Relationships and trust, telling lies

[DianaNanaBanana]

I needed to hear some straight to the point good advice and this is what I was looking for. I've been the one cheated on and you are absolutely right, it is not easy to forget but it is really pointless in bringing up the past when you're trying to fix the problem to move on. Thank you for these real words of advice.

[unique74muzik]

im glad its over...u can fool around and catch a case on some bs staying in a f--ked up relationship....it aint worth it...there are way too many that know how to act...gots to keep it moving...

[unique74muzik]

my dude...needed to hear this! Respect!

[LaizaUSA]

You are awesome. I am trying to get over a lie that hurts my relationship and me. I have been to the psychologist and I work hard on it. However, nothing helped me. I think you are asesome and you speak wise " forgive means not bring up that issue again." what you said I compared with my relastionship and you are right. I would bring out the same issue into our fights and he will always try to proof me that he is not lieing.

thx I think this will help me to get over it somehow. Thx again.

[marcela718]

your soooo right man i needed that i just went through a breakup was cheated on

[prisoner810]

If you have got anything else on relevant real-life topics I'll show it to the class... It's not important that i agree with you and what you are saying,,, what IS important is that you tell it from the heart... coz kids know bull-shit immediately...that is why i chose this clip to show them.... i can tell it's from the heart, and your speaking is clear and the sound is fine to play in class plus you don't talk tooooo fast....thank you again..........jc

[prisoner810]

let me tell you what i do.....

i am an ENGLISH AS A SECOND LANGUAGE Teacher...I have been doin this for 8 years and when i get a class like i have now i like to let them use the English they already know to learn about real life stuff - stuff they never taught me at school.... like relationships, marriage, kids, drugs, violence, money, friendships, working, etc....

[prisoner810]

clean information........very nice stuff and i will show it to my class...........j

[megoins73]

Thankyou!!! What class do you teach??

[prisoner810]

i teach years 6, 7, & 8 in the MALDIVES. but next year we will have more students, i think...i'm an english teacher but i want to give them 'life lessons' not crap out of a book... i'll tell you how it goes over with them if u wish.....................(musl­im country)....................jc

[megoins73]

Most Def I would like to know how it goes!!! Thankyou. I really appreciate the very large compliment.

[uniQuefashionable]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO....

THANK U SO MUCH FOR PUTTIN THIS OUT THERE....

U ARE SoOOOoOO RITE...!!!!

[sparrow2791]

great advice while keeping is absolutely real!!! I nvr had trust issues until I met this one guy. I like him alot and thought he was the one, but at times he can be shady. Saying shit to me that I've said to a nigga- that I fucked around on. I'm like I've used that mofukin story before. I'm at a point where I'm tired of games. He's 43, I'm 37...the shit has to stop somewhere.

[FranBoss18]

I've remained friends with one girl that cheated on me coz i had a shit load of time away from her and we recently are talking now and are having a laugh. time helps, don't rush.

[megoins73]

Thats cool.. If someone can get to that point then it can be awesome time!!! I'm still working on that with my EX.

[FranBoss18]

this lad knows his shit, you can try and try to work the stuff out like cheating etc. But once its happened you can never forgive that person, i've forgotten about it coz i know in myself relationships ain't everything in life. I eventually ran from the girl. coz i couldn't trust her for shit, once you've been cheated on its almost like ur under a spell. you miss the happiness and the person that gave it to u so u ignore the pain, then one day weeks, or months down the line you wake up.

[2drops0fwater]

what you think of a lie detector test? they like 200 dollar in the yellow pages ads

[MissQT4Sure]

Nice vid...it is hard to trust again...i had a guy tell me that I should live my life as if I was never hurt by another and I tried. I feel less stress but i always find myself not believin what a guy says. I think ppl should go back to 3 strikes ur out...

[megoins73]

Well that is impossible. How about you just act like you don't have feelings while you're at it. That is the most rediculous thing I've ever heard and I've heard some stupid stuff.. Its hard to believe anyone when someone you cared about and you gave your trust to disrepects you in a bad way. And has a total disregard for your feelings. I've been cheated on and the only way you can find whats real is to still let people in. But always with your eyes wide open!

[danieyellen]

I am a female going threw exactly what you speak of only i am married with 2 young boys i just caught him 3 weeks ago but hes been lien to me about every thing 4 ever i search his shit constanly it drives me crazy even though i know i cant stop him i still do it but theres a song by cherish unappreciated she says my heart says go but my feet wnt move thats how i feel.

[logondummy123]

How do you deal with that shit? Its crazy. Its been half an year now since my shit happened.

I still feel the same way. Thinking about whether she is cheating on me again or whatever..

my god. are cheaters always cheaters?

[MissQT4Sure]

I dont believe once a cheater always a cheater but the only way u kno would be to give that person one more chance to get it right if not.,...tell em to kick rocks

[MissQT4Sure]

Been there...hope u got out of it. Every woman should kno her worth