You're not "quirky". You have a lot of personality. That's just the way you were born. I like it. Most women don't have enough personality. They can be really dull and they feel that the only way to attract a guy are the usual ways...expensive clothes, expensive make-up, shoes and so on.
Maybe he didn't judge you. You're a public person on YouTube, so maybe he thought he might end up on one of your videos. Some people are scared of publicity. Maybe they have something to hide?
I wanted to Date you Jill if you were not such a jerk and didn't blocked me on facebook Your beautiful outside but not on the inside sorry you have to be that way because your so pretty you can be better than that come on Jill. I know i said some horrible things i didn't mean to say i know it's hard to forgive someone after it's been said but if you were dying i would save your life regardless if forgive me or not i bet you would forgive me then it shows what kind of person i am.
I saw Dr. Phil the other day about a married couple getting a divorce because the woman was obsessed with Facebook. She spend hours on it and allotted only 5 minutes to her husband per day. When she defended her action all she said was ( my feeling, my friends, my time, my computer, my work, and my etc.) As people we have forgottten about the other person and we are so involved with ME. Nothing matters but ME. Your not listening to ME
it shouldnt be a problem that u post youtube videos lmao thats such a weird reason to ditch sum1. " i hate that you are in 2 minutes videos,were done god damn it!" lol... its better to just not date in my opinion jus have fun. you only live once.
How do you feel about men with long hair. I've just got back into dating. I was in a relationship with someone for 5 years that I didn't have anything in common with. She use to tell me that she hated my long hair. How do women feel about men with long hair? I use to race motorcycles and the women 5 years ago didn't seem to mind it. Has something changed that I don't know about?
It really isn't an issue that you tell people you make videos on YouTube. What you tell them though is that you are an attention whore that posts videos because there is something lacking in your life. The need to air personal emotions publicly shows a lifelong deficit. Look back into your childhood and pinpoint that one person who told you repeatedly to sit down and be quiet. Then deal with it. Then add videos of substance and in return your Youtube contributions will become more meaningful
If someone doesn't like you or what you do, then don't bother with them. Be yourself and don't go along with someone who doesn't accept what you like.
"Dating"?Are you into archeology? "Seeing him",can I see him too .or do I need glasses?"Going out"?I come back when it rains. He wasn't judging you for one second.Chap was thinking that he would end up as your "ex" or just didn't like it. Such a zisseh, shaineh maidlach, a gantzeh diamant.
first, its his loss, second, dating is hard know. what I'd suggest is to mildly bring it up. maybe tell them that you love going on youtube and watching other people do vlogs(which I'm sure you do), if they like to do that too, then you can possibly bring up that you upload some yourself. They will probably very honored to know such a great youtuber as yourself and will accept you for it.
Did he watch ur vids or just say i don't like it? if he didnt even bother to try & understand the guys a control freak, sack the coward. Be proud of who you are its the most attractive think about u. Plenty of people will try and crush ur spirt out of their own insecurities, even so called friends. Ur not like them so u find it hurtful but its just cause their insecure. If you did what he said next thing he would be telling you what to wear, who to be friends with etc. plenty more fish
You are a very beautiful person because you were not afraid to be honest with yourself and the world. It's his loss and its sad because he couldn't accept a woman like yourself for wanting to expand her artistic horizons. If you do what you love, people will love you for that. In other words, don't be fake. Good luck
First of all, Jill, I already KNOW that dating is hard. Secondly, I'm not much for giving advice to anyone, but if someone does not appreciate you for your quirks and/or flaws, that's their loss, not yours. Anyway, best of luck to ya!
that is really dumb y would someone stop dating you b/c u make youtube videos i def woulnd mind if my girl was making youtube videos w/e is her hobby i would support her if a guy stops dating u b/c of ur hobby, you should stop right there its just stupid
Absolutely be honest up-front. I'm guessing this is your biggest hobby, so it's an important part of your life. I don't blame the guy who stopped seeing you for doing it if it truly bothered him, although the FACT that it bothered him so much is maybe weird. (maybe there was more, E-jealousy, etc.)
Anyway, if someone is going to find something they dislike enough about you to not date you, best to get that out in the open right away. You don't get wasted time back...I've wasted a LOT. :)
As for dating, you should find someone who you can be open and honest with. Find someone who brings out the best in you and there is no such thing as a secret life on the internet. We're all transparent the moment we post any content, especially on You Tube.
I believe once you find that supportive 'someone'...your life and career will reach new heights.
If you have nothing in common its allready doomed to be superficial and fail. Let chips fall were they lay, I personally think your quite a catch Creative, talented, funny ,and Breathtakingly way to cute. Ive noticed people misunderstand most Artist cause deep down they cant even see how jealous they are towards you for being able to express yourself in more ways than they will ever dream of being able to...
Up front allways, cards on table I personally would flip out digress about old films, I also like editing I use vegas studios, I love to perform, magic stand up comedy, and I paint, people think i just want to talk about myself all day (COMES OFF AS A RANT) but im generally trying to PINPOINT or figure out what others interest is. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, ITS DOOMED TO BE SUPERFICIAL.
Here's some advice from someone who shouldn't be giving advice. You don't need to tell him right away, but you should be able to tell him by the third date. It can't be a secret. It's part of who you are. It's too bad you're on the other coast. I'd go out with you, and we could post our date on YouTube. It would be like the show Blind Date, but internet style.
Gobo: :^) I would be sure to let him see your quirkiness, regardless of how soon you talk about your full hobby. After all, I'm guessing ur creativity, wit, & energy are strengths of yours-dates need to see & appreciate them :-)
If u like, u can slowly introduce what you do & see what happens. "Wouldn't it be cool to be an actress!!" & give examples. OR you can say "I wish I was a director." See how it goes. If u don't like his reaction, creep him out w rubber worms or play w your spit!!
Hmm, it IS a connundrum! U probably have it solved, but I'll comment :)
I have a similar situation. I've noticed when I talk about my profession with full-frontal honesty, then Im seen as "the guy who is a job title" instead of "me".
BUT I still care ALOT about what I do. Sooo, I'm totally HONEST, but not fully OPEN. I might talk vaguely about what I do. I "work with parents & kids to help the kids be healthier", or give a different job title instead, like "Behavior Specialist"
I know this was posted about 6 months ago...but, I know how you can meet someone...do it over the internet...but be selective and cautious (but, I don't have to tell you that ;) )
My 2 cents, really not worth a farthing. Easy to figure this out, bring up YouTube, if they don't know what it is show them. The reaction will tell you a lot. Or not, but then don't just come out with it, beat around the bush if you really want to know. Anyway, honesty just means not telling lies. People react to direct statements in stupid and often useless ways, especially if they don't really have any experience with what you're talking about. End of transmission...
hey , just wanted to say , if someone doesnt want to date you because of the reasons you mentioned , they do not deserve you. Youre a beautifull woman and i mean very beautifulll..Of course i dont know you personally but from what i can see from your videos, you look like a wonderfull person. I know its useless to say this but i would defenitly date you , i think the fact that you make youtube videos is pretty cool.
Oh my God! YouTube is a big waste of time? You mean all those video comments I've done, all those ratings - they're all for nothing??? My God, what have I done? WHAT HAVE I DONE?
Nah, just crazy talk. Next thing you'll be saying is that you're not coming down to Delaware to have sex with me. Still waiting for your arrival schedule on that one, by the way.
