Don't listen to missjulie about dating outside of your race. There is at least one person for everyone. But do lose weight. The way I see it, if your DESPERATE enough to get dates, you'll lose weight. Trust me...YOU WILL GET MORE DATES if you get in shape (does not have to be buff, just not overweight). Or become a millionaire.
You need to loose weight and get more athletic, You also need to take this video down and stop begging. There's nothing wrong with you or wrong with the girls for being there. Stop picking "super models" when you are not one. Consider dating out of your race.
ya bro on looks I am a 7...maybe a 6 and I got 2 hot dates and one wanted a sugar daddy and the other stood me up and won't see me now because she thinks I'm still pissed. Everything else on that website has been shit. I'm not picky I just want a 6 or higher. My bud is a 9 and he has gotten a few hot skanks. Women value power in all forms over someone who is nice although after the initial romp they want to be treated nicely.
Man this video is rough bro, but check this out. I'm a personal trainer and I have a profile on pof. I've been on there for about 2 months and I really can go out on dates every night of the week if I wanted. Females like a man who is confident 1st. Then someone who keeps theirself in shape. Its not really a secret, yes some girls on there are unrealistic. Like, Im black, I've even got messages of girls saying that Im sexy but they dont date black guys.
I've only met creepy old men with no personalities on plenty of fish. Honesty, if you're not a creep and you were closer to my age, I'd totally give you a chance.
You're fucken pathetic. "I'm a nice guy" rofl dude you gotta be kidding me you make me sick. Did you get brought up by fairies with fucken pink blouses? I was raised by wolves got deng and I turned out fine. Go hit the gym got dam it. Do you even lift? "I don't understand" It's because you really don't but thanks for pointing out the obvious. Look at Orlando Bloom and then look at yourself then you'll "understand"
Well, most people won't like to pay money just to use a dating site, and sadly, most sites aren't really 100% free, that's why i like babefishing dating community, you pay nothing in babefishing. com
I went on 2 dates from POF, they were awkward, weird, and just soooo not a good situation. I'd look for girls in real life, blind dates are a huge gamble.
- and for a few tips. Think about what you are conveying about yourself by how you dress, your hair, and your attitude. You need to level up in all of these areas if you want women to view you as a catch. Also don't worry about everything you can't change. Focus on the stuff you can ( you, your body and your attitude) and it really is possible to do
@BravoPUA True that. Bravo has an awesome program. Check out his speech on online game at the 21 convention. May help you out, hell, its cool he is reaching out to you. I highly recommend you check out his website.
@AttractionAnomaly someone posted this vid on my wall this morning, but the vid is 2 years old....maybe it helps him, maybe someone else reads this and gets some help= then I'd be happy :D (and thanks for the kind words)
I use to feel like you man. After I got divorced I was crushed. Then I read the book THE GAME, got into the PUA world, and took control of my life. A few years later I am teaching guys how to meet women (and actually focus on POF). If you want to learn more, I offer tons of FREE help all over my site. My newest blog post is actually from a woman THANKING me for helping her fiancé learn how to pick her up on POF. BRAVOPUA.COM
if your page is short or long has all the right things on there a girl likes dose not mean they get back to any guy on pof , it is not you bud it is them try not to get hit up over it what you say is so true , once all the chat is over ones see what they like in real life even if you do make a date with one girl on pof . as for all the others on here forget what they say about you bud keep trying like me and you will find the right one you click with in life on there or else where pof sucks
I agree with this guy. If you pick him apart you're probably a sleazeball player that can't see the importance of what he's communicating.I know people play games but this guy is not about the game. He is looking outside the Box. It's about time. Good goin.
It is a supperficial society this is true, none are more supperficial than women, especially on dating sites. They dont give a damn about anything in the world except for the things that are close to them, their friends, their shoes, how many friends they have on facebook, and they are obsessed with controlling their image that they give off to the people in their social invironments. They are in a constant mode of self check and reassurance. They are truly insecure sad creatures.
dude. Being a nice guy dosnt mean a thing. Girls dont want nice guys. They want dick. Nice firm dick. Especially hot chicks. So shave that shit off your face, lose like 150 lbs and become awesome at the guitar and you can fuck whatever you want whenever you want. Oh n I hate to be this way.. I was a nice guy to..but those bitches will turn you cold man.
