Trying to Conceive Baby (TTC After Loss) Video #3

[freeman8128]

The men & women of my (white European) family - never had to 'try' for a baby - we just do what comes naturally to loving couples & making a baby is the easiest thing on earth.

Trying NOT to make a baby has always been our greater challenge.

[horseynet]

I think your very brave for talking about your feelings so openly. I miscarried in feburary, I was only about 8 weeks but it made me and my boyfriend split up and tbh I haven't really talked about it to anybody. I still think about it. Hope everything works out for you x

[rooted123]

how did u work out when u were ovulating??

[gongoli75]

Congrats on your new pregnancy, been following you on Tweeter, You deserve your Baby!! looking forward to your youtube update!! Happy pregnancy!!!!

[kim2webber]

First off I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I went through the same thing.

I miscarried at 21 weeks and it was a boy,

it was so hard that I had gotten severely depressed. But, in months time I had accepted it me and my boyfriend had gotten pregnant again and I'm now 18wks & 5 days pregnant and everything is going very good. I had a cerclage done due to a incompetent cervix. So, anyway I'll keep you in my prayers. Take care.

[TheMakingOfBaby]

Hi...I havent lost a pregnancy so i cant related to your lose. I still watched your videos and had a hard time trying not to cry at the pain i know you must have been feeling. I am TTC my second child..and we are now tracking when i can get pregnant. My last pregnancy just happened and it was do to it.. the fact that we werent trying..i swear thats the way to go. lol. It always seems to be the quickest way to get pregnant! laugh have fun and the best, just have good sex..And babies will happen!

[braggins570]

i had a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks, that was 4 months ago and im still hurting emotionally. me and my partner are trying again. just to let u no ur videos are a great help. and i wish u all the best!!! x

[glorifying00]

so glad your doing this.. i am trying to do videos but only have 1 at this point after my DR on WED i will try to update, but its so great to see someone understand and relate

[israelkate]

Well im praying for you that youll be blessed with a baby very soon x I too recently suffered a miscarriage at 8 weeks gestation. This was three months ago....it still hurts. We have been trying since then but nothing since.

Just wanted to let you know that youre not alone.

Also wanted to say how much you look like Brooke Fraser- you even sound like her! You have a very calming and soothing voice- do you sing??

[Moggie1986]

Hi,

I think that you are very courageous putting your feelings out there! My partner and I are waiting like you and your husband did until we are a little more financially stable before trying to have a baby , but we also anxious as I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and realise that what you are going through may one day be very real for us! It is great to hear that you and your husband are doing well. All the best TTC and hope to hear from you soon.

[mrsmills24]

Hi Racheous, I am new to youtube and your videos are the first i have watched.. My hubby and i are also trying to conceive, have been for the last few months - without any luck.. But i know its still early days.

I hope everything works out for you and look forward to hearing your updates..

[theyoungmarrieds]

Hello!

I have been a fan since well forever! I read your blog and watch your videos on here. I was also trying but now I am not really either. It got so stressful then I thought I would like travel and enjoy more couple time before we have a kiddie!! I am sure we will start trying again early next year. I wish you luck with everything! I hope it happens for you soon! you so deserve it after all you have been through. Keep well! I will be watching and reading!

[xxxjoelpolexxx]

Well it was nice to see how your doing and where you are with in your TTC journey.

[AandA8104]

I understand what ya mean by not really trying. We've preety much reach a lul to where we're not activly trying either. It will happen in due time. Baby dust to you.

[candi2082]

I do agree with you sometimes you have to let things happen on its own, because it can be a lot of stress when you are trying to have a baby.Take care of your self talk later.

[lovebirdmaria1989]

im so happy to hear from you i love your videos it tuches my hart everytime i have ttc for a while and ive been on the same boat as you but dont give up things will turn out for the best

[Racheous]

I'm so glad I can help in some way. You're very right, it will happen one day and it will be so worth the wait. Take care

[BelaLindaBela]

That's exactly the same thing that happened to us...I had 2 miscarriages, but we continued to try, but I got tired...the day I decided not to try anymore...I got pregnant. Good Luck to you.

[Racheous]

Such an inspirational story. Thank you for sharing. Much love your way.

[burbujajg]

We stopped trying and that's when it happened for us. I wish you the best of luck!

