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  • Did he really kill himself.....?:(

  • @theanimefreak9797 I know exactly what you're going through. now I just don't want to go to school and like die. recently I went to hosanna, it showed me God gave me a reason to live. i want to show people they're not worth my time to die for. I have to continue my life in faith in my God. they say you're just trying to make us feel bad but honesty I'm not. so even though they don't get you a lot other people do.

  • I get a shiver down my spine every time i watch this video.

  • @TheAnimefreak9797 I am sorry to hear that. I think you should try to forget about those people and just be the best person you can be. Once you are happy with who you are and what you achieve, you won't need others and you will naturally make new friends

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  • The comment bellow me is moronic. I was bullied since I was eight it stopped about 2 years so I'm really happy now :D but people didnt like me because I skipped a grade because of being too smart everyone in my class was bigger than me the bullies were bigger then me they spat on me threw my books in the mud beat me up verbally tortured me I didn't tell my parents till one day in school when I was 11 after. 3 years of bullying I burst out crying in class I cracked under the stress of bullying B

  • @eoinhurleytv2 Oh my god you poor guy. That's horrible. Man, after reading your comment it looks like you're a little bitch! :)

  • Kids today are pussies. When did bullying become this big issue? Hell, everyone gets bullied. And if you don't retaliate in some way then guess what, you get bullied more. How people don't get that is beyond me. Now we have a bunch of little faggots offing themselves because they are too scared and inept to dealt with such confrontation be it verbal or physical. Always being told to tell your teacher, tell your parents, tell your friends because fuck forbid you try to handle your own problems.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr You're a moron, and probably a bully.

  • @zealot256 Truth hurts don't it? Okay, I understand, you wish to join the bandwagon of simply coddling the poor victims of bullying. Go pat them on the head and tell `em it's going to be alright while they go on complacent with feelings of fear, cowardice, and defenselessness. Bullying has been around for ages and has come in many forms, so it won't simply go away. Learn how to deal with it, by fighting back! BTW, have you ever considered suicide? Because I really think you should.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr There are many ways to fight back besides encouraging escalating confrontations with bullies. I think as an adult, one should be able to stand for himself, but kids deserve a sanctuary free of violence and abuse where they can go learn. We should coddle the victims and punish the bullies, we should encourage openness and make sure the people getting bullied have the courage to ask for help and even stand up to their aggressors.

  • @zealot256 When I said fighting back I didn't mean physical violence specifically or explicitly. Sure, it'd be great if kids could have some form of sanctuary where there was no violence or abuse and as an adult I understand the desire for this. But as an adult you should know that this might not be possible for everyone. What then? What happens when those who support you aren't around, be it friends, teachers or loved ones, and it's just you and the bullies? Think about it.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr That's what's great about martial arts, hahaha. And self-defence is often taught in schools. Unfortunately, the thing with bullies is that most often they're the cowards and in physical confrontations they prefer to be in groups, so unless we want every kid to be Bruce Lee, we have to focus on avoiding these situations. How? By making sure the bullies, the predators, stay away from kids that just want to learn. This is a similar strategy to how we deal with sex offenders.

  • @zealot256 You're right, bullies are cowards. And cowards may come in packs, but they also come with the expectation that they won't face retaliation. And they rely on their faithful tools of fear, ignorance and apathy to continue on. You can't just simply avoid bullies because they'll find you alone eventually. It reminds me of that kid in Florida who tried avoiding a bully and he had to stab the guy to death in self defense. And that was when he got off a school bus full of people.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr And for emotional support while alone, there are videos to watch and books to read, really. But no one's alone, and there is always support for the psychological aspect of being a bully victim.

  • @zealot256 I wasn't really talking about emotional support, I was referring to having friends, teacher or whoever present around you for deterrence. But then again, sometimes even having friends physically around you doesn't deter all bullies.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr But we should not tolerate bullying and expect kids to survive on their own, because clearly, that doesn't work.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr Just because it's existed for a long time, does not mean we should let it continue as it has. Violence, war and poverty have existed for millennia, but it's not something any sane person tolerates. I tried suicide, but it's not my thing, thank you.

  • @zealot256 I never said bullying should be tolerated because it's been around for ages. I'm simply saying these kids need to be taught a different way of dealing with such people and in my experience simply just enlisting the help of others only offers a temporary solution. I wholeheartedly believe that victims must take some form of aggressive action and stop being victims. BTW, you tried suicide...and failed? Or pussied out? Either way, god you suck. Feel free to try again though.

