Relationship & Dating Advice : Why Some Women Cheat

[omarct]

I have been trying to find something that could help me find out if my girlfriend has cheated on me before. I know she is not cheating now, but a few years back when we were starting out i feel that she cheated on me, is just a hunch but I cant take it off my mind. The fact that she cheated is not the issue is the fact that I asked her and she said no, but it wasnt very convincing. So now i feel like she lied to me which is a big no no, if she did lie to me this relationship is over Any advice

[lucy9359]

@omarct the root cause should be dealt with if the relationship can be strengthened at the core of it....if it can't be strengthened at the core of it as neither of you or one of you doesn't have the capasity to bring life to that relationship in the depths of it then your in for a journey of suffering....

[omarct]

@lucy9359 Well if I can find out that it is in fact all up in my head and she has never lied to me, then it will make the relationship a lot stronger. Strong enough to take it the next step even.

[lucy9359]

@omarc I am over 40 I have been married now for 15 years I would not cheat on my husband because I am not going to try and fulfill any voids in my life with another man...that won't work...in fact if he was killed I wouldn't go out and look to a man to find fulfillment in my life...I would work through my own feelings so I would become the person I need to be to make it...on that note find your own inward strength don't leave that up to another human being or you are in for disapointment

[omarct]

@lucy9359 I think that's fine and dandy, but we are all different.

[mcavoyfam6]

should be called excuses why women cheat

[playaking21]

So why not just leave your significant other if there not fulfilling your needs? You make it seem as women have justifiable reason/s to cheat. It's wrong to cheat. Period.

[ssscybro2]

So women cheat because their man is not (fulfilling there needs) you mean emotional needs right. so what your saying is that a woman's needs is more important that a mans needs.More married men have emotional affairs....no sex involved there so i guess there not being fulfilled right the problem is women expect to much...you dont enter a relation ship to have you needs fulfilled because only you can do that.....women need(some women not all)to put o your big girl panties and woman up.

[FULIAN]

why are you guys taking advice from a milf porn star

[rydeeh11]

MILFMILFMILFMILF!!!!!

[thethirdq]

With you talent it is just a matter of time...

[bungalaix]

Women cheat coz thats what theyre for. Evolution didnt give them the hole without locks for no reason. its open for everyone and everything.

[1roiboi]

this women is stupid its not all about her in the relationship the man needs attention to not just women why do you think men cheat on women aswell they all try to be innocent

[xhemexx]

@SirMicDre Good thing to do, to some of them. But it depends on the person and situations!!!!

[trampbiker]

once a cheater always a cheater.. kick them to the curb if they dont like you

[omairiqbal889]

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[Jeorney]

Feminist attitudes can also make women cheat. It creates too many problems and an imbalance in the relationship. When they meet another man who indicates support of feminism somehow, off she goes, only to be disappointed further down the line. Some end up disrespecting the weak feminine man but argues consistantly with true men, based on feminist grounds, ending up in vicious circle.

[theartyone]

Okay... answer me this: Why do women ALWAYS need to be reassured 24/7? ...and if you happen to be busy and cannot give them attention for good reasons like work or some important issue that needs to be dealt with ASAP... why can't they understand that? Are their egos so huge they need attention 24/7?

[americasfirstking]

I'd come out of retirement for you dear and walk the straight and narrow.

[jampie06]

I think that unless you can give a good blow job you should not be giving dating advice. OK? lol

[ricmonist86]

I was so glad to get out of relationship with my ex- girlfriend. Moods were contagious, she didn't undrstand the meaning of a relationship... she thought sex was the most important thing and she was petty. I LOVE BEING SINGLE!!!

[astonmartinn007]

@lizzylizardson

so freakinn true.. fk sum of my frens(grls) even admit to that

Best is to go The Charlie Harper way \m/ .. lol

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@djay00009 Well, I'm not trying to start a conflict here at all, but yeah i understand girls are like that i am one o.o like i said I'd never ever cheat but that's just me yeah there are A LOT of sluts, whores, harlots, whatever you wanna call them, out there and,from a girls perspective, when you no a girl loves you is when they literally tell you I'll give the world to you I could go on about what girls are like but i only have what 500 characters, just member that not all girls are like that.

