You are right, they do need to include males, they get verbally abused too. But it has been mostly women being abused.. Also, you are wrong about verbal abuse being not as bad as physical abuse. I know how bad physical abuse can get, they could kill you. But in verbal abuse, there has been many suicides associated with it (especially in my area - god knows how many everywhere else), and if that person doesn't kill themselves they have a hard time throughout life....
I have always considered myself physically tough. I have seen my own guts and had to hold them in "literally." Think of that gruesome scene from the movie Misery. Yes, that also. Physical pain is of no consequence to me. Mental pain is true torture.
If mental distress as opposed to physical was used on prisoners, they would sing like birds. It takes someone you care about to inflict it. That is why families and children get kidnapped. psychological distress and torture.
Sorry girl, but your opinion is not based on any facts. Mental and verbal abuse are just as bad as physical abuse. It's just that the scars are not as easy to see, that's all.
A helpful critique; maybe you could make notes to yourself about the points you wish to make and get your opening, your conclusion, and your main supporting points in mind before making a vid. This vid probably could have been about half as long as this, while still making every point as completely, but evern MORE effectively, as a result of the more concise nature of your speech!
I will try to peruse more of your vids, as I like your attitude and way of thinking.
Men are often overtly verbally abusive. It's true, it's a problem, and it needs to be dealt with.
However, in my experience, women abuse men in a more devastating and subtle way. They treat men as objects that have no intrinsic value, that exist only to provide entertainment, money, and instant gratification. If a man cannot do this continuously, women treat him as though he doesn't exist. That's often even more cruel than verbal abuse.
I'm not going to say physical abuse is worse than verbal abuse or vice versa... but keep in mind that most forms of physical abuse were preceded by verbal abuse. It is also worth noting that physical retaliation is a likely reaction from someone who is being abused verbally. Considering one form of abuse worse than the other does not seem to matter since both often go hand-in-hand. It would probably be a good idea to take note when verbal abuse is present as it's a symptom of something worse.
@DeityofStuff No, that is not what I am saying. Read what I said! You said "Positive thinking is bullshit" etc. It most definitely is not. And when I say manage them, I am fully aware that they may need help. It's the learning how to manage emotions that can help prevent deep depression.
How on earth did you equate me saying what I did to "depressed people being lazy"? I didn't even mention depressed people. I was talking about preventing depression, more specifically, one path to it.
@DeityofStuff True that emotions are an emotional reaction. However, you can effectively manage them. Positive thinking is definitely not bullshit and does not equal repression of emotions. Again, it is managing them, before they lead to some sort of depression.
Verbal abuse can be shrugged off unless it has been a staple of your life growing up. I have to fight a lot of the words my mother threw at me as a child and despite the physical abuse I would say the verbal abuse hurt far more. It was the verbal abuse that led to my suicide attempt when I was 8 yrs old. It boils down to who the person is, if you have been verbally abused as a child you will be more sensitive to it later. I have come a long way but I still struggle with it.
I have learned that men and women are more similar than we think. There are much much and much more common in us than difference. We have to learn that.
@matchu4444 I'm not saying which kind of abuse feels worse, that is very subjective. I'm just saying one is more simple to be avoided...you cant avoide physical harm done to you, you can not allow people to affect you emotionaly.And I just said on the video that men do in fact get verbaly abused, so I don't see the point in your statment.
@danihc I can dodge a punch and a kick, but words can easily slip through a barricaded door with no exit from the room. How long can you cover your ears for?
@danihc I think that verbal abuse should be on equal level with physical and the reason is that you can get away with verbal abuse because most view it as "not as bad" and it can just happen over and over and over. if your boss is verbally abusive can you say anything because he may fire you then what? the more you hear negative things about yourself the more likely you are going to think them yourself and then that verbal abuse can lead to suicidal thoughts and actions.
Verbal abuse is waaaaaaay worse IMO. It's purly psychological. Physical abuse is nothing! Physical pain? LOL. Punch me in the face. Break my legs. Pain shmane. Women are not the only ones who suffer verbal abuse.
@matchu4444 are you fucking stupid? do you not think that physical abuse can be psychologically damaging either?!
what do you think is more damaging to someones mental state? someone calling you a weak little bitch in front of a crowd... or that person beating the shit out of you in front of a crowd?
and most physical abuse is often accompanied with verbal abuse as well?
you know absolutely nothing about this topic, and when you are talking about a topic you are ignorant of, you need to STFU!
