i wish i could get some of that stuff there are six soon to be eight little kids running around and it is hard to get them to stop throwing a tantrum once they start
It is amazing how in tune you were with your mom. You just knew she was not joking! Sometimes children are disconnected, they are in distress and don't even see that their parents want only the best for them. A nice scent of fruit can help those children to reconnect first with themselves, then with the parent.
Just a stern look was enough to work for me. there were few times but theres a look my mother would give if i acted out and it was enough to make me feel like i just got spanked or it could have been that i knew if i continued to act out a spanking was coming.
@tonigurl1998 I wish I was so young and beautiful as the mother in the video, BUT, I am the happy grand mother of this little girl, who, now, does not have fits anymore, thanks to that nice fruit smell her mom used regularly. I devote my time to helping parents discover that multi sensory therapy is the way to help children when they are in distress. thank you for the nice compliment, Claudie Gordon Pomares
Another way how to stop a tantrum:If they are throwing the tantrum over and older and mature sibling.Tell them to do what the smaller child wants.If not,open your front door,get out and shut the door.Stay out for 5-10 seconds.When you open the door they should be happy that you stayed.I hope this helped.
@MAPSClaudie my friend has a cousin whose a spoiled lil brat she likes to feel like shes better then everyone else she when she doesnt get what she wants she either tells (she does this to me cause i laugh at her when she fake cries) or fake cries though everyone already know that she is bad she is her grandma may be too forgiving towards her the girl could just say shut the hell up and the grandma will do it the lil girl also tried hitting the women's back with a water shooter shes 4 years old
@Danny8849 this is pretty terrible you are right. Her parents should certainly work at helping this little girl to take her place in the family with no violence. They are up for larger problems when she will gorw older and stronger.
@MAPSClaudie she also tried to feel my friends crouch she really did do it , also after she tried hitting her grandma with a watershooter the grandma told her dad i never expected her dad to beat her i thought only her mom would beat her. with the way people like her parents and grandma and brother threated her she thinks shes too cute to say no to and that shes so cute that she deserves special threatment she could make retarded noises and if u say shut up to her the grandma will defend her
@Danny8849 I believe you describe a child who is more than "just a pest". You make very important observation and it would be very important for this child that you could communicate with the parents to seek for proper evaluation. Children do not misbehave to be mean, there is always a hidden cause for violent behavior and your noting the "odd" noises she makes is also reason for concern. You may be able to help the family and the child
It seems too good to be true, and consequently, you are raising a concern that it can be making things worse. Let me reassure you, this video is 2 years old ant the little girl does not have fit any more. They decreased gradually, to completely disappear. If you watch the following otheryoutube about tantrum called EVE,
you will see the same child 6 month later, less intensity,more control.check too the website tantum911 with babies, thanks for the comment
I guess that would be good for a colicy baby, but she looks old enough that she should be disciplined for that, not sedated with a fruit aroma. Because I guarantee you that will just make the tantrums worse as she gets older, because she'll learn that when she throws a fit, she will get rewarded with a fruit aroma.
@GovernmentFails and isn''t that the whole purpose, allowing children to be who they are, beautiful inside and out, and all they need is a gentle help when they are in distress.
this comment is left for the public to be aware that there is a danger for children left to violent care. Our hope is that we all feel concerned and want to help them.
I think you never were in the same room of a child having a massive fit. TV, words, or raising tone does not work, something else has to come into play, such as a sudden pleasant smell which suddenly soothes the brain and appease the child, who can now enjoy time with the family.
It certainly does work for cranky babies. It is used in some maternities to help newborn settle when they are so uncomfortable in the few hours following birth, or when they have a moment of emotional discomfort. Watch the videos on the website of tantrum911 you will se a baby having a fit duing diaper change, such a common thing, calmed instantly with the fruit smell
Breath of fresh air, a real parent with true problems who knows that tantrums have no solution from books!Asperger's is the best definition of anxiety and panic, children cannot reason their fears and love is simply not enough. You can "manufacture" your own fruit scent if you can't get it from Tantrum911, email them, they will send you a recipe for free. you can start with lavender which does help, not as efficient, bit it works. a drop on their pillows at night will also build their dopamine.
Anyone who has a child with special needs that has meltdowns that cannot be controlled would benefit from this. And obviously the ones whom are complaining about it have never had to deal with one of these said meltdowns. Walk a day in my shoes! If I could get my hands on this stuff it would save my life. As I have two children with Asperger's Syndrome and my life revolves around trying to avoid meltdowns. Spanking is not necessary.
One must not overlook the damage caused to the brain by stress, which depletes serotonin, or the neurological causes for tantrums in children with low serotonin production as is the case in ASD. This same odorant, (a fruit odorant, always good to have your facts) was introduced in NICU to help infants in distress to settle in the harshest circumstances. This same odorant is also used to appease children in palliative care.Parenting happens when the child is available,not during crisis.
i don't think external chemicals should be used as such a primary fix for tantrums, especially at such an early age. even if it's physically harmless, it's not good for long-term coping strategy development. it lacks emotional approach, but physical. in my opinion, you may as well be administering sedatives. i worry for the parent who is also learning to develop strategies of parenting heart to heart with a child, rather than by physical domineerance. spanking has a clearer message than this
FDA checked out website tantrum911 and determined that this scent (fruit scent) having an intent to help is consequently a new drug which needs approval. I asked them if smelling a flower was a drug as well, they did not find it funny.This blend inside one of our protocols shortens seizures, our families are distraught. If you contact tantrum811 by email, they will give you a solution, for free. Let's be smarter than bureaucratie for the good of the children!
we are using neurobilogy principles which demonstrate that pleasurable olfactory stimulation(here a fruit smell) increases instantly the production of Dopamine (Leon,1997)Our purpose is to help the brain mend itself and be resilient against distress and serotonin depletion which is the cause for tantrums. Behaviorism will not equal in long terms benefits the implementation of neuroscience protocols.The little girl in the video gradually stopped loosing control of her emotions during stress.
