Such generalizations but it is hilarious. Even if a guy does what is masculine, what does that prove? He can still be on the downlow. I've had masculine men fool me, I mean a man's man and they were still playing on both sides of the fence. I have a crossbite opposite of overbite so I speak with a slight lisp, can't be helped. Lastly, I don't pass gas in mixed company unless it is someone you're very close to. Oh yeah DL exists in all the professional sports.
No sweetie #1 with a big red flag is if you are intimate with him and he ask you to play with or put your fingers anywhere near his ass he is gay real men hate that if you dont believe it try it and see what happens.
Naw sister this is how you cut to the chase. You have your man over and get him a little tipsy to where he's relaxed and then yall go to bed. After he dozes off, take out a lubricated dildoe and try to insert it up his ass. If he wakes up or resists in his sleep, then you're probably okay, but if you can progressively slide that joint up in there and you're not encountering much resistance and the nigga ain't waking up either, OH HELL NO!!! He got to get up ought of here!!
@cthluthlu, I advise against that! I would wake up swinging on ya ass and now you have to explain to all of your friends and co-workers why your face all fucked up!
Or what about carrying vaseline? LOL. Sista, you are too funny. Not to mention fine(no disrespect) but real too. I get what you're saying. DLs arent just dudes, but chicks as well...especially in the ATL.
However, the fart thing aint true. I wanna be polite and smell good for to my lady...so Ill just do it in my sleep and blame it on her or in the bathroom where
there's air freshner.
GOD BLESS WOMEN WITH THEIR SOFT SKIN AND.........oops TMI
@DiannaBoss so not true...funny,but not true at all.....please realize big turds comes outta all our butts occasionally so yo ass in general aint dat tight....ummm just sayin
My guess on signs that a man could possibly be down-low would be these signs counting down:
3. Any man that pretty much ignores a pretty woman, especially one with curves. Even married men would peek.
2. Has been in prison. Just because a man has been incarcerated doesn't men he would actually have sex with a man. It all also depends on how long they were in there.
1. IS PERSISTENT ON HAVING ANAL SEX! This isn't 100% proof since some men are just freaks, but it would worry me.
Woman...you have to watch out for gay men but most really closeted gay men are really good at hiding it. If he's really feminine, he probably is gay, but the rest of it's bullshit. Until gay or bi stops being considered 'sick' and something to hide, guys will hide it, and they'll use women to fool others, or themselves.
thats why some women are losing out now... listening to bitches like this. IF ITS NOT A HARDCORE FACT WHY STATE IT. Tired of dumb bitches telling my woman mythological shit. MASCULINE FART? lol you really are doing a disservice because people listen to this shit.ALL IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE WHO SPEAK SHOULD BE EXECUTED,MY WORD. dont think or get it twisted that for some reason since i'm writing with so much hostility, that i'm gay or "dl", just tired of niggas pushing their false speculations
LMAO...these reasonings are mad dum..ahaha the hand thing maybe be right, but it all depends on the person..like the hand thing, a straight guy might put his palm down to look at his hands and do it in a masculine way..some of them dont always have to bend their wrists and do shit with their fingers and they can be straight.
I think because a lot of guys don't grow up with their fathers they become on gay and then go on the DL to try to seem masculine. Also if you have sex and you're on top and he is on the bottom and he holds both legs up and says go harder, he might be on the downlow.
interesting in your response there is no mention of man and man which is the subject of the sister's video, it was not an attack to anybody in my comment but i know that a man who likes males open gay or dl can not stand the sight or convo of the vagina,
i believe a way to tell a dl person is to talk about the p**sy raunchy, like the way a vagina farts, the pinkness of it, the way it can be touched, eaten and taste and just be rauncy in talking and u will see the fag come out of the dl person, make sure to not mention ass, just vagina, be creative in talking about it and the dl dude will have to leave and see the fag come out
thats the reply, well, lets look at what i said, talk about the vagina raunchy, make sure you dont talk about ass and you will see the dl dude have the fag come out. I dont fail to realize anything in this subject, BW who have anal sex are kinky or they want to do what their man likes. black men who like anal sex with a female is not gay nor dl, but a man who desires ass more than vagina is gay or dl. it is not the 'level of attraction' it is the act, gay is an act falatio, anal same genter etc
and I hate that I'm apart of it. And, worse thing about it is that they are mentoring our youth (amidst their secret lives),who will most likely fall into the same lifestyle--And their women won't be able to tell until it's too late, until their married. The Life of a DL Person- more from me later. T
And the worse thing about it (as it relates to women), it's occurring mostly among black professional men such as myself, who are capable of supporting families, while yet their occupation isn't worthy of a jail sentence. something to think about. it's like a revolution, paradigm shift in society,
UallR catching on. Remember when it was ok (or better accepted) for a woman to get down with another woman? well, u had to have seen this coming. Only, it's a secret and a dl matter. Seen and experienced it all. A whole new world (being raised in the church, the Devil is having his way as it relates to spirituality and God's true intent for the relationship between man and women).
