No not all fathers are the same and not all dads are biological. My Biological dad is a huge dick and I always compare this song to him. He mind fucked me and disowned me when I was 16. I cant stand him for what he put my mother & me thorugh. I however am blessed to have a wonderful man who helped my mom raise me from the time I was 1. Even now that they are divorced he still takes care of me and pays for school. So no not all dads are huge dicks. But to my biological one, rot you sick bastard.
my dad was a shitty father, doesnt mean he didnt do his best. some people just arent good at parenting jsut like you might be terrible at math, english, or socializing. either way it does bother you and thats why this songs here
This is a song with true words within, but whoever said not all fathers are the same, this is true, but people have a right to express how they feel, and songs are the best way to do that with just about any situation.
I never knew my dad.. he left before I was born.... and My mother went to jail and then never came to get me..... but you know what.... I live with my granparents and they ARE my parents... like @gtamythmaster43 I know what your saying but sometimes people need a little slack...... so give it to him or her...... and always remember EVERYTHING IS WONDERFUL NOW
my dad left me and my mother when i was 1 1/2 and then returnedwhen i was12 and expected a relationship with me ad ten cant understand why i feel resintment towards him
I extend my heart to all the fatherless. I grew up with a dad and had all I ever wanted, but still there's was a demon that never left. He was a compulsive drug addict and sometime I would have to leave home because of it and some years were taken out. He never really said he was proud of me either but I knew he loved me, only by the end getting off the drug. Oh father of ours, tell us where did u go :'(
Stop being pissed off about people talking about their fathers! If you don't wanna hear about it, then stop scrolling to the comments and listen to the music!
My biological father left me. Supposedly, I wasn't even born yet when he left, but I remember him. I also have photographic evidence of him holding me. My 17 year old mother didn't even raise me. My grandparents did, for 6 years. Then my mother ripped me out of my home and moved me 8 states away.
But now I have a man who loves me very much, and I call him Dad. He's not my father. It takes five seconds to become a father, but a lifetime of tears and love to become a Dad.
my parents got divorced when i was 2. i've met my dad, but i've never liked him. i don't think all dads are bad, my dad has just never been there for me
i l0ve this s0ng.used t0 listen t0 it l0ts.i have a daughter n0w.my father hasn't yet seen her.maybe never will.just like i haven't seen him the last 15 years.but then again...we left him.
my father left me for a new wife and his new daughter, told me there must be some mistake bc i couldnt ever be his, and left me after 9 years of being daddy to me, yet i still cant find the heart to hate him. Loveyoudaddy <3
I dedicate this song to my drug dealing dad he hasnt been thre for 14 years in my life.i just turned 15 and he still dgaf bout me...i guess its ok to say im a bastard a person w/o a father
I listen to this song every time my stepdaughter's "dad" pretends he cares after 2 or 3 months of zero contact with her. It's always on the holidays or when he needs to show her off to his family. This is the closest song I can find to how I feel about the situation. Except it's worse because he's never done anything with her and he was never around for real in the first place. Oh but the courts think the only way a kid can have a complete life is to have both their DNA contributors, a lie.
@vaibanez17 You know your a good person for being there for her, im 17 and i'd give anything to hear my dad say im proud of you. I havent heard from my dad in over a year, but he spent christmas with my brother and i called him and he knew he was talking to me and i begged my brother to have my dad just to say hi all i wanted was a hi but no, he only wanted a son and all my life ive strived for perfecttion because of himand his shit, now in five months imma graduate valvictorian
@CrysMyLifeAway That's a bad situation. I have had friends in situations like that. I never got an "i'm proud of you" from my dad and he didn't leave my family, he was there in the house every day and never said it. He never acted like it and he never really cared what I was into or what I was doing. He rarely took me places or did anything special with me. I'm 27 now and still haven't heard that he's proud of me. Oh but he's proud of my sister, he tells her a lot.
@vaibanez17 Yeah that feeling hurts the worse huh? when a parent favors another, but ya know screw it, ill be the best daughter he wished he never had :):) and some day he will know that I did great things in my life that he was never apart of
I never met my biological father amd found out that the man who raised me isnt my real father last week. The only person i know who actually cares is my mother. Shes the best thing ive ever had.
My daddy gave me a name then he stayed. :) much respect for the ones that actually follow through with the mess they created. Now im a grown man with a child of my own and I swear im not gonna let her know that pain that others known.
@yobroo0 Amazing dude :) im 17 and my father didnt give a flying fuck what happened to me but now im about to be an adult and ive already made so much of myself keep that lil girl close :)
why dont you shut the fuck up, no one here cares what you say, we all have had or still have problems with our dads. yah it sucks, but you dont need to go bashing everyones familly because your dad walked out and you think he dont love you, but he does so get over yourself
My dad is pretty bad, Alcoholic, drug user who I could care less about. But, I moved on. Shit started going downhill for him for choking my mother. I guess he desaerves it.,
idk how you guys feel but i know i would be dead with out my dad im so thankful he cares for me i love you dad for ever and always man ur my hero i feel for you guys i hope every ones ok
i dont know if i can ever forgive my father. Its bad he left me once, but coming back 14 years later saying " I want to be apart of you life " then leaving again i just dont think i can
Heard this song early this morning. Had me in tears for my son. He is struggling in life now, trying to find his way. And I know he will always feel 'weird' inside and have that pain because the father he knew and was adopted by when he was less than 2 yrs old decided to walk away from him at the age of 14. How does he sleep at night?!?!?
