@sarahflute Believe me, it's quite worse to be that person who's changed. To know that one is forgetting, is different somehow. And trying to pretend it's fine and act 'normal'. It's terrifying, and, yes, embarrassing. Most people are consciously aware that they're unable to control themselves, and it sucks. hard. Some eventually recover, to that I can testify. Some don't. But all of them suffer as much, if not worse, as care-takers. And some aren't lucky enough to have care-takers. Believe me.
Not only am I heartbroken at the plot, emotions, and characters, but I'm completely blown away at David's acting. Phenomenal. Absolutely heart striking. Such a wide range of characters and he does them all perfectly. Bravo.
@sarahflute I know your comment is about two years old, but thank you for sharing your it. All I could think about when watching the last half of this wonderful movie is my mom and how MS had affected her and my family. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one out there that has this same sort of connection.
poor gorgeous david is just effing brain damaged, not dead! jeez! i know that she's had it rough but she has no right to do that to somebody who got hit with a truck and in a coma, he may not be there but still. MARRIED! and OMG david tennant is such a good actor and when he's all curled up on the bed is so sad! "you don't have to use yer brain at all if you just lie still." AWW!
@randominitializer the public arn't idiots they don't need to be taught what to do by the media the media is there to entertain and inform not to be our mummies, your pretty screwed if you think you should copy everything you see on TV which you do think otherwise you wouldn't be concerned with what lessons its teaching
It's worse than actually losing him for her. If he'd died she would have been able to grieve and then get on with life. Here she is feeling guilty and feeling guilty for feeling guilty and so on and so forth. She uses drink as an escape from the trauma of real life.
this woman is fucking another man while she is married. this is not called "grieving". She was ready to leave him after that bit of one night stand. the word is adultery, not grieving.
the only reason he got the fucking accidentg is cause he wanted to go home to her... cuz he loved her and he still does. fucking bitch cant get it through her head. if he was braindead when she was 16 wud she never marry him? bitch
dont you get it? hes doing it on purpose! everyone is purposely being mean to him because like the doctor said he has to realise somethings wrong! thats what i thought a t first but now i get it
I still don't think it's necessary to be horrible to him. He's obviously already realised something is wrong. Even if they should be harsh, they don't need to be calling him names.
I really hate that friend of hers. Honestly, she's telling her to leave her husband, the one she's loved since 16, the one that's had brain damage. Obviously he doesn't want to have brain damage, it's hardly his fault! What a BITCH.
I mean, because of this, he needs his wife more than anything! I am mad at Tricia too but she was under the influence. Stress didn't help either, I'm sure.
With that said, she didn't have to go and SLEEP with a stranger either!
I totally understand Tricia is stressed and heart broken, but I hardly think a night of drinking and bad sex is gonna make her situation a happier place. The only thing she's gonna get from that is an itchy-burny sensation.
And why the hell did she listen to that so called "friend" who telling her she looks like shit. When did that lady last look in the mirror, she has the ugliest hairdo I've ever seen.
I agree. I understand Tricia needed a bit of a break and just wanted to have one drink w/her co-worker [gone for couple hours], that would've been alright. It would've given her a nice little relaxation, but what she was doing was...purposeless, for lack of better word.
WTF his wife did that to him? really... everyone is blaming him and why? they're all stupid he doesn't know whats wrong only time can fix it! Ignorant ppl deep down he loves ya...
She's only human and can only take so much. Its easy to say she shouldn't have have done that, she should have done this etc but image yourself in that situation, would you be able to cope day in day out watching someone you love turn into someone else and there's nothing you can do about it?? It must be heartbreaking
So many times I wanted to grab her and shake her and say "Do you remember the part about FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE!!!!" My father had a stroke 3 years ago, thankfully it was mild and he's fine, but you don't give up on them. You never EVER turn your back on your family during something like that.
I've just lost all sympathy for his wife. I understand it hurts to see someone you love like that, and it's frustrating, but that was low. She's being completely selfish. It's not his fault he's acting like that. He's not doing it on purpose. If it was my husband I'd want nothing more then to comfort him and take care of him. Verbally assaulting him and then running out and cheating on him was horrible. And her friend needs to get slapped. What friend says "Oh, well, you might as well give up!"
