ummm.... yeah idk about this vid... i did a thumbs down - introverts are not loners or self-observers, like how they are partially compare to in this video. introvert is "knowing" deeply the meaning of a subject while extrovert is seeing the subject at an objectionable reasoning distance (such as being racist or not knowing how the chef cooks your favorite meal) being alone is more of a disorder. everybody's mind is constantly in both of these states, not one or the other.
Look there is nothing wrong with introverts or Extroverts. We are equal in every way but as a previous comment said, we must learn from each other and all become ambiverts. The combination of the two will lead to compassion and understanding even for total strangers. When the world accepts this, everyone in the world will be accepted.
If I were overtly emotional I'd cry for what I just saw. I like being introverted. But as I grow and continue to listen to those who also continue to grow, I learn more about standing out, just as this little guy did. Seems like the only time when the extroverts listen is when their down in the dumps. Well, from the extro-people I've encountered, anyway. Not saying they all don't listen. But, there does come a time when they do, and it seems to come from a emotional experience on their part.
i just found out im an introvert today. and i thought i was the only one....well its actually not bad. im very proud of the way i am. if people cant understand me, they dont deserve to know me
If introversion is shunned by the society, why is it still existing until today. As an introvert, I feel like finishing off my life because nobody will accept me at all. Nothing can be done because no man is an island. No matter how smart or how creative, all these contributions will either be ignored or will be copied by an extrovert which will do the deed for us. Furthermore, if everybody refuses to cooperate with us, tasks which require teamwork will be very difficult. Given the choice, I....
@chuanway Think of it this way: Your existence is vital to the survival of the human race. In fact, if one force does not get balanced by its opposite force, chaos always erupts. Oh yes, acceptance is overrated. It's all about attention. And what is the best way to grab attention in an extroverted world? Introversion. Take pride that you are equipped with this unique trait. The only reason why extroversion is currently more valued is because most introverts are in self-denial mode
@chuanway And why are we in self-denial mode? Because we have let the extroverts' negative comments get to our heads. We have let them shape our self-image instead of ourselves. No wonder ppl think introversion is weird. Not because introversion is weird, but because introverts started to dwell on this lie that there is something wrong with us. Extroverts sense that, many often preying on that, to further put you down, because nothing frightens them more than an awakened introvert.
@chuanway However, the end the note, do not identify yourself as introvert or extrovert. Understand that the universe never stands still, it's always evolving, from chaos to balance. This implies to us as well. Extroverts need thus become more introverted, and introverts need thus become more extraverted. The whole "how to: introvert --> extrovert" thingy is a scam. It is a societal bias which is leading humanity down the rabbit hole. In fact, extraversion alone is pure emotion.
Think it like eating a sandwich, an extrovert will take a bite, get bored, and eat something else. An introvert finishes the sandwich. The same goes with relationships. Introverts have fewer but closer friends, while extroverts have many friends they barely know
The small talk/long deep conversation comparison hit home with me. Think of introverts as the ppl that want meaningful and deep relationships as opposed to extroverts(cough cough Newt Gingrich cough) that want more variety of ppl (3 divorces cough)
wow and this whole time i thought there was something wrong with me...what a sigh of relief. Now im just gonna have to deal with my extroverted friends that ive been ignoring for a month.. yikes..
In America you must be loud, crazy, and sometimes do stupid things in order to be accepted, but in Japan it's different...introversion is more accepted there.
What I'd like to know is when did introvertism become a disease? So there's something wrong with me because I don't want to engage in idiotic and meaningless conversations just because you can't stand sitting in silence?
Being an introvert kinda sucks, but at the same time it lets my mind be full of complex and abstract ideas that help with me writing on a daily basis.
@SystemFreaKk13 It sucks sometimes, I agree. I have moments where I feel I have to step out and be social, but I literally get exhausted within a few hours of socializing. I am using subliminal and brainwave technology to "reprogram" my mindset so I can handle socialzing for longer periods of time. I spend ALOT of time alone (reading and watching spiritual material lately) and have times where there's something telling me I need to connect with people more and develop closer relationships.
great video!!! i'm an extrovert according to my Jungian code type but I find I also need time to myself.I think within us..there are both extroverted and introverted tendencies..it just depends on which side you lean more to...thanks for uploading the video..you did a good job educating society..
an extrovert would really need help if they end up lost in the middle of nowhere or if their friends decided to leave, as for me an introvert,i couldn't give a shit,ive been treated like a feed off object for birds to peck. i realized that's what extroverts do especially when they get bored im the last person they want to call when their extrovert friends are busy, i've cut with those people now. it don't bother me, i can just walk out and talk with anyone,i don't need to same group of people.
@dy30n You are not alone. I also cut with some friends when I found out I was always the one they called when they had no one else or when they suddenly didn't have a boyfriend. Sometimes I would run into them and they would want to catch up and talk and I tell them no. If I see them I would talk to them but I'm not going back to hanging out with them.
i wouldnt care if i was alone or the only person. i need myself and i cant loose me for the expectations we have set out for us in reality, its very weak that people need to strive for someone elses company that can lead to one turning nasty.its funny i know a kid who smokes weed when he cant get hold of anyone ive been sat watching him go through everyone numbers in his phonebook to try talk with someone when he cant get hold of anyone he turns to drugs.this is mainly drug related friends.
