How To Handle A Hot-And-Cold Guy

[MultiSunflower2]

I like that you are straight to the point in your way of communicating ..Very good

[rockyqw12]

Be mature and straightforward, we respect that.

[Amerizuelan]

That's game playing...why not talk about it from the very beginning?

[tenatios]

thats terrible advice! every guy i know would not "crave" someone who potentially is ignoring them on purpose, the whole ignoring guys to get them to pay attention to you is total BS

[ib5995]

have a talk with him. Don't play games. Communication not manipulation.

[yourdaddyslette]

i've done thing before i watched this video and it works and i'm still with him and he loves every minutes i spend with him

[sweetmandy8686]

im sorry, you seem like a "nice" doctor and all, .. but when a guy stops doing things for you ,the little things that counted, ..then the whole hot and cold thing, .. sorry to say, but hes loosing interest. you playing the game back, might make him realize he really could loose you, and ur not as predictable and boring as he thought it was going to be.. i dunno, .. just my take..

[madelynface]

i don't think we'll ever understand men...

[5usanna15]

I think it is a very good advice.

[bilgemonkey74]

Bad advice.

[titoferni29]

You'll never keep him he's way too iffy

[waldoman7]

i'll say one thing for this woman, she knows her psychology. She definitely knows what makes humans take interest in something and how to retain that interest.

on the other hand, her morality sucks. She's got a brain but not much in the way of heart and soul, at least not that we've seen

[tucan0]

He's hot and cold because of 3 reasons. He doesn't know where you stand, something is in the way, or he doesn't want anything serious. If he is a strong man and you are unavailable, he will find someone else. For example, I had a friend I hung out with. After months she wants more than a friend ship.  So she becomes hot and cold. I had a stalker, I don't force myself on anyone. After a few months I stopped by to get my stuff. She's pissed because I didn't chase. Talk to him. No games!

[BlueBirdChannel]

To everyone saying manipulation is not the way - shut up. Guys manipulate girls ALL THE TIME just to get them to sleep with them. All this girl wants to do is to get the guy to NOTICE her! You freakin' hypocrites. Unbelievable. I can't even believe what I'm reading in the comments. I bet 90% of you don't even look at your own self before pointing the fingers when a girl decides to do something like this.

[13Cadavre13]

@BlueBirdChannel Ok, now let's cut the crap, please.

There is no "love", only passion - you get horny and want a male. The same on the opposite side. Once you're satisfied you're done, it's just that people made up some shit, for no reason, that after fucking, they have to live together. Pathetic mammals, can't even control they're emotions. Once you'll brake up with you're "boyfriend", remember this comment. ;)

[BlueBirdChannel]

@13Cadavre13 Actually, I'm a guy. And I've hung out with my own kind long enough to know that the vast majority of them are assholes who would do anything to get laid, especially completely disregarding the girl's feelings after it happens.

But if a girl decided to play things her way to get a guy to like her again, she gets our fingers pointed at her? WTF is this?

And what I said has nothing to do with love. I was directing my comment at all those hypocrites who said girls shouldn't manipulate.

[Neonrain10029]

I honestly beileve her adivce does not solve the problem. I know if someones being hot and cold theres usually something going on with them and you should talk to that person about it. Not do the same so they can be intrested in you 1 minute and then when you stop they will most likely go back to the same pattern. Be an adult and communicate to fix the problem (set some time aside to talk for a while don't just attack them when they least expect it).

[PjPoison]

FiiiiiiiiiiiiirED Manipulation is not the answer, total fail, do not pass go, go directly to jail

[mariem179]

Your Tango i want more "THAT S WHAT HE SAID" videos pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa­aaaaaaaase

[brianwurst1234]

fail

[Killiean10]

uh, no, it's not gonna make him crave you it's gonna make him go find another girl real quick. this so called "dr" gives terrible advice...bring matt and tamsen back.

[part2themovie]

I agree, this is some crazy advice.

[OhCurt]

Playing with someone's mind just to get something out of them?

*BAD ADVICE*

[Myshele23]

terrible advice. If you're an adult, you both should be able to communicate about this! Fighting fire with fire never works. And if he's too immature to talk about it, then you don't want him anyway!

