i see "confident" UNATTRACTIVE men get shut down all the time by women at bars, clubs, house parties etc... the women wind up going home with the better looking guy even if they HAD TO APPROACH him first lol.. women are very assertive and like i said at the end of the day they are going to open their legs to the best looking guy not the most "confident" one lol.
in 1-5 seconds after seeing a mans photo or seeing him in real life, a woman has already made up her mind about a man, no amount of game, confidence, charisma can change her mind otherwise. you always talk about that one ugly guy with a hot girl, but for one ugly with a hot girl you show me, i will show you 230984209348 ugly guys who are kiss less virgins. it is not because they don't have confidence it is because they are ugly lol.
women are liars. they LOVE to talk about how looks mean nothing to do them and how if a guy possess these bs characteristics like a good personality, or confidence, or assertive they will be open to sleeping with him. that is a lie. a woman will sleep with the better looking guy at the end of the day regardless of how shitty his personality is. look at online dating, they reject you based on your picture just like in real life when they first saw you they made up their mind about you.
if i told a toothless bum to walk into a club who was broke and he had "confidence" do you think anyone would take him seriously? of course not. he has nothing to be "confident" about. you get confidence from being good at something or validation from other people. the fat kid that always got made of and rejected and "ewwd" by every girl he ever came across would not have the same amount of confidence as a good looking guy who had women complimenting him his whole life.
lol, confidence please, the first thing women want to when they are talking to you is your picture so they can stereotype you out like they do in real life. if a guy is attractive the women will reciprocate with him and take their clothes off for him. if the guy is unattractive they will call him a creep regardless of how much confidence he has. confidence is only a good thing to have if girls already find you sexually attractive. confidence can't make an unattractive man attractive.
if i gave a 3 foot tall midget a basketball and told him to slam dunk a 10 foot basketball hoop,it would never happen no matter how much confidence he had. alot of women, love to dance around the fact that looks are important to them so they give unattractive guys bullshit advice like you need "confidence" or a "good personality" but even if the unattractive guy has those qualities at the end of the day the women is going to SLEEP WITH THE BETTER LOOKING GUY!
i used the fake photo of a really good looking guy and any lame joke i was telling girls was automatically funny. i was able to talk about sex within the first few messages. i even told the girls i was "shy" and "unconfident" but they were like "its okay baby" and blah blah, see what i mean? confidence is only a good quality to have if you are an attractive or wealthy male. other than that it is like putting lipstick on a pig.
some 500 lb lard walks around and tries to holler at girls, all the confidence in the world won't help him because he is unattractive. people who say it is about confidence are relatively handsome, so even if the handsome guy didn't have confidence the girl would take him by the hand and into the bedroom. the unattractive guy regardless of how much confidence would be rejected because he is unattractive and women see your face not your "confidence"
Confidence is so overrated. women say they are attracted to confidence but what they really mean is that they want a guy they find SEXUALLY attractive to approach them. that is confidence. even the warmest, nicest, approaches of an unattractive CONFIDENT man will be viewed as "creepy" by women. "confidence is sexy but you need looks to match!" that came from a girl who was mad because she got hit on by unattractive men. confidence on an unattractive man is like putting lipstick on a pig.
Confidence can look like arrogance to insecure people. You will get mixed results. I do think confidence is overrated because it does not matter how confident you are, if the person doesn't like you then they don't like you.
Women tell me that i LOOK like a shy, timid person therefore they automatically think i have no confidence in myself because of it, what can i do to change this?
Confidence is overrated. I believe having humility, perseverance, motivation, AND a bit of confidence can go a long way into developing character and leadership . But most women can never understand that all they want is confidence this and confidence that and aggressive this and all the bullshit they made up. I thought if I was motivated enough to talk to a women, it would sound better then being "Confident" to talk to women. But I'm a guy so IDK how women think. It's also all about skills.
@r1oot i agree with you that confidence is overrated and humility is good... but true heart and mind is confident without the aggressiveness/cockiness.. and what do you mean by motivated enough to talk to women? some shy guys would never approach women because their whole life they r seasoned with the belief that they don't "need' women..until they are "motivated aka NEEDY" enough.... so NO don't rely on motivation to talk to women...get the ball rolling...talk to people more and more everyday!