Looks are deceiving: Since the scents may be acting as a short term punisher for the tantrum, the child may start to exhibit the tantrum for the reinforcer (scent). This would then increase the frequency of tantrums that the child exhibits over time. The way to decrease the tantrum is to determine what the antecedent is (triggers the behavior prior) and what is the consequence (what occurs after the tantrum). Then with-hold the consequence and possibly change the antecedent.
We so know how to work with children on the spectrum and other mental disorders that we have a Clinic where a treatment has been developed involving the sense of smell and many other non intrusive techniques. Keep hope, life is beautiful and children with special are our priority.
reading the various comments you would know it is a scent of fruit. It is a sad sad world where I have to remove angry comments, usually with swears, who believe anyone in his sane mind would give anything harmful to a child.
and this is why we need to show parents that there is efficient ways to help a child out of distress without using violence, which will never do anything but increase the anxiety of the young child.
this is a blend of fruit aromas, as simple as that. Nature made wonderful things for us to feel better and wonderful smells are part of that. You can experiment at home with a body lotion, a high quality essential oil and obtain that wonderful result which is a child at peace, happy, ready to be cuddled and explain. You can visit the website tantrum911 and see more videos of children in distress getting calm again with that scent. you can also check multisensorytherapyanswers
It is even a little better than this:the child calms for good for the day, and, as you keep using it, the child feels so much more at peace that fits disappear entirely and for good. Nature did this for us, aromas of fruit, we smell, and our brain releases a particular mediator which decreases the potential to be stressed. if you visit the site for the blend called tantrum911 you wil see more videos just as amazing
lol.. I don't know if this is right or wrong. She may seek for that smell everytime she goes through bad situations, but if it is a good smell, with no harm to mental or body health, it would be like drinking water with sugar. I don't think one can be addicted. Everybody looks for something to makes feel better, when sad.
children don't learn when they are having a fit. During the fit, they are miserable and in distress. They need help to calm down and be able to listen to parenting and love. Any other option to help children that is not soft, tender and gentle is not appropriate, it leads to adults knowing that nobody really cares, it leads to people being bitter and seeing bad when there is good. Nothing will ever replace love, gentleness and nature, such as the smell of a fruit.
Kids need to discover how to handle anger/frustration. You can't stick something under their nose for the rest of their lives.......unless you want to end up with a person who seeks immediate gratification and turns to the nearest drug at hand.
@thesoccerchick87 sorry, wrong guess. You are right to warn against behaviorists methods teaching a replacement behavior. In the case of olfactory stimulation we are working at helping the child to get out of distress using a very natural response to a pleasant odor: sensation of calm, self confidence, capacity to recover from emotional meltdown.What we have observed over the past two decades of using this odorant is to the contrary a gradual decrease to complete disappearance of fits.
Isn't it? she is smelling a blend of fruit, and it works every time. You should watch the videos on the website tantrum911, there are some other children, different ages, and they just get calme instantly, to occupied smelling, then can go on with their life of small children. thanks for like it!
@TVWriterGuy It most certainly would and we could have saved the public ear from sour language and given the famous and tantruming people a better time in their act. This wonderful scent does clam down the most irascible, whatever the age, as long as they are ready to smell the roses... :)
Yes, it seems to be from a quick distant look. And, from up close, it looks like a wonderful way to appease a distressed child, make her feel at peace again and able to connect and communicate with mom and dad. We call it love, gentle care, understanding. Good news, the little girl on this video gradually stopped tantruming, is now a happy bee who knows how to explain when she has a problem.
does this look like acting to you? do watch the other videos on the website tantrum911, other children in distress just calming down to be happy and fine.
this is a simple mix of fruit smells and really any nice smell has the same impact on children or adult. Nature has made it that way, we simply need to remember that.
it is a fruit blend with the main element being strawverry. you can see other videos almost as incredible on the site tantrum911. She is smelling from the lid of the small bottle. Parents also have it in their purses on a cotton ball in a small pill box. It is no longer sold in the US but if you ask that company, they will direct you to the blend under another name in another website. It is just great.
I love how people immidiatly think the parents are evil, and have no parenting skills at all. I mean, lets see you try to stop an angry 20 pound kiddie thats going to wreck havoc on your entire house and nieghbourhood and unleash the power of satan through it's scream of demonic chaos! Mmhm, thats what i thought...
Very interesting. Never thought of using insence as a way to keep your children from freaken out. I don't have any kids. But I will keep this in mind for future reference.
we present no opinion on anything but this wonderful fruit scent which has the capacity to help the child regroup and feel happy. Michael Leon (1997) found that smelling increases Dopamine instantly in the brain. This is a natural process which we recommend to use, not only for children, but for general anxiety. You should check the multisensory therapy website, full of ideas using nature to mend the brain. they are on dot org.thanks for being concerned for children,enjoy the day and smell fruit
@iluvdrsomuch it would most certainly work with him. We are focusing on children on the spectrum and use this odorant constantly. it not only stops the tantrum, it also gradually help the child to suffer less distress, be calmer, sleep better.
@KanyeTroll no judgement on any form of drugs on our part. We help children or adults to recover from distress using a fruit scent. No side effects, no risk
@Alyfan911 I will leave this comment so that other distraught parents can see that there are ways today, used to discipline children which are violent. Some people do get aggravated with a child in distess, some understand that this child just needs love, patience and a nice scent of fruit to recover and be happy again.
You are right that it is hard to be a parent, and some will raise their voices or punish the child physically. This is a gentle option that works. For the record, this very loud little girl gradually stopped having tantrums, as her mother used this fabulous blend (fruit) you should watch the other videos on the tantrum911 website, sometimes the fit is with a small beby who is not manipulative, parents still can help.
it is wonderful that you educate yourself about children while so young, congraulations! try it with the small ones around you and spread the good news that tantrums don't need to wreck the family of the child.