Being an underground celebrity gives you a great feeling. You should explain your need for voyeurism, and want of validation from viewers. If they can't share you in this way it does show a weakness in their security. Say up front this is who you are and what you do. Love it or leave it.
Oh yesh , and you've had a lot of experience ain't yhu? The video was a bit boring but worth watching because its werid ... Lol ! Next time try and not bore me to flippin death
xxholiliexx: You must not have many friends if you make it a point to tell someone that she bores you while she's discussing something important to her.
Its your thing and you can do with it what you want. If he doesn't like you for who you are.. did he really like you to begin with? His loss... and life goes on.
yeah sure, talk about what you're passionate about right off the bat! so many people like you for who you are anyway! no need to conceal who you are :) have fun !
you just made a serious topic really funny. I think, you've been doing this so long you need to find a guy with the same hobby. That would be true love for you.
That's a really good question! He is an oddball if he didn't dig you and your youtubing. You are a very creative woman, and as a creative person myself, I know how important it is to have an outlet. I would suggest that you not hide the fact that you make videos on here, especially since they are so awesome! Sit his butt down and let him watch them, that should make him want to be with you even more!
Ur over analyzing this thing, a lot. This guy you split with is a minority, or you date really judgmental people by preference? Couldn't say..
I'll let you in on a secret tho, just fyi between you and me, shhhh! You have boobs!
OMG NO WAY?!
Yup, boobs, use them, frequently.
Honestly not sure how the You Tubes over ruled boobs to begin with to be honest, maybe he was queer... or maybe you never showed him your boobs in which case the You Tubes wasn't the problem :P
Jill! Grrrr what a complete ass that guy was! Well just know that it was his loss. Really in the end of your video you give yourself the best advice. You shouldn't have to hide anything about yourself when trying to date some one. Obviously you don't tell them everything on a first date but You Tube isn't exactly deeply private information. Also You Tube for you is like biking or painting for some one else. You're awesome Jill only spend your time with a man who completely accepts you:)
HUH???!!!!! It's like what's next - you send e-mail so it's over?! hehe. That's almost what it amounts to. You shoulda been like "Uh uh..uh uh...no no no..see. I make videos whenevah I want (snaps fingers) an' if you don't like it, thar's tha door! mmmm-hmmm. Rollin' up in hurr talkin' to me like dat tryin' to disrespekt ME?! Uh uhhh. No you dih-int! It's ovah when I sayz it'z ovah an' it'z ovah!" :)
I know we are on may/ 2008...but...at the same time u shows me some particular feelings...that...they sounds ...where is the real one...are u acting? Of course i identify absolutle with your speach... would be so facinate to know u personally....and this may be just...THE WAY WE WANT IT!
any guy that stops dating you cuz of YT vids is insecure and worried you may cheat, meet and date a bunch of guys from YT and stop dating him. he thought he better drop you first.
trust me. same shit, different situation. happens to me lots. they drop me cuz of ways they think i spend my time that exposes me to being around lots of other guys.
if a guy cant accept ur film interest or recognize you like film if you do YT videos, he's below your intellectual standards.
To be honest..I'm in a situation similar to yours. My dark secret is that I have my own MMA Fight wear and I manage fighters via Myspace.
I think once you feel comfortable with that person in conversation ...then let him know.if he is into you..he would except anything that you are into...:)
I never really understood the vlogging thing even though I saw this (don't ask), and I still don't but I wouldn't dump you for it... I mean come on you have sexy blue eyes and don't look like a serial killer so there really isn't any problem.
I say tell them on the first date. If that's a problem, then don't waste anymore time with them. Seriously if you can't be honest with someone, I would rather know on day 1.
Tell the guy you go out with that you make videos on the internet right off the bat. If he doesn't accept it, then he doesn't deserve to spend any time with you. Every individual has things they enjoy or are passionate about. If a "potential" boyfriend or girlfriend find it weird or not their style, than screw 'em...Plenty of guys out there...Including me :)
you can tell him about your corkiness after you have sex with him. He's not really intrested in what you do with your free time anyway. Be prepared to be teased about it :D
that dude must not of realized that you do it as a hobby, everyone needs a hobby, so its not like your hiding this, or that its weird at all. and if your dating some one, treat it as a hobby, if the dude asks you what you like to do, tell him your into film and stuff and about ur youtube, if he really likes you he'll like ur vids. thats what i think, and
A) dating is hard, B) you deserve some1 who cares about who you are, both inside and out
I'm late to this dicussion, and I'm sure there are many comments that I overlap on, but here are my thoughts: I suggest you continue to be open. A first date is an ideal time to talk about what you enjoy doing with your time. It's better to discover that they're a loser before you get too involved.
Dating is all about getting to know the other person, and finding out all the hobbies and interest like these... thats the reason of dating.
The POINT of dating is to find someone that truly likes you for YOU, and all that you do. If the person youre dating gets judgemental or dissaproving of who you ARE.. well, then its a GOOD thing that you were JUST dating, isnt it?
So to answer? Tell them right away. Be 100% open with who you are, and continue dating only the guy that likes you for YOU
I dont see what the big deal with making videos would be. He probably wasnt worth the trouble if he would judge over youtube....he must have been a chode........super chode.
Which remindes me...you got ideas for a film?... I think you should tell them as soon as they look at your computer and notice you have been recording them since they first came in. :)
I can see how that might be some what creepy. I am a lover of film myself (not meant as a pickup line)I think its cool to find someone who is attractive and also passionate about the same things. I guess you are just catering to the wrong crowd. And when I say cater I really mean dating haha....did that make any sense at all whatsoever?
I had a similar situation, it was with deviantart though, not youtube. I chose the whole "secret life" option. I regret it, the relationship ended because I felt I couldn't be honest about those things. You should try to be honest from the very beginning in my opinion. Good luck!
As I see it, you had just gotten rid of a jerk.. (Perhaps a nice one, but still a jerk).. One should not dump another because of a hobby.. unless it's a REALLY sick one.. Making videos like this on the internet is quite harmless..
I hope you find a nice someone.. The girlfriends I've had, have "found" me, not the other way around.. Love will find YOU!!
he was probly worried someone would steal ya away((smiles))since your so pretty,never tell people you know in real life , they judge ya and just dont understand how fun it is((smiles))
If i was dating you i would have joined you it looks like a lot of fun. keep the videos comin. My friends don't understand why i ride motorcycles so much its a hobbie its pure freedom
he more than likely is concered that you are makeing these videos to meet guy's ??? or maybe he should be before youtube?? who know's people are strange in thier own way ya gotta take it as it comes :-)
I over indulge in computer games. More specifically MMO's such as Eve only, EverQuest II etc...
I make time to go oiut with my friends and do other things to.
To quote an old saying, "Everything in moderation" I have many hobbies and they take up a lot of my time, but my friends understand and in most cases indulge with me.
Best advise is to find someone who you can enjoy you favorite hobby with, just watch out for creative differences in opinion ;)
If I were you I would not handle this topic somehow special. This topic comes automaticly when taking about hobbies.
BUT ... you said the other guy "judged" this hobby as wastage of time. If this is a very time consuming hobby I would suggest to make the other person understand that you will still have a lot of time for and with him besides you-tube ...
If the guy in this case still rejects leave him ... he seems to search for a puppet or some of your dolls instead of a woman ;)
You have a lot on your plate, girl! Most people do. Any guy who can't handle what you are doing is acting immature and selfish. You've shared yourself with the world, and received praise for it. You're beautiful --- inside and out. Do everything in a way that puts your soul at rest. Your "right" guy is out there!