I love your video ! Very funny. But there are a certain % of gay/bisexual men who are very masculine and have absolutely nothing feminine about them. The problem with your clues is that it ASSUMES that all gay men are feminine or have feminine ways which is totally untrue. Some men that are very very macho and athletic and rough are in fact gay. As long as being gay is a stigma, you will have the downlow.
yet how can she do that when down low men who are ASHAMED OF BEING WHO THEY ARE!...are HIDING their past. If you have to be ashamed of what you're doing or the lifestyle you live, that means you KNOW its WRONG. so just dont be that way if you have to hide it. STOP ruining lives by being ASHAMED OF YOUR SEXUALITY
dont blame the black community BLAME THE MAN WHO IS LYING TO HIMSELF BY PRETENDING TO BE STRAIGHT WHEN HE'S REALLY GAY! EVERYONE knows what is morally right and it takes a RESPONSIBLE, SELF WORTHY, SELFLESS human being to come straight forward and tell their partner whats going on with them. No you should not open your legs to anybody who wants it. not only is it a mans fault, its the womans too because she should have been RESPONSIBLE enough to OBSERVE AND ASK ?S AND LOOK AT HIS PAST
lol she's stating the obvious views...thats EXTREMELY FAR FROM BEING DOWN LOW lol ...cover was a great movie hahahhahaa but just study a real man..like maybe..ur father or uncles or somethin just OBSERVE. i mean ...i remember those little downlow series on BET and the wives' were sayin they had no idea ..yet when it went to the downlow husbands segment..they looked gay as hell ...thats a mess y arent women OBSERVING. like Judge Ephrim says LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP! (or get between them sheets)
Lets just drop the whole convo...because you taking what I'm saying to a whole different level when its really not that difficult...people...everybody...should take more responsibility for what they do sexually...that includes men, women, prostitutes, tricks, escorts, straight people, gay people, DL men...everyone...DL men need to take responsibility also...not just the women they deceive....
i AM looking at it on an individual basis...and what loses me is that i also said i AGREED that women should be responsible too...all I'M saying is when u are in a type of relationship with someone (whether strictly sexual or serious) its takes a REAL man or woman to tell u up front what types of sexual activities they are involved in....it isn't naive to think a person should be honest up front...i didnt say base your whole life around it....i simply said it takes a REAL man or woman to do it.
I have never personaly been involved with someone who i found was a DL brother...so no...im not speaking on myself...and honestly, i don't think people lie about their sexuality just because of gay bashing...i think a lot of men lie about their sexuality because they simply don't want to face it....i know men that have came straight out and told me "well, i'm gonna be real...i like dudes too" they gave me an option as to whether i wanted to deal with that or not...thats a real man....
And what does being upfront with your sexuality have to do with being gay bashed?? I didn't say where a rainbow shirt that says "hey world, i'm gay" on it...im just sayin that when being intimate wth someone (especially when its more than just a one time thing) be upfront about who you are and what you are....u still sittin here blaming it all on the females...but what about those women who are married or in long term relationships? All women dont just open their legs to just "anybody"
Ok, 1st of all, I, personally...dont judge people by their "swagger" so dont make assumptions about me based on a video someone else posted. Secondly...i never said YOU were gay...u not MY man...so i really dont care. I DO think women have to take responsibility for their actions...yes i do...but i STILL think that men need to be upfront about their sexualities...u say honest aint the best policy, but i guess getting involved with someone knowing ur gay and not telling is, huh? whatever....
Sweetie, first of all, i'm not speakin for females who are quick to have sex without protection...but i AM talkn about men who do slick ass shyt like put the rubber on in front of you then take it off when u aint lookin...i've know so many females catch a dude doin that kinda mess...so dont just sit back and blame it on the female...its a 2 way street...and regardless of protection or not....i STILL think a person should be upfront about their sexuality...cause condoms arent 100%,
Wow...u got a lil TOO defensive...."u know gay people" huh? Cause i'm sorry GAY people...aint the problem...its niggas who PORTRAY to be straight...while they fuckin with all kinda niggas passin unsuspectin chicks AIDS and shyt like that because aint they man enough to accept what they are attracted to...THATS the problem....
LMAO@poping gum.....wow...o hell nahh...see i been hearing so much about DL men in the out there even them thugged out type....they b booty busting....no way...and they dont b feminine so its hard to tell.
im sorry but i dont see how ppl cant just tell that a dude is gay. whether or not if he down low. by age fifteen i could spot it. my aunts boyfriend was "down low" and i told her he was gay. she didnt believe me until she found him sleeping with a man. and he wasnt the one takin it up the ass. so yea.... i can just look at them and tell. down low or flambouyant, i can find them all.
You won't be able to tell if i am! Most of the signal are so far off. You can tell only by incidental or if you start to look for it like a pi, or somebody tell you.
I'm gay and no one can EVER tell..so much that it's an incinvenience. I find myself having to come out ALL THE FREAKING TIME, even two and three times, 'cuz people forget or something. I'll never understand straights, it's like they hate truth. Blinders, 24/7. hypocrites.
LMFAO! these are some very stereo typical "tests" that really, you don't need to know to see that the guy is gay. I mean, the stuff she described would be for a very effeminate guy who usually isn't in the closet. The closeted guys are just normal guys. There are even guys who are out of the closet who are just masculine as a straight guy, they just date other men. Not all gay guys are immature and do the stuff she said. In fact, the majority aren't like that.
If there were truly signs to look for in a DL man then it wouldn't be called "Down-Low".. Y'all crazy.. LOL!