@truexromancex it is helping the child. She is so much able to enjoy life and her family when she is calm. It is just a blend of fruit aroas, very gentle and loving
@MAPSClaudie oh i see. sounds like a prety cool trick. i don't have children yet btw. haha i'm only 21. but i'm a curios person cuz i know a couple of my little cuzins threw tantrums quite frequently when they were 3 or 4
this product is entirely organic; By definition, a mixed perfume that is very gentle. We're working with a natural, built-in tool that nature gave us. The olfactory bulb and the stimulation of dopamine production and release through pleasurable stimulation of the sense of smell. Long story short: Nope, not a drug, just a very very neat and natural method. The problem with this little girl though is that she stopped having trantrums gradually through the smelling. We had to stop filming her...lol
@Shimmers12790 This is such a great question that noone asked so far. No, they do not start another tantrum. They are peaceful, calm, happy, and move on. as you will read below, it has also a long lasting effect on potential other tantrums, gradually they simply vanish. Isn't that a wonderful way to lead your child to communicate once calm and happy?
Trust our experience not only with that little girl, but with many other children or teen ager, and even adults in distress. Smelling something pleasant will keep its soothing effect. It is surprising because it is new, but new idea is not systematically bad. Know that this little girl in particular gradually decreased her fits to simply have none at all. Smelling impacts how the brain works and it does have a long effect. you should watch the videos on tantrum911 website, it is quite amazing.
@PopMellow7 It is a mix of fruit aromas and one pastry spice, it smells wonderful, you can get it on line on the website tantrum911. If you are not a US citizen that is, since the FDA has decided recently that smelling an aroma of fruit is a new non approved drug! They decided that this company having an "intent" to help, is now not allowed to ship to the USA....and I don't understand either!
Nice psychological approach to this! You are feeding her appetite ( causing positive mental effect) NIcee... i shall try that on my niece and nephew! My niece is an angel, but my nephew....... little monster.... Oh and by the way IT IS NOT A DRUG SHE'S USING YOU DIMWITS, DO YOUR RESEARCH!
@popeel2 of course they are not. It is an aroma of fruit. the sense of smell os the most powerful to help the brain settle and feel peace and contentment. We have not discovered that, but we have discovered that it could help small children in distress. Clearly, this little girl was panicked and out of control, after the smell, she is just calm and happy again, isn't it better than anything tried before. Once she is calm and settled, mom can discuss the issue which started the fit
@spreads11 sometimes parenting skills is not at fault. This little girl was helped with the tantrum911 blend of fruit till she was able to respond to typical parenting. All parents want to do the best job possible, it is not always easy or systematic, each child and each parent is different, knowing you can help with a scent is a great alternative.
@leeny30 We did in fact and the good news is that the little Eve stopped having tantrums in about a month of being offered the lovely smell every time she had a fit. There is another video of her on youtube and it is obvious that she is not as distressed. Check the other children receiving the "protocol" on the tantrum911 website, quite amazing :)
@MrPaboy69 it is a fruit blend called tantrum911. you can get it going on their website, It is wonderful, you must watch the other videos on that website, pretty amazing
@HuckeysWorld would you believe that we have been promoting this type of gentle intervention that works, for the past 12 years accross the US... Keep it in mind, you never know, you may have a need to it. it works very well for adult anxiety, don't well have some every now and then :)
@ghettoperson257 certainly, and for yourself when you are stressed out, driving, or on the phone, as it happens to all of us. It has many applications and is so easy.
oh maybe i need this when i have my aspie meldowns.not shure i will get somone to do it as i am 48 but looks to do the trick.i wonder how it works....jeff
@hvislysettaros2010 those times are unfortunately not over for many children, from the comments some viewers post. Spread the good news to your friends, it is so nice to help a child come out of tantrum without going through violence, and it works, thanks for your comment
@hvislysettaros2010 or parents who think this is the right way because this was done to them and their parents. We know so much more today about how a child develops, how the brain works and how much damage on the future adult have vioence or insults. Children are OUR future, let's get them there with peace and love.
@hvislysettaros2010 It can get better, it has to get better, because of people like you who care. One small step at a time, like our efforts to teach parents that a lovely fruit smell will help much faster and in a better way than being harsh. Please keep trying to make the world a better place for children, one small step at a time, claudie fordon pomares
@scotsmanlerxt you most certainly can. The principle is that if you smell something very pleasant your brain will suddenly change its level of emotions and you will loose the sense of distress or anger and look at the situation more clearly and with control. I recommend everyone to have this scent in their pocket shirt or in the car and smell when things feel out of ones control. better than anything you know which is also good for you.
@tia27721 we all need it! check the other videos on the website tantrum911, it is cute and amazing, finally a simple and healthy solution to a daily problem
@TheBebeaaron well order it quick! it is wonderful. It is a very nice smell of fruit and is really affordable. You can get it online going on the website tantrum911
@robotech987654321 You are very right in fact. This great feeling of pleasure, focus, motivation is produced by the increase of the brain chemical dopamine. You can get this artificially with serious side effects or, simply, but using your sense of smell with a great arome you love, here it is fruit smell. Watch the other videos on the tantum911 website, it is quite amazing, cute and bringing hope and relief to kids an parents, claudie gordon-pomares
@Annaluvsdasims2and3 I understand that it is possible to think it is too good to be true? You should wath the other videos on the website tantrum911. It is so simple to have everybody happy, just a lovely smell of fruit. The brain is so amazing and nothing will beat nature to get the best of us.