Bloody Gwen if she'd shut up that would not have happened, she needed sympathy not someone to take her out, get her pissed and suggest a quickie! Love the acting these 2 are amazing together and I really think this is the best acting David Tennant has ever done and that is saying something from me! Love you David xx
I'd just like to say that although david tennants acting is absolutley outstanding, that his wife and eldest son are also due credit too, they make this drama unmissable and i honestly believe this programme did not get enough credit where credit is due!
It's not fair that people are being so harsh on him. They're treating him as if he's acting like this out of choice. I'd never give up on him, cheat on him, or call him pathetic like his mate did. I'd like to see them cope if their brain was damaged.
though this kind of sitution is really hard on eveybody. though i agee. it's not his fault... they could be less meaner to him. especially his "friend".
i soo know!! but then again their all have to look after him aswell.. my little bro had meningitis and was left deaf so my mum and i wud hav to look after him n help him change but not greatly like david's character..he's normal except for being abit hyperactive and deaf n dumb..so both sides of this film suffers...the mum and 2 sons...and David..
I understand it must be really tough, but I still wouldn't say or do those things.
And where his mate is concerned...
I might be able to understand the wife lashing out, but for his mate to say nasty things to him, he has no right to, as he doesn't even look after him.
i reckon his mate reacted that way outta fustration. My Aunty sunk into depression and i have to admit i had a conversation that was very similar in a situation where we had to break down the door for fear she had attempted suicide. Granted, she didnt have a horrific accident, but she, like Alan, would just lie in bed and snap at people and things like "you are pathetic" just come out with the stress and fustration of that time. The mate shouldnt have said it, but it is hard on everyone.
I'm sorry but at 2:55 when we was holding that marker I couldn't help but think "OMG the sonic screwdriver!!!!" Of couse I relised that it wasn't but stil.....
i dnt know why but watching this i know something bad is gonna happen to him or to his son and as i say i dont know why this is just so heartwarming and depressing at the same time i carnt help but think its going to go wrong agein and agein
why not i wouldent be able to cope i would try to stickin there but just remember just because we like david tennant and feel 4 his charecter dosnt mean she didnt do the right thing for herself
its really mean she thinks about how bad it is for her but not how bad it is for him shes horrible he must feel awful himself but she doesnt care about that evil cow
acctually it was kind of funny when she got drunk and started "picking out" men.. 2 kids, a husbend with brain damage, who cries if he looses... great line...
she is selfish, did you see the same clip tat i did? she slept with a completley stranger and she is willing to give up on her family, isn´t that selfisy enough for you?
Yes, she's putting herself first. But she's reached a point where she must have felt like she, as a woman, was being swallowed by all her responsibilities: by going out and flirting with men, it was a way to be that woman again. And yes, the accident wasn't Alan's fault, but sh*tty things happen in life that are nobody's fault, and there's a burden that comes with it that sometimes people just aren't able to cope with. Doesn't make them lesser people for it, they are just human
That poor woman. How would you balance caring for the man you loved who'd become a stranger that's destroying your family, and your children that need you. A horrible position to be put in. I can understand losing it a little. I'd be insane.
I can totally understand how she'd go off the rails - she already has 2 kids to look after and the husband she's loved since 16 is there but not there. I don't know how I'd cope.
yh i guess but if u lived with a man who was brain damaged (even if he was david tennant :p) then u would find it v. difficult lookin after kids, looking after him makin sure he dosent blow up the house and working a job. it would be kinda difficult so i guess she just let her self go..?
3:12. Superb.
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@sarahflute Believe me, it's quite worse to be that person who's changed. To know that one is forgetting, is different somehow. And trying to pretend it's fine and act 'normal'. It's terrifying, and, yes, embarrassing. Most people are consciously aware that they're unable to control themselves, and it sucks. hard. Some eventually recover, to that I can testify. Some don't. But all of them suffer as much, if not worse, as care-takers. And some aren't lucky enough to have care-takers. Believe me.