Gobo Don't let it get in your head 2 much,he seen something in u he wasn't attracted 2 ie.your video hobby,I wish more people would B as selective when it comes 2 dating,maybe it would lower the divorce rate of which I've contributed2. I say 2 my shameNdishonor.But people need 2 b upfront-rightaway about what they want in a mate an when U see something that turns U off end the relationship early, I wish I had ended my previous relationship after our 1st date instead I wasted 10yrs of our lives.
If we were dating, I'd make videos WITH you...only I don't think YT would allow them to be posted for very long. Your DSL's would be perfect for the porn industry
Your over complicating things slightly, dating isnt hard unless you force it. As for the guy, people do weird and things especially guys. But in the end really the best advise is no advise. Your a cute girl with a lively personality because of that alone guys will want to date you.
I know its a dead subject but common. Just go have fun and itll happen, thats always goes. Go to a show at a small club and dont even think about dating. Nothing shines brighter then a womens smile.
it depends how much time you spend on your YT hobby - I see you have three accounts. That is a lot of time.
Personally I think you look fab, I would date you, but I would not step back for a computer. Then again in my case you would be lucky since I am a comic and on the road a lot so my expectations of time spend with my girlfriend are different when I am with her than somebody that sees you every day. I think to ask somebody you tell you love to take a backseat for a computer is hard to take
generally speaking he has a point - he wasn't judging you, he was judging your relationship with him. And you got over him so quick because for you the relationship has become secondary.
Ask yourself the question - can you go without YT for a week? If you say yes, then do it and if you can do it, then you are ready for a new relationship.
I know! Dude! Someone just told me that I "had poor judgement" and was "very disappointed in my bad decision making" all from posting on youtube. People are such idiots. It makes me not want to share my youtube life at all.
The best adivce is, like with everything else, to use your best judgement. Feel the person out. If that person seems all judgy, you probably don't want to mention it... or go on a second date (LOL). But if he is open to new things, and cool about stuff, then mention it. He doesn't have to like it or understand it... he just have to be okay with it, look beyond it, like you for you, and support you. Regardless whether it's YouTube or whatever, isn't that the most important quality? :-)
All else fails, there's always dating within the community. There's a reason why Hollywood folks date others in the business... it's much easier. And I'm sure there's a long line of people waiting for that opportunity with you, Jill. You just gotta give the green light. :-)
Sorry, I'm all booked up for dates right now. But making videos isn't much different than taking artsy photos these days. You're just another nerd like everyone else. Unfortunately, having some intelligence probably scares people away :) He must have been making an excuse. But who needs an excuse after a couple dates anyways. You must have done something REALLY WEIRD that he didn't want to mention.......
The dude who stopped dating you doesn't deserve you. He sounds too needy (and that's not good!). As far as when you tell someone about your YT activity, I think you gotta play it by ear as far as when you tell them, but they probably need to know before too long into the "relationship."
There's my 2 cents. Cheers, good luck and good karma!
Hey Gobo, I like what you have to say, and I like your videos. I think you should tell whoever you are dating right away, then if they are weird about it you don't have waste that much of your time with them. You seem very funny, creative, and intelligent...three key elements for a good relationship. Plus you are very good looking...love your blue eyes. Keep your videos coming.
its true. ure one of the rare women on here that continues to be on youtube for a very long time now.ure an exception.and i thought u would be still together with that guy of yours.u never mentioned it.and i would not even mention that ure a character on yt when meeting a new guy or so.dont make a big deal out of it.ure bigger than just an online character,yt is only a very small part of you kinda(although its not that small,as we both know lol).did u ever ask yourself why u like yt that much?
haha, "i make videos on the internet, and i post them..." (too funny)--- but anyways, u should def tell 'em immed'tly; but it shouldn't be a big deal since u'r not making vid like dancin in panties, or anything... but yea! it is weird
Wait a minute, I don't think I answered the question, yes you should tell them, but you really shouldn't have to thin about it. P.S let me give the obligatory male response if your looking for a man? then......ahhh forget it.
Ok, Jill, If you tube is a large and important part of your life why wouldn't you want to share that with a significant other. Your interests are the elements that create your character to withhold these would be to hide who you really are.
I would tell them right away cause you dont want to be out ona date withthemand have soeone walk up and say they know you while you are out LOL but he does deserve to know
I wonder if the boyfriend who broke up with you was perhaps afraid that you might vlog about him or your relationship. Just a thought. Regarding when should you tell a date about YouTube, I think it all depends on the status of your relationship. If you're falling for him hard, I would do it quickly. If you're not sure about the relationship, I would wait since you may not have to tell him at all. Or you may just find a natural time to bring it up. Who knows. Everybody's different. HTH.
Its a great hobby and it's FREE! When one wants to ski we get the best skiis, outfits etc. I have a saying "Love me, love my youtube" I'm not going to give it up, why should we. I have encountered this a lot where people don't understand, and they never will until they do a video and that feeling that rush. Then they say "I have 50 friends on Facebook how many do you have on Youtube?" lol! They seem to understand photos in Facebook VERY well lol!!
Hopefully sparks are happening, but in the early going, dating should have an aspect of a job interview. You're trying to find out if he's right for you, and he's trying to find out if you're right for him. How do you stay 'in the moment', available, and open while at the same time having the discipline to walk away if some little things aren't quite right? For you one of the 'little things' you'll have check is whether he's cool with your YT life.
Get it out there early, so that if y'all ain't right for each other, you're not holding each other back from finding someone with whom you'd have more synergy. Of course this is all theoretical for me. Nobody I really know, knows that I have anything to do with YT, and I haven't had time to date since I broke up with my last girlfriend, so I don't speak from experience.
with me i wouldnt care shes her own person and it comes down to trust however i dont belive in dating.grew out of that when i was 16 if i like someone i usally become friends get to know them then after 6 months, let them know how i feel(if i dont feel anything more then friends wouldnt say anything but hey ive made a friend :) but yeah trust repect etc i find is already gained and can have a fun loving relationship , being intament with someone i hardly know just cant do it even kissing yak!
I think you should be able to tell someone who you are seeing / starting to date etc straight off about Youtube. Its part of who you are, what you enjoy and a person should accept that and if they don't.....goodbye to them. You should never have to hide who you are - plus I personally think that all this creative side of you would a) make for great conversations and b) make you far a more interesting person to date than many others out there.
I think you should be honest about it. It's a big part of your life and the person you date should be OK with it. If he's not, go and date somebody else! =)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a little weird, but on the other hand he went to our little 777 gathering in Berlin with me and enjoyed it...
And being with someone like that is the best way, in my estimation, for someone to be truly fulfilled in a relationship. Wherever you find them, they have to like YOU. And just let things go where they may and be confident. We love ya, Jillie. [HUGS]
I found the best way was to quit looking. Immerse yourself in exploring who you are. Getting into the things you're passionate about. Then you tend to find those all too hard to find people who like you for YOU. 1 of 2
Accepting the other person's quirks is hugely important. If you can't, then what's the point of being with that person?
I guess this ties into the discussion that's been ensuing for a while here about coming out of the "YouTube closet." It hasn't been an issue for me where dating is concerned, although a few friends have taken judgmental stances. I tend to not hang around those folks anymore.
I have found that some people have very negative feelings about YouTube as a hobby. I am more of a video watcher than video creator, but when I showed my sister some of the people whose videos I watch, she felt that it was a very weird thing to do. She finally asked "don't these people have anything better to do?".