@KingMatthewDaGreat I have experienced both types of abuse throughout my entire childhood and into my early teens. I got used to the physical abuse and at times wished that it were only that. Have you ever experienced being verbally abused, day in and day out literally? Be threatened, screamed at and toyed with for days at a time? You like to sound like YOU know what you're talking about? Physical pain? LMFAO!
@KingMatthewDaGreat You seem to be worried about what your peers think of you while you're being bullied on the street. Calling you a weak little bitch? That's not verbal abuse. Try your mother wispering in your ear that she is going to kill you in your sleep for starters. That's not even the worst of it.
@KingMatthewDaGreat How many nervous breakdowns have you had while being physically assaluted. I've never had one while having the shit kicked out of me. Do you cry after getting beaten up because you feel sorry for yourself? I've never cried from a beating. Tell me what exactly YOU know about this subject. You sound like a fucking moron that thinks he knows what he's talking about.
@DeityofStuff I'm in no way blaming the victim, I'm just saying no one can force you to feel anything emotionaly, not in the same way someone can make you feel physical pain.No one can make you feel bad about yourself, unless you let them.Women are not kids, we can very well ignore words, unless we are told to be fragil and told to FEEL hurt by words.its like there is a whole victm mindset created for women.words are words, they cant affect you if you dont let them.
@DeityofStuff and most of all, we are talking about people in abusive RELATIONSHIPS, and people CHOSE to be in a relationship with someone, its not like a child who cant chose to leave his family if he feels abused emotionaly or pshycologicaly...people can chose to walk out of a relationship, I do have emphathy, I do understand is not that simple, but is still much more different from being hold in a relationship because you are being physicaly harmed.
@danihc Words can cause a physical effect on a person that is more damaging than physical abuse if the resulting effect on the brain from depression causes injuries that do more damage to a person's quality of life. People should not have to be around people that cause such a thing as that.
Ugh, that video you linked made me so angry, it's not just bad for men, but women too! Like women are these delicate little creatures who could never hurt a big strong man, it's bullshit.
An excellent video Danihc. The voice of reason. Haven't encountered my fair share of radical feminists it is refreshing to know you, Divinity, Kv, and other conservative, reasonable proactive feminists. It is sad that so much abuse still takes place between genders. With sound view points and education, we can turn the tide and eliminate unneeded suffering and abuse. Voices like yours I think are important towards that end.
It's also worth pointing out that when prosecuted for abuse, men generally receive harsher punishments than women who abuse men to the same degree. The only time that I would ever let a woman hit me is if I had in some way been bad. Very bad. You could even say...naughty. Like I had been a very very naughty boy and I needed to be punished. Just remember that's it's not abuse when you have a safe word.
See now, I go for serious and somehow you get me all dirty. Bitch...
@danihc Hey now. I'm no slut. I have to be seduced a little first.
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Okay, that's enough. Just give me five minutes to grab my passport, feed the cat and grab my equipment bag then I'm off to the airport. Do you think they would let me have a leather studded riding crop in my carry on bag? Maybe I should just leave that behind. Airports in Brazil might have a duty free fetish store.
Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse. The emotional abuse is what allows for the build up to physical abuse. They have to make their victim have a distorted perception of reality and themselves in order to keep them in that toxic cycle of physical and it is done in a very efficient and effective manner. It's so much more insidious than childish name calling.
@dawn0293 I reconize that verbal abuse can be damaging to a person, but only to people that already have issues...seriously, if someone you are in a relationship with starts verbaly abusing you, you can always tell them to 'fuck off'' and walk away, in a physical abuse thats not so much the same...But fragil people can be abused basicly with anything
@danihc Verbal abuse isn't the entire arsenal of emotional abuse tactics. In and of itself, calling someone a name is not very harmful but when used in conjunction with other tactics such as gaslighting and emotional manipulation, this otherwise infantile method can worm it's way into the subconscious and further erode a person's security in their own perceptions. It's not only the damaged that can find themselves being manipulated. It's not always overt or obvious in nature.
@dawn0293 We are adults, not kids, we are suposed to know how to deal with negative comments, with name calling and etc...we are suposed to know better, and not let words affect us...that would be different if the person being verbaly abused was a child.
@danihc I strongly disagree with you on this. I know you are intelligent enough to understand that human psychology is not as easy as "well an adult should not let words hurt them". That's just over simplification and a poor understanding of mental anguish that is suffered. My physical wounds after being in an abusive relationship, healed long ago... the emotional/mental wounds are still there to this day.
