OK... I'm 5 months pregnant and have a question??? Does it hurt giving birth? I'm 21. Does it give a lot of pain to the stomach? All the videos ive seen it seems like it does.
@TheBrook345 I can only describe it as the worst pain you could imagine BUT it is totally bearable! The contractions are the most painful you will feel them more than the baby coming out. You can do it girl! This is what women are made for! Best of luck to you, And congratulations!
You look like you were sooo out of it... you look just like one of my friends and when I first looked at the thumbnail, I was like WHAT !!! I didnt knnow she had a baby lol! :) Congrats!
@mrskylehayward I had my first with epi and shook bad, the last 2 totally drug free. I had a OB the first time and midwife the last 2, my rips on this last baby were minimal I needed stitched but never felt it afterwards. baby 2 was 8lbs 14 oz and baby 3 a girl was 6lb 12oz lol a LOT smaller.
@strawberryme08 bless ya! Both my sons were born at 37 weeks. first one was 6lb 13 oz and this one was 7lb 5 oz. hes almost 9 lbs now i couldnt imagine giving birth to him how big he is right now lol.
@Biancajjsidney I am so sorry about not seeing this message and sending you a list of books! {or did I and I can't remember doing it?} I will send u a private email to u and post some books on this list.
@kismutt1 I have never heard that you don't rip with a natural {as in drug free} childbirth. The shaking is TOTALLY normal regardless of what kind of birth you have vaginal or epidural. It's just one of the phases of the birth process your body hypes up to get the baby out in that very last part then the adrenalin is in your system. I have been stitched all 3 times with the shakes. no problem. They put warm blankets on me and that helped a bit.
@strawberryme08 I just had my second baby and I Didnt rip at all. It was a drug free and through a midwife rather than the ob i had the first time around. I wasnt shaking afterwards either. every person is different, If you ripped and shook everytime you gave birth than hats just how your body is. In a drug free (no epi) you can feel so you get more efficient pushes in.
ok thats the dumbest thing I've EVER heard!!! They will tell u a lot of things that are not true, just to make it easier for the doc. On your next baby you really really should get more educated on the medical "fads" around medical births etc. if u would like a list of amazing books to learn from and help u avoid medical interventions I will give u the list there are 2 or 3 i LOVE and have learned so much. like how even an IV can slow labor and make it less effective etc..
@strawberryme08 I was only medicated after the birth i didnt have an epidural or even have an iv while i was having him. I plan to have a at-home-birth with my next baby. I had my son in a military hospital and hated everything about it.
@strawberryme08 I was only medicated after the birth i didnt have an epidural or even have an iv while i was having him. I plan to have a at-home-birth with my next baby. I had my son in a military hospital and hated everything about it.
@Biancajjsidney Try "Natural Hospital Birth: The Best of Both Worlds" which is a really down-to-earth, easy-to-read guide to going natural in the hospital setting.
@strawberryme08 she HAD a natural birth which is why she was SHAKING sooooo bad that they needed to give her a anasethic. They could not stitch her when she is shaking so bad. Thats what you get with your "natural" births.....shaking and stitches. I thought all you home birth people say you don't rip when you have a natural birth? Goes to show you how that is a complete myth.
@kismutt1 I had ripped from the vacuum they used. My husband and I prepared for me to have a drugless birth by doing massages. I am fully convinced now (since i just had my second baby dec 16th and didnt tear at all!) That if i had gone through midwife with my first born and wasnt told that i was going to NEED vacuum help that i would have not torn at all.
I am so sorry that happened to you:( Next time around waterbirth may be a better option, cord around the neck is not a big deal with water birth it doesn't tighten, it just can be calmly unwrapped. Also I would seriously look into home birth. Please let me know if you need any info or support. I'm a natural childbirth educator and I had a home water birth, the cord was also wrapped but was calmly unwrapped and all was perfect. Did you have an option of waterbirth? Did you fill out a birth plan?
Bless your heart...I was ripped, stretched, and bruised by a vaccum with my first birth. I was very upset to find out the reason they used it is to hurry up and get my baby out bc the Dr.was ready to leave! Congrats on the natural birth it is a beautiful thing. I will get to do this again in Jan. and Im so excited...esp. bc it wont be in a hospital.
i had to be put under anthesia after the birth so they could give me stitches.. my hormones were going crazy and my legs wouldnt stay apart so they put me to sleep.