I think that you should not have to hide it at all. I think it shows that you are creative and have and imagination. Besides if I was the one on the other side of the table (hint hint) I would love to know that about you. Besides it would make for some interesting dinner conversation if you ask me. Be yourself and if he doesnt like you for it then they are not the one for you.
Good question, I've thought of this too. I think what you experienced with that first guy breaking up because of youtube is completely abnormal. Just treat telling them about vids like you would any other hobby information; 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date type info, but just casual-like. You also might want to not tell them about your 'deep personal vlog' channel too early (like Gobospeaks) because it can put off a bad impression of you if he doesnt quite know you yet. Just my thoughts.
Hey all i got to say is your taking this dating thing to seriously, first of all you beautiful yet you seem realy desperate, you shouldnt care what others think of you as long as your not offending them, and lastly i believe your suppose to have fun on dates be yourself no matter what it seems as thought you keep looking for peoples approval and not enjoying yourself any ways take care God Bless You
I dont think he was judging you, I think he was jealous and saw YT as direct competition, however you dont need guys like him, I think your best bet is to find someone who also likes online video and editing.
It cant be hard to find someone who accepts you and your corkiness, you are so cute and great in so many ways.
dude only pulled that card, because he was insecure. Most guys with a really hot girlfriend would probably feel intimidated by every other 13 year old kid say'n "you're hot", "looking good", etc etc. If guy cared about you more than his own fragile ego, then he would have no problem with you making videos. Find yourself a guy with some balls, and problem will be solved :)
Man, the dating thing is weird for me too. I just bla bla about all sorts of stuff, and I usually don't have second dates, and I'm not even a weirdo, DOH!.
If you lived in Australia, I would love go dating with you.
You're not "quirky". You have a lot of personality. That's just the way you were born. I like it. Most women don't have enough personality. They can be really dull and they feel that the only way to attract a guy are the usual ways...expensive clothes, expensive make-up, shoes and so on.
snideelf 3 months ago
Shoulda been freakier in bed, us men will put up with damn anything if the sex is amazing.
ImmortalDestructor 9 months ago
your a disgusting selfish whore and dumb as a brick
MrJrockxx 1 year ago
you are stupid...nothing more.
AntonAnk 1 year ago
You want advice, ? you are homely and have a bad haircut, fix it !
jsilence418 1 year ago
Maybe he didn't judge you. You're a public person on YouTube, so maybe he thought he might end up on one of your videos. Some people are scared of publicity. Maybe they have something to hide?
tomihasa 1 year ago
I wanted to Date you Jill if you were not such a jerk and didn't blocked me on facebook Your beautiful outside but not on the inside sorry you have to be that way because your so pretty you can be better than that come on Jill. I know i said some horrible things i didn't mean to say i know it's hard to forgive someone after it's been said but if you were dying i would save your life regardless if forgive me or not i bet you would forgive me then it shows what kind of person i am.
briancalifornia1 1 year ago
I saw Dr. Phil the other day about a married couple getting a divorce because the woman was obsessed with Facebook. She spend hours on it and allotted only 5 minutes to her husband per day. When she defended her action all she said was ( my feeling, my friends, my time, my computer, my work, and my etc.) As people we have forgottten about the other person and we are so involved with ME. Nothing matters but ME. Your not listening to ME
brokenarrow2222 1 year ago
it shouldnt be a problem that u post youtube videos lmao thats such a weird reason to ditch sum1. " i hate that you are in 2 minutes videos,were done god damn it!" lol... its better to just not date in my opinion jus have fun. you only live once.
thamilton91 2 years ago
How do you feel about men with long hair. I've just got back into dating. I was in a relationship with someone for 5 years that I didn't have anything in common with. She use to tell me that she hated my long hair. How do women feel about men with long hair? I use to race motorcycles and the women 5 years ago didn't seem to mind it. Has something changed that I don't know about?
gpzbilly 2 years ago
Neeeeeveeeeer!!! ..
I would never tell!! It's kind of embarrassing... I like ... Kind of understand your guy! Hahahahaha!
Ditteeeeh 2 years ago
The guy is a dumbass
Billya1986 2 years ago
u boring, ur bf did right thing.
sajibuk 2 years ago
i know what is that i lost a lot of girls just because i do porn .......sad but true
luvstrongbabes89 2 years ago
Maybe he was insecure and figured a woman as gorgeous as you might get picked up by someone else? But bad move on his behalf. Keep making videos
miixxed 2 years ago
the best time to tell someone that you date about your youtube videos? I would say after sex.
BigSparky22 2 years ago
It really isn't an issue that you tell people you make videos on YouTube. What you tell them though is that you are an attention whore that posts videos because there is something lacking in your life. The need to air personal emotions publicly shows a lifelong deficit. Look back into your childhood and pinpoint that one person who told you repeatedly to sit down and be quiet. Then deal with it. Then add videos of substance and in return your Youtube contributions will become more meaningful
doable1 2 years ago
I know this is not exactly the comment you want but...I'd accept you honey, you're SO CUTE =P
BloodyRoastBeef 2 years ago
I agree with Cheytoy2008.
If someone doesn't like you or what you do, then don't bother with them. Be yourself and don't go along with someone who doesn't accept what you like.
K1I2A2R9A3 2 years ago
"Dating"?Are you into archeology? "Seeing him",can I see him too .or do I need glasses?"Going out"?I come back when it rains. He wasn't judging you for one second.Chap was thinking that he would end up as your "ex" or just didn't like it. Such a zisseh, shaineh maidlach, a gantzeh diamant.
RasMajnouni 2 years ago
here's my take - be yourself, no matter what - don't ever let someone change you - you are too unique, pretty, and cool
Chewtoy2008 2 years ago
she's kinda hot
Chewtoy2008 2 years ago
first, its his loss, second, dating is hard know. what I'd suggest is to mildly bring it up. maybe tell them that you love going on youtube and watching other people do vlogs(which I'm sure you do), if they like to do that too, then you can possibly bring up that you upload some yourself. They will probably very honored to know such a great youtuber as yourself and will accept you for it.
Lukefonfabre9 2 years ago
Boy, uh...you know, I've been out of "the game" for a long time. I don't know nothing about it.
I have no advice to give, sorry.
WTF1920 2 years ago
Did he watch ur vids or just say i don't like it? if he didnt even bother to try & understand the guys a control freak, sack the coward. Be proud of who you are its the most attractive think about u. Plenty of people will try and crush ur spirt out of their own insecurities, even so called friends. Ur not like them so u find it hurtful but its just cause their insecure. If you did what he said next thing he would be telling you what to wear, who to be friends with etc. plenty more fish
Xca1ber 2 years ago
You are a very beautiful person because you were not afraid to be honest with yourself and the world. It's his loss and its sad because he couldn't accept a woman like yourself for wanting to expand her artistic horizons. If you do what you love, people will love you for that. In other words, don't be fake. Good luck
TuFacedIt 2 years ago
First of all, Jill, I already KNOW that dating is hard. Secondly, I'm not much for giving advice to anyone, but if someone does not appreciate you for your quirks and/or flaws, that's their loss, not yours. Anyway, best of luck to ya!
