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  • What the fuck do you know about men, You dont shit about men.. You dont even know how its like to be a man.. These things are rather considered a mysterious for woman than knowledgeable.. You cant change any man..

    These videos are jet again, a female presents lists, double standards.. This and that..

  • I have to agree with the dissenters. These videos are garbage, fringing on fraudulent. Girls- like me or fuck off. I'm fine the way I am.

  • great insight

  • Thank you darling. We all need to remind each other how similar we are these days more than ever. One Love

  • Very good. Thank you.

  • Great concept - I'm glad I watched this; especially the segment on avoiding distractions and "being ok with whatever comes up". I notice a reduction in stress and increase in confidence when I remind myself that "any situation is always ok". Loving the accent

  • Wonderful! Fantastic teaching. Practising the Presence of the very Life that flows in you is key to the proper engagement of all aspects of Living. I see clearly that you are wise enough not to listen to the negative comments. Let those with ears to hear heed the message! Thanks for your video.

  • A woman has no clue what it means to be a man. They are not men, and never will be... they should not be trying to "teach" men how to be men. This video and the so-called advice in it is absolutely ridiculous, mainly because it's telling you to be fake in a non-chalant way. What these women on Youtube thinking their teaching men something should do, is give this up and start telling women to cut their bullshit, go back to being FEMININE again, and go back to seeking decent, upstanding men again.

  • @AllPro777 Fat chance of that happening! Funny they want to teach us how to be men yet they can not be decent women and have to sleep with a million guys.

  • It seems like a lot of your videos come from negative personal experiences. A lot of your advice seems very personal and emotional and sometimes hard to relate to.

  • You are going to need life experience to build a presence.

  • no wonder i cant pick up women if i have to take a goddamn class just to be able to talk to one. if i have to remember all this stuff the next time i think about approaching a girl, im better off not approaching her.

  • You wanna develop your presence around women.....ignore them completely...don't look at their breasts...don't look at their butts...talk to them in short sentences don't compliment them for anything...forget the cocky arrogant bullshit.....arrogant guys have sex with women ...but they never get their respect....if you want power over someone...you have to get their respect first....

  • @huke1928 This is golden. "ignore them completely"....absolutely correct. Then you become a challenge and they won't leave you alone.

  • @huke1928 i like the way you speak. good man.

  • wtf? how does such a cute little thing as yourself know about such advanced topics? i thought i was the only one who knew about the idea of presence. i thought it was a super secret thing

  • real presence comes from real life experience

  • So many words for such a weak message.

  • best thing I've ever heard:  listening is discerning whats really being said. Awesome.

  • 8:11->8:57 the best advice you will ever receive on this subject

    I used to be hopeless, needy and insecure but like most guys didn't know or acknowledge it. Then I took CBT and PCT training. I learned "active listening", how to be and remain "present" and "grounded"

    Apply such care genuinely, without expectation, to all interractions male/female, young/old, hot/not EQUALLY. It instantly makes YOU approachable. My tip, interract openly with others nearby first to pre-establish who 'you' are.

  • @itschriscrocker LEAVE BRITNEY ALONE!!!!!! AAHHHWAAAHWAAAHWAAHWAAAAAH!!!!­!! :(

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  • What spiritually deep advice !!

    Thanks....

    Touched by you wisdom.

    Much Respect,

  • i can only be me ... im not changing for anyone ... go suck a dick bitch

  • excellent, this is true advice not some bullshit magic pick up lines, where you can "hynotise" a girl by reciting a words to a girl, some harry potter shit lol.

  • great video!

  • THIS GIRL IS REALLY CUTE.

  • You are an Angel. Thank You for this info... Best

  • A woman knows nothing about being a man. And a man who tries to follow womans definition of a man is not a man, but a woman. hotalpha female? what a bunch of crap neither hot nor alpha. People these days swallow any BS guised as intellect

  • @dreamerstays add some of your own then

  • Interesting ideas which may be useful to some.