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this is really difficult to watch really emotional :( terriffic acting :) :)
madgleefan101 6 months ago
Not only am I heartbroken at the plot, emotions, and characters, but I'm completely blown away at David's acting. Phenomenal. Absolutely heart striking. Such a wide range of characters and he does them all perfectly. Bravo.
CrazedHumorOriginal 10 months ago 5
@sarahflute I know your comment is about two years old, but thank you for sharing your it. All I could think about when watching the last half of this wonderful movie is my mom and how MS had affected her and my family. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one out there that has this same sort of connection.
6your6sweet6 10 months ago
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My dad too.... My dad too.
TheFluffyhusky 1 year ago
poor gorgeous david is just effing brain damaged, not dead! jeez! i know that she's had it rough but she has no right to do that to somebody who got hit with a truck and in a coma, he may not be there but still. MARRIED! and OMG david tennant is such a good actor and when he's all curled up on the bed is so sad! "you don't have to use yer brain at all if you just lie still." AWW!
proudwalmartshopper1 1 year ago
David is brilliant and this movie is amazing, sad but amazing. Thank you for sharing.
samanthapetrelli 1 year ago
Simply the best BBC Drama ever.
stonemonkey999 1 year ago
she has gone mental, eh? it is quite sad...
muffinlady18 1 year ago
what this is teaching the public is that if ur spouse has MS then go screw with someone else. the media is screwing us up.
randominitializer 1 year ago
@randominitializer the public arn't idiots they don't need to be taught what to do by the media the media is there to entertain and inform not to be our mummies, your pretty screwed if you think you should copy everything you see on TV which you do think otherwise you wouldn't be concerned with what lessons its teaching
jimmy2k4o 7 months ago
This movie is fantastic, absolutely fantastic. And Tricia, poor Tricia- she needs better friends, doesn't she?
tintinnabulationable 1 year ago 6
It's worse than actually losing him for her. If he'd died she would have been able to grieve and then get on with life. Here she is feeling guilty and feeling guilty for feeling guilty and so on and so forth. She uses drink as an escape from the trauma of real life.
HeatherRuthDiane 1 year ago 9
Doesn't anyone understand this woman loves her husband and is grieving for him its no ones fault.
MummyCookie123 2 years ago 13
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this woman is fucking another man while she is married. this is not called "grieving". She was ready to leave him after that bit of one night stand. the word is adultery, not grieving.
randominitializer 1 year ago 3
the only reason he got the fucking accidentg is cause he wanted to go home to her... cuz he loved her and he still does. fucking bitch cant get it through her head. if he was braindead when she was 16 wud she never marry him? bitch
InNItTh0 2 years ago
i hate her friend
nowhereibelongvip 2 years ago 9
His friend just acts like it's all Alan's fault. What an ass! Can't he understand that this is not exactly the time to be calling him pathetic?
bananas1and2 2 years ago 11
dont you get it? hes doing it on purpose! everyone is purposely being mean to him because like the doctor said he has to realise somethings wrong! thats what i thought a t first but now i get it
InNItTh0 2 years ago
I still don't think it's necessary to be horrible to him. He's obviously already realised something is wrong. Even if they should be harsh, they don't need to be calling him names.
bananas1and2 2 years ago 3
I guess
InNItTh0 2 years ago
Her friend is a bitch and has turned her into a drunk bitch who's trying to leave her husband. Shit.
timegirl95 2 years ago 12
makes me think about how lucky i am ...
ronnie05au 2 years ago 5
slut
randominitializer 2 years ago
I really hate that friend of hers. Honestly, she's telling her to leave her husband, the one she's loved since 16, the one that's had brain damage. Obviously he doesn't want to have brain damage, it's hardly his fault! What a BITCH.
I mean, because of this, he needs his wife more than anything! I am mad at Tricia too but she was under the influence. Stress didn't help either, I'm sure.
With that said, she didn't have to go and SLEEP with a stranger either!
genericusername337 2 years ago 17
all people do these days is DRINK DRINK its not making anything better it will make things worse!
you cant keep running away from everything :(
fariha14 2 years ago 13
O.o
She just threw the bucket of piss...