My parents divorced when I was six. My house had just burnt down and my mom was having serious emotional issues. So my dad left her. He managed to stay in my life which I now appreciate but didn't for a long time. I used to make his life a living hell because when he left the time I spent at my moms house was always awful, she was a fucking mess. But now for the first time in 8 years since they broke up, I can listen to this song without wanting to stab him.
this song tears me up when I hear it everytime. I reminds me so much of my dad, we even moved to the projects when my parents split up, and we (being a white single mother family of 3 boys) lived in the heart of the ghetto our house was broken into twice and we were always getting jumped by the black kids and robbed and shit. It really wasn't easy being a scared white boy in a black neighbor hood.
I was pissed at my dad, when this song came on my iPod. I didn't think much of it until it said, "Now I am a grown man with a child of my own. And I swear I'm never gonna let her know all the pain I have known." It hit me so hard I started sobbing. My grandpa left my dad when he was nine. I'm 15 and my dad has been here the entire time. so i called him and told him how much i loved him. <3 i love you daddy.
Been listening this song since it was released, still gets me angry and brings me back to when I was a helpless 5 year old, I do have children of my own know and raise them very carefully, its nice to see how I would have enjoyed childhood without all the insecurity, rage and self hate through their lives. I'm 37 and it still stings, but it made me who I am...... I know how not to parent atleast.
there should be a song bout mothers, my moms still in my life but there are periods of times where she has walked in and out of it, my dads always been there for me, still love this song though, i just think of it as my mom instead of my dad
I can relate to this song except my father's sister gave me my name and I'm a female. He left when I was 8. He was a pothead, drinker, smoker, drug addict and gangmember. I can't take any of those people seriously. Smh my father was very abusive. Im 19 years old now. All I remember was the bad things and what he looks like. Yet he has my name tattooed all over him. Thats all I remember...and the fact that he hit me my mom and my brother alot
I can definitely relate to this even though i'm a girl as well. My dad was a distant parent for as long as I could remember. I never really got to know him as he was always travelling for work & when he was home he never showed any interest in his children. Just in his computers. I was 14 when he left for a contract job in Afghanistan. I'm 18 now and my mom finally filed for divorce and he freaked out and disappeared all together. This song makes me feel understood.
this song is the story of my life, my dad left when i was 6, i havent seen him since then (9 years). sad thing is, the only memories i have of him are him laid up in bed from a drug binge or him not being around cuz he was in prison, or out high. or me waiting on the front porch with my bags packed waiting for a dad that never showed up :/.... asshole.... great song tho
@gtamythmaster43 eh bitch why dont you go to hell you will never knoe the felling of no love my dad wasnt there for my birth he has all the right to say what he said i he was probalbly in a state of deep depresiton so lay off ass!
@gtamythmaster43 ...idk you shouldn't belittle what those of us who had a non-existent crap father went through hell i ended up getting molested because there was no male figure to protect me and until i can afford therapy(god bless american health care) ill be mentally unstable.... so please give those of us with bad fathers a little space...
This reminds my of my dad,even though i never knew him. All i remember is me as a baby in my mothers arms and the back of a man walking out of the hospital room. I guess he was my dad but i dont know.
I cry every time I hear this song. It makes me think about my Dad. He kicked me out of his house eight months ago, because my step-mother dialed 911 for me assaulting her, when she used that excuse to hit me repeatedly. She ended up hurting herself in attempts to put me away. My Dad believed her, and has kept me from seeing him or her. I've been listening to this song since then, I wounder what happened to the Dad I once knew.
my mom once played this for her dad, my grandpa. he was a deadbeat. so was my dad. and my cousins dad... it kind of runs in the family. my dad was an abusive drug addict, he died when i was two.
I was really pissed at my dad so I looked up this song, and now all the comments have made me feel better. We're not alone. We're all making it somehow.
everyone who can relate to this song should understand then the importance of only having kids in a stable relationship and then doing everything in ones power to keep it together when you do have that family of your own. my parents split when I was 3yo and now I'm pregnant facing the same imminent b.s. probably bcz I didn't experience a healthy family life growing up. I want to break the chain tho--never wanted to be a single parent for the sake of the child (& my sanity). it's tragic to be at
it sux royally that children of service members are missing valuable time with the father or mother--but the parents too are missing their kids incredibly! it is probably FOR the family that he or she is in the service: to provide the lifestyle and safety that most take for granted. it's unfortunate all around for everyone--especially the children. but don't hate your military parent, bcz s/he does love you. :-/
Damn... This Song Makes Me Want Too Cryy... My Dad Was In Prison A Lot Of My Life In Fact I Dont Really Kno My Dad All I Really Kno Is Having Too Grow Up Without Him. I Still Do. He Wasnt Even There When I Was Born Yet He's In Prison And He Still Wants Me Too Write Him Ya Juss Shows How Much He Cares... And Accept Im A Girl
All you stupid people crying about how your dads dissapeared from your lives or how they fucked up..wait till you have a family and see lifes struggles and how hard it is when you hit your 30's - 40's..most of you wont make it either..nowdays are even harder with both parents having to work..it puts a tremendous strain on a relationship and trying raise a family like that..
I cried when I first heard this song cuz it reminded me how as a child he was the greatest guy in the world, but now he couldn't even make my high school graduation cuz he's an alcoholic.