Sistahz need to stop being paranoid and start being realistic.. All relationships have a 'risk-factor' in it, so there's no protection from that.. And it's funny how sistahz on the "DL" aren't mentioned in these discussions as well..
Being dishonest about one's sexual past isn't gender based.. so both sides need to be discussed.
U took what i said and got completely off the point...the point wasnt whether or not a women SHOULD be mindless or with other women if she isn't into that...the issue is u saying DL sistas need to be discussed when in MOST cases...women aren't DL to the men they are dating...because alot of men encourage that type of behavior...most women do not encourage their men to be with other men...thats all im saying...
Depending on the relationship 'some' men may want the woman they are seeing with another woman sexually. You have that amongst women as well, quiet as kept. I am referring to the women who are married, engaged, dating a man but are secretly seeing women on the side as well. Most men do not want to share a woman that they are serious about, but alot of dudes don't mind passing around a 'bust-down', know what I mean?
Well most men dont want their wife or GF seeing other MEN...but there are PLENY of men who are married or in a long term relationship who request a 3some or something of the sort. If the female isnt secure, she will be down with it...yes there are women who see women secretly, but being that society thinks it "sexy" for two women to be 2gether, its not as common as down low men...again, society encourages it....
So you are using patriaricle idiology and sexism to rationalize women being closet or open lesbians? This goes back to my original comment about some men wanting women to be "submissive & mindless". Some men do want that, SOME. However, MOST do not. Let's not front and pretend that women aren't dishonest, WE know that they are just as dishonest as men. So why front on DL men when there are just as many women lying about their sexuality & putting themselves and their families at risk?
U know what? U are putting words in my mouth...i didnt say that it was right to be a closet lesbian...smh....i simply said a lot of women have no reason to be because society encourages it....i dont think its right to be a closet anything....i dotn think its cute to be mindless (note...i said if the female ISNT SECURE...she'd so what teh man said)...pay attention to what im saying...or lets end the convo...i never said it was RIGHT...i just said its not as common as DL males....
And what statistical data are u referencing to to determine that DL females aren't as common as DL males? Ppl lie regardless of the reasons. It is impossible to gauge who lies the most. That's my point. Just because one form of homosexuality is glamourized and another form isn't does not determine whether or not an individual is going to be open about his/her sexuality, esp. if they don't feel the need to do so. No one can gauge whether there are more DL females vs DL males. It's not possible.
Ok and what statistical data are YOU going by to say that there ARE as many females that live undercover homosexual lives than men? Because the FACT is, there ARE more men who openly admit to wanting to experience having two women together than there are men...it Is more encouraged...so of course...more women are going to be open with it...that's just the way it is...but im done debating...we're not getting anywhere....
I enjoyed the video,you are one fine azz pretty sista! I wish you were from tha "D". #6 should be to check his under-wear,and if he has shit-stains in the back and the front you got a serious problem!
I really musta hit a nerve to some of ya'll...HILARIOUS! More DL's out there than I thought eh? It's JOKES PEOPLE!!!!
Yo Prod....nah, there is no such thing as "gay farts" however, if you got a dude (or chick for that matter) takin it in the dook shoot on a regular..there will come a time when the air won't be able vibrate against the skin of the anus (which causes the loud "fart sound") because it will be too stretched and loose sound= "a 5 year old blowing out a cake w/no front gates"haha!
that is amazing how females come up with things like that. lol- coming from a bi person i don't smack my gum, spread my hands to look at nails and my farts still rumble. Bi people in my opinion are not confused. like all other bad experinces alot of us have had, some people jus don't act on their feelings because like race alot of people still are against, forbid, or attacks one for feeling such ways. and alot of times the attackers do the attacking because they were malested themselves
actually Torm, I understand, every man has a LITTLE bit of femininity to them. Which is all good...but I'm HIGHLIGHTING not STEREOTYPING characteristics sweetheart. If ya taking this personal, I feel for ya, but I'm not going ot step down from my position of words. Now, as far as "someone elses husband or b/f" I wouldn't know, cuz I don't deal with OPP (other peoples property.) And I'm def not the woman to change anyone. I see any of these signs I'M OUT! So call it what you want! ;)
most people in the world, male and female are bisexual just later on they live the "str8" life.....so someones husband or bf could be bisexual but he aint gonna tell yo ass
a real man doesnt mean he has to b masc...the best men i know are naturally feminine, the gays are better than str8...some men have manners and dont eat like pigs..you are stating sterotypes...heres a stereotype about black women, they try to change a dude that likes dudes(gay/bi), they get in situations then they try to blame him, even though they already know he likes dudes
Well, Mr. "BE REAL ALL THE TIME": Well, I wouldn't call what I'm talkin "ignorance" it's just REAL! I do agree with you though...you never know the sexual history of an individual....Anywho! It was all made to be taken serious,with a bit of HUMOR on the side! Sorry, if you were offended! But thanks for the comment!
wtf!
lillambchoppa 1 month ago
Such generalizations but it is hilarious. Even if a guy does what is masculine, what does that prove? He can still be on the downlow. I've had masculine men fool me, I mean a man's man and they were still playing on both sides of the fence. I have a crossbite opposite of overbite so I speak with a slight lisp, can't be helped. Lastly, I don't pass gas in mixed company unless it is someone you're very close to. Oh yeah DL exists in all the professional sports.
