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  • Well in all honesty, these ARE all great vids. However, I must say it goes both ways for either sex. Been there, done that, too! Sad to say, multiple times with different individuals. Happens to the best of us who tend to be happy wholesome overloving overgiving overcaring people. Dreadful to say then, that we did not have a chance coming out of the birth canal. that would be very humorous, if it weren't so mentally, physically, and financially devastating. Sick and sad to be the nice one.

  • @estelladog1 Thank you for liking my videos, and I do know that it does go both way regarding each of the sexes. However, society doesn't recognize abuse against men. When a man is abused the woman is cheered and told "right on sister". However when a woman is abused it's seen as wrong. The point of my videos is to help out both sexes but mainly the men to show them this treatment is wrong and the lie they've been told by society is indeed that, a lie.

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  • @begood4000

    Hi:

    I'm a woman, but I agree with your views on men who are abused. bottom line: each gender needs to be real and respectful in a relationship, or be gone.

  • @magznificient more women need to feel this way. I'm glad you do.

  • @begood4000

    thanks james.. I met a guy a few months ago that I'm pretty sure was NPD, at any rate he had enough narcissistic personality traits for me to go "No Contact"...which is what brought me to your site. I've since realized that a lot of my mother's behaviors fit narcissism to a degree, so I feel like the "knowledge is power" thing is the way to go, both to avoid a narcissist and to self improve my own behaviors.

    I appreciate your videos.

  • @magznificient i'm glad you are learning to figure these people out and avoid them. That really is the key. Knowledge and growing and learning about what makes these people tick. With this info is sometimes is stil a challenge but stil do able. Thanks for enjoying my videos and finding the value in them.

  • "BE WARNED THESE PEOPLE TRADE AND OFTEN EXPLOITE YOUR DIFFICULTY TO TELL PEOPLE WHERE TO GET OFF !! OFTEN FOR THIER OWN ENDS.....

  • SO TRUE !!!! thanks a million Guys for putting this out there!!

  • This is a perfect description of my ex-wife

  • Thanks! You just described a lot of the women I know...

  • @dannytuason i'm glad you liked the video

  • Great video, thank you

  • @Bronwardie Your welcome. Thanks for liking it.

  • Wow! This is so true! I have lived thru this...

  • pure wisdom.

  • @realmanallen73 thanks

  • Thank you so much for this video. I must say it helps me out a lot. I know ppl are not perfect but it's so wrong to act perfect while tearing someone down, and then acting as if your the crazy one. I pray for ppl like this and their evil ways.

  • @missy237 I'm so glad you liked the video.

  • this is so true and sadly anough this happens all the time, with so many different reason (not only relationship based) that im sick of it!

    Begood4000, I'm glad you make this video's so all the people can laern to reconise these situations.

  • @Bronwardie yes it does seem these types of people are popping up every where in life. I'm glad glad you see the value in my videos. I really do appreciate it.

  • because of james and these videos ive made it thru a divorce child custody and now dating im all over that shit upfront...

  • @jnixongo00 I'm so glad you made it and are making it through to a better life. That's what it's all about. 

  • @RR777ification I'm so glad you like them :) Thank you

  • Trust that sickening feeling in your gut when you feel it. It is warning you of danger. Your brain wont want to believe she's lying. It will try to convince you there is somthing you can do to help. You can't. Walking away is your only choice. This person does not and cannot love you. If you ignore it, it will cause you psychological harm. The quiet ones are the worst.

  • @cozyfoxstudio I couldn't agree with you more. I was and am in a situation like this and it's one that i advise for ppl to stay away from. You question who you are, and start to believe the person that is trying to dis-grade you from top to bottom. It's time I realize I can't help ppl that don't wanna be helped or don't see that they are poison to others and themselves.

  • Yes James, you brought up a lot of good points. I would also add that sometimes if you ask probing questions you will get a angry response from them. As if to say “How dare you have a opinion contrary to mine.” If they are around their narc friends then they can really gang up on you, raise their voices and punish you through intimidation. This is a huge red flag. Remember that rational independent thinkers are not welcome here.

  • @RenegadeJuggler absolutely. These types hate to be questioned and do everything to avoid this. Such as trying to change the subject, shaming, arguing, and yes gang up on you with thier friends. The minute anyone see this kind of behavior RUN !

  • @RenegadeJuggler you are correct on both counts my friend.

  • does this include men (and woman, to be fair) who always have to have someone of the opposite sex around them? Always flirtatious? In desperate need of external validation??

  • There are Laws, Court and Police practices that encourage an epidemic of False Accusations of Domestic Violence, Abuse and Rape in this country. Women gain from False Accusations - Why?

    The "Feminist" Ideology that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, that:

    - Women are Good, Men are Bad!

    - Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!

    - Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!

    ... - Why?