Like most people commenting here on this video, my father left when i was very young. Because of that I learned to love and respect my mother more than most other people, and sure she's not perfect everyone has their flaws. I'm actually proud of the fact that I grew up without a father, knowing that i shaped myself. I'm the first person in my entire family to go to university, and for engineering none the less, and paying for it entirely by myself.
My dad left when i was in kindergarten i would sometimes go years without seeing him.He was pretty much out of my life for 12 years. About a year ago he apoligized to my sisters and me for what he had done to us..and about 6 months ago he moved back to be with us and is now in a homeless shelter and has gotten part of his foot amputated. And he makes me feel guilty when i cant help him out even though he was never there for me.
@RhiannaSkye93 your his daughter, but your guilty of nothing, its sad what he is going through but you didnt make that choice for him, he did it all on his own, i can only imagine how u feel, im sorry ur going through this, but just know that is not ur fault, and he should b thankful that he can still talk to u and see you
@grunge4everman don't feel bad for us. You are so lucky to have a working family, that loves each other. Treasure that man. TREASURE it, if you do you will NEVER see how fucked up a life can be ruined. I will never have what you have, but I am learning how to face reality, that nothing is as perfect as people want you to think.
My father left us all alone with my mother when I was five and my sister four. He told me i was his one and only son, and within six months, he told me he couldnt see me for christmas cause his fiance's son, his "son" was hurt. Thank god a real man married my mother, My step dad, and he loved and rasied us as his own. I can't help but think of the scum bag my biological father is whenever i hear this song.
forgive him and love him with it all. Give my heart for a knife, I always do. Amazing gsong, didnt realize it bothered me so much until I heard htis song and thought about it. Great job on the video
this song means so much to me, it tells almost my exact story except my parenst were so young they werent really together, but I connected with him and he came in and left so much, I though apathy was key. Honestly didnt know it had effected me much until around a year ago listening to this song. He didnt even give me my name, but for whatever reason I'll always love him and see the greatness thats in his potential. I see so much of him inside of me and hate it so much but ill always
My dad ya real piece of shit. He used to beat my mom and cheat on her, so she decided to leave him for my step father who treats her very good. But my dad gave up on my sister and I. He has always been an alcoholic abusive asshole. But my mom kept our family together. Finally she could not take the abuse anymore. Me my sister and mom were just an image for that deadbeat asshole
(Sigh) it sucks when a child dnt have a dad n remembers when dad left him. It was on Oct 3 of 1992 my bday : : :( .. why? Idk oh well. Guys n ladies remember this always put your head n don't let that get too you ok. :) prove ur self you ain't Like him.
I never had a relationship with my biological father, he left me when my mom was pregnant with me and my mentally delayed sister of another father.
God watched over me and my sister's dad always came over on saturday and sunday and brought us to the movies and always helped me. That is a father, he lives back in his homeland colombia. I feel so dishonorable for not emailing him so i shall make ammends.
my father AND mother left me when i was 4 and ever since have been rarley visiting me im 18 now and i will never let my future kids feel the emotional mental and psychological pain ive been through
my "father"he was my entire world when i didnt know anything..he left when i was 3 but then we used to see each other til i grew up to who i am (14 years old and not stupid) and he called me worthless and that he didnt want to see me again only cuz i didnt want to live with him cuz he only wanted me to live with him cuz he didnt wanna pay child support.that was 2 years ago..the one thing wrong in this song was that he didnt give me my name..he never even signed my birth certificate
My dad left me when i was 2 years old i suppose i nevr knew him everytime i hear this song i cry my mom bought this cd for me and it got me through my childhood....Dad because of you i never enjoyed my childhood i never laughed i never smiled my life was a shit hole because of you i had to take your responsibilities since i was a kid :*(
This song is amazing. My mom said told me that this was the first song I ever sang.. Funny thing I live with my dad.. But he's still not really around.. He even left me for his girlfriend on my birthday.. But yeah, this is kinda my song for him.. I still love my dad, no matter what..
@gtamythmaster43, @charontheghoul,@AnimeObsessedGirl , @SuperGturtle , Good song, bad comments. Except for one @tomieblu
Schneckism 6 hours ago
No not all fathers are the same and not all dads are biological. My Biological dad is a huge dick and I always compare this song to him. He mind fucked me and disowned me when I was 16. I cant stand him for what he put my mother & me thorugh. I however am blessed to have a wonderful man who helped my mom raise me from the time I was 1. Even now that they are divorced he still takes care of me and pays for school. So no not all dads are huge dicks. But to my biological one, rot you sick bastard.
AnimeObsessedGirl 3 days ago
Deep lyrics. Love this song because of the emotion behind it.
tomieblu 4 days ago
my dad was a shitty father, doesnt mean he didnt do his best. some people just arent good at parenting jsut like you might be terrible at math, english, or socializing. either way it does bother you and thats why this songs here
alexmciller 5 days ago
I feel you. my dad died when I was 4 and 11 years passed almost and I'm now 14 goin on 15 in June :)
UzumakiKayla98 5 days ago
My father "left" me on 1/27 but I don't blame him because I'm sure heaven is much better than this crappy place.
Reach out to your fathers while they are still alive, guys. They may seem like they hate you but most of them really love you.
norcalprogressive 1 week ago
no fighting people be mature.!
Michellerudy2011 1 week ago
This is a song with true words within, but whoever said not all fathers are the same, this is true, but people have a right to express how they feel, and songs are the best way to do that with just about any situation.
sassy29055 1 week ago
dady gave me a name what ever you racist
Nickieboyable 1 week ago
it's sad how common this is. I've had issues with my dad too but I know he loves me even though he doesn't always show it.