@dy30n Of course you wouldn't care if you were alone...lol I'm glad my old friends don't do drugs so I don't have to worry about them. Anyway not everyone use drugs when they are lonely, some get depressed or suicidal. I have to admit I use to hang out with some people because I thought they didn't have friends and I felt sorry for them because I could tell they were unhappy. I stopped doing that as well because once they made friends they didn't have time for me, but I was happy for them:)
@Sood81 i really dont know what its like to be very bored as my mind goes past that level. with drugs its just what ive witness from a confused extrovert he is kind of a extrovert with a strange side to him witch is part of the reason why no one wants contact with him. he also wants to die, i really dont know how hes got so far. thats why i said i really dont know hwta an extrovert would do once they get to an introverts level, makes me think that hes going through the process.
@Sood81 happy people use happy people, sad people use sad people, poor people use poor people, i mean what rich person needs a poor person they don't even want to help the poor. that's why society is intolerant of introverts because ther all as one, all the same, they don't know any better......you shouldn't feel sorry for them they wont feel sorry for you when you might feel down and need someone no matter if your an introvert. you know how to deal with sadness and they dont.
@dy30n Don't worry I don't feel sorry for them anymore and I have got them out of my life for good. Friends come and go and I don't bother with hanging on to anyone that isn't worth my time. If you can you should try and help him or let him get help whether he's your friend or not.
I like how this video tries to make it seem like introverts are deep. While extroverts are stupid party people. Cause tha'ts no true I'm deep and I"m extrovert T__T
A real extrovert will cut you out when you try to explain that you are an introvert. Then they will say some random shit that is not even relevant to the topic. If there is people around, they will try to gain some attention and just stop talking to you and talk shit about you with other people. I tried. This is what happens.
@kelseynorman921 i speak my mind .Introverts are push overs? Hardly. Sometimes we feel people who are overly outgoing just spew out a bunch of pretense and a desperate need no be liked. We tend to see the need to be in a group a kind of weakness. What you had for dinner last night, or what your friend said on facebook isnt speaking your mind. In fact, in all logic, people who talk too much tend to run out of things to talk about leaving them nothing left but bullshit and gossip to talk about
@SupaKoopaKid64 Thanks for your reply. It's sometimes good to know you are not the only one. The first time someone told me I was an introvert was at a job interview and it happened a few times during other job interviews. I just don't know why people have to tell you what you are, like if you didn't already know.
They shouldn't point that out during job interviews in the first place. That is both rude and unprofessional.
As an introvert, while growing up, I was always the outcast, whether it was school or (especially) summer camp. It always seemed like people hated or belittled me for no reason. Eventually, it came to the point where my emotional well being suffered.
Looking at all these comments, I'm glad I'm not alone on this. And thanks for speaking up. Ppl need to know.
@SupaKoopaKid64 Some kids are just mean or do what others do. I remember only having been the "outcast" for about a week in school, I was around thirteen. It started with only three people I used to hang out with and then the whole class started to avoid me. But then my mom went to school to tell the principal and it never happened again. Some of my classmates even became my friends for a very long time.
@SupaKoopaKid64 Well I hope you don't suffer anymore. Even if you like being alone, being picked on is always horrible especially if you can't stand up for yourself. Even your on family can be mean. I remember my cousins would come and see me behind the computer and they would call me nerd. And then when facebook and other social media started they were coming to me so I could help them register, because they didn't know how to use a computer >.<
My feelings have quite a story behind them, one I'd rather not go into. Sorry for troubling you.
Sounds like you're as quiet as me. Yeah, silence can be painful, but one thing you can appreciate from it is that only you know what you're thinking. There will be numerous times that you will be grateful for that gift of discretion.
so cute! I can think of a lot of people that need to see this! I read the other day something interesting....that introverts are like rechargable batteries and extroverts are solar panels. :)
It won't be easy to convey. "Weird" is thrown around in the absence of a substantial understanding. But deep down, you probably think he's an idiot for wanting to party all the time, and this is why it's difficult for introverts to avoid giving an impression of smugness. Instead we sigh, and give up, because they just don't 'get it.'
@rockermongoose Not at all. I understand the extroverts needs for external stimulus and social engagement. They live outside themselves and that's where they are. He could not come around to accept that some people simply are not wired that way. We are both Americans and he views things through the lens of contemporary american society and its standards and norms which lean very heavily on extroversion as the mode and what a person should aspire to be.
@wwesuperfan16 Maybe "intolerant" was a strong word but to me, it does seem like society favors the extrovert qualities far more than then introvert ones and I'm talking from personal experience.
This was the first link that I found online that corresponds to your statement,
"Extroverts make up between 60 to 70 percent of society and introverts account for 20 to 30 percent, according to Dr. Ed Diener from the University of Illinois."
just one thing that this video doesn't completely get through. its not that introverts want to socialize but find it hard to. like for me, I just don't really like big social gatherings because you can't relate to people in a huge environment like that.
Why is the Swordseraph? I think I can understand why an extrovert acts like they do... because that's just how they are. Just because extro's can't understand and absorb a deeper meaning right away, but need to talk through it until they do understand, doesn't mean us Introverts don't listen very well and can comprehend.
Any how, I agree with the being alone part, but with enough effort you can slowly start becoming more social with more people.
Not to mention, at least with me, Introverts can't change. Like he said earlier, we need the time alone, it doesn't matter how much we want to be socialites, we need to be alone once in a while.
Entertaining, but the extrovert's reaction in the end is simply not realistic. We are programmed to seek out those who are like us and condemn those who are not, and it takes more than a 3 minute conversation to undo this.