[djay00009]

Women are evil evil evil , Ive had it with dating them and loving them seriously , they throw you like you never meant a thing, why ? cause you were a little angry at them ? Be good to them and they take advantage of you , Be angry at them, and they want to leave you , Seriously , does only women have the right to be angry ? If you talk to a girl , she gets crazy mad, if she does talk to a guy and you tell her not too, that;s like offending for her,both of dem were bitches,y did I evn love dem?

[Kenshiroit]

@djay00009 funny how this never happen to me. If I were you I would look inside to gain insight on whats wrong. Easy to point fingers against other people, rather than look inside.

[FreeBlago1]

Too many women just use me for my kilbasa, it's so empty. Or just to get even with their man. Pigs.

[Masonictoaster9]

I'd tell her to repent of her sin and tell her what a horrible selfish thing she has done. Women are just as self centered as men - they just do it differently. The void she's trying to fill is a spiritual one - only God can fill that. God is love and when in a relationship you serve not yourself but the other - that is love.

[avcms]

so what? you're like in this park for 4 hours and split up the 4 hours into 500 videos?? douche!!!!!!

[thebuckrogers22]

ha see u women do cheat. i tell women this all the time that women cheat and use men for sex and what do women say. no we dont u must be lying. yall aint angels u know

[copypacercopypacer]

i though girls were smart, boy was i wrong, oh and change ur title from some women cheat to almost every women or girl u see will cheat

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@copypacercopypacer i'd never cheat ._. ....cause if i was in love with someone (witch i am now) why would i go cheat on someone else when something could be going on in HIS life, and that's the reason why he may (like she said) not be giving me what i want? see I'd just ask him straight up if somethings going on... I'd never cheat cause if I'm dating a guy i know I'd be in love with him....I'd make sure of it.... i guess some women don't think about it as much as i do but ..that's my opinion.

[CutOff16]

sal 143

[MrYesthatsright]

Ive never commented on a youtube video but this has to be said. You an Idiot! why anyone takes your advice is beyond me. You can be the most clingy mofo in the world, it aint gona stop her from cheating. saddle bags

[apocalypse105]

this is exactly what you dont must do!!!!! A woman cheat when she know she haves you wen she knows he is in love with me and he does everything for me now she must stil have the feeling does he love me? Why doenst he show me so much?.. She must want that and if you give it her to much she will flee away....

[brainly]

could somebody teach me how to put those words on the screen like this clip and how to put the transcript below the clip.

[flrez619]

Bleh, Women,and there feeling these days...

[tevion1226]

@Austyg LLLOOOLLL!!!!!!!!!!! Too funny!

[blabblab1212]

"Something you can do to FILL THAT VOID for her................ HAHA. I would be happy to fill the void for her.

[mbabchuk1414]

How about breaking up and not cheating. I know this is a pretty hard concept to understand. Step1 - Don't do the first thing that gives you attention. If you are successful in step 1 then you have some worth as a person. Step 2 - Breakup. Step 3 - Don't find the first person who talks to you and start the cycle all over again.

[MrIam1nsane]

@Austyg XDDDD Dude you're amazing.

[MrIam1nsane]

If women want to feel loved and cared about they should do something about it instead of cheating. Some women just don't say what they want and expect men to know. We're not mind readers! And if a woman cheats on a man, it's ALL her fault. It's her fault she didn't talk to him. If she did, and it didn't work out then why is she still with this man. It all adds up to being the woman's fault if she cheats. Same thing for a man. If he cheats, it's automatically all his fault, not the woman's.

[96Mauser]

@lizzylizardson

You've hit the nail 100% on the head.

[shammy1002]

hahahhaa.....ya, another man will listen to her as long as she 's providing sex....if not, he'd probably rather hang with his buddies.