RibbionsandStrings 1 week ago
thumbs up if you call your mother & tell her you love her on Father's Day.
Blwx3 1 week ago 6
I never knew my dad.. he left before I was born.... and My mother went to jail and then never came to get me..... but you know what.... I live with my granparents and they ARE my parents... like @gtamythmaster43 I know what your saying but sometimes people need a little slack...... so give it to him or her...... and always remember EVERYTHING IS WONDERFUL NOW
PLZxxxCOMExxxBACK 1 week ago
3:02 - 3:20 always gives me goosebumps...that's some deep lyrics.
riley2sexy 2 weeks ago
my dad left me and my mother when i was 1 1/2 and then returnedwhen i was12 and expected a relationship with me ad ten cant understand why i feel resintment towards him
codythelegendkiller 2 weeks ago
Father of Mine.
hughdbrandt 2 weeks ago
kinda the story of my life...not uncommon though...
tom14405 2 weeks ago
Day 16 on the search for SuperGturtle's comment... I've resorted to drinking my own urine to stay alive... running low on t.p....
9FullMetal9 2 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos 5
My father was none existent threw the years when he was needed most. This song hits home!!
TheHighDreams 2 weeks ago
I extend my heart to all the fatherless. I grew up with a dad and had all I ever wanted, but still there's was a demon that never left. He was a compulsive drug addict and sometime I would have to leave home because of it and some years were taken out. He never really said he was proud of me either but I knew he loved me, only by the end getting off the drug. Oh father of ours, tell us where did u go :'(
OUTLAWANGEL313 2 weeks ago
not that mine even gave me my name... just left yeah he returned just long enough to knock mom up then left over the road again
aveanth 3 weeks ago
this one goes out to my father
Gwoodliki 3 weeks ago
Oh father of mine I wish you would be there all the time you probably didnt know that i could rhyme
Gwoodliki 3 weeks ago
You know what's really cool, butthurt friend-os? YouTube is coded so the comments are much lower than the video.
GriffenMorivan 3 weeks ago
Stop being pissed off about people talking about their fathers! If you don't wanna hear about it, then stop scrolling to the comments and listen to the music!
TheFlyingFlea1 4 weeks ago
Everyone. Really? SHUT THE FUCK UP AND LISTEN TO THE GOD DAMN MUSIC.
MyCrazyredhead 4 weeks ago
I thought this song was happy I guess not....
TheFrankenstein69 4 weeks ago
yeah this song is dope fuk the daddy issues there both good and bad parents
13EN13 1 month ago
My daddy left me, wah wah wah. Stop with your sob stories and listen to the music.
WeAreRadicallyGay 1 month ago
My biological father left me. Supposedly, I wasn't even born yet when he left, but I remember him. I also have photographic evidence of him holding me. My 17 year old mother didn't even raise me. My grandparents did, for 6 years. Then my mother ripped me out of my home and moved me 8 states away.
But now I have a man who loves me very much, and I call him Dad. He's not my father. It takes five seconds to become a father, but a lifetime of tears and love to become a Dad.
Emmeyfish 1 month ago
i can't relate to this song in any pssible way. i just like eve 6. i feel awful for evryone things like this have happened to. :(
Gingefyer 1 month ago
Even though I hate my fathers guts for never being there for me this song brings me to tears because I can relate to it so well
amsk95 1 month ago
my parents got divorced when i was 2. i've met my dad, but i've never liked him. i don't think all dads are bad, my dad has just never been there for me
jujubee11211013 1 month ago
I love his voice, it relaxes me :)
SkitZoFraniKXXX 2 months ago
i l0ve this s0ng.used t0 listen t0 it l0ts.i have a daughter n0w.my father hasn't yet seen her.maybe never will.just like i haven't seen him the last 15 years.but then again...we left him.
FreskoChico 2 months ago
my father left me for a new wife and his new daughter, told me there must be some mistake bc i couldnt ever be his, and left me after 9 years of being daddy to me, yet i still cant find the heart to hate him. Loveyoudaddy <3
fireyblonde223 2 months ago
I dedicate this song to my drug dealing dad he hasnt been thre for 14 years in my life.i just turned 15 and he still dgaf bout me...i guess its ok to say im a bastard a person w/o a father
mike94078 2 months ago
@SuperGturtle did u ever had a dad
YTMize 2 months ago
I listen to this song every time my stepdaughter's "dad" pretends he cares after 2 or 3 months of zero contact with her. It's always on the holidays or when he needs to show her off to his family. This is the closest song I can find to how I feel about the situation. Except it's worse because he's never done anything with her and he was never around for real in the first place. Oh but the courts think the only way a kid can have a complete life is to have both their DNA contributors, a lie.
vaibanez17 2 months ago
@vaibanez17 You know your a good person for being there for her, im 17 and i'd give anything to hear my dad say im proud of you. I havent heard from my dad in over a year, but he spent christmas with my brother and i called him and he knew he was talking to me and i begged my brother to have my dad just to say hi all i wanted was a hi but no, he only wanted a son and all my life ive strived for perfecttion because of himand his shit, now in five months imma graduate valvictorian
CrysMyLifeAway 2 months ago
@CrysMyLifeAway That's a bad situation. I have had friends in situations like that. I never got an "i'm proud of you" from my dad and he didn't leave my family, he was there in the house every day and never said it. He never acted like it and he never really cared what I was into or what I was doing. He rarely took me places or did anything special with me. I'm 27 now and still haven't heard that he's proud of me. Oh but he's proud of my sister, he tells her a lot.
vaibanez17 2 months ago
@vaibanez17 Yeah that feeling hurts the worse huh? when a parent favors another, but ya know screw it, ill be the best daughter he wished he never had :):) and some day he will know that I did great things in my life that he was never apart of
CrysMyLifeAway 2 months ago
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I never met my biological father amd found out that the man who raised me isnt my real father last week. The only person i know who actually cares is my mother. Shes the best thing ive ever had.