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  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr In your experience, it only offers a temporary solution because teachers, principals, parents were just not educated enough to help people. I think offering support and teaching kids to stand up to bullying combined are a great way to deter bullying. But the kids being bullied can't simply stop being the victims without being a bully themselves. And how does one take aggressive action when one's outnumbered, which is most often the case?

  • @zealot256 As I said in a previous comment, bullies are cowards and they don't expect retaliation from someone they perceive as weak. If we're talking verbal abuse then in my case I just verbally humiliated them, and with other people present to overhear it. You wouldn't believe the feeling of satisfaction you get when you humiliate a bully, they tend to think twice about another attempt.

  • @zealot256 Now if we're talkin physical then if it comes down to it, fight. It ain't about being outnumbered, or even winning the fight, it's about making a goddamned stand against being treated with such disrespect. Even if the fight isn't finished before teachers arrive, it brings attention to the problem and the parties involved. And anyone who considers you a bully for standing up for yourself shouldn't even be worth one iota of your concern.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr And about the suicide, I decided I'm far more valuable alive than dead. But I was never bullied, because I always hurt their feelings too much or convinced them to stop picking on people and seek help for their social problems. Unfortunately, not all bullies are intelligent enough to change their ways, and they group up and prey on kids, thinking they're better, when they're the ones who're pathetic. We're humans, not hyenas.

  • @zealot256 Oh boy, you weren't ever bullied yet you think you can offer valid advice about dealing with bullies. I really think you need to re-evaluate your value as a living being, and once you come to a proper conclusion on the matter, kill yourself.

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  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr I was never bullied because I knew how to deal with them. It seems to me that we actually agree on more than we previously thought but misunderstood each other. I agree that kids should be taught to make a stand, but it's not always possible and that's why there are victims and that's why other measures need to be taken. Kids are still developing their self-esteem, their sense of self, and the strength or will to stand up can't always be there.

  • @zealot256 I'm sorry to say this but I still don't believe taking passive or passive-aggressive measures such as talking things out or whatever will be effective when it comes to bullying. MAYBE something temporary, but I would not consider that problem solved. If bullies can't get their jollies out of one kid it'll just be another, which is why I think a more aggressive approach should be taken. Administer the cure instead of treating the symptoms I guess is what I'm getting at.

  • @SexyOffendurrrrrrrrr If you're not trolling, it seems obvious to me that you were bullied, because you're very defensive and insensitive. It's been proven that bullying and any kind of abuse has a long-term impact on not only brain chemistry, but brain structure (cerebral plasticity).

    Everyone is valuable, so re-evaluating my worth is useless.

  • @zealot256 Well duh, I did kind of provide an example of dealing with verbal and physical bullying from my experience with it, so yes. What, are you going to start call troll on every post that doesn't align with your way of thinking? Or perhaps you'll try your hand at some e-psychiatry? Value is subjective and I see no value in anyone who is dumb enough to just give up, cower in fear, and kill themselves because someone else taunted them, physically or otherwise.

  • @zealot256 I will however give you this. If that little statement about you seriously considering suicide was true and you chose not to, then in my mind you're at least more valuable than the cowards that did go through with it. But I still think you're an idiot for even considering it in the first place.

  • u hav to stand ur ground and fight back put ur rep up

  • This is truly, amazing.

  • Saddd! And people that say its funny its not my bff comitted suicide when she moved to a new school in west virginia! Its not funny and if u think it is ur the reason the people bullied are dead... Ur a discrase to the world and u rnt human

  • that so sad :'( it makes me feel sad.

  • idnt think i bully would have been able to read that :\

  • How much paper did you throw to garbage? you may be death along a hundred trees (from mexico)

  • @Miscelanea093 Recycling! <3

  • Keep trolling

  • that's just sad!

  • That scared me I thought you were gonna go kill yourself for real until I read the comments.

  • i thawt it was going to be funney

  • i couldn't read the words! :( the letters were too thin for my small phone screen

  • @XyourlatexwetdreamX Awww no! I had no idea that was an issue until now. Thanks for letttting me know, unfortunately I can't fix it :( I should of used thicker pen

  • that's the music from the sims?!?