-Jamal
smashbro1999 2 years ago
I always say I have a youtube channel. No one ever really gets creeped out by it though.
selfstricken 2 years ago
that is really dumb y would someone stop dating you b/c u make youtube videos i def woulnd mind if my girl was making youtube videos w/e is her hobby i would support her if a guy stops dating u b/c of ur hobby, you should stop right there its just stupid
BigG507 3 years ago
Absolutely be honest up-front. I'm guessing this is your biggest hobby, so it's an important part of your life. I don't blame the guy who stopped seeing you for doing it if it truly bothered him, although the FACT that it bothered him so much is maybe weird. (maybe there was more, E-jealousy, etc.)
Anyway, if someone is going to find something they dislike enough about you to not date you, best to get that out in the open right away. You don't get wasted time back...I've wasted a LOT. :)
mikebrownhouse 3 years ago
As for dating, you should find someone who you can be open and honest with. Find someone who brings out the best in you and there is no such thing as a secret life on the internet. We're all transparent the moment we post any content, especially on You Tube.
I believe once you find that supportive 'someone'...your life and career will reach new heights.
Best of luck!
pertovich88 3 years ago
Hi i am a little 13 year old but i do not know how to ask my bf to the dance help
taylortaylor422 3 years ago
Are u kiddin me dude? Exposed to so many males? LOL. Id date Her, and be fine with her videos..cuz u know what..Id be with her.
Glocks21 3 years ago
The jealousy part of the guy's brain could not handle the fact that you were(are)exposed to so many other males.
A lot of guys couldn't handle it whether or not they'd admit to it.
cracktheguy 3 years ago
Guys "waste" just as much time on the internet; we just do it with our pants down *awkward silence* you should tell them right away
pintar5775 3 years ago
i'd date you!
Skakan 3 years ago
hi~!!!~! ur so cute!!
chinathetown 3 years ago
If you have nothing in common its allready doomed to be superficial and fail. Let chips fall were they lay, I personally think your quite a catch Creative, talented, funny ,and Breathtakingly way to cute. Ive noticed people misunderstand most Artist cause deep down they cant even see how jealous they are towards you for being able to express yourself in more ways than they will ever dream of being able to...
MadDashiell 3 years ago
Up front allways, cards on table I personally would flip out digress about old films, I also like editing I use vegas studios, I love to perform, magic stand up comedy, and I paint, people think i just want to talk about myself all day (COMES OFF AS A RANT) but im generally trying to PINPOINT or figure out what others interest is. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, ITS DOOMED TO BE SUPERFICIAL.
MadDashiell 3 years ago
Here's some advice from someone who shouldn't be giving advice. You don't need to tell him right away, but you should be able to tell him by the third date. It can't be a secret. It's part of who you are. It's too bad you're on the other coast. I'd go out with you, and we could post our date on YouTube. It would be like the show Blind Date, but internet style.
invisibleisland 3 years ago
Gobo: :^) I would be sure to let him see your quirkiness, regardless of how soon you talk about your full hobby. After all, I'm guessing ur creativity, wit, & energy are strengths of yours-dates need to see & appreciate them :-)
If u like, u can slowly introduce what you do & see what happens. "Wouldn't it be cool to be an actress!!" & give examples. OR you can say "I wish I was a director." See how it goes. If u don't like his reaction, creep him out w rubber worms or play w your spit!!
JDI180 3 years ago
Hmm, it IS a connundrum! U probably have it solved, but I'll comment :)
I have a similar situation. I've noticed when I talk about my profession with full-frontal honesty, then Im seen as "the guy who is a job title" instead of "me".
BUT I still care ALOT about what I do. Sooo, I'm totally HONEST, but not fully OPEN. I might talk vaguely about what I do. I "work with parents & kids to help the kids be healthier", or give a different job title instead, like "Behavior Specialist"
JDI180 3 years ago
I know this was posted about 6 months ago...but, I know how you can meet someone...do it over the internet...but be selective and cautious (but, I don't have to tell you that ;) )
nitemareglitch 3 years ago
My 2 cents, really not worth a farthing. Easy to figure this out, bring up YouTube, if they don't know what it is show them. The reaction will tell you a lot. Or not, but then don't just come out with it, beat around the bush if you really want to know. Anyway, honesty just means not telling lies. People react to direct statements in stupid and often useless ways, especially if they don't really have any experience with what you're talking about. End of transmission...
argenfargabarg 3 years ago
I think when hobbies and activities come up in conversation, then telling them about YT is probably very necessary...
You don't want to be dating someone for a while..and then find out they're a YT star!! LOL
Common sense dictates that you'll know when it's the right time..and if they accept it or not..it's a part of life.
I've stopped seeing some girls on far less issues than vlogging on YouTube!!
Great video..!
daniel =)
DsmB2007 3 years ago
hey , just wanted to say , if someone doesnt want to date you because of the reasons you mentioned , they do not deserve you. Youre a beautifull woman and i mean very beautifulll..Of course i dont know you personally but from what i can see from your videos, you look like a wonderfull person. I know its useless to say this but i would defenitly date you , i think the fact that you make youtube videos is pretty cool.
xXbelmontXx 3 years ago
Oh my God! YouTube is a big waste of time? You mean all those video comments I've done, all those ratings - they're all for nothing??? My God, what have I done? WHAT HAVE I DONE?
Nah, just crazy talk. Next thing you'll be saying is that you're not coming down to Delaware to have sex with me. Still waiting for your arrival schedule on that one, by the way.
CommentorX 3 years ago
Being an underground celebrity gives you a great feeling. You should explain your need for voyeurism, and want of validation from viewers. If they can't share you in this way it does show a weakness in their security. Say up front this is who you are and what you do. Love it or leave it.
JJB5446 3 years ago
you deserve better then that sweetie!!! you go girl!!
warhata2397 3 years ago
You're pretty and funny!
reger7 3 years ago
The guy dumped you because of Youtube? Wow talk about shallow! You're better off with out him...
reger7 3 years ago
Oh yesh , and you've had a lot of experience ain't yhu? The video was a bit boring but worth watching because its werid ... Lol ! Next time try and not bore me to flippin death
XxHoLlLliexX 3 years ago
xxholiliexx: You must not have many friends if you make it a point to tell someone that she bores you while she's discussing something important to her.
Have a great day
JDI180 3 years ago
Its your thing and you can do with it what you want. If he doesn't like you for who you are.. did he really like you to begin with? His loss... and life goes on.
ladyrebel4ever 3 years ago
yeah sure, talk about what you're passionate about right off the bat! so many people like you for who you are anyway! no need to conceal who you are :) have fun !
Ontus 3 years ago
On the subject of dating advice, if a guy wants your number and seems really into you but waits two or more weeks to call what does that mean?
MisoMe3 3 years ago
I love you Jill, go on a date with me!
supercommie 3 years ago
you just made a serious topic really funny. I think, you've been doing this so long you need to find a guy with the same hobby. That would be true love for you.
haveskill 3 years ago
She's fine
Trapinnewyork44 3 years ago
N E X T........
H0rseWithNoName 3 years ago
That's a really good question! He is an oddball if he didn't dig you and your youtubing. You are a very creative woman, and as a creative person myself, I know how important it is to have an outlet. I would suggest that you not hide the fact that you make videos on here, especially since they are so awesome! Sit his butt down and let him watch them, that should make him want to be with you even more!
hursty810 3 years ago
What you do in your free time is your own buisness...hes a poo head :p
LesbiLynn 3 years ago
tbh i dont think anyone would give a crap weather you did or not...
nickoswoos 3 years ago
Ur over analyzing this thing, a lot. This guy you split with is a minority, or you date really judgmental people by preference? Couldn't say..