T1Remiix 2 months ago
My daddy gave me a name then he stayed. :) much respect for the ones that actually follow through with the mess they created. Now im a grown man with a child of my own and I swear im not gonna let her know that pain that others known.
yobroo0 2 months ago 2
@yobroo0 Amazing dude :) im 17 and my father didnt give a flying fuck what happened to me but now im about to be an adult and ive already made so much of myself keep that lil girl close :)
CrysMyLifeAway 2 months ago
ah , i dedicate this to my piece of shit father<3
LilMama6939 2 months ago
@LilMama6939 wow your pathetic....
YUNGxCxxRECORDS 2 months ago
@YUNGxCxxRECORDS how is that? ;]
LilMama6939 2 months ago
this song makes me so grateful to have a loving dad. love you pops :')
XalternativejunkieX 2 months ago
holy shit wrong video
olkrfallenmeep96 2 months ago
@SuperGturtle
why dont you shut the fuck up, no one here cares what you say, we all have had or still have problems with our dads. yah it sucks, but you dont need to go bashing everyones familly because your dad walked out and you think he dont love you, but he does so get over yourself
kanatarasa 2 months ago
My dad is always giving me the "tough love" treatment. I'm getting sick of it, but I still love my dad.
godboy114 2 months ago
i really can't, nor will i hate my father, he's the only parent i know, my mother passed years ago, my father raised me and i love him deeply
vem344 2 months ago
I wonder if Rob Greiss's from Allentown, PA kids hear this song and wonder why he denies them??
TheKristie111 3 months ago
My dad is pretty bad, Alcoholic, drug user who I could care less about. But, I moved on. Shit started going downhill for him for choking my mother. I guess he desaerves it.,
GIRtheGIRL 3 months ago
idk how you guys feel but i know i would be dead with out my dad im so thankful he cares for me i love you dad for ever and always man ur my hero i feel for you guys i hope every ones ok
fitbiker111 3 months ago
i dont know if i can ever forgive my father. Its bad he left me once, but coming back 14 years later saying " I want to be apart of you life " then leaving again i just dont think i can
thefoxification 3 months ago 2
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Not every man that has fathered a child deserves to be called Dad.
mercegar08 3 months ago
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mercegar08 3 months ago
lulz, story of my life.
Vedordra 3 months ago
advice to people who hate their fathers, you have a mother too remember
charontheghoul 3 months ago 20
@charontheghoul some people don't have either...
watwashalan 3 weeks ago
a classic Everclear song
ncndyip 3 months ago
I like how people in the comments completely miss the point to this song.
Not to mention how half the people in the comments caused their own problems and blamed their folks.
LOL, if I actually read more of these comments I think it'd ruin the song for me.
gtamythmaster43 3 months ago
Heard this song early this morning. Had me in tears for my son. He is struggling in life now, trying to find his way. And I know he will always feel 'weird' inside and have that pain because the father he knew and was adopted by when he was less than 2 yrs old decided to walk away from him at the age of 14. How does he sleep at night?!?!?
WeWinn6 4 months ago
Daddy where'd you go?
alexarose365 4 months ago 2
dear dad,
you comitted suicide, and this song is about you.
i was better off without you and your anger issues and drug habits.
-your daughter
XblackXroseX100 4 months ago
My parents divorced when I was six. My house had just burnt down and my mom was having serious emotional issues. So my dad left her. He managed to stay in my life which I now appreciate but didn't for a long time. I used to make his life a living hell because when he left the time I spent at my moms house was always awful, she was a fucking mess. But now for the first time in 8 years since they broke up, I can listen to this song without wanting to stab him.
popsuckgrungpunkcool 4 months ago
@popsuckgrungpunkcool Dayum that sucks my prayers go to you
KiLLxThexBas3 4 months ago
I never knew my dad. :'(
bit ass fucker left my mom for another chick that had his kid three months after my birth. >:T
kikyo4inuyasha 4 months ago in playlist kikyo4inuyasha's favorites
this song tears me up when I hear it everytime. I reminds me so much of my dad, we even moved to the projects when my parents split up, and we (being a white single mother family of 3 boys) lived in the heart of the ghetto our house was broken into twice and we were always getting jumped by the black kids and robbed and shit. It really wasn't easy being a scared white boy in a black neighbor hood.
kimmelfmx1 4 months ago
I was pissed at my dad, when this song came on my iPod. I didn't think much of it until it said, "Now I am a grown man with a child of my own. And I swear I'm never gonna let her know all the pain I have known." It hit me so hard I started sobbing. My grandpa left my dad when he was nine. I'm 15 and my dad has been here the entire time. so i called him and told him how much i loved him. <3 i love you daddy.
Productions547 4 months ago
Been listening this song since it was released, still gets me angry and brings me back to when I was a helpless 5 year old, I do have children of my own know and raise them very carefully, its nice to see how I would have enjoyed childhood without all the insecurity, rage and self hate through their lives. I'm 37 and it still stings, but it made me who I am...... I know how not to parent atleast.