@cookie1luver there is no meds involved. Meds act immediately with massive side effects and, in reality have only visible effect, not profound effect that help the child heal from the anxiety. Smelling has an immediate effect on the brain as it targets the amygdala and limbic system, it raises dopamine which is the natural neuromediator of the brain delivering pleasure message. Using nature to reach a safe recovery from a fit or any loss of control
six is a larg number for certain! if you are in the US you cannot buy it, but you can try another fruit arome, even vanilla extract. I hope it helps
MAPSClaudie 6 months ago 2
i wish i could get some of that stuff there are six soon to be eight little kids running around and it is hard to get them to stop throwing a tantrum once they start
TheStormferret 6 months ago
It is amazing how in tune you were with your mom. You just knew she was not joking! Sometimes children are disconnected, they are in distress and don't even see that their parents want only the best for them. A nice scent of fruit can help those children to reconnect first with themselves, then with the parent.
MAPSClaudie 6 months ago 2
Just a stern look was enough to work for me. there were few times but theres a look my mother would give if i acted out and it was enough to make me feel like i just got spanked or it could have been that i knew if i continued to act out a spanking was coming.
VaMoneyCow 6 months ago 3
are you the mother in this video ? juss wondering cuz if it is you your daughter is so cute
tonigurl1998 7 months ago
@tonigurl1998 I wish I was so young and beautiful as the mother in the video, BUT, I am the happy grand mother of this little girl, who, now, does not have fits anymore, thanks to that nice fruit smell her mom used regularly. I devote my time to helping parents discover that multi sensory therapy is the way to help children when they are in distress. thank you for the nice compliment, Claudie Gordon Pomares
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
cute
anthonyz8072 7 months ago
Another way how to stop a tantrum:If they are throwing the tantrum over and older and mature sibling.Tell them to do what the smaller child wants.If not,open your front door,get out and shut the door.Stay out for 5-10 seconds.When you open the door they should be happy that you stayed.I hope this helped.
theedenpapi 7 months ago
you are very right, in fact the smell which the mother presents to the little girl is a smell of candy, and it does not ruin teeth :)
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
@MAPSClaudie my friend has a cousin whose a spoiled lil brat she likes to feel like shes better then everyone else she when she doesnt get what she wants she either tells (she does this to me cause i laugh at her when she fake cries) or fake cries though everyone already know that she is bad she is her grandma may be too forgiving towards her the girl could just say shut the hell up and the grandma will do it the lil girl also tried hitting the women's back with a water shooter shes 4 years old
Danny8849 7 months ago
@Danny8849 this is pretty terrible you are right. Her parents should certainly work at helping this little girl to take her place in the family with no violence. They are up for larger problems when she will gorw older and stronger.
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
@MAPSClaudie she also tried to feel my friends crouch she really did do it , also after she tried hitting her grandma with a watershooter the grandma told her dad i never expected her dad to beat her i thought only her mom would beat her. with the way people like her parents and grandma and brother threated her she thinks shes too cute to say no to and that shes so cute that she deserves special threatment she could make retarded noises and if u say shut up to her the grandma will defend her
Danny8849 7 months ago
@Danny8849 I believe you describe a child who is more than "just a pest". You make very important observation and it would be very important for this child that you could communicate with the parents to seek for proper evaluation. Children do not misbehave to be mean, there is always a hidden cause for violent behavior and your noting the "odd" noises she makes is also reason for concern. You may be able to help the family and the child
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago 2
It seems too good to be true, and consequently, you are raising a concern that it can be making things worse. Let me reassure you, this video is 2 years old ant the little girl does not have fit any more. They decreased gradually, to completely disappear. If you watch the following otheryoutube about tantrum called EVE,
you will see the same child 6 month later, less intensity,more control.check too the website tantum911 with babies, thanks for the comment
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
I guess that would be good for a colicy baby, but she looks old enough that she should be disciplined for that, not sedated with a fruit aroma. Because I guarantee you that will just make the tantrums worse as she gets older, because she'll learn that when she throws a fit, she will get rewarded with a fruit aroma.
Haevenn 7 months ago
I use it lot on a very regular basis. The biggest change so far is that I can actually concentrate for an hour at a time!
IntrapersonalKent 7 months ago
MAPS, I like you. :) Now if only I could convince my friends to not resort to physically harming their child. -.-; It's completely uncalled for.
TehLislis 7 months ago
shes cute when shes not crying
GovernmentFails 7 months ago 2
@GovernmentFails and isn''t that the whole purpose, allowing children to be who they are, beautiful inside and out, and all they need is a gentle help when they are in distress.
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
:)
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
It will work just as well, it is not a matter of age at all. it does work on adults too.
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago
How is that gonna work on an 8 year old?
zaxopify 7 months ago 2
I thought you were gonna smack her...
bourky93 7 months ago
great job
yumang1023 7 months ago
Another example to confirm that children need protection and care. This is so frightening that it does not even seem possible!
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
When my kid had a tantrum I threw him into the back yard(fenced in of course) and didnt feed it for a week. Only happened once.
badCowfish 8 months ago
this comment is left for the public to be aware that there is a danger for children left to violent care. Our hope is that we all feel concerned and want to help them.
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
Why can't they just sedate her??
ShuttleDiscovery 8 months ago
i know a better way where is my boots so i can trow it at u?
Gtbomb1 8 months ago
And you are very right in doing so! It is a boost for memory and helps relieve the anxiety of adults
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
Screw tantrums. I'm getting this stuff for Finals.
chelseafcrox 8 months ago
back in my day it was called a BELT!!
romeyromel 8 months ago
Is that crack? Yeah, that's crack...
DrArsenicum 8 months ago 2
I think you never were in the same room of a child having a massive fit. TV, words, or raising tone does not work, something else has to come into play, such as a sudden pleasant smell which suddenly soothes the brain and appease the child, who can now enjoy time with the family.