And this would be true if the conversation went the other way, with the extrovert explaining his point of view to the introvert.
Im an introvert and find myself having long talks about something interesting but only to people ive known for a while and i find that i cannot make new friends because i am introverted, im a senior in highschool and dont gey me wrong i do have friends to socialize with just that i cannot sometimes, im just baffled
I don't believe in introvert people and extrovert people, only introverted and extroverted behaviour. In university, I'm around people all the time. I always thought I was an introvert, but in univerity I opened up and if you asked my friends, they would say I was an extrovert.
@jakegamesnake you misunderstand. Introverts are drained of energy (stress) when around others, and are able to 'recharge' when by themselves. Extroverts are the opposite, they're energized when with other people and hate being alone. What you're talking about is shyness, not introversion/extroversion. They are different.
This is a great way to show others what introverts are like. Sure as someone said before you can go and practice and you probably should, but in stressful situations introverts like me probably find it best to read a book or play a video game instead blowing off steam at a party.
*sigh* "Whats an introvert" Is why I don't tell extroverts I'm introverted. I fear that I will get this very same response "Whats a introvert" and I'm actually suppose to sit and explain.
Wow great job! I am an introvert as well and can relate to all the details and even learned a bit more from this video. I hate it when I am the person at the party standing around observing everything and feeling like the stuck up one when I am not. I am just focused in on my surroundings. . .
thanks for this. im an introvert and always feel under appreciated because im not interesting in parties and love being alone and because always see me as weird or snotty
wow, I thought I was just anxious and uncomfortable around parties, but when I meet 1or2 strangers for the first time I'm the loudest. There's this real sense of feeling drained out with big groups of people and I don't know where it comes from. or maybe I'm just a loser.
@emperor0013 I personally think the commercialization of home computers is one of the biggest advancements in civilization in recent times. He might not have come up with the theory of general/special relativity but no doubt he has influenced the world in ways we can not even begin to imagine.
Man, this is pathetic. You should deal with your problems rather than make a wimpy video. If you were truly an introvert you wouldn't care what the extroverts thought. Also you make wild assumptions as to how celebrities behave. Man why am I writing this, you're either a troll or a kid.
@ereraho You're talking like I didn't fully grasp the video. The guy who made this is trying to make out that extroverts are part of the problem. Look at this guys comment, "Amazing job, I personally like how ridiculous the extrovert looked :P
funnerfunerals 1 month ago"
He's right, the extrovert did look ridiculous, and he appeared to be pretty dumb. If this is the case how can the video make a valid point, it's completely biassed to one persons opinion and view of how people work.
@jpayne68177 It's a video made by some depressed kid who doesn't have any close friends. There's no clear cut difference between introverts and extroverts, it's not like being Black or White skinned. Most people experience both states depending on how comfortable they are in their surroundings and company. This video is self indulgent tripe.
Also there may be some benefit to the extrovert's advice to get you to go out to socialize more. The way to have more energizing socializations is to PRACTICE. When you practice, you can develop ways to connect with people easier.
To just say oh I'm introverted because that's just the way I am so I don' t need to go out to socialize is a cop-out.
It's unfortunate that introverts have a MUCH more difficult time to find those energizing socializations, but as mentioned, there are other ways to get that same rewarding experience alone, and that's through reading, playing games, thinking things through, working through goals, etc...
Also I wouldn't say introverts contribute to most of society's advances, that's just pure speculation. Extroverts are statistically shown to be happier and more successful than introverts.
I agree overall with this assessment of introversion, but I have a few qualms about it. Introverts, I feel, are people who either have specific interests that many people don't relate to, or have very high standards of their socialization goals that it becomes very energy draining for them to meet them. However, all introverts still strive for energizing socializations, it's how we make friends. You don't become friends with someone that's draining to hang out with.
I used to have a vivid and lively imagination and a knack for grasping ideas. Maybe I still do, but I haven't had much of a chance to exercise it since I've grown up and spent the little times I have alone on the internet.
@EricSchwin22 Thanks for the comment! I'm glad you've learned a lot. I think more and more people need to learn about this and that only good can come from it.
I am an introverted and I clicked on this to see what it was about. I about died laughing. You do cover all the main points but the format is so ridiculous I couldn't get through it.
@sroden1711 I'm glad you enjoyed it! Try it one more time for the whole thing. As ridiculous as it might seem, there's a lot to it if you give it a chance.
@sroden1711 how could you type such a message as an introvert? I don't get it. Is socializing only draining in person? You seem pretty happy with talking about a puppet video, wheres the puppet video. who decides who is introvert and extrovert anyway.
This is perfect! I'm an introvert and it's so refreshing to find a video that actually explains why we are the way we are so that others can better understand us. Thank you for posting this:)
ummm.... yeah idk about this vid... i did a thumbs down - introverts are not loners or self-observers, like how they are partially compare to in this video. introvert is "knowing" deeply the meaning of a subject while extrovert is seeing the subject at an objectionable reasoning distance (such as being racist or not knowing how the chef cooks your favorite meal) being alone is more of a disorder. everybody's mind is constantly in both of these states, not one or the other.
JyROFATE 15 hours ago
@ElectricQualia Well your straight out of luck cus all your going to get round hear are half baked insults from Jitendra like me , you tool
ibeleaveinaliens 1 day ago
i fucking hate small talk... i need some smart stimulating fucker to engage me in an interesting conversation
ElectricQualia 6 days ago 3
@ElectricQualia well said sir/madame
NickRohla25 2 days ago
ok ok. cartoons with a msg love it. thx.
