Men....What's up with that?

[eddiespencer1]

Those thoughts you clinged to so readily; those memories of home that kept you going while you were imprisoned and tortured and daily humiliated while in captivity do not match the reality of those whom you come back to upon release. In short, the life you come back to isn't yours. It's hard to explain....

[eddiespencer1]

I guess, with respect to Mr. McCain, this is the all too common result of coming home after spending a couple years in a POW camp. Many of the people you knew are dead: many of the people you knew have moved away. Your family has changed. Their views have changed. Their politics have changed. Their appearance has changed. NOTHING IS THE SAME!!! It's NOT the home you left behind. It's not the family you left behind. Your "friends" are not the friends you left behind. Nothing's the same.

[feministsAreCorrupt]

Take consolation in knowing that although a woman's mate value drops rapidly to zero from age 35 to 40 for men age 50+, there is a long line of 50+ men that want a woman 35-40.

Men want a younger woman because women age 35 and greater are facing a transition phase when their physical leverage over men is dropping, leaving women with a need to learn a new way to interface with men other than flashing some T&A for free favors and money.

[SButler512002]

If you were able to look at this from a view that didn't involve your genitals you would be objective enough to know that there maybe many other things involved in men seeking younger partners. How about biology? It is a widely known fact that males of seek younger partners because of their physical beauty because men are hard wired to be attracted to physical vitality. While females are attracted to men who they consider to be suitible providers and protectors(Older men). Get over it.

[SButler512002]

First of all, women do the same thing that men do. Women leave men all the time inorder to find a better prospect. There is a thing called no fault divorce that most women use because they are tired of the man that they are with. Second of all you madam are ignorant in the FACTS of the world. If you took time to look up the numbers to back your statements you would find that they are completely baseless. But, you are a women and are a slave to your emotions, and therefore cant move past them....

[pyromaniaccorpse]

A lot of male celebrities do that and I'm sure there are men who aren't celebrities who do, but well nobody's perfect. And it's not seen ,but I'm sure there are women who do things similar. It isn't exactly a good thing ,but it happens and It's not going to change that's just one of those things so good night and have a pleasant tomorrow.

[jasonbear72]

@DeepestBlue08 Thats easy she is a dumb bitch.

[prschuster]

Older men think younger women are good looking. That's no secret. But you're right. It's not a good excuse to cheat on your wife.

[feministsAreCorrupt]

Women have a tough time facing the simple fact that their relationship value outside of marriage declines at age 30 and falls off a cliff at age 35. After an entire life of using sexual persuasion to their advantage, women are not prepared to make a major behavioral change when that occurs.

But take consolation that 35+ year-old women are treated by men in a manner similar to the way women treat men aged 21-29 : they are invisible.

[seanth014]

sumrhotsumnot you are extremely boring

[LayDrayMusicTV]

I BET YOU ARE A CHEATER, WOMEN CHEAT LIKE CRAZY, WOMEN ARE WORSE WHEN IT COMES TO BEING UNFAITHFUL SO GET REAL. OH AND MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES, WOMEN ARE NOT SO A MOODY UGLY WOMEN KINDA SUCKS, AND WOMEN ALWAYS GO FOR OLDER MEN, SO WHATS YOUR POINT

[Hulkmania316]

It is like, or it is like or it is like ok ok ok it is like

[dreadedcrow16]

LOL You're a really stupid little girl...

[mmdumas]

you are right. You make a commitment, you stick with that person. There is no excuse for cheating. That is so damaging to the other person. By the way, you are beautiful.

[Khemistry101]

Young lady, men naturally prefer "youth and beauty". Its all about continuing the species. Just like women prefer "alpha" males. Its easier to understand if you do not place human morality into it.

[YogaFlame24]

Men and Woman cheat! Not nice, buts thats the way it is.

[mindround]

I don't think his personal life has anything to do with us. I think you are a horrible person to even bring such a think up. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with you. Oh and men are not the only ones who prefer the younger folks so get over it. You sound so damn full of yourself.  How do you even sleep at night?

