah may allah (swt) guide all those misguided.
EiidAarafat 1 month ago
@EiidAarafat na3am true.
may allah guide her.
muhammed421 1 month ago
@muhammed421 ameen :)
EiidAarafat 4 weeks ago
....As a muslim WATCH WHAT YOU SAY for ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENTS THE COMMENT THAT YOU MAKE MAY BE USED AGAINST YOU!! Subhanallah think before you blast and ask yourself.... if the rasul (SAW) saw how you behaved would he have approved? i think both you and i know the answer to that. A believer is one that people are safe from their hand and mouth...do not be oppressors OR abuser subahanallah allah is watching you soo be careful and make istaghfar.
EiidAarafat 2 months ago
as for @thankyoudarling i pray that allah leads you back to the straight path and inshallah makes you firm in islam and also thank you for the videos….lastly to the muslim haters please learn what the religion teaches and what we believe in before you make an ignorant statement...dont be soo quick to be a keyboard warrior;)
EiidAarafat 2 months ago
Sister you should not let go off islam <3
Allah swt will help you alot.
May allah guide you back and always keep you strong.
Lovettesz 2 months ago 2
Assalamu'alaikum, sister...
If you have any doubt about Islam, please take yr little time to ask & seek time to hear the lectures about Islam especially for being a Muslims woman..
Gain more knowledge about Islam.. I'm sure you'll find Allah. Get to know Allah & his 99names. Know more about Rasulullah (Prophet Muhammad). Islam is the way of life. It include all of a person's life. We solve problem in our life according to Islam. Make prayer, Allah will help you.. InshaAllah~
shab2uty 2 months ago
Part 2
"If good befalls upon you, then it is from Allah (SWT) (from his permission and Mercy), and if harm/evil befalls you, then it is from yourselves." 4:79
You SHOULDN'T apostate from Islam just because you feel that it's difficult to practice (or that it may be hard to understand), because if a person is a Beleiver and falls short in his Deen, then they have a chance for Allah (SWT)'s forgiveness. But if a person apostates/dies a Disbeleiver, then they will be punished for eternity.
abdulazizalzahraani 3 months ago
*confused* So why did you apostate? (Please don't get offended, because I'm just wondering if you apostated because you had misconceptions about Allah (SWT), Muhamamd (SAW), etc.)
Muhammad (SAW) states in Hadithul-Qudsi (the Sacred Hadith in which he quotes from conversations with Allah (SWT) and the Angel Jibril (AS): Allah (SWT) stated: "I have FORBIDDEN Myself from (committing) oppression and injustice, and I have also forbidden it upon Mankind."
abdulazizalzahraani 3 months ago
You left Islam? WOW! I'm sort of a secular Muslim and I cannot imagine leaving Islam! It is BEYOND my wildest dreams.
Laa ilaha illAllah wa Mohammad Rasul Allah.
electricpop607 4 months ago
I just saw u for the first time in my life in the "Niqab" video, and I was so happy with what u did, but when I learned that u left Islam, I got sad! Islam says: do what ever u want. so, as long as you're happy now, it's all good. and it was a good move from u to reupload all of your videos to guide our sisters all around the world. God bless you :)
el3andalip 4 months ago 7
Many roads, one journey. Go where your heart takes you. Nobody has the right to tell you what to believe. Even if they did, belief is something inside you. Expect it to change throughout your life. What matters is that it is authentic. Forced belief will always leave you spiritually hungry.
fax4voice3 5 months ago
I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you look great without the hijab. You have gorgeous hair. I am glad you made a decision that makes you happy. That's all that matters.
mc04su 5 months ago
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"The Prophet sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the Companions of the Prophet were reluctant to have sex with the female captives in the presence of their husbands who were unbelievers. So Allah sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." (Muslim 3433)
maralo2000 6 months ago
EVERYONE LEAVE HER ALONE! AND LET ALLAH DO THE JUDGING AND NOT US WE HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE SHE CAN DO WHAT EVER SHE WANTS BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE IS HER OWN PERSON SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND WHEN ALLAH JUDGES HER SHE'S THE ONE WHO IS GONNA GET QUESTIONED BOUT CONVERTING TO ANOTHER RELIGION. WE SHOULD JUST THINK ABOUT OURSELVES AND @thankyoudarling could you pls do a video on why you stopped being and Muslim, to me Islam is such a beautiful religion and there is nothing comparable
missbubby007 6 months ago 2
I'm sad that so many people are attacking you over a change of heart, good luck sweetie.
