Queen Tko, always a pleasure. I like point 4 to outnice, and absence DOES speak volumes. American kulture finds drama sexy; it validates their sense of ego and stimulates their senses. Yes, as animals we operate on fight/flight, but as humans we are endowed with conscience. This overrides sensuality and once accessed, avoiding drama is not a prob. Remember all, that people who hurt have been hurt themselves. In a passionate moment of anger and rage and feelings of disrespect, LOVE works!
Part of loving yourself includes forgiving yourself for not being perfect all the time. You don't need to beat yourself up over every little thing that happens.
@TonyaTko Im a fourteen year old girl in ireland, i think your an amazing person who has clearly been though it all. Iv watched all of your videos.. your like my sister from youtube. xx
Hi! Im having a really bad time at work with a couple of guys.. They make me feel down at work and they treat my badly! I know Im a good worker, sosial,and a good person. But that`s not good enough.What can I do??
I am not really feeling your point of view in this video. I hate loud people. I am pretty sure he was not dissing this women for no reason (well at least I hope not). Women who are loud like that in my opinion lack class. She could have address their situation at some other time rather than the settings of a bus. Very unlady like. If you flip the situation, it would still be bad. If she was the one that was quiet and he was the one putting their business out like that.
That is so true. It's sad, but my parents used to call me fat, black, & ugly & I never thought that of myself & I started to think that of myself. & it took met ill 17 to start to love myself. My grandma & my mother are always constantly telling me to do this & that, & worrying about this & that, like I can't do anything for myself, or i'm not strong. So I feel inferior at times, or as if I'm not being trusted or believed in. You can really effects someones mindset with conditioning words.
No need to yell or curse him out. If he ignored you then don't acknowledge him. Keep it simple, he is not into you . Sometimes guys do things so you will get the hint and leave them alone. Take the hint !!
Something I would love to share with you my late Grandmother shared with me one time.When you are at your lowest is really when you are at your strongest.It took me awhile to understand this but now I fully understand.Love your Vlogs.
I HAVE A UPSESSION WITH BIG BOOTY I DONT KNOW Y BUT ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I HAVE A FINE WIFE AND SHE HAS A NICE BOOTY BUT I DONT GE TIT THAT OFTEN I HAVE 2 KIDS ONE ONE THE WAY. (DONT THINK CAUSE WE HAVE THREE I GET ALOT OF SEX TRUST ITS CRAZY) I AM A CHRISTIAN MAN BUT U I DONT CHEAT NOT MY CUP NOF TEA AND I CARE BOUT FAMILY. BUT THIS BOOTY OBSESSION IS BUGGING ME ITS LIKE I AM DRAWN TO THEM WOMEN THAT CATCH ME LOOKIN TRY TO LURE ME IN.BUT NEVER WORKS BUT THE POINT IS IT ALMOST DID BOUT 4 TIMES.
You are such a wise and beautiful person! I admire how self-assured you are and your complete outlook on life. You're so confident and I think it wonderful. I will definetely take your advice seriously. Your words are the truth. Thank you for this video.
Who do you think you're talking too can also be a ticket to a beat down. who do you think you're talking in brooklyn, Ny is often followed by mr. right/left fist.
i love all your video.you up lift me so much,i from a young age up until my late 40 was such a door mat for anyone and every one,i end up hating myself for beening so soft .i didnt know how to love me i didnt even know who i was or what i stood for as a black woman.im still trying to find my true african self.thanks sooo much.
Had a similar situation recently referring to someone speaking negatively to me daily after we had broken up. Posing as my friend but every so often he would make it a point to make statements that wished me bad in finding someone new. He had a new girl, but called me several times a day just to make sure I wasn't getting too happy without him. I did get counseling. It's helping. I also had a good friend answer the phone the last time he called to tell him not to call anymore. much happier now.
Dear Tonya, I do love your look in this video. If i could hit the like key a thousand times I would. Great video. Your points are right on topic. Thanks so much for sharing.
@babieAdot Im so sorry missie, Im stretched to the limit... I am doing the seminar on friday, so hopefully over the weekend I can make more product. I was sick on monday & tuesday and Im trying to get things together...
Did you say, "histrionic personality disorder", concerning people who have narcissistic issues? I am not a narcisist, BTW. At least I don't think so.;0) Also, you said sometimes you do get profane in some situations. I guess it goes with the human condition. No one is exempt from these kinds of outbursts, Christians included. Well, yours is forgiveable seeing you don't profane all of the time. Profaning all of the time means one has to talk with. . . . .well, TonyaTKO!! . . . ♥
Let me get this straight. The guy was talking in a low voice, and you could see that he was "upset" about something, but she was being loud and obnoxious but yet he is the asshole?!?!?! Help me understand this because again you are the 3rd party listening on the outside you do not know the situation that brought about this moment of tension between the couple. Has it ever dawned on you that maybe this Woman did something deserving of is scorn?
As a man, I have to say that you make some of the most informative and interesting videos I have seen. Young people both boys and girls should here what you have to say. If the advise you give was given by responsible parents everywhere we would have a better upcoming generation. Continue to do you and speak the truth weather it wants to be heard or not, it needs to be !!!! By the way I missed your last few videos, but you are looking FINE!!!! Keep it up.
I'm a big fan, but I have a question. How do you know what that conversation was about? I mean you said that he was speaking low, maybe he was just telling her that he didnt want to bothered with her. I find that sometimes women only hear what they want to hear & ppl talk about a man's ego. Tell a woman that you're not interested in her and she will start saying things behind your back. if he or she is not interested in you just keep it moving.
@Tambura330 Did you see the annotations on the video? I know some ppl watch from their cellphones etc... so I'm curious as to why you didnt see them... I explained I couldnt hear him at first, but I eventually heard him throwing some pretty low blows
Those two people are not compatible. They should move on and explore other relationships.
Dealing with disgust for roommates and biological family is more difficult. It sounds like neither is the case between the two who inspired your clip promoting self-preservation.
Apparently deliberate resistance to understanding is offensive and when you chase disgust with intent to offend you get dismissal. Both parties would be happier a month later if she would have just left the bus. The shut-it-down outburst is optional and contra-indicated: if delivered it just makes the dismissal more permanent because he'll see it as mutual.
