WOW! thank you sir! thank you for your honest video on cheating. You have cemented the idea that men are incapable of monogamy. You have just given me yet another reason to RUN to the local sperm bank when i am ready for my babies and stay alone. At least i know there is ONE honest man out there! (you).
Except the morals and the opportunity...from experience (my situation and other peoples) I think when you corrected yourself by saying lack of morals is the reason cheaters...(not just men women too)...take the opportunity to cheat.
One thing I don't agree with is the gene men have that programs them to have to be with many women. I believe that god created men so to me that's like saying God created homosexuals when in fact he says that's an abomination to him. Basic idea...run with it :)
But everythang else...u a man I'm a woman I have no opinion just pen and paper lol
your reflection in the back looks like someone chopping weed. But i listened to everything else. Penguins mate for life. and a few other animals too. Men though smh sigh. stuppes (caribbean habit of sucking ur teeth)
lol Looking at this video prompted me to began a discussion on fb whether if its a primal genetic instinct for men to want to be with multiple females. Yea i dont know if I believe that I think different people do different things. i think lots of men just want to boink everything in a skirt.
Aha thank you for this video. I've always avoided guys with a too short, unspecific or abscent check list because i believe those guys are more likely to cheat as they are attracted to everything moving. I believe you just confirmed my suspicions with this video but please correct me if i'm wrong. I love your video's and respect your opinions.
This is sad, most men would not tell you that they are valueless cheating dogs. That is why we have a lot of fatherless black children and HIV and AIDS in our community because men don't know how to control their dicks.
Well gibbon apes, wolves, termites, coyotes, barn owls, beavers, bald eagles, golden eagles, condors, swans, brolga cranes, French angel fish, sandhill cranes, pigeons, prions (a seabird), red-tailed hawks, anglerfish, ospreys, prairie voles (a rodent), and black vultures — are a few that mate for life. Cheating is simply selfish and has nothing to do with our biological make up but rather time and opportunity....
There are species of animals that are monogamous (especially birds). And if male mammals have different female partners, then obviously the female mammals have different partners in their lifetimes. The black widow and praying mantis kill the males after sex! Men and women are different from animals in that they have a choice. Regardless of the reason he cheated, he made a conscious decision to step outside of his relationship. That's all that matters.
Women also aren't "genetically created monogamous" either. Being monogamous is a choice that either sex can choose, but when you make that commitment to someone you should keep it. If you don't want to keep it, break up with the other person!! It's that simple. Selfish cowards cheat.
Basically you hit the nail on the head. But what I what I find really funny though about that male checklist, is that guys don't even stick to their own list, hence the phrase "I'm not normally attracted to..." (bad pickup line) As I challenged some guy friends of mine when I was younger, if you want a woman who can cook, you should probably date a woman who can cook. IJS. Funny though, I've noticed some guys who cheat (especially on their wives) pursue women who look nothing like their women
Yeah he made a point that sme girls do make it hard. The way a lot of girls dress can be really tempting and can even make a guys thing go up lol...I am not excusing them, but a lot of girls do dress provacatively in order to get attention. A lot like to deny it, but let's be real, deep down they know that is why they do that, not b/c it's hot or they want to be free to express themselves.
Being from an african family, I was raised in a culture where women do everything for their man, but I am not putting up with that bullshit. They end up taking you for granting. While you are busy taking care of your home and the kids and cooking for him, he is out fucking some whore. Men don't appreciate women who are good to them. What women should do is be more strict. Split the housework with him and make him work around the house. Also spend his money, b/c if you don't, some other girl will
wow, okay hearing things like this makes me strongly dislike men. I feel like they are all prone to cheating any way. I am not going to make a lot of sacrifices for a man b/c he is not worth it. What is the point of cooking, cleaning, having his children, fulfilling his sexual needs only for you to be replaced by some whore.
wtf man wat do we as women suppose to do, if we do everything and everything to a man that we love and are in a relationship with, if his azz is gonna cheat?? and becus he wants sumthn new?? smh our pickings is gettn maddddd slim out her. I dnt think the most beautiful woman in the world would even be enuff:/
I think this is so true unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way, my first serious relationship ended with him sleeping around with my sister. Fortunately, I was strong enough to forgive and move on, I moved on to something so much better :) I love your video, your abs and your home.