kayrecords 6 months ago
may allah guide you to the right path...remember sister there is a hereafter and allah is all-seeing he will judge you on your decisions
ydowefight4islam 6 months ago
And also u looked so beautiful with hijab..And always u luked so pretty when u were a Muslim...But Now without the Hijab u luk like shit...Plx think about the hereafter..thats all...
sweetcandy280 6 months ago
@sweetcandy280 awww, please think about how allah would want you to act. why on earth would i feel the need to return to a religion when people say things like that to me? how many people turn to a religion because the followers of that religion insult them into it? don't think god would be very appreciative toward you for that. =]
thankyoudarling 6 months ago 11
@thankyoudarling girl I just want to say that its YOUR WISH whether you want to follow Islam or not. Islam isn't imprinted on a humans forehead when he or she is born and so does any other religion. And its your freedom of life to choose whichever path you want to. No one has any right or authority on you. My advise is, don't get attached to any religion or teachings. Be open and neutral to everything and you'll see the bigger picture.
giriisindahouse 5 months ago
@thankyoudarling what about how people who are not muslim talk? What kind of statement is that:|
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@thankyoudarling Rofl sweetcandy280 is saying you look WORSE without a hijab on? Apparently someone doesn't know the purpose of "hijab" in mainstream Islam to begin with. It's to cover some portion of a woman's beauty (and adds nothing but a piece of fabric), because you know, it's not fair that men have to lower their gaze, so we must fabricate man-made shit that contradict what God in Islam actually said...lower thy gaze (asshole) [24:30].
Meteora759 1 month ago
I subscribed to your channel after watching those hijab tutorials...But After watching this video i UNSUBSCRIBED you...ill never view this unwanted channel again...GOOD BYE...
sweetcandy280 6 months ago
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whats her main page then? :)
koollamosrock 7 months ago
i think it is what you believe that is important.. being in a religion that everyone tell you is right does not make it the right religion. but if you believe it is right than it is the right religion. without the believe than there will be no religion. it is just what you choose to believe. BELIEVE
azrealiema 7 months ago
I hope you're guided to whatever is best for you x be happy :)
4smt 8 months ago
Mind you when I went through my struggle I didn't have the internet but we did have running automobiles lol, so I went to the masjid and became a fixture for quite a long time, reading every book I could get my hands on, Everything I have read and experienced has brought me closer to the beautiful idea that Allah is our Merciful and compassionate creator.
I sincerely hope that you find your peace in whatever you decide for your long term, and that you realize that there is only one God
ZZaaYYnnAAbb 9 months ago
As I read the Quran for the second time, I felt as though it mentioned my struggles and Allah was directly telling me those comforting words that I really needed to know, then I got to Surah Al Baqarah Ayat 286 and when I read it I could not stop sobbing. This is the Allah of mercy who I was longing for, and his mercy is given to us as a gift, just as our lives are gifts.
ZZaaYYnnAAbb 9 months ago
Which I stayed as a Born Again for three more years, I was attending a pentecostal church regularly and was "happy". I thought that I was guarunteed paradise because Jesus had died on the cross for my sins. I really was not comfortable with that idea though that God would put the sin of one, on the shoulders of another. I started to question this idea and was met with aversion. I decided to give the Quran another Go. (continued in another comment)
ZZaaYYnnAAbb 9 months ago
Bismillah :) I am unsure of your name but I want you to know that it is your choice whether or not you want to be Muslim and I don't hate you for that decision, I myself became Muslim over 17 years ago and practiced Islam for about a year, but soon fount myself dazed and confused so to speak, I thought this Allah in the Quran was not merciful and actually I started to feel that Islam was harsh, I became a Born Again Christian (continued in another cmt)
ZZaaYYnnAAbb 9 months ago
I am not sure if she was ever a "Muslim." Anyone can throw on a Hijab, Niqab or whatever and do a couple of videos to pose as one as a political agenda to defame Muslims in the end. Not being judgmental, but you never know!