Ma1nguy 1 month ago
ahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Ariegiggles 1 month ago
That's some funny shit
colombizz 1 month ago
I lol'd so hard at #1!!!!
MomOfEnoch 2 months ago
She a straight up FOOL.......I'm LMFA right now!!!!!
A27416 2 months ago
Sexy
59westfederal 2 months ago
i found it really funny how she waving the red flag and stickin her face towards the camera! lmfao
ihate40 2 months ago
thank god i fart lol
Jay80477 3 months ago
Why be DL in a relationship? Why not do it without attachment. Don't use a relationship with a woman as a cover up to save your ass, it's not right.
KeesusChrist 3 months ago
No sweetie #1 with a big red flag is if you are intimate with him and he ask you to play with or put your fingers anywhere near his ass he is gay real men hate that if you dont believe it try it and see what happens.
TheNaturaldiva4life 3 months ago
A manly fart! ha ha ha - Well I know some women that got that...what does that say? ha ha ha
Xelanderthomas 4 months ago
A manly fart! ha ha ha -
Xelanderthomas 4 months ago
Lady where did get the red flag from lol. U should make a song out of that it should be call red flag lol
biohazard835 4 months ago
damn you got some sexy lips
SHOGUNX8 5 months ago
I like the way you look.
TheFlutevisions 5 months ago
This shit too funny. Aint nothing wrong with "pootin"
gogetta411 5 months ago
a guy cant look at his nails in anyway without looking gay hahahahahahahahahahahha xD
cheeto4sure 5 months ago
U are hilarious! "give him a piece a gum"! YEsssssssssssssss...okaaaay...LOL)
rsmalls33 6 months ago
LMAO Yeah this shit is funny as hell!!!
and yeah this babe is a fine muthafucca!!!
POOT?!?!? Hilarious!!!
papijugo 9 months ago
lao@ farting manly...i died laughing
nochokin 1 year ago
Naw sister this is how you cut to the chase. You have your man over and get him a little tipsy to where he's relaxed and then yall go to bed. After he dozes off, take out a lubricated dildoe and try to insert it up his ass. If he wakes up or resists in his sleep, then you're probably okay, but if you can progressively slide that joint up in there and you're not encountering much resistance and the nigga ain't waking up either, OH HELL NO!!! He got to get up ought of here!!
cthluthlu 1 year ago
@cthluthlu, I advise against that! I would wake up swinging on ya ass and now you have to explain to all of your friends and co-workers why your face all fucked up!
toepro 5 months ago 2
MANLY FART LMAO
noweaponfamsp 1 year ago
Or what about carrying vaseline? LOL. Sista, you are too funny. Not to mention fine(no disrespect) but real too. I get what you're saying. DLs arent just dudes, but chicks as well...especially in the ATL.
However, the fart thing aint true. I wanna be polite and smell good for to my lady...so Ill just do it in my sleep and blame it on her or in the bathroom where
there's air freshner.
GOD BLESS WOMEN WITH THEIR SOFT SKIN AND.........oops TMI
Good post, put more up. Glad i ran across it
1212LeoSnake 1 year ago
Damn u look good as hell wow amazin and oh yea ladies watch them flags cause u might not b the only one takin it in da ass!!
Hebeinit 1 year ago
OMG this is so friggin hilarious!!!!!
mosichat 1 year ago
love this vid it cracked me up
urbesst 1 year ago
this nigga is crazy!!! lol! i love this shit!
Jaymz9000 1 year ago
Love It!
ivoryh1 1 year ago
LMBO!!!!
nechelleb 1 year ago
#3 should b #1 bc thats the gay code line. "U got something in ur eye, let me "blow" it out"! GAY CODE< GAY CODE<GAY CODE!!! Just know that, ladies!
camacasi08 1 year ago
# 6. If a Man responds to another dudes text with just the letter K.....oh shit, we got a problem..
Where da O at player?
unshutoptic1 1 year ago
@DiannaBoss GNR!!!!
ELoCo187um 1 year ago
none of those signs are true !
ukblk121 1 year ago
@MorenaSoul33 lol...got it. I was like..wt..F! lollllllll
jefemexicano 1 year ago
@DiannaBoss so not true...funny,but not true at all.....please realize big turds comes outta all our butts occasionally so yo ass in general aint dat tight....ummm just sayin
baldwinvillage 1 year ago
she is very funny! i love her lol
ashken79 1 year ago
@DiannaBoss LMFAO... OMG
Jeffrizel1986 1 year ago
Shit, I'm gonna tell you right now, if you don't look at a fine girl, you're either gay or stupid... the kinda go hand and hand though.
XioC652 1 year ago
lol! ROFL!
666jaybird666 1 year ago
Your a beautiful black woman, how could anyone prefer a man?
666jaybird666 1 year ago
this is so funny. mainly about the fart. men and women fart the same there is no difference. Im a woman and i got manly farts.
jalaibilla 1 year ago
Love the info. she's dropping. But this video had me ROTFLMFAO.
truthandluv 1 year ago
lol
issraelissy 2 years ago
My guess on signs that a man could possibly be down-low would be these signs counting down:
3. Any man that pretty much ignores a pretty woman, especially one with curves. Even married men would peek.
2. Has been in prison. Just because a man has been incarcerated doesn't men he would actually have sex with a man. It all also depends on how long they were in there.
