she sang the shit out of this song.i am not even married and this song spoke to me deeply.she said be patient with my short comings.that right love her for her.
This makes me feel just like what me and my husband going thru. I love him so much but he hurting so much and taking it out on the wrong person. I want him to talk to me and treat me like he used to and let me help him get thru this.
@N00KAFBABi shut the heck upp ;0 n 4 all ov tha opther people who have somethung negitive 2 say u NEED 2 KEEP IT TO YOURSELF bcuz i think that the whole album is fii ;)
well iam not he's getting married iam soooo hurt confuse but hey i have to get on it is what it is just never give ya heart to someone who is not going to be there for you
If he would have talked to me instead of running around disgracing my name. Clowning, acting like a lil kid. We might at least be able to be friends. But boys will be boys. Sistah girl, Stay down, dont be like me, I gave up. I got to the point that, if I stay it hurt, if I leave it hurts. I figure i'de rather hurt from his absence then hurt from his disrespect..Brothers. Grow up
I talk all this shit and my punk ass went back AGAIN and now I've left. But this time I aint coming back until I see some shit with my OWN EYES.. Hell I said that last time Hu!! Ya'll better not listen to me.. I got Issues!!! LOL!! Love & Blessings
@TreySouljah true shit yo i love this and i thought i was the only woman who ever felt stuck like that i love my daughter's father to pieces but when we were together towards the end i was hurting and when we first broke up i was damaged so its like i'd rather be hurt alone then from being with him (sigh) girl how did you ever get over it cuz i haven't
I'm over the fussing and I'm trying to stop cussing.Tell him Mary!!!! Talk to me every secret you know that i'll keep it ain't I good to you baby. SAY THAT MARY!!!!
This song is on repeat in da car ... MJB is jammin. I hear the Aretha comments but I don't think so. She's a present day Aretha by virtue of the style and emotion. She can't sing like ReRe. Please believe that's not taking nothing from Mary because she can sell more records than ReRe anyday. Also, the hook from the Emotions Key To My Heart is what made me take notice of the song. Really nice addition
i just love her she is so damn talented she really inspires me y ? im feeling her and the pain she went through love you mary j but she helps me through it soothes the mind
only mary i would love 2 make a song wit her she doesm her thing as much as i like keyshia cole she ain't got shit on mary they can try 2 keep comparing them but their will never be another mjb
Lately you ve been tryin to hide it but something is on your mind, i care about you to much to jus let it slide.WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Only Mary could have thought of something like that to say out of her mouth.WOOOOOOOOOW!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Is this one of the best songs you ever heard inyour life? Mary is so talented. I really must say she puts her all and all in all her music, but this joint rite hear makes me want to just explode.WOOOOOOOOOW! The words are crazy poppin.All i can say is WOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Cant wait until she comes to philly with Jay i will be on the floor rite beside the stage.
This song this song this song takes me waaayyyyy back, im just trying to perfect the vocals, but everytime I sing or hear this song I get goosebumps, her adlips, vocal range and runs in this song is amazing
Yo! I agree with you on that note. In philly she can do no wrong,I will be rite on the floor of the concert rite next to the stage,MJB all day everyday. Album of the year, do i hear video of the year? Do i hear best colaberation by a duel group/ song of the decade. LIke i said she does nothing wrong in my eye site. So yeah i do get a little carried away when it comes to Mary.
its all about mary's HONESTY..thats what brings me in. if u listen to this track u hear her speakin str8 from her heart. mary's "REHAB", why would u waste your money somewhere else.. pop in her music and if your not "HEALED" your a "STRONGER" person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is by far my favorite song on the album...im really not feelin this album as much as her last one....but mary is mary....the album is gone do good...
dis is my favorite 2...but i really like it wen she requested it on the radio wen she was in philly she dis is one of her favorite songz also on the album...it was a rap after i heard it i got the ringtone and da ringback tone...even tho it sonud kind of sad it still a very good n strong song 4 a relationship...."it's REAL"
she is amazing i live in england and our music is proper shit and i dont mean shit i mean proper SHIT, went to watch her and it was quite empty and i loved how it didint bother her she was amazing truly.