NYKELLY6464 4 months ago
my father is always their for me but i dont get to see him much my mom and dad are divorced :(
mrzombiekiller2001 4 months ago
there should be a song bout mothers, my moms still in my life but there are periods of times where she has walked in and out of it, my dads always been there for me, still love this song though, i just think of it as my mom instead of my dad
aBtchWitSwag21 4 months ago
@aBtchWitSwag21 look up lipstick by guttermouth. a grand punk song about a bitch of a mother. helped me when i got kicked out lol
Punk69Freak 4 months ago
@Punk69Freak haha well i will deff check it out, thanks!! :)
aBtchWitSwag21 3 months ago
i love my father he is always there for me. I am very sorry for all the people who got abandoned. Keep your chin ups! Awesome song
kingl3lackout 4 months ago
Hey this song reminds me of my father.....well his fathers better than mine. but still
TheKypage 4 months ago
He got birthday cards? Ha! My 'father' never even called me.. Ever!
marinasvoice 4 months ago
my father wasn't even ther for my birth!
crazylego8 4 months ago
I can relate to this song except my father's sister gave me my name and I'm a female. He left when I was 8. He was a pothead, drinker, smoker, drug addict and gangmember. I can't take any of those people seriously. Smh my father was very abusive. Im 19 years old now. All I remember was the bad things and what he looks like. Yet he has my name tattooed all over him. Thats all I remember...and the fact that he hit me my mom and my brother alot
YadirylovesWWE 4 months ago
I can definitely relate to this even though i'm a girl as well. My dad was a distant parent for as long as I could remember. I never really got to know him as he was always travelling for work & when he was home he never showed any interest in his children. Just in his computers. I was 14 when he left for a contract job in Afghanistan. I'm 18 now and my mom finally filed for divorce and he freaked out and disappeared all together. This song makes me feel understood.
HazLitTheFire 4 months ago
<,< I was a scared white kid in a very ghetto neighborhood lolol
I never knew my dad... but i like listening to songs like this cause... their awesome. :3 but depressing...
kikyo4inuyasha 4 months ago
this song is the story of my life, my dad left when i was 6, i havent seen him since then (9 years). sad thing is, the only memories i have of him are him laid up in bed from a drug binge or him not being around cuz he was in prison, or out high. or me waiting on the front porch with my bags packed waiting for a dad that never showed up :/.... asshole.... great song tho
twistedclown01 4 months ago
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ShadowAssassin887 4 months ago
i love this song but it kinda depresses me
LinkinParkalltheway8 5 months ago
Yeah, I am 17, my dad left when I was 15, he left Nov 24th... :/
xMusicalMelancholyx 5 months ago
@xMusicalMelancholyx you're better off without him fathers are worthless pieces of shit any ways
SuperGturtle 5 months ago
@SuperGturtle
Fuck you, you stupid ignorant asshole.
My father's always been there for me, my dad raised me and raised me right.
Just because you have daddy issues doesn't mean you can insult all fathers, let alone mine or anyone elses. You don't know them.
There's a fair share of abusive mothers too, guess parents should just disappear, huh, dumbass?
gtamythmaster43 3 months ago 51
@gtamythmaster43 lls someone got salty
SuperGturtle 3 months ago
@gtamythmaster43 Are you done yet?
pacguy19 3 months ago
@gtamythmaster43 he only hate's dad's, because he has TWO of them AHAHA
charontheghoul 2 months ago
@charontheghoul never come back to this song if your going to make stupid jokes like that dumbass!
crazylego8 2 months ago
@gtamythmaster43 eh bitch why dont you go to hell you will never knoe the felling of no love my dad wasnt there for my birth he has all the right to say what he said i he was probalbly in a state of deep depresiton so lay off ass!
crazylego8 2 months ago
@gtamythmaster43 talking shit over youtube your a big boy, did you wake up this morning and put your big boy pants on?
ClayDawg8008 1 month ago 2
@gtamythmaster43 daddy raised you to be an internet tough guy huh?fuck you and everybody who liked that comment
krossjets39 1 month ago
@krossjets39 i like this one vote him
13EN13 1 month ago
@krossjets39 you wan't to fuck us? aren't we being a little~homo?
charontheghoul 1 month ago
@gtamythmaster43 ...idk you shouldn't belittle what those of us who had a non-existent crap father went through hell i ended up getting molested because there was no male figure to protect me and until i can afford therapy(god bless american health care) ill be mentally unstable.... so please give those of us with bad fathers a little space...
aveanth 3 weeks ago
@gtamythmaster43 mad bro
fuggywon 2 weeks ago
My stories not the same... but it is...
MonicaFassett01 5 months ago 2
This song makes me cry every time, even if I listen to it over and over again.
ReallyDirtyStank 5 months ago 3
this is my situation only my mom left :(
SuperSnapshot1 5 months ago 6
@SuperSnapshot1 i sorry
Gingefyer 1 month ago
is a scared white girl in a black neighborhood.
francesmceeknee 5 months ago 2
My dad when I was 4. I wish, I just wish I could of heard one more story.
Aweshomegirl 5 months ago 3
This reminds my of my dad,even though i never knew him. All i remember is me as a baby in my mothers arms and the back of a man walking out of the hospital room. I guess he was my dad but i dont know.