MyMomStoleUrLunch 2 years ago 11
eek, I think the scene with Alan in his bedroom is David's best performance in the film so far. he is amazing and pulls it off so well!! <3
karenlikesyou 2 years ago 5
Uch, I can not believe what I just saw!
I totally understand Tricia is stressed and heart broken, but I hardly think a night of drinking and bad sex is gonna make her situation a happier place. The only thing she's gonna get from that is an itchy-burny sensation.
And why the hell did she listen to that so called "friend" who telling her she looks like shit. When did that lady last look in the mirror, she has the ugliest hairdo I've ever seen.
Ladies, dont listen to bitches with bad advice.
Chrysanthemum6 2 years ago 42
I agree. I understand Tricia needed a bit of a break and just wanted to have one drink w/her co-worker [gone for couple hours], that would've been alright. It would've given her a nice little relaxation, but what she was doing was...purposeless, for lack of better word.
lighthousedreamers 2 years ago 2
WTF his wife did that to him? really... everyone is blaming him and why? they're all stupid he doesn't know whats wrong only time can fix it! Ignorant ppl deep down he loves ya...
*emotional*
57682835 2 years ago 5
She's only human and can only take so much. Its easy to say she shouldn't have have done that, she should have done this etc but image yourself in that situation, would you be able to cope day in day out watching someone you love turn into someone else and there's nothing you can do about it?? It must be heartbreaking
SwarovskiGal 2 years ago 7
stupid bloodu friend. shes a blooody idiot. why did she say that. its all her fault
PxCharles 2 years ago 4
The scene where he talks about the fish at the bottom of the ocean is so sad! It made want to hug him and be all,"It's okay...shh...it's okay..."
QuincyInLove 2 years ago 6
The friend! Fuck her!
mauerbluemchen0 3 years ago 13
What an atrocious friend is right. That's appalling friendship.
rufusjetaime 3 years ago 11
So many times I wanted to grab her and shake her and say "Do you remember the part about FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE!!!!" My father had a stroke 3 years ago, thankfully it was mild and he's fine, but you don't give up on them. You never EVER turn your back on your family during something like that.
ladycplum 3 years ago 6
Her friend didn't really offer good advice :(
crazypianolady 3 years ago 6
I've just lost all sympathy for his wife. I understand it hurts to see someone you love like that, and it's frustrating, but that was low. She's being completely selfish. It's not his fault he's acting like that. He's not doing it on purpose. If it was my husband I'd want nothing more then to comfort him and take care of him. Verbally assaulting him and then running out and cheating on him was horrible. And her friend needs to get slapped. What friend says "Oh, well, you might as well give up!"
CrazyGirl1580 3 years ago 3
Its So Sad I'd Always Feel Sorry For him, How His Mate Can Sit There And Argue At Him.. I Don't Know Its So Sad x He Can't Help It
MissAimeeTennant94 3 years ago
Does anybody know where I can get the DVD of this? I can't find it anywhere!! Thanks xxx
XxTARDISGirlxX 3 years ago
It's not been released on DVD - hope it will be eventually.
sarahflute 3 years ago 5
I have to admit, that scene in the bar was pretty funny.
"So, you wanna give it a go?"
montypython203 3 years ago 2
the part with the pillow. wow. that's so emotional.
and the bit in the bar is funny [=
Stirlsxo 3 years ago 4
Bloody Gwen if she'd shut up that would not have happened, she needed sympathy not someone to take her out, get her pissed and suggest a quickie! Love the acting these 2 are amazing together and I really think this is the best acting David Tennant has ever done and that is saying something from me! Love you David xx
kbjdouglas 3 years ago
That sex scene is heartbreaking, the realisation that he misery has caused her to stoop so low is written all over her face. Brilliantly acted.
MimiVanTassel 3 years ago 4
but it's not his fault :[
LlamaQueenx0x 3 years ago
put your records on
funkyfryer 3 years ago
bitch cant belive she did that
sharenslattery 3 years ago 2
wat idiots! y didn't they open the fuking door??!