DancingChakra 6 days ago
Extroverts suck ass.
CaptainPommby 1 week ago
Look there is nothing wrong with introverts or Extroverts. We are equal in every way but as a previous comment said, we must learn from each other and all become ambiverts. The combination of the two will lead to compassion and understanding even for total strangers. When the world accepts this, everyone in the world will be accepted.
radadam15 1 week ago
If I were overtly emotional I'd cry for what I just saw. I like being introverted. But as I grow and continue to listen to those who also continue to grow, I learn more about standing out, just as this little guy did. Seems like the only time when the extroverts listen is when their down in the dumps. Well, from the extro-people I've encountered, anyway. Not saying they all don't listen. But, there does come a time when they do, and it seems to come from a emotional experience on their part.
StrivingSinner 1 week ago
irl it would go like this:
introvert: nah i just don't feel like partying tonight, sorry. i'm gonna read a book.
extrovert: ok your loss, cyla later nerd!
the end
lukeisastalker 1 week ago
This extrovert got PWNED!! Got his mind blown for the first time it seems.
nielss4 1 week ago
Next time I get told: why don't you socialise? socialise more
My reply: leave me the fuck alone.
dongtian00 1 week ago
i just found out im an introvert today. and i thought i was the only one....well its actually not bad. im very proud of the way i am. if people cant understand me, they dont deserve to know me
rafa92889 1 week ago
...would choose to be an extrovert.
chuanway 2 weeks ago
If introversion is shunned by the society, why is it still existing until today. As an introvert, I feel like finishing off my life because nobody will accept me at all. Nothing can be done because no man is an island. No matter how smart or how creative, all these contributions will either be ignored or will be copied by an extrovert which will do the deed for us. Furthermore, if everybody refuses to cooperate with us, tasks which require teamwork will be very difficult. Given the choice, I....
chuanway 2 weeks ago
@chuanway Think of it this way: Your existence is vital to the survival of the human race. In fact, if one force does not get balanced by its opposite force, chaos always erupts. Oh yes, acceptance is overrated. It's all about attention. And what is the best way to grab attention in an extroverted world? Introversion. Take pride that you are equipped with this unique trait. The only reason why extroversion is currently more valued is because most introverts are in self-denial mode
nielss4 1 week ago
@chuanway And why are we in self-denial mode? Because we have let the extroverts' negative comments get to our heads. We have let them shape our self-image instead of ourselves. No wonder ppl think introversion is weird. Not because introversion is weird, but because introverts started to dwell on this lie that there is something wrong with us. Extroverts sense that, many often preying on that, to further put you down, because nothing frightens them more than an awakened introvert.
nielss4 1 week ago
@chuanway However, the end the note, do not identify yourself as introvert or extrovert. Understand that the universe never stands still, it's always evolving, from chaos to balance. This implies to us as well. Extroverts need thus become more introverted, and introverts need thus become more extraverted. The whole "how to: introvert --> extrovert" thingy is a scam. It is a societal bias which is leading humanity down the rabbit hole. In fact, extraversion alone is pure emotion.
nielss4 1 week ago
@chuanway introverts of the world unite against this extroverted abomination...march to a REVOLUTION
lol
ElectricQualia 6 days ago
Think it like eating a sandwich, an extrovert will take a bite, get bored, and eat something else. An introvert finishes the sandwich. The same goes with relationships. Introverts have fewer but closer friends, while extroverts have many friends they barely know
jagdjohn96 2 weeks ago
The small talk/long deep conversation comparison hit home with me. Think of introverts as the ppl that want meaningful and deep relationships as opposed to extroverts(cough cough Newt Gingrich cough) that want more variety of ppl (3 divorces cough)
jagdjohn96 2 weeks ago
What would happen in real life -
Extrovert: "lolk weirdo"
DrFrohman 2 weeks ago
This is from wikepedia -_- I know
Justin99999999999990 2 weeks ago
The majority of this video's viewers are most likely introverts :3
Justin99999999999990 2 weeks ago
wow and this whole time i thought there was something wrong with me...what a sigh of relief. Now im just gonna have to deal with my extroverted friends that ive been ignoring for a month.. yikes..
ajohal154 2 weeks ago
@cosmicmantis
In America you must be loud, crazy, and sometimes do stupid things in order to be accepted, but in Japan it's different...introversion is more accepted there.
EricSchwin22 3 weeks ago
DUDE GET THAT VOICE OUT!
codename7000 3 weeks ago
There is so much wrong with this script
TEC2stage 3 weeks ago
All philosophers in history were introverts.
Predator000099 4 weeks ago
sorry but i don't think steve jobs was an introvert, defintely wozniak and bill gates, but not steve jobs
GShoe32 1 month ago
What I'd like to know is when did introvertism become a disease? So there's something wrong with me because I don't want to engage in idiotic and meaningless conversations just because you can't stand sitting in silence?
TheZulu325 1 month ago
Being an introvert kinda sucks, but at the same time it lets my mind be full of complex and abstract ideas that help with me writing on a daily basis.