she sang the shit out of this song.i am not even married and this song spoke to me deeply.she said be patient with my short comings.that right love her for her.
dynasty21dreams 2 weeks ago
THIS IS THE TALK THAT YOU HAVE WITH YOUR MATE WHEN YOU START SEEING IT GO IN THE WRONG DIRECTION!!!!!!
babyfaceree 1 month ago 2
GREATEST R&B FEMALE SINGER I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE next to aaliyah
TheN8tivechick 2 months ago
2:56 on down is my shit!!!
wr513 3 months ago
Mary I respect you so much for this CD. It describes so much of my marriage. I love you soo much.
mslatoshamaaron25 4 months ago 2
i love evrything bout this one.........
tanishamattel 4 months ago 3
DAMN, my man's not talking to me, he's just fading away.
faithyrose 5 months ago
Love this record!!!! "You can talk to me at anytime...any hour."
AkoniShanard 5 months ago
This makes me feel just like what me and my husband going thru. I love him so much but he hurting so much and taking it out on the wrong person. I want him to talk to me and treat me like he used to and let me help him get thru this.
dswcornish 5 months ago 2
SANG HIP HOP QUEEN OF SOUL, FOREVER!!!! MARY J BLIGE!!!!!
vangoghmatisse1 6 months ago 2
Mary don't speak nothing but tha truth!!! Sing Mary!
MzAlize09 6 months ago 4
This is exactly why Mary J. won a grammy for this album. This is what you call real R&B. All Hail the Queen
MrSomeone2loveme 8 months ago 13
thanks for posting these songs by Ms Mary because i was looking for some of them from the Growing Pains cd.....i finally found them!
mzqueenbee71 8 months ago
im ova da fussin and tired of cussin~ words from all true women
sugama246 9 months ago 2
"ain't no tip toeing we're too grow for that" you better sat that mary
brionnakennedy 9 months ago 4
@brionnakennedy That was my favorite part
MrSomeone2loveme 6 months ago
For You Gia.
mizzjuicy38 10 months ago
you are awesome who ever page this is song after song from the breakthrough albulm
foxevintage 11 months ago
i ant never felt this much love like song after song on my computer from the growing pains albulm who ever page this is you ae awesome
foxevintage 11 months ago
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If more REAL Folks would do this......RELATIONSHIPS would have less drama. REAL TALK!! Listen to the words...she is drop'n some good/real KNOWLEDGE!
(2Fingers2TheLips)
Piercedx2 11 months ago
If more REAL Folks would do this......RELATIONSHIPS would have less drama. REAL TALK!! Listen to the words...she is drop'n some good/real KNOWLEDGE!
(2Fingers2TheLips)
Piercedx2 11 months ago
i love this song it helps me to communicate with my other half
tiffantking101 11 months ago
i just starting listening to this song about a month ago i loved this go sleep sing it love it mary
28players 1 year ago 2
You four dislikes...you've never found love have you? Thanks for the great posts of the album lolz. Stupid mom for getting me hooked x.x
GirlYouDontKnow1237 1 year ago
last tym i lukd diz wuznt on derr.
SOICYGUHTV 1 year ago
MARY IS MY GRL SHE JUST ANOTHER WHITNEY LOVE THEM BOTH
MsOrangeBaby2 1 year ago
love this chick!!!!
4ofusis 1 year ago 3
Love It!!
Sweeteverydr0p 1 year ago
i ♥ DiS SONG MARy DiD H3R ON H3R N3W ALBUM
daranaiza 1 year ago
i love tha whole album..its all my type
chantiaunique 1 year ago 4
i luv this song....listen to da words...