Actually, most people won't like to pay a money just to use a dating site, and sadly, most sites aren't really 100% free, that's why i like babefishing dating community, you pay nothing in babefishing.come
i think this guy has very much potential, he has good bone structure ,lose some weight to reveal that and shave. Blue rain could be lady killer than you can fuck some of the bitches(in the ass) of the guys that are dissing you.
@DoubleDion97 I am on there and am not a skank, slut or attention whore and certainly not looking for just a "good fuck" as I said before, I have met a very nice man on there and am currently very happy seeing him. Some people do not have confidence to go out and meet the conventional way as they may have had troubled relationships before. I speak from experience. Also internet dating is more common nowadays so dont be that narrow minded to judge when every one is different.
EVERYONE is being very harsh. Dont think any one has a right to judge. I have used plenty of fish because my previous relationship, I got beaten up and lost a lot of confidence. I met someone on this website and we get along so so well. He comes to visit and we talk all the time. I thought the men on there were "too good to be true" but there ARE genuine people out there. Don't be so quick to judge. Not everyone is the same.
Girls don't like nice guys. Nice guys are weak. Girls like strong, arrogant guys that can beat everyone up. Girls don't want a nice boyfriend. Girls don't like a nice man that treats them like a queen. They don't want that. They want an alpha male.
@PanicAttackRelief Well, specifically, they're looking for a guy who is assertive, confident, strong (or at least stronger than the woman he's trying to hook up with!) and who stands up for what he believes.
The biggest problem is that you are ugly. You are fat, you wear glasses and you have no style. You should lose weight and get ripped, get contacts and get better style.
People are very looks orientated. Always have been. So improve your looks, it's the only way.
I've been single my hole life. I am also a virgin and im proud to say so. I don't need a Girlfriend, for now I am happy being single, living free physically and in the mined. I trust that someday God will bring the right girl to me, so until then im not going to worry about it. Maybe what you need is a change in mindset. If you don't want a girlfriend, then there is no pain or shame in not having one! Nobody says you need a girl.
Women are ruthless dude, like seriously. You tell them you work at a grocery store as a cashier and they will start ignoring you because thats not good enough for them. Its really f*cked up. Even if the chick doesnt even work herself and is FAT, they still want some guy that makes 70,000 a year thats going to marry them within three weeks of meeting. They have F*cked up expectations. The ONLY way that MIGHT happen is if she's one of those fat chicks that gives MIND BLOWING head...then MAYBE
stop using the net for dates!!! theres women out there who would date you an are attractive ou just need to change your attitude, you dont seem confident, yea you seem like a nice guy an blah blah but women like a man with confidence
trust me i seen ugly guys like really ugly with okay or even cute girls
have confidence be outgoing, an you can get women but not on the net
sorry to say only looks wil get you some on the net but not personality
Can someone please keep an eye on this guy because i feel, after watching this video that he is close to the end!!! Don't give up, man. Guys can spend their whole lives looking for nice girls but only two or three will be found. All the rest arnt worth it!! You'll find your girl...just keep your chin up and look forward to meeting her :)))
yea you are right. we can't demand to have a 'petite' bombshell girlfriend or hot muscular boyfriend when we make zero effort to improve our own body, look or mental state. we attract what we are bottom line. and whiner are never attractive period.
one reason why both men and girls are still on plennty of fish for 3 years and still are single people are stereotypeing people on looks like ho i whant to date a girl to look like the models or for girls they say im looking for a guy that are mr calander of the year ,and i think people need to not go by what they look like and go by who they are.
You say you're a "nice guy". You gotta realize that the only chicks on plenty of fish are skanks, sluts and attention whores. The last thing they're looking for on Plenty of Fish is "nice guys". They're looking for a good fuck. If they were looking for a nice guy they'd go to a library or comicon.
I've been on POF for 6 months. I've had lots of dates from the site. Most guys on the site are not looking for a long term relationship, but they know they have to say that in order to get dates with the kind of women they want to sleep with. I've also met some really nice people and dated some great younger guys. POF is just one tool for those who are dating. It's not the answer to dating problems and can create it's own problems. julieann6100
How about you workout, lose that fat, wear nicer clothes, be clean cut, and then you will get women hitting you up. Also work on your conversation skills! Women love a man that can communicate!