I agree, truth, that just shows how SIMPLE and doggish most of guys is.So basically yeah guys r like animals. One word: INSTINCT, that what leads them.
This same question was asked by my friend and this response is the only one besides yours that I can rock with: Aaron Burnette over the earth and was willing to give that up for a bite of an apple the Eve tempted him to eat then we dont stand a chance! (part 2 of 2)
This same question was asked by my friend and this response is the only one besides yours that I can rock with: Aaron Burnette a man's only weakness is women. i mean you all are God's greatest creations. You all were created to be pleasing to us and temptation from a woman is something that men could never resist. I mean if Adam walked and talked with God on the daily and was given power and dominon (part 1 of 2)
Respect. Mos def sharing on my "Dear Younger Self:" Blog where I go back in time retrospectively speaking, to share then, what i know now to younger me hoping to educate the young ladies of today and make their learning curve less painful. Not every lesson learned needs to be hard or yours. If we were raised the same & given the same real talk, there wouldn't be all this mis-understanding. It's also therapeutic for me to have a so to speak "Do Over" lol.
That can't be entirely true. I know of a situation where the guy pursued the other girl to cheat while being in a relationship with someone else. Men can't lean on that excuse that it's innate. I will say that that's the case 85% of the time... This just makes me too mad.... Men.... Love your videos though....
@KIM4keepitmovin u know i DID mention somethin in there about values. obviously the fellow in your case didnt value his woman at all. the other factors just contributed to him cheating. the main cause was how much he did not value his woman
real thing just really real I can't even explain how it is I am proud of this and I'm glad I know how it is I have no cousins I see by example not by me just let s figure it out I'm glad I figured it out that leaves me being single for 3 and a half years but I'm taking it a day at a time
I always think the more appropriate question is why do people cheat? I always feel there is just too much hypocrisy around the topic of cheating and men are always the target when I feel that women do just the same or even more than men. Women are just better liars. I should know I'm a woman.
Did you come up with the "not having a value system" concept mid video??? Either way it was brilliant and probably at the core of why people do things in general. I also agree with your point that there has to be TWO willing participants in order for cheating to take place. Great video!!!
I watched Basketball Wives last night. Smh @ Chad and Eve. Chad is clearly not ready to settle down. If you're not familiar with their story: Chad told her he wasn't going to "cut off" past relationships (delete phone numbers) just because he's now engaged? WTH?!? That's a CLEAR sign he's NOT ready to settle down. Great vid btw :-)
@LuBellaCoils Seriously!!!!! I was like did she hear wat he jus said. Then he overrides it by saying let sleep together. If your willing to put up with that foolishness then dont be surprise when he cheats. The man is being up front with you and you decide to remain in the relationship on those terms. SMDH!!!! WAKE UP LADIES!
@immaDstarra Yes that was the clincher lol! "I want to fu**".....smh. He played her on their very first date when he told her she was "alright" looking and could improve in some areas. Even before that when they Skyped and he threatened to hang up on her. He is definitely letting her know who he is upfront. She's not going to change him.
I also think it's not only when they don't have values, but also the 'birds of a feather’ they flock with. If you’re with a group of dudes who think nothing of cheating, chances are you will act the same way to save face.
Some men/women will never ever be monogamous and should be honest with people they get involved with. Let them know up front I am not looking for a serious relationship and my interest in you is physical and nothing more.
most men cheat!!! they are selfish bastards. im never getting married. i now know that most men that are married, cheat on their wives. i want to be able to leave with no court system if a man cheated on me. i would never stay with a guy that cheated on me. i deserve better. much better.
@afrikahchick do u? do u REALLY believe u deserve better?? if u did u'd have at least one positive comment to leave on a vid. all u ever put out is negativity which lets me know that's basically what u harbor. how can u expect life to improve if u only speak negativity? u dont think u deserve better, it just sounded nice to say.