TheGrownandsexc 1 year ago
i love this song ! n i absolutly love he choice of words ;) verry grate woman
miiluv11 1 year ago
THIS WHOLE ALBUM IS THA SHIT
chantiaunique 1 year ago 2
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got a ringtone for my BlackBerry from 0:54-0:56 of this video on tube2 tone(.]com
savanotmak 1 year ago
This is an old song taken from a cut by The Emotions, aptly titled Key To My Heart but boy she worked this old school joint. I like it
NikStratus 1 year ago
one of the best album- songs ...what a great feeling
guddel44 2 years ago
wow..im a man, but wow these lyrics are WOW!!
Truerutz 2 years ago 2
this is my song and am dedicating this shit to me and man moj this the shit mary j u did this one girl
The2Pretty4u 2 years ago
Mary always have the right words
kvkevkev123 2 years ago
MAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNN i HATE HOW THiS SONG iS POiNT
GON' MARY
N00KAFBABi 2 years ago
@N00KAFBABi shut the heck upp ;0 n 4 all ov tha opther people who have somethung negitive 2 say u NEED 2 KEEP IT TO YOURSELF bcuz i think that the whole album is fii ;)
miiluv11 1 year ago
@miiluv11 yU SHOUlD FEEL DUMB i SAiD IT AS THIS SONG REALLY EXPRESSES HOW A LOT OF GIRLS FEEL... IWAS SAYIN I HATE HOW THIS SONG IS SO TRU
JAZZiBAHDBABE 1 year ago
Why can't our men get this very simple concept just Talk to Me baby and we will be just fine fine fine
caprisass 2 years ago 3
@caprisass I MEAN AINT THAT THE TRUTH !!!!!!! BUT SORRY 2 SAY THAT ABOUT 88% PERCENT AINT GONNA DO THAT
miiluv11 1 year ago
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THiS SONG iS SO TRUE
N00KAFBABi 2 years ago
get that mary !! man iLove this song
StfUimPriceless14 2 years ago
I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE WHEN SHE BREAKS DOWN THE SONG AT 2:55 and forward.. plus she killed them adlibs n notes with a TON of soul
Shutitdown5 2 years ago 6
That's what we need from our men communication tell em Mary
caprisass 2 years ago
mary j blige is true 2 all the songs she makes. she always expresses her feelings. :). luv ya mary & ur music
beautiful10046 2 years ago 4
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beautiful10046 2 years ago
omg i this song it speaks the truth
tiyiara21 2 years ago 2
i love mary
markuon 3 years ago
this is just a diva and a godess
bperkatam 3 years ago
luv da beat :D cant wait till the concert!
odracirsasor 3 years ago
i love this
markuon 3 years ago
MARY IS MY GIRL I LOVE HER MUSIC SO MUCH
deedy1234 3 years ago
i love this song
deedy1234 3 years ago
another good song
markuon 3 years ago
she nice
markuon 3 years ago
i love mary
markuon 3 years ago
I love this entire album but I especially like this song and hurt again and come to me. Mary is and will forever be the truth.
myka0890 3 years ago 2
this album is gr8 i listen 2 it ALL the tyme
Miztempaxx 3 years ago
Today's female vocalists in music gets no better then Mary. My favorite tune third to 'Hurt Again and Shake Down.
SoulSir 3 years ago 5
after 7 yrs he hurt me so bad but mary gets me through it
BEDSTUY35 3 years ago 5
why are you still with him ?
powerpaulien 3 years ago 2
well iam not he's getting married iam soooo hurt confuse but hey i have to get on it is what it is just never give ya heart to someone who is not going to be there for you
8yrs iam devestated
BEDSTUY35 3 years ago 2
well afta 8yrs its so hard it's not easy to move on although u have 2 but there is so much pain
BEDSTUY35 3 years ago 2
okay i understand =]
powerpaulien 3 years ago
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talk to and yes he did thank you baby you rock.