    My presence is simply being me. I do not project as I have no reason to. My interactions with the world around me are on my terms.

    Gentlemen. if you 'develop presence' with the goal of garnering the approval of others, you exist only as people want to see you (as it fits their life).

    If you understand and develop yourself with no goal other than being your self (yes the space is intentional) then you are likely to be content in all things.

  • @OniNoFro

    Eloquently said. So true and a helpful guide!

  • @Robeltoable

    Thank you. I was trying to find a way to fully articulate on the idea in 500 characters and that was the outcome.

    All it requires is for men (and women as the idea applies just as well to them) to understand the value of self-determination (valuable, priceless even) instead of pursuing social approval (a frivolous thing at best).

  • @OniNoFro Nicest way of saying ¨Your video is shit¨ ever

  • @OniNoFro I am interested in learning a lot about this quality. Could you be of any help to me at all? Where do you find your information?

  • @MrCassanova08

    The quality of self? A few texts on psych. Scores of sociology studies/journals. Direct observation of hundreds of men & women. Coupled with a reasonable understanding (through study & observation) of ecological/economic theories and the absence of a mutually beneficial social contract between people leads to one conclusion of:

    know yourself

    respect those who earn it

    respect yourself over those unknown to you

    ignore external pressure providing you w/no reciprocity

  • @OniNoFro Wow, this is all some serious stuff. Could you recommend me a book, so I can start off. I have a deep driving desire to learn and hope you could become my mentor. You seem to know your shit pretty well. I like your knowledge, I respect it too.

  • @MrCassanova08

    I would recommend you take the time to learn about yourself and what you personally value (hold in the utmost regard). Look for information on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. I would also recommend auditing 1st and 2nd year psych courses that are independent of women's studies departments.

    I would also put forward that you are on your own. That stark statement should serve as a catalyst for what it means to determine your own presence and your own worth.

    Asking others is folly.

  • @MrCassanova08

    A shortcut to begin understanding my response is to watch HAF's video again, close your eyes and listen intently to the words.

    While doing this, ask yourself: Who does this REALLY benefit; me as a man on a daily basis, or the general sentiment of women making demands to earn their approval?

  • @OniNoFro I will give that a go. By the way, theres a guy on youtube he focuses on self development, he made a recent video on how to develop presence. I will inbox it to you, let me know what you think.

  • @OniNoFro Your channel is not available?

  • @MrCassanova08

    Correct. No channel exists because often on youtube, people build their rebuttals on how I choose to entertain myself on the internet; not on my words. So I removed that weakness from their potential arguments.

  • @OniNoFro I genuinely wish to seek knowledge from you and understand what presence is, in its true essence. Do you have an email I can keep contact with you?

  • and i have a question for you dear hotalphafemale (what is your real name??),in your personal experience how often you/your friends aproached by a stranger guy?

  • @ucingtigatiga

    I think a more telling question would be

    "How often do you feel compelled to approach an unknown man?"

    That would be quite useful if answered candidly.

  • do you listen to eckhart tolle's speech? i think this attraction thing and spirituality can be integrated

  • Sounds a bit like Zen/Cha'an.

  • Definitely your best video

  • i shall destroy you with my cock

  • wow, that was some pretty good shit! I'd hate to be her boyfriend. I'd always be getting psychoanalyzed. but I could have some deep conversations, after the great sex.

  • @wes2469 You got it all, way backwards, Buddy, . . . a long way backwards: a woman has to talk first or there's not gonna be nuthin', . . . just you ask jenna and get clued in, . . .

  • @wes2469 Awesome and soo true!!

  • Frank Sinatra was said to have an enormous presence. People have said, no matter the size of the room, you knew someone important was there. From what I gathered about him was, he enjoyed life, he was always prepared. And he said, "never look like you are tired around a lady"

  • @jpd782 I like your comment. I think its the vibe you give out, your inner state will always be congruent with your outer state. Being positive helps, smiling is good.