The thing is verbal abuse only hurts you psychologically but physical abuse hurts you both psychologically and physically.
But I think that it´s a really big problem that male victims aren't taken seriously. That’s why, at least here in Sweden and probably other places to, the leading cause of death for men is suicide, because they will hide that they are depressed, because of how stigmatized it is for men to be victims.
I loved this video. It always makes me happy when a woman has the same views on equality as me, and thinks everything should actually be equal. I've met so many feminists in my everyday life who desire the same rights as me( which they obviously deserve) but still want to be treated the way women were in the 50's in some sense. ( ill elaborate on that further if anyone cares) I hope one day we can live in a society where every person can actually be equal
There isn't a whole lot of them, but they are popping up. I'll give ya some links:
A Psychologist - shrink4men(dot)wordpress(dot)com
A Radio Show - blogtalkradio(dot)com/avoiceformen (According to this there are a total of 19 centers that accept men [They are not only for men, that would go against political correctness /sigh])
and also
A Lawyer - lisascottlaw(dot)com
Political Correctness is bs. Fight it and look for allies.
more important I think is that even when you get called a bitch or you call your man limp dick etc. you can apologize for saying those things. We are human and we make mistakes and say things don't mean when we are mad.
@NiklasKing87 yeah, we do say mean things to eachother, that is natural! we can't call it verbal abuse everytime an ADULT says something offensive to another ADULT.
@Proletariat12 As I said some people are in fact emotianaly, psychologically unstable and that may make them very fragil to verbal abuse, BUT, you have to see that someone calling you a name, someone saying something bad about you doesnt necessarily needs to mean anything to you, you dont HAVE TO feel anything about that, we hold te power to feel things, not other people, they can't MAKE YOU feel bad, unless you let them.I didnt ignore the problem tho, I just said its different from pysical harm
Great vid. I slapped a guy across the face once for verbally abusing me.....but he thanked me for it eventually because he realized he was being a shit (and I of course, confirmed that assertion with a nice right hook) ;)
@danihc actually you'd be surprised, there are ways to control a woman who is behaving violently, you just need to do it in an alpha way, if its 100% u going to get hurt, then quick elbow to the forehead creates a stun like effect like in demolition man with that glow stick, stun disarms and then u can hold them in the bear hug position and talk to them until they calm down, the stun lets them know you mean business and YOU are the parent and THEY are the child. ;) now u can use on men too
@danihc if you ever wonder why men don't pay attention you when yall start bitchin' that's the main reason why. We can't do much. So we usually just block you out. And a woman that's constantly a disterbance in the Force hint hint. We tend to start blocking yall out totally nomatter what you say in order to keep some sanity. I'm not directing this comment strait at you but women who see this if they wonder why. Darling most of the time you just have to look in the mirror for the answer.
@Aresftfun yes fortunately even still your mind is this lovely system of saying.....right pain threshold check, my time here is done, call me when it's over
@Aresftfun oh nuthin mate, i was just simply saying pain threshold hits thats why u go to sleep, dream and do stuff, pain controls :) bad design is just as much of an influential factor as good design in our inherited system. pass out reach your limits, limitations, :) everything and everyone bud, everything and everyone.
@sonicsoul0 sorry didn't mean it to sound like i was disagreeing with you in ANY way, yes emotion torture is one method of being a faggot, but physical pain is so much more real for us, nothing can compare, nothing comes close to the deadly realisation that your arm is being bent, that the muscle will tear, bone will become alive for the first time as you live through it as if it had nerves you feel the sound of it shatter then reality kicks in with adrenaline and your left with a life scar
@sonicsoul0 it will NEVER work the same again, NEVER be as strong, everytime you move your arm you will ALWAYS know, your friends+family will know, it affects your life, you tell this story to anyone who dares argue emotional over physical pain ;) and see if they don't say, well since you put it like that I can actually see what your saying as vivid as it actually happening and having gone through both! physical is ALWAYS emotional too, but emotion is just life!
@Aresftfun no dood, thats science, thats life, how else are you going to wake people up from this googoogaga mentality they live in.....you have to say bullshit aside, you need to eat, u need to shit, you need money, so shut the fuck up and do something in life before it's too late! ya'know its how it works, people in wheelchairs face this reality 24/7 no point being a bitch about it, if you want their respect, you need to respect their situation and not be lame about it.