I'll let you in on a secret tho, just fyi between you and me, shhhh! You have boobs!
OMG NO WAY?!
Yup, boobs, use them, frequently.
Honestly not sure how the You Tubes over ruled boobs to begin with to be honest, maybe he was queer... or maybe you never showed him your boobs in which case the You Tubes wasn't the problem :P
OneC3nt 3 years ago
Jill! Grrrr what a complete ass that guy was! Well just know that it was his loss. Really in the end of your video you give yourself the best advice. You shouldn't have to hide anything about yourself when trying to date some one. Obviously you don't tell them everything on a first date but You Tube isn't exactly deeply private information. Also You Tube for you is like biking or painting for some one else. You're awesome Jill only spend your time with a man who completely accepts you:)
jercc34 3 years ago
HUH???!!!!! It's like what's next - you send e-mail so it's over?! hehe. That's almost what it amounts to. You shoulda been like "Uh uh..uh uh...no no no..see. I make videos whenevah I want (snaps fingers) an' if you don't like it, thar's tha door! mmmm-hmmm. Rollin' up in hurr talkin' to me like dat tryin' to disrespekt ME?! Uh uhhh. No you dih-int! It's ovah when I sayz it'z ovah an' it'z ovah!" :)
FateEternal 3 years ago
The answer to your question... Date someone else who has a Youtube acc and makes videos lmao.. No problems then xD
RayRay5491 3 years ago
you aren't ever gonna get a 100 percent nigga just like we aint ever gonna get a 100 percent cunt
op9081 3 years ago
It's a great video but you need to fix your audio. If you use a gate option in Final Cut that should fix it.
thedatingshow 3 years ago
I know we are on may/ 2008...but...at the same time u shows me some particular feelings...that...they sounds ...where is the real one...are u acting? Of course i identify absolutle with your speach... would be so facinate to know u personally....and this may be just...THE WAY WE WANT IT!
I accept to be your loverboy.
orlandoabj 3 years ago
any guy that stops dating you cuz of YT vids is insecure and worried you may cheat, meet and date a bunch of guys from YT and stop dating him. he thought he better drop you first.
trust me. same shit, different situation. happens to me lots. they drop me cuz of ways they think i spend my time that exposes me to being around lots of other guys.
if a guy cant accept ur film interest or recognize you like film if you do YT videos, he's below your intellectual standards.
you deserve smarter guys
VampiressOnDaProwl 3 years ago
you remind me of Toni Collette
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gargaraci 3 years ago
i think you should tell them right off the bat
maybe they make videos as well lol
NinaMarie6320 3 years ago
the first part, about him leaving you because of you tube
i only made on video because i had to tell someone something
like i just neeeded to say it
and no one was home/online
so i made a video
and the BF got mad
and sent me a bunch of hater comments
because i posted a video
so yeah i posted one video and already have a hater!!
NinaMarie6320 3 years ago
Hmm, maybe we would make a great couple. Hell, I make rants, LOL!
NeoCulexor 3 years ago
Did you say "arting" ?
Manthing32 3 years ago
To be honest..I'm in a situation similar to yours. My dark secret is that I have my own MMA Fight wear and I manage fighters via Myspace.
I think once you feel comfortable with that person in conversation ...then let him know.if he is into you..he would except anything that you are into...:)
ljalique 3 years ago
oh man...
wathefuckisupwitthat 3 years ago
aha your boyfriend was damn right
wathefuckisupwitthat 3 years ago
Tell them IMMEDIATELY so you can test them, to see how much of a control freak they are. See how much you'd be wasting your time on them!
pansgrove 3 years ago
Some guys are way too damn possessive.
DrZarkloff 3 years ago
I never really understood the vlogging thing even though I saw this (don't ask), and I still don't but I wouldn't dump you for it... I mean come on you have sexy blue eyes and don't look like a serial killer so there really isn't any problem.
I say tell them on the first date. If that's a problem, then don't waste anymore time with them. Seriously if you can't be honest with someone, I would rather know on day 1.
shred5 3 years ago
Tell the guy you go out with that you make videos on the internet right off the bat. If he doesn't accept it, then he doesn't deserve to spend any time with you. Every individual has things they enjoy or are passionate about. If a "potential" boyfriend or girlfriend find it weird or not their style, than screw 'em...Plenty of guys out there...Including me :)
njwhse 3 years ago
you can tell him about your corkiness after you have sex with him. He's not really intrested in what you do with your free time anyway. Be prepared to be teased about it :D
totolino22223 3 years ago
haha u remind me of me a lot your awesome i subed
sichey 3 years ago
The guy probably had an alterior motive ...
Therefore ... good riddance.
Dating is easy
Cheerio!
Dwazedas 3 years ago
that dude must not of realized that you do it as a hobby, everyone needs a hobby, so its not like your hiding this, or that its weird at all. and if your dating some one, treat it as a hobby, if the dude asks you what you like to do, tell him your into film and stuff and about ur youtube, if he really likes you he'll like ur vids. thats what i think, and
A) dating is hard, B) you deserve some1 who cares about who you are, both inside and out
methetom1 3 years ago
I'm late to this dicussion, and I'm sure there are many comments that I overlap on, but here are my thoughts: I suggest you continue to be open. A first date is an ideal time to talk about what you enjoy doing with your time. It's better to discover that they're a loser before you get too involved.
pizzafrenzyman 3 years ago
i agree with what you said except the guy who asked her out doesn't speak english
randomwrrds 3 years ago
Dating is all about getting to know the other person, and finding out all the hobbies and interest like these... thats the reason of dating.
The POINT of dating is to find someone that truly likes you for YOU, and all that you do. If the person youre dating gets judgemental or dissaproving of who you ARE.. well, then its a GOOD thing that you were JUST dating, isnt it?
So to answer? Tell them right away. Be 100% open with who you are, and continue dating only the guy that likes you for YOU
lharvey619 3 years ago
I dont see what the big deal with making videos would be. He probably wasnt worth the trouble if he would judge over youtube....he must have been a chode........super chode.
randomwrrds 3 years ago
Anyone who's right for you will think it's COOL.
ellegaunt 3 years ago
Damn him... take'em to the new peoplescourtraw site. All you need is his email and his response. Good luck!
mperezii 3 years ago
Which remindes me...you got ideas for a film?... I think you should tell them as soon as they look at your computer and notice you have been recording them since they first came in. :)
INONFILMS 3 years ago
I can see how that might be some what creepy. I am a lover of film myself (not meant as a pickup line)I think its cool to find someone who is attractive and also passionate about the same things. I guess you are just catering to the wrong crowd. And when I say cater I really mean dating haha....did that make any sense at all whatsoever?
INONFILMS 3 years ago
I had a similar situation, it was with deviantart though, not youtube. I chose the whole "secret life" option. I regret it, the relationship ended because I felt I couldn't be honest about those things. You should try to be honest from the very beginning in my opinion. Good luck!
Avail6 3 years ago
As I see it, you had just gotten rid of a jerk.. (Perhaps a nice one, but still a jerk).. One should not dump another because of a hobby.. unless it's a REALLY sick one.. Making videos like this on the internet is quite harmless..
I hope you find a nice someone.. The girlfriends I've had, have "found" me, not the other way around.. Love will find YOU!!
