I absolutely LOVE all of your videos! You're completely relatable; with this short video it has really opened my mind about the things I'm faced with right now. Thank you :)
Damn girl! This vdeo is on point! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...and you know, it's funny cause I feel the same way about cheaters...if you cheat, I'm telling you goodbye. I just have a low tolerance for BS now. But there is one part I don't agree on, I believe that we were created to be monogamous. though. And staying out of unsafe enviroments...I believe in that too:)
Damn girl! This vdeo is on point! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...and you know, it's funny cause I feel the same way about cheaters...if you cheat, I'm telling you goodbye. I just have a low tolerance for BS now.
Damn girl! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...
u made this loooong asss video....&had a nigga hung on every word lol. this video gold. the more u elaborate on the topic the more i understand sum past events &learn abt myself as a [young] man. preciate the therapy boo. mucho el`amor Ms Deleon; keep'm comin
Hi you are sexy, you are young and you are from Atlanta, so i want to ask you how is the life in Atlanta, because maybe i will came to work in Atlanta, so i want to know something more about your city, if you wish answer me.
I'm a Scorpio. When u said you were strong minded and cut throat I knew you were a water sign I can read people well i was curious to find out I was right:) I was cheated on and was with the person 7 years haven't looked back I know my worth.
Montana I'm a Scorpio. I knew u was a water sign when u said u was strong minded and cut throat and know your worth I'm the same way. I was cheated on two years and haven't looked back. I can read into people that's what made me ask u I knew u had to be a water sign :)
OH MY GOSH PREACH SISTA!!!! My sister and I just touched on this subject. I asked her "why do you stay with him or why do you keep going back to him?" and she literally told me "well you don't have kids so you don't understand". and i'm like WTF that is NO excuse b/c he's showing his sons how to disrespect their mother and other women. If i tell you the BS she has put up with you would be like WTF too. I swear i'm just like you when it comes to this subject but my sis is the exact opposite.
he never told me he was married. I just happened to google his name and found the marriage online. It was like some write up in the paper or something. It had his address in there and everything
just found the guy that I have been dating for 2yrs got married on nov 11. I had no idea he was married as we continued to see each other. I do love him and he loves me at least I though. When I found out i was upset and called cursed him out on his answering machine and threatened to tell his wife. I am done with him because I dont date/talk to married men. I want to tell his wife. Do you think I should or just let her find out who he is on her own? I have never been in this position in my life
@tyroshag Question your motives before you speak to his wife. Bottom line he has been dealing with her LONG before he made you his side piece, if he is a consistent cheater then she already knows and married him anyway. I pray that you do the RIGHT THING..which is move forward and leave him & his wife alone.
I agree 100% and I believe in god. I wouldnt put up with no mess from my husband and we have 2 kids. I refuse to live my life unhappy. I have some family members who've been cheated on right in there face and they still take them back repeadly. I be like rukm? You caught him at the hotel. LOL. Good Job Montana!<3
I'm new here and I am a Christian and I love ur message. We need more real ppl like you to help the wounded. Your choice to believe is that....a choice and has nothing to do with being a positive person. I'm sure you believe in the Higher Power because nothing this beautiful inside and out can come from a negative place.
hey montana, u look good, as always!...I SAY IT DEPENDS ON THE SITUATIONS AND YES AND THE PERSON TOO!!...ALCOHOL IS NOT AN EXCUSE, IF YOU KNOW HOW U ARE WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK, THEN DON'T FREAKEN' DRINK!!!!...OR WHY U LETTIN' OR OTHER HALF DRINK KNOWING THAT THEY DO THAT WHEN THEY'RE DRUNK!!!..SO NO EXCUSE FOR THAT ONE!!!..AND PLEASE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN ACCIDENT ON CHEATING HAHAHAHA THAT'S KRAZY!!!
luv ur vids, neva took the time to read comments til now,(i c it goes down)! lol anywho, we need more of this type of positivity in generations to come cuz not enough of the ladies are truely loving themselves FIRST,&letting the lil fellas get away w/ more then just cheating. As far a religion girl do you! jesus is mos def MY homie, but at the end of the day weALL r striving to b the best, happiest self we can be, weather ur a christian r lovesomist:) you promoting GREATNESS, thanks!