I'm really saddened that you had to be vaccuumed because the cord was wrapped...this occurs in most births and there isn't a need to be vacuumed which can cause more stress on the cord. But congrats on a drug free labor and your baby...you should be proud...:)
I think it's terrible that you were drugged after you were such a trooper during the birth without drugs...So many women choose narcotics that make you feel spacy like this, but during the labor. It's a shame. I bet you could have gotten sewn up with local anesthetic.
OH! i know, i really didnt want to be drugged at all. i didnt get to hold my son for about an hour and a half after he was born because i was so loopy. but nothing about my pregnancy or delivery went the way i wished it had except having him naturally (with out drugs) i at least have that to be proud of:) and thank you for your comment!
OK... I'm 5 months pregnant and have a question??? Does it hurt giving birth? I'm 21. Does it give a lot of pain to the stomach? All the videos ive seen it seems like it does.
TheBrook345 1 month ago
@TheBrook345 I can only describe it as the worst pain you could imagine BUT it is totally bearable! The contractions are the most painful you will feel them more than the baby coming out. You can do it girl! This is what women are made for! Best of luck to you, And congratulations!
mrskylehayward 1 month ago 3
@mrskylehayward why were you put under after you had him
spicegirlslover555 4 days ago
You look like you were sooo out of it... you look just like one of my friends and when I first looked at the thumbnail, I was like WHAT !!! I didnt knnow she had a baby lol! :) Congrats!
JohnDeereGurl2011 1 month ago
@JohnDeereGurl2011 Yeah I went through the labor and delivery without drugs then after I had the baby I got put under Anesthesia.. CRAZY experience.
Thank you, I just had my second baby in Dec :)
mrskylehayward 1 month ago
@mrskylehayward AW!! Congrats... You should put that on here so we can see it too!!
JohnDeereGurl2011 1 month ago
haha this is to funny bt congrads to yall :)
shaemac98 1 month ago
@shaemac98 Thank you!
mrskylehayward 1 month ago
@mrskylehayward I had my first with epi and shook bad, the last 2 totally drug free. I had a OB the first time and midwife the last 2, my rips on this last baby were minimal I needed stitched but never felt it afterwards. baby 2 was 8lbs 14 oz and baby 3 a girl was 6lb 12oz lol a LOT smaller.
strawberryme08 2 months ago
@strawberryme08 bless ya! Both my sons were born at 37 weeks. first one was 6lb 13 oz and this one was 7lb 5 oz. hes almost 9 lbs now i couldnt imagine giving birth to him how big he is right now lol.
mrskylehayward 2 months ago
@Biancajjsidney I am so sorry about not seeing this message and sending you a list of books! {or did I and I can't remember doing it?} I will send u a private email to u and post some books on this list.
strawberryme08 2 months ago
@kismutt1 I have never heard that you don't rip with a natural {as in drug free} childbirth. The shaking is TOTALLY normal regardless of what kind of birth you have vaginal or epidural. It's just one of the phases of the birth process your body hypes up to get the baby out in that very last part then the adrenalin is in your system. I have been stitched all 3 times with the shakes. no problem. They put warm blankets on me and that helped a bit.
strawberryme08 2 months ago
@strawberryme08 I just had my second baby and I Didnt rip at all. It was a drug free and through a midwife rather than the ob i had the first time around. I wasnt shaking afterwards either. every person is different, If you ripped and shook everytime you gave birth than hats just how your body is. In a drug free (no epi) you can feel so you get more efficient pushes in.
mrskylehayward 2 months ago
سبحان الله بحمده سبحان ربي العظيم استغفر الله العظيم واتوب اليه
startnow111 2 months ago
That medicine looks fun, lol.
daFattylover 5 months ago
dident that hurt?!
dryandrouge 7 months ago
hahaha omg this is awesome "I feel like I'm intoxicated" haha
awowk7 7 months ago
Omg i feel really bad for you.
kelly4918 7 months ago
she looks llike shes drunk
mileycyrusisawful 10 months ago
omg i am never ever gonna have kids sooo scary
severefear 10 months ago
This looks very scary i don't wanna do it =-(
ladygagamonster78 10 months ago
I would love a home birth. If I have another baby I may do a water birth at home.