[Fuchizaa]

As a bloke who as been around the block I can say that in some cases what this lady said is true. What she's not saying is that other women, no matter what you do/look like, will always be cheaters. Yep, some women are hoes.

[Verradonairun]

The only way to make sure she doesn't cheat is to "grab her by the belt" - the closer you are, the less likely that she's gonna cheat.

Also women don't like being stagnant, if she's with you for too long, there's nothing you can do to avoid her leaving you --- always do something fun involving others so that she won't feel like she's been with JUST YOU for too long.

[djaloshi69]

Old habbits die hard. Some women, no matter what you do, how much you care for them, they will always cheat. Some women love drama, some are selfish. I never understood, I have known women, or dated women, who have been in a horrible relationship, and left their partners for a while, then went back to them? Never understood that. In todays society, it is hard to please a women. No matter what you do. It's all about them. I think in a relationship it should always be 50/50. No 80/20

[chapaandrew]

@djaloshi69 you right man nomatter what you do to make them happy the would just go back to ther old bf i do not understand ether

[lucy9359]

@djaloshi69 go back to the basics...woman are designed differently than men are therefore it is not a 50/50 thing it is a how to fulfill each other 100% of the time... every human being has a selfish nature..woman will become demanding and selfish when they are neglected...woman are response oriented...what is she responding to, that is the question? no woman cheats who feels loved, appreciated, needed and wanted...the man who fails to give that to his wife leaves her open and vulnerable...

[djaloshi69]

@lucy9359 I Love America with all my heart. God has blessed this country in so many ways. But one thing that God hasn't blessed America with is: "Family morals and values"? You can be all you want to be, but majority of American's are missing one thing? Nature versus Nurture? Which it has and continue to destroy the American Family.

[lucy9359]

@djaloshi69 family values are up to the individual to pursue, that is why...I am not American I am Canadian, the system is the same but the culture is different...we are equally brainwashed by what we are told we are suppose to want and pursue...for example we know we will retire at age 65 when we are in high school,lol! I have come to a point where I am realizing nothing is what we were taught...relationships require more forgiveness now, when people have a whole lot less of it!

[1shnapdizzle]

this is the only peice of advice you need for dating:just compare a woman's intellengce to a animal and that about sums it up lol

[12dollarsand78cents]

It's WRONG how some people try to justify a woman's act of cheating.

AS IF that's somehow the man's fault. I think if you cheat, you are a CHEATER!!

Don't try to act as if you needed some attention, action, or emotional support. If you need more attention, action, or emotional support, let him know. If he doesn't understand or doesn't give a shit, let him know again. If that doesn't work and you don't like him , leave he's ass! But DON'T cheat on him!

THE SAME GOES FOR MEN TOO !

[lcserg87]

i am not an advisor but i can tell you something that is right women as men cheat for sex both are humans both have the same sex needs plus if you are not giving attention to him/her they will cheat other thing is thanks to society love took a third position when it comes to relationships people lost their values and respect for each other now is a game of interest what do you have i prefer the old fashion way not this crap of society

[MirooGamal]

its right women would cheat because emotional reasons the guy doesnt give them the care they want or if ther is something missing in him

or if he is caught flirting with girls more than a time xD!!!

[rockstar91989]

I can totally see why some of the men here, apparently, can't keep a woman. You're far too busy generalising and stereotyping.

Word to the wise: stop generalising and stereotyping women and you just might find you have better luck holding onto one.

[tetleydidley]

why some women cheat? because you give them such crappy wrong advice!

[GatorGarbage]

Cougar

[tevion1226]

Women also cheat just for sexual reasons, that have nothing to do with emotion. It's funny how everyone tries to rectify a womens act of cheating as if that's also somehow the man's fault. My theory is if you cheat, you are a CHEATER!! Don't try to act as if you needed some attention or emotional support. Because if you did you should have have let your husband or boyfriend know. Communication takes two.