With that comment, you acknowledge that a man must not only be good looking, but have money, or at least APPEAR to look like he has money (wear nicer clothes) in order to attract a woman. Correct?
@val154 I can not believe you got 9 thumbs up for this. I am a great communicator. Women do not give a shit! They say they want honest and good comunication. You give it to them then you are an ass hole!
stop wasting your time beging for dates. confidence is attractive, charisma too! so what if you are overweight or a nerd? i know there is someone out there who will want you. i'm a woman and had no dates and men barely replied to my emails on match.com and eharmony. i didn't waste 2 years waiting for men to notice me! in just 2 weeks i moved on. i now focus on improving my life, my health and my finances. it's when you are secure with yourself that you will find your queen. stop whining!
Don't listen to anyone being negative toward you. It's all a crap shoot. I girl wouldn't date me because her friends told her I had the wrong shoes on. "Oh yeah, he's cute! He's got a nice body! But who is he kidding with those shoes!" Women are shallow and superficial and will always date guys who will take a giant shit on them...but at least they have the right shoes. Be cool man. Live life for yourself. You'll be much happier.
@Cap285 This is why it is fun to shit on women back.
Take one out for a date, if she obviously isn't in to you or makes disrepectful comments to you as an innuendo, exuse yourself to the bathroom, get in your car and peel out waving at here leaving here to foot the bill and be stuck there. A buddy of mine did this to some superficial bitch LOL.
If you can get them, fuck em' and leave em', ignore their texts and calls. This is a cruel world my friend, it's the only thing they understand.
wana know why you always get the short end of the stick? Cause woman are self absorbed people. And you have a penis. gt used to it keep slayin but man ull strike out a bunch of times just keep putin urself out their.
dude, wake up. You're fat, wear glasses, don't sound too educated. That's why you don't get responses. I gets almost dozen messages a day and am favorited once or twice a day.
Just look at the women's photos!! First, many chicks are popping out of their tops - and when you tell them, they think you are a pervert. LOL Next, many are middle-aged and they are looking for a serious relationship with a guy fresh out of college. Finally, they are just basically looking for either a guy to buy them free dinners because their man can't afford it, and/or they want a 'Santa Claus' for their kid(s). Also, it is free so that should sum it up.
The title and cover are the most important factors in a books sales potential. It's not because people who read are superficial a*holes. It's because we don't have time to read every book and find out if it's quality. Your content is good enough- start working on your 'cover page'.
1) Hit the gym every day until you're toned and have lost all your fat. Then go as needed to maintain.
2) Figure out how to get a higher class respectable job (doctor, lawyer, stock-broker)
BlueRain1986 you would actually be really good looking if you lost weight. I don't think it's fair for you to criticize women for not being interested in you when you're clearly unhealthy. People seem to think we aren't still just biological creatures with hundreds of thousands of years of animal reproductive instincts built in to our genome (but then again, you're from Alabama, so maybe it's only 6,000 years and no instinct. Either way, Adam and Eve were hot and skinny).
10 year old girl was raped and murdered in 1945.her body was not found until 1947.then a boy last week read this and did not copy and paste this message.the dead girl appeard in his room haunting him and killed him.if you do not copy and paste this onto 10 videos in 30 minutes the dead girl will appear in your room tonight and haunt you and kill you.well better start to copy and past
What u just mentioned was interesting. i mean the comparison between pretentious Guys and real ones. it is sad that most women r picky. in the meanwhile, they dont actually know who is the perfect match or rather the best.
One of the horrible thing happened to me is one of the girls made me regret to be honest
I have my own pof profile, leaving no girls without complements
I'm not trying to be mean, but have you considered going to a gay bathhouse to get laid? I'm not saying that you are gay, but it would be a good place for you to get some relief from your frustration. If the pervs at the bathhouse won't suck your cock, THEN you will know that you have a problem that needs working on. Once you get past men, then you can graduate to women. I guarantee after a few hours in a gay bathhouse, you will leave with a certain "swagger" in your walk.
It's quite sad that this guy is so lonely. For all his faults, he is a genuinely "nice guy" who has probably been mothered too much.
He's pouring his heart out here because he has tried every method he knows to try to find someone to share his life with. I hope he at least learned how to be better at online dating after sharing this video.
