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  • happens way to much but its true

  • cute video. i dont think it matters what the parents of the child represent. for all it matters the parents could be black and asian and the child is white. what matters is what your message was, and it's a good one. cheers!

  • Powerfull!!

  • thats messed up , im mexican my girl is asian filipino and im glad her parents accepted me with open arms and trust me even more than her lol shes kinda crazy but it doesnt matter the race as long as there is love between each other

  • glad for ya my mom's girl is still truing to figure out how to cook me and she is Asian im black and Asian and they still trying to kill me power to u

  • Thats fucked up. but thats the society we live in today. A lot of asians forget who put the japanese in the internment camps and took away all their rights. Also they forget who made the chinese men come over and work on and build the railroads for little to nothing, And the men didnt have contact with their families back home. Who did this? Not black people.

    P.S. I'm not saying all white people are bad, I'm saying just know the history.

  • I don't know about this girl's family but most Asians have greater repect for parental authority than other Americans. That is probably why she did not rebel against her parents wishes.

  • This was great, good acting

  • Wow, I really like this!!!

  • oh big deal my girl friend is black its not uncommon or abnormal or special. If there are two dogs of the same breed, but they are different colors, they will still mate and not give a fuck about the color diff, they dont even notice it. the same holds true for all non prejudiced humans...all i notice is my girlfriens fine bootay and hips..i dont give a fuck if shes black and she dont give a fuck if im white

  • i would like to know, what the moral or point is this video trying to make. with no dialog, maybe u should explain, if not in the video, in the info space provided.

  • Some movies do not explain and ask you to develop your own opinion.

    To me, it was obvious. Her parents hooked up her with someone they preferred.

    If your morals force you to believe her parents were right...that is your opinion. If your morals force you to believe that her parents were wrong or that her dating the "preferred guy" was wrong that is your opinion.

  • @cunningprose Wow. I couldn't agree more. There will always be people who agree and disagree with interracial relationships.

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  • that was a sad sight to happen..i guess the girl really didn't like him much because sometimes they will go against the parents to keep another person they care for.

  • well the black guy wasnt me and thats why yo parents didnt like it

    but on a less serious note yall could have found a girl that looks asian for the 'black and asian' relationship reply

    the girl looks spanish

  • i think the girl looks eurasian

  • Kristian - beautiful girl

    Brian - handsome guy

    Diego - ....the other guy....

    lmfa0!

  • It sad, but this happens everyday to good men and women that happen to find love with a different race, but it life :(

  • this is one of the saddest videos i have seen on youtube. Just watching it- i feel broken on the inside. ::sighs::

  • I don't mean to sound like a big wuss or anything, but this film made me cry. It's really fucking disgusting that this short film is based on not A, but SEVERAL true stories. It breaks my heart.

  • You most likely have mixed blood somewhere along the lines of your ancestry, so see a genealogist before you start talking your Aryan nation trash. You know what? I'm not even going to get worked up over you, because chances are you were born into a hillbilly racist family. People are taught hatred; they aren't just born into it.

  • yah i was thinking about that too... i think most people have mixed blood...

    anyways are you proud that you taught yourself hatred?? thats worst than your family teaching you.

  • well unless ur talking about swedish and english i guess but who gives a fuck. the world is a terrible place and its getting worse. allah is great and praise hitler.

  • I LOL'D.

  • "i have no mixed blood. i didn't check but im preety sure of it."

    Impossible! If you were born in the past 2000 years, it is IMPOSSIBLE to be of pure blood!!! Me fucked anything around. I comes with the territory of war & colonization!

    You may be in denial, but you are DEFINITELY NOT pure!!!

  • I'm hispanic and I thought I had it hard with the asian women I had in my life. But I never thought how harder black guys would have it... it's sad.

  • I'm black and I've been with my girlfriend (Vietnamese) for 3 years. I Still haven't met her parents yet. I can honestly say that at this point I would have more joy not being in a relationship. Yeah, it hurts THAT much.

  • ouch.

  • This is tragic. :o( Everyone, rise above ignorance and embrace each other. Our differences are what make us all unique and beautiful...and yes, that means you! :o)

  • It's sad when immigrants of color bring their internalised racsim with them to this country. Not all, but many. Especially Latin Americans and Vietnames.

    Like crabs in a barrel on each others backs, trying to get enough money to raise their status to whiteness. It never happens though.

    While in some countries class can bring status over color - not here. When economics get bad - SOME white americans will taget anyone brown.

  • My parents wouldn't let me date a black girl because the children would have a tough childhood. Society looks down on half breeds. Especially if the other half is black due to socio economic beliefs. They would be more open to the other races though. To each his own I guess. Whatever makes you happy. Always think in the long term.

  • society looks down on blacks, and always will Women, Man give shit to Black men and women, hell even Blacks do the same to each other sadly lmao! It not mixed breeds, cause my friend who JP/White never had racist issues compare to my gf who mixed Korean/Black!