[scorpio1066]

@tevion1226 well said - and to add it frusrates me that men are ostracized for being a a and thir needs are not taken as seriously as womans. one rule for all or no bloody rule at all

[raymonm5]

@tevion1226 YOU ARE VERY RIGHT

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@tevion1226 i don't think you should underestimate all women like that. i would never cheat but that's just me (honestly i think guys cheat more then girls but.. of course I'm a girl how would i no what guys think?? XD) and yeah i agree with you if your a cheater your a cheater! but most women don't cheat for sex i promise the only way they should cheat is if there not in love with the man so if there a cheater that means there not in love and should (NICELY!) tell the guy its time to move on x3

[LayDrayMusicTV]

@tevion1226 HELL YES WOMEN ARE PATHETIC THESE DAYS AND TAKE NO RESPONSIBILITY!!! FOR ANYTHING!!!

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@LayDrayMusicTV heh.. ^w^'' be reasonable now... not all women are like that... >.<''

[LayDrayMusicTV]

@EmoBloodSuckingPanda To be Honest you will be hard pressed to find a woman who isnt, I'm not going to argue I am just telling like it is...

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@LayDrayMusicTV yes, i understand that a lot of girls have turned into pig them selves I no I'm still in high school... but from what I've heard it's a lot like normal life outside of school, girls have gotten to be more slutty every day. sadly I'm really not sure why, people are so carefree with what could happen later on but I no it's hard to find a girl that wouldn't cheat... cause its the same way with guys sometime... (not trying to start a gender war just trying to help ^.^'' heh...!!!!)

[Kenshiroit]

@EmoBloodSuckingPanda it's the modern culture you know: I want everything and now. Tomorrow is not a issue!

[Kenshiroit]

@EmoBloodSuckingPanda dude it takes two to make a tango. Guys are exactly the same.

[EmoBloodSuckingPanda]

@Kenshiroit are you agreeing or disagreeing with me? >.<"

[Kenshiroit]

@EmoBloodSuckingPanda agreeing...

[nativemrv19722]

@tevion1226 Yeah. you right. They make it so cut and dry. Were bad and they are always the good guys. Not true. Women run around like men a lot today.

[sylvainh2o]

I know man but in the actual ''Women society'' that we live in, women can't be held responsible for their acts ^^

[kataryca]

@tevion1226 yes i agree if you cheat you are a cheater, and its your fault. but if you watch her why do men cheat video, youll see that she blames women for it, so shes not only saying its the mans fault people cheat.

[djaloshi69]

@tevion1226 I agree with your comment. but please explain this to me? I gave my ex-wife averything she wanted A mercedes bens, brand new, money in the bank account. And she was so stupid to use her debit card on places there, I could see were she was? I had 100,000 in our joint checking account she pissed it all away within a week. In crap she didn't even need? I additoned while back to be a porn star, and I know my size nor my sex drive had anything to do with her cheating?

[lucy9359]

@tevion1226 most woman do try to tell the man over and over and over and over again and he doesn't do anything about it in fact men who neglect woman enough for them to become vulnerable enough to cheat blame her and call her a nag if she tries to tell him...I spent 9 years with a guy like that I never cheated but I left him and I would never put myself in a position like that again!

[AapKiNisha]

It's not about money but yearning for something different and adventurous not to mention the risk element.

[gia7878]

Wow, I'm surprised but the strong emotions expressed here. I agree with the video. We are not all money hungry, psychos I promise...

[Virginiasensomia]

I agree!!! Women will cheat if they find someone with more money and more status!!! They don't care about guys that have to go out and work hard to earn a living in a honest way!!!

[BalthezarSenator]

...Well...If Your Gurl Cheated On You,It Will Be A Pain She'll Have To Live With It Forever,Not Many Women Can Do That To Ther Partners...But Then Again..Hey,Neva Know..

[Stunt101Rider]

women cheat wen they find som1 else with more money.