1. IS PERSISTENT ON HAVING ANAL SEX! This isn't 100% proof since some men are just freaks, but it would worry me.
mrs44magnum 2 years ago
this shit was funny as hell
treetall2006 2 years ago
How can you tell if a chick is a dike?
RespectMyHate 2 years ago 8
Woman...you have to watch out for gay men but most really closeted gay men are really good at hiding it. If he's really feminine, he probably is gay, but the rest of it's bullshit. Until gay or bi stops being considered 'sick' and something to hide, guys will hide it, and they'll use women to fool others, or themselves.
sazji 2 years ago
lol, funny, not absolute but funny
jlc33300 2 years ago
thats why some women are losing out now... listening to bitches like this. IF ITS NOT A HARDCORE FACT WHY STATE IT. Tired of dumb bitches telling my woman mythological shit. MASCULINE FART? lol you really are doing a disservice because people listen to this shit.ALL IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE WHO SPEAK SHOULD BE EXECUTED,MY WORD. dont think or get it twisted that for some reason since i'm writing with so much hostility, that i'm gay or "dl", just tired of niggas pushing their false speculations
telemanque 2 years ago
LMAO...these reasonings are mad dum..ahaha the hand thing maybe be right, but it all depends on the person..like the hand thing, a straight guy might put his palm down to look at his hands and do it in a masculine way..some of them dont always have to bend their wrists and do shit with their fingers and they can be straight.
baller12xx 2 years ago
it all sounds stupid... minus the nails. u put it so right
tallnicegyal2die4 2 years ago
A bass fart ....lol girl......a bass FART yea i know what u mean.....funny as hell
sistajme 2 years ago
its REALLY FUNNY YOU MENTIONED R KELLY ... HES GAY TOO HE MADE A SEX SONG WITH A TRANSVESTITE MS WILLIAMS!!! MYSPACE . COM / MSWILLIAMSMUSIC
leanal0ve 2 years ago
Ahhhhhh, LMAO!!! Men fart, women poot...AMEN!
gabrinic 2 years ago
WHAT?????????
seddrock 2 years ago
LOL!! You're a fuckin riot! love the vid :)
devangelis 2 years ago
GIRL!!! LOL!!!! BAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
Men fart, women poot! LOL!!!
MASQULINE FART!!! LOLOL!!!!!
A fart with base, with structure! BAHAHAH!!!
dollazndiamondz 2 years ago
You're an idiot, but this is funny.
c4graves 2 years ago
lol
hannacompgeek5 2 years ago
I think because a lot of guys don't grow up with their fathers they become on gay and then go on the DL to try to seem masculine. Also if you have sex and you're on top and he is on the bottom and he holds both legs up and says go harder, he might be on the downlow.
2Baiforev 2 years ago
MorenaSoul33, thank you for sharing these five tips.
I'm sure the list could go on. How about hanging out
at the gym too much?
audie80 2 years ago
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kashub5 2 years ago
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kashub5 2 years ago
interesting in your response there is no mention of man and man which is the subject of the sister's video, it was not an attack to anybody in my comment but i know that a man who likes males open gay or dl can not stand the sight or convo of the vagina,
kashub5 2 years ago
LMAO
GodBlesstheWorld2008 2 years ago
hahahah "fart with base.. fart with structure" ahahahaha
luscious9lips 2 years ago
She is cute. I bet she got a nice ass.
coloredbeautifufilms 2 years ago
i believe a way to tell a dl person is to talk about the p**sy raunchy, like the way a vagina farts, the pinkness of it, the way it can be touched, eaten and taste and just be rauncy in talking and u will see the fag come out of the dl person, make sure to not mention ass, just vagina, be creative in talking about it and the dl dude will have to leave and see the fag come out
kashub5 2 years ago
thats the reply, well, lets look at what i said, talk about the vagina raunchy, make sure you dont talk about ass and you will see the dl dude have the fag come out. I dont fail to realize anything in this subject, BW who have anal sex are kinky or they want to do what their man likes. black men who like anal sex with a female is not gay nor dl, but a man who desires ass more than vagina is gay or dl. it is not the 'level of attraction' it is the act, gay is an act falatio, anal same genter etc
kashub5 2 years ago
HA. Dont ever ask me to fart i will blow you and everyone else out of the room clear to california. ha ha ha
itsjustme2919 2 years ago
lol and r kelly is gay too lol
tarinkool 2 years ago
only really gay dudes act like tha, dl niggas dnt do that stuff at all.
MSSHUG1580 2 years ago 10
lmfaoo that shyt is soo true gown men dont look at nails palms down wtf?
kalumnch 2 years ago
It's possible for your man to be 'too good to be true'- it's bigger than you think.
1dlisnotsobad 2 years ago
and I hate that I'm apart of it. And, worse thing about it is that they are mentoring our youth (amidst their secret lives),who will most likely fall into the same lifestyle--And their women won't be able to tell until it's too late, until their married. The Life of a DL Person- more from me later. T
1dlisnotsobad 2 years ago
And the worse thing about it (as it relates to women), it's occurring mostly among black professional men such as myself, who are capable of supporting families, while yet their occupation isn't worthy of a jail sentence. something to think about. it's like a revolution, paradigm shift in society,
1dlisnotsobad 2 years ago
UallR catching on. Remember when it was ok (or better accepted) for a woman to get down with another woman? well, u had to have seen this coming. Only, it's a secret and a dl matter. Seen and experienced it all. A whole new world (being raised in the church, the Devil is having his way as it relates to spirituality and God's true intent for the relationship between man and women).