tsepomooki 3 years ago
If he would have talked to me instead of running around disgracing my name. Clowning, acting like a lil kid. We might at least be able to be friends. But boys will be boys. Sistah girl, Stay down, dont be like me, I gave up. I got to the point that, if I stay it hurt, if I leave it hurts. I figure i'de rather hurt from his absence then hurt from his disrespect..Brothers. Grow up
TreySouljah 3 years ago 47
I talk all this shit and my punk ass went back AGAIN and now I've left. But this time I aint coming back until I see some shit with my OWN EYES.. Hell I said that last time Hu!! Ya'll better not listen to me.. I got Issues!!! LOL!! Love & Blessings
TreySouljah 3 years ago 2
@TreySouljah true shit yo i love this and i thought i was the only woman who ever felt stuck like that i love my daughter's father to pieces but when we were together towards the end i was hurting and when we first broke up i was damaged so its like i'd rather be hurt alone then from being with him (sigh) girl how did you ever get over it cuz i haven't
2012LUGirl 11 months ago
This is the main thing you listen to.Its like your medicane, you have to take it everyday.Except its better!!!!!!!!!!!
TRUDSBR 3 years ago 3
I'm over the fussing and I'm trying to stop cussing.Tell him Mary!!!! Talk to me every secret you know that i'll keep it ain't I good to you baby. SAY THAT MARY!!!!
oct061982 3 years ago
This song is on repeat in da car ... MJB is jammin. I hear the Aretha comments but I don't think so. She's a present day Aretha by virtue of the style and emotion. She can't sing like ReRe. Please believe that's not taking nothing from Mary because she can sell more records than ReRe anyday. Also, the hook from the Emotions Key To My Heart is what made me take notice of the song. Really nice addition
benniemccoy 3 years ago
i just love her she is so damn talented she really inspires me y ? im feeling her and the pain she went through love you mary j but she helps me through it soothes the mind
dollbaby1971 3 years ago 5
this is all for us strong women out their keep it real!! love you maryxxxxx
missstush2008 3 years ago 4
only mary i would love 2 make a song wit her she doesm her thing as much as i like keyshia cole she ain't got shit on mary they can try 2 keep comparing them but their will never be another mjb
wetwetb 3 years ago 22
i love mary j she is my idle she makes alot of sense in all her song. I give it to her cause no matter what she stays strong
youngtrill26 3 years ago
you still gotte
snookie155 3 years ago
Lately you ve been tryin to hide it but something is on your mind, i care about you to much to jus let it slide.WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Only Mary could have thought of something like that to say out of her mouth.WOOOOOOOOOW!
greffen123 3 years ago 6
WOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Is this one of the best songs you ever heard inyour life? Mary is so talented. I really must say she puts her all and all in all her music, but this joint rite hear makes me want to just explode.WOOOOOOOOOW! The words are crazy poppin.All i can say is WOOOOOOOOOOOOW! Cant wait until she comes to philly with Jay i will be on the floor rite beside the stage.
greffen123 3 years ago 5
Mary J. Blige you are my sister and best friend because you have help me make it though tough times. This is the song.
HIRAH24 3 years ago 3
This song is deep, and it exposes a woman's true feelings...it goes hard, and it lets ya know...TALK TO ME!
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ladyk0592 3 years ago 3
This song this song this song takes me waaayyyyy back, im just trying to perfect the vocals, but everytime I sing or hear this song I get goosebumps, her adlips, vocal range and runs in this song is amazing
zaboukie 3 years ago 3
Mary J. you are da bomb! This song is what a WOMAN says to her MAN when they listen, and yet when is that ever! So Talk to ME!
deeblackat
deeblackat 3 years ago
i love this song
taysweet 3 years ago
Mary J. Blige is a good singer 2 me
vorris13 4 years ago
Mary J. Blige is a singer 2 me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
vorris13 4 years ago
I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR HER SING THIS LIVE
tone7077 4 years ago 2
Mary Killed it on dis song....IM really feelin dis song
Dejour11 4 years ago
Yo! I agree with you on that note. In philly she can do no wrong,I will be rite on the floor of the concert rite next to the stage,MJB all day everyday. Album of the year, do i hear video of the year? Do i hear best colaberation by a duel group/ song of the decade. LIke i said she does nothing wrong in my eye site. So yeah i do get a little carried away when it comes to Mary.
greffen123 3 years ago 4
this song is talking to me, it hits u deep down to the core
hitps101 4 years ago
mannnnn this is my song!!
anisej 4 years ago
I mean she did that...This is so hot! Its so real!