This sort of quiet anger is a sign of disgust. Some event in the (to him) recent past made him /disgusted/ with her. That look directed at you was one of deliberate lack of understanding: she just didn't get it. She wanted validation from the obviously concerned stranger. She didn't associate that past event with his present disgust. If she really didn't understand why his shoulder was cold he may have been long beyond having the willingness to explain.
I remember as a child self-hate started when my mother, sister, and I moved in with my mother's boyfriend. Her boyfriend was and still is abusive especially verbally. I remember when he would lie about my sister and I, my mother would take his side and call us names. Back then I was 9, just came to the US from Haiti, didn't speak any English and I had to deal with bullies at school too. My mom and the bullies at school was the start of my low self-esteem. I found self love through God.
@nbaron85 To finish up the story, I am now 24 and sadly my mother still allows her bf to speak down to her. My mother before being with this man was strong and wouldn't accept anything like that from ANYONE. Earlier in the year the man lied about me and my mom joined him by calling me a name; but I was not having that. I let them know that I am not the person they once knew and I will not be disrespected by anyone even my mother. I love her dearly despite it all cuz she has been there for me.
I'm a New Yorker. Rude comments on YT - I turn them into jokes. IN PERSON? I tell them to go F*** THEMSELVES!! Clarinets don't make good clubs because they're loose sections held together. lol btw you look GOOD, kid . ^__^ I still have the "Eye of the Tiger" I have a powerful 350 pound power chair to back it up. IF they step over the line they'll have a broken leg. I have trouble asserting myself against women. I'm like a wolf. I don't attack females. When they take advantage I'm gone.
How do you avoid a fight when telling someone not to disrespect you again because some people mostly young girls like to get physical and i'm not that type of person so i use to say nothing and sometimes let someone disrepect me.So how do i address them without it getting physical?
@SincerelySha When I would encounter someone who wanted to make the confrontation physical, I have noticed remaining calm and leaving the situation b4 it escalates diffuses it. Stand your ground, spk your peace, put your hands in the air and say "I don't want any problems" and leave. Most amateurs have to WORK their way up to a fist fight... they start low and get themselves amped to attack you. Leave b4 they fully amp. Keep your eyes & senses on them & leave the scene
@SincerelySha Also, remember, this is NOT for ppl you don't know. You have no control over strangers & people not in your circle. There are many armed & ignorant fools out there. I have been disrespected to my face by ppl I dont know, I swallow it, and wait to be out of the situation & go live the rest of my life in solace knowing that while I am ascending to GREATNESS they are descending into dire FOOLISHNESS. What else can you really do? If you dont KNOW a person, youre unaware of their extent
Hey tonya, I haven't posted a comment on your videos in a good minute. Great advice as always. This video made me think about how I was teased and bullied alot as a child, got pushed around, picked on all the time, and called stupid so much. I grew up feeling like I was stupid with low-self-esteem and always feeling inadequate, sometimes I still feel this way. Thanks for reaching out to the kids who may be going through this now..i only wish someone gave me this message when I was younger.
what did you do with the clarient? i played that and i never did anything about it, but i dont care cause im ALL WOMEN! and i say what i fell when im mad.. thanks Tonya
I totally believe you. As a Muslim I'm duty bound to respect and honour women, as Allah has respected and honoured them.
In the Quran, Allah addressed husbands:
"AND DEAL WITH THEM ON THE FOOTING OF KINDNESS AND RESPECT. IT MAY BE THAT YOU DISLIKE (SOMETHING OUT OF) THEM, BUT KNOW THAT ALLAH CAN BRING FORTH THROUGH IT ABUNDANT GOODNESS" (Qur'an Chapter 4: 19)
The Prophet of Islam said:
"THE BEST OF YOU IS HE THAT BEST HONOURS WOMEN. AND, I'M THE BEST OF YOU IN THE TREATMENT OF MY WOMEN."
It's a bad alternator that's draining the battery. BTW, I'm a woman. No 'i'm so independent' OR 'I don't need a man' thing going on here, I just happen to know the answer for this one.
Tonya a very informative video!! And if I may say so, YOU ARE STUNNING!!! And love your outfit!!! Baby you are TANTALIZINGLY HOT!!!! Ok, now that I got that out of the way. I was wondering if you can do a video telling your female listeners how to seduce their men? Not just to get the guy, but to keep him as well. I'll be watching out for more of your videos. Stay sexy and fun!!!!!!
Trivia: The question I would ask is whether there is a symbol displayed on the dash while she's driving. If there is no charging system trouble light, then it is probably human error. If there is, then it is the belt or the alternator (or both, I suppose).
How this women was treated, in public on a bus of all places,that's hard to stomach. Tonya that pink looks good on you-- I will be looking out for your videos, you are my friend in my head--lol sounds a little pathetic I know, but I love your attitude about how to deal with people and different issues.
Great video Tonya! Best one thus far... :) BUT!! Just one thing... WE ARE NOT ANIMALS. There are people that sink to animal like nature, but we're completely set apart from the Animal Kingdom. Psychology is good in it's place, but everything in psychology is not correct in theory.
@buddhastrike This is funny coming from a man who called me a "hot mess" and "insane" just a few hours prior... I guess I've converted another 'Hater' into a "lover"
@TonyaTko I never hated U !!!! Did U see the South African video ??? U will C that the Sjamok (sham-bok) is used 4 defense and revenge !!! U can't just give a "look" or "talk the talk" !!! Sadly people R going 2 call U out and U must respond in kind. Ck out the video on my YouTube channel (it's in the "Favorites") 4 the first 5 minutes and C the incredible potential of this traditional Zulu weapon !!! Be well sweet lady !!!!
I actually put a co-worker out of my office when she "jokingly" called be a B**tch. At first she thought I was joking, but I told her "you're done; leave my office and don't ever call me that again". Needless to say- we have not had to have that conversation again....I agree with you thoroughly on this subject. Thank you for addressing this.
I wrote up this whole response, but realized I am not used to the way you speak. I am used to forceful talking, not calm. You don't seem angry in this. If you saw my husband compared to this, you would think he was a beast. That is who he is. I internalize it, even if it isn't directed at me. A lot of it is self respect. I'm workin' on it. Your videos help. Another thing is, I have no friends! What? All we do is work, so I have very little social interaction. Time to get out more!
she said "i am a queen & i will be treated as such!" i adore dat attitude. in answer to the trivia question, if dat brand new battery died instantly, then it's pretty obvious that the battery is not the problem. dats when u have to take it up with an auto mechanic.