An amazing contrast exists between the online and real world: Online, a guy has to strive upstream / up his Game / become James Bond to find even a cow.
In the real world a guy just has to be a homeless junkie in order to get a hot girlfriend.
1) I think POF is a waste of time if you're just an average guy looking for a relationship. A lot of girls misrepresent themselves online - they're not really looking, they're just addicted to serial dates thru POF, or they turn out to be ugly or very overweight, or just plain WEIRDOS. The few that are nice are holding out for someone that looks like Brad Pitt with a nice house, nice car, & a successful career.
2) You can't tell what a person is like online, or if there's a genuine spark, no matter how much you chat with them & how many pics they have. It’s better to meet someone the old-fashioned way… not online, but thru a chance meeting in real-life. In the 18 months I was on POF (2006 – 2007), I met 45 women in person, which was just a fraction of the number I contacted or vice-versa online.
3) Out of those 45 I met face to face, maybe 3 were women I was genuinely interested in trying a serious relationship with, but they seemed like they were holding out for Brad Pitt. Another seven weren’t relationship material, but I got laid – some ending up being longer term “friends with benefits”. But the rest (about 35) were a waste of time… they had lied about their appearance, or life circumstances, or were weirdos.
4) Another thing that really bothered me, & has only gotten worse, is the guy who runs POF – Markus. He’s an anal, uptight, control freak. He would constantly remove pics that he deemed inappropriate, even if they were just harmlessly funny. I got loads of replies just because of making people laugh, but Markus would routinely remove the pics. He’s an uptight ASSHOLE.
Dude, don't base your whole outlook on the dating scene by POF. POF is a joke, I only go on there anymore to troll chicks, it's FUCKING hillarious!!!! I've met a bunch from that site and trust me you aren't missing anything brotha!
easier to pull women in person bro. it may seem harder, but women arent as bothered about looks as men are. if ur funny an confident enough to chat to her you can get in there pretty quick.
women are really really perticiuler about men,especially their height...atleast youre not 5'1 like me...
god I have to COMPLETELY lower my standards and talk to.....average or BELOW average looking women....or...fat chicks..seriouslly..its the ONLY way I get any...only way...sad but true...yay fuken me
@dragonslayerED30 Plenty of fish is mostly fat chicks, and don't trust the skinny pics either. They post their pics from like 5 years ago when they were young thin and attractive. And there are so many psychotic women on there. It makes sense why they're on there no guys want them in real life.
Fact is most girls there are looking for attention. Most of them probably have boyfriends, and or just want to get laid by a hot studs. I created account there and 2 days later only 2 returned messages. Most girls there are good looking, so tell me why they need internet for dating? I'm sure there are a bunch of dudes hit on them in real life, but they post up their pictures just to see how much guys they can get in one day.
Hot girls don't need internet dating.. If u are hot, just get ur hot ass out in the streets and believe me u will get approach by many dudes. If a hot dude walked the streets, he'll get a stare and that's it. All I gotta say is if you find a dude is attractive, don't be scared to make the first move. Don't be so hard to get, it makes you look like a whore. But since you are on plenty of fish and seeking guys there, I'm pretty sure u have no problems at all. Hot girls on dating sites is a joke.
You're right, dude. The good looking people have to do nothing to win approval. Just the way they look is enough. They could be violent, angry, back stabbing, cheating, boring. It doesn't matter. Women on POF don't give an average guy a second look. And have you seen the complaints women leave on their profiles?
No perverts please. The reason why they're getting all the perverts is because they're not giving the average guys a chance. They're going for the good looking ones who are the worst.
Plenty of Fish is filled with chicks looking to get an inflated ego and it works. This is why it's so hard to get a date with a girl because so many guys send girls messages.
dude... what do you mean, "guys like me?" I've lost plenty of very very hot women to guys who look like you... simply because they were confident and looked like they could kick anybody's ass!
Be more confident dude, there's plenty of SMOKIN HOT women out there who would love to jump your bones!
All these post are from guys. Im a woman and I will tell you one thing.... I dont like wimps and panseys for my man. A man should be strong and confident. I love a nice guy but there is a differnce between nice and wimp and winey. Seriously dude if you were more confident and persistant you would get more dates. Its the crying and the immaturity that turns women off.