[RedDragon7777]

Females are frequently trying to trade up the scocial and economic scale. It is rare that a guy will break up a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. Gals keep wanting to get with an older guy. Compare Hugh Hefner with the average 18 year old male college freshmen. Who is sexyier to women? How many times has he been maried? Look at the sheer number of women around him and they don't care that he is with the other women in the group. These girls have obviously broken many hearts to be with Hef!

[Sernandine]

O my god, life is unfair!

Thanks for the info, I didn't know!!

In general, men are attracted to younger women. Women are attracted to older men.

And yea, this have happened to men too. Accident, and the girl left him. Though, in this case the guy would probably lose his house, car and half his money in the process

[FinalJusticeMovement]

So you say that it's rude for men to leave their current relationships for younger women -- JUST ON ACCOUNT of the fact that she's younger (WHICH IT IS, indeed), and then you also acknowledge that YOU KNOW that there's always someone better around the corner.

First of all, legal age in consideration, no one should ever engage in relationships or dissolve them according to age -- that means MEN OR WOMEN!

Women do it ALL THE TIME, mostly for OLDER men. Do you endorse that?

--FJ

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Absouluty not. In this particuler instance I happened to be referring to men that cheat or leave women. The reversal would need to be a whole other video!

[myusernameistaken23]

Are you going to post new video's? We are wondering what you were up to this past year.

[lilguy1171]

you feminists are going to be even more pissed off in the future cus in the 2020"s im goling to makew cartoon for kids thats going make young male kids treat woman like maids and other sexuall arousment

[prschuster]

Us men are usually attracted to young women because they look good to us. Sorry, but I can't help what appeals to me. And women always seem to be drawn to men who have money or social position or who act like they're always in control of every situation. What's up with that? Why does Hugh Hefner have three young blonde girl friends and what do they see in that old man? It seems like this is an ongoing theme that has played itself out in every culture throughout history.

[LifeofJimu09]

I actually just studied this in my biology class, in biology men are naturally attracted to younger women because they are a better choice for caring offspring. This however doesn't mean all men are like mcCain it just means its in our nature. Hope this helps alittle!

[sumrhotsumrnot]

I could try & see where you were coming from if you knew me, but you don't. Hypocrite means alot to me. It is a very strong word & would suggest it not be used unless you have facts of me to back it up. If someone is going to be in the spotlight then everyone has a right to speak their opinion. Look at John Edwards another prime example. I am not saying women don't do it nor would I ever say that. I was merely stating an opinion/frustation nothing more. If your so adamant make your own video!

[MJSAJAT]

thats why i try not to be like that around girlfriend i even trained myself to not even think about look at other women

[hotpants69]

These types of things don't exist unless a woman wants it to. A "jerk" can only be a jerk if a woman reacts to it and is attracted to his behavior- girls will not be effected if they are not drawn to this. The "whore" characteristics in women cause certain women to latch onto men with power in the social hierarchy regardless of the risk they put themselves in. It is one of the most basic survival tactics in our species and others.

[JuggB]

I dont know, me personally havent experience that. Maybe because I never have been married and divorce and remarry for that. I hate when people generalize all the time. You didnt even have to make this video. This is just bullshit thats gonna keep going on and it is def from both sides. So you can ask the same about women.

[805432]

It is easy to judge from the sidelines but I don't know how many men and women given the opportunity would remain straight. This is a not an abnormal human weakness, in fact I am tempted to quote that let him/her cast the first stone who has gone unscathed through such a trial.

[neothunders]

Good thinking. Sometimes beauty and brains go together.

[ShortFatBawld]

While that article was probably written by someone who didn't think kindly of McCain, there definitely is truth in it. In an interview with his ex-wife, she said:

"My marriage ended because John McCain didn't want to be 40, he wanted to be 25," Carol McCain told England's Daily Mail. "You know that happens... it just does."

[Thisnamekills]

Lesson Learned: don't get married and the problems like that won't exist.

[LoveeTayyx3]

john mccain is a senile idiot and this proves it further. the end.

[abdrewpd]

I'm not really sure how I got here, but..

We've all heard the story about McCain's first wife, and look at his second. The man is shallow..and rich.

[j12torts]

k this is just my opinion, coming from a guy, i think men are just naturally playful, even as we grow older we want a younger lady because they'r more active and playful and along with other traits of being young.

but if u ask me, im the sort of guy who would stick to one girl no matter what. i just haven't found that girl yet hehehe, but yeh this is just my insight to ur rant =P

Trust me not all men are players. I know I'm not.