@sonicsoul0 Don't worry. I live knowing that I will be able to change something. I don't want to live a transcendental lifestyle, but I love thinking about things and figuring things out. I want to live a life that changes the way people think.
@Aresftfun totally, but that would require that you know how they tihnk first :) and so you at least know everything there is to know about transcendental stuff that they don't know about ;)
@Aresftfun not everything is meaningful and useful for instance spending your time understanding the complexities of santa clause might not work out too well for you, but understanding basic rules of physics that hold true for all time like gravity, conflicting elements like fire burns skins chemistries, kinda useful :)
@Aresftfun do you know of anyhting else tha moves in circles, birth, death, going out of home coming back, eating digesting, waking up going to sleep? just sayin @:D
you can stop fiscal abuse, hears the secret, are you ready....... Beat there ass, or kill theme... what ever comes first, its all about a choice.
XBlackWolf10 1 month ago
your hair is beautiful. I love women who are colorful
endauthority 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
What can I do if I feel visually abused by a green flashy hair?
swiftspy 9 months ago
...if they don't get the appropriate help they need to heal from verbal abuse.
tiffyj85 9 months ago
You are right, they do need to include males, they get verbally abused too. But it has been mostly women being abused.. Also, you are wrong about verbal abuse being not as bad as physical abuse. I know how bad physical abuse can get, they could kill you. But in verbal abuse, there has been many suicides associated with it (especially in my area - god knows how many everywhere else), and if that person doesn't kill themselves they have a hard time throughout life....
tiffyj85 9 months ago
I have always considered myself physically tough. I have seen my own guts and had to hold them in "literally." Think of that gruesome scene from the movie Misery. Yes, that also. Physical pain is of no consequence to me. Mental pain is true torture.
If mental distress as opposed to physical was used on prisoners, they would sing like birds. It takes someone you care about to inflict it. That is why families and children get kidnapped. psychological distress and torture.
pumpstations 9 months ago
In brazil they choke their women out
xIegionx 9 months ago
i'd argue that a bruise goes away, someone fucking with your head can last forever
ohgrx 10 months ago
Sorry girl, but your opinion is not based on any facts. Mental and verbal abuse are just as bad as physical abuse. It's just that the scars are not as easy to see, that's all.
NicolSD 10 months ago
Some good points!
A helpful critique; maybe you could make notes to yourself about the points you wish to make and get your opening, your conclusion, and your main supporting points in mind before making a vid. This vid probably could have been about half as long as this, while still making every point as completely, but evern MORE effectively, as a result of the more concise nature of your speech!
I will try to peruse more of your vids, as I like your attitude and way of thinking.
LastBastionOfTruth 10 months ago
good job dani. pitty you dont post videos more often, you articulate and express these points so well :)
Catlover123445 10 months ago
Men are often overtly verbally abusive. It's true, it's a problem, and it needs to be dealt with.
However, in my experience, women abuse men in a more devastating and subtle way. They treat men as objects that have no intrinsic value, that exist only to provide entertainment, money, and instant gratification. If a man cannot do this continuously, women treat him as though he doesn't exist. That's often even more cruel than verbal abuse.
KhagarBalugrak 10 months ago
On the subject of verbal abuse, all im going to say is this, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will NEVER (f*$&ing) hurt me
raptorsite1 10 months ago
I'm not going to say physical abuse is worse than verbal abuse or vice versa... but keep in mind that most forms of physical abuse were preceded by verbal abuse. It is also worth noting that physical retaliation is a likely reaction from someone who is being abused verbally. Considering one form of abuse worse than the other does not seem to matter since both often go hand-in-hand. It would probably be a good idea to take note when verbal abuse is present as it's a symptom of something worse.
razredge07 10 months ago
@DeityofStuff No, that is not what I am saying. Read what I said! You said "Positive thinking is bullshit" etc. It most definitely is not. And when I say manage them, I am fully aware that they may need help. It's the learning how to manage emotions that can help prevent deep depression.