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
I think the kid was really just distracted by the tv in the background haha
fatWOMENsuckTWINKIES 8 months ago
It certainly does work for cranky babies. It is used in some maternities to help newborn settle when they are so uncomfortable in the few hours following birth, or when they have a moment of emotional discomfort. Watch the videos on the website of tantrum911 you will se a baby having a fit duing diaper change, such a common thing, calmed instantly with the fruit smell
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
does this work for cranky babies?
boymagnet17 8 months ago
I know a better way. A good old fashioned Spanking.
RiceKiller191 8 months ago 83
:) good question, the video speaks for itself doesn't it
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
What is it with these people n long ass paragraphs!!
evanismybro 8 months ago
Breath of fresh air, a real parent with true problems who knows that tantrums have no solution from books!Asperger's is the best definition of anxiety and panic, children cannot reason their fears and love is simply not enough. You can "manufacture" your own fruit scent if you can't get it from Tantrum911, email them, they will send you a recipe for free. you can start with lavender which does help, not as efficient, bit it works. a drop on their pillows at night will also build their dopamine.
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
Anyone who has a child with special needs that has meltdowns that cannot be controlled would benefit from this. And obviously the ones whom are complaining about it have never had to deal with one of these said meltdowns. Walk a day in my shoes! If I could get my hands on this stuff it would save my life. As I have two children with Asperger's Syndrome and my life revolves around trying to avoid meltdowns. Spanking is not necessary.
westcoastmom76 8 months ago
One must not overlook the damage caused to the brain by stress, which depletes serotonin, or the neurological causes for tantrums in children with low serotonin production as is the case in ASD. This same odorant, (a fruit odorant, always good to have your facts) was introduced in NICU to help infants in distress to settle in the harshest circumstances. This same odorant is also used to appease children in palliative care.Parenting happens when the child is available,not during crisis.
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
i don't think external chemicals should be used as such a primary fix for tantrums, especially at such an early age. even if it's physically harmless, it's not good for long-term coping strategy development. it lacks emotional approach, but physical. in my opinion, you may as well be administering sedatives. i worry for the parent who is also learning to develop strategies of parenting heart to heart with a child, rather than by physical domineerance. spanking has a clearer message than this
1radstallion 8 months ago
FDA checked out website tantrum911 and determined that this scent (fruit scent) having an intent to help is consequently a new drug which needs approval. I asked them if smelling a flower was a drug as well, they did not find it funny.This blend inside one of our protocols shortens seizures, our families are distraught. If you contact tantrum811 by email, they will give you a solution, for free. Let's be smarter than bureaucratie for the good of the children!
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
it will certainly work as we use it in our programs for children on the spectrum with great success
MAPSClaudie 8 months ago
loolololloloololoololoololol the kids crying lolloolololoolol
30enchantres 9 months ago
we are using neurobilogy principles which demonstrate that pleasurable olfactory stimulation(here a fruit smell) increases instantly the production of Dopamine (Leon,1997)Our purpose is to help the brain mend itself and be resilient against distress and serotonin depletion which is the cause for tantrums. Behaviorism will not equal in long terms benefits the implementation of neuroscience protocols.The little girl in the video gradually stopped loosing control of her emotions during stress.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
Looks are deceiving: Since the scents may be acting as a short term punisher for the tantrum, the child may start to exhibit the tantrum for the reinforcer (scent). This would then increase the frequency of tantrums that the child exhibits over time. The way to decrease the tantrum is to determine what the antecedent is (triggers the behavior prior) and what is the consequence (what occurs after the tantrum). Then with-hold the consequence and possibly change the antecedent.
mpotak 9 months ago 2
@mpotak Or just make the scent into a lotion and rub the child down with it everyday...
TheCatsLastWord 9 months ago
We so know how to work with children on the spectrum and other mental disorders that we have a Clinic where a treatment has been developed involving the sense of smell and many other non intrusive techniques. Keep hope, life is beautiful and children with special are our priority.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
reading the various comments you would know it is a scent of fruit. It is a sad sad world where I have to remove angry comments, usually with swears, who believe anyone in his sane mind would give anything harmful to a child.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
OMG DRUGS!!!
TheTouBiaz 9 months ago
and this is why we need to show parents that there is efficient ways to help a child out of distress without using violence, which will never do anything but increase the anxiety of the young child.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
A good slap works wonders for me
kerbal666 9 months ago
this is a "cure" which is still around, unfortunately for the children. We have to show that there is another way.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
my mom had a tantrum cure too. it was called the pimp hand.
esf1994 9 months ago
this is a blend of fruit aromas, as simple as that. Nature made wonderful things for us to feel better and wonderful smells are part of that. You can experiment at home with a body lotion, a high quality essential oil and obtain that wonderful result which is a child at peace, happy, ready to be cuddled and explain. You can visit the website tantrum911 and see more videos of children in distress getting calm again with that scent. you can also check multisensorytherapyanswers
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
Is this a joke or for real?
gracefulbeauty1985 9 months ago
@gracefulbeauty1985 it is abbsolutely for real, you can see more children recovering from distress on the website tantrum911, it is just grea
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
It is even a little better than this:the child calms for good for the day, and, as you keep using it, the child feels so much more at peace that fits disappear entirely and for good. Nature did this for us, aromas of fruit, we smell, and our brain releases a particular mediator which decreases the potential to be stressed. if you visit the site for the blend called tantrum911 you wil see more videos just as amazing
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
So basicly. its like perfume? o-o and it kinda distracts the child, and calms them for a few moments so you can talk to them?
....i should try that...It sounds SO simple.
demolitionchild94 9 months ago
thanks for understand that the purpose is to help the child, and nothing else
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
lol.. I don't know if this is right or wrong. She may seek for that smell everytime she goes through bad situations, but if it is a good smell, with no harm to mental or body health, it would be like drinking water with sugar. I don't think one can be addicted. Everybody looks for something to makes feel better, when sad.