Montana Just because one is not "religious" does not mean they do not believe in GOD. I'm guessing that you are neither religious or a believer. With that, I have to and do, respect your ideas and beliefs on how you live your life. However, as a Christian and a Believer, I too have to respect my own beliefs and ideas for my own life. So, RESPECTFULLY, I will be unsubscribing, because I can not support someone who does not believe in GOD. I have enjoyed ALL your videos and I wish you happiness :)
@mochaIluv u just discriminated against me cuz of my belief? lol! this is yet ANOTHER reason why i don't follow religion, it SEPERATES and DIVIDES.even though i'm giving positive advice, u turning your back on me. HAHAHA! Christrian smistian! thanks for FURTHER giving me a reason to NOT wanna be on what u on. Atleast with LOVESOME, we love EVERYBODY with NO discrimination, just love...unconditionally. ANd i learned THAT from YALL bible. u might wanna check that out
Montana what is going on? At one point I thought I was looking at an old video. It did offend me about the God comment also. I like you and your vids, even though I don' t agree on some of your perceptions. I still enjoy watching you, but you just threw me for a loop. I got something totally different out of your previous vids about your relationship with God. Did I misunderstand? Please do a vid on what happen with your belief. I am being sincere and I am so confused right now. Love y
Hey beautiful! Keep dropping that self worth knowledge to the young ladies, they need that in this generation. Lovesome! I would love to buy a t-shirt with that on it. Have you considered selling t-shirts?
@lovinglife105 well YOU go on thru life keeping that train of thought. If it works for you. I don't concern myself with that, I concern myself with being the best ME i can be. If he takes it for granted....NEXT! I got em lined up, no sweat off my brow
it's a great video. I have a restraining order against my son father but I think I'm even more misrable because no one is going to want some fat black woman with a kid. It's like I'm destined to be alone after numerous failed relationships, mostly because I was never good enough or because they wanted someone of another race. I was miserable with the beatings and now I'm misrable and hopless alone. But as long as my son is safe I guess thats all that counts
@tastiredbone well since u KNOW the reasons why u feel as though you're gonna be alone and miserable for the rest of your life, AT LEATS u know what to FIX if u ever chose to be happy in life and a good catch to a deserving man
Interesting perspective. Well,I what I know to be true, is cheating is not about what the other person looks like, but rather how they make one feel. Looks are superficial, people cheat with all types of types. As a woman that has been with my husband over 7ys I can attest to how difficult marriage can be, things that you may feel are 'deal-breakers' become less rigid. Our vow said,"for better or worse."Marriage requires trust, forgiveness,and compassion, but every marriage is different.
I'm sorry Miss Montana, you can ask till you're BLUE in the face if you're doing EVERYTHING correct..,.and a man/woman will cheat period dot.......There is nothing a person can do to prevent cheating.....If it's in you to cheat you'll cheat! IDC how great everything is at home....
@montanadeleon1 Well since you're into "NAME CALLING" I see where your relationship is headed without Christ!!!.....NOWHERE!!!! RING OR NOT And for your information I've been married 15 years this September with TWO beautiful children by the SAME MAN!!!!!! Now that I know you DO NOT believe in CHRIST.....You've lost another viewer!!! And ANY Young woman with GOD'S good sense should NEVER take advice from the likes of you!!! POOF BE GONE!!!
@nenabobina Debbie Downer is not like calling u a b*tch, but you do need to dig deep down inside your thought process and figure out what makes u go thru allllll these comments and co sign with the most negative one out the bunch, U said married with kids but u NEVER said HAPPILY. Misery Loves company? Change your thought process and stop piggy backing on the negativity
@nelabug7 shes one of those "Christians" that uses follows SOME of the bible and not all of it. Or maybe she didn't get to the part about only God can judge. Either way, let her speak her mind, its ok, I can handle it
i know that God doesn't want you to be miserable. sometimes "we choose" the wrong ppl you have to get out of the relationship this person b/c they don't care & they wasn't for you. nevermind the fact that nowadays ppl get married for the wrong reasons :@)
@montanadeleon1 Glad you stopped believing in God....it made you a better person? No disrespect Montana, but I did not see the POSITIVE & beautiful lady I see today, until you started that path of finding God, I know God has touched you whether you believe it or not. Im not here to judge, because I am not a saint, but I ask that you have a little respect for your subbies who do BELIEVE in God :)
@montanadeleon1 Nothing personal, as a subbie who enjoys your videos, I just feel that personal attacks against God may offend some of your "christian" subbies, as it did me, with that particular comment, since we do love and believe in him. I hope I did not offend you, for I am not here to judge, I guess the comment just struck a cord with me.....But does that make sense?