[ProstoSuperable]

@Stunt101Rider

I am more than sure there are thousands women who would sleep with you if you have money - yet would you please not speak for all, this becomes offensive for the other part of all women who would not sleep with you for anything in the whole world if they love their second half or simply have respect for themselves.

[sneakonproductionz]

she is referring to the women that cheat like an affair. when your g/f gets drunk and makes out or worse with some dude on a girls night out... its becuase, well they are immature and yes sorry thats a roundabout way of saying they are a dumb slut, if they do that to you, exact terrible revenge so at least they wont do it again to the next guy

[bnk1310]

All is fair in love and war.

[apocalypse105]

i am from holland sow dont mention my bad english

this is halve true, woman are verry emotional and want that emotions but variatan of emoticon like a rollecouster sometimes bad somethimes good. where is he this night? Why doenst he call me? He doenst say i love me always...... blabla

let here know that you still like here but not the full 100% or else it will be predictable and insipid

and she will search here amuse outside of the relationship

be a challenge

[abaskcasckbackj]

What this lady says is true, but there is more to it. Idont care how much u are emotionally into a chick. If you have a wimp ("yes dear"), your gonna get cheated on. If you start dating a female with some mental disorder (which is most of them), u could be both macho and sensitive to her emotional needs, shes still gonna look to cheat on ya.

[UniqueThaPoet]

people cheat because they have no communication skills...in my expereinece womens emotion go up and down and with them what they like and dont like...when women get cheated on usually its by a guy who dosent care for them or an asshole...when they find a good guy...they run for the hills...i beleieve media has had a huge role in women being like this...women now have more independence and with that came the destablization of relationships and marrigae...50 percent of childern just live w/ mom

[Bella4Chrissy]

Thats not true of all women and it makes me so sad to hear you say that. Those are SHALLOW women. The good ones you have to hunt for unfortunately. Women have to hunt for good men too. I could care less about materialistic stuff. What women really want out of a relationship is a CONNECTION. At least, thats how it is for me. Love isn't a feeling, its actions.

[powerrocket21]

Whoa whoa whoa whoa! ok first off i was in a relationship where i showed compassion, and love, and i did what i could to give her what she needed, and i was a great boyfriend to her, yet she still went out and cheated on me. you have to realize that no specific gender is excusable for cheating.  Men shouldn't be the only ones classified for cheating to satisfy some type of lust, there are plenty of women out there just like that. 2nd i agree with masterdwath, this video seems very bias

[sasukeskittenkoneko]

amen! thank you!!!! men take note.

[MasterDwath]

What a biased video. People, men and women are the same, and similar in nature. Yet, men that cheat are dogs, and women are just looking for what their missing...? You are completely sexist in your videos and comments.

Not to say the video is bad, and the ideas aren't coherent, but the way you state things just bashes whatever makes you a "specialist" in your field.

Karma comes around though, sometimes it bites back, and other times, it will punch in you right in the face!

[real1abcda]

laughed about the title why 'some' women cheat

[lifeaccordingtojez]

You're one sad man. Look .. Not all women are the same, just like all men are not the same. If you only meet the wrong kind then look at yourself; perhaps your attitude drives away anyone decent.

[commando211]

An old Egyptian say " when poor comes from the door, the love escapes from the window"..

So not all woman bad nor good...it depends.

[jaebony]

Your totally wrong women aren't cheating cuz of emotions they just want to get a better bf and can't controll their sexual emotions...

[OutSpokenGamer]

There is not justification for cheating. thats why cheating is callled cheating. there is no excuse. if you need the to cheat.. end the relationship

[TuscanWonder995]

That's why it's called why SOME women cheat.... not all.... not even necessarily the majority of cheating women... We're not giving women a free pass.. a hand pat and then move on.... it's just as wrong

[mightyhidden]

phhh, u should change the topic to ' Why All Women Cheat ' that would make it a bit more accurate

[magestic99]

too right .. i hear you mate .. i started to actually use women , sleep with them and afterthat i quit it . ''hit and run''.. before i get hit and lost

[pepperpeter007]

surprise surprise, womesn problems once again balmed on men. PATHETIC

[brightlights456X]

Too right!