@myriah9669 I suggest you be careful....BEWARE of illusions. I found out that most "confident"(or in most cases,cocky show offs) are usually the biggest cowards around! They have some MAJOR insecurity issues, and eventually, the illusion wares off, and the truth is revealed. Many women now a days have a very poor sense of judgement when it comes to character and personality involving men for whatever reason. USE SOME LOGIC LADIES...NOT JUST YOUR TENDER FEELINGS!
Its not you. Its the women on these sites. I guarantee you if you beg a girl to contact you you're not going to get anyone worth a shit. You need to act more confident and make HER prove you her worth. Flip that shit around. Stop being nice. Nice guys finish last! Chicks only say they want nice guys. Women want a MAN not a wussy. Start looking offline and STOP being so nice and submissive. Please contact me I will be the best boyfriend? You sound desperate! You're lowering your worth and value!
Another helpful tip. You are too NICE! Females say & act like they want a "Good Hearted Man". They'll dump you fast with your nice guy vibe. Sorry dude, you need to snap out of it! Like i said get to a gym, change your wardrobe & attitude, and you'll get pussy on and offline buddy. Listen to Tom Leykis too. Youtube him...He might help you as well. But change your look up ASAP! Tale the shades off & hit the gym, take new cool pix & i bet you get some girls off POF. Take it from a real player!
Me & my friend banged a ton of girls of POF! There are fakers on there using webcam models ECT. You can easily weed them out by using reverse search engines for pics. You can tell the real females right away. Ask a specific question. I'll get right down to it buddy. It's all about looks in this world.Your on the fat side. Get to a gym, dress better, & take some nice pictures with you boy. Get some swag going partner! I reject BBW's all the time! I log on & the FAT females always IM ME on POF! GL
LOVE isnt free you pay for it neither is sex you take a girl out spend a fortune on them with the hope at the end of the night she will stamp your card might aswell hire a prostitute at least your garanteed a shag just make sure you put something on the end of it .as for POF try having a shave and a haircut new clothes take a shower loose a few pounds then set your sights a bit lower dont go for the gorgeous maybe go for the older ones that have been around a bit you might just get your leg over
Dude, I don't think it's you. Women all the time complain about guys being jerks, assholes, whatever. I tried being a good guy my whole life, but noticed that women only liked guys who are mean to them so I said "fuck it!" I've experimented by treating women like crap, and holy hell do I get results!
BTW, I've seen friends use dating sites, and I don't go near them myself. From what I gather they mainly consist of annoying, skanky single moms who think their pussies are lined with gold.
POF and Misandry go hand in hand. If you are good looking, muscular and have money and can show that on there, you're good. You will get attention and get to play. Then those girls go back on POF to complain about a lack of "good" men - only again to choose Mr. wrong over and over.
You are a heavy average dude on a site full of women who crave above average everything. Never go by the trite crap girls say they want on their profile. Females crave looks and pampering even more than men.
you have to understand your average woman on dating sites dont think logically on how to respond to a msg it seeems...but dont ever expect a yes from a lady if you ask her out on a dating site chances are unless you have talked to her on the phone a couple times a date is a long shot
You may have wised up, but in case you haven't, and I don't mean this in the wrong way, but dude, you *must* lose some weight, trim the excess stored energy and man the fuck up. We are all pitiful descendants of CAVEMEN, but CAVEMEN we remain, the caves now have lights and xboxes in them. CHANGE your programming. Watch a lot of james bond films and note how he behaves to chicks, watch californication, read up David DeAngelo and Tucker Max's philosophies and restore you man-ness. Go do it now!
I had one reply from there. You'd never guess. I said "hi" to a woman. Her reply was "do you want to purchase a penis". I said "why". She said "so you can rape my ass". I mean what the hell is that lol
You gotta learn some game. I've met probly 15 girls off that site. You gotta be funny and confident. You can't come at them with the say "hey, what's up?" crap they get a million times a day.
A lot of girls don't say their physical preferences in their profiles which makes it a harder sell. I've seen a few that just post pics and fill their profiles with random characters: fhlsadhfl jflsfjlal. I replied to one of those girls with random characters. LOL. I bet half of them just log on there because they use the computer at work and are bored. Time to make a hot hockey player profile...