[hippy4president]

I totally agree with what you have to say. The good thing is someone like yourself has nothing to worry about, you're breathtaking and I'm still searching for a woman half as beautiful as yourself.  Good day.

[joeotley]

P.S I'm planning on going on the JET scheme, after I've finished uni. How was your Japanese when you set off for Japan? Sorry if you've covered that in another video, I just stumbled across this one.

[joeotley]

I personally would never cheat on my girlfriend, it's just not even feasible in my own head. Maybe on a wider scale it's built in, you know, spreading our seed kind of thing? Always seeking a younger girlfriend with more 'assets' in order to produce a healthier child?

[chaquank]

this girl is beautiful i know i wouldnt ever cheat on a girllike this

[SilentEagle7]

You are very intellectual, I hope I meet someone like you on my future travels.

[SilentEagle7]

You are so beautiful! I love you're videos! The are very informative.

[mataka47]

To me cheating with a married man/woman is just as bad, if not worse than cheating on your own spouse...

[mikma]

First of all good to see you again. Second I see where the doggy bags went. Third YOU DON'T VOTE!!!! This is something that you must correct and correct it soon. By not taking the time to vote you are doing a great injustice to yourself. By not voting you may not lose your right to complain. But you most surely lose the right of me take you seriously With less then 120 character left I will close out..MIKMA WAS HERE

[shaolintiger1]

some are hot and some are not.....shit haha

[Quick209]

Hmm, I love these topics. When I get my video working this may be my first video reply because 500 bland characters is not enough to devulge this kind of information. I agree with LibralViewer but to be continued. I used to have blogs on men/women issues. Yeah, flaming usually burned them down but yeah, to be continued.

[akaiYaMa9]

men seek younger women because its a basic instinct, if men didn't then who knows if the human race would have survived this long. from what i know most kids with downs-syndrome have mothers over 35 when the child was made. after the age of 35 theres more complications involved with having kids.so what im getting at is that if men didn't seek younger women for the last couple million years we might all be deformed or never would have survived.

[akaiYaMa9]

As for the women taking care of men like babies, i rarely hear about that but a story i do know is, one family friend of mine.His wife stopped working for 15 years and divorced him and he had to pay her money for a couple of years because she didn't have a job for so long, she moved in with her new boyfriend and didn't want to get a job so he would have to keep paying for her.

A couple of years later, she was found dead in her bed. she had gone out drinking and threw up and drowned in her puke!

[nowellian]

Men are this and women are that, give me a break! We are all individuals and stereotypes are not reality.

Besides most divorces are initiated by women and men have no right to child custody unless they can prove the mother is unfit. Doesn't that indicate that all fathers are unfit? Why do men have to register for the draft and women do not?

We need equality under the law for both genders.

Peace.

[themarman]

By the way... I'm so glad you're posting videos again.

Cheers

[themarman]

When we say "Men cheat more than women" there won't be any argument. However the next question is "Who do men cheat with?". My point is, there are crazy business on both side of the gender divide, however sensational thing gets our attention. A couple stays committed for 10, 20 years nobody's interested. Last moment of separation everyone's all ears. I guess we set criterion (in this case men do despicable things in a relationship) and we only count the hits not the misses. Perception vs reality

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Just didn't grow up in a household that put alot of presidence on voting and I just grew up not doing it. Doesn't mean it will always be like that but for now I don't.

[D1G1T4LPH34R]

You don't vote? That is fucking retarded.

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Do you vote? If you do good for you!!

[LiberalViewer]

I think what u describe results from people basing their relationships on biological propensities rather than more advanced emotional/intellectual bonds. Biologically, men can procreate a lot w/little investment. Women can procreate less, needing more investment. Men, therefore, have a propensity to leave women who aren't young/fertile while women have propensity to leave men who aren't good "providers." Some from both sexes are superficial enough to just follow propensities

Thx 4 the video :-)

[kuunami]

not to make excuses for men but men are still sexually virile late into life where as women slow down in the libido department. So as the men get older they still want sex but can't get if from their wives who have lost their sexual appetite. That's why the men start looking for younger women.