How on earth did you equate me saying what I did to "depressed people being lazy"? I didn't even mention depressed people. I was talking about preventing depression, more specifically, one path to it.
connchri 10 months ago
@DeityofStuff True that emotions are an emotional reaction. However, you can effectively manage them. Positive thinking is definitely not bullshit and does not equal repression of emotions. Again, it is managing them, before they lead to some sort of depression.
connchri 10 months ago
Verbal abuse can be shrugged off unless it has been a staple of your life growing up. I have to fight a lot of the words my mother threw at me as a child and despite the physical abuse I would say the verbal abuse hurt far more. It was the verbal abuse that led to my suicide attempt when I was 8 yrs old. It boils down to who the person is, if you have been verbally abused as a child you will be more sensitive to it later. I have come a long way but I still struggle with it.
dodgermutt 10 months ago
I have learned that men and women are more similar than we think. There are much much and much more common in us than difference. We have to learn that.
DragonFire1984 10 months ago
Physical and mental abuse are both bad. It depends on the level of abuse and the victims involved as to which is actually worse.
charlesfloyb 10 months ago
Bah, pure butthurt, Amazing atheist said the true, and i mean one of the biggest douches in Youtube.
So, all happens is your absence of personality reveling against the common sense. What makes you a good lamp.
ECHOES2131 10 months ago
Good to see you back. Haven't watched your videos in a while but this was awesome and it's great to see a woman sticking up for male issues.
YesIamJames 10 months ago
@YesIamJames Thanks =)
danihc 10 months ago
more than 40% of the time it is the male being abused.. Don't let the feminist hear me say that, they might attack me then say I was abusing them.
Darkphoenix3450 10 months ago
@Darkphoenix3450 yeah, shut up, or I'll call you a RAPIST lol
danihc 10 months ago
@Darkphoenix3450 love to know this because theres way more awful words towards women than men
sabinabean 1 month ago
@matchu4444 I'm not saying which kind of abuse feels worse, that is very subjective. I'm just saying one is more simple to be avoided...you cant avoide physical harm done to you, you can not allow people to affect you emotionaly.And I just said on the video that men do in fact get verbaly abused, so I don't see the point in your statment.
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc I can dodge a punch and a kick, but words can easily slip through a barricaded door with no exit from the room. How long can you cover your ears for?
matchu4444 10 months ago
@danihc I think that verbal abuse should be on equal level with physical and the reason is that you can get away with verbal abuse because most view it as "not as bad" and it can just happen over and over and over. if your boss is verbally abusive can you say anything because he may fire you then what? the more you hear negative things about yourself the more likely you are going to think them yourself and then that verbal abuse can lead to suicidal thoughts and actions.
LiveFreeFromFallacy 8 months ago
@danihc i had a bit of a rant at someone in the comment section, but yeah, anyway nice vid... and hair :)
KingMatthewDaGreat 10 months ago
Verbal abuse is waaaaaaay worse IMO. It's purly psychological. Physical abuse is nothing! Physical pain? LOL. Punch me in the face. Break my legs. Pain shmane. Women are not the only ones who suffer verbal abuse.
matchu4444 10 months ago
@matchu4444 are you fucking stupid? do you not think that physical abuse can be psychologically damaging either?!
what do you think is more damaging to someones mental state? someone calling you a weak little bitch in front of a crowd... or that person beating the shit out of you in front of a crowd?
and most physical abuse is often accompanied with verbal abuse as well?
you know absolutely nothing about this topic, and when you are talking about a topic you are ignorant of, you need to STFU!
KingMatthewDaGreat 10 months ago
@KingMatthewDaGreat I have experienced both types of abuse throughout my entire childhood and into my early teens. I got used to the physical abuse and at times wished that it were only that. Have you ever experienced being verbally abused, day in and day out literally? Be threatened, screamed at and toyed with for days at a time? You like to sound like YOU know what you're talking about? Physical pain? LMFAO!
A crowd? WTF are you talking about?
You have no idea what you are talking about
matchu4444 10 months ago
@KingMatthewDaGreat You seem to be worried about what your peers think of you while you're being bullied on the street. Calling you a weak little bitch? That's not verbal abuse. Try your mother wispering in your ear that she is going to kill you in your sleep for starters. That's not even the worst of it.
matchu4444 10 months ago
@KingMatthewDaGreat How many nervous breakdowns have you had while being physically assaluted. I've never had one while having the shit kicked out of me. Do you cry after getting beaten up because you feel sorry for yourself? I've never cried from a beating. Tell me what exactly YOU know about this subject. You sound like a fucking moron that thinks he knows what he's talking about.
matchu4444 10 months ago
I think your stance empowers women more than most arguments I've seen.
"Alright fucker. You think that about me? Fuck you too! Ciao."