Very inspiring and insightful video!!! It's very important to teach ourselves and our children about Self Worth. I definitely want to instill integrity and self love into my children. There are soo many people out there who are Emotional Vampires. They themselves suffer from no self love or self worth.
omg i totally understand you my friend is married and her husband disrespects her sooooo much and even more when he's infront of his friends and am holding my self back from saying something to him and going crazy on his a## cause she doesnt say anything which i think is bullsh**t i tell her over and over again please dont let him disrespect u and talk to you like that. DEFEND YOURSELF gosh.
I have been abused by women to and I have also seen men abusing women, I am just tired of all of it, I wish people would treat each other better, sometimes I just spend a lot of time alone, sometimes thats the only time I can have positive thoughts.
Wow look at you looking fly Dorothy Dandridge style! Love how you use the resounding "Shut Down". You are simply something to behold. I appreciate your existence and giving in the way you do. Thank you.
u and i are alike on this situation. i dont play and people that know me say that i take things too serious. i easy going but if there is a problem im gone address it head on .they tend too laugh things off and smile and talk behind ur back. i will confront u head on.this is a great video.
Pink looks great on you! At any rate, nice perspective. Words can hurt, but our whole outlook on what is being said (and who is saying it) can make a big difference!
If the car doesn’t start on a new batt, then it could be a lot of things. 1st Alternator, running the car with a bad batt will kill an alternator and or a starter (sometime instantly and sometimes it might last a couple of weeks).2nd If it’s not that then you have a short somewhere in the electrical system. And that could mean anything from a computer error to a clock light that stays on 24/7. I’d take it to AutoZone they do batt checks for free and it only takes 5 minutes…
I would love to have someone like you around 100% of the time. You are truly a wise & educated woman.. i <3 you.. i learn so much from you & i believe & hope that you touch a lot of ppls hearts & change lives b/c you've sure touched mine!
@urfuturewifey81 Oh My gosh... You have to get marriage counseling.... and this person will need individual counseling as well as YOU... you both have to work on the marriage and work on yourselves separately & simultaneously. Contact your insurance provider TODAY. See which couple's counseling exists in your area. You all have to get to the root of the issues. Work on it, fix it.
And I am not a man but definitely sounds like the alternator. Or a short in a wire that may be draining the battery. It is very understanding that some women know nothing about a car and do rely on men. Social expectations. However, he shouldn't be paying for anything. It is fine to donate some time to help someone out but she should definitely pay him back when she can. Whats worse is when she trys to pay with sex. So totally wrong.
I liked your voice in this video a lot more. You seem more real. I have watched other people and in my mind saying, WTF? If I was her... But then something will happen in my relationship and I will cling on the same way. I started standing up for what I deserved. And its getting better :) He realized I deserve better. Sometimes it is ingrained in their mind that it takes a while. I just posted your name on facebook for all the ladies in a small town with relationship problems.
@shesakura Some ppl will only feel yur being 'real' if UR angry... that is far too draining. We have to surround ourselves with people who will understand us even when we are happy. I am 100% real in all of my videos... but if u constantly find yurself w/ an urge to see ppl upset you may have to pause and get to the reason why. I mean this in the most loving way, as I don't know what psychologically makes you like my voice more when I'm angry
I love your videos, and i'll be honest, most of them don't really tackle any issues that I myself am having a problem with, but I watch it anyways! It's great advice to give to other people. Don't ever stop what you're doing! You cheer me up every time I watch a video no matter how serious the topic. When and if I ever have a teenager daughter, im'a sit her butt down and make her watch ALL your videos. Thank you for all the great videos!
I know it's a serious topic but I had to pause the video just to tell you you are getting more gorgeous every day ... I think while telling others to love themselves and enjoy life you yourself are realizing more n more what that actually means ;) keep up the good work. It's always a pleasure to watch you. I feel so connected to you ... and you dont know me at all :) I am still a psychologist student .. when I am done we should write a book together ;)
It's brilliant. That crazy gaze is something. I'll out nice, I'm too shy for all that. Oh histrionic? I never heard of that. I haven't been in Psych class long enough yet, we're just talking about the parts of the brain. Okay here's my thing, I know I don't take care of myself well but when someone comes to me and says they want to I feel awkward cause I want to do it for myself first. I just don't have the time. How do I tell them I'm not ready to share myself? I'm trying to love me.
@ikkinnikk This is a delicate topic and I dont know quite how to answer. I read on the other video that Rapid Fire is back... We have to assess ppl and get a feel for what is their motivation for the pursuit and a little bit abt their personality to know which way to best turn them down.
I should probably do an entire video abt 5 nicest ways to turn a man down...
@immavideowatcher Thank you... I started working out again, and so my face is getting slimmer again... so I gotta keep up the good work..> That and I think Pink is a really great color for me in cam... though I don't care for it too much in real life... But now I will start buying it more. Thank you for your comment
Nice video. We really need to put people in their place sometimes. For the car battery problem, it could be the alternator. If not, she wants something else from you.
I have to call you out on this one... seeing how you didn't hear what he said how can you think or jump to the conclusion that "he" was disrespecting her. I find it odd that she was making a scene but he was talking low and you think he was disrespecting her?
@MrTrueZtar I didnt explain this story properly. I cldnt hear him at first. But I eventually heard what he was saying and it was some pretty rude stuff. He was saying she was stupid, and an idiot, and then he continued to spit out other disrespects. I couldnt hear everything but I heard tiny insults floating out from the mumbling. She wasnt talking loud, but what she was saying filled in the other part of his sentences. I will definitely add annotations onthis vid to clear up that pt thnx
@TonyaTko Thats not cool at all. He shouldn't disrespect her like that in public but again I will play devil's advocate and still say we have no idea what they had talked about on the phone. Seeing one person act like an asshole isn't fair to judge him because we have no idea what she has done to him in the past .She could be a pyscho and said awhole bunch of crap or called his phone 24/7. Not defending his actions but I remember on one of your older videos you state you don't have to be "nice"
Let a girl try to scream at me in the street while I'm clearly not saying anything to her... If the guy seemed disgruntled but wasn't speaking loud enough for you to hear him, Tonya, then the girl was being far too loud. I'm not saying I'd beat the girl up --I'm not into that sort of violence-- but she might just hear from one of my sisters. They're able to put their hands on girls! lol... That guy sounds like he was being more disrespected than the girl, to be honest...