  • Bitch you couldn't handle my presence.

  • again,very informative...

  • A woman trying to tell me how to be a man at 39? Get real. If you had gone through half of what I have dealt with in this life, you're face would have scars.

  • Jen, don't be discouraged by the stupid and negative comments. Guys, if you don't want to hear it, go somewhere else. If you disagree with what she's saying, give your reasons and experiences. Don't be a loser dork.

  • @pgan003 Ever herd about freedom of speech? When you open your mouth and express something be warned that people will come back an use their right to speak as well.

  • what you learn here is that if you want to improve your presence, you must not forget to breathe. Haaa. I never thought of that one. Genius.

  • i got a ? if a girl tells u that u have an excellent conversation what is that really sayn?

  • cute!

  • i like ur mouth

  • @dalesalsa nah she's chinese mate soz

  • This girl knows what she is talking about. So stfu and appreciate what she's saying

  • @UKNOW410 no it's a chinese acccent i can tell because of her small eyez

  • @Phobosdeimos1 She is Australian. She has said in other videos..

  • how can women tell men how to be masculine, when were you a guy, normally women love the dick heads, and today they still do. they then have kids with them, then they find a nice guy they refused to talk to lol,

    by the way most women cannot discuss anything but sex in the city and shopping, she deosnt know about north korea, or the interest rates or real world, these are reale things.

  • I couldn't understand her chinese accent

  • @Phobosdeimos1 AHHH No? She has an Australian accent.

  • This is very true. You have to be in the present moment in every moment. Women are very intune with the spiritual side(consciousness) of our mind and ways. We can tap into the ONE source, which is the HIGHER CONSCIOUSNESS once we are able to let go of the EGO. Mr. Washington

  • Nearly all women are horrible at judging potential, so they're stuck with rating a man by his proverbial pair of shoes (his income).

    I can get just as much out of this video by shutting off the sound. Though, I could watch her all day. Lovely girl.

  • This is a lot of bullshit... men, its simple... just be an asshole. Thats it... women have no idea what confidence means, or what they want.. just take control and do what you want... its simple.

    Dont tell men how to behave... your only a woman you have no clue.

    Anyone that calls themself an alpha is a loser... real alpha dont need to advertise the fact. You talk to much... like a typical woman.

  • @babyturtlefilms This is exactly right. Even this chick with her videos is just trying to make money and get attention. And guys are watching these videos where a woman tells them how to act if they want to get laid... and they can't figure out why it doesn't work. Woman is the corrupter of man. If it was up to them we'd all be walking around carrying our balls in little purses, and they'd be complaining how there's no real men anymore... In fact that's exactly whats happening

  • excellent commentary. you bring up profound points on how one gets comfortable in their skin. mind and body awareness can apply to so much else but you demonstrate how women pick up on this self-awarerness and why it cannot be contrived or falsified.

  • Good Stuff

    

  • good video. You have cute accent btw.

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  • Great video, thank you very much

  • Yeah... in other words, girls have it easy :P

  • I agree, I believe I will be better over time as I watch more and more of your videos ( no puns intended). So, thank you! =]

  • Nice.. hadnt really thought of that way. Enjoy your vids..

  • @REDRAGGINFAGOT14 wtf are you talking about.your not a man your a BITCH you like hairy guys fucking gay ass bitch why you denying it for.ERes 114% Joto puto vete alaverga con tus mamadas

  • if you're interested in meditation there's a nice free ebook with practically all you need

    just google "meditation for dummies pdf"

    (The title sounds stupid but it's a good book)

  • Gentlemen, you don't need permission from rgchrono to decide whether she's hot.

  • @matleyz : exactly, you do not

    I am just stating my opinion, and as a guy who has seen beauty from different asian ethnic backgrounds, I just do not find her that attractive. Comparing her to the type of asian women I have seen around the Los Angeles area ( where there is a huge population of people from the asian culture) You don't have to agree with me, but from my experience...she is not that hot.