Adrianna2121 4 years ago
I totally agree. She does sound like Aretha Franklin. This song is so goooood song for couples. I love it!
Ayetube07 4 years ago
this is my song
ilovemeandmybestfrie 4 years ago
sound alot like Aretha Franklin on this song
CheezyDoDo973 4 years ago 2
luv this 1 mjb. o'l times....speak it.mjb
bossnmeround 4 years ago
Go Mary!!!!!!!!!!
detrickallese 4 years ago
AINT I GOOD TO YA BABEEEY!
marysmaid 4 years ago
Baby, you're a man and I know it's hard to reach out for help.
And let down your guard.
But I am your woman.
So you gotta know why I been put on this earth.
To be right by your side.
Now lately you've been tryna hide it but something's on your mind.
But I care what's going on with you too much to let it slide......mmmm yea..
haileehan 4 years ago
Mary, Mary, Mary!!!I love this, I love, I love it..
Dee49546 4 years ago
I love this song! She got part of the beat from The Emotions song "Key To My Heart".
msbrit89 4 years ago
Mary iz so real wit her music. I luv her so much, dis album iz gonna do great 2. Keep it up Mary Girl, we all luv u :-)
illkickyourass07 4 years ago
The last minute of this song is so moving! I love how emotional the vocals are, Mary's music has such a therapeutic quality. I love this album!
sarifmamoru 4 years ago 2
its all about mary's HONESTY..thats what brings me in. if u listen to this track u hear her speakin str8 from her heart. mary's "REHAB", why would u waste your money somewhere else.. pop in her music and if your not "HEALED" your a "STRONGER" person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bossnmeround 4 years ago
whew...this is the truth. luv mary for her honesty, what other singer is puttin it out there like this?
lisalighty 4 years ago 2
this sounds most like classic Mary! great soul-ballad! luv it!
utbr01 4 years ago 3
LOVE THIS TRACK!! reminds of Randy Crawford & Aretha Franklin. .
justwilliam73 4 years ago
This is by far my favorite song on the album...im really not feelin this album as much as her last one....but mary is mary....the album is gone do good...
armonwinters 4 years ago
dis is my favorite 2...but i really like it wen she requested it on the radio wen she was in philly she dis is one of her favorite songz also on the album...it was a rap after i heard it i got the ringtone and da ringback tone...even tho it sonud kind of sad it still a very good n strong song 4 a relationship...."it's REAL"
JasmineYasmeen 4 years ago
I love this song! This is the jam and Mary is killin it in this record!
nationbuilder 4 years ago 2
i love this song.
i went and brought mary cd yesterday and i love.
dionneti 4 years ago 3
She's sounding like the old mary,this is hot
alteri 4 years ago
she is amazing i live in england and our music is proper shit and i dont mean shit i mean proper SHIT, went to watch her and it was quite empty and i loved how it didint bother her she was amazing truly.
pidge80 4 years ago
GO GET "GROWING PAINS" 12/18/07
wlta2 4 years ago
so Aretha esque and old school yay MJB!
jmanchris1 4 years ago
ALL THAT I CAN SAY IS HOT MARY!
sexy504slim 4 years ago 2
LOVE DIS SONG GO MARY J
3427winchest 4 years ago 2
Wow. I love this. This is great.
StaceDogg315 4 years ago
great mary keep goin
MJBsroni 4 years ago
Talk to me Mary and do a Live DVD of this album. Great Job Mary, Can't wait!
artist182000 4 years ago 5