@QuanSai This is one of the videos where I really wished that edited my vids bcz I got amped and never finished the story... I eventually was able to hear him and he was saying some pretty rude stuff to her. Now listen. You're right I dont know what is going on in their relationship BEFORE she got on the bus, but the point still stands "DONT LET PEOPLE DISRESPECT YOU." She stayed in that situ bcz thats what she feels she DESERVES. I dont want that to be YOU or anybody else who watches me
Its the nigger whore back with another insane video.
mechiefslapahobitch 1 week ago
I LOVE WATCHING UR VIDEOS THEY HAVE HELPED ME ALOT
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kadejah19 2 months ago
Queen Tko, always a pleasure. I like point 4 to outnice, and absence DOES speak volumes. American kulture finds drama sexy; it validates their sense of ego and stimulates their senses. Yes, as animals we operate on fight/flight, but as humans we are endowed with conscience. This overrides sensuality and once accessed, avoiding drama is not a prob. Remember all, that people who hurt have been hurt themselves. In a passionate moment of anger and rage and feelings of disrespect, LOVE works!
kombuchatube 2 months ago
Part of loving yourself includes forgiving yourself for not being perfect all the time. You don't need to beat yourself up over every little thing that happens.
SanamLovesEssie60 4 months ago
This video helps me a lot. Loving yourself can be a lifetime challenge for some people.
SanamLovesEssie60 6 months ago
I am happy i found your Chanel feeling so inspired and elevated .
divandria 6 months ago
What does it mean to call somebody out of their name? 6:41
rayeraye91 7 months ago
could you do a video on your makeup. I like your look. I've really don't wear it, but your look like it is lightly put on. thanks
alh010579 8 months ago
@alh010579 Do a search for TonyaTko make-up :)
-Tko
TonyaTko 8 months ago
@TonyaTko Im a fourteen year old girl in ireland, i think your an amazing person who has clearly been though it all. Iv watched all of your videos.. your like my sister from youtube. xx
mazojazo 2 days ago
You are quite a treasure... beautiful and talented.
craigahayes 8 months ago
i love u women .....i don't get borad from watching u agian and again and again u are my Big sis Amwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
88meme 9 months ago
Gur, you are absolutely the best advice giver!!!!! I love your channel, keep doing you.
sassiedannie 10 months ago
oh my goodness...i love your channel...im just looking at your skin and it looks so flawlesss!!1
taeboamped 10 months ago
are you an AKA
smaria2006 10 months ago
luv that outFIT!!!
vivey623 11 months ago
Hi! Im having a really bad time at work with a couple of guys.. They make me feel down at work and they treat my badly! I know Im a good worker, sosial,and a good person. But that`s not good enough.What can I do??
Love from Norway:)
Lionstar81 11 months ago
I am not really feeling your point of view in this video. I hate loud people. I am pretty sure he was not dissing this women for no reason (well at least I hope not). Women who are loud like that in my opinion lack class. She could have address their situation at some other time rather than the settings of a bus. Very unlady like. If you flip the situation, it would still be bad. If she was the one that was quiet and he was the one putting their business out like that.
uchimeo 1 year ago
i think your making too much of the situation.
u dont know what the situation was
timberlandtim1 1 year ago
trust me, i got that crazy gaze covered. I just give my man the look and he shuts up.. lmao i learnt it off him, his one is meaner haha
But i just stare and raise my eyebrows like "excuuuuse meeee?"
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
You should seriously be a motivational speaker. I LOVE this vid.
Alexisahottie 1 year ago
That is so true. It's sad, but my parents used to call me fat, black, & ugly & I never thought that of myself & I started to think that of myself. & it took met ill 17 to start to love myself. My grandma & my mother are always constantly telling me to do this & that, & worrying about this & that, like I can't do anything for myself, or i'm not strong. So I feel inferior at times, or as if I'm not being trusted or believed in. You can really effects someones mindset with conditioning words.
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
@LifeisMusic07 your own parents ?
youngrichmade 1 year ago
@youngrichmade Yup
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
omg that was the longest rant ever lol didnt listen to it all not gunna lie. but daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn guuuuuuuuuuuuuurllllllllllllllllllllll
lilmurphy01 1 year ago
No need to yell or curse him out. If he ignored you then don't acknowledge him. Keep it simple, he is not into you . Sometimes guys do things so you will get the hint and leave them alone. Take the hint !!
jb6591 1 year ago
Brilliant! Brilliant! Brilliant! u always make me think. thanks big sis TonyaTKO
taboolah 1 year ago
Something I would love to share with you my late Grandmother shared with me one time.When you are at your lowest is really when you are at your strongest.It took me awhile to understand this but now I fully understand.Love your Vlogs.
santabarbaraca2010 1 year ago
I HAVE A UPSESSION WITH BIG BOOTY I DONT KNOW Y BUT ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I HAVE A FINE WIFE AND SHE HAS A NICE BOOTY BUT I DONT GE TIT THAT OFTEN I HAVE 2 KIDS ONE ONE THE WAY. (DONT THINK CAUSE WE HAVE THREE I GET ALOT OF SEX TRUST ITS CRAZY) I AM A CHRISTIAN MAN BUT U I DONT CHEAT NOT MY CUP NOF TEA AND I CARE BOUT FAMILY. BUT THIS BOOTY OBSESSION IS BUGGING ME ITS LIKE I AM DRAWN TO THEM WOMEN THAT CATCH ME LOOKIN TRY TO LURE ME IN.BUT NEVER WORKS BUT THE POINT IS IT ALMOST DID BOUT 4 TIMES.
neiko1986 1 year ago
You are such a wise and beautiful person! I admire how self-assured you are and your complete outlook on life. You're so confident and I think it wonderful. I will definetely take your advice seriously. Your words are the truth. Thank you for this video.
AlwaysBeMyThunder21 1 year ago
i want you right now tonya
robertisjay 1 year ago
OMG Tonya! Loving you more and more. Thank you for this. It's hard to look cute and get GANGSTA at the same time but you pulled it off! TELL 'EM!!!
lsu4peace 1 year ago
Who do you think you're talking too can also be a ticket to a beat down. who do you think you're talking in brooklyn, Ny is often followed by mr. right/left fist.