Patrickovisk 9 months ago
as an adult, i would get great use out of this product.
jandroelfenomeno 9 months ago
children don't learn when they are having a fit. During the fit, they are miserable and in distress. They need help to calm down and be able to listen to parenting and love. Any other option to help children that is not soft, tender and gentle is not appropriate, it leads to adults knowing that nobody really cares, it leads to people being bitter and seeing bad when there is good. Nothing will ever replace love, gentleness and nature, such as the smell of a fruit.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago 39
Kids need to discover how to handle anger/frustration. You can't stick something under their nose for the rest of their lives.......unless you want to end up with a person who seeks immediate gratification and turns to the nearest drug at hand.
queensword 9 months ago 2
thats crazy!!!
Rivermaee 9 months ago
let me guess though, after you use this produce they will stop tantrumming at that moment, but the frequency of thier tantrumming increases over all.
thats because the good smell becomes like a treat and you are stupidly reinforicng tantrumming hahaha wow some people jsut dont get it!
thesoccerchick87 9 months ago
@thesoccerchick87 sorry, wrong guess. You are right to warn against behaviorists methods teaching a replacement behavior. In the case of olfactory stimulation we are working at helping the child to get out of distress using a very natural response to a pleasant odor: sensation of calm, self confidence, capacity to recover from emotional meltdown.What we have observed over the past two decades of using this odorant is to the contrary a gradual decrease to complete disappearance of fits.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
Unrelated question, but do I hear Beauty and the Beast in the background?
I wonder if that stuff works on teenagers. My sisters can be awful.
meg21788 10 months ago
WAT IS THAT AMZING STUFF
hartsoar 10 months ago
This is amazing!! My 3 yr old will have tantrums lasting 3 hours sometimes!! I will have to try it!!
fairfaced 10 months ago
Isn't it? she is smelling a blend of fruit, and it works every time. You should watch the videos on the website tantrum911, there are some other children, different ages, and they just get calme instantly, to occupied smelling, then can go on with their life of small children. thanks for like it!
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
Haha, that was so cute!
trueopaque 10 months ago
it is not a little cup, it is the tip of the little vile containing the wonderful fruit blend which instantly helps the child calm down.
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
What is in that little cup?
superlurf 10 months ago
@superlurf it is the tip of the little vile containing the odorant. convenient and easy to use, and it smells wonderfully fruity.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
what kind of witchcraft....?
MadamDirtBag 10 months ago
Would this work on Christian Bale or John McEnroe?
TVWriterGuy 10 months ago 2
@TVWriterGuy It most certainly would and we could have saved the public ear from sour language and given the famous and tantruming people a better time in their act. This wonderful scent does clam down the most irascible, whatever the age, as long as they are ready to smell the roses... :)
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
@MAPSClaudie I'm sold! Let's use it to stop these wars around the globe! You may have the answer to world peace right there in a bottle!
TVWriterGuy 10 months ago
Yes, it seems to be from a quick distant look. And, from up close, it looks like a wonderful way to appease a distressed child, make her feel at peace again and able to connect and communicate with mom and dad. We call it love, gentle care, understanding. Good news, the little girl on this video gradually stopped tantruming, is now a happy bee who knows how to explain when she has a problem.
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
I THINK HER MOM IS HAPPY..SHE HAS ANOTHER BABY..
katiamagalhaes1 10 months ago
does this look like acting to you? do watch the other videos on the website tantrum911, other children in distress just calming down to be happy and fine.
this is a simple mix of fruit smells and really any nice smell has the same impact on children or adult. Nature has made it that way, we simply need to remember that.
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
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bamify66 10 months ago
@bamify66 :) :) :) :) :)
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
@MAPSClaudie 1) what is that stuff? 2) this is just impossible, that kid is just acting like she was angry... 3) uhh....
bamify66 10 months ago
it is a fruit blend with the main element being strawverry. you can see other videos almost as incredible on the site tantrum911. She is smelling from the lid of the small bottle. Parents also have it in their purses on a cotton ball in a small pill box. It is no longer sold in the US but if you ask that company, they will direct you to the blend under another name in another website. It is just great.
MAPSClaudie 10 months ago
what was she smelling
TheCheater9000 10 months ago
wat was that thing she was smelling
TheCheater9000 10 months ago
Holy crap thats amazing!
I love how people immidiatly think the parents are evil, and have no parenting skills at all. I mean, lets see you try to stop an angry 20 pound kiddie thats going to wreck havoc on your entire house and nieghbourhood and unleash the power of satan through it's scream of demonic chaos! Mmhm, thats what i thought...
ToxicPolishBoy 11 months ago
lol.....
Ejay845 11 months ago
lol
Ejay845 11 months ago
Shes just adorable.
LotsOfSpaghettiBoy 11 months ago
She is so cute!
LotsOfSpaghettiBoy 11 months ago
Very interesting. Never thought of using insence as a way to keep your children from freaken out. I don't have any kids. But I will keep this in mind for future reference.
MrSaturdayNightSpecL 11 months ago
For a sec i thought the kid would pass out randomly from that stuff
H4LOR34CH117 11 months ago
we present no opinion on anything but this wonderful fruit scent which has the capacity to help the child regroup and feel happy. Michael Leon (1997) found that smelling increases Dopamine instantly in the brain. This is a natural process which we recommend to use, not only for children, but for general anxiety. You should check the multisensory therapy website, full of ideas using nature to mend the brain. they are on dot org.thanks for being concerned for children,enjoy the day and smell fruit
MAPSClaudie 11 months ago
@MAPSClaudie
Awesome! Would it work on my Autistic son? He has "Pervasive developmental disorder".
iluvdrsomuch 11 months ago
@iluvdrsomuch it would most certainly work with him. We are focusing on children on the spectrum and use this odorant constantly. it not only stops the tantrum, it also gradually help the child to suffer less distress, be calmer, sleep better.