  • @rgchrono Yes, I've been to L.A., and I know how the women there will affect a person's perspective. From my POV, one think that makes Jenn so hot is her spunkiness. She dares to enter the relationship coaching business when conventional thinking says not to take advice from a woman.

  • @matleyz : entering a so called " relationship coaching" and trying to coach men into getting into a "relationship" I do not really call that being smart or "daring" to enter something amongst those lines. It would be like me! , as a man, trying to enter into a center where abuse women go to, and trying to help them cause I know how they "fee"..and i do not! cause i am not a woman. Jenn is trying to give men tips, while she does not know what being a man is.

  • con: She does not know the kinds of psychological thinking that goes through inside a man's mind or the kind of pain a normal man goes through when women rejects him, especially since she is not a man. No, she is just using PUA stuff, and making it seem like to form a relationship..you have to put a false mask up in order to attract a lady. IN that case..she is just aiming men at a wrong direction.

  • @REDRAGGINVATO14 see fagget you cant get no pussy only dick

  • What you're saying is so convoluted and complicated... if women actually think of all of this when speaking to a man... its fucked up

  • @Monstergoat66 Yeah i've understood that once before and thank you i appreciate it, quite honestly sex and looks are only gravy to a relationship when i've dealt with many times a woman being a downright nasty person not because i was blinded by her looks but because i was fooled by how nice she appeared at first. Thank you though. =)

  • you're awesome! Love the new dress and makeup! :))

  • Damn your good

  • btw! when the fuck are you gonna stop calling you " HOT" alphafamale?? it should only be alphafemale...to be honest. you are cute, but you are not a 10, as in HOT

  • @rgchrono GET THE FUCK OUTA HERE...SHE's HOT!!!!!! And if she thinks shes hot thats all that matters, enough said!

  • @thekidx69 she's only hot if youre into asians....

  • @Mackoek Im into WOMEN, shes not only hot if your into Asians thats ridiculous LOL

  • @thekidx69 Lol...just no...u must the be the kind of guy that calls other guys gay if they're not into your (type of) girl. No problem bro...just dont 'claim' that everyone should find the same woman hot. Remember...plenty of ppl dig fat chicks...so everybody has their own 'hotness-grade'. (BTW...im not calling her ugly...in cause u wanne misperceive things)

  • @Mackoek WOW...did i strike a soft spot...I dont know what your going threw over there, but all im saying my Dude is that shes ATTRACTIVE and that you dont have to be some type of Asian fetish lover to find her attractive.

  • @thekidx69 Agree she is attractive, maybe my response was based on the fact that i got in the same argument yesterday lol. (but this time she really wasnt attractive LOL).

  • @thekidx69 : in all honesty, I have seen really hot asian women, Los Angeles is full of them. She is not HOT , as an asian girl. I just think that a person who puts the tack line as being " hot", should be hot and should look at other people, in her case other asian women, and compare herself to them. To do it online, and when they are clearly not hot, is to have a huge ego about themselves and missed using that words towards themselves. I wouldn't call myself a stud, when clearly I am not. LOL

  • con: it would be egotistical of me and it would be miss judging myself. I will say that I am an attractive guy. But to give myself the "hot" word, when other people will clearly notice that I am no model type, lol. I just see it as ignorance to use it. I did said that Jenne is cute, but to fucking stop using the " Hot" word as part of her nick, cause it does make her sound just wrong. Especially! when she is the one preaching about how looks do not matter and what not, and she is not a 10

  • btw ! vanity is every where in the western nations, not just here in America.

    If the PUA thing is going on, even where Jenne isatt ( and she is spitting it all over it on her videos), then you bet it is in every western nation. Where people do not judge anymore on values, goals, and character. Vanity is in the extreme both in the US and over in Australia.

    but I do agree that there are some good women out there, and hand full. And all of these horrible women are covering them,

  • @Monstergoat66 : great replies man ^_^

  • jennell...A lot of guys have being sending themselves negative messages &

    beating up on themselves emotionally for many years.For some,it is so

    ingrained...that changing their mindsets would have to involve some sort

    of hypnotherapy.