FitnessGuru1988 1 year ago
i love all your video.you up lift me so much,i from a young age up until my late 40 was such a door mat for anyone and every one,i end up hating myself for beening so soft .i didnt know how to love me i didnt even know who i was or what i stood for as a black woman.im still trying to find my true african self.thanks sooo much.
lavender8307 1 year ago
Wow, you are so motivational and inspirational! I think if I watch ur videos every morning, I will have a more positive aura :)
Charity17022 1 year ago
Had a similar situation recently referring to someone speaking negatively to me daily after we had broken up. Posing as my friend but every so often he would make it a point to make statements that wished me bad in finding someone new. He had a new girl, but called me several times a day just to make sure I wasn't getting too happy without him. I did get counseling. It's helping. I also had a good friend answer the phone the last time he called to tell him not to call anymore. much happier now.
theorchidstrator 1 year ago 4
@theorchidstrator LOL @ the friend answering the phone!! YOu GO GIRLL! I like that touch ;-)
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
Dear Tonya, I do love your look in this video. If i could hit the like key a thousand times I would. Great video. Your points are right on topic. Thanks so much for sharing.
cparker1954 1 year ago
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babieAdot 1 year ago
@babieAdot Im so sorry missie, Im stretched to the limit... I am doing the seminar on friday, so hopefully over the weekend I can make more product. I was sick on monday & tuesday and Im trying to get things together...
I need a clone :)
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko
Okay, Thanks For The Reply
& It's Okay iUnderstand Ur Busy
Looking 4Ward To Buying Ur Product Soon! :)
babieAdot 1 year ago
I love your retro look girl.
Dhamiltonj 1 year ago
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JayDawgRox96 1 year ago
Did you say, "histrionic personality disorder", concerning people who have narcissistic issues? I am not a narcisist, BTW. At least I don't think so.;0) Also, you said sometimes you do get profane in some situations. I guess it goes with the human condition. No one is exempt from these kinds of outbursts, Christians included. Well, yours is forgiveable seeing you don't profane all of the time. Profaning all of the time means one has to talk with. . . . .well, TonyaTKO!! . . . ♥
woodie62 1 year ago
awesome!
renee1000 1 year ago
not an advanced technique......lmao
IBVee 1 year ago
Let me get this straight. The guy was talking in a low voice, and you could see that he was "upset" about something, but she was being loud and obnoxious but yet he is the asshole?!?!?! Help me understand this because again you are the 3rd party listening on the outside you do not know the situation that brought about this moment of tension between the couple. Has it ever dawned on you that maybe this Woman did something deserving of is scorn?
HOODYWOODRECORDS 1 year ago 8
@HOODYWOODRECORDS agreed.
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
As a man, I have to say that you make some of the most informative and interesting videos I have seen. Young people both boys and girls should here what you have to say. If the advise you give was given by responsible parents everywhere we would have a better upcoming generation. Continue to do you and speak the truth weather it wants to be heard or not, it needs to be !!!! By the way I missed your last few videos, but you are looking FINE!!!! Keep it up.
CharlieBlack77 1 year ago 13
@CharlieBlack77 Thanks Darlin... welcome back!
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
Hi Tonya
I'm a big fan, but I have a question. How do you know what that conversation was about? I mean you said that he was speaking low, maybe he was just telling her that he didnt want to bothered with her. I find that sometimes women only hear what they want to hear & ppl talk about a man's ego. Tell a woman that you're not interested in her and she will start saying things behind your back. if he or she is not interested in you just keep it moving.
Tambura330 1 year ago
@Tambura330 Did you see the annotations on the video? I know some ppl watch from their cellphones etc... so I'm curious as to why you didnt see them... I explained I couldnt hear him at first, but I eventually heard him throwing some pretty low blows
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
re: 0:50 to 2:30 (response part 3 of 3)
Those two people are not compatible. They should move on and explore other relationships.
Dealing with disgust for roommates and biological family is more difficult. It sounds like neither is the case between the two who inspired your clip promoting self-preservation.
tactileslut 1 year ago
re: 0:50 to 2:30 (response part 2 of several)
Apparently deliberate resistance to understanding is offensive and when you chase disgust with intent to offend you get dismissal. Both parties would be happier a month later if she would have just left the bus. The shut-it-down outburst is optional and contra-indicated: if delivered it just makes the dismissal more permanent because he'll see it as mutual.
tactileslut 1 year ago
re: 0:50 to 2:30 (response part 1 of 3)
This sort of quiet anger is a sign of disgust. Some event in the (to him) recent past made him /disgusted/ with her. That look directed at you was one of deliberate lack of understanding: she just didn't get it. She wanted validation from the obviously concerned stranger. She didn't associate that past event with his present disgust. If she really didn't understand why his shoulder was cold he may have been long beyond having the willingness to explain.
tactileslut 1 year ago
Thumbs Down If You Have No Emotion..
-L.O.V.E T.K.O Show
TheLilBezzie 1 year ago
So true, Tonya, on the "crazy gaze". LOL Good video!
sexyellex 1 year ago
Tonya, I hope you don't mind that I shared this on FB.
sexyellex 1 year ago
I remember as a child self-hate started when my mother, sister, and I moved in with my mother's boyfriend. Her boyfriend was and still is abusive especially verbally. I remember when he would lie about my sister and I, my mother would take his side and call us names. Back then I was 9, just came to the US from Haiti, didn't speak any English and I had to deal with bullies at school too. My mom and the bullies at school was the start of my low self-esteem. I found self love through God.
nbaron85 1 year ago
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@nbaron85 To finish up the story, I am now 24 and sadly my mother still allows her bf to speak down to her. My mother before being with this man was strong and wouldn't accept anything like that from ANYONE. Earlier in the year the man lied about me and my mom joined him by calling me a name; but I was not having that. I let them know that I am not the person they once knew and I will not be disrespected by anyone even my mother. I love her dearly despite it all cuz she has been there for me.
nbaron85 1 year ago
tomken8dy 1 year ago
omg i freakin love you!!!!!!!!!! ur the big sister i never had!
g3ntl3s0uL 1 year ago
She is either leaving some gadget/lights on in her car or her alternator has gone bad. That would be the first thing I would check!
treyatl2006 1 year ago
How do you avoid a fight when telling someone not to disrespect you again because some people mostly young girls like to get physical and i'm not that type of person so i use to say nothing and sometimes let someone disrepect me.So how do i address them without it getting physical?