  • @LAWLoROFL Erik Satie Gymnopédie No.1 (mostly)

  • Wow, I love the video. Bullying is so horrible, I hate it, and I hate the fact that no one does anything about it.

  • This is freaking unbealieve able, how can ppl be like that, the bullies can go kill them self. This makes me pissed off... I know how you feel, or i kinda know... Stop bullying.

  • I got bullied.. For no reason.. People just hated me cause i was nice to everyone and i never broke the rules. But i'm in a new school now, someone finally listened to me and did something about it. Even the principle was after me, but i stood up to him let him know that i would not back down and i would never EVER be afraid of him anymore and that i would leave. So i did. And i'm GLAD.

  • HEY VICTIMS OF BULLYING DON'T BE PUSSIES, MAKE BULLIES YOUR BITCHES, BY ANY MEANS, I DID SO ONCE AND NOW I'M GLAD I DID, AND SO WILL YOU, IF YOU DO LIKEWISE

  • OH THIS IS ALL VERY MOVING AND SHIT BUT SERIOUSLY!!!!!!

    PEOPLE DON'T JUST TAKE AND DON'T FIGHT BACK AND THEN MAKE "SAD" VIDEOS LIKE THIS, USING THIS FAKE WORDS ABOUT PAIN AND SHIT.. I GET WHAT'S THE PROBLEM BUT BULLIED PEOPLE OR THEIR FRIENDS HAVE TO STAND UP AND MAKE BULLIES REGRET THAT THEIR DAD'S DIDN'T USE CONDOM YEARS BEFORE... SERIOUSLY AND FUCK BEING WEAK, HAVE SOMEONE TO HELP YOU... WITHOUT "THERE'S NOBODY OUT FOR ME AND SHIT LIKE THAT" AFTER THIS I THINK BULLIES WANT TO BULLY MORE!!!

  • I got a tear.

  • love it <3

  • nice.

  • This was beautiful.

  • I love the message of the video.

    This was very well done!

  • i got beat up really fucking bad but i always fight back even if i was going against 5. Being different is tough i guess but you only get "bullied" if you have nothing to stand for.

  • , fuck all the haters, middle finger up to the bitches!

  • Harry, Your pain and anger has hurt others. No one is bullying here, except you.

  • @irshgrl500 LOLING OUT LOUD. Are you retarded? His pain is hurting others? So if he gets bullied, and tells someone, he is hurting them too?? WTF!? Here is some advice... Go home, sit down, grab that stick, and pull it out your ass.

  • @irshgrl500 Comment on my profile and then block me aye? Nice work. I'm actually Harry's friend and he works hard on all his videos, he isn't making fun of anything in this. This is a serious video because his friend and himself have had serious cases of bullying... Then you come along with your stupidity and try and find reasons to hate it. Get something better to do with your time, and probably not a good idea to teach cause there something wrong with you.

  • im sorry what people are going through

    

  • im sorry what people are going through i used to feel like this when i was bullied by we made it all work and now im no longer hated !

  • Hey thanks for sending me the video, I don't think anyone in my social circle at school didn't get picked on, it sucks you have to figure out what cliques to be in, how about you and Bonnie take up guitar or something it takes your mind off things and builds your confidence up, because to bullies in their eyes confidence is what you may be lacking. Peace, love and prosperity to the underdogs and weirdos forever!

  • well... where i live theres no bullies.. but the places that have bullies im really sorry.. meep.. i think i should pray for everyone tonight

  • @Molhedim : it's obvious that you have problems .. And the way you "deal" with them , is by bullying . My friend , that is NOT going to help you .. And God tells us to love thy neighbor as you love thy self . It's in the Bible . (That's PROOF).

  • Thank you for sending me this video , I liked it 100% and I totally agree ! THUMBS UP if you agree that no one should feel "worthless" or like "nothing" .. I've certainly felt that way before , but I found my answer .. If you want to know my answer to bullying , inbox me and I'll tell you . Thank you for reading this !!

  • This kind of videos are the ones that should really go viral

  • This was beautiful...

  • I felt heartbroken watching this!! I hope everything will be better for ur friend!! A better and brighter future waits ahead for Bonny:) i hate bullies they can get get the hell out of this world for all i care;)

  • i bullied 3 nerds today and i feel good about it xD fucking nerds.

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  • okay first thing ~ that way you presented it , it really gave me creeps.. it seems freaking real .. i will share this with everyone i can

    Hey and your friend.. how is he now ??