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
so you're saying that marijuana is bad, but it's perfectly okay to give drugs to kids?
KanyeTroll 11 months ago 3
@KanyeTroll no judgement on any form of drugs on our part. We help children or adults to recover from distress using a fruit scent. No side effects, no risk
MAPSClaudie 9 months ago
OMG dont use that stuff!!!! i damages kids brain cells honestly i did a research on it because i wanted 1 for my lil sister
omgitzbre77 11 months ago
woah! i gotta try that on my nephew he just crys and crys till he gets what he wants, even if it is to not go to the bathroom lol.
violinbeauty1 11 months ago
Stop a tanturm WITH A FIST!
Alyfan911 1 year ago
@Alyfan911 I will leave this comment so that other distraught parents can see that there are ways today, used to discipline children which are violent. Some people do get aggravated with a child in distess, some understand that this child just needs love, patience and a nice scent of fruit to recover and be happy again.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago 3
so, how do you deal with a tantrum yourself?
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
it works on any age, road rage, seniors, anyone who just has a fit and can reason it out, do try it :)
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
You are right that it is hard to be a parent, and some will raise their voices or punish the child physically. This is a gentle option that works. For the record, this very loud little girl gradually stopped having tantrums, as her mother used this fabulous blend (fruit) you should watch the other videos on the tantrum911 website, sometimes the fit is with a small beby who is not manipulative, parents still can help.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
Is this non just a short term solution as the tantrum is cause by the parent over-compensating and not discipling correctly?
protonbart 1 year ago 5
WOW!!!!!!!!!
kilmajuicebox 1 year ago
Video Statistics:
Female 45-54 okay
Female 35-44 okay
Male 45-54 WHAT THE
Nombombs 1 year ago
I was expecting a punch in the throat, but this works too.
grimmorrigan 1 year ago
it is wonderful that you educate yourself about children while so young, congraulations! try it with the small ones around you and spread the good news that tantrums don't need to wreck the family of the child.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
@MAPSClaudie so where do you buy this item, if one simply wants to get high
ice1515151 1 year ago
A quicker way is just to bust her damn ass
venomousangel70 1 year ago
useful. but in a way it seems sort of mean. isn't that like drugging the kid
truexromancex 1 year ago 2
@truexromancex it is helping the child. She is so much able to enjoy life and her family when she is calm. It is just a blend of fruit aroas, very gentle and loving
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
@MAPSClaudie oh i see. sounds like a prety cool trick. i don't have children yet btw. haha i'm only 21. but i'm a curios person cuz i know a couple of my little cuzins threw tantrums quite frequently when they were 3 or 4
truexromancex 1 year ago
this product is entirely organic; By definition, a mixed perfume that is very gentle. We're working with a natural, built-in tool that nature gave us. The olfactory bulb and the stimulation of dopamine production and release through pleasurable stimulation of the sense of smell. Long story short: Nope, not a drug, just a very very neat and natural method. The problem with this little girl though is that she stopped having trantrums gradually through the smelling. We had to stop filming her...lol
IntrapersonalKent 10 months ago
Clearly this is some sort of sorcery. I can't even fathom how quick that was! How? What is the stuff made of? Faerie dust and kittens?
AncientArchive 1 year ago 3
Respond to this video...isn't it wonderful. It is only a blend of fruit, nature and love work
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
:)
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
Rebooting human brain...
ERROR: Girl profile data lost, switching over to Boy...
"Hi Mom I want to go play football!"
YoutuJ3eJ3lows 1 year ago 3
AMAZING!!! What is this and where do I buy it at?
smoke10108 1 year ago
what if you pull it away - do they start a new tantrum about wanting that?
Shimmers12790 1 year ago
@Shimmers12790 This is such a great question that noone asked so far. No, they do not start another tantrum. They are peaceful, calm, happy, and move on. as you will read below, it has also a long lasting effect on potential other tantrums, gradually they simply vanish. Isn't that a wonderful way to lead your child to communicate once calm and happy?
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
Trust our experience not only with that little girl, but with many other children or teen ager, and even adults in distress. Smelling something pleasant will keep its soothing effect. It is surprising because it is new, but new idea is not systematically bad. Know that this little girl in particular gradually decreased her fits to simply have none at all. Smelling impacts how the brain works and it does have a long effect. you should watch the videos on tantrum911 website, it is quite amazing.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
ill have what she had
cayos134 1 year ago
wow!!!
mrsmichaeljackson13 1 year ago
what's the smell?
PopMellow7 1 year ago
@PopMellow7 It is a mix of fruit aromas and one pastry spice, it smells wonderful, you can get it on line on the website tantrum911. If you are not a US citizen that is, since the FDA has decided recently that smelling an aroma of fruit is a new non approved drug! They decided that this company having an "intent" to help, is now not allowed to ship to the USA....and I don't understand either!
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
I found this as a related video to a Ronaldo dive!:D
cenachamp77 1 year ago
Nice psychological approach to this! You are feeding her appetite ( causing positive mental effect) NIcee... i shall try that on my niece and nephew! My niece is an angel, but my nephew....... little monster.... Oh and by the way IT IS NOT A DRUG SHE'S USING YOU DIMWITS, DO YOUR RESEARCH!