SincerelySha 1 year ago
@SincerelySha When I would encounter someone who wanted to make the confrontation physical, I have noticed remaining calm and leaving the situation b4 it escalates diffuses it. Stand your ground, spk your peace, put your hands in the air and say "I don't want any problems" and leave. Most amateurs have to WORK their way up to a fist fight... they start low and get themselves amped to attack you. Leave b4 they fully amp. Keep your eyes & senses on them & leave the scene
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@SincerelySha Also, remember, this is NOT for ppl you don't know. You have no control over strangers & people not in your circle. There are many armed & ignorant fools out there. I have been disrespected to my face by ppl I dont know, I swallow it, and wait to be out of the situation & go live the rest of my life in solace knowing that while I am ascending to GREATNESS they are descending into dire FOOLISHNESS. What else can you really do? If you dont KNOW a person, youre unaware of their extent
TonyaTko 1 year ago
Im moving to NY soon, hope to run into you. This was a great msg. I am getting better at not letting ppl talk to me any kind of way.
sistasumthin 1 year ago
Oh my goodness. Thanx Miss TKO. I think I am going to cry cause I am so happy. Love ur vids muah
sugarmill2000 1 year ago
Hey tonya, I haven't posted a comment on your videos in a good minute. Great advice as always. This video made me think about how I was teased and bullied alot as a child, got pushed around, picked on all the time, and called stupid so much. I grew up feeling like I was stupid with low-self-esteem and always feeling inadequate, sometimes I still feel this way. Thanks for reaching out to the kids who may be going through this now..i only wish someone gave me this message when I was younger.
medicinemanbatt 1 year ago
what did you do with the clarient? i played that and i never did anything about it, but i dont care cause im ALL WOMEN! and i say what i fell when im mad.. thanks Tonya
Skillet48 1 year ago
Thanx girlie, I love ur vids.
souljagurlsha 1 year ago
I totally believe you. As a Muslim I'm duty bound to respect and honour women, as Allah has respected and honoured them.
In the Quran, Allah addressed husbands:
"AND DEAL WITH THEM ON THE FOOTING OF KINDNESS AND RESPECT. IT MAY BE THAT YOU DISLIKE (SOMETHING OUT OF) THEM, BUT KNOW THAT ALLAH CAN BRING FORTH THROUGH IT ABUNDANT GOODNESS" (Qur'an Chapter 4: 19)
The Prophet of Islam said:
"THE BEST OF YOU IS HE THAT BEST HONOURS WOMEN. AND, I'M THE BEST OF YOU IN THE TREATMENT OF MY WOMEN."
gimytube 1 year ago
such great advice... we must all arm ourselves with a shield of self love... TRUTH!
kzique73 1 year ago
It's a bad alternator that's draining the battery. BTW, I'm a woman. No 'i'm so independent' OR 'I don't need a man' thing going on here, I just happen to know the answer for this one.
honeychild713 1 year ago
Tonya a very informative video!! And if I may say so, YOU ARE STUNNING!!! And love your outfit!!! Baby you are TANTALIZINGLY HOT!!!! Ok, now that I got that out of the way. I was wondering if you can do a video telling your female listeners how to seduce their men? Not just to get the guy, but to keep him as well. I'll be watching out for more of your videos. Stay sexy and fun!!!!!!
Stallion575 1 year ago
Trivia: The question I would ask is whether there is a symbol displayed on the dash while she's driving. If there is no charging system trouble light, then it is probably human error. If there is, then it is the belt or the alternator (or both, I suppose).
becauseilearn 1 year ago
you are sexy.
KROMEXICAN 1 year ago
You looked sexy sitting down at the beginning of the video. Got my heart palpitating.
FitnessGuru1988 1 year ago
if the battery continues to die after being replaced with a new one her alternator must be bad
ftg419 1 year ago
You are so Beautiful!
Carol28101 1 year ago
How this women was treated, in public on a bus of all places,that's hard to stomach. Tonya that pink looks good on you-- I will be looking out for your videos, you are my friend in my head--lol sounds a little pathetic I know, but I love your attitude about how to deal with people and different issues.
Sabriyah21 1 year ago
from one of your teen subscribers, Tonya you truly are an inspiration i love this sooo very much..thank you :)
swm94 1 year ago
Great video Tonya! Best one thus far... :) BUT!! Just one thing... WE ARE NOT ANIMALS. There are people that sink to animal like nature, but we're completely set apart from the Animal Kingdom. Psychology is good in it's place, but everything in psychology is not correct in theory.
Fearless2005 1 year ago
Such a beautiful face and voice !!! Very soothing voice. Definitely a voice for relaxation and meditation therapy !!!
buddhastrike 1 year ago 2
@buddhastrike This is funny coming from a man who called me a "hot mess" and "insane" just a few hours prior... I guess I've converted another 'Hater' into a "lover"
mmmnn ghmmmn
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko I never hated U !!!! Did U see the South African video ??? U will C that the Sjamok (sham-bok) is used 4 defense and revenge !!! U can't just give a "look" or "talk the talk" !!! Sadly people R going 2 call U out and U must respond in kind. Ck out the video on my YouTube channel (it's in the "Favorites") 4 the first 5 minutes and C the incredible potential of this traditional Zulu weapon !!! Be well sweet lady !!!!
buddhastrike 1 year ago
@TonyaTko LOOOL! Gotta love them!
beautyuhate 1 year ago
I actually put a co-worker out of my office when she "jokingly" called be a B**tch. At first she thought I was joking, but I told her "you're done; leave my office and don't ever call me that again". Needless to say- we have not had to have that conversation again....I agree with you thoroughly on this subject. Thank you for addressing this.
rollininHislove 1 year ago
woooh. I needed this shit today!.
bemaniac2 1 year ago
Heck no, this subscriber commands respect. I had to laugh sooo hard when you said, from the first onset of that ignorance, SHUT IT DOWN. Amen
iluvdamakeup2009 1 year ago
I love you big sis <3
blgirl911 1 year ago
I wrote up this whole response, but realized I am not used to the way you speak. I am used to forceful talking, not calm. You don't seem angry in this. If you saw my husband compared to this, you would think he was a beast. That is who he is. I internalize it, even if it isn't directed at me. A lot of it is self respect. I'm workin' on it. Your videos help. Another thing is, I have no friends! What? All we do is work, so I have very little social interaction. Time to get out more!
shesakura 1 year ago
Im looking foward to thee Advanced Material :)
FLiiS0ULz 1 year ago
she said "i am a queen & i will be treated as such!" i adore dat attitude. in answer to the trivia question, if dat brand new battery died instantly, then it's pretty obvious that the battery is not the problem. dats when u have to take it up with an auto mechanic.