[sumrhotsumrnot]

I was always under the impression that when women get into their 30's they become more sexual and men start to lose it a bit. Am I mistaken? If your comment is the case please shed some light with you being a man on what women can do in your thoughts. Is there anything? I'm curious.

[kuunami]

Yes, women do peak in their 30's but it goes downhill quickly from there. I really don't think that there's a whole lot women can do other than staying fit and healthy as they age by exercising and diet. Doing so will not only boost their sexual vitality as they age but also help to keep the attention of that man. Also making sure that the man they're marrying is a good loyal person who wouldn't get wrapped up in the social status aspect of having a younger more attractive women on his arm.

[dozer11]

cont.

I just think that so many people are stuck in the old ways of one person is the breadwinner, and the other slaves away at home. Or that the Disney-fied relationship isn't possible... it is possible, you just have to deal with life's challenges positively. Again something that McCain can't do since he has to ditch his traumatized wife.

I say give McCain a club and a loin-cloth. I wouldn't be surprised if he was abusive too.

[dozer11]

McCain selfishly couldn't live with the fact that his previous wife was no longer the gorgeous 5'9" beauty. What if the tables were turned, and McCain was disfigured and lost his ability to speak/ think clearly?

Douche bags like McCain set back the male gender a couple thousand years. Is this the year of the caveman?Not to sound cheesy, but I'm all for the Happily Ever After style of Disney Character relationships... i.e. Aladdin & Jasmin, Belle & the Beast. Something that McCain doesn't believe

[kunglekidd]

cont..

automatically because they hear someone is military they get an image of this upstanding, brave, heroic figure - and there ARE those men and women in the military that fit that mold but the truth is something like %70 of enlisted men are highschool dropouts, ex-criminals, and basically down and outers who have no other choice but to enlist - not really the top of the dating barrel if you ask me. anyway, there are a lot of us guys who are scum (girls too) its like playing the lottery.

[kunglekidd]

I agree with what you are saying - I mean, it is a reason that divorce is over %50 now. It is also the reason that I am not a huge proponent of marriage..at least marriage before years of sating. So many people wed after only months! I strongly feel that you should date someone for years, live with them, really get to know them before having kids and getting hitched. Also, in general reference to your story. People put a lot of weight into the mere fact that someone is in the military...

[JacobSeige]

You find what you seek. One will always find plenty of examples to fuel anger, fury disappointment, misery, and general negative outlooks. These things love company remember, and it is not just misery, that is just a way to say it and sum it all up. If you are looking for reasons to have hope and faith in people under a jaded guise you will not find it either.  Look honestly with hope and understanding and you will find others with the values you long for. Examples are genderless.

[sumrhotsumrnot]

This is true. I hope I attract the more positive than negative.

[jastheswift2]

men are genetically built to have sex all the time-younger women make this fact conducive in their role of keeping the continuity of humanity.

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Interesting. Still thinking about this one. hmmm.

[Nu3a]

of course, life is a matter of survival and reproduction. all the emotions are just a tool to achieve that goal. nature is rationalistic, life in general is math. i try to be objective about facts concerning the lifecycle, but as a fact this is inevitable, whether you like it or not.

[jrin565281]

Contd I think if you love your spouse you will "TRY" to keep yourself looking nice and attractive. I think in mccains case it was that they turned into 2 diff ppl. They were both tortured mentally and physical. one a wreck the other hanoi hilton. I dont like mccain either in fact i dont like any of them they all suck. And by not voting you should be shot...just kidding. Ppl do not realize this but the elctoral college votes and elects the pres we dont..LOL

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Thanks for your comment. I like your views.

[jrin565281]

You know i listened to ur video and as a man we do do that. For each man you will find a diff reason but stay married for awhile and ppl grow apart. It is a fact of marriage and having children. And yes some women and some men do not take care of themselves physically. Men are very visual creatures it's how we are made. Personally i see women who have had 3 and 4 kids and they look fabulous and there are others who look like slobs. Not trying to be mean or anything but its the truth.

[teenysfashion03]

glad to see ur back posting.

i had no idea about mccain, don't like the guy anyways, this just proves the point.

[sumrhotsumrnot]

Thanks!!