DeviousBarbiedoll89 1 year ago
those are drugs
popeel2 1 year ago
@popeel2 of course they are not. It is an aroma of fruit. the sense of smell os the most powerful to help the brain settle and feel peace and contentment. We have not discovered that, but we have discovered that it could help small children in distress. Clearly, this little girl was panicked and out of control, after the smell, she is just calm and happy again, isn't it better than anything tried before. Once she is calm and settled, mom can discuss the issue which started the fit
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
while your little capsule may help end the behavior, try teaching them not to behave like a friggin BRAT in the first place.
spreads11 1 year ago 20
@spreads11 sometimes parenting skills is not at fault. This little girl was helped with the tantrum911 blend of fruit till she was able to respond to typical parenting. All parents want to do the best job possible, it is not always easy or systematic, each child and each parent is different, knowing you can help with a scent is a great alternative.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago 13
@leeny30 We did in fact and the good news is that the little Eve stopped having tantrums in about a month of being offered the lovely smell every time she had a fit. There is another video of her on youtube and it is obvious that she is not as distressed. Check the other children receiving the "protocol" on the tantrum911 website, quite amazing :)
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
does this stuff only work a couple times?
TheChampiYon 1 year ago
how tha hell... wow affective,i like it
xXDarkArbiterXx 1 year ago
@MrPaboy69 it is a fruit blend called tantrum911. you can get it going on their website, It is wonderful, you must watch the other videos on that website, pretty amazing
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
where were u 5 years ago lol
HuckeysWorld 1 year ago 4
@HuckeysWorld would you believe that we have been promoting this type of gentle intervention that works, for the past 12 years accross the US... Keep it in mind, you never know, you may have a need to it. it works very well for adult anxiety, don't well have some every now and then :)
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
lip balm? seriously?
ghettoperson257 1 year ago
@ghettoperson257 no, in fact, it is an aroma called tantrum911 which is a blend of fruit. Watch the other videos on their website, they are amazing
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
@ghettoperson257 certainly, and for yourself when you are stressed out, driving, or on the phone, as it happens to all of us. It has many applications and is so easy.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
my son is autistic and i just wanted to know what she was smelling because that would really help us out alot please respond back asap.
tabbywilson1 1 year ago
oh maybe i need this when i have my aspie meldowns.not shure i will get somone to do it as i am 48 but looks to do the trick.i wonder how it works....jeff
petchharrison 1 year ago
I wish these things existed when I was little. My entire generation (X) was whipped and beaten black and blue when we were bad. :(
hvislysettaros2010 1 year ago 2
@hvislysettaros2010 those times are unfortunately not over for many children, from the comments some viewers post. Spread the good news to your friends, it is so nice to help a child come out of tantrum without going through violence, and it works, thanks for your comment
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
@hvislysettaros2010 or parents who think this is the right way because this was done to them and their parents. We know so much more today about how a child develops, how the brain works and how much damage on the future adult have vioence or insults. Children are OUR future, let's get them there with peace and love.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago 3
@hvislysettaros2010 It can get better, it has to get better, because of people like you who care. One small step at a time, like our efforts to teach parents that a lovely fruit smell will help much faster and in a better way than being harsh. Please keep trying to make the world a better place for children, one small step at a time, claudie fordon pomares
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
lol this stuff realy works^^
derfamilyguy 1 year ago
Can I use it on myself?
scotsmanlerxt 1 year ago 2
@scotsmanlerxt you most certainly can. The principle is that if you smell something very pleasant your brain will suddenly change its level of emotions and you will loose the sense of distress or anger and look at the situation more clearly and with control. I recommend everyone to have this scent in their pocket shirt or in the car and smell when things feel out of ones control. better than anything you know which is also good for you.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
What is that???? omg i need some
tia27721 1 year ago
@tia27721 we all need it! check the other videos on the website tantrum911, it is cute and amazing, finally a simple and healthy solution to a daily problem
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
Whoa. o.o
EraxOfxEverto 1 year ago
wow !!! i never saw that, shit i have 3 month old now and soon i will have to go trough tantrums again lol.
TheBebeaaron 1 year ago
@TheBebeaaron well order it quick! it is wonderful. It is a very nice smell of fruit and is really affordable. You can get it online going on the website tantrum911
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
its the wiggles in a toothpaste cap
rejectofsoul24 1 year ago
Do you remember "Brave New World" (Aldous Huxley) ? It's like soma : "A gramme is better than a damn."
messager3000 1 year ago
That's incredible! WHAT IS THAT?!
thefoxandthelynx 1 year ago
@thefoxandthelynx it is wonderful isn't it. It is a fruit blend arome called tantrum911. You can get it by going on their website tantrum911
you will also see other fantastic videos of children in distress and miserable calming down just the same way. enjoy
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
the kid is getting HIGH! lol
robotech987654321 1 year ago 5
@robotech987654321 You are very right in fact. This great feeling of pleasure, focus, motivation is produced by the increase of the brain chemical dopamine. You can get this artificially with serious side effects or, simply, but using your sense of smell with a great arome you love, here it is fruit smell. Watch the other videos on the tantum911 website, it is quite amazing, cute and bringing hope and relief to kids an parents, claudie gordon-pomares
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
That's amazing!
Vicymorgan 1 year ago
lol at first i thought u were giving ur kids somethin like drugs to sniff.. lol... i always read the description last... that really works wow!
Annaluvsdasims2and3 1 year ago 32
@Annaluvsdasims2and3 I understand that it is possible to think it is too good to be true? You should wath the other videos on the website tantrum911. It is so simple to have everybody happy, just a lovely smell of fruit. The brain is so amazing and nothing will beat nature to get the best of us.
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
AMAZING!!!!
derudo1000 1 year ago
did u give ur kid meds?
cookie1luver 1 year ago
@cookie1luver there is no meds involved. Meds act immediately with massive side effects and, in reality have only visible effect, not profound effect that help the child heal from the anxiety. Smelling has an immediate effect on the brain as it targets the amygdala and limbic system, it raises dopamine which is the natural neuromediator of the brain delivering pleasure message. Using nature to reach a safe recovery from a fit or any loss of control
MAPSClaudie 1 year ago
WOW ! Way too good to be true ! xD
rymann2k10 1 year ago
wow where can i buy that tantrum 911?
theyellowbelle 1 year ago