SystemFreaKk13 1 month ago
@SystemFreaKk13 It sucks sometimes, I agree. I have moments where I feel I have to step out and be social, but I literally get exhausted within a few hours of socializing. I am using subliminal and brainwave technology to "reprogram" my mindset so I can handle socialzing for longer periods of time. I spend ALOT of time alone (reading and watching spiritual material lately) and have times where there's something telling me I need to connect with people more and develop closer relationships.
lightbrownpoop 2 weeks ago
What a load of old cock.
honestjohntellsit 1 month ago
great video!!! i'm an extrovert according to my Jungian code type but I find I also need time to myself.I think within us..there are both extroverted and introverted tendencies..it just depends on which side you lean more to...thanks for uploading the video..you did a good job educating society..
multikyari 1 month ago
an extrovert would really need help if they end up lost in the middle of nowhere or if their friends decided to leave, as for me an introvert,i couldn't give a shit,ive been treated like a feed off object for birds to peck. i realized that's what extroverts do especially when they get bored im the last person they want to call when their extrovert friends are busy, i've cut with those people now. it don't bother me, i can just walk out and talk with anyone,i don't need to same group of people.
dy30n 1 month ago
@dy30n You are not alone. I also cut with some friends when I found out I was always the one they called when they had no one else or when they suddenly didn't have a boyfriend. Sometimes I would run into them and they would want to catch up and talk and I tell them no. If I see them I would talk to them but I'm not going back to hanging out with them.
Sood81 1 month ago
i wouldnt care if i was alone or the only person. i need myself and i cant loose me for the expectations we have set out for us in reality, its very weak that people need to strive for someone elses company that can lead to one turning nasty.its funny i know a kid who smokes weed when he cant get hold of anyone ive been sat watching him go through everyone numbers in his phonebook to try talk with someone when he cant get hold of anyone he turns to drugs.this is mainly drug related friends.
dy30n 1 month ago
@dy30n Of course you wouldn't care if you were alone...lol I'm glad my old friends don't do drugs so I don't have to worry about them. Anyway not everyone use drugs when they are lonely, some get depressed or suicidal. I have to admit I use to hang out with some people because I thought they didn't have friends and I felt sorry for them because I could tell they were unhappy. I stopped doing that as well because once they made friends they didn't have time for me, but I was happy for them:)
Sood81 1 month ago
@Sood81 i really dont know what its like to be very bored as my mind goes past that level. with drugs its just what ive witness from a confused extrovert he is kind of a extrovert with a strange side to him witch is part of the reason why no one wants contact with him. he also wants to die, i really dont know how hes got so far. thats why i said i really dont know hwta an extrovert would do once they get to an introverts level, makes me think that hes going through the process.
dy30n 1 month ago
@Sood81 happy people use happy people, sad people use sad people, poor people use poor people, i mean what rich person needs a poor person they don't even want to help the poor. that's why society is intolerant of introverts because ther all as one, all the same, they don't know any better......you shouldn't feel sorry for them they wont feel sorry for you when you might feel down and need someone no matter if your an introvert. you know how to deal with sadness and they dont.
dy30n 1 month ago
@dy30n Don't worry I don't feel sorry for them anymore and I have got them out of my life for good. Friends come and go and I don't bother with hanging on to anyone that isn't worth my time. If you can you should try and help him or let him get help whether he's your friend or not.
Sood81 1 month ago
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dy30n 1 month ago
Wow, their voices are so automated that it's funny XD
peppergirl47 1 month ago
i bully extroverts, i have the power to make there mind click. if i get into a confrontation with one or a few.
dy30n 1 month ago
I like how this video tries to make it seem like introverts are deep. While extroverts are stupid party people. Cause tha'ts no true I'm deep and I"m extrovert T__T
irishbull777 1 month ago
A real extrovert will cut you out when you try to explain that you are an introvert. Then they will say some random shit that is not even relevant to the topic. If there is people around, they will try to gain some attention and just stop talking to you and talk shit about you with other people. I tried. This is what happens.
randomrcstuff 2 months ago
god t sounds like that guy from text a speech *_*
jookiecookie9 2 months ago
As an introvert I say thank you, you explained this far better than I ever could!
trinidreamer85 2 months ago
i love how the extrovert is rainbow colored
solastalgic1 2 months ago 2
Lol im an extreme extrovert!! people who can't speak their minds are weak pushovers, sorry but true
kelseynorman921 2 months ago
@kelseynorman921 i speak my mind .Introverts are push overs? Hardly. Sometimes we feel people who are overly outgoing just spew out a bunch of pretense and a desperate need no be liked. We tend to see the need to be in a group a kind of weakness. What you had for dinner last night, or what your friend said on facebook isnt speaking your mind. In fact, in all logic, people who talk too much tend to run out of things to talk about leaving them nothing left but bullshit and gossip to talk about
MegaTrolleater 2 months ago 18
@kelseynorman921 your opinion
ELdASenSei 1 month ago
very true!
stempletonlives 2 months ago
what a WONDERRFULL video!! so cuute and fun to listen! :) very useful 2!
cuteprettyme7 2 months ago
I hate job interviews. It seems employers only want extroverts.
Sood81 2 months ago 14
@Sood81
Yeah. It's absolutely disgusting.
SupaKoopaKid64 1 month ago
@SupaKoopaKid64 Thanks for your reply. It's sometimes good to know you are not the only one. The first time someone told me I was an introvert was at a job interview and it happened a few times during other job interviews. I just don't know why people have to tell you what you are, like if you didn't already know.
Sood81 1 month ago
@Sood81
They shouldn't point that out during job interviews in the first place. That is both rude and unprofessional.