DKong10 10 months ago 4
@DKong10 and what exactly have i done since i left islam to "defame" it? i haven't done nor said a single word defaming islam. i still love it as a religion, i just don't believe in it.
thankyoudarling 10 months ago 3
slm. What don't you believe about the God in the Qur'an.? That source of peace and comfort you got is only found in Islam and recognizing the miracles of God. Now that you have "left" what's going to be your source of comfort and peace now?? surely not the old ways that made you turn to Islam in the first place. Please my beloved sister talk to a shaykh like shaykh Hamza Yusuf or Shaykh Yusuf Estes and watch The Deen Show. I will make dua that Allah guides you back to the truth aameen
MegaSafu 10 months ago
@thankyoudarling I totally understand ur situation.Its good to be sceptical And I really dont like the people who tend to be pushy and tell u to shut up and just believe in Islam when u ask difficult questions and explanation on some stuff about the religion.But islam has always told us to seek knowlegde, its the people, in this case many peep who believe in islam and tend to feel superior to others, being ignorant. After seeking knowledge myself,It just strengthened my faith in islam takecare<3
SscytherR 11 months ago
OMG I'm really flabbergasted by some of the comments 0_o Let the girl believe whatever she wants to believe, it's her choice, not yours.
SscytherR 11 months ago
Aw... well, I still love your tutorials, and It's nice that you're being honest with your beliefs... :)
NewbieMuslimah 11 months ago
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Beautiful niqab tutorials mashaAllah! Lets make lots of dua for the sister rather that judging her. May Allah ta'ala grant us all guidance and keep us firm upon the righteous path always. Ameen
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rizlavsskitzo 11 months ago
thankfully you left islam. look at how all these psychopaths who called you sister before treat you now. good decision. whats your other channel? I really wanna see it. thanks ;)
sukkubusx 1 year ago
@sukkubusx As a muslim, i dont agree with your reasoning of her leaving. People should never be the reason for leaving or joining islam, its the heart that should. And im soo sadden by all these nasty comments of other muslims, its not a good way to sho fustration...ppl should accept and try to understand her situation. I totally agree with you when you say how they called her sister b4 and now not so much...it makes me sad. But that also shouldnt be any reason for any of her choices....
MsAshali 10 months ago
@MsAshali I think leaving the faith because of people is a HUGE factor. I am a convert myself to another religion and I can tell you that someone converting needs a lot of support and reassurance all the time. I saw some of Erin's videos how she described how she was treated at a mosque and I was disgusted. People are what makes the religion run. A convert is self conscious and scared and no matter how much they love the religion it will scare them away when being treated that way.
sukkubusx 10 months ago
@sukkubusx I guess I din't look at that, since I cant relate but im sure you do need support, it makes sense. Im just so sadden that some muslims would show such an ugly side when someone is trying to convert..its very awful to hear...Im helping someone whos learning about Islam right now...I hopfull that shes not experiencing such negativity...I hope somehow ...harder said then done..ppl looking to convert can oversea such negative ppl who represent the religion..and look deeper into the faith.
MsAshali 10 months ago
Why are there so many dislikes? I'm not Muslim, I just watched some of the videos out of curiosity for this culture. Everyone should be doing/ believing what they are most comfortable with as long as they don't harm others. I think as long as you stay honest to yourself and are a compassionate and kind being, you will find your way to paradise, no matter what your religion may be.
Joh42 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling: Thanks for the great niqab vids. I find them very useful since my mom-in-law keeps bugging me to switch my niqab style. :)
@people: Just leave her alone. There's no point arguing. Every person is accountable for his/her own deeds. Who are we to decide her life? Please stop judging.
zydalicious 1 year ago
"Let the one who never sinned through the first stone"
Why are some so quick in criticizing and judging others?
Being a Muslim or not, is a matter only to God and oneself. Really... demanding her to remove this and that?! Who are you? Who gave you such authority? Do you really thing it's that kind of atittude that MIGHT make her reconsider her choice?
She has done a huge favor to so many people by reposting the videos (and doing them in the first place!), we should only be gratefull.
houbwasalam 1 year ago
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Addiktedtomoi020409 1 year ago
Salam 3leikum . mm i would like you you cld message me please i have a few questions for you if it dsnt bother you
Addiktedtomoi020409 1 year ago
I'm not sure if that completed my comment :/ question was how could someone so deep in their faith, they were considering covering their entire body for Allah swt, leave their religion? But another ontop of that, what was it that made you leave? I do apologize if this is invasive, but as I said, I am a revert and considering niqab and am just overly curious! I do hope to hear a reply and once again, anxiously await one! Assalam oalekum -3
ohfamous 1 year ago 2
@ohfamous i came to realize that i was more in love with what the religion offered in terms of comfort and stability than actually believing in it. i still read the qur'an now and then, and i still get the same comfort from it, but i don't believe in the god it talks about.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling
you know what you can read and read the quran your whole life
if you dont pray 5 time a day there is no paredise for you
survantofALLAH 1 year ago
@survantofALLAH No one is guaranteed Paradise, (except the companions of Nabi (saw) who were promised Paradise). No one. Not even a person who prays 5 times/day. U may not know that there's a certain action of this person that Allah dislikes that'll place him in Hell. As well as a sinner who does a tiny action that Allah loves so much that'll put him in Paradise. No one should think that just because he prays, he's entitled for Paradise. If there's pride, he's no better than the next person.