@MissLynell101 well we can agree to disagree, cuz nothing u say about god can sway me cuz i know what i know and i hope u are certain in your belief too and nothing can sway u and u are aware that everybody ain't gone feel the same way u do about god. just because i don't believe in god don't make my vids about loving yourself and respecting yourself wrong, so a christian once told me i preach whats in the bible anyway and i ain't even know it!
@montanadeleon1 I guess youre right we can agree to disagree, thats fair :). I luv ur vids and even apply some the advice that you give to my everyday life, I guess that is why I took it so personal. But everythings cool we on the same page now. And the last sentence I can definitely agree with, lol....Lovesome
The only grounds for divorce, biblically, is adultery so I don't know what church is saying otherwise. Everything is a choice, even drunk cheating started with the choice to get drunk. Cheating is unnecessary and inexcusable. Good talk, montana.
Montana I'm gonna verbally apologize to you I commented on ur other video about your responses ...anyways I'm sorry if I came off rude ...I will say that I love ur advice on this video makes a lot of sense...thanks ...u don't have to comment lol...be blessed
I truly understand where you are coming from and agree with you. As far as some man out there that have a women doing everything right? There are some man that appreciate that women and would not do anything to jeopardize it because they have the whole package . Yet there are some man who don't care and still want to have their cake and eat it too. Not that they are childish because for a few it is just in their nature. I truly feel if you are truly in-love with your partner you will not do any
I'm a Christian and I feel the same way you feel. Christian or no Christian it's ridiculous to stay in a relationship when you know you're not happy. Great Vid!!
This video is what many females need to watch. Men too but mainly females. I truly believe this just helped me a bit more to deal with my own relationship.. Thank you Ms. Montana for your continuous videos on REAl topics !! Happy New Year !
grass always look greener on the other side but thats probably because its more bull shit over there and as a neuroscientist we are amount the 5% of animals that are made to be monogamous thats cause by a hormone called oxytocin
Haha! Cook em a good meal and give em the massage of his life huh? Image keep that in mind but hopefully I want have to do that in my future relationship!
I absolutely LOVE all of your videos! You're completely relatable; with this short video it has really opened my mind about the things I'm faced with right now. Thank you :)
youngtysonful 1 week ago
Damn girl! This vdeo is on point! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...and you know, it's funny cause I feel the same way about cheaters...if you cheat, I'm telling you goodbye. I just have a low tolerance for BS now. But there is one part I don't agree on, I believe that we were created to be monogamous. though. And staying out of unsafe enviroments...I believe in that too:)
15725linwood 3 weeks ago
Damn girl! This vdeo is on point! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...and you know, it's funny cause I feel the same way about cheaters...if you cheat, I'm telling you goodbye. I just have a low tolerance for BS now.
15725linwood 3 weeks ago
Damn girl! I am addicted to your relationship videos...I'm divorced because he kept cheating with the same person, so I got out of that. Can't wait to be a wife agian...
15725linwood 3 weeks ago
@MrCharlieLux thanks Charlie and welcome to my channel luv
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
i'm just speechless, you are amazing, woman, AMAZING!
CadaLoseControl 1 month ago
Great video!
MsCardigan1 1 month ago
you look like neesi in allof us
socute64 1 month ago
u made this loooong asss video....&had a nigga hung on every word lol. this video gold. the more u elaborate on the topic the more i understand sum past events &learn abt myself as a [young] man. preciate the therapy boo. mucho el`amor Ms Deleon; keep'm comin
Zay843 1 month ago
@Zay843 awwww, thanks luv
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
You are extremely inspiring :D
Btw you look like Ashantiii !
Goregous
CheckOutTheGLAM 1 month ago
Love it Montana!!!!!!!!!
patralatifa 1 month ago
Found it! thanks!!<3
QueenNef4 1 month ago
Hi you are sexy, you are young and you are from Atlanta, so i want to ask you how is the life in Atlanta, because maybe i will came to work in Atlanta, so i want to know something more about your city, if you wish answer me.