Fmalover339 5 months ago in playlist Fmalover339's Favorited Videos
now THIS IS MUSIC, with meaning too
Searcheur 5 months ago
I cry every time I hear this song. It makes me think about my Dad. He kicked me out of his house eight months ago, because my step-mother dialed 911 for me assaulting her, when she used that excuse to hit me repeatedly. She ended up hurting herself in attempts to put me away. My Dad believed her, and has kept me from seeing him or her. I've been listening to this song since then, I wounder what happened to the Dad I once knew.
swagbucksfan101 5 months ago
this song makes me feel gratefull for my daddy
daddy i love you!<3<3<3<3<3
thEblacKouT333 5 months ago
God this brings back some sad memories for sure.
Thetruenihilus 5 months ago
my mom once played this for her dad, my grandpa. he was a deadbeat. so was my dad. and my cousins dad... it kind of runs in the family. my dad was an abusive drug addict, he died when i was two.
swimchick9er9er123 6 months ago
I haven't really gone through this, but my best friend has. It still makes me cry though I know I don't completely understand.
kbamiot 6 months ago
I was really pissed at my dad so I looked up this song, and now all the comments have made me feel better. We're not alone. We're all making it somehow.
StephSides 6 months ago 26
@StephSides same here it's good to see i'm not the only way out there kinda gives me motivation to keep moving along
iGuitarGamer 5 months ago
I refuse to be THAT dad. This tune gets me to the bone.
Check Will Smith's 'Just the Two of Us' too.
billytheweasel 6 months ago
lol im fucking poor shit lol
StrongholdNERD 6 months ago
similar to my story but way harsher
Nickieboyable 6 months ago
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polerbearful 6 months ago
@polerbearful please learn to spell
alluskoolkids 5 months ago
There isn't one lyric in this song that I don't relate to. Except it was a 20 instead of a five in the three or four birthday cards he actually sent.
WHollabaugh 6 months ago
I'am verry sad when i see comments like those.. makes me, think of how lucky i am and should be god blesss you all with no parent(s) :( <3
stonebuddi3 6 months ago
i like this band because they have good beats and lyrics and i lived in long beach for a while so the whole cali music culture thing gets me
TheMoNiCaS9 6 months ago
this song means alot to me i don't have my dad around and i dont miss him its just miss my step moms side of the family
pinkypeg01 6 months ago
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@EZmoneh I'm very sorry you lost your father. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family, but especially you.
nenerae 6 months ago
@EZmoneh I'm very sorry you lost your father. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family, but especially you.
nenerae 6 months ago
@nenerae I dont hate my father. Just wish he was still alive.
EZmoneh 6 months ago
everyone who can relate to this song should understand then the importance of only having kids in a stable relationship and then doing everything in ones power to keep it together when you do have that family of your own. my parents split when I was 3yo and now I'm pregnant facing the same imminent b.s. probably bcz I didn't experience a healthy family life growing up. I want to break the chain tho--never wanted to be a single parent for the sake of the child (& my sanity). it's tragic to be at
nenerae 6 months ago 2
it sux royally that children of service members are missing valuable time with the father or mother--but the parents too are missing their kids incredibly! it is probably FOR the family that he or she is in the service: to provide the lifestyle and safety that most take for granted. it's unfortunate all around for everyone--especially the children. but don't hate your military parent, bcz s/he does love you. :-/
nenerae 6 months ago
My dad use to leave alot during the war. Always listened to this.
EZmoneh 6 months ago
Damn... This Song Makes Me Want Too Cryy... My Dad Was In Prison A Lot Of My Life In Fact I Dont Really Kno My Dad All I Really Kno Is Having Too Grow Up Without Him. I Still Do. He Wasnt Even There When I Was Born Yet He's In Prison And He Still Wants Me Too Write Him Ya Juss Shows How Much He Cares... And Accept Im A Girl
brittney710 6 months ago
this song is exactly what i feel only my left when i was 5
coreygreen3 6 months ago
.. i can connect to this.. everytime i'm forced to see my dad, i feel all wierd inside. it's like i don't know him. he's just another person.
KuteTo72 6 months ago
This goes to my old man. I <3 u dad!!!! XD
TheYoyeah8 6 months ago
All you stupid people crying about how your dads dissapeared from your lives or how they fucked up..wait till you have a family and see lifes struggles and how hard it is when you hit your 30's - 40's..most of you wont make it either..nowdays are even harder with both parents having to work..it puts a tremendous strain on a relationship and trying raise a family like that..
rain2k4 6 months ago
@rain2k4 No One Never Said They're Dads Didnt try they just said he didnt care and u dont kno my dad so dont stand up for him.
brittney710 6 months ago
i hate how i cry whenever i hear an emotional song on the radio from the good ol days, and look it up here. I want the 90s back dammit!
savethelephantnow 7 months ago 20
I may be a girl, not a boy like the song says, but man this is my dad and me, I worshiped him, but he didnt want anything to do with his family.
serenityannsmommy 7 months ago
I cried when I first heard this song cuz it reminded me how as a child he was the greatest guy in the world, but now he couldn't even make my high school graduation cuz he's an alcoholic.
MookieLoove 7 months ago
I thought it was my dad gave me away though D:
paigep17 7 months ago
I still see my dad and I'm really glad for it. I just wish he didn't cheat on my mom :[
paigep17 7 months ago
Like most people commenting here on this video, my father left when i was very young. Because of that I learned to love and respect my mother more than most other people, and sure she's not perfect everyone has their flaws. I'm actually proud of the fact that I grew up without a father, knowing that i shaped myself. I'm the first person in my entire family to go to university, and for engineering none the less, and paying for it entirely by myself.
jbravin64 7 months ago 3
This song really helps a lot.