  • @silbanis : it is not that, it is the fact that guys see how shallow a lot of women are and how hypocritical they are. Jenne herself has not even shown proof of the types of guys she has dated in the past, I've asked her the same request over and over ..and still she has not made a video. In all, if a person is preaching about how looks does not matter and how character and "presence" matters! then she should show proof of it , by showing the types of guys she has dated in the past. HONESTY

  • Buy her lots of presents. Got it

  • I show my manly presence by whipping out my penis.

  • What you're talking about is perfectly okay. The info isn't your invention..all this stuff has been around for years- I will credit Louise Hay, but Eckhart Tolle's latest book covers presense very well. BUT...though it may make guys feel good, it won't attract women. Sorry this is America, and most guys will never get through the female screening process unless they happen to be a celebrity.

  • Just to calm the fears of guys out there. Whatever this vlogger says about what you need to do, it just won't work in the USA. Females are too brainwashed by the media, money, and each other's fantasies. Once you leave the US, you'll find women easily and naturally because people aren't so totally in fantasy-land as here.

  • great a little bit louder please

  • Ya know i had doubts about your vids holding weight and such but over the past couple weeks i've had 3 valentines a gf now and girls who flirt with me daily. This was all thanks to you and a couple other vloggers about these kinda topics that i believed help so hey thank you! =DD

  • The double slit experiment is an interesting experiment that I think only leans towards one thing. That our positive and negative thinking can influence the fundamental fabric that our reality is made of!

    Either way its a cool experiment that looks at how the particles were all made of change when they are being observed or acknowledged. I think everybody should see it :)

  • This is good stuff, I'm not a very spiritual person but I've always felt like our mind are allot more powerful than any of us give them credit for. I'm also a person that believes that you can do anything if you put your mind to it. This includes attracting people or anything else that you may be genuinely be interested in. A good thing to remember is that our lives no mater how much they depend on others are ultimately lived or experienced within our minds. So what use is it to think negative.

  • 1 tip : try NOT to look up ... you look up from time to time - looking up means that your lying, or something like that ... but tnx for the vid :)

  • jennelli, great video as always. Have you done a video on aggressiveness vs. assertiveness yet? People tell me that I am very aggressive (in general not when talking to girls) but I find that there is a thin line between the two. I feel like its harder to be assertive and very easy to just push others around. I know being assertive isn't just about relationships but it would be interesting to hear your point of view on that.

  • @DJTripleThreat78

    great question dude, this perplexed me before,

    To what I am aware now

    Assertiveness (adj.) Expressing what you want and being nice about it i.e. standing your ground, "expressing" what you value and want, WHILE "considering" what the other person values & wants from the interaction. e.g. girl: I want to watch Twilight now, its a love story; Me: yeah, Fast & the Furious has a brief love story too and if all fails we can watch twilight there after ehh?

    Rock n Roll ;) Surfs up.

  • Now is the only moment we have people, so pay attention to the now

  • easy thing to do!

    is to think that the prettiest lady still has to take a shit at the end of the day, and for some at the start of a day. That is one way to treat every person as an equal. Even the famous people we watch on tv do this as well.

    btw! i still think you are full of shit.

    but this has been your best video

  • I love your cheek bones. From a 20 yr old guy =]

  • Very good video, good advice.

  • :) you make life sound so easy <3

    you're right though, practice.

  • I did the "presence" thing once. It is a pain in hte ass. i attracted a lot of women, no doubt. You need to be social, as well, and the list goes on.

  • thanks, I think watching your video teaches me about how to live life too.

  • Good info. I'm very aware of my negative thoughts. Now I just have to work on ignoring them, or better yet, change my way of thinking into a more positive one. But like you said, its gonna take time and practice.

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