Gunsnap 3 years ago
he was probly worried someone would steal ya away((smiles))since your so pretty,never tell people you know in real life , they judge ya and just dont understand how fun it is((smiles))
stumpie2 3 years ago
If i was dating you i would have joined you it looks like a lot of fun. keep the videos comin. My friends don't understand why i ride motorcycles so much its a hobbie its pure freedom
aaronbuell 3 years ago
What in the world is wrong with New York? You're hot and cute! Talented with video is a crime since when?
Meh... weird.
roachmeistercom 3 years ago
one other thing just looked at yer web site I see said the blind man uhhhhhhh !
buskva 3 years ago
he more than likely is concered that you are makeing these videos to meet guy's ??? or maybe he should be before youtube?? who know's people are strange in thier own way ya gotta take it as it comes :-)
buskva 3 years ago
I over indulge in computer games. More specifically MMO's such as Eve only, EverQuest II etc...
I make time to go oiut with my friends and do other things to.
To quote an old saying, "Everything in moderation" I have many hobbies and they take up a lot of my time, but my friends understand and in most cases indulge with me.
Best advise is to find someone who you can enjoy you favorite hobby with, just watch out for creative differences in opinion ;)
SlySi21 3 years ago
Hy Jill.
If I were you I would not handle this topic somehow special. This topic comes automaticly when taking about hobbies.
BUT ... you said the other guy "judged" this hobby as wastage of time. If this is a very time consuming hobby I would suggest to make the other person understand that you will still have a lot of time for and with him besides you-tube ...
If the guy in this case still rejects leave him ... he seems to search for a puppet or some of your dolls instead of a woman ;)
anossin 3 years ago
You have a lot on your plate, girl! Most people do. Any guy who can't handle what you are doing is acting immature and selfish. You've shared yourself with the world, and received praise for it. You're beautiful --- inside and out. Do everything in a way that puts your soul at rest. Your "right" guy is out there!
araya1572 3 years ago
Gobo Don't let it get in your head 2 much,he seen something in u he wasn't attracted 2 ie.your video hobby,I wish more people would B as selective when it comes 2 dating,maybe it would lower the divorce rate of which I've contributed2. I say 2 my shameNdishonor.But people need 2 b upfront-rightaway about what they want in a mate an when U see something that turns U off end the relationship early, I wish I had ended my previous relationship after our 1st date instead I wasted 10yrs of our lives.
slaveforChrist 3 years ago
If we were dating, I'd make videos WITH you...only I don't think YT would allow them to be posted for very long. Your DSL's would be perfect for the porn industry
mdc4runner 3 years ago
i like to randomly pause your vids, just to see what funny face you make.... damn your a hottie!
abs0lutehatred 3 years ago
he was gay!!!!
abs0lutehatred 3 years ago
lol
good observation
Archael7 3 years ago
Your over complicating things slightly, dating isnt hard unless you force it. As for the guy, people do weird and things especially guys. But in the end really the best advise is no advise. Your a cute girl with a lively personality because of that alone guys will want to date you.
I know its a dead subject but common. Just go have fun and itll happen, thats always goes. Go to a show at a small club and dont even think about dating. Nothing shines brighter then a womens smile.
RikuoMoni 3 years ago
it depends how much time you spend on your YT hobby - I see you have three accounts. That is a lot of time.
Personally I think you look fab, I would date you, but I would not step back for a computer. Then again in my case you would be lucky since I am a comic and on the road a lot so my expectations of time spend with my girlfriend are different when I am with her than somebody that sees you every day. I think to ask somebody you tell you love to take a backseat for a computer is hard to take
DarylVHorne 3 years ago
generally speaking he has a point - he wasn't judging you, he was judging your relationship with him. And you got over him so quick because for you the relationship has become secondary.
Ask yourself the question - can you go without YT for a week? If you say yes, then do it and if you can do it, then you are ready for a new relationship.
But I am probably not the best person to ask...
DarylVHorne 3 years ago
I know! Dude! Someone just told me that I "had poor judgement" and was "very disappointed in my bad decision making" all from posting on youtube. People are such idiots. It makes me not want to share my youtube life at all.
man1d2tran 3 years ago
Oh and PS, wanna have an e-date? :)
man1d2tran 3 years ago
Hmmm?previous comment was deleted or never posted.
happyyoda121 3 years ago
i never delete your comments..
GoboSpeaks 3 years ago
The best adivce is, like with everything else, to use your best judgement. Feel the person out. If that person seems all judgy, you probably don't want to mention it... or go on a second date (LOL). But if he is open to new things, and cool about stuff, then mention it. He doesn't have to like it or understand it... he just have to be okay with it, look beyond it, like you for you, and support you. Regardless whether it's YouTube or whatever, isn't that the most important quality? :-)
projectblogsphere 3 years ago
All else fails, there's always dating within the community. There's a reason why Hollywood folks date others in the business... it's much easier. And I'm sure there's a long line of people waiting for that opportunity with you, Jill. You just gotta give the green light. :-)
projectblogsphere 3 years ago
Sorry, I'm all booked up for dates right now. But making videos isn't much different than taking artsy photos these days. You're just another nerd like everyone else. Unfortunately, having some intelligence probably scares people away :) He must have been making an excuse. But who needs an excuse after a couple dates anyways. You must have done something REALLY WEIRD that he didn't want to mention.......
jarail 4 years ago
salad! lol
xgobobeanx 4 years ago
veggie burger?
xgobobeanx 4 years ago
The dude who stopped dating you doesn't deserve you. He sounds too needy (and that's not good!). As far as when you tell someone about your YT activity, I think you gotta play it by ear as far as when you tell them, but they probably need to know before too long into the "relationship."
There's my 2 cents. Cheers, good luck and good karma!
DavidRayDog 4 years ago
Hey Gobo, I like what you have to say, and I like your videos. I think you should tell whoever you are dating right away, then if they are weird about it you don't have waste that much of your time with them. You seem very funny, creative, and intelligent...three key elements for a good relationship. Plus you are very good looking...love your blue eyes. Keep your videos coming.
cerealspnc 4 years ago
its true. ure one of the rare women on here that continues to be on youtube for a very long time now.ure an exception.and i thought u would be still together with that guy of yours.u never mentioned it.and i would not even mention that ure a character on yt when meeting a new guy or so.dont make a big deal out of it.ure bigger than just an online character,yt is only a very small part of you kinda(although its not that small,as we both know lol).did u ever ask yourself why u like yt that much?
johndoners 4 years ago
Just be who you are. If they dont like you cause of UTube...well I guess you dont need them then.
sober1980 4 years ago
haha, "i make videos on the internet, and i post them..." (too funny)--- but anyways, u should def tell 'em immed'tly; but it shouldn't be a big deal since u'r not making vid like dancin in panties, or anything... but yea! it is weird
dbr3usa 4 years ago
Let him do anal
vaghistory 4 years ago
Wait a minute, I don't think I answered the question, yes you should tell them, but you really shouldn't have to thin about it. P.S let me give the obligatory male response if your looking for a man? then......ahhh forget it.
damon858 4 years ago
Ok, Jill, If you tube is a large and important part of your life why wouldn't you want to share that with a significant other. Your interests are the elements that create your character to withhold these would be to hide who you really are.
damon858 4 years ago
I would tell them right away cause you dont want to be out ona date withthemand have soeone walk up and say they know you while you are out LOL but he does deserve to know
Eminemporvida4 4 years ago
Why does someone named "RachelBucknermzyjfl" have this EXACT same video on his/her channel?
paul02144 4 years ago
because he/she is a fag! =)
xisssebasssix 4 years ago
I wonder if the boyfriend who broke up with you was perhaps afraid that you might vlog about him or your relationship. Just a thought. Regarding when should you tell a date about YouTube, I think it all depends on the status of your relationship. If you're falling for him hard, I would do it quickly. If you're not sure about the relationship, I would wait since you may not have to tell him at all. Or you may just find a natural time to bring it up. Who knows. Everybody's different. HTH.
paul02144 4 years ago
Its a great hobby and it's FREE! When one wants to ski we get the best skiis, outfits etc. I have a saying "Love me, love my youtube" I'm not going to give it up, why should we. I have encountered this a lot where people don't understand, and they never will until they do a video and that feeling that rush. Then they say "I have 50 friends on Facebook how many do you have on Youtube?" lol! They seem to understand photos in Facebook VERY well lol!!