@sjsafety18 yes i do believe that i deserve better. i wasnt being negative. i was being realistic. i deserve a man that doesnt cheat on me. i deserve a man that will respect me because i will respect him. i deserve a man that will be faithful to me becasue i know i would be faithful to him. you know that most married men cheat. that is a fact. i deserve a man that will respect the vows that we make before god. most men wont.
@afrikahchick I read your response and it came off as very negative to me. You said that you will never marry because you believe most men cheat. If you ever do meet a good man you are probably not gonna really give him a chance because in your mind you will feel like hes gonna cheat on you.
@KokoGigglesLots i wasnt being negative. i was being realistic. most men cheat. most men dont honor marriage vows. i've never been cheated on because i've never been in a relationship. you can go ahead and make your assumptions on why. if a good man came along, i might give a side eye to everything he says and does. it would be hard to give him a chance, but he would cheat even if i did everything right. marriage is important to me and i only want to do it once but i'm never going to do it.
@kattaplay did i say that? no. i wont marrry because most men dont value marriage vows. i dont want to be a divorced women. i dont want to be a statistic. it would easier for me to leave if i was not married to a guy that cheated on me. men cheat no matter what situation they are in. ok.
@afrikahchick no they dont hats not true its obviously just the boys you know. u dont want to a a statistic ? please... its the statistic that says black women are not getting married and are single ... that is a bigger statistic than married men cheating mate .....
@kattaplay another thing. you dont know me. black women deserve not to settle for any type of man. as long as their standards are realistic, a black women deserves to be with a man who is on her level or above it. ok. #imdone
@afrikahchick yes and u dont know me either ... so ur trying to say that other races of women should settle for any kind of man because they aren't black ? god made marriage for a purpose he is not stupid ! dont get married girl you'll regret it when ur old ! peace!
@kattaplay did i say that? i was talking about just black women. no women of any race should settle for any man. marriage is just a piece of a paper. that's my opinion. if your a man that doesnt cheat. good for you. i'll stick my opinion. please learn to respect other people's opinion. i wont regret not being married. there are a lot of people who are in healthy and happy long term relationships. . #imreallydone
@afrikahchick marriage is not a peice of paper it a coventant between two peoplw and god but men who think like U and feel like its only a peice of paper and nothing else cheat.....dont get married u'll regret it when ur an old lady havent u realised old people that have been in a relationship for a long time are not boyfriend and girlfriend love ...looool...PEACE!
hmmm seems like for most men cheating is inevitable...so what is the solution for us ladies? I aint willing to share no dick...lmfao!!!!
I have to agree fully with your prespective though. I find that when a man cheats on his girl it's almost never for the better. More often than non it's with some chick that aint worth shit and they end up ruining a good relationship...an orgasm may last 5-8 sec. but love can last a lifetime...
hmmm seems like for most men cheating is inevitable...so what is the solution for us ladies? I aint willing to share no dick...lmfao!!!!
I have to agree fully with your prespective though. I find that when a man cheats on his girl it's almost never for the better. More often than non it's with some chick that aint worth shit and they end up ruining a good relationship...an orgasm may last 5-8 sec. but love can last a lifetime...
Yay first to comment! :) its good to see why guys cheat and what makes them cheat! :) but i also heard that its not about the looks, the sex etc.. its about them getting "Bored" so that explains that even if you have the hottest hollywood boyfriend/girlfriend, they will always end up probably cheating.
So in love with your realness....LOVE IT!
Hairwegro 2 days ago 2
great vid
nicegurl35 1 week ago
Why Do Women Cheat?
blckla999 2 weeks ago
WOW! thank you sir! thank you for your honest video on cheating. You have cemented the idea that men are incapable of monogamy. You have just given me yet another reason to RUN to the local sperm bank when i am ready for my babies and stay alone. At least i know there is ONE honest man out there! (you).