As an introvert, while growing up, I was always the outcast, whether it was school or (especially) summer camp. It always seemed like people hated or belittled me for no reason. Eventually, it came to the point where my emotional well being suffered.
Looking at all these comments, I'm glad I'm not alone on this. And thanks for speaking up. Ppl need to know.
SupaKoopaKid64 1 month ago
@SupaKoopaKid64 Some kids are just mean or do what others do. I remember only having been the "outcast" for about a week in school, I was around thirteen. It started with only three people I used to hang out with and then the whole class started to avoid me. But then my mom went to school to tell the principal and it never happened again. Some of my classmates even became my friends for a very long time.
Sood81 1 month ago
@SupaKoopaKid64 Well I hope you don't suffer anymore. Even if you like being alone, being picked on is always horrible especially if you can't stand up for yourself. Even your on family can be mean. I remember my cousins would come and see me behind the computer and they would call me nerd. And then when facebook and other social media started they were coming to me so I could help them register, because they didn't know how to use a computer >.<
Sood81 1 month ago
@Sood81
My feelings have quite a story behind them, one I'd rather not go into. Sorry for troubling you.
Sounds like you're as quiet as me. Yeah, silence can be painful, but one thing you can appreciate from it is that only you know what you're thinking. There will be numerous times that you will be grateful for that gift of discretion.
SupaKoopaKid64 1 month ago
@SupaKoopaKid64 I don't need to know, I just hope you are not suffering anymore. Anyway there are bigger problems in the world than yours and mines.
Sood81 1 month ago
@Sood81
True
SupaKoopaKid64 1 month ago
sure does talk a lot for being an introvert ;) nice video.
charcoaljohnson 2 months ago
this is soo me!..thanks for the vid
latonyalls 2 months ago
Typical of an extrovert to not know what "introvert" is.
Choekaas 2 months ago 2
INTP here, thanks so much!, i shall share this with my Psych club members
FactorCerveza 2 months ago
Thanks so much. INTJ
ReverendMotherISIS 3 months ago
so cute! I can think of a lot of people that need to see this! I read the other day something interesting....that introverts are like rechargable batteries and extroverts are solar panels. :)
onerock7 3 months ago 3
@onerock7 interesting analogy
TheZenThug 2 months ago
O___o im sorry to smart for dumb people like meee
AnimeRockStar00 3 months ago
I'm that 1% extravert =D whoooo party!!!!!!
rexta206 3 months ago
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1 BAAAAWWWW
2 This video is 99% for introverts
3 This is an introvert's day dream; an extravert's nightmare
4 IRL, the extravert will respond with NEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRD
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6 Profit
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wilfffilmkijken 3 months ago
I've tried to explain introversion to an extravert and he just came to the conclusion that no, i'm just weird and stuck up.
damaged01 3 months ago
@damaged01
It won't be easy to convey. "Weird" is thrown around in the absence of a substantial understanding. But deep down, you probably think he's an idiot for wanting to party all the time, and this is why it's difficult for introverts to avoid giving an impression of smugness. Instead we sigh, and give up, because they just don't 'get it.'
rockermongoose 3 months ago
@rockermongoose Not at all. I understand the extroverts needs for external stimulus and social engagement. They live outside themselves and that's where they are. He could not come around to accept that some people simply are not wired that way. We are both Americans and he views things through the lens of contemporary american society and its standards and norms which lean very heavily on extroversion as the mode and what a person should aspire to be.
damaged01 3 months ago
Our society is intolerant of introverts.
cosmicmantis 3 months ago 59
@cosmicmantis lol. no it isnt. the society is split in half, how can the society be intollerent of half of the world. if its half....
wwesuperfan16 1 month ago
@wwesuperfan16 Maybe "intolerant" was a strong word but to me, it does seem like society favors the extrovert qualities far more than then introvert ones and I'm talking from personal experience.
This was the first link that I found online that corresponds to your statement,
"Extroverts make up between 60 to 70 percent of society and introverts account for 20 to 30 percent, according to Dr. Ed Diener from the University of Illinois."
cosmicmantis 1 month ago
Good luck getting an extravert to listen like this one did.
curmosc 3 months ago 50
@curmosc They'd lose interest so fast hahaha its like they get bored by sentences longer than 15 seconds
SystemFreaKk13 2 weeks ago
just one thing that this video doesn't completely get through. its not that introverts want to socialize but find it hard to. like for me, I just don't really like big social gatherings because you can't relate to people in a huge environment like that.
raffums99 3 months ago
There's a lot of extroverts in my school than there is introverts.
allmusicgirl 3 months ago
Wow amazing very very descriptive!!!
Bellan100 4 months ago
Excellent video!
jasonarmstrong1982 4 months ago
All children should learn that at school. very good video.
TheOmerALKhyam 4 months ago
i thought introverts were psychopaths just on the edge to shooting up the school
hackingtime88 4 months ago
This is a good explanation of introversion, and thanks for uploading it. But PLEASE use real voices; the text-to-voice is very annoying.
sweettoother67 4 months ago
I'm an introvert, and I'm showing this to everyone. Right now. Maybe they won't all judge me so much now :D
TheNimbusMan 4 months ago
Why is the Swordseraph? I think I can understand why an extrovert acts like they do... because that's just how they are. Just because extro's can't understand and absorb a deeper meaning right away, but need to talk through it until they do understand, doesn't mean us Introverts don't listen very well and can comprehend.