strawberryme08 10 months ago
ok thats the dumbest thing I've EVER heard!!! They will tell u a lot of things that are not true, just to make it easier for the doc. On your next baby you really really should get more educated on the medical "fads" around medical births etc. if u would like a list of amazing books to learn from and help u avoid medical interventions I will give u the list there are 2 or 3 i LOVE and have learned so much. like how even an IV can slow labor and make it less effective etc..
strawberryme08 10 months ago
@strawberryme08 I was only medicated after the birth i didnt have an epidural or even have an iv while i was having him. I plan to have a at-home-birth with my next baby. I had my son in a military hospital and hated everything about it.
mrskylehayward 10 months ago
@strawberryme08 I was only medicated after the birth i didnt have an epidural or even have an iv while i was having him. I plan to have a at-home-birth with my next baby. I had my son in a military hospital and hated everything about it.
mrskylehayward 10 months ago
@strawberryme08 can you send me a list of those books please?
Biancajjsidney 10 months ago
@Biancajjsidney Try "Natural Hospital Birth: The Best of Both Worlds" which is a really down-to-earth, easy-to-read guide to going natural in the hospital setting.
thebirthmuse 8 months ago
@thebirthmuse THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Biancajjsidney 8 months ago
@strawberryme08 she HAD a natural birth which is why she was SHAKING sooooo bad that they needed to give her a anasethic. They could not stitch her when she is shaking so bad. Thats what you get with your "natural" births.....shaking and stitches. I thought all you home birth people say you don't rip when you have a natural birth? Goes to show you how that is a complete myth.
kismutt1 2 months ago
@kismutt1 I had ripped from the vacuum they used. My husband and I prepared for me to have a drugless birth by doing massages. I am fully convinced now (since i just had my second baby dec 16th and didnt tear at all!) That if i had gone through midwife with my first born and wasnt told that i was going to NEED vacuum help that i would have not torn at all.
mrskylehayward 2 months ago
@ConGlendoraKids I am 21, why do you ask?
mrskylehayward 10 months ago
@mrskylehayward he or she probably think that you are a teen mom ....
mofasomomo 6 months ago
why would they knock you out? thats insane
strawberryme08 11 months ago
@strawberryme08 they said they had to because my hormones were making me sahke too bad to give me stitches.
mrskylehayward 10 months ago
I am so sorry that happened to you:( Next time around waterbirth may be a better option, cord around the neck is not a big deal with water birth it doesn't tighten, it just can be calmly unwrapped. Also I would seriously look into home birth. Please let me know if you need any info or support. I'm a natural childbirth educator and I had a home water birth, the cord was also wrapped but was calmly unwrapped and all was perfect. Did you have an option of waterbirth? Did you fill out a birth plan?
mynaturalchildbirth 1 year ago
Bless your heart...I was ripped, stretched, and bruised by a vaccum with my first birth. I was very upset to find out the reason they used it is to hurry up and get my baby out bc the Dr.was ready to leave! Congrats on the natural birth it is a beautiful thing. I will get to do this again in Jan. and Im so excited...esp. bc it wont be in a hospital.
meggyloo22 1 year ago
i had to be put under anthesia after the birth so they could give me stitches.. my hormones were going crazy and my legs wouldnt stay apart so they put me to sleep.
mrskylehayward 1 year ago
I'm really saddened that you had to be vaccuumed because the cord was wrapped...this occurs in most births and there isn't a need to be vacuumed which can cause more stress on the cord. But congrats on a drug free labor and your baby...you should be proud...:)
JayJayHale 1 year ago
Your were so dang cute. I love your video.
frieda1889 1 year ago
Cogratulations on the birth!
You deserved the drugs after all you went through:)
ReviewCam 1 year ago
Congratulations with your beautyful babyboy!
Hans021220 1 year ago
@Hans021220 Thank you very much!
mrskylehayward 1 year ago
I think it's terrible that you were drugged after you were such a trooper during the birth without drugs...So many women choose narcotics that make you feel spacy like this, but during the labor. It's a shame. I bet you could have gotten sewn up with local anesthetic.
mooreamalatt 2 years ago
OH! i know, i really didnt want to be drugged at all. i didnt get to hold my son for about an hour and a half after he was born because i was so loopy. but nothing about my pregnancy or delivery went the way i wished it had except having him naturally (with out drugs) i at least have that to be proud of:) and thank you for your comment!
mrskylehayward 2 years ago