  • This happens a lot in bars. I know one named Jessica who is young and relatively attractive and married to a slightly older man who she has two children with yet, she spends a great deal of time in bars badmouthing him. I did ask her where he was and what was he doing? The answer tells all, she said he was home with the Kids. I asked, if he is so mean and abusive, why would you leave him alone with your children? Of course, she doesn't like me much.

  • @maconsumner yes liars that are called out on their BS tend to not like it very much at all ;)

  • @maconsumner Especially when you do it in a large crowd of onlookers and calling her a smelly pirate hooker after I saw her go thru her 7th or 8th juice head in a week. She has all the same character treats of my Ex and that's probably why I don't like her and am so hard on her. She keeps her husband far away from anyone she knows there, but I wish I could speak to him. I am sure he is a good guy and deserves much better than her.

  • sound like a typical politician

  • Thanks for your videos.

    I know at least one person like you describe. (Years ago,) I learned to think of her as an habitual liar—where you use the term compulsive liar. Perhaps the distinction is trivial, but to me "compulsive" connotes an inability (or lack of responsibility) to not lie, whereas "habitual" states the reality that it happens regularly (and leaves open being able to assign culpability to the behavior).

    I would be interested in hearing your thoughts on the labels.

    Thanks.

  • @PoliticalMe great thoughts regarding the words habitual and compulsive. The word compulsive is indeed used for the disordered person because it is my belief the disordered person lies a matter of reflex and lives in such delusion they believe their own lies about being right all the time and everyone else being wrong. Where is a person that may not be disorded but has a couple of toxic traits might lie habitually as a matter of convience, but still able to tell the truth when needed. Sad stuff.

  • And another thing!! I'm not sure if it is this video or not... She started lying when we first dated. I wrote it off though. She tells my family and hers that I treat her bad. But she doesn't give details. That is the bread crumbs right there. I think they do this for control or to get out of the marriage later on when they are done using you!

  • Again you are right James. In my divorce she had lied badly. And I also noticed she lied about her past.

  • This video hit the nail on the head, but it left out how many of these people (I know a female very well) will completely fabricate things and then turn around and believe their own delusional fantasy.

    This goes far beyond lying, it can be an alternate reality that is sincerely believed because she convinces herself that it is true (when it is completely imagined in her head).

    She becomes irate if you point out the facts that she is having a delusion. The only possible explanation.

    =)

  • Another every good, informative video. Reminds me of the person who I am currently in the process of leaving. He fooled me with lies for years - he is an EXCELLENT actor! I think that he has ALWAYS lied and became very good at it. It is probably how he learned to survive with his own narcissist mother. Recently, when I suddenly "woke-up" to him and told him that I was now aware that he has done nothing but lie to me, his response was with a "smurk" and an attitude of "ha-ha, fooled you!".

  • Wow! Prophetic. This could be applied to all the politicians in Washington too. Hehe.

  • I know a girl who is like this. She loves to play mind games with people & she thinks she's friends with everyone. But really, alot of people can't stand her. She even believes her own LIES!!!! Her ex-bf showed me her text & the lies. I think at one point she tried to make me turn against my best friend. I swear I think she's psycho. And she never wants to take responsibilities for her own actions. Shady people aren't just destructive compulsive liars, they're fucking insane too.

  • They will automatically side with this personality type, because It's the knee jerk reaction of the white knight. Always protecting the "princess" at all costs.

  • I'm a blunt kind of person who says the things that pop into my head. I don't have any experience with this because I don't keep talking to girls who only want to talk about their problems. I certainly don't agree with them about everything.

  • God likes crazy people. He/she/it makes too many of them. (just a joke)

  • @tkathryyn lol

  • nice

  • @begood4000 Your videos has helped me even more and I thank you for that. In my case, it's a different story from many men. Notice my name is not male. I'm a transexual dealing with a bipolar type 1 girlfriend. I used to be male and now living as female(passable, 100% undetectable). Although I don't think my gf is a compulsive liar, but when she's manic or severly hypomanic, she is a COMPLETE narcissist which makes her lie a lot. Many Bipolar type 1 has been misdiagnosed with narcissism.

  • love your work begood4000 keep up the good work <3

  • I hate people who act like this. They manipulate everyone and poison the well. It's good to question this sort of person, great information to put out to the public so as to spot these people. My experience is that they know when they've been spotted and will quickly go about trashing the person who has spotted them, detracting from the witnesses credibility. It's lose lose with women like this. The best thing is to distance yourself. I had to do this with one of my own cousins. She's a bitch.

  • @lillie1990am yes no contact and distance seems to be the only answer with these types.

  • @begood4000 I believe that this disorder is at least partially inherent, my cousin, her sister and their mother are three ugly peas in the same pod. Nature via Nurture.

  • A lie is an excuse guarded :(

  • faved, good vid

  • Haha! That is my x-wife your talking about!

  • Yep true

  • Thanks ♥

  • this is my recent ex to a T...well done!