Any how, I agree with the being alone part, but with enough effort you can slowly start becoming more social with more people.
sinical89 4 months ago
Proven fact: extroverts lie more than introverts
alyshooting 4 months ago 5
Proud introvert here. Thank you for this video. Sick of an extrovert dominated, judgmental society.
alyshooting 4 months ago 6
Not to mention, at least with me, Introverts can't change. Like he said earlier, we need the time alone, it doesn't matter how much we want to be socialites, we need to be alone once in a while.
NarlepoaxIII 5 months ago
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wow ' I've seen myself with you... :-)
Mark6770 5 months ago
Entertaining, but the extrovert's reaction in the end is simply not realistic. We are programmed to seek out those who are like us and condemn those who are not, and it takes more than a 3 minute conversation to undo this.
And this would be true if the conversation went the other way, with the extrovert explaining his point of view to the introvert.
SwordSeraph 5 months ago 4
Everyone is both. Just because I am a extrovert does not make me popular or party crazy. I like people and being alone for awhile makes me feel bad
ChristinaWolfle 5 months ago
lies they don't understand that quickly they just try to "fix" you without listening
grimwing99 5 months ago
Are you sure Steve Jobs and Julia Roberts are introverts?
daregirl444 5 months ago
I guess this video was suppose to be serious, dunno. But even though it's the truth, I can't stop laughing...
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Marashor 5 months ago 3
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Im an introvert and find myself having long talks about something interesting but only to people ive known for a while and i find that i cannot make new friends because i am introverted, im a senior in highschool and dont gey me wrong i do have friends to socialize with just that i cannot sometimes, im just baffled
XxLatinmonsterxX 5 months ago
@XxLatinmonsterxX I like you.
domoarigato3000 5 months ago
Introvert extrovert, doesn't matter!
UpwardsFallings 5 months ago
Introvert... represent, represent! Funny & interesting video.
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Marashor 5 months ago
I don't believe in introvert people and extrovert people, only introverted and extroverted behaviour. In university, I'm around people all the time. I always thought I was an introvert, but in univerity I opened up and if you asked my friends, they would say I was an extrovert.
jakegamesnake 5 months ago
@jakegamesnake you misunderstand. Introverts are drained of energy (stress) when around others, and are able to 'recharge' when by themselves. Extroverts are the opposite, they're energized when with other people and hate being alone. What you're talking about is shyness, not introversion/extroversion. They are different.
fkkkkkenig 5 months ago
this was very well said and put <3
mrkittylovesyou 5 months ago
im introvert
lordn35 5 months ago
LOL Google translate. :L
leanexxxxxxx 5 months ago
INTROVERT EXTROVERT... Y U NO MATTER?
jldkrank 5 months ago
Trying to explain introversion to an extrovert? Lotsa luck.
prschuster 5 months ago
can you be somewhere in the middle?
ToddTheMadDog 5 months ago
Whoa, I just realized I'm an introvert.
Shrumins 6 months ago
well now i can understand that song that was sun on x factor. ahahahahahahaha.
ruamanoscoots 6 months ago
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That was absolutely fantastic! Loved it
TheJerald0 6 months ago
aww it's so cute
countmachick 6 months ago
Doesn't matter.
magikmusic1 6 months ago
I was screaming at this video, EXACTLY!!! whenever the introvert was explaining something.
PurpleiciousKat 6 months ago
doesnt matter*
ItJustAnotherRandomo 6 months ago
LOL! x factor... luke o'dell - introvert extrovert doesn
ItJustAnotherRandomo 6 months ago
@SAM123MM
It matters a hell of a lot and steers your LIFE.
-an introvert
CleverDjembe 6 months ago
>Steve Jobs is an introvert
Oh you.
limosince2007 6 months ago
Introverted and also an artist that is reliant on muses lol
eASTcOASTiVORY 6 months ago
Extroverts are weak because they need other people. I get energy from myself.
TheDystopiaInside 6 months ago 4
I have a friend who is an introvert, but also bipolar. Up until 0:20 is true for her.
Authorgirl2 6 months ago
Introvert Extrovert, doesn't matter.
LordSagarath 6 months ago 2
I suppose this makes me an introvert.
AbbeyCaceey 6 months ago
Oh, wow this opened my eyes.
TitantheWise 6 months ago
Introvert, Extrovert, doesn't matter... :)
ThePostanote 6 months ago
Thanks man , i learnt alot from this video. :) <3
natalieeepaigeee 6 months ago 6
@natalieeepaigeee You're very welcome! I'm glad the video was able to help.
BrianKimnet 6 months ago 3
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zerkenmonster 6 months ago
@zerkenmonster Thanks for the kind words! I hope it explodes as well.
BrianKimnet 6 months ago
This is a great way to show others what introverts are like. Sure as someone said before you can go and practice and you probably should, but in stressful situations introverts like me probably find it best to read a book or play a video game instead blowing off steam at a party.
fyreswan 6 months ago
*sigh* "Whats an introvert" Is why I don't tell extroverts I'm introverted. I fear that I will get this very same response "Whats a introvert" and I'm actually suppose to sit and explain.
FatalDeity 6 months ago
Wow great job! I am an introvert as well and can relate to all the details and even learned a bit more from this video. I hate it when I am the person at the party standing around observing everything and feeling like the stuck up one when I am not. I am just focused in on my surroundings. . .