MistressMurda 2 weeks ago
Except the morals and the opportunity...from experience (my situation and other peoples) I think when you corrected yourself by saying lack of morals is the reason cheaters...(not just men women too)...take the opportunity to cheat.
kikireppin09 2 weeks ago
One thing I don't agree with is the gene men have that programs them to have to be with many women. I believe that god created men so to me that's like saying God created homosexuals when in fact he says that's an abomination to him. Basic idea...run with it :)
But everythang else...u a man I'm a woman I have no opinion just pen and paper lol
kikireppin09 2 weeks ago
ummm God made adam had eve it wasnt adam and eve and latoya and latasha , men are made for one woman they just use the excuse.
lilbusrider 3 weeks ago 3
@lilbusrider yeah, that evolution/species excuse is just bullsh*t
TheDoritosfan1 3 weeks ago
your reflection in the back looks like someone chopping weed. But i listened to everything else. Penguins mate for life. and a few other animals too. Men though smh sigh. stuppes (caribbean habit of sucking ur teeth)
gngirl1 3 weeks ago
I needed this! Thank you sweetie!
OnlyOneDivaC 4 weeks ago
Penguins mate for life. How about that?
MsFrisco87 1 month ago
I value your body too. lol. haha
ElleChi24 1 month ago 2
good explanation but it hurts to hear.
Sosokd23 1 month ago
i watch ur vids just to hear you say "like that" i love it. u should make a whole vid witchu sayin it hahahah
iloveburgos 1 month ago
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ebjones33 1 month ago
3:12 3:16 epic.. love your videos
ebjones33 1 month ago
LOL will you marry me? i already named our kids.
iamthethirdrev9 1 month ago 19
your so smart. i watched like 6 of your videos just now. Very entertaining, and intelligent.
burnett121 1 month ago 4
Haaaaaa so true about the difference in the 'what are you looking for' list. Thanks for this
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lol Looking at this video prompted me to began a discussion on fb whether if its a primal genetic instinct for men to want to be with multiple females. Yea i dont know if I believe that I think different people do different things. i think lots of men just want to boink everything in a skirt.
TheIndependentRep 1 month ago
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TheIndependentRep 1 month ago
Love It!!!!!!
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Aha thank you for this video. I've always avoided guys with a too short, unspecific or abscent check list because i believe those guys are more likely to cheat as they are attracted to everything moving. I believe you just confirmed my suspicions with this video but please correct me if i'm wrong. I love your video's and respect your opinions.
Atemaatra 1 month ago
CAN YOU BE MY BOYFRIEND LOL
keyboardqueen100 1 month ago
You are extremely Dreamy. #pointblankperiod
Nikki30263 1 month ago 2
You should read Osho's Being In Love. You seem like a reader.
mysyslfni 2 months ago
this video is truly an "EYE OPENER"...
xDestinyCharisma 2 months ago
Very enlightening
shontapl 2 months ago
truth.com
iseeyofuggery 2 months ago
I meant momma lol...Damn autocorrect.
YaYaHaze 2 months ago
Wow....they do exist..monks did a good job.
YaYaHaze 2 months ago
I don't think its human nature to be monogamous....it's a decision/agreement that is made.
InNouterbeauty07 2 months ago
Geez. It'd be nice to bump into a brotha like you.
Peachesfolife 2 months ago
Articulate, respectfully straight to the point, self-aware, SUBSCRIBED!!
fitnfun200338106 2 months ago
Good video, sir! BTW: that hat is on point!
Oneprettymamma 2 months ago
LOL! I love this :)
hotandgroovy 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Agreed. Men cheat cuz ultimately the dude DGAF, point blank.
Kwaagoe1 2 months ago
Nice vid. homie. It was straight to the point, no sugar coating, and...just plain out real!
desaless 2 months ago
This is sad, most men would not tell you that they are valueless cheating dogs. That is why we have a lot of fatherless black children and HIV and AIDS in our community because men don't know how to control their dicks.