zydalicious 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling Those words that give you confort and stability are the words of Allah, Im not sure I understand.its contradicting. Please do explain..if in your heart you cant find an honest explaination then I hope you realize that there was no explaination in leaving islam. I think your a beautiful and wise person..who has hit a bumpy road. Please find your path. I look at your past vids and see such a strong willed individual...you made me a muslim born feel I should step up in my practice
MsAshali 10 months ago
Salams sister, I know this is an EXTREMELY personal question and I would have messaged you instead of commenting, but being on my phone, it doesn't allow it, I'm just curious as to what you had learnt before making the decision to leave Islam. I'm a revert of over a year alhamdolillah and couldn't imagine my life without Islam. I hope I don't offend you or seem nosey but I just wonder how someone so deep in their faith that they had considered covering their entire body for Allah swt, could lea
ohfamous 1 year ago
It makes me wonder what makes you convert to Islam in the first place and turn away from it, all I can say is Allah chooses whom He will to be a Muslim apparently you're not one of them, do I hate u, no, actually I feel sad for u, you have the chance yet u throw it away, by the way if you ever change your mind pls try to erase the tattoo on your wrist, peace
zaicesaridi 1 year ago
@zaicesaridi i have 6 tattoos and it's not as easy as erasing it. it will always be there in some way so there's no point in further changing my skin, that is if i ever did "change my mind back".
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling What makes u convert to Islam anyway and then leave, can u share us the story?
zaicesaridi 1 year ago
Lol @ 993ironman
"thankyoudarling" did not just leave Islam for the general criticism of it, if that. She's not a blind-follower like the vast majority of religious people are and at one point came to the conclusion there's no sense in having extra-religious sources (hadith/sunna) to explain the word of God who happens to say in his own book that it's a finished and detailed one, and since Islam relies heavily on these other sources it makes sense to her that something's clearly not right here.
Meteora759 1 year ago
@Meteora759 that is exactly correct, and i could not have explained it better. thank you.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
@Meteora759 who? what?...lol...u make no sense!
In that case, as I am a British National by choice, I wil no longer be abiding by British Law, as it is not all in One Book!?
If the forefather were so perfect at designing a Law for this country, why did it take so many books, to contain the Knowledge?!....lol
TheMrvivaro 1 year ago
@Meteora759 The life of prophet (peace and blessing of God be upon him) was an example of how to live in accordance to the teachings of the Quran. Neither the sunnah or hadith (traditions) of the prophet (peace be upon him) add or take away anything from the Quran, they are all in accordance to it. Therefore we are ultimately following the word of God - the Quran. Hope this clarifies the issue.
rizlavsskitzo 11 months ago
@rizlavsskitzo You nailed it. It's like that.
SscytherR 11 months ago
@Meteora759 Hadith is do help muslims understand the Quran in a more simplistic way, the Quran is a very beautiful and a hard read for many people. The Hadith, is a main source of explanation of the Quran, the prophet was revealed to the Quran, who would be better to practice it, and the hadith illustrastes the prophets practices and therefor reflects a better understanding of the quran. There is nothing wrong with that. sources are a guide/help. The quran is complex for an ordanairy person.
MsAshali 10 months ago
@Meteora759 the message that was given to his messenger is finished yes. the book was revealed to the prophet and his message was finished. the message of the prophet was not only the revelation but also his explanation(sunnah). what is so hard to understand that this vers: 'This day I have completed your Religion(5:3) means the religion is completed? where do we find the religion? what are its sources? quran and sunna!! where is the contraditon?
muhammed421 1 month ago
@Meteora759 for excample: if i want to learn about, for excample, rulings of prayer. there are 3 books about 1 message(prayer) that explain the completeness of prayer. do u find this strange and contradicting? if u do then there is seriously something wrong and i advice u to visit a doctor.
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Meteora759 1 month ago
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@muhammed421 First of all, when it comes to something like religion it's kinda dumb to insult someone's intelligence, as nothing can be truly proven. What your comments has shown me though is like the vast majority of blind-following religious people, you don't think for yourself nor come to your conclusions - something the Quran commands. I advise you stop being like Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus etc. and use your brain first and foremost. I invite you to free-minds[dot]org. :)
Meteora759 1 month ago
so which "religion" did you "convert" to?
wavokiaado 1 year ago
If your a true muslim don't judge her look at yourself
swimmergurl808 1 year ago
@swimmergurl808 thank you!