ZRaden is somewhat correct. I wont say that its all crap cause i get women off of there. However, ***Nothing beats interacting with them in the real world***. It a pub, coffee shop, library, movie shop, anything with your buddy. Just talk to them. Dont go up with the intention to date them, just talk and trust me someone will bite.
I know everyone is telling you about appearance, and its not that people are attacking you, but initially appearance does matter. it really does.
Silverboyzzz is right, he knows what he is talking about. Dating is all about confidence. You need to be confident in yourself, and that means taking care of yourself. That includes looks. Im on PoF as well, now Im not the most attractive person in the world but I still get messaged.
I was the "nice" guys for many many years, it really doesnt work as a dating strategy. You need to be a bit mean initially, c ocky somewhat.
@trinibwoy007 Can someone please hit my brain's frontal lobe so I can be more cocky :P I don't necessarily agree with that advice, but I do know that if you can make her want you more than you want her, she's in your hands.
@ccricers Its fine to disagree, there is no clean-cut strategy. Cocky not in the bad way but in the way that your confident with yourself. This video shows him kinda begging, althgouh he states in a "rant", its really more of a beg and look at me girls on youtube. You make her want you more than you want her, yes, I agree, however you need to her get to talk to you first right? Girls like they mystery, thus the cockiness makes them wonder "why is he not falling for me"
@trinibwoy007 Exactly! Be confident, be cocky and love yourself. You attract bees with honey. If you're confident you are more attractive. When my GF and I go to a mall, restaurant, wherever, both of us get "checked out", I've been given numbers a few times but discarded them/turn it down since I'm with her (I've never been offered numbers, I would always have to ask) . When you feel good about yourself it shows!
@silverboyzzz Not really. Nice guys finish last...ok fair enough, but bad/awesome guys never finish at all....they just keep going in circles until they die out. When you finish last, you get rewarded.
@silverboyzzz Not at all....nice guys will live happily ever after with true love...bad boys DONT win at all! For example, my roomate was a bad boy(at 37yrs old). He could generally have sex with any woman he wants, but that lifestyle gets old quick! When he finally came "close" to true love, she dumped him. Later, that night,he went from a bad boy to a whinny little bitch. I also ended up on a suicide watch with him, which drove me NUTS. I was thinking this is a bad boy? Right...
@silverboyzzz This is the typical bad boy life...whether you know it or not, they are suffering at a magnitude beyond anything we can imagine(lonliness). Learn from my roomate...
Don't listen to missjulie about dating outside of your race. There is at least one person for everyone. But do lose weight. The way I see it, if your DESPERATE enough to get dates, you'll lose weight. Trust me...YOU WILL GET MORE DATES if you get in shape (does not have to be buff, just not overweight). Or become a millionaire.
jimbowaxo 17 hours ago
You need to loose weight and get more athletic, You also need to take this video down and stop begging. There's nothing wrong with you or wrong with the girls for being there. Stop picking "super models" when you are not one. Consider dating out of your race.
missqjulie 2 days ago
PlentyofFish is a free website. The only thing they're good for is trolling to get numbers for prank calls.
ThePSTrooper 3 days ago
ya bro on looks I am a 7...maybe a 6 and I got 2 hot dates and one wanted a sugar daddy and the other stood me up and won't see me now because she thinks I'm still pissed. Everything else on that website has been shit. I'm not picky I just want a 6 or higher. My bud is a 9 and he has gotten a few hot skanks. Women value power in all forms over someone who is nice although after the initial romp they want to be treated nicely.
DaMarlboroMan3 3 days ago
Man this video is rough bro, but check this out. I'm a personal trainer and I have a profile on pof. I've been on there for about 2 months and I really can go out on dates every night of the week if I wanted. Females like a man who is confident 1st. Then someone who keeps theirself in shape. Its not really a secret, yes some girls on there are unrealistic. Like, Im black, I've even got messages of girls saying that Im sexy but they dont date black guys.
Keep ya head up!
#Fit.king on pof
fitking1988 5 days ago
do you want some cookies?
marvelwwefan 1 week ago
try telling theladies how much cash you hve and how much your gonna spend on them... that usually works money+females= fish on! for sho
2mstonewindsor 1 week ago
mode one - try that. alan roger currie.