BValencia117 6 months ago 3
thanks for this. im an introvert and always feel under appreciated because im not interesting in parties and love being alone and because always see me as weird or snotty
rungirl05 7 months ago
thank you so much!! i am an introvert!
14KrR 7 months ago
wow, I thought I was just anxious and uncomfortable around parties, but when I meet 1or2 strangers for the first time I'm the loudest. There's this real sense of feeling drained out with big groups of people and I don't know where it comes from. or maybe I'm just a loser.
ErtomicV 7 months ago
Steve Jobs is referred to as a "leading pioneer of advancement in human civilization" along side Einstein and Newton? Thanks for the laugh.
emperor0013 7 months ago
@emperor0013 I personally think the commercialization of home computers is one of the biggest advancements in civilization in recent times. He might not have come up with the theory of general/special relativity but no doubt he has influenced the world in ways we can not even begin to imagine.
brodersami 6 months ago
Man, this is pathetic. You should deal with your problems rather than make a wimpy video. If you were truly an introvert you wouldn't care what the extroverts thought. Also you make wild assumptions as to how celebrities behave. Man why am I writing this, you're either a troll or a kid.
domoarigato3000 7 months ago
@domoarigato3000 Like he is the one who has a problem... Watch the video again
ereraho 6 months ago
@ereraho You're talking like I didn't fully grasp the video. The guy who made this is trying to make out that extroverts are part of the problem. Look at this guys comment, "Amazing job, I personally like how ridiculous the extrovert looked :P
funnerfunerals 1 month ago"
He's right, the extrovert did look ridiculous, and he appeared to be pretty dumb. If this is the case how can the video make a valid point, it's completely biassed to one persons opinion and view of how people work.
domoarigato3000 5 months ago
@domoarigato3000
How is it pathetic? Introverts are often misunderstood, so it makes logical sense to create a video explaining it.
jpayne68177 5 months ago
@jpayne68177 It's a video made by some depressed kid who doesn't have any close friends. There's no clear cut difference between introverts and extroverts, it's not like being Black or White skinned. Most people experience both states depending on how comfortable they are in their surroundings and company. This video is self indulgent tripe.
One Love x
domoarigato3000 5 months ago
@domoarigato3000
I agree that there is a spectrum, but that doesn't mean all people are somewhere near the middle :)
jpayne68177 5 months ago
Amazing job, I personally like how ridiculous the extrovert looked :P
funnerfunerals 7 months ago
Also there may be some benefit to the extrovert's advice to get you to go out to socialize more. The way to have more energizing socializations is to PRACTICE. When you practice, you can develop ways to connect with people easier.
To just say oh I'm introverted because that's just the way I am so I don' t need to go out to socialize is a cop-out.
hunglikehuang 7 months ago
It's unfortunate that introverts have a MUCH more difficult time to find those energizing socializations, but as mentioned, there are other ways to get that same rewarding experience alone, and that's through reading, playing games, thinking things through, working through goals, etc...
Also I wouldn't say introverts contribute to most of society's advances, that's just pure speculation. Extroverts are statistically shown to be happier and more successful than introverts.
hunglikehuang 7 months ago
I agree overall with this assessment of introversion, but I have a few qualms about it. Introverts, I feel, are people who either have specific interests that many people don't relate to, or have very high standards of their socialization goals that it becomes very energy draining for them to meet them. However, all introverts still strive for energizing socializations, it's how we make friends. You don't become friends with someone that's draining to hang out with.
hunglikehuang 7 months ago
I used to have a vivid and lively imagination and a knack for grasping ideas. Maybe I still do, but I haven't had much of a chance to exercise it since I've grown up and spent the little times I have alone on the internet.
Valkyriefury 7 months ago
i love this video
it's amazing!!!
Gapperbone 7 months ago 6
@Gapperbone Thanks for the kind words! They are much appreciated.
BrianKimnet 7 months ago
I was waiting for one of them to say "that gum you like is going to come back in style."
vivafulci 7 months ago
Awesome video...I learned a lot.
EricSchwin22 8 months ago 4
@EricSchwin22 Thanks for the comment! I'm glad you've learned a lot. I think more and more people need to learn about this and that only good can come from it.
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
I am an introverted and I clicked on this to see what it was about. I about died laughing. You do cover all the main points but the format is so ridiculous I couldn't get through it.
sroden1711 8 months ago 19
@sroden1711 I'm glad you enjoyed it! Try it one more time for the whole thing. As ridiculous as it might seem, there's a lot to it if you give it a chance.
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
@sroden1711 how could you type such a message as an introvert? I don't get it. Is socializing only draining in person? You seem pretty happy with talking about a puppet video, wheres the puppet video. who decides who is introvert and extrovert anyway.
enchiladaplatter1 7 months ago
This is perfect! I'm an introvert and it's so refreshing to find a video that actually explains why we are the way we are so that others can better understand us. Thank you for posting this:)
sparksfly76 8 months ago
@sparksfly76 You're very welcome! I'm glad it was able to help articulate that something within you that you knew was different.
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
this reminds me of my brother and i :)
toneyrush 9 months ago
@toneyrush Hopefully you've already had the conversation or will :)
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
Cool! :D
Go for diversity of personalities!
michael08XII10 9 months ago
@michael08XII10 Absolutely!
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
wowness these guys are so understanding
TheKenjeman 9 months ago
@TheKenjeman It's definitely one of the major keys to closer relationships.
BrianKimnet 8 months ago
what an intelligent conversation between two freinds
AppleFaction 10 months ago