I'm Jealous When He Watches Porn

[27Turni]

...aspect of our fucked up society.

[27Turni]

Sex is something so natural and intimate, it should include two bodies. Instead our culture has to add images and mechanics to everything. Everything always has to be bigger and better. If we had more homes that controlled media influence in their homes, we would promote a more confident self respecting generation. A generation that doesn't rely on objects for sexual pleasure and doesn't see sex and sexual images in every single thing they look at. Having great sex doesn't mean including every

[27Turni]

...telling the other to get over if. Especially if compromise could lead to better sex. If men in monogamous relationships stop looking at porn and stop viewing sex as something some objectified and more intimate and personal, they sex will be better. Personal and emotional sex has always been better than any "just sex" I've had. If the women had never felt vibrations across her clit, everything her partner did would be the best thing she could imagine.

[27Turni]

I'm not strong enough in my beliefs to be completely against porn that being said I don't think it has it's place in every monogamous relationship. Men and women can both get jealous women of porn, men of a girls extra large sex toy. Both of these are aides to masturbation, and they can both cause the other to feel inadequate. So instead of telling your sig other to "get over it" how about compromise?

We'll only do it together. We won't do it at all. Whatever it is, it shouldn't simply be tel

[hanasia2011]

i have a question from guys;

if my BOYFORIEND/HUSBAND watches porn ,but yet claims he loves me ,how can i tell he would not f*** thoes porn girls if they were available for him ?

what i am trying to say is i wan t to know if he watches porn ,can i assume that he also is ready and willing to have sex with thoes porn actresss or photoes if they were for real in his room??!

[EvilKris]

pretty enlightened couple. Yeah doesn't matter who you with he's probably watching porn most likely behind your back. I bet even Brad Pitt does it when Angelina is out of town.

No biggie ladies it's not that you're being replaced- guys just like watching f*cking. Watch it with him and shag the shit out of each-other. He'll love you for it.

[DeitraNechelle]

lol no...i don't know any women who read romance novels.  Every guy i know watches porn.

[lolMegxxx]

haha guysss just rip eachother's clothes off already... it was painful watching this

[omfggoogle]

all women should get their hair done like this

[krazybeauty05]

Depends on the extent.. hiding it, doing it while she's at work and lying about it when she's around.. spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars on it.. spending hours online.. preferring porn over relations with your wife.. that's porn addiction and its like cheating.. you might as well be with another woman.

[SuperMasterTroll]

nice logic there einstein

[taekneek]

porn is fantasy in visual form.... sooo it's not cheating since he's merely looking at his fantasies... however as a christian, i cannot encourage porn.

[leaf16nut]

@taekneek

LOL, why not god is a fucking pigment of your magination... because some guy wrote it in a book thousands of years ago you believe it? have u ever played the telephone game? after 10 people the story gets jumbled... and u believe t after 2000+ years... hhaah

I laugh at your religion... ad all religions for that matter... open your fucking eyes... honestly; the only reason you believe in god is because you put 100% belief into him

your in a fucking CULT!!!

[flyingscience]

Put out like a wild porn star and the cheating will stop , for a few months anyway . Eventually all relationships get old and the appeal of strange (new lover) surfaces .

[flyingscience]

The Jealousy comes when the guys want what the porn stars can dish out . Regular women cant do what the stars do .Its an art and it takes effort -mandatory classes I say .

[flyingscience]

How many guys are wtching porn as they make love to their mates ? It can make the man last forever so the gals may actualy benifit if they are game to try .

[JaydeHadfield]

If you are becoming Jealous because your man is watching porn, I say watch it with him. It shows you have an interest, and I have found that men (or women) who watch porn usually lack something in their sex life, or there is something they would like to act out. Of course, they could also Just be curious, or plain bored. There is also that age old dilemma of ''men Just being men'' lol. Communication is the key, and how are you really gonna know unless you sit down and see for yourself?

[kyeruu2]

"cheating" is a social construct or "concept" in which it involves that any action, relating to the feeling of "love and affection" given to someone other than the human you're focusing attention is, "wrong"

Correction.

Cheating, is loving another woman, while the other one does not approve and even then its' not cheating.

it's adultery.

Long story short, there is no such thing as cheating, and porn will probably never be as cheating.

you're not jealous.

you're just an insecure fuck >.>

[rowland2k8]

its not cheating at all, but

i still think about my girlfriend when i watch porn...

[honorableninjas]

well first off whats a point of watching porn when you can do porn live with your lover =D also if you watch porn to add positions and such than either A. watch it with your lover or B. read sex books(educational ones non-boring like "sex bible")

[biologyprodigy]

Hopefully it's not gay porn.