QueenWandaful 2 months ago
Well gibbon apes, wolves, termites, coyotes, barn owls, beavers, bald eagles, golden eagles, condors, swans, brolga cranes, French angel fish, sandhill cranes, pigeons, prions (a seabird), red-tailed hawks, anglerfish, ospreys, prairie voles (a rodent), and black vultures — are a few that mate for life. Cheating is simply selfish and has nothing to do with our biological make up but rather time and opportunity....
nicolejfranklin 2 months ago 3
Yo this guy is that truth!
chayil1081 2 months ago 2
There are species of animals that are monogamous (especially birds). And if male mammals have different female partners, then obviously the female mammals have different partners in their lifetimes. The black widow and praying mantis kill the males after sex! Men and women are different from animals in that they have a choice. Regardless of the reason he cheated, he made a conscious decision to step outside of his relationship. That's all that matters.
NaturalLady102190 2 months ago 5
INTERESTING TOPIC ABOUT THE ANIMALS IT MAKES SENSE
bj9oliverr 2 months ago
lol this video makes me worry about every woman who is just "there" now!
133anne 2 months ago 3
@133anne worry about how much he values u instead
sjsafety18 2 months ago 16
Women also aren't "genetically created monogamous" either. Being monogamous is a choice that either sex can choose, but when you make that commitment to someone you should keep it. If you don't want to keep it, break up with the other person!! It's that simple. Selfish cowards cheat.
ainokisu 2 months ago
Yeah that value system goes both ways and that's why people cheat...
Bobbi705 2 months ago
hahahahah @ 2.57-3.14 classic
Ladielee832 2 months ago
Basically you hit the nail on the head. But what I what I find really funny though about that male checklist, is that guys don't even stick to their own list, hence the phrase "I'm not normally attracted to..." (bad pickup line) As I challenged some guy friends of mine when I was younger, if you want a woman who can cook, you should probably date a woman who can cook. IJS. Funny though, I've noticed some guys who cheat (especially on their wives) pursue women who look nothing like their women
JayneMariefromDet 2 months ago
You speak the truth love that!
Creatisha 2 months ago
I absolutely love the realness of this video
NaturallyKira 2 months ago
so do you feel you are going to cheat on your lady?
NaturallyNerdeeNicol 2 months ago
I don't want to be cheated on though :(
vikki12307 2 months ago
What are you doing watching Taren? How do you know about natural hair?! You're refreshing!
mzpatriciakeller 2 months ago
so should women ask men if they have a value system before they get involved?
kiddOFkix 2 months ago in playlist More videos from sjsafety18
@kiddOFkix heck YEAH!!
sjsafety18 2 months ago 10
THIS IS THE SAME THING MY EX AND 3 OF HIS BOYS SAID WHEN WE WERE HAVING THE CHEATING DISCUSSION...BECAUSE THE CURIOSITY OF DIFFERENT P*SSY
marcie101080 3 months ago
I loooooooooooove this video! Well spoken! love it!
MsCandyJo 3 months ago
your gorgeous.....oh and great video :o)
mookie1228 3 months ago
that was a really good point you made in your video thank you for your insight :)
izzylove316 3 months ago
Thanks for keeping it real
VirgoTink 3 months ago
wow this was very informative an very honest, thanks for sharing ur new subbie,oh an it helps that ur easy on the eye
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Nicely spoken!!!
Tiffronee 3 months ago
Omg this is what i call brutally honest !! Damn the truth sure can be scary. Thanks for sharing!!
FrenchieG 3 months ago
Yeah he made a point that sme girls do make it hard. The way a lot of girls dress can be really tempting and can even make a guys thing go up lol...I am not excusing them, but a lot of girls do dress provacatively in order to get attention. A lot like to deny it, but let's be real, deep down they know that is why they do that, not b/c it's hot or they want to be free to express themselves.