AHSRedskins 7 months ago
the song would explain the things that when my father left me and my mother how I do not really care so much because my mother found another man
Nickieboyable 7 months ago
I can relate to you all, its just my father was here, just not...at the same time.
Oriente7 7 months ago
Father of mine, where did yu go? >:(
CreamPie1265 7 months ago
I'm almost 22 years old, and I just talked to my biological father for the first time the other day. It's been rough. This song is so fitting
bpc2011 7 months ago 2
Thank you for making this. After reading all the comments I will try to appreciate my family more.
talbotstratford 8 months ago 4
2 people didnt go through wat i went through
MrNicktronics 8 months ago
My dad left when i was in kindergarten i would sometimes go years without seeing him.He was pretty much out of my life for 12 years. About a year ago he apoligized to my sisters and me for what he had done to us..and about 6 months ago he moved back to be with us and is now in a homeless shelter and has gotten part of his foot amputated. And he makes me feel guilty when i cant help him out even though he was never there for me.
RhiannaSkye93 8 months ago
@RhiannaSkye93 your his daughter, but your guilty of nothing, its sad what he is going through but you didnt make that choice for him, he did it all on his own, i can only imagine how u feel, im sorry ur going through this, but just know that is not ur fault, and he should b thankful that he can still talk to u and see you
irisanel9385 7 months ago
I breakdown after "I will never be safe, I will never be sane, I will always be weird inside , I will always be lame"
friedbabyfingers 8 months ago 2
@grunge4everman don't feel bad for us. You are so lucky to have a working family, that loves each other. Treasure that man. TREASURE it, if you do you will NEVER see how fucked up a life can be ruined. I will never have what you have, but I am learning how to face reality, that nothing is as perfect as people want you to think.
friedbabyfingers 8 months ago
My dad pretty much tells me by his actions "I wish you were a still birth..."
twofast4u204 8 months ago
My father left us all alone with my mother when I was five and my sister four. He told me i was his one and only son, and within six months, he told me he couldnt see me for christmas cause his fiance's son, his "son" was hurt. Thank god a real man married my mother, My step dad, and he loved and rasied us as his own. I can't help but think of the scum bag my biological father is whenever i hear this song.
kalpour 8 months ago
the 2 people that disliked this video grew up with a father and the father cared and loved them and it was one big happy family
oberlogen 8 months ago 6
Happy Father's Day.
mutterpukker 8 months ago
forgive him and love him with it all. Give my heart for a knife, I always do. Amazing gsong, didnt realize it bothered me so much until I heard htis song and thought about it. Great job on the video
Wretchedwithin 8 months ago
this song means so much to me, it tells almost my exact story except my parenst were so young they werent really together, but I connected with him and he came in and left so much, I though apathy was key. Honestly didnt know it had effected me much until around a year ago listening to this song. He didnt even give me my name, but for whatever reason I'll always love him and see the greatness thats in his potential. I see so much of him inside of me and hate it so much but ill always
Wretchedwithin 8 months ago
My dad ya real piece of shit. He used to beat my mom and cheat on her, so she decided to leave him for my step father who treats her very good. But my dad gave up on my sister and I. He has always been an alcoholic abusive asshole. But my mom kept our family together. Finally she could not take the abuse anymore. Me my sister and mom were just an image for that deadbeat asshole
scraggs2 9 months ago 2
(Sigh) it sucks when a child dnt have a dad n remembers when dad left him. It was on Oct 3 of 1992 my bday : : :( .. why? Idk oh well. Guys n ladies remember this always put your head n don't let that get too you ok. :) prove ur self you ain't Like him.
mrcease85 9 months ago
this is my life....
palaisdrew09 9 months ago
I never had a relationship with my biological father, he left me when my mom was pregnant with me and my mentally delayed sister of another father.
God watched over me and my sister's dad always came over on saturday and sunday and brought us to the movies and always helped me. That is a father, he lives back in his homeland colombia. I feel so dishonorable for not emailing him so i shall make ammends.
KORIBLADE100 9 months ago
my father AND mother left me when i was 4 and ever since have been rarley visiting me im 18 now and i will never let my future kids feel the emotional mental and psychological pain ive been through
Tavarith 9 months ago
@Tavarith Wow.. Im very sorry
rjrangel0 8 months ago
my mom has and always will say that this siong belongs to me and my brother.
jonagurcia 9 months ago
my "father"he was my entire world when i didnt know anything..he left when i was 3 but then we used to see each other til i grew up to who i am (14 years old and not stupid) and he called me worthless and that he didnt want to see me again only cuz i didnt want to live with him cuz he only wanted me to live with him cuz he didnt wanna pay child support.that was 2 years ago..the one thing wrong in this song was that he didnt give me my name..he never even signed my birth certificate
daniellerenee26 9 months ago
My dad left me when i was 2 years old i suppose i nevr knew him everytime i hear this song i cry my mom bought this cd for me and it got me through my childhood....Dad because of you i never enjoyed my childhood i never laughed i never smiled my life was a shit hole because of you i had to take your responsibilities since i was a kid :*(
XxDeadxInside 9 months ago
This song is amazing. My mom said told me that this was the first song I ever sang.. Funny thing I live with my dad.. But he's still not really around.. He even left me for his girlfriend on my birthday.. But yeah, this is kinda my song for him.. I still love my dad, no matter what..
tamtambaby112 10 months ago
This song absolutely sums up the relationship I (don't) have with my