[mavely3000]

i agree with the girl enjoy it together watch it with him it most likely will turn him on and you will have crazy fun sex together lol cant believe i just said that but seriously bring out your wild side makes the relationship more interesting

[EvilPaola]

I'm not too happy with these people. They don't get to the point as quickly as Matt and Tamson, and don't summarize what they think as well.

[meka4996]

well, maybe he is looking for something that his woman cannot or would not want to provide??

[jbaclig]

they stutter too much

[keidos]

They know is wrong n destructive but still try to excuse it since they don't know how to deal with lust.

[moolikeachicken]

Jealous of porn? sound more like...other issues are in the mix here. Like, extreme self doubt or doubt in the relationship. Because...really? Jealous of porn? REALLY?

[Anjimom]

I know, that makes me sad for the woman. Totally, insecure.

[pintobeans77]

Sorry, when I dress up, I dress up for me...and there is nothing wrong with this. And with the porn, it is not that the woman is mad, it is that she maybe feels threatened and don't know what to make of her current relationship...maybe she feels she is doing something wrong, etc. If the guy just blew her off, then all hell would break loose. What is the point of your post anyway? That women are selfish? Here's a wakeup call...everyone is selfish whether male or female.

[ncfwhitetigress]

wtf r u talking about?

[IDontDoDrumCovers]

wah y are they on here 0.0 what about there normal channel or is this a 1 time thing?

make him some porn then. and we dont think about doing the ppl in the porn

[Efferts]

Maher said it best:

"There's no such thing as mutual fantasies. Yours' bore men, ours offend women."

[ncfwhitetigress]

Men's fantasies only offend insecure women. Too bad there aren't enough REAL women to go around.

[AneesaColeman101]

There are REAL women everywhere. To me, a real woman is someone that is assertive and understands who she is and is glad to be a woman, but to someone else that may be a Feminist Bitch.

[ncfwhitetigress]

I agree with you about the definition of a real woman, but unlike you I certainly don't see them EVERYWHERE.

[AneesaColeman101]

I didn't say I see them everywhere. I said they are everywhere.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Um wow that was a rather contradictory statement.

[waldoman7]

nah. that's sexy. you're only a feminist bitch if you seek female superiority rather than equality. These days, that's what most feminist are. Politically most of them have ceased to be about equality.

[ncfwhitetigress]

I think you're right about many girls. But, personally, I never bother to dress up if I know there is no chance of male presence. My girlfriends always pressure me to dress up around them too but I don't see the point.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Guys should complain about women reading romance more. Then maybe girls would stfu about porn.

[pintobeans77]

Reading romance novels is NOTHING like watching porn. Do women seriously go jerking off after a good read?? I'm a woman and I find romance novels to be hilarious as hell. Of the times I've read them (the juicy parts) it's always been for comical relief. I know there are others like me out there.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Reading romance novels, for most women, is EXACTLY like watching porn. There may be others like you out there, but they are a minority. Most women who read romance novels read them because they are SEXY. We may not "jack off" most of the time, but we can and do get hot in the face and our heart rates speed up during the sexiest scenes.

[princesskemo]

perhaps the outfit men choose for woman to wear is too provocative or too uncomfortable I am pretty sure most men would be happy if their woman wore pretty much close to nothing everyday >.> now I am not saying I don't agree with your comment because woman can be about themselves a lot but men tend to choose clothes that woman wouldn't want to wear in a million years...same vise versa actually...

[pintobeans77]

Some men are funny like that. Most of them want you to wear provocative clothes but only in private. They like to gawk at women who wear sexy clothes but they hate men who gawk at their woman in those same sexy clothes. The only guys that would be ok with this are usually young guys...under 22 or so. These guys still think that it somehow makes them "cool" when other men see them with little miss walking herpes.

[NusMEsa]

You really have some problems with some things... but not all guys are the same.

Miss walking herpes ... lol

[GuruGeekSan]

omg they changed the people again. But I'm not as frustrated as i might have been seeing as these seem to be the first ones to give actual helpful advise.

[omgcahley]

lol

[SpicyHam]

Haha ban porn!

[ncfwhitetigress]

ppl will just make their own

[empressjulz]

this is a stupid response, which was basically watching porn is ok. also they didn't ask, how much porn he watches-is he an addict? did she catch him repeatedly watching it behind her back? does he have sex with her or avoid it in favour of porn? and echoing everyone else here, porn isn't the same as romance novels, women tend to put themselves as the damsel and the hero as the man in their heads.

[Crayolalola]

NO ITS NOT!!! In porn, the guy thinks of having sex with these pornstar women whereas in a novel the women will mostlikely fantasizes about her bf or husband. If hubby keeps watching porn then there is a higher chance that he will wanna cheat on his wife with another chick that looks like a pornstar. So its NOT the same! I'm sorry but I disagree.

[ncfwhitetigress]

BULLSHIT ALERT!!!