i see "confident" UNATTRACTIVE men get shut down all the time by women at bars, clubs, house parties etc... the women wind up going home with the better looking guy even if they HAD TO APPROACH him first lol.. women are very assertive and like i said at the end of the day they are going to open their legs to the best looking guy not the most "confident" one lol.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
in 1-5 seconds after seeing a mans photo or seeing him in real life, a woman has already made up her mind about a man, no amount of game, confidence, charisma can change her mind otherwise. you always talk about that one ugly guy with a hot girl, but for one ugly with a hot girl you show me, i will show you 230984209348 ugly guys who are kiss less virgins. it is not because they don't have confidence it is because they are ugly lol.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
@GameIsLooks women's mind CAN be changed... first impressions CAN be changed over time
SaintTaurus 3 months ago
women are liars. they LOVE to talk about how looks mean nothing to do them and how if a guy possess these bs characteristics like a good personality, or confidence, or assertive they will be open to sleeping with him. that is a lie. a woman will sleep with the better looking guy at the end of the day regardless of how shitty his personality is. look at online dating, they reject you based on your picture just like in real life when they first saw you they made up their mind about you.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
if i told a toothless bum to walk into a club who was broke and he had "confidence" do you think anyone would take him seriously? of course not. he has nothing to be "confident" about. you get confidence from being good at something or validation from other people. the fat kid that always got made of and rejected and "ewwd" by every girl he ever came across would not have the same amount of confidence as a good looking guy who had women complimenting him his whole life.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago 2
@GameIsLooks it's true that confidence for most people is based off on validation from other people... but it doesn't need to be
SaintTaurus 3 months ago
lol, confidence please, the first thing women want to when they are talking to you is your picture so they can stereotype you out like they do in real life. if a guy is attractive the women will reciprocate with him and take their clothes off for him. if the guy is unattractive they will call him a creep regardless of how much confidence he has. confidence is only a good thing to have if girls already find you sexually attractive. confidence can't make an unattractive man attractive.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
@GameIsLooks been after the wrong type of girls there bud :P
SaintTaurus 3 months ago
if i gave a 3 foot tall midget a basketball and told him to slam dunk a 10 foot basketball hoop,it would never happen no matter how much confidence he had. alot of women, love to dance around the fact that looks are important to them so they give unattractive guys bullshit advice like you need "confidence" or a "good personality" but even if the unattractive guy has those qualities at the end of the day the women is going to SLEEP WITH THE BETTER LOOKING GUY!
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
i used the fake photo of a really good looking guy and any lame joke i was telling girls was automatically funny. i was able to talk about sex within the first few messages. i even told the girls i was "shy" and "unconfident" but they were like "its okay baby" and blah blah, see what i mean? confidence is only a good quality to have if you are an attractive or wealthy male. other than that it is like putting lipstick on a pig.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago 4
some 500 lb lard walks around and tries to holler at girls, all the confidence in the world won't help him because he is unattractive. people who say it is about confidence are relatively handsome, so even if the handsome guy didn't have confidence the girl would take him by the hand and into the bedroom. the unattractive guy regardless of how much confidence would be rejected because he is unattractive and women see your face not your "confidence"
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
Confidence is so overrated. women say they are attracted to confidence but what they really mean is that they want a guy they find SEXUALLY attractive to approach them. that is confidence. even the warmest, nicest, approaches of an unattractive CONFIDENT man will be viewed as "creepy" by women. "confidence is sexy but you need looks to match!" that came from a girl who was mad because she got hit on by unattractive men. confidence on an unattractive man is like putting lipstick on a pig.
GameIsLooks 6 months ago
There's a difference between being confident and being egotistical and concieted. Confidence has nothing to do with being a jerk......
Onespellpro 11 months ago
Confidence can look like arrogance to insecure people. You will get mixed results. I do think confidence is overrated because it does not matter how confident you are, if the person doesn't like you then they don't like you.
krushgutz 1 year ago
Women tell me that i LOOK like a shy, timid person therefore they automatically think i have no confidence in myself because of it, what can i do to change this?
keithlamontbraggs 1 year ago
Unfounded confidence only fools mindless idiots that I don't want to be around.
xyzoneon 1 year ago
Confidence is overrated. I believe having humility, perseverance, motivation, AND a bit of confidence can go a long way into developing character and leadership . But most women can never understand that all they want is confidence this and confidence that and aggressive this and all the bullshit they made up. I thought if I was motivated enough to talk to a women, it would sound better then being "Confident" to talk to women. But I'm a guy so IDK how women think. It's also all about skills.
r1oot 1 year ago 4
@r1oot I agree with 100 percent
RibbionsandStrings 7 months ago
@r1oot i agree with you that confidence is overrated and humility is good... but true heart and mind is confident without the aggressiveness/cockiness.. and what do you mean by motivated enough to talk to women? some shy guys would never approach women because their whole life they r seasoned with the belief that they don't "need' women..until they are "motivated aka NEEDY" enough.... so NO don't rely on motivation to talk to women...get the ball rolling...talk to people more and more everyday!
SaintTaurus 3 months ago
@SaintTaurus primitive man
DrShitandStank 2 days ago
whatever staTE YOU´RE IN YOURE OK WITH IT-- GOOD ONE!!!
irminlean 2 years ago
GO CONFIDENCE! lol
gonaners16 2 years ago