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
what's your main channel now if you don't mind me asking?
salmaelrakhawy 1 year ago
@salmaelrakhawy thevintagegoth is her nickname
BeniZnasniaa 1 year ago
@salmaelrakhawy thevintagegoth
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
the day will come and you will answer for apostasy from Islam
tchetchene92 1 year ago
Thank you for keeping the hijab tutorials up, I have recently "come back" (did my shahada Mon 13th Sept) and am just beginning to wear hijab, so your videos are absolutely helping. I wish you peace on your path and that you may find happiness whatever you choose to do. As'saalam alaykum, sister.
etherealhaven 1 year ago
i feel sorry for u sis ..btw it is explanation not explaination
ilovepalestineee 1 year ago
@ilovepalestineee thanks! i'll change it.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
She didn't want to be a scapegoat anymore. That's what's going on in the world right now, Muslim's are being constantly harassed, prosecuted & targeted by the media. She obviously does not want to be a target to all this therefore she left Islam. She is a perfect example of a self-ashamed, inferiority complex former Muslim who is afraid of defending her previous faith against all this. She was never a true Muslim anyway so it brings no regrets to anyone. May you find peace with your way of life.
993ironman 1 year ago 11
@993ironman no, but good try. i've actually defended islam and muslims more since i left it, even though i don't believe in it. you're the perfect example of the self-infatuated, judgmental muslims that i'm glad i disassociated myself from.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago 2
@thankyoudarling Why do i for some reason feel that you are being a typical hypocrite & lying about all this? Either way, i could care less about you. Although i must say, i kind of find it hard to believe that you even were a "Muslim" in the first place. You are one of them apostate-pride people who think leaving religions is some sort of popularity contest. If you did leave, why make a big deal about it? The fact to the matter remains that no one cares. I want nothing to do with you. Goodbye!
993ironman 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling Also keep in mind, i only represent "myself." I am not speaking on behalf of other Muslims, i don't give a damn about other Muslims, i am speaking as myself from one person to another. That is one the main issues you bigots don't understand, just because i write up a comment in regards to you, you automatically assume i am some all sovereign Muslim leader speaking on behalf of every single Muslim on this planet. Get this concept saved in your head, i only speak for "myself."
993ironman 1 year ago
@thankyoudarling Gotta throw a block on your sorry arse "thankyoudarling," sorry for my language guys, but i did not want to hear this bullshit from this bigot, i curse myself to why i even bothered to write a reply on your video two months ago. What was wrong with me? I don't give a flying fuck about anyone besides myself. Do whatever you want, your life does not concern me nor your actions. Goodbye!
993ironman 1 year ago
@993ironman How dumb can you get? You said you want nothing to do with her and here you are writing a whole bunch of stupid comments saying you don't care. It seems to me that you DO care for taking out your freaking time writing this crap. Now who's being a typical hypocrite? People like you are the ones who give bad name to Islam. The ones who are so "pumped up" about Islam but their appearance is far from being Muslims, having no manners and respect, using foul language, etc.
zydalicious 1 year ago
1 final question which religion do u belong to now ?
ctalytoto 1 year ago
@ctalytoto i left religion itself, so i have no religious beliefs now.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago
Even After Seeing The Truth Or Maybe Ur In adequate Knowledge You Reject It.
Sister Just 1 Question How Well Do Know Islam ? And What Acc to You A Logical Reason For Quiting Islam.
ctalytoto 1 year ago
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um if u dont knw her n her situation then y r u judging her...i tink u shud fix urself as a Muslim rather then telling sum1 else what their doing is wrong...instead of telling them these kind of stuff u should pray for them..thats what a real Muslim would do...May Allah protect us from Satan and the temptation of this world..ameen..
sis i do recommend u give Islam another try..inshaAllah..May Allah make things easy for u..ameen
preciouspearl9 1 year ago
Thanks for keeping these up :) Really appreciate it
camilledo 1 year ago
Just pray that maybe insh'Allah you come back to the light.
tomorrowsprincess 1 year ago 31
excuse me but why aren't you a muslim anymore? why you've changed? 'cause of the islam or 'cause you're personal reasens? plsss send me a msg thx :)
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WeooBeans 1 year ago
@WeooBeans two years.
thankyoudarling 1 year ago