misscamara12 4 months ago
Being from an african family, I was raised in a culture where women do everything for their man, but I am not putting up with that bullshit. They end up taking you for granting. While you are busy taking care of your home and the kids and cooking for him, he is out fucking some whore. Men don't appreciate women who are good to them. What women should do is be more strict. Split the housework with him and make him work around the house. Also spend his money, b/c if you don't, some other girl will
misscamara12 4 months ago
wow, okay hearing things like this makes me strongly dislike men. I feel like they are all prone to cheating any way. I am not going to make a lot of sacrifices for a man b/c he is not worth it. What is the point of cooking, cleaning, having his children, fulfilling his sexual needs only for you to be replaced by some whore.
misscamara12 4 months ago
wtf man wat do we as women suppose to do, if we do everything and everything to a man that we love and are in a relationship with, if his azz is gonna cheat?? and becus he wants sumthn new?? smh our pickings is gettn maddddd slim out her. I dnt think the most beautiful woman in the world would even be enuff:/
CharmCityDollMissB 5 months ago
I love Taren916!!!!!!!!!!!
Skyy2121 5 months ago
You said a mouth full Wow, very straight forward!!!!Sexy Self:-)
GodsBeautifulGirl77 5 months ago
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GodsBeautifulGirl77 5 months ago
No connection: you are soooo fine!
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I think this is so true unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way, my first serious relationship ended with him sleeping around with my sister. Fortunately, I was strong enough to forgive and move on, I moved on to something so much better :) I love your video, your abs and your home.
NaturalBeautiQueen 5 months ago
I agree, truth, that just shows how SIMPLE and doggish most of guys is.So basically yeah guys r like animals. One word: INSTINCT, that what leads them.
ylluminations 6 months ago
:) all i gotta do is look good, carry myself well, cook and suck d----. that definitely helps take the pressure off. thanks for that.
starkitty7000 6 months ago
SUBBING! REALEST CHIT I'VE HEARD N A LONG AZZ TIME. VERY REFRESHING!!!!!!!
hedmaime 6 months ago
You are too funny and cute!! Had to sub.
RosiLeouis80 6 months ago
This is the 2nd best answer I have ever heard from a man. 1st best answer is from my boyfriend. LOL
KokoGigglesLots 6 months ago
This same question was asked by my friend and this response is the only one besides yours that I can rock with: Aaron Burnette over the earth and was willing to give that up for a bite of an apple the Eve tempted him to eat then we dont stand a chance! (part 2 of 2)
July 19 at 6:36pm
Icooka4u 6 months ago
This same question was asked by my friend and this response is the only one besides yours that I can rock with: Aaron Burnette a man's only weakness is women. i mean you all are God's greatest creations. You all were created to be pleasing to us and temptation from a woman is something that men could never resist. I mean if Adam walked and talked with God on the daily and was given power and dominon (part 1 of 2)
July 19 at 6:36pm
Icooka4u 6 months ago
Respect. Mos def sharing on my "Dear Younger Self:" Blog where I go back in time retrospectively speaking, to share then, what i know now to younger me hoping to educate the young ladies of today and make their learning curve less painful. Not every lesson learned needs to be hard or yours. If we were raised the same & given the same real talk, there wouldn't be all this mis-understanding. It's also therapeutic for me to have a so to speak "Do Over" lol.
Icooka4u 6 months ago
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything
Illaqueen 6 months ago
That can't be entirely true. I know of a situation where the guy pursued the other girl to cheat while being in a relationship with someone else. Men can't lean on that excuse that it's innate. I will say that that's the case 85% of the time... This just makes me too mad.... Men.... Love your videos though....
KIM4keepitmovin 6 months ago
@KIM4keepitmovin u know i DID mention somethin in there about values. obviously the fellow in your case didnt value his woman at all. the other factors just contributed to him cheating. the main cause was how much he did not value his woman
sjsafety18 6 months ago
Another great video, my friend!
kristenjdec 6 months ago
real thing just really real I can't even explain how it is I am proud of this and I'm glad I know how it is I have no cousins I see by example not by me just let s figure it out I'm glad I figured it out that leaves me being single for 3 and a half years but I'm taking it a day at a time
MsIntellectual08 6 months ago
He's absolutely adorable in this video..funny but def honest. I wonder if he's single?