[FukUWANGSTA1992]

@Myshele23 unless someone doesn't live in your narcissistic world. there is a huge diversity in personalities, some people will like it, some will not, The key to getting someone to crave you is to study them, work them out, do what they like in a subtle way, calculate every move before you make it, but still be yourself. Just because he is hot and cold, it doesn't mean there is anything to talk about, he could just be like that with everyone.

[TheGoodWills227]

@Myshele23

I Absolutely Agree With You.

[jonboy700]

Funny, interesting advice - unusual though waaay better than Matt & Tamsen.

[kokohawk]

So you play mind games in defense to his games or just maybe the way he is instead of just talking to him in the form of communication? That's horrible advice! No wonder relationships now days are so screwed up!

[hpt91]

why does she never change her clothes?

[desh75]

because they do X amount of videos a day so it seems that she never changes her clothes.

[whatevergrl5674]

its what guys want. confuse him. he'll think it's love. im 14 and i know this.

[tjackson26]

u may know a little... u still have a long ways to go b4 actually figuring a guy out. have about 50 more dates maybe u will get a greater understanding, about 1/4 of this dating b.s. and y r u so concerned with boys, u r 14, child get ur edu-ma-cation (education) and keep it pushing, u have all high school and college for the men head games. trust me dating is overrated. love will come n an unexpected package.

[LoveVampire]

shit advise. The thing you should do is talk to your BF about it and ask why he's being hot/cold. :/

[ChristopherMast]

Bullshit. That stupid technique and ones like it are the reasons relationships in this country are so messed up! You call yourself an EXPERT?!?! What happened to COMMUNICATION?!?! How 'bout ASKING him why he acts so hot and cold and if he doesn't come to the plate and discuss, move on?!?!

[portugal82]

You've got the (((((((POWERRRRRRRRR))))).

oh yeah and I agree with you, fuck playing games just come forward and let him/her know. You should be running this show lol.

[MaicoMoon]

Fight fire with fire. It's not a game. He will leave if she does this? She should've already left his bitchass.

If you don't like it, tough shit. Can dish out the shit, but can't take shit? Pansy ass bitch boy.

[amibbdos]

i agree

it's not game playing, it's a taste of his own medicine. actions NORMALLY mean more than words

[sarahtigirl]

I never play these stupid games. I tell the guy how I feel and if he does not like that or wants to play games, I move on without him. There was this guy that was trying to play games with me so I text him and told him I don't play games because I do not have time to waste. I like you and if you like me that great if not that fine. He was blown away by my honesty it did not work out in the end but that was my choice. Let forget the games!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[portugal82]

Hey you want to know something, by being honest with this guy you were dating, you found out if he was a real man or not and he learned a lesson... LMAO I'm just kidding about the lesson part, who am i kidding. But good for you for what you did and i hope you find that special man. Ciao.

[sarahtigirl]

Thanks.

[4nything]

for some reason i never agree to anything this women says. If a girl did that to me on purpose i'd probably get rid of her

[alvi18118]

The last guy I was seeing, told me honeslty how he felt.. and I pushed him away...now I want Him back! but he's being hot and cold, PLAYING GAMES IS IMMATURE, IF YOU TOO WANT EACHOTHER... then don't waste each others time by this bullshit... He won't want you more, he will be TURNED OFF by your games and find someone eles, I thought he does not like me, but likes the chase....U need to tell him how you feel from the beggining, still being indpendent..but not going crazy trying too fiqure him out

[Efferts]

I don't like this... The playing games.

I'm a guy yet I realize that my honesty gets me nowhere. Either the girl already thinks I'm lying or she's intimidated or disinterested by the truth.

I'm still content with how I work, but I know I'd have more positive interaction if the girls weren't influenced by this hard-to-get crap.

If a guy's distant & noncommunicative, dump him! Such relationships don't need salvage.

[joeleke64]

yeah that's so right

hard to get really make interaction with one another so much more complicated than it should be.

You're interested so you be cool and hold back..

I mean the honest, down to earth, good guys don't stand a chance if they lack tacktic..?

It shouldn't have to be like that..

[500019579]

I feel like you should have to play those kinds of games to win each others affections. They should just be there! If you have to go to extremes to win a persons love, its not worth it at all. You need to find a more stable guy / or girl.

[littleprincessxxxxx]

great advice

[princesskemo]

hmmm pretty decent advice