If he trys to stop you physically. Then the game just changed.
Thayer79 10 months ago
@Thayer79 Thanks so much for you actualy getting what I was trying to say =)
danihc 10 months ago
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@DeityofStuff I'm blaming the victim now because you're a faggot.
Failcard 10 months ago
@DeityofStuff I'm in no way blaming the victim, I'm just saying no one can force you to feel anything emotionaly, not in the same way someone can make you feel physical pain.No one can make you feel bad about yourself, unless you let them.Women are not kids, we can very well ignore words, unless we are told to be fragil and told to FEEL hurt by words.its like there is a whole victm mindset created for women.words are words, they cant affect you if you dont let them.
danihc 10 months ago
@DeityofStuff and most of all, we are talking about people in abusive RELATIONSHIPS, and people CHOSE to be in a relationship with someone, its not like a child who cant chose to leave his family if he feels abused emotionaly or pshycologicaly...people can chose to walk out of a relationship, I do have emphathy, I do understand is not that simple, but is still much more different from being hold in a relationship because you are being physicaly harmed.
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc Words can cause a physical effect on a person that is more damaging than physical abuse if the resulting effect on the brain from depression causes injuries that do more damage to a person's quality of life. People should not have to be around people that cause such a thing as that.
deathsminion25 10 months ago
Verbal abuse is often tied in with physical abuse.
anarki777 10 months ago
@anarki777 often, not always.
danihc 10 months ago
Verbal abuse can completely destroy somebody's personality and lead to suicide
NoFaithNoPain 10 months ago
Ugh, that video you linked made me so angry, it's not just bad for men, but women too! Like women are these delicate little creatures who could never hurt a big strong man, it's bullshit.
StanMarsh1 10 months ago
An excellent video Danihc. The voice of reason. Haven't encountered my fair share of radical feminists it is refreshing to know you, Divinity, Kv, and other conservative, reasonable proactive feminists. It is sad that so much abuse still takes place between genders. With sound view points and education, we can turn the tide and eliminate unneeded suffering and abuse. Voices like yours I think are important towards that end.
SnowWalkerOne 10 months ago
@SnowWalkerOne "Having not haven't"
SnowWalkerOne 10 months ago
It's also worth pointing out that when prosecuted for abuse, men generally receive harsher punishments than women who abuse men to the same degree. The only time that I would ever let a woman hit me is if I had in some way been bad. Very bad. You could even say...naughty. Like I had been a very very naughty boy and I needed to be punished. Just remember that's it's not abuse when you have a safe word.
See now, I go for serious and somehow you get me all dirty. Bitch...
;-)
PJsCreed 10 months ago 9
@PJsCreed HAUHUAHUH I'm all for verbal and physical abuse....between 2 consenting adults (thats you and me ;) lol
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc Hey now. I'm no slut. I have to be seduced a little first.
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Okay, that's enough. Just give me five minutes to grab my passport, feed the cat and grab my equipment bag then I'm off to the airport. Do you think they would let me have a leather studded riding crop in my carry on bag? Maybe I should just leave that behind. Airports in Brazil might have a duty free fetish store.
PJsCreed 10 months ago
Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse. The emotional abuse is what allows for the build up to physical abuse. They have to make their victim have a distorted perception of reality and themselves in order to keep them in that toxic cycle of physical and it is done in a very efficient and effective manner. It's so much more insidious than childish name calling.
dawn0293 10 months ago
@dawn0293 I reconize that verbal abuse can be damaging to a person, but only to people that already have issues...seriously, if someone you are in a relationship with starts verbaly abusing you, you can always tell them to 'fuck off'' and walk away, in a physical abuse thats not so much the same...But fragil people can be abused basicly with anything
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc Verbal abuse isn't the entire arsenal of emotional abuse tactics. In and of itself, calling someone a name is not very harmful but when used in conjunction with other tactics such as gaslighting and emotional manipulation, this otherwise infantile method can worm it's way into the subconscious and further erode a person's security in their own perceptions. It's not only the damaged that can find themselves being manipulated. It's not always overt or obvious in nature.
dawn0293 10 months ago
@dawn0293 We are adults, not kids, we are suposed to know how to deal with negative comments, with name calling and etc...we are suposed to know better, and not let words affect us...that would be different if the person being verbaly abused was a child.