StraightUp615 1 year ago
Very inspiring and insightful video!!! It's very important to teach ourselves and our children about Self Worth. I definitely want to instill integrity and self love into my children. There are soo many people out there who are Emotional Vampires. They themselves suffer from no self love or self worth.
klashanew 1 year ago
omg i totally understand you my friend is married and her husband disrespects her sooooo much and even more when he's infront of his friends and am holding my self back from saying something to him and going crazy on his a## cause she doesnt say anything which i think is bullsh**t i tell her over and over again please dont let him disrespect u and talk to you like that. DEFEND YOURSELF gosh.
esagrumpy816 1 year ago
@esagrumpy816 ESAAAA!!!! How are you!? We havent spoken since last year. How are you? How are your SM's? How are you? Touch base w/me
oh... and your friend is not going to seek help till she wants to help herself.
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko i know i have been very very busy. but i've been well. the SM's are coming along great thanks to you miracle body lotions.
but yes my friend is i guess you can say stuck on stupid. i cant help her unless she wants to be helped
esagrumpy816 1 year ago
lol She isn't after a new battery again, she's after your... ;)
samgower 1 year ago
I have been abused by women to and I have also seen men abusing women, I am just tired of all of it, I wish people would treat each other better, sometimes I just spend a lot of time alone, sometimes thats the only time I can have positive thoughts.
hecatesmagickchild 1 year ago
Tonya what are some other ways to win the autographed pics I want one pweeez :(
iDiamondDiva 1 year ago
OH MY GOD, TONYA!!! U ACTUALLY CUSSED FOR ONCE!!!
StraightUp615 1 year ago
Pink is your color.
Your crazy gaze is nuts.
lavinder11 1 year ago
lol i lov u tonya you have so much answers to problems that not everyone face but happens every day
Doeboy555 1 year ago
RIGHT ON GIRL!
SoLady1 1 year ago
I love you Tonya! This video is very much needed...working on my crazy gaze now! xD
Lakishia 1 year ago
hey all ur videos make me tink alot in a positive way.an ur outfits are nice.u pullin it of very gud
shawtybubu 1 year ago
14:23/14:52-56 I laughed so hard I had to pause the video!!!! XD hahaha I'm sure that gaze passes the message! I have to try to do that myself :\
btw, this is a bit random, but I think I've never seen you in pink, it suits you so well! :D
adma8D 1 year ago
This is true, I believe u. Thanks for the uplifting videos sister- u are a QUEEN:-)
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buddhastrike 1 year ago
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS "THANK YOU - THANK YOU - THANK YOU" SO MANY OF US NEED "THIS"
Laall4u247 1 year ago
Wow look at you looking fly Dorothy Dandridge style! Love how you use the resounding "Shut Down". You are simply something to behold. I appreciate your existence and giving in the way you do. Thank you.
Soulgian 1 year ago
what you should have said close to the end is that not all that glitters is gold ^_^
azuril16 1 year ago
you look like a barbie today! beautiful as always
pUraVidaNY87 1 year ago
u and i are alike on this situation. i dont play and people that know me say that i take things too serious. i easy going but if there is a problem im gone address it head on .they tend too laugh things off and smile and talk behind ur back. i will confront u head on.this is a great video.
AjreamcomeTrue 1 year ago
Pink looks great on you! At any rate, nice perspective. Words can hurt, but our whole outlook on what is being said (and who is saying it) can make a big difference!
MysteryMan20091 1 year ago
If the car doesn’t start on a new batt, then it could be a lot of things. 1st Alternator, running the car with a bad batt will kill an alternator and or a starter (sometime instantly and sometimes it might last a couple of weeks).2nd If it’s not that then you have a short somewhere in the electrical system. And that could mean anything from a computer error to a clock light that stays on 24/7. I’d take it to AutoZone they do batt checks for free and it only takes 5 minutes…
tytetee 1 year ago
I love the look, and I love the video.
simplyphillipbrowntv 1 year ago
I would love to have someone like you around 100% of the time. You are truly a wise & educated woman.. i <3 you.. i learn so much from you & i believe & hope that you touch a lot of ppls hearts & change lives b/c you've sure touched mine!
MsNaomiD 1 year ago 10
@MsNaomiD Why thank you for this wonderful feedback... I appreciate it more than you may ever know
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
ur crazy gaze part had me dying laughing
yagurlbubblez 1 year ago
I love your video.. However what if you are in a marriage, should it be that easy to leave?
urfuturewifey81 1 year ago
@urfuturewifey81 Oh My gosh... You have to get marriage counseling.... and this person will need individual counseling as well as YOU... you both have to work on the marriage and work on yourselves separately & simultaneously. Contact your insurance provider TODAY. See which couple's counseling exists in your area. You all have to get to the root of the issues. Work on it, fix it.
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
And I am not a man but definitely sounds like the alternator. Or a short in a wire that may be draining the battery. It is very understanding that some women know nothing about a car and do rely on men. Social expectations. However, he shouldn't be paying for anything. It is fine to donate some time to help someone out but she should definitely pay him back when she can. Whats worse is when she trys to pay with sex. So totally wrong.
shesakura 1 year ago
@shesakura I dont know about that! A real man take care of his woman.
jojojen1 1 year ago
I liked your voice in this video a lot more. You seem more real. I have watched other people and in my mind saying, WTF? If I was her... But then something will happen in my relationship and I will cling on the same way. I started standing up for what I deserved. And its getting better :) He realized I deserve better. Sometimes it is ingrained in their mind that it takes a while. I just posted your name on facebook for all the ladies in a small town with relationship problems.
shesakura 1 year ago
@shesakura Some ppl will only feel yur being 'real' if UR angry... that is far too draining. We have to surround ourselves with people who will understand us even when we are happy. I am 100% real in all of my videos... but if u constantly find yurself w/ an urge to see ppl upset you may have to pause and get to the reason why. I mean this in the most loving way, as I don't know what psychologically makes you like my voice more when I'm angry
PS. Thanks for sharing the vid r u on my FB?