1dlisnotsobad 2 years ago
i think that is some nasty shit. i think dl men can be found out by talking about p**sy raunchy. dl men like ass not p**sy.
kashub5 2 years ago
Too funny, but good one!
omnicleaner 2 years ago
I love your video ! Very funny. But there are a certain % of gay/bisexual men who are very masculine and have absolutely nothing feminine about them. The problem with your clues is that it ASSUMES that all gay men are feminine or have feminine ways which is totally untrue. Some men that are very very macho and athletic and rough are in fact gay. As long as being gay is a stigma, you will have the downlow.
jasonlawmadrid 2 years ago
yet how can she do that when down low men who are ASHAMED OF BEING WHO THEY ARE!...are HIDING their past. If you have to be ashamed of what you're doing or the lifestyle you live, that means you KNOW its WRONG. so just dont be that way if you have to hide it. STOP ruining lives by being ASHAMED OF YOUR SEXUALITY
thesamechangebiotch 2 years ago
Amen..i totally agree
lreed1980 2 years ago
dont blame the black community BLAME THE MAN WHO IS LYING TO HIMSELF BY PRETENDING TO BE STRAIGHT WHEN HE'S REALLY GAY! EVERYONE knows what is morally right and it takes a RESPONSIBLE, SELF WORTHY, SELFLESS human being to come straight forward and tell their partner whats going on with them. No you should not open your legs to anybody who wants it. not only is it a mans fault, its the womans too because she should have been RESPONSIBLE enough to OBSERVE AND ASK ?S AND LOOK AT HIS PAST
thesamechangebiotch 2 years ago
lol she's stating the obvious views...thats EXTREMELY FAR FROM BEING DOWN LOW lol ...cover was a great movie hahahhahaa but just study a real man..like maybe..ur father or uncles or somethin just OBSERVE. i mean ...i remember those little downlow series on BET and the wives' were sayin they had no idea ..yet when it went to the downlow husbands segment..they looked gay as hell ...thats a mess y arent women OBSERVING. like Judge Ephrim says LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP! (or get between them sheets)
thesamechangebiotch 2 years ago
Lets just drop the whole convo...because you taking what I'm saying to a whole different level when its really not that difficult...people...everybody...should take more responsibility for what they do sexually...that includes men, women, prostitutes, tricks, escorts, straight people, gay people, DL men...everyone...DL men need to take responsibility also...not just the women they deceive....
lreed1980 2 years ago
i AM looking at it on an individual basis...and what loses me is that i also said i AGREED that women should be responsible too...all I'M saying is when u are in a type of relationship with someone (whether strictly sexual or serious) its takes a REAL man or woman to tell u up front what types of sexual activities they are involved in....it isn't naive to think a person should be honest up front...i didnt say base your whole life around it....i simply said it takes a REAL man or woman to do it.
lreed1980 2 years ago
I have never personaly been involved with someone who i found was a DL brother...so no...im not speaking on myself...and honestly, i don't think people lie about their sexuality just because of gay bashing...i think a lot of men lie about their sexuality because they simply don't want to face it....i know men that have came straight out and told me "well, i'm gonna be real...i like dudes too" they gave me an option as to whether i wanted to deal with that or not...thats a real man....
lreed1980 2 years ago
And what does being upfront with your sexuality have to do with being gay bashed?? I didn't say where a rainbow shirt that says "hey world, i'm gay" on it...im just sayin that when being intimate wth someone (especially when its more than just a one time thing) be upfront about who you are and what you are....u still sittin here blaming it all on the females...but what about those women who are married or in long term relationships? All women dont just open their legs to just "anybody"
lreed1980 2 years ago
Ok, 1st of all, I, personally...dont judge people by their "swagger" so dont make assumptions about me based on a video someone else posted. Secondly...i never said YOU were gay...u not MY man...so i really dont care. I DO think women have to take responsibility for their actions...yes i do...but i STILL think that men need to be upfront about their sexualities...u say honest aint the best policy, but i guess getting involved with someone knowing ur gay and not telling is, huh? whatever....
lreed1980 2 years ago
Sweetie, first of all, i'm not speakin for females who are quick to have sex without protection...but i AM talkn about men who do slick ass shyt like put the rubber on in front of you then take it off when u aint lookin...i've know so many females catch a dude doin that kinda mess...so dont just sit back and blame it on the female...its a 2 way street...and regardless of protection or not....i STILL think a person should be upfront about their sexuality...cause condoms arent 100%,
lreed1980 2 years ago
Wow...u got a lil TOO defensive...."u know gay people" huh? Cause i'm sorry GAY people...aint the problem...its niggas who PORTRAY to be straight...while they fuckin with all kinda niggas passin unsuspectin chicks AIDS and shyt like that because aint they man enough to accept what they are attracted to...THATS the problem....
lreed1980 2 years ago
I Feel you reddbrotha...but if that's the case....make a vid about them then! It's You Tube Baby bubba!