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc I strongly disagree with you on this. I know you are intelligent enough to understand that human psychology is not as easy as "well an adult should not let words hurt them". That's just over simplification and a poor understanding of mental anguish that is suffered. My physical wounds after being in an abusive relationship, healed long ago... the emotional/mental wounds are still there to this day.
tattooskin72 10 months ago
verbal abuse of children is a totally different matter for either girl or boy especially if comes from parents , easist way to make serial killers
jmm1233 10 months ago
@jmm1233 I was only refering to verbal abuse between adults, verbal abuse against children is a tottaly different thing!
danihc 10 months ago
"piece of meat" - lol
nishbrown 10 months ago
The thing is verbal abuse only hurts you psychologically but physical abuse hurts you both psychologically and physically.
But I think that it´s a really big problem that male victims aren't taken seriously. That’s why, at least here in Sweden and probably other places to, the leading cause of death for men is suicide, because they will hide that they are depressed, because of how stigmatized it is for men to be victims.
MrMcOven 10 months ago
I loved this video. It always makes me happy when a woman has the same views on equality as me, and thinks everything should actually be equal. I've met so many feminists in my everyday life who desire the same rights as me( which they obviously deserve) but still want to be treated the way women were in the 50's in some sense. ( ill elaborate on that further if anyone cares) I hope one day we can live in a society where every person can actually be equal
fiend1669 10 months ago
And there are no men's centers like there are women's centers. There's nowhere for an abused man to go.
abbynormal0ne 10 months ago
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@abbynormal0ne
There isn't a whole lot of them, but they are popping up. I'll give ya some links:
A Psychologist - shrink4men(dot)wordpress(dot)com
A Radio Show - blogtalkradio(dot)com/avoiceformen (According to this there are a total of 19 centers that accept men [They are not only for men, that would go against political correctness /sigh])
and also
A Lawyer - lisascottlaw(dot)com
Political Correctness is bs. Fight it and look for allies.
Deathiroth 10 months ago
/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks
Video illustrating exactly what you were talking about.
Great Video.
TheBoyFromNorfolk 10 months ago
@TheBoyFromNorfolk Thanks!That really shows what I'm talking about!
danihc 10 months ago
and your hair is awesome XD
kisamekaulitz 10 months ago
you're right girl! men also have feelings
kisamekaulitz 10 months ago
@kisamekaulitz Thats true! I am always hungry.
adolthitler 10 months ago
Yes I agree verbal abuse is not as bad at all, I think its insulting to woman who have really been abused for those two things to even compare.
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katiefershadybaby 10 months ago
more important I think is that even when you get called a bitch or you call your man limp dick etc. you can apologize for saying those things. We are human and we make mistakes and say things don't mean when we are mad.
NiklasKing87 10 months ago
@NiklasKing87 yeah, we do say mean things to eachother, that is natural! we can't call it verbal abuse everytime an ADULT says something offensive to another ADULT.
danihc 10 months ago
You can't be forced to feel something? So all those people with depression are faking it, or are just too lazy to NOT be depressed?
Your opinion is so inane. Please clarify if you don't want to look very stupid.
Proletariat12 10 months ago
@Proletariat12 As I said some people are in fact emotianaly, psychologically unstable and that may make them very fragil to verbal abuse, BUT, you have to see that someone calling you a name, someone saying something bad about you doesnt necessarily needs to mean anything to you, you dont HAVE TO feel anything about that, we hold te power to feel things, not other people, they can't MAKE YOU feel bad, unless you let them.I didnt ignore the problem tho, I just said its different from pysical harm
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc I wish you had DSL so i could have high speed access to your vagina
fishbone937 10 months ago
Your hair looks like Blue berries. I want to eat it.
Failcard 10 months ago
Whiiiiiine whiiiiine whiiiiine bitch bitch bitch. That's all I got outta this video.
Failcard 10 months ago
@Failcard ...did you even watch it?
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun Nope. I know dani, that's all she does. :p umad dani?
Failcard 10 months ago
@Failcard love, stop trolling haha
danihc 10 months ago
:| I have a lot to say about this. I agree, but then again, I don't.
LadyTigerLily 10 months ago
Some men are into that shit tho. lmao
morgie8 10 months ago
as a female you don't know what its like to be a male
not all males care about emotions
and were not just pretending not to care we really don't
adirm18 10 months ago
Great vid. I slapped a guy across the face once for verbally abusing me.....but he thanked me for it eventually because he realized he was being a shit (and I of course, confirmed that assertion with a nice right hook) ;)
ghostofdayinperson 10 months ago
verbally abuse is bullshit
just ignore what the idiot say
adirm18 10 months ago
you are hotter on blogTV, especially when DM2525 is there.