PandaBoo92 3 years ago
I'd just like to say that although david tennants acting is absolutley outstanding, that his wife and eldest son are also due credit too, they make this drama unmissable and i honestly believe this programme did not get enough credit where credit is due!
MissDanielleCraig 3 years ago 19
This story is just so.... And the acting is.....
Love it...
KittyKirara 3 years ago 8
It's not fair that people are being so harsh on him. They're treating him as if he's acting like this out of choice. I'd never give up on him, cheat on him, or call him pathetic like his mate did. I'd like to see them cope if their brain was damaged.
PuffyAmiYumi 3 years ago 14
though this kind of sitution is really hard on eveybody. though i agee. it's not his fault... they could be less meaner to him. especially his "friend".
PaddySnuffles 3 years ago 5
i soo know!! but then again their all have to look after him aswell.. my little bro had meningitis and was left deaf so my mum and i wud hav to look after him n help him change but not greatly like david's character..he's normal except for being abit hyperactive and deaf n dumb..so both sides of this film suffers...the mum and 2 sons...and David..
PandaBoo92 3 years ago 3
I understand it must be really tough, but I still wouldn't say or do those things.
And where his mate is concerned...
I might be able to understand the wife lashing out, but for his mate to say nasty things to him, he has no right to, as he doesn't even look after him.
PuffyAmiYumi 3 years ago 2
Becoz it was locked...
k8erocks 3 years ago
I know; I suffered a head injury when I was 11 and it gave me Epilepsy. I was SO grateful that nobody treated me terrible or differently though :)
lighthousedreamers 3 years ago 9
i reckon his mate reacted that way outta fustration. My Aunty sunk into depression and i have to admit i had a conversation that was very similar in a situation where we had to break down the door for fear she had attempted suicide. Granted, she didnt have a horrific accident, but she, like Alan, would just lie in bed and snap at people and things like "you are pathetic" just come out with the stress and fustration of that time. The mate shouldnt have said it, but it is hard on everyone.
lostinlost 3 years ago
its 1:00pm in the morning and ve got parts 8 and 9 left- im so interested to see what happens!!:D
lilmisswhatsername 3 years ago 3
I couldn't make out what David was saying when they first got into his room (I'm American). Can somebody help me out?
MrHeavySilence4 3 years ago
"if that truck would have been going faster I would have had a better chance of dying then"
RebeccaChambersBF 3 years ago 2
"What are ya like?!" "Tonight Cilla,I am a woman in a baaar." I love it !
Beautifully acted by both Sarah and David. They deserve a lot of credit for this.
EmmsLovinTakeThat 3 years ago 4
such a sad story
enough to make anyone cry
DavrosMarioSonic 3 years ago 2
im crying!! this is so sad!
lilmisswhatsername 3 years ago 4
I'm sorry but at 2:55 when we was holding that marker I couldn't help but think "OMG the sonic screwdriver!!!!" Of couse I relised that it wasn't but stil.....
trixiebell62792 3 years ago 4
Hha! I see what you mean luv! Are you by any chance blonde? (dont take offence, I am too. Its bloody brilliant coz you can blame anything on it!)
EmmsLovinTakeThat 3 years ago
I would never give up on David Tennant
dtrules7809 3 years ago 3
I'm so loving this! Its upsetting and moving and everything. I've laughed and cried and everything! David Tennant has to be the best actor ever...
TommyChaplinsBabe 4 years ago 4
I dont think Tricia is beinbg selfish at all, she feels like her husband has gone, and some nutter has taken his place.
If I was her, I couldnt give up on him, but some people arnt that strong.
David is an amazing actor.