MorenaSoul33 2 years ago 2
I didn't mean for a debate to spark up on your video...I can't say i understand totally where dud is coming from with all of this...but i guess....
lreed1980 2 years ago
Gurl this had me laughin the whole time. You a mess! lol but everything you said had a point! thank ya for the tips
907DoOrDie 2 years ago
A fart wit base. lol
kievia04 2 years ago
lol
i can smack a gum like no one business!
sooo i passed all the red flags except the gum part!
hornybodhisattva 2 years ago
yesssssssss on the fingernails girllll.lol
fungial 2 years ago
so funny but kinda truthful but wit gets me 2 knw if its a gay man is that lisp that 99% of the homosexual men hav but not all but thats a clue.
priscillajames 2 years ago
LMAO@poping gum.....wow...o hell nahh...see i been hearing so much about DL men in the out there even them thugged out type....they b booty busting....no way...and they dont b feminine so its hard to tell.
geeceecali 2 years ago
im sorry but i dont see how ppl cant just tell that a dude is gay. whether or not if he down low. by age fifteen i could spot it. my aunts boyfriend was "down low" and i told her he was gay. she didnt believe me until she found him sleeping with a man. and he wasnt the one takin it up the ass. so yea.... i can just look at them and tell. down low or flambouyant, i can find them all.
thesamechangebiotch 2 years ago
You won't be able to tell if i am! Most of the signal are so far off. You can tell only by incidental or if you start to look for it like a pi, or somebody tell you.
whippeschain 2 years ago
What are some signs? I wasn't really raised around it...so its harder for me to tell....
lreed1980 2 years ago
I'm gay and no one can EVER tell..so much that it's an incinvenience. I find myself having to come out ALL THE FREAKING TIME, even two and three times, 'cuz people forget or something. I'll never understand straights, it's like they hate truth. Blinders, 24/7. hypocrites.
kern0099 2 years ago
LMFAO! these are some very stereo typical "tests" that really, you don't need to know to see that the guy is gay. I mean, the stuff she described would be for a very effeminate guy who usually isn't in the closet. The closeted guys are just normal guys. There are even guys who are out of the closet who are just masculine as a straight guy, they just date other men. Not all gay guys are immature and do the stuff she said. In fact, the majority aren't like that.
dmajorhiphopproducer 2 years ago
lmao....."a 5 year old blowing out a cake w/no front gates"......hahahahahahahahahahahahaaha....
msjefferson87 2 years ago 9
#6---If you're a girl, and you tell your man about a porno you saw, and he asks you how big the male actor's dick was---- RED FLAG!!!
hotdrumchick 2 years ago
Some gay men seem to be very articulate too.
JRock005 2 years ago
This has to be a joke.. LOL!
If there were truly signs to look for in a DL man then it wouldn't be called "Down-Low".. Y'all crazy.. LOL!
Sistahz need to stop being paranoid and start being realistic.. All relationships have a 'risk-factor' in it, so there's no protection from that.. And it's funny how sistahz on the "DL" aren't mentioned in these discussions as well..
Being dishonest about one's sexual past isn't gender based.. so both sides need to be discussed.
Peace
quran777 2 years ago
Hmm..but its also funny cause alot of men claim to LIKE for women to be with other women...so i dont get ur point....alot of men ENCOURAGE it....
lreed1980 2 years ago
@ Ireed1980,
Alot of men encourage women to be submissive & mindless as well, does that mean that women should do so?
quran777 2 years ago
U took what i said and got completely off the point...the point wasnt whether or not a women SHOULD be mindless or with other women if she isn't into that...the issue is u saying DL sistas need to be discussed when in MOST cases...women aren't DL to the men they are dating...because alot of men encourage that type of behavior...most women do not encourage their men to be with other men...thats all im saying...
lreed1980 2 years ago
Depending on the relationship 'some' men may want the woman they are seeing with another woman sexually. You have that amongst women as well, quiet as kept. I am referring to the women who are married, engaged, dating a man but are secretly seeing women on the side as well. Most men do not want to share a woman that they are serious about, but alot of dudes don't mind passing around a 'bust-down', know what I mean?
quran777 2 years ago
Well most men dont want their wife or GF seeing other MEN...but there are PLENY of men who are married or in a long term relationship who request a 3some or something of the sort. If the female isnt secure, she will be down with it...yes there are women who see women secretly, but being that society thinks it "sexy" for two women to be 2gether, its not as common as down low men...again, society encourages it....
lreed1980 2 years ago
So you are using patriaricle idiology and sexism to rationalize women being closet or open lesbians? This goes back to my original comment about some men wanting women to be "submissive & mindless". Some men do want that, SOME. However, MOST do not. Let's not front and pretend that women aren't dishonest, WE know that they are just as dishonest as men. So why front on DL men when there are just as many women lying about their sexuality & putting themselves and their families at risk?
quran777 2 years ago
U know what? U are putting words in my mouth...i didnt say that it was right to be a closet lesbian...smh....i simply said a lot of women have no reason to be because society encourages it....i dont think its right to be a closet anything....i dotn think its cute to be mindless (note...i said if the female ISNT SECURE...she'd so what teh man said)...pay attention to what im saying...or lets end the convo...i never said it was RIGHT...i just said its not as common as DL males....