Regards!
CoolJegerJ 1 month ago
@CoolJegerJ i don't know what to tell except its alot of gay men here, its cold and has hills
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
Some Men Just cheat because they cant Stay With one Person so u have to leave
kenya73 1 month ago
About cheating The says u can divoice
kenya73 1 month ago
Totaly agree
kenya73 1 month ago
I'm a Scorpio
NaturalCutie30 1 month ago
I'm a Scorpio
NaturalCutie30 1 month ago
I'm a Scorpio. When u said you were strong minded and cut throat I knew you were a water sign I can read people well i was curious to find out I was right:) I was cheated on and was with the person 7 years haven't looked back I know my worth.
NaturalCutie30 1 month ago
Montana I'm a Scorpio. I knew u was a water sign when u said u was strong minded and cut throat and know your worth I'm the same way. I was cheated on two years and haven't looked back. I can read into people that's what made me ask u I knew u had to be a water sign :)
NaturalCutie30 1 month ago
OMG i really feel you on that 80% and 20%
msbarbie21336 1 month ago
Great video!!! You sound like myself, what's your zodiac sign ?
NaturalCutie30 1 month ago
@NaturalCutie30 pisces, whats yours?
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
ONLY IF ALL WOMEN WHERE LIKE YOU, i pray i find someone like you x
mac4u10 1 month ago
@mac4u10 u will
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
OH MY GOSH PREACH SISTA!!!! My sister and I just touched on this subject. I asked her "why do you stay with him or why do you keep going back to him?" and she literally told me "well you don't have kids so you don't understand". and i'm like WTF that is NO excuse b/c he's showing his sons how to disrespect their mother and other women. If i tell you the BS she has put up with you would be like WTF too. I swear i'm just like you when it comes to this subject but my sis is the exact opposite.
MsNessa1985 1 month ago
he never told me he was married. I just happened to google his name and found the marriage online. It was like some write up in the paper or something. It had his address in there and everything
tyroshag 1 month ago
just found the guy that I have been dating for 2yrs got married on nov 11. I had no idea he was married as we continued to see each other. I do love him and he loves me at least I though. When I found out i was upset and called cursed him out on his answering machine and threatened to tell his wife. I am done with him because I dont date/talk to married men. I want to tell his wife. Do you think I should or just let her find out who he is on her own? I have never been in this position in my life
tyroshag 1 month ago
@tyroshag u would wanna know, wouldn't u? let her have the info she needs to decide if this is what she deserves
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@tyroshag Question your motives before you speak to his wife. Bottom line he has been dealing with her LONG before he made you his side piece, if he is a consistent cheater then she already knows and married him anyway. I pray that you do the RIGHT THING..which is move forward and leave him & his wife alone.
Leila655 1 month ago
I agree 100% and I believe in god. I wouldnt put up with no mess from my husband and we have 2 kids. I refuse to live my life unhappy. I have some family members who've been cheated on right in there face and they still take them back repeadly. I be like rukm? You caught him at the hotel. LOL. Good Job Montana!<3
JLUV27834 1 month ago
u fighting temptation like beyonce feat free,and missy elliot and mc lite
beauttty07 1 month ago
so u saying cheating is for weak people
beauttty07 1 month ago
@beauttty07 exactly, u so weak u give in to what u KNOW is wrong.
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I'm new here and I am a Christian and I love ur message. We need more real ppl like you to help the wounded. Your choice to believe is that....a choice and has nothing to do with being a positive person. I'm sure you believe in the Higher Power because nothing this beautiful inside and out can come from a negative place.
HoneyBrown1978 1 month ago
I liked this vid! I like how you told your friend when you see a pretty bitch run! :) as well as other things...
DIMEPIECETWINZ 1 month ago
hey montana, u look good, as always!...I SAY IT DEPENDS ON THE SITUATIONS AND YES AND THE PERSON TOO!!...ALCOHOL IS NOT AN EXCUSE, IF YOU KNOW HOW U ARE WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK, THEN DON'T FREAKEN' DRINK!!!!...OR WHY U LETTIN' OR OTHER HALF DRINK KNOWING THAT THEY DO THAT WHEN THEY'RE DRUNK!!!..SO NO EXCUSE FOR THAT ONE!!!..AND PLEASE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN ACCIDENT ON CHEATING HAHAHAHA THAT'S KRAZY!!!
johaneish 1 month ago
luv ur vids, neva took the time to read comments til now,(i c it goes down)! lol anywho, we need more of this type of positivity in generations to come cuz not enough of the ladies are truely loving themselves FIRST,&letting the lil fellas get away w/ more then just cheating. As far a religion girl do you! jesus is mos def MY homie, but at the end of the day weALL r striving to b the best, happiest self we can be, weather ur a christian r lovesomist:) you promoting GREATNESS, thanks!