Haradin32 10 months ago
love the hair.
Men suck, btw.
unclexbob 10 months ago
Yea I agree with you, but you can be forced to feel like shit.
Torture.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun LOL
danihc 10 months ago
@danihc actually you'd be surprised, there are ways to control a woman who is behaving violently, you just need to do it in an alpha way, if its 100% u going to get hurt, then quick elbow to the forehead creates a stun like effect like in demolition man with that glow stick, stun disarms and then u can hold them in the bear hug position and talk to them until they calm down, the stun lets them know you mean business and YOU are the parent and THEY are the child. ;) now u can use on men too
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 for man cus woman is shorter and "weaker" stat speaking, nuts, but NEVER too hard, it doesn't have to be.
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@danihc if you ever wonder why men don't pay attention you when yall start bitchin' that's the main reason why. We can't do much. So we usually just block you out. And a woman that's constantly a disterbance in the Force hint hint. We tend to start blocking yall out totally nomatter what you say in order to keep some sanity. I'm not directing this comment strait at you but women who see this if they wonder why. Darling most of the time you just have to look in the mirror for the answer.
BgbadWulof 10 months ago
@BgbadWulof what?
danihc 10 months ago
@Aresftfun yes fortunately even still your mind is this lovely system of saying.....right pain threshold check, my time here is done, call me when it's over
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Of my left brain or my left body?
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun oh nuthin mate, i was just simply saying pain threshold hits thats why u go to sleep, dream and do stuff, pain controls :) bad design is just as much of an influential factor as good design in our inherited system. pass out reach your limits, limitations, :) everything and everyone bud, everything and everyone.
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 sorry didn't mean it to sound like i was disagreeing with you in ANY way, yes emotion torture is one method of being a faggot, but physical pain is so much more real for us, nothing can compare, nothing comes close to the deadly realisation that your arm is being bent, that the muscle will tear, bone will become alive for the first time as you live through it as if it had nerves you feel the sound of it shatter then reality kicks in with adrenaline and your left with a life scar
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 it will NEVER work the same again, NEVER be as strong, everytime you move your arm you will ALWAYS know, your friends+family will know, it affects your life, you tell this story to anyone who dares argue emotional over physical pain ;) and see if they don't say, well since you put it like that I can actually see what your saying as vivid as it actually happening and having gone through both! physical is ALWAYS emotional too, but emotion is just life!
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Not to be rude but you sound very much like a masochist. (or a poet interested in pain)
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun no dood, thats science, thats life, how else are you going to wake people up from this googoogaga mentality they live in.....you have to say bullshit aside, you need to eat, u need to shit, you need money, so shut the fuck up and do something in life before it's too late! ya'know its how it works, people in wheelchairs face this reality 24/7 no point being a bitch about it, if you want their respect, you need to respect their situation and not be lame about it.
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Don't worry. I live knowing that I will be able to change something. I don't want to live a transcendental lifestyle, but I love thinking about things and figuring things out. I want to live a life that changes the way people think.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun totally, but that would require that you know how they tihnk first :) and so you at least know everything there is to know about transcendental stuff that they don't know about ;)
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Well I'm reading walden right now. :p
Besides, it would take forever to know everything, and I don't have the time.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun all the more reason to spend your life learning meaningful and useful shit :D
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Oyea. But not on every topic.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun not everything is meaningful and useful for instance spending your time understanding the complexities of santa clause might not work out too well for you, but understanding basic rules of physics that hold true for all time like gravity, conflicting elements like fire burns skins chemistries, kinda useful :)
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 Exactly. I feel like this conversation is going in a circle.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun do you know of anyhting else tha moves in circles, birth, death, going out of home coming back, eating digesting, waking up going to sleep? just sayin @:D
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 -_-
It feels like this conversation's going in Lombard streets.
Aresftfun 10 months ago
@Aresftfun WOAH, sweet lombard streets are awesome, i dont think we have in england :(
sonicsoul0 10 months ago
@sonicsoul0 orly? Probably not. (since there is only one)
Aresftfun 10 months ago
But what if she doesn't make a sammich? Does that count as abuse? :o
I kid I kid. :3
Aresftfun 10 months ago