Pippilly 4 years ago
shocking. purple is a bad color for you. go with black.
3rdandnowhere 4 years ago
Was I the first person to recognize you from YouTube? Yeah, judging by your reaction, I must have been.
AlejandroIsAMinotaur 4 years ago
lol gurl, you'd better tell them, cuz they'll find out fast- you iz always on them top pages ;-) yeeehaaa!
sandieblack 4 years ago
Hopefully sparks are happening, but in the early going, dating should have an aspect of a job interview. You're trying to find out if he's right for you, and he's trying to find out if you're right for him. How do you stay 'in the moment', available, and open while at the same time having the discipline to walk away if some little things aren't quite right? For you one of the 'little things' you'll have check is whether he's cool with your YT life.
GimmeBWW 4 years ago
Get it out there early, so that if y'all ain't right for each other, you're not holding each other back from finding someone with whom you'd have more synergy. Of course this is all theoretical for me. Nobody I really know, knows that I have anything to do with YT, and I haven't had time to date since I broke up with my last girlfriend, so I don't speak from experience.
GimmeBWW 4 years ago
Because of YouTube,stop dating....that's strange...
seewiderworld 4 years ago
with me i wouldnt care shes her own person and it comes down to trust however i dont belive in dating.grew out of that when i was 16 if i like someone i usally become friends get to know them then after 6 months, let them know how i feel(if i dont feel anything more then friends wouldnt say anything but hey ive made a friend :) but yeah trust repect etc i find is already gained and can have a fun loving relationship , being intament with someone i hardly know just cant do it even kissing yak!
Fontozio 4 years ago
I think you should be able to tell someone who you are seeing / starting to date etc straight off about Youtube. Its part of who you are, what you enjoy and a person should accept that and if they don't.....goodbye to them. You should never have to hide who you are - plus I personally think that all this creative side of you would a) make for great conversations and b) make you far a more interesting person to date than many others out there.
AndrewBattley 4 years ago
5 Stars!
AngelWest 4 years ago
I think you should be honest about it. It's a big part of your life and the person you date should be OK with it. If he's not, go and date somebody else! =)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a little weird, but on the other hand he went to our little 777 gathering in Berlin with me and enjoyed it...
muserine 4 years ago
And being with someone like that is the best way, in my estimation, for someone to be truly fulfilled in a relationship. Wherever you find them, they have to like YOU. And just let things go where they may and be confident. We love ya, Jillie. [HUGS]
1938superman 4 years ago
I found the best way was to quit looking. Immerse yourself in exploring who you are. Getting into the things you're passionate about. Then you tend to find those all too hard to find people who like you for YOU. 1 of 2
1938superman 4 years ago
You're right, dating IS hard.
Accepting the other person's quirks is hugely important. If you can't, then what's the point of being with that person?
I guess this ties into the discussion that's been ensuing for a while here about coming out of the "YouTube closet." It hasn't been an issue for me where dating is concerned, although a few friends have taken judgmental stances. I tend to not hang around those folks anymore.
OhCurt 4 years ago
I have found that some people have very negative feelings about YouTube as a hobby. I am more of a video watcher than video creator, but when I showed my sister some of the people whose videos I watch, she felt that it was a very weird thing to do. She finally asked "don't these people have anything better to do?".
greenNebula 4 years ago
(ps) If we hung out I would bring Lucky cool treats! lol
anthonyjkwan 4 years ago
I think that you should not have to hide it at all. I think it shows that you are creative and have and imagination. Besides if I was the one on the other side of the table (hint hint) I would love to know that about you. Besides it would make for some interesting dinner conversation if you ask me. Be yourself and if he doesnt like you for it then they are not the one for you.
anthonyjkwan 4 years ago
Good question, I've thought of this too. I think what you experienced with that first guy breaking up because of youtube is completely abnormal. Just treat telling them about vids like you would any other hobby information; 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date type info, but just casual-like. You also might want to not tell them about your 'deep personal vlog' channel too early (like Gobospeaks) because it can put off a bad impression of you if he doesnt quite know you yet. Just my thoughts.
blumac81 4 years ago
I must be mental I always forget to sub to this channel!
Anyone you are with has to love you for you Jill, even your love of film making! If they don't then it's their loss!
PrincessDiana161 4 years ago
Ill date you!
sidekick3iskool 4 years ago
you said- "i was doing this guy" ok Jill you proved that you treat your subs like friends!
sidekick3iskool 4 years ago
Whoooops I re-watched the video and you said " i was seeing this guy."
sidekick3iskool 4 years ago
Hey all i got to say is your taking this dating thing to seriously, first of all you beautiful yet you seem realy desperate, you shouldnt care what others think of you as long as your not offending them, and lastly i believe your suppose to have fun on dates be yourself no matter what it seems as thought you keep looking for peoples approval and not enjoying yourself any ways take care God Bless You
tonicito 4 years ago
You should ask ChristopherMast - he has his explanation all written down. (BTW - the guy that dumped you cause of youtube is DORK!)
berzerkeley 4 years ago
Right off the bat...And mention it matter of factly in a conversation. Then move on like you said nothing weird. I don't know...Works for me. =)
malkav1 4 years ago
tell them u make porn videos first then when there mouth hits the floor say just kidding and tell them u make youtube videos...
BEINBRITNEY 4 years ago
I dont think he was judging you, I think he was jealous and saw YT as direct competition, however you dont need guys like him, I think your best bet is to find someone who also likes online video and editing.
It cant be hard to find someone who accepts you and your corkiness, you are so cute and great in so many ways.
ohmightyblog 4 years ago
Any man who tries to dictate to you what you
should be doing in your free time....ditch
him immediately. The only enthusiasts of You
Tube are the people who put a lot into it.
It is the future
lehipster 4 years ago
Any man who tries to dictate to you what you
should be doing in your free time....ditch
him immediately. The only enthusiasts of You
Tube are the people who put a lot into it.
It is the future
lehipster 4 years ago
What a dork the guy was?
You deserve better!!
littlefatbird 4 years ago
dude only pulled that card, because he was insecure. Most guys with a really hot girlfriend would probably feel intimidated by every other 13 year old kid say'n "you're hot", "looking good", etc etc. If guy cared about you more than his own fragile ego, then he would have no problem with you making videos. Find yourself a guy with some balls, and problem will be solved :)
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SaIvaPota 4 years ago
I think you should just spring it on them at some random time. People love that :)
sabot96 4 years ago
:-)
Man, the dating thing is weird for me too. I just bla bla about all sorts of stuff, and I usually don't have second dates, and I'm not even a weirdo, DOH!.
If you lived in Australia, I would love go dating with you.
People don't like personality I guess.
andreous7 4 years ago