TheRayne22 1 month ago
@TheRayne22 lol @ lovesomist, that was cute
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
loved this vid! cheating is never acceptable! especially when you are an honest giving nurturing person. PREACH MONTANA!
foreverbeauty87 1 month ago
WHY DONT YOU LIKE WOMEN ANYMORE?????
MsGIGGLEsM 1 month ago
Love your vids! Thank you for for sharing Montana.
latereasa 1 month ago
Montana Just because one is not "religious" does not mean they do not believe in GOD. I'm guessing that you are neither religious or a believer. With that, I have to and do, respect your ideas and beliefs on how you live your life. However, as a Christian and a Believer, I too have to respect my own beliefs and ideas for my own life. So, RESPECTFULLY, I will be unsubscribing, because I can not support someone who does not believe in GOD. I have enjoyed ALL your videos and I wish you happiness :)
mochaIluv 1 month ago
@mochaIluv u just discriminated against me cuz of my belief? lol! this is yet ANOTHER reason why i don't follow religion, it SEPERATES and DIVIDES.even though i'm giving positive advice, u turning your back on me. HAHAHA! Christrian smistian! thanks for FURTHER giving me a reason to NOT wanna be on what u on. Atleast with LOVESOME, we love EVERYBODY with NO discrimination, just love...unconditionally. ANd i learned THAT from YALL bible. u might wanna check that out
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@mochaIluv carm down love stop taking it to heart
mac4u10 1 month ago
Montana what is going on? At one point I thought I was looking at an old video. It did offend me about the God comment also. I like you and your vids, even though I don' t agree on some of your perceptions. I still enjoy watching you, but you just threw me for a loop. I got something totally different out of your previous vids about your relationship with God. Did I misunderstand? Please do a vid on what happen with your belief. I am being sincere and I am so confused right now. Love y
Georgespooh 1 month ago
@Georgespooh i did cover my explanation about why i stopped being religious in a vid called lovesome
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
Do you believe in God or not?
SheilaQuinnoctavia2 1 month ago
@SheilaQuinnoctavia2 no, do i vlog like i do? does it really really matter what everyone around u believe in?
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I love your channel and your video... PREACHHHH MONTANA !!!!
I agree with everything you've ever said... keep up the great videos :)
xoMakeupJunkiie 1 month ago
Alright just thought i would ask. Happy New if I hadn't told u that in a previous vid.
FULLER103 1 month ago
@FULLER103 happy new yearrrrrrrrr!
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
Hey beautiful! Keep dropping that self worth knowledge to the young ladies, they need that in this generation. Lovesome! I would love to buy a t-shirt with that on it. Have you considered selling t-shirts?
FULLER103 1 month ago
@FULLER103 naw, lol
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
you can be the perfect wife and your man still cheats.
lovinglife105 1 month ago
@lovinglife105 well YOU go on thru life keeping that train of thought. If it works for you. I don't concern myself with that, I concern myself with being the best ME i can be. If he takes it for granted....NEXT! I got em lined up, no sweat off my brow
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I'm not trying to label you. I was just wondering if you believed in God.
SheilaQuinnoctavia2 1 month ago
@SheilaQuinnoctavia2 so where did u get that word from dear?