    Anything that not white is a crime, hell the media and the entertainment industry can help you realize that!

  • I recently met a girl whose parents had the same opinions as yours; I was shocked because they actually did NOT consider themselves racist. By teaching your children that if they intermarry their children will have a "tough childhood" one is creating a cycle of hatred and racism disguised under mercy. The reality is YOU are in fact creating this "tough childhood" by looking down on every 'half breed'. In order to end this cycle THE CHANGE has to start with YOU.

  • I recently met a girl whose parents had the same opinions as yours; I was shocked because they actually did NOT consider themselves racist. By teaching your children that if they intermarry their children will have a "tough childhood" one is creating a cycle of hatred and racism disguised under mercy. The reality is YOU are in fact creating this "tough childhood" by looking down on every 'half breed'. In order to end this cycle THE CHANGE has to start with YOU.

  • Wow I'm a black male & this really happen to me. I know her parents wants the best for their daughter but they never took the chance to know me. Sad to say but Black stereotypes created by the Western World (white media) has spread cross the globe rapidly. I've also had this problem with Arab women & their families. I've totally given up on interracial dating. If economics is the issue then families should ask the man what is his dream & aspirations. Well I'm actually a commercial pilot so....

  • sad to say.. But I totally agree with you man. I'm all up in for interracial dating--but my parents DO NOT like black people in general for some reason.. Their ignorance frustrates me.. I mean I couldn't even let one of my african american friends to come over and play video games--because of my parents. Some people need to realize that.. Not everyone fits into stereotypes. And quite frankly, I think stereotypes are stupid.

  • Man that ending fuckin sucked.....he just happens to bump into her by accidently not seeing her........bah garbage.... Tho everything else is cool.......

  • You're a disgusting person but I guess I should respect everyones opinon. Even yours.

  • !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! where is part 2?

  • I'm a little bit confused by the parents... was she half Indian and half East Asian? I mean, I know India is South Asia but her parents could be considered two races to begin with... and yeah, that other guy was Mexican lol... or at least Sicilian. So many races I kinda got lost.

  • haha actually both the parents are full filipino... Justin, the guy who plays the dad is just REALLLY dark. lol

    oh, and so is the guy who plays the new boyfriend. [=

  • Well some do, many API's are down to earth.

  • Wow, great video, i actually went through this same situation with my current girlfriend.. The only difference is, we're still together even though her mom disapproves and constantly tries to hook her hope with non-blacks... Its just too bad her mother cant see past my skin color, i tried to win her approval but i just gave up, my girl and i are still together i just hope it dose'nt ruin the relationship with her family.. :-/

  • good luck to you! i love seeing interracial relationships persevere! :) my mom did the same thing to me... just keep loving her and she'll just brush other guys off ;) some people can just be so narrowminded.

  • I have a dream!

    One day we all become one race!

    Hate these ignorant racist f*ckers.

  • They'd rather have her date a latino?

  • noooooooo!

  • Asains has always favorite White people, cause they all think there the superiors of The USA, which they are based limitation for others, but i wouldn't want my child too date someone based upon race or cause it the power and money and acceptance you'll gain by it. That always been a problem in the Asain community and will remain this way. I used too be into Asains but after all the racist crap i got i stop, hell I dated WM and never got that much shit about it compare too asains, and funny lol.

  • Anyone, don't fall into the type of thinking that any other race is "above" you. Confidence is actually key. Also we are all one race / species. I don't understand why racism exists. I could understand if a certain race was always sterile when mating to another, lmao, but no we're all one race. Oh yea JESUS is our lord and savior =D

  • i agreed with you ... up until the last line with jesus; since you're open to all races you should also be open to all religions right?

  • What is that suppose to mean? He could still proclaim Jesus if he wantss to. You shouldn't tell a person what to do regarding their beliefs.

  • You guys don't understand at all.

    1) for the girl dating the chinese guy.

    The parents are more lenient when their son does it...because they can't control a son anyway.

    2) What happen was she introduced her bf and...her mom....was like ok...don't date black man...she didn't even give him a chance when the black bf left the mom went to find her a white bf

  • bummer...

  • Where's part 2 of this video? Do Romeo and Juliet overcome the obstacles and get back together?

  • no i think its trying to show the intolerance of some old fashioned asian parents..

  • sumtimes... its more than race. i am a asian guy and am in a serious relationship with a eropean girl.. and though how strong our luv and respect for each others culture.. sad but true sumtimes... its more than race...

  • I don't get it. Are you saying that black people can't have respect for other people's cultures?

  • He didn't even mention Black people, moron.

  • I think he intended to, racist, stop going around youtube, looking for my comments

  • I meant thumbs down to the jerk below who called you moron!

  • I am a Black woman with a Chinese husband and his parents are very traditional east asians. He is the only child as well and they have embraced me as a daughter, so these cases of racism are individual, because it surely didn't apply to me!