lreed1980 2 years ago
And what statistical data are u referencing to to determine that DL females aren't as common as DL males? Ppl lie regardless of the reasons. It is impossible to gauge who lies the most. That's my point. Just because one form of homosexuality is glamourized and another form isn't does not determine whether or not an individual is going to be open about his/her sexuality, esp. if they don't feel the need to do so. No one can gauge whether there are more DL females vs DL males. It's not possible.
quran777 2 years ago
Ok and what statistical data are YOU going by to say that there ARE as many females that live undercover homosexual lives than men? Because the FACT is, there ARE more men who openly admit to wanting to experience having two women together than there are men...it Is more encouraged...so of course...more women are going to be open with it...that's just the way it is...but im done debating...we're not getting anywhere....
lreed1980 2 years ago
LMAO! He ain't DL, He's GAY! If the fart don't ring, he's had ding-a-ling. LOL!
juliansj 2 years ago
Damn! Yall have to excuse my typos! LOL, looking back at my crazy typing! LOL...Thanks Ton...Appreciated! :)
MorenaSoul33 2 years ago
I enjoyed the video,you are one fine azz pretty sista! I wish you were from tha "D". #6 should be to check his under-wear,and if he has shit-stains in the back and the front you got a serious problem!
tonwil06 2 years ago
AW! Thank yall! ((Blush blush))
LOL@ princess....I have know how the hell a red flag was "coincidentally" in mt house! LMAOOOO!
MorenaSoul33 2 years ago
u one sweet ass sista for sure
Boss1tt 2 years ago
LOL
sav7909 2 years ago
She's got the sexiest lips I have ever seen. Damn she is fine.
sickwiththetruth 2 years ago
that red flag came out of nooo where looooooooooooooooooooooool still cant stop laughin lol
tuaprincessa 2 years ago
lol thats if ur boyfriend is a flaming homo lol....
asiabeckfordsxroom 2 years ago
I really musta hit a nerve to some of ya'll...HILARIOUS! More DL's out there than I thought eh? It's JOKES PEOPLE!!!!
Yo Prod....nah, there is no such thing as "gay farts" however, if you got a dude (or chick for that matter) takin it in the dook shoot on a regular..there will come a time when the air won't be able vibrate against the skin of the anus (which causes the loud "fart sound") because it will be too stretched and loose sound= "a 5 year old blowing out a cake w/no front gates"haha!
MorenaSoul33 3 years ago
MAYBE SHE'S DRUNK?
hsbthree 3 years ago
LOL, what does a fart has to do with it?LMAO theres gay farts now?? wow.
TheProdigy0789 3 years ago
that is amazing how females come up with things like that. lol- coming from a bi person i don't smack my gum, spread my hands to look at nails and my farts still rumble. Bi people in my opinion are not confused. like all other bad experinces alot of us have had, some people jus don't act on their feelings because like race alot of people still are against, forbid, or attacks one for feeling such ways. and alot of times the attackers do the attacking because they were malested themselves
seniority2006 3 years ago
actually Torm, I understand, every man has a LITTLE bit of femininity to them. Which is all good...but I'm HIGHLIGHTING not STEREOTYPING characteristics sweetheart. If ya taking this personal, I feel for ya, but I'm not going ot step down from my position of words. Now, as far as "someone elses husband or b/f" I wouldn't know, cuz I don't deal with OPP (other peoples property.) And I'm def not the woman to change anyone. I see any of these signs I'M OUT! So call it what you want! ;)
MorenaSoul33 3 years ago
most people in the world, male and female are bisexual just later on they live the "str8" life.....so someones husband or bf could be bisexual but he aint gonna tell yo ass
ToRmEnTaZ99 3 years ago
a real man doesnt mean he has to b masc...the best men i know are naturally feminine, the gays are better than str8...some men have manners and dont eat like pigs..you are stating sterotypes...heres a stereotype about black women, they try to change a dude that likes dudes(gay/bi), they get in situations then they try to blame him, even though they already know he likes dudes
ToRmEnTaZ99 3 years ago
Well, Mr. "BE REAL ALL THE TIME": Well, I wouldn't call what I'm talkin "ignorance" it's just REAL! I do agree with you though...you never know the sexual history of an individual....Anywho! It was all made to be taken serious,with a bit of HUMOR on the side! Sorry, if you were offended! But thanks for the comment!
MorenaSoul33 3 years ago
WOW this kind of ignorance she's talking help spread the AIDS EPIDEMIC !!!!!
Lady's if yall look for the shit she talking bout, then you might as well be HIV Positive.................................................
SHE TALKING BOUT FAGS......................
DL BROTHAS don't ever display the behavior she talking bout.
Bottom Line...Protect yourself sexually, then you'll have less to worry about !
Cause nobody trully knows where thier man or woman have been sexually !
REAL TALK !
Berealallthetime 3 years ago
nothing but truth and the best thing to do is what gays do strap up "superwomen"
asiabeckfordsxroom 2 years ago
uh huh...check out my scared to be gay song...it tells it all. And if a man always got a bobble head when he walk and talk them DAMNNNNNNNNNNNN man
roxsizl 3 years ago
lol @ number 3... thats jus straight out gay.. no down low... there
freddiebtv 3 years ago