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
Thanks for this video cause this dude i know need to listen to this
sweetmeema 1 month ago
it's a great video. I have a restraining order against my son father but I think I'm even more misrable because no one is going to want some fat black woman with a kid. It's like I'm destined to be alone after numerous failed relationships, mostly because I was never good enough or because they wanted someone of another race. I was miserable with the beatings and now I'm misrable and hopless alone. But as long as my son is safe I guess thats all that counts
tastiredbone 1 month ago
@tastiredbone well since u KNOW the reasons why u feel as though you're gonna be alone and miserable for the rest of your life, AT LEATS u know what to FIX if u ever chose to be happy in life and a good catch to a deserving man
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@tastiredbone holla at my inbox if u need some tough love to get u to where u REALLY wanna be in life ;-) Lovesome
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
Interesting perspective. Well,I what I know to be true, is cheating is not about what the other person looks like, but rather how they make one feel. Looks are superficial, people cheat with all types of types. As a woman that has been with my husband over 7ys I can attest to how difficult marriage can be, things that you may feel are 'deal-breakers' become less rigid. Our vow said,"for better or worse."Marriage requires trust, forgiveness,and compassion, but every marriage is different.
theyellowumbrella 1 month ago
Loveeee itt !"
sia0011 1 month ago
Kari Approved. Well said, Deleon.
LyricalPhetish 1 month ago
Preach sistah!!!!!!
LilMsComplicated1 1 month ago in playlist RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
I'm sorry Miss Montana, you can ask till you're BLUE in the face if you're doing EVERYTHING correct..,.and a man/woman will cheat period dot.......There is nothing a person can do to prevent cheating.....If it's in you to cheat you'll cheat! IDC how great everything is at home....
nenabobina 1 month ago
@nenabobina well Debbie Downer, we know what kind of relationships you're destined to attract. watch my video the power of words
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@montanadeleon1 Well since you're into "NAME CALLING" I see where your relationship is headed without Christ!!!.....NOWHERE!!!! RING OR NOT And for your information I've been married 15 years this September with TWO beautiful children by the SAME MAN!!!!!! Now that I know you DO NOT believe in CHRIST.....You've lost another viewer!!! And ANY Young woman with GOD'S good sense should NEVER take advice from the likes of you!!! POOF BE GONE!!!
nenabobina 1 month ago
@nenabobina Debbie Downer is not like calling u a b*tch, but you do need to dig deep down inside your thought process and figure out what makes u go thru allllll these comments and co sign with the most negative one out the bunch, U said married with kids but u NEVER said HAPPILY. Misery Loves company? Change your thought process and stop piggy backing on the negativity
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@nenabobina God says we shall not judge. Why would you put any of that?
nelabug7 1 month ago
@nelabug7 shes one of those "Christians" that uses follows SOME of the bible and not all of it. Or maybe she didn't get to the part about only God can judge. Either way, let her speak her mind, its ok, I can handle it
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I agree....I get ridiculed (especially by women) when I tell people I don't believe in cheating....And that situational avoidance works ;-)
Jdot14j 1 month ago
Are you an atheist?
SheilaQuinnoctavia2 1 month ago
@SheilaQuinnoctavia2 No, I'm Montana and u can't label me, I do me, not what man has made up names for
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I have watched this video four times. i really love what u r saying. what u r saying r so true.Real Talk with GROWN FOLKS lol
melslady529 1 month ago
ms montana your so wise !
TheTheRealAlina 1 month ago
i know that God doesn't want you to be miserable. sometimes "we choose" the wrong ppl you have to get out of the relationship this person b/c they don't care & they wasn't for you. nevermind the fact that nowadays ppl get married for the wrong reasons :@)
MSBOLEGGEDMA8 1 month ago
It's not about being a christian when it comes down to being unhappy,the bible doesn't say stay if the person is doing wrong.
xodanielle89fye 1 month ago
I like the analogy at the end, good advice!
psat21 1 month ago
U addressed some issues I needed some clarity on. Thanks Montana!
sshabon22 1 month ago
I love ur relationship videos,I learn so much!somebody needs to give u ur own talk show!
youcanthavethisname0 1 month ago
your so wise! if its not to personal a question could i ask why you dont believe in God?
LoveTaraJoyce 1 month ago
@LoveTaraJoyce already covered that on my channel, glad I stopped, it made me a better person. I've free'd my mind
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@montanadeleon1 Glad you stopped believing in God....it made you a better person? No disrespect Montana, but I did not see the POSITIVE & beautiful lady I see today, until you started that path of finding God, I know God has touched you whether you believe it or not. Im not here to judge, because I am not a saint, but I ask that you have a little respect for your subbies who do BELIEVE in God :)
MissLynell101 1 month ago
@MissLynell101 and i ask that u accept the fact that everybody ain't gonna be on what u on, thats what makes the world go around, we all different
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@montanadeleon1 Nothing personal, as a subbie who enjoys your videos, I just feel that personal attacks against God may offend some of your "christian" subbies, as it did me, with that particular comment, since we do love and believe in him. I hope I did not offend you, for I am not here to judge, I guess the comment just struck a cord with me.....But does that make sense?