Lol
tonyatolver 6 months ago
@tonyatolver thanx im happy to be adorable erry now and again lol.. and im currently talking to someone
sjsafety18 6 months ago
oh wow...thanks for your perspective.. appreciate that
TheNaturallycool 6 months ago
if a man is tired of me...than he needs to find a new woman...point blank.
TheMorgz14 6 months ago
lmaooooooooo
iluvnyc07 6 months ago
I always think the more appropriate question is why do people cheat? I always feel there is just too much hypocrisy around the topic of cheating and men are always the target when I feel that women do just the same or even more than men. Women are just better liars. I should know I'm a woman.
MichyGW 6 months ago
great vid man. God bless.
cocoyuuu 6 months ago
Great video, vey interesting information.
BeautyFullNaJar 6 months ago
Thank you for your honesty!
beemaac 6 months ago
Straight to the point and honest i like this response awesome video :)
immaDstarra 6 months ago
Did you come up with the "not having a value system" concept mid video??? Either way it was brilliant and probably at the core of why people do things in general. I also agree with your point that there has to be TWO willing participants in order for cheating to take place. Great video!!!
darealthickness 6 months ago 2
I watched Basketball Wives last night. Smh @ Chad and Eve. Chad is clearly not ready to settle down. If you're not familiar with their story: Chad told her he wasn't going to "cut off" past relationships (delete phone numbers) just because he's now engaged? WTH?!? That's a CLEAR sign he's NOT ready to settle down. Great vid btw :-)
LuBellaCoils 6 months ago
@LuBellaCoils Seriously!!!!! I was like did she hear wat he jus said. Then he overrides it by saying let sleep together. If your willing to put up with that foolishness then dont be surprise when he cheats. The man is being up front with you and you decide to remain in the relationship on those terms. SMDH!!!! WAKE UP LADIES!
immaDstarra 6 months ago
@immaDstarra Yes that was the clincher lol! "I want to fu**".....smh. He played her on their very first date when he told her she was "alright" looking and could improve in some areas. Even before that when they Skyped and he threatened to hang up on her. He is definitely letting her know who he is upfront. She's not going to change him.
LuBellaCoils 6 months ago
I also think it's not only when they don't have values, but also the 'birds of a feather’ they flock with. If you’re with a group of dudes who think nothing of cheating, chances are you will act the same way to save face.
WhatDawnDidInHeels 6 months ago
Great response. I was thinking the same thing.
LekiaLPTBeauty 6 months ago
Some men/women will never ever be monogamous and should be honest with people they get involved with. Let them know up front I am not looking for a serious relationship and my interest in you is physical and nothing more.
tanyatmr 6 months ago 2
You and Taren should do a perspectives colabo video!! Love both of you :)
radiahmaria 6 months ago 9
I was this close 2 going thru this laptop and stealin that fitted or snapback or whatever ppl call it lol
jyabriel08 6 months ago
Very true as far as men having no rhyme or reason for cheating... smh...
Loveisit15 6 months ago
lol @ the eddie murphy reference "why, why. why. why why?"
great vid!
msredwun 6 months ago
btw: I must share this on my blog :)
Kinkycurlycoil 6 months ago
@Kinkycurlycoil WORD?! yo i appreciate it! thank u!
sjsafety18 6 months ago 2
most men cheat!!! they are selfish bastards. im never getting married. i now know that most men that are married, cheat on their wives. i want to be able to leave with no court system if a man cheated on me. i would never stay with a guy that cheated on me. i deserve better. much better.
afrikahchick 6 months ago
@afrikahchick do u? do u REALLY believe u deserve better?? if u did u'd have at least one positive comment to leave on a vid. all u ever put out is negativity which lets me know that's basically what u harbor. how can u expect life to improve if u only speak negativity? u dont think u deserve better, it just sounded nice to say.
sjsafety18 6 months ago 21
@sjsafety18 yes i do believe that i deserve better. i wasnt being negative. i was being realistic. i deserve a man that doesnt cheat on me. i deserve a man that will respect me because i will respect him. i deserve a man that will be faithful to me becasue i know i would be faithful to him. you know that most married men cheat. that is a fact. i deserve a man that will respect the vows that we make before god. most men wont.
afrikahchick 6 months ago
@afrikahchick I read your response and it came off as very negative to me. You said that you will never marry because you believe most men cheat. If you ever do meet a good man you are probably not gonna really give him a chance because in your mind you will feel like hes gonna cheat on you.