XxXTorchwoodFanXxX 4 years ago 5
shes trying its all building up on her and she doesnt know what to do anybody would crack sooner or later but her cheating on him was wrong to
sexychula19 4 years ago 3
brillant! x x x
bagitha 4 years ago
i dnt know why but watching this i know something bad is gonna happen to him or to his son and as i say i dont know why this is just so heartwarming and depressing at the same time i carnt help but think its going to go wrong agein and agein
tennant1971 4 years ago 3
"Who you are is how other people see you"
That is a brilliant point and I shall nick it to use as my favourite quote...
rockbloodyon 4 years ago 6
TRICIA! Your husband wants you, you nutcase!
rockbloodyon 4 years ago 8
oh i do not like tricia now!!!!
cherith 4 years ago 3
why not i wouldent be able to cope i would try to stickin there but just remember just because we like david tennant and feel 4 his charecter dosnt mean she didnt do the right thing for herself
tennant1971 4 years ago 4
Hes sucha fucking amazing actor
BabyJRetardis 4 years ago 9
I think they're both being selfish. Alan can't help himself. The only one that cares is the little boy.
spikelilgirl 4 years ago 10
its really mean she thinks about how bad it is for her but not how bad it is for him shes horrible he must feel awful himself but she doesnt care about that evil cow
Pwinces92 4 years ago
acctually it was kind of funny when she got drunk and started "picking out" men.. 2 kids, a husbend with brain damage, who cries if he looses... great line...
teddybear0509 4 years ago
that really was the sadest bit yet. poor tricia she must be so scared
Heady987 4 years ago 2
i really feel sorry for tricia
shylovesthedoctor 4 years ago
Fuck. That was the worst bit yet. I'm almost afraid to watch the last two.
dallazkatt 4 years ago 3
this is reaaly gd. i feel like crying really
xLordIEvilno65x 4 years ago
she is selfish. it isnt just hard on her.
fraufoote 4 years ago 2
I don't think Tricia is selfish at all, I feel really bad for her aswell as Alan. I think the eldist son is the selfish one for most of the movie.
LieutenantSparkles 4 years ago
she is selfish, did you see the same clip tat i did? she slept with a completley stranger and she is willing to give up on her family, isn´t that selfisy enough for you?
teddybear0509 4 years ago
I wouldn't be able to handle it.
LieutenantSparkles 4 years ago
she was suposed to love him, i alredy saw the end, although they end up together i never heard her saying how she had cheeted on him.
teddybear0509 4 years ago
well, yeah, cause it's a movie and not everything's included.
LieutenantSparkles 4 years ago
oh reallly then why did she pretended that everything was allright and only blamed poor Al who did not had any fult on his accident!!!
teddybear0509 4 years ago
Yes, she's putting herself first. But she's reached a point where she must have felt like she, as a woman, was being swallowed by all her responsibilities: by going out and flirting with men, it was a way to be that woman again. And yes, the accident wasn't Alan's fault, but sh*tty things happen in life that are nobody's fault, and there's a burden that comes with it that sometimes people just aren't able to cope with. Doesn't make them lesser people for it, they are just human
eilismanach 4 years ago 4
I agree, man, I woulda cracked sooner
LieutenantSparkles 4 years ago 4
@ eilismanach, when "shitty" things come in life and you screw up, then yes, it does make you a "lesser people".
randominitializer 2 years ago
well, she did wanted to get away from it all u know, i dont know why u people are being distinctive, but wouldnt u lot feel the same as her?
matt2house 4 years ago
That poor woman. How would you balance caring for the man you loved who'd become a stranger that's destroying your family, and your children that need you. A horrible position to be put in. I can understand losing it a little. I'd be insane.
emacat1215 4 years ago
well duuuuuhhhhh katrin
matt2house 4 years ago
I can totally understand how she'd go off the rails - she already has 2 kids to look after and the husband she's loved since 16 is there but not there. I don't know how I'd cope.
reinette 4 years ago 2
this was so good, it made me cry though. -sobs into duvet-
iluffdavidtennant 4 years ago
how could she sleep with that other guy? i was really disgusted with her after that. i don't even think she knows the guy's name!
katrin15 4 years ago
i felt the same, i know her heads all over the place, but to leave her family alone just to get a one-night-stand? harsh!
laughatyourmasballs 4 years ago 4
yh i guess but if u lived with a man who was brain damaged (even if he was david tennant :p) then u would find it v. difficult lookin after kids, looking after him makin sure he dosent blow up the house and working a job. it would be kinda difficult so i guess she just let her self go..?
megmopo123 4 years ago