MissLynell101 1 month ago
@MissLynell101 well we can agree to disagree, cuz nothing u say about god can sway me cuz i know what i know and i hope u are certain in your belief too and nothing can sway u and u are aware that everybody ain't gone feel the same way u do about god. just because i don't believe in god don't make my vids about loving yourself and respecting yourself wrong, so a christian once told me i preach whats in the bible anyway and i ain't even know it!
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
@montanadeleon1 I guess youre right we can agree to disagree, thats fair :). I luv ur vids and even apply some the advice that you give to my everyday life, I guess that is why I took it so personal. But everythings cool we on the same page now. And the last sentence I can definitely agree with, lol....Lovesome
MissLynell101 1 month ago
@MissLynell101 lovesome ;-)
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
I love you Montana!
corradofinardi 1 month ago
The only grounds for divorce, biblically, is adultery so I don't know what church is saying otherwise. Everything is a choice, even drunk cheating started with the choice to get drunk. Cheating is unnecessary and inexcusable. Good talk, montana.
specialkamy 1 month ago
@specialkamy Amen!
downtownchicagobarbi 1 month ago
you are fantastic and would make a great lyfe coach
5 stars
prettyrickyludacris 1 month ago
Montana I'm gonna verbally apologize to you I commented on ur other video about your responses ...anyways I'm sorry if I came off rude ...I will say that I love ur advice on this video makes a lot of sense...thanks ...u don't have to comment lol...be blessed
ariannaandjosiah 1 month ago
@ariannaandjosiah lovesome
montanadeleon1 1 month ago
ok i like this video
wheelchairs1 1 month ago
this must be an old video
ViDMAStR09 1 month ago
@ieshajenee2010 I agree totally
prettygyrl83 1 month ago
LOL @ the 80/20 rule....enuff said I totally agree
qsgreen1 1 month ago
Love this Vid... Great a philosophy!
Sweetneekz 1 month ago
Yep its a Keith sweat song. Love the video
MsPlatinumRose 1 month ago
Giiirl! I did the report card thing too!
jewelt25 1 month ago
I truly understand where you are coming from and agree with you. As far as some man out there that have a women doing everything right? There are some man that appreciate that women and would not do anything to jeopardize it because they have the whole package . Yet there are some man who don't care and still want to have their cake and eat it too. Not that they are childish because for a few it is just in their nature. I truly feel if you are truly in-love with your partner you will not do any
FinestWun4U 1 month ago
Love this video, soo true!!!
07dodgecaliber 1 month ago
What's my number in line??? I wouldn't mess up, MD. -jg
JaTazzUnleashed 1 month ago
great vid , i love it
DI4MONDPRiiNC3SS 1 month ago
If any brotha cheats on you he needs to get his head checked.
cjzzzzz 1 month ago
I'm a Christian and I feel the same way you feel. Christian or no Christian it's ridiculous to stay in a relationship when you know you're not happy. Great Vid!!
ieshajenee2010 1 month ago
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luviest 1 month ago
I AGREE!!! GREAT VID!!
CHHA82 1 month ago
I love you! <3 im going through the same thing with my bf and you just gave me strength. I hope to be as strong an confident as you. :)
stylesrisa 1 month ago
This video is what many females need to watch. Men too but mainly females. I truly believe this just helped me a bit more to deal with my own relationship.. Thank you Ms. Montana for your continuous videos on REAl topics !! Happy New Year !
LiveLoveLife2O1OO 1 month ago
grass always look greener on the other side but thats probably because its more bull shit over there and as a neuroscientist we are amount the 5% of animals that are made to be monogamous thats cause by a hormone called oxytocin
teaundra 1 month ago
Thx.I needed to hear this. And I think the song you were thinking of is mariah carey "thank god I found you" (make it last)
danidemure 1 month ago
Haha! Cook em a good meal and give em the massage of his life huh? Image keep that in mind but hopefully I want have to do that in my future relationship!
kiera843 1 month ago
over love this video straight TRUTH!!!!
gabluvmike 1 month ago