I don't get this video. Worrying about your children when they are far, or sad, or tending to the one who isn't feeling well and devoting special attention to them in those hours or days or months isn't actual favoritism. Devaluing one child while you elevate another, or blaming one while you excuse another for the same offense is favoritism.. etc. Why are they putting a Christian "spin" on favoritism as though it's normal when in fact real favoritism is something God disapproves of? (Rom 2:11)
You know what if you let go of your Childish beliefs go you wouldnt care if they were In Gods house.Just that they are well and loved.Crying because your kid is different and God will judge and they are sinning.What a bunch of fucking shit.There is no God.If we lived by that we would be much happier.A invisible Father figure who without ''Him''you would burn in hell eternal.Its always a man and its always bad for people its called religion.Someday you all have to grow up.Face the truth!
my mom loves my twin the most, she buys more stuff for her, always lets her go with her places, talks about how im jealous of my twin and that everyone in my school is jealous of my her also, she blames me for stuff that my sis does and im the one getting yelled at, when im right she never apoloigizes she just blames me and when she knows she's wrong she doesnt say sorry! she's always making me feel bad, i dont think i love my mother...
My mother shows favoritism toward my younger siblings, I have a different father, how can I deal with this? I am 17 so I will be away at college soon, should i just deal with my feelings of resentment for my siblings because they are favored untill I move out?
I know you wrote this 5 months ago but the best advice I can give you is to feed your mom with a long handle spoon. When you go to college stay away from home and don't call for a while continue to do this as an adult too. If she asks you why are you so distant from her then tell her why. No matter what she says still continue to do this and she will realise that she hurt you. The best thing to do is to move far out of town.
Barbara's video will uplift your soul from despair to hope! Barbara has been my lifeline when there was no where else to turn. I would highly recommend her books to turn your tears into joy, laughter and hope. Where Does a Mother Go to Resign, Mama Get The Hammer! There's A Fly On Papa's Head, I'm So Glad You told Me What I Didn't Want to Hear!
She also has a website and forum for hurting parents, please feel free to join us there! -Mary
I don't get this video. Worrying about your children when they are far, or sad, or tending to the one who isn't feeling well and devoting special attention to them in those hours or days or months isn't actual favoritism. Devaluing one child while you elevate another, or blaming one while you excuse another for the same offense is favoritism.. etc. Why are they putting a Christian "spin" on favoritism as though it's normal when in fact real favoritism is something God disapproves of? (Rom 2:11)
VanquishingDove 1 week ago
You know what if you let go of your Childish beliefs go you wouldnt care if they were In Gods house.Just that they are well and loved.Crying because your kid is different and God will judge and they are sinning.What a bunch of fucking shit.There is no God.If we lived by that we would be much happier.A invisible Father figure who without ''Him''you would burn in hell eternal.Its always a man and its always bad for people its called religion.Someday you all have to grow up.Face the truth!
jasrogg 7 months ago
I HATE MY MOTHER....NOT ONLY HER MY FATHER ALSO
marie23595 9 months ago
my mom loves my twin the most, she buys more stuff for her, always lets her go with her places, talks about how im jealous of my twin and that everyone in my school is jealous of my her also, she blames me for stuff that my sis does and im the one getting yelled at, when im right she never apoloigizes she just blames me and when she knows she's wrong she doesnt say sorry! she's always making me feel bad, i dont think i love my mother...
Robotslovecake1 1 year ago
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Robotslovecake1 1 year ago
My mother shows favoritism toward my younger siblings, I have a different father, how can I deal with this? I am 17 so I will be away at college soon, should i just deal with my feelings of resentment for my siblings because they are favored untill I move out?
LillianMay8630 2 years ago
I know you wrote this 5 months ago but the best advice I can give you is to feed your mom with a long handle spoon. When you go to college stay away from home and don't call for a while continue to do this as an adult too. If she asks you why are you so distant from her then tell her why. No matter what she says still continue to do this and she will realise that she hurt you. The best thing to do is to move far out of town.
William82oct 2 years ago
wow... this is great.
cashewnutcracker 3 years ago
I love this clip and the wealth of truth it brings. Wonderful advice for all of us.
dlandrews50 4 years ago
Barbara's video will uplift your soul from despair to hope! Barbara has been my lifeline when there was no where else to turn. I would highly recommend her books to turn your tears into joy, laughter and hope. Where Does a Mother Go to Resign, Mama Get The Hammer! There's A Fly On Papa's Head, I'm So Glad You told Me What I Didn't Want to Hear!
She also has a website and forum for hurting parents, please feel free to join us there! -Mary
karolinkershner 4 years ago