  • Wow! That's amazing & GREAT! Did you meet/marry in China, the UK, Canada, Trinidad, or somewhere outside the US??

  • hmmm, why would the parents be considered "racist" though? If a black/white/whatever female wouldn't date an asian guy does that make her racist?

  • This is almost a given fact in Asian families. Asian parents only want their sons / daughter to marry their own race, if not Asian, then the next must be white, everything else is rarely accepted. Sad, but true. Asian parents are racists and always tell their children that. If there's ONE asian person that has not been told that, free feel to post. Take advice from the source, not from those who speculate.

  • I don't understand why their are negative thumbs. What LVL95ForumTroll mentioned is, in most cases, true. I don't think ALL Asian families are racists, but I feel that a White man is normally second best as far as foreign relations in the US are concerned with Asian families.

  • loved it

  • very good video, I liked it from a personal note. I was dating an Asian girl and I am black, but her parents didn't want us to date. Despite that we still remained friends but no relationship.

  • oh ok i get it.. parents dont want her to date a black dude.. disgusting

  • i dont get it

  • Racism can spring up in any race! its just dealing

    with this issue is the greatest understanding on

    our part as a human beings. Racism is wrong

  • wow great video...

  • That was sad. I'm an African American in a relationship with an Asian-American woman and we are really just two people dating. Is it too difficult to find someone who's values are similar to your own to allow superficial differences as a barrier.

  • I think the message you're trying to put out is, the youth of today are more colorblind when it comes to dating. A very positive message and that you have accomplished in this piece. A draw back to it though is you've managed to cast a dark light on an old stereotype about Asian parents. Because not all older generation Asian parents are that way. I just hopes this helps you see it in a different light.

  • You don't have to take my advice, but I just wanted to suggest perhaps a happy ending to this story is a more positive message. I believe the way to address racism with your parents should be direct. You shouldn't be afraid to them that you're in love with someone from a different background. After all racism begets racism.

  • I understand your point of view, and I respect and applaud your effort to make this world color blind. With that being said, I also understand you're not a film maker. For most people watching this video, we are left with a sense that Asian parents are racist or at the very least not open minded.

  • *Sorry meant to say, I think you've failed*

  • WOW. i'm surprised you thought the guy was white! haha actually he was hispanic, but that's irrelevant. gsvkck, what i was trying to prove was that the youth were colorblind. color was of no factor to their relationship, however the girls' parents interfered, and even when a new guy was introduced by her parents, she still wanted to be with her original boyfriend.

  • Livefearlesley: I understand your point, but if this video is a true depiction of your life story, so in the end you ended up with a White guy because of your parents? If this is the case then I don't think you have failed in the message you are trying to propagate.

  • LOL, why are you stereotyping Asians to make a point about Black people? Some of the older generation parent are not very open to IR, however this applies to every race not just Asians. I think you're trying to address a valid issue however you've only managed to reinforce old stereotypes instead of helping the situation.

  • this video was not intended to make a point about black people nor stereotype asians. i AM asian. my parents DID act like that. this is simply a video that presents a true to life scenario.

  • Ya I was kind of confused myself of what you we're trying to apply to these flames between

    Blacks and Asians. The funny thing about this is that you really can't make a valid point based on interracial, cause it seems to me that the parents of the Asain American are more accepted to a white man then a black man, and that a proven fact. This could be a reason why you mostly see asains with white men, which is BS but that the way it is in your community.

  • Their was a video posted by a youtuber about interracial relation of

    "why a black man dates out of his race" and also cover certain races wouldn't date blacks but have np with whites. One asian girl stated that fact, and that was that her parents will be more accepted to a white/asain but by no means blacks. The video didn't get too many responses so the user remove it, but I'm sure most asians are in this stated, and the funny thing is idk why.

  • damn, I cried for the black dude, HOw depressing, STUPID parents

  • Oh. That's a little depressing.

  • Im black n indian

  • That was very sensitively done. I think Blacks are rejected by Aisans mainly because of their culture, facial structure and afro hair, do you think?

  • Well in this case, it was the parents who had the problem. To the oldschool Asian generations, I would say that yeah-- culture is definitely a big variable as to why they don't like their kids to interracial date.

  • i loved the music, did u do it urself?

  • yeah, i did actually! [= i love the wonders of using Soundtrack Pro.

  • holy crap, that was a good film.

  • Im black and cuban, and Black and asian dont mix, I hate being half spanish.

  • jordanav, I'd much prefer to be half Spanish than half Black

  • oh snap I know tht guy =P [brian]

  • dont say NIGGERS because its a mean word

  • That was well done.

  • WTF? Go to hell!

  • How about doing a video between asian girls and white men?

  • leagueleader, and make a movie that pretends Whites are as rejected as Blacks just to even things out?

  • Aww that was sooo sad!! Very well made.

  • cool that what i fear about stepping outside the box. im feeling asians but their parents don't play.

  • Hey ur in my spanish 4 class! Good video

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