[TruthBeyond]

Men cheat for emotional reasons too, emotions such as lust and ego. So there's not much difference.

[magestic99]

but what about when a man loves a woman , expresses his feelings , cares and always undertands her . and she ends up sleeping with someone else? andf whats the point in having being a reltionship when yo have always be updated. we are talkig about a reltionship, good/bad times always happen ,just cus one thing misses , a woman starts having sex with someone sle?

[NobodyKnowsPros]

i cant tell, like my friend is in a relationship and well hes the one that loves her, but she never really loved him like she thought she did. Like she had a very small crush on him, but now uhh she just wants to stick to being buds.... and well even though shes still in the relationship right now, she said she thinks she fell in love with another guy,..

is that considored cheating somehow? cause i asked my friends and they dont know (im a seventh grader)

[VRJensen1]

I couldn't agree more Alex!

Very well stated!

[akapellah21]

just leave them if they cheat. no matter what, cheating can never be justified. it's evil. and it hurts. does what the lady says apply to men??

[lota68]

...and all cars needs to be painted red

[tonyvalente]

depends where they work.

[linethmarie]

thats true but it depends on the women

[sravik]

So if a women is cheating and is not getting emotional support tell the truth and leave ur husband why cheat ???

[dawiseowl1111]

lust sums it up

[preetysunny]

do women cheats to their husband becz they fell in love with some other handsome guy or they do not  go for physical appearance.All they care about is how much someone love them?

[Bobzeaux]

Oh please.... If women cheated with the guy who fed their emotional needs because their boyfriend/husband did not, I'd have women crawling ALL OVER me. ;(

[notmyeverything]

The camera man is horrible!

xO

[Vannybanny09]

this is somewhat true but some women just cant control there sexual emotions...

[Closetscholar]

You mean they don't cheat because they want another dick? AH! I could have sworn thats what the main reason would be. I must be stupid. Women cheat because it's wayyyyy to easy for them.

[kirasilverstar]

A woman might also cheat, because she isn't getting enough physical affection. Like if her boyfriend is really distant, and never looks at her or takes the time to give her any physical pleasure, she might look for anyone who can give that to her. There are actually some guys actually have no libido, and this can be a challenge for a woman who likes intimacy, but her boyfriend or spouse thinks that making her feel good physically is "tiring" or "a waste if time".

[Raylet2]

A guy who does not want 'physical affection' thats a rare breed.

[jagajg]

she must be the biggest pain in the asss if the guy doesn't want to be intimate. Guy want convenience. Guys don't want hassles. Guys don't want to have complaining. Be a complete pain and the guy will avoid the woman like the plague.

[columbo1988]

I'm pretty sure she did,I'm in a bit of a dilemma,prolly the only reason why I even decided to check these vids out.

I got a question though, for a girl to go from only wanting me(her boyfriend) then ending up in school and having her bestfriend around all the time, does this mean shes looking for a different kind of serious relationship,or is she losing love?

[jagajg]

always with the friend(s) = no longer interested in you. Its risky but you gotta make a stand have a fight. If you're too nice she won't take you seriously. Tell her how pissed you are that you're not together more..When everything is out in the open you'll be more solid than ever. be calm - tell her that you really want her and you want to give it another try. With women sometimes getting her angry is the only way you will find out what is wrong before its to late.

[bfwangs457]

tnx ill try that:)

[bfwangs457]

like i swear the same thing happend to be i saw them on the feild hanging out sitting next to each outher at lunch.i dont know whats happening thats y i checked out these vids

[jaebony]

it's okay dude i was with my gf for more than 6 months but her best friend was a guy and a girl but the guy liked her and they still always stayed together. Just ignore it the fact is that she just needs to be nice to you...i think

[SapphireSkyKnight]

she's right but I also know for sure that she left out other things lol