He's not telling her not to be bisexual, he's just suggesting that she don't advertise to people that she is. I'm not saying I don't agree with the person who wrote in. If she's bisexual it is silly to think that will change just because she's in a monogamous relationship. But playing devil's advocate I can see how he might feel like it could send the wrong message if she is posting that she is bi on the Internet for anybody to see. They might think she is involved with women or wants to be.
Thank you for the vid Lori, very clear as always. I'm not bi but I think it is really unfair to try to make them fit in either the 'gay' or the 'straight' category...I think that the guy is probably intimidated by the idea of his future wife being attracted to women because he wouldn't know how to compete with that. But the point is that if they're in a commited relationship her attraction to women is not a 'threat' to him, even though it's relevant and it should be acknowledged.
If she were straight, would he be concerned that she'd leave him for another man? It's the same situation. Just because she is bi should not make him any more concerned about her leaving him.
Or is it the fact that he simply does not like the idea of his future wife identifying herself as bi? Maybe this makes him feel inferior? Maybe he's worried about how her orientation will reflect on him?
Well, I hope they can work it out! Keep your dignity, woman! more power to you!!
Omg at your Signing at the End! Looove! Great video, Like pretty much every other Bi person here has said, I'll Still be Bi no matter who I'm with/marrying. End of Story.
i already said exactly what i think on jess's video, and my comment agrees, obviously this woman has chosen to be with this man "till death do you part". now there are have questions to solve like why is it an issue? but really it comes back to "want him more than others not exclusively", attraction to other people doesnt matter as long as her feelings for him are stronger
finally! thank you for this vid soo much. im bi, and im still gonna b bi weather i marry a man or a woman. same as if a gay guy married a woman, doesn't make him straight.
i think one of the reasons my ex was mad at me when i left him is because i was leaving him for a female. it seems guys hate it when their girlfriend leaves them for a girl. and also, i agree with the whole "its something about you that he should know.". my ex was like "why are you saying your bisexual if you're with me. it shouldnt matter anymore" and i was like "lol.. what..? its something thats a huge part of me.." im glad i left him though. and plus i'm more attracted to women.. :l..
I had a relationship-ending arguement with my then boyfriends best friend.
I dated a guy, having been with girls only before, but i felt attracted to this guy and we hit it off.
His best friend hated me for being with girls before. He said i would cheat, that i was a tart for fancying both genders and i was fucking him around by being 'indecisive' even tho my boyfriend had no problems with, his friend was a cunt. I broke our relationship coz of his friend. Just wish the friend would of eff'd off
I never understood why people always jump to the conclusion that a bisexual would need to date two people. A monogamous relationship is a monogamous relationship regardless.
Thank you,,, you explained it so well. Just because I am bi does not mean I will jump from one side to the other and back again... I can and have fallen in love with either a man or a woman,,, but not always at the same time. Each relationship before my current one was with one person with whom I was in love...
man, The made me remeber when I was called lesbo all because I like girl, They never even realize that you like guys too...hate it.
sushi12131998 3 months ago
He's not telling her not to be bisexual, he's just suggesting that she don't advertise to people that she is. I'm not saying I don't agree with the person who wrote in. If she's bisexual it is silly to think that will change just because she's in a monogamous relationship. But playing devil's advocate I can see how he might feel like it could send the wrong message if she is posting that she is bi on the Internet for anybody to see. They might think she is involved with women or wants to be.
youngandlesbian 6 months ago
I agree so much with this. Thanks for speaking for us bi girls out there.
queencolondarkwing 8 months ago
@queencolondarkwing And Bi guys! We've got feelings too :)
thomaseshuis 8 months ago
Love you, Lori. Great video. And I'm so glad I can actually hear you this time :D
JGT318 10 months ago
Bisexuals have feelings??! Nahhhhhh :)
FM897 10 months ago
This all makes SO much sense! -3
Lixilon 10 months ago
Thank you for the vid Lori, very clear as always. I'm not bi but I think it is really unfair to try to make them fit in either the 'gay' or the 'straight' category...I think that the guy is probably intimidated by the idea of his future wife being attracted to women because he wouldn't know how to compete with that. But the point is that if they're in a commited relationship her attraction to women is not a 'threat' to him, even though it's relevant and it should be acknowledged.
AlyLunatika 10 months ago
If she were straight, would he be concerned that she'd leave him for another man? It's the same situation. Just because she is bi should not make him any more concerned about her leaving him.
Or is it the fact that he simply does not like the idea of his future wife identifying herself as bi? Maybe this makes him feel inferior? Maybe he's worried about how her orientation will reflect on him?
Well, I hope they can work it out! Keep your dignity, woman! more power to you!!
olgadamole 10 months ago
Everything about this video was amazing. Thanks Lori!
jbschott3 10 months ago
nice video
dancesonpoles 10 months ago
Omg at your Signing at the End! Looove! Great video, Like pretty much every other Bi person here has said, I'll Still be Bi no matter who I'm with/marrying. End of Story.
lizrem 10 months ago
Great video
SchrodingersPet 10 months ago
Yes! Very insulting! Thank you Lori!! <3 this is a really great video!!
nannoninn 10 months ago 2
i already said exactly what i think on jess's video, and my comment agrees, obviously this woman has chosen to be with this man "till death do you part". now there are have questions to solve like why is it an issue? but really it comes back to "want him more than others not exclusively", attraction to other people doesnt matter as long as her feelings for him are stronger
sobeit42 10 months ago
finally! thank you for this vid soo much. im bi, and im still gonna b bi weather i marry a man or a woman. same as if a gay guy married a woman, doesn't make him straight.
groupjapan 10 months ago
i think one of the reasons my ex was mad at me when i left him is because i was leaving him for a female. it seems guys hate it when their girlfriend leaves them for a girl. and also, i agree with the whole "its something about you that he should know.". my ex was like "why are you saying your bisexual if you're with me. it shouldnt matter anymore" and i was like "lol.. what..? its something thats a huge part of me.." im glad i left him though. and plus i'm more attracted to women.. :l..
PaulinaH727 10 months ago
I had a relationship-ending arguement with my then boyfriends best friend.
I dated a guy, having been with girls only before, but i felt attracted to this guy and we hit it off.
His best friend hated me for being with girls before. He said i would cheat, that i was a tart for fancying both genders and i was fucking him around by being 'indecisive' even tho my boyfriend had no problems with, his friend was a cunt. I broke our relationship coz of his friend. Just wish the friend would of eff'd off
EmmyIiciouS 10 months ago
Checking out women together lols.
PopularHottChic 10 months ago 2
Even though you're in a rush, you have such a beautiful glow! Your perkiness always brightens up my day :D
123MikeyGo 10 months ago 2
I never understood why people always jump to the conclusion that a bisexual would need to date two people. A monogamous relationship is a monogamous relationship regardless.
SamBamKablaam 10 months ago 5
I'm bisexual, and I wouldn't cheat on my partner with either gender. But no matter what the gender of my partner is, I will always be bisexual.
adrianldk 10 months ago 58
Thank you,,, you explained it so well. Just because I am bi does not mean I will jump from one side to the other and back again... I can and have fallen in love with either a man or a woman,,, but not always at the same time. Each relationship before my current one was with one person with whom I was in love...
mfost0424 10 months ago 24
Love this video!!! bisexuals do have feelings!!
rp4ei3 10 months ago