[Racheous]

Thank you <3

[dueaug132007]

Your looking really well... I hope your doing ok with Olivers due date coming up- i cant imagine how painful it must be... I know what it was like to have a very sick baby though- ive got many vids up of him on here if your ever interested.

Im looking forward to the day i log on to see you have had a positive pregnancy test!!!

[Racheous]

Thank you. I'm doing quite well, I'm just emotional. I'll update soon with more info. Thank you, so am I :)

[JoyeuseSteuer]

Thanks for the update, I had actually been thinking of you and hoping you were doing well. I'm glad to see your update! We had been trying, but the month I got pregnant I hadn't been tracking things as much and we hadn't been timing anything and it turned out I ovulted sooner and I thought I totally missed that month, but got pregnant and we just found out it's twins. So you never know.

[Racheous]

Thank you hun. I got my period today so onto cycle 7 of not-not-trying :)

[lumdeedums]

Well if u get bored I have some vids but ther're all mob vids and a bit crap! lol

Best of luck.

When I work out how to use my camcorder I'll be doing TTC surrogacy vlogs.

[Racheous]

Wow, TTC surrogacy?

[lumdeedums]

Yep, just tred for the third time, so hopefully 3rd time lucky!

Just feel I can have children and other can't but desp want them so I may as well help if I can. I know how much my kids mean to me so I can give that joy to someone else. Only about 10 months out of my life to fill all of theirs with joy. Well sometimes you want to scream (my 3 yr old is having a hissy fit as I write, and picking on my 2 yr old!) but most of the time it pretty good! lol

[Racheous]

What a beautiful, selfless thing you are do. What an inspirational person. Amazing! Much love your way. It takes someone truly special to appreciate human life and parenting in such a unique and giving way.

[lumdeedums]

Well fingers crossed. I'll know by the 30th if it worked but prob if it has I'll know sooner than that! I will do mob vids and upload them as soon as I figure out how to do it with my new phone! lol, so could be a while...

[babymac004]

I think that's a very brave (and wise decision), I'm sure that taking a step back is a good thing.. so you can relax and focus on yourself and enjoy life. I real wish you guys all the best, whatever happens. xxx

[Racheous]

Thank you! I think it's helpful as well.

[juicedabouthair]

my hubby and i call that "not not trying". : )

[Racheous]

Heheh, cute.

[MrsGuzman2u]

Taking the laid back route is what I am doing to I almost don't want to even think about it after this last month...I was totally sure I was preg. and sup. started so I am following you haha...just want it off my mind for a minute...i think about it way too much! Good Luck to you and baby dust : )

[Racheous]

Oh I've been there. It can become all consuming and it can get upsetting. I hope you're doing alright.

[kimberleymh]

We are all here for you and you know it happends when you least expect it so maybe this is your month, baby dust. Fingers crossed that you get a BFP.

[Racheous]

Thank you hun. Well I hope it's soon and I'll keep updating xx

[BettyLorain]

Can I just say how peaceful you seem in this video. You had a calming effect on me, thanks. :) Thoughts are with you and your husband during this month...life doesn't slow down no matter what we're walking through. Updates on ttc or not, it's always nice to know that you are well or even if you are feeling a little blue- this community has been so supportive to us all. Only at your request b/c I feel foolish "promoting" myself, feel free to watch any of my vlogs or even subscribe :) Be well.

[Racheous]

Oh I'm glad I could help calm you :) I feel very good within myself at the moment. I will continue updating and probably do one or two videos on how I coped with a loss and what it is like reaching my due date now. Much love your way. I'll check out your channel ;)

[JenNTim509]

I love your accent!! :o)

[Racheous]

Thank you.. I didn't know I had one :P

[kosovitacielo]

like last comment from emosareghey said they are very helpful. my sister suffer from the same lost like you but she didn't wait to miscarry like you doctors did the other thing which they clean everthing from inside. she is suffering from postpartum and she doesn't know what to do. he husband doesn't know what to do cause he is the one suffering. she is in mexico and we are in USA. update soon

[Racheous]

It is so tough after a miscarriage. I didn't work or go out in public alot for around 3-4 months after losing Oliver. I'll do a video on what I did that helped me move forward soon (on Ollie's due date). Thank you for your comment and much love to you and your sister.

[emosareghey]

thank you so much for posting these videos, they're so helpful. :)

[Racheous]

Wow, thank you. I will post a video in a week about my due date and some of the emotions surrounding that.