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
absence speaks volumes......amen
tushay67 1 year ago
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melanin12345 1 year ago
i love you
joshipoo16 1 year ago
car needs a alternator
latrue24 1 year ago
tonya again, inspirational... you speak the absolute truth. shared to facebook
MakeUpYourMindGirl1 1 year ago
lol the crazy gaze is hilrious
i l be like girl u really wanna se me that much? or u want me take ur car to a mehanic get it cheked up:)
ABOSOLUTEKNOWLEDGE 1 year ago
I video responded to that crazy gaze*
I love your videos, and i'll be honest, most of them don't really tackle any issues that I myself am having a problem with, but I watch it anyways! It's great advice to give to other people. Don't ever stop what you're doing! You cheer me up every time I watch a video no matter how serious the topic. When and if I ever have a teenager daughter, im'a sit her butt down and make her watch ALL your videos. Thank you for all the great videos!
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actionaction17 1 year ago
I know it's a serious topic but I had to pause the video just to tell you you are getting more gorgeous every day ... I think while telling others to love themselves and enjoy life you yourself are realizing more n more what that actually means ;) keep up the good work. It's always a pleasure to watch you. I feel so connected to you ... and you dont know me at all :) I am still a psychologist student .. when I am done we should write a book together ;)
sasolunga 1 year ago
Very cute look! Perhaps I am too innocent. I want to know what is going on with her and her car. Guys comment please!
wallykit 1 year ago
Lmbo!! Love the crazy gaze!!
MsHoneee 1 year ago
I come across rude people often and I always wind up regretting not standing up for myself in hindsight. Thanks, TonyaTKO! I love your advice :)
LovingKeikoKubota 1 year ago
It's brilliant. That crazy gaze is something. I'll out nice, I'm too shy for all that. Oh histrionic? I never heard of that. I haven't been in Psych class long enough yet, we're just talking about the parts of the brain. Okay here's my thing, I know I don't take care of myself well but when someone comes to me and says they want to I feel awkward cause I want to do it for myself first. I just don't have the time. How do I tell them I'm not ready to share myself? I'm trying to love me.
ikkinnikk 1 year ago
@ikkinnikk This is a delicate topic and I dont know quite how to answer. I read on the other video that Rapid Fire is back... We have to assess ppl and get a feel for what is their motivation for the pursuit and a little bit abt their personality to know which way to best turn them down.
I should probably do an entire video abt 5 nicest ways to turn a man down...
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko Omg thank you.
ikkinnikk 1 year ago
Love the crazy gaze! I'll start working on mine right now. I love having a big sister I never got to have!
Nitrobezene 1 year ago
Tonya your wonderful <3
nadiyah637 1 year ago
lmao @ your crazy gaze, but its sooo true. I have mine and my family knows its bout to go down lol
BrooklynLady26 1 year ago
@immavideowatcher Thank you... I started working out again, and so my face is getting slimmer again... so I gotta keep up the good work..> That and I think Pink is a really great color for me in cam... though I don't care for it too much in real life... But now I will start buying it more. Thank you for your comment
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
I like your look in this vid 2 Tonya. Thanks Im going to work on my crazy gaze
cherrypinkgirl1 1 year ago
Nice video. We really need to put people in their place sometimes. For the car battery problem, it could be the alternator. If not, she wants something else from you.
titotoro 1 year ago
PREAAACHHHHHHHH come to Toronto Canada and do a seminar please
IsThisMy1ife 1 year ago
Look at TKO getting gangsta LOL Its O.G. Tonya, ya'll betta watch out LMAO :-D
7SaintsRow 1 year ago
I have to call you out on this one... seeing how you didn't hear what he said how can you think or jump to the conclusion that "he" was disrespecting her. I find it odd that she was making a scene but he was talking low and you think he was disrespecting her?
MrTrueZtar 1 year ago
@MrTrueZtar I didnt explain this story properly. I cldnt hear him at first. But I eventually heard what he was saying and it was some pretty rude stuff. He was saying she was stupid, and an idiot, and then he continued to spit out other disrespects. I couldnt hear everything but I heard tiny insults floating out from the mumbling. She wasnt talking loud, but what she was saying filled in the other part of his sentences. I will definitely add annotations onthis vid to clear up that pt thnx
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko Thats not cool at all. He shouldn't disrespect her like that in public but again I will play devil's advocate and still say we have no idea what they had talked about on the phone. Seeing one person act like an asshole isn't fair to judge him because we have no idea what she has done to him in the past .She could be a pyscho and said awhole bunch of crap or called his phone 24/7. Not defending his actions but I remember on one of your older videos you state you don't have to be "nice"
MrTrueZtar 1 year ago
@MrTrueZtar she re edited the video he was calling her idiot and stupid
vermilla1 1 year ago
Let a girl try to scream at me in the street while I'm clearly not saying anything to her... If the guy seemed disgruntled but wasn't speaking loud enough for you to hear him, Tonya, then the girl was being far too loud. I'm not saying I'd beat the girl up --I'm not into that sort of violence-- but she might just hear from one of my sisters. They're able to put their hands on girls! lol... That guy sounds like he was being more disrespected than the girl, to be honest...
QuanSai 1 year ago
@QuanSai This is one of the videos where I really wished that edited my vids bcz I got amped and never finished the story... I eventually was able to hear him and he was saying some pretty rude stuff to her. Now listen. You're right I dont know what is going on in their relationship BEFORE she got on the bus, but the point still stands "DONT LET PEOPLE DISRESPECT YOU." She stayed in that situ bcz thats what she feels she DESERVES. I dont want that to be YOU or anybody else who watches me
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@TonyaTko True that, yo! Fight the powers that be!
QuanSai 1 year ago
Tonya your crazy gaze lmao....
buhleke 1 year ago
@buhleke You like that huh? hehehe
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
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yes ma'am you have a super crazy gaze! lol
KeyNaturally 1 year ago
Thank you for this video, it is so true!!! p.s. you look great!
Aloebunny 1 year ago 2
Can I give you a hug D8
chibiwolf1005 1 year ago
Excellent advice I enjoyed this video thank you !!!!!!!!!!
breakofdawn26 1 year ago
You said it girl... thank you for letting these baby girls know that it is not ok, to be disrespected... YOu do a great job TkO...
lalaligonde 1 year ago
why do you have to always be so gorgeous in every video?
AnythingShimmery 1 year ago 2
Thanks for making this video and you look Fab!!!! Love ya!!!
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