KokoGigglesLots 6 months ago
@KokoGigglesLots i wasnt being negative. i was being realistic. most men cheat. most men dont honor marriage vows. i've never been cheated on because i've never been in a relationship. you can go ahead and make your assumptions on why. if a good man came along, i might give a side eye to everything he says and does. it would be hard to give him a chance, but he would cheat even if i did everything right. marriage is important to me and i only want to do it once but i'm never going to do it.
afrikahchick 6 months ago
@afrikahchick oh so if u dont marry ur man wont cheat then ?
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@kattaplay did i say that? no. i wont marrry because most men dont value marriage vows. i dont want to be a divorced women. i dont want to be a statistic. it would easier for me to leave if i was not married to a guy that cheated on me. men cheat no matter what situation they are in. ok.
afrikahchick 2 months ago
@afrikahchick no they dont hats not true its obviously just the boys you know. u dont want to a a statistic ? please... its the statistic that says black women are not getting married and are single ... that is a bigger statistic than married men cheating mate .....
kattaplay 2 months ago
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afrikahchick 2 months ago
@kattaplay another thing. you dont know me. black women deserve not to settle for any type of man. as long as their standards are realistic, a black women deserves to be with a man who is on her level or above it. ok. #imdone
afrikahchick 2 months ago
@afrikahchick yes and u dont know me either ... so ur trying to say that other races of women should settle for any kind of man because they aren't black ? god made marriage for a purpose he is not stupid ! dont get married girl you'll regret it when ur old ! peace!
kattaplay 2 months ago
@kattaplay did i say that? i was talking about just black women. no women of any race should settle for any man. marriage is just a piece of a paper. that's my opinion. if your a man that doesnt cheat. good for you. i'll stick my opinion. please learn to respect other people's opinion. i wont regret not being married. there are a lot of people who are in healthy and happy long term relationships. . #imreallydone
afrikahchick 2 months ago
@afrikahchick marriage is not a peice of paper it a coventant between two peoplw and god but men who think like U and feel like its only a peice of paper and nothing else cheat.....dont get married u'll regret it when ur an old lady havent u realised old people that have been in a relationship for a long time are not boyfriend and girlfriend love ...looool...PEACE!
kattaplay 2 months ago
Can't argue with that! Great response !
Kinkycurlycoil 6 months ago 3
@Kinkycurlycoil thanx girl!
sjsafety18 6 months ago
hmmm seems like for most men cheating is inevitable...so what is the solution for us ladies? I aint willing to share no dick...lmfao!!!!
I have to agree fully with your prespective though. I find that when a man cheats on his girl it's almost never for the better. More often than non it's with some chick that aint worth shit and they end up ruining a good relationship...an orgasm may last 5-8 sec. but love can last a lifetime...
ElPressie 6 months ago
hmmm seems like for most men cheating is inevitable...so what is the solution for us ladies? I aint willing to share no dick...lmfao!!!!
I have to agree fully with your prespective though. I find that when a man cheats on his girl it's almost never for the better. More often than non it's with some chick that aint worth shit and they end up ruining a good relationship...an orgasm may last 5-8 sec. but love can last a lifetime...
ElPressie 6 months ago
@ElPressie Well said!
tanyatmr 6 months ago
Yay first to comment! :) its good to see why guys cheat and what makes them cheat! :) but i also heard that its not about the looks, the sex etc.. its about them getting "Bored" so that explains that even if you have the hottest hollywood boyfriend/girlfriend, they will always end up probably cheating.
Gmax69 6 months ago
@Gmax69 Hallie Berry can attest to that!
longleggedginger777 6 months ago