"In porn, the guy thinks of having sex with these pornstar women whereas in a novel the women will mostlikely fantasizes about her bf or husband."

Um, no, we fantasize about the tall, dark, handsome hero with whom our real mates could never compare.

[Efferts]

LMAO I called it too.

This is terribly bias.

[Crayolalola]

like?

[mistressmandy4589]

I agree, too. I hate porn, I don't read romance novels, and I find it wrong that a man would watch porn, and get turned on by it, when he has a girlfriend. That's what your girlfriend is for!!!

[muneyholder]

NOT WHEN YOUR GIRLFRIEND ISN'T PUTTING OUT. That's usually when the man uses pornography anyways!

[ncfwhitetigress]

Pretty much.

[pintobeans77]

I used to put out a lot with my ex-husband. He still went to watch porn because he is a lazy and tired %$#%^$^%$ Can't seem to stop some men from watching porn I guess.

[ncfwhitetigress]

I'd only blame him if she's in the mood 24/7.

[muneyholder]

Women fantasize about the tall strong dark hero, not their spouse.

[AneesaColeman101]

"In porn, the guy thinks of having sex with these pornstar women whereas in a novel the women will mostlikely fantasizes about her bf or husband."

I'm a girl and i know that is definitely not true! And what do you mean most likely? where are you getting that statistic?

[chengsou]

i wonder what that blue drink is....

[luckyclover012]

haha girl porn

[timulair]

it is physically impossible for men to focus all their sexual energy on to one women. there's plain too much. no matter how hot ones girlfriend/wife might be. be glad he's watching porn. he could be banging some random hot chick.

[pintobeans77]

It IS physically possible...the lack of interest from other women certainly helps. Take my ex for example...he may want to do all these hot women but they wouldn't give him another look (sorry, he's got no look and no personality). I think it is more that it is maybe not mentally possible for men to focus all his energy on one woman? And also I know there are men out there who ARE fully devoted to one woman physically and mentally...though rare they are.

[mowgli2071]

If he has no looks or personality, what does that say about you?

[lisalavie1]

WHATTT??? Watching porn and reading a romance novels are polar opposites.

I'm surprised you guys even posted this video up with that answer. Not trying to be rude at all but your viewers are not actually going to have a light bulb moment like "you know what, yeah, The're right".

Most Women who read romance novels read it for the hope that they're eventually be swept off their feet.

It's called "Romance novel" and not "Porn Novel" for a reason.

[lisalavie1]

That being said, a man watching porn doesn't reflect the way he feels about a woman. Men who watch porn love their wives but they are just visual creatures who love visual stimulation. I don't think it's horrible but I'm not all for it either. If in moderation, I wouldn't get upset.

[luvliikehoney]

Hehe loved you in the She Wolf parody XD

[lisalavie1]

luvliikehoney <- lmao, Thanks a lot! :)

[pintobeans77]

omg, it's Lisalavie!!!! I had no clue that you watch yourtango. And Iman better not be watching porn when he's got you...not even in moderation! lol

[lisalavie1]

pintobeans77 <- haha You're too funny! :)

[JxAttack]

i love porn =-)

[mowgli2071]

@lisa l: "It's called 'romance novel' not 'porn novel' for a reason."

Yeah, the reason is, a lot of prudish women wouldn't be able to handle the thought that they were ACTUALLY reading porn.

Vibrators can't be sold as vibrators, to these women, they have to be "personal massagers", even though there's a rabbit or dolphin tickler on the device, for the clitoris (or anus), and it's got rotating, metal pellets, and it squirms at the top.

As for the novels, the love scenes are plenty porn-ish.

[cmonbugmenot]

are jennifer's tits fake?

[josephhandsome1013]

looks like it.. lol

[luvliikehoney]

Where's the other married couple D:! Who are these people $#%^&*( lol

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

Thats a stupid question...

What the hell is "cheating" anyway? get real! = S

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

like, who invented the concept of cheating? It make zero sense to me at all... And If you don't like it when when he watches porn then maybe you shouldn't have any boyfriends cause if guys aren't masturbating there fucking and if their not fucking... Their masturbating... so get over it, what he dose to his own body in his spare time has nothing to do with you anyway = /

[matman16]

MORE EXCLAMATION MARKS!!!!!!

[dkdoae]

girls: if u don;t want ur BF or Husband watching porn?

Simple answer!!! PUT OUT!!!

[luvliikehoney]

lol that's a dumb answer [:

[dkdoae]

for a whore like you, it is!!

[luvliikehoney]

Dude wtf? did you even mean to reply to my comment cause if so you're not making any sense lol

[mrtnsamson]

lol simply put!

[mclovin300225]

FORTHH!!!!

[casinobowling]

THIRD!!!!! :P!!!!

[casinobowling]

SECOND!!! :P!!!

[kangryh]

FIRST!!! :P