  • @SSJIV haha im glad it crept you out in a good way! Please share the video, that would be amazing! Thank you very much. My friend is a girl, everyday she tells me about a new bullying experience, she hates it but shes kind of just a bit "used to it" =/

  • @harrypuravida i get bullied too. People call me fat alot. i dont know why. I get bullied all the time, she's not alone<3

  • u bullied at school bro?

  • @FireVortex720 Kind of. I was a really fat kid when I was young and I was teased but not really bullied. Thanks for subscribing!

  • @harrypuravida k, no problem!

  • black eye D:

  • great work!

    and satie i love too

  • You look so scary in this video LOL! But I really love this video. ;D

  • Ignoring the spelling errors - it's a good video. Can send a rather strong message to people depending on how it is delivered.

  • nobody gets bullied. you only let yourself get bullied. simple.

  • @theAntilli Not always true. There are people who stand up for themselves over and over again and the bullies just keep persisting. Its a never ending cycle. They pick on others to make themselves feel better and if someone tries to push against that, then they just intensify it more. People just don't "let" themselves get bullied.

  • :o bullies dnt realize thy are making the ppl they bully on make them want to kill themselves but when they kill themselfs they will now realize what they have done to that person that is dead the bullies killed the victim D:

  • as far as bullying goes there is always a reason

  • Most bullying videos aren't very good but this way! My only issue was that you spelled haunt as hUAnt. It's a very good video.

  • @TubaGirl01 Lol yeah I noticed that as soon as I posted it up xD thank you though

  • TLDR!

  • this was A REAlly good video!

  • great video harry! fantastic job and message! do you have facebook page? i'm gona share this video on our page and would like to mention you in the link :)

  • @TheSWEATProductions OMG that would be incredible! Go to my channels page and there will be links to my facebook page in my info section. Thanks so much!

  • GREAT VIDEO & MESSAGE.. GREAT JOB FOR CREATING THIS KIND OF VIDEO.. I HOPE THIS MESSAGE WILL SPREAD TO THE WORLD & TO ALL THE BULLIES OUT THERE..

  • @MARKEHONG THANK YOU VERY MUCH, I APPRECIATE IT, I HOPE THE MESSAGE SPREADS

  • wow this is really deep and well acted :)

  • Nicely done Harry. Smart way to end it <3

  • Great message, ending took me by surprise

  • Bro this is so moving, bullying is a bad thing thats why I was never one =[ I don't know why some people are such jerks.

  • @MrTennisMenace Totally agree, they need to be placed in the shoes of the victim to truly understand

  • This is really good! Keep it up!

  • Yes, we cannot waste energy on what has been, but we can take what we have learned and help others...forever.

  • THis is so true. Kids and adults suffer. SYOP BULLYING! Every single hurtful word can push someone over the edge

  • my mom walked in on this video and just said "wow" because it was creepy music/lighting (she didn't really read what it was saying.. well i think she read "i will haunt you forever" lol)

    But good message, and good video. Bullying is pointless, and people need to stop it.

  • @VantotheHoy Yea, I wanted to creep people out a bit actually. Bullying is so stupid!

  • I can tell you Harry, it is life altering. Victim's can either choose to stay victims or they can love themselves enough to stand up and be leaders in the quest against bullying. I was bullied horribly and it affected me so deeply. I am now a yoga teacher and I help people move past difficult events through yoga, meditation and fitness. A lot of deep digging if you know what I mean. And a lot of forgiveness. Lot's of love to you. Donna

  • @donnamarguglio That's terrible, but I am glad you now are able to relate to people and help others through it. 

  • Hi, I loved that. It is such a serious issue and, you're right, it is killing people. For some there is no happy ending. But for others and with all the awareness now going on, kids are learning to love themselves. So let's keep showing them lot's of love. Thank you Harry.

  • @donnamarguglio Thank you Donna, I haven't faced bullying since I was quite little so I don't quite know how it feels. But when my friend was telling me about how they get their money stolen, teased and pushed everyday, I just couldn't believe it, I couldn't imagine living in fear of everyday.

  • great face expression + really nice lighting man

  • @jumpolacademy Thanks Kaka, it took ages to get that lighting right.

  • Thanks ;x Harry n..n it's so nice of you that u made a dedi 4me ;o n..n

    xxx

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