  • Another run hit! Great post.

  • @The10men thanks

  • Sounds more like lying is power....

  • @z978ady only on a temporary basis

  • brilliant video very informative and straightforward, I enjoyed it :) I look forward to your next bunch of helpful videos.

  • @chrismax18 thanks !

  • @begood4000 your very welcome james :)

  • Always thought provoking comments in your video posts. Thank you.

  • Yes, there is a whole culture that nurtures

    compulsive lying & BS. One of the manifestations

    is the PR & advertising industry. Another is the

    Republican party which has successfully rebranded

    itself as Tea Party or, as I call them, tea Birchers.

    "The government is out to get me" used to be a

    symptom of mental illness. It still is...

    "out to take my freedoms, my guns, my property,

    my dignity (TSA), my money (taxation is illegal),

    my way of life (see The Help).

  • @danger0usknowledge WOW you got some nerve to put the Republican party and "lying BS" in the same sentence. You do realize that Mr. Obama is a compulsive liar right? Did you attend or watch any of his campaign speeches? Everything he "promised" would happen hasn't infact he hasn't even come close to what he promised and if he's done anything he's ruined the economy more but the worst part is instead of taking responsibility for his actions he simply blames it on others.

  • @ChuckNorris899 <<<<< Did Obama promise to kill OBL b4 the election? Promise to fight necessary wars smarter? Yes he did. How many American lives were lost in Libya? How many more predator missions are being flown? How many troops are being withdrawn from Iraq? Tax cuts to the middle class? Infrastructure jobs? He did both. W/o stimulus $ official unemplm't would be 11-12%. Liars4hire would be calling for impeachment. So Chuck? You still write for WND? U & Pat Boone?-)
  • @danger0usknowledge First off if you're gonna bring up points please do so with somewhat proper grammar and number two the unemployment rate when Obama took office was about 4% where is it now? 12%. The funniest part about the war in Iraq is that Obama supports the war on terror but not the war in Iraq, this proves that he has no idea what he supports. What about the stimulus plan? Yeah it was a joke. Tax cuts to the middle class that he and the rest of the democratic party now wants removed.

  • @ChuckNorris899 Gosh, Chuck Norris899, you need

    do a better job of baiting with outright false unemplm't stats.

    Oh, and ma graymar is fine considering i was

    summerizen ma thoughtology to a Rick Perry Tejas Ranger. -)

  • @danger0usknowledge Why do you insist on talking like a 14 year old girl on her cellphone? grow up a little and I may consider continuing this debate. Yes I will admit I got the wrong facts and would like to apologize the real rate was about 8%

  • @ChuckNorris899 Debate?

    Let us review the subject of this video again,

    compulsive lying. Were you getting all compulsive

    on us or were you just being republican right wing?

    Or, considering my original comment, both?

    I'm afraid I'm going have to squint into the distance and move on.

    Happy trails to you and Pat Boone over at WND.

  • @danger0usknowledge Oh I'm sorry I made typical human error and mis-read the information, I forgot all Liberals are perfect. At least I had the balls to admit I was wrong unlike Mr. Obama who must constantly blame others for his mistakes, Oh wait he doesn't ever make mistakes! He's perfect! Oh please forgive me all knowing perfect one! Enjoy your socialist America and don't come crying back to me when all your freedoms have been stripped from you and the government controls your every move.

  • @danger0usknowledge ,unemployment is around 20% ....

  • @ChuckNorris899 Chuck Norris ?! That guy is one warped son of a bitch.I don't know who is more psychotic,Chuck Norris or Mel Gibson.

  • @East180thStreetYard Dude it's a screen name for gods sake. Grow up

  • @ChuckNorris899 Just as long as he doesn't pop out of my screen and remains in Oklahoma.

  • @East180thStreetYard Yeah pretty sure that can't happen...

  • Great video James.

    For me my ex TDP (Toxic Dysfunctional Person) use lies about bruises she received from her job at FED-X (shipping and receiving dept) and lied to her new boyfriend and family that I would physically abuse her, leaving those marks. She also was a pathological compulsive liar and would lie even if the truth would have better served her. For a pathological liar it's not about the lie but the control over the person and/or people that drives them to lie lie and lie...

  • So true ! Sounds like you interviewed my ex..... They lie to get pitty,get off on it and to mask there true personality.

  • This is exactly what i am dealing with, thank you for sharing, oh yea n im a girl.

  • The tyranny of the weak: more dangerous than the ham-fisted tyranny that comes from 'the strong.'

  • yes, i know exactly the type. I was recently on the receiving end...good advice in vid...don't be fooled by the seemingly sweat and gentle manner, trick guys!

  • All. Fucking. True.

  • women are bitches

  • You shoot straight from the hip. I was hoping you'd do a video on this topic. Thank you!

  • @christinehaigh yw. i'm glad you liked it.

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