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I've only met creepy old men with no personalities on plenty of fish. Honesty, if you're not a creep and you were closer to my age, I'd totally give you a chance.
TheBrainSponge 3 weeks ago
Hey bro hit on the fat women
PratosKS 3 weeks ago
You're fucken pathetic. "I'm a nice guy" rofl dude you gotta be kidding me you make me sick. Did you get brought up by fairies with fucken pink blouses? I was raised by wolves got deng and I turned out fine. Go hit the gym got dam it. Do you even lift? "I don't understand" It's because you really don't but thanks for pointing out the obvious. Look at Orlando Bloom and then look at yourself then you'll "understand"
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Well, most people won't like to pay money just to use a dating site, and sadly, most sites aren't really 100% free, that's why i like babefishing dating community, you pay nothing in babefishing. com
Princeimasuen 3 weeks ago
man up or find a fat girl who likes hairy men who wear black t shirts
TheCurtistree 3 weeks ago
I went on 2 dates from POF, they were awkward, weird, and just soooo not a good situation. I'd look for girls in real life, blind dates are a huge gamble.
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dnoble26 1 month ago
Dude your sad, grow a sack, you dont need to be good looking or even in shape just be a dam man and you will get dates.
dnoble26 1 month ago
Show us your man boobs!
yeagermcbipper 1 month ago
I agree with you! This site sucks ass on biblical proportions....Fuck plenty of shit!!!!
heavyshell3k 1 month ago
I put on my headline "You're probably on POF because you're too picky in person" lol
ccricers 1 month ago
Nice guys finish last, start being a bad guy and watch the women roll in ;)
gunmanscotland 1 month ago
- and for a few tips. Think about what you are conveying about yourself by how you dress, your hair, and your attitude. You need to level up in all of these areas if you want women to view you as a catch. Also don't worry about everything you can't change. Focus on the stuff you can ( you, your body and your attitude) and it really is possible to do
BravoPUA 1 month ago 2
@BravoPUA True that. Bravo has an awesome program. Check out his speech on online game at the 21 convention. May help you out, hell, its cool he is reaching out to you. I highly recommend you check out his website.
AttractionAnomaly 1 month ago
@AttractionAnomaly someone posted this vid on my wall this morning, but the vid is 2 years old....maybe it helps him, maybe someone else reads this and gets some help= then I'd be happy :D (and thanks for the kind words)
BravoPUA 1 month ago
I use to feel like you man. After I got divorced I was crushed. Then I read the book THE GAME, got into the PUA world, and took control of my life. A few years later I am teaching guys how to meet women (and actually focus on POF). If you want to learn more, I offer tons of FREE help all over my site. My newest blog post is actually from a woman THANKING me for helping her fiancé learn how to pick her up on POF. BRAVOPUA.COM
BravoPUA 1 month ago 3
if your page is short or long has all the right things on there a girl likes dose not mean they get back to any guy on pof , it is not you bud it is them try not to get hit up over it what you say is so true , once all the chat is over ones see what they like in real life even if you do make a date with one girl on pof . as for all the others on here forget what they say about you bud keep trying like me and you will find the right one you click with in life on there or else where pof sucks
kenspad 1 month ago
I agree with this guy. If you pick him apart you're probably a sleazeball player that can't see the importance of what he's communicating.I know people play games but this guy is not about the game. He is looking outside the Box. It's about time. Good goin.
RedSkiesAtNight1 1 month ago
It is a supperficial society this is true, none are more supperficial than women, especially on dating sites. They dont give a damn about anything in the world except for the things that are close to them, their friends, their shoes, how many friends they have on facebook, and they are obsessed with controlling their image that they give off to the people in their social invironments. They are in a constant mode of self check and reassurance. They are truly insecure sad creatures.
MrJulz26 1 month ago
It's a superficial society.
btez31 1 month ago
when you asked "what is wrong with this?" i died of laughter.
ShaShaFuchsia 1 month ago
oh lawd.
k24accord 1 month ago
miscer below, sup brah
chrisowns 1 month ago
First of all you need to learn how to construct proper messages. Secondly work on your aesthetics because you are ugly as fuk cuzzzzz
POF sluts is some dirty bishes.
WhyYouMadTho350 1 month ago
Oh dear...
2817fart 1 month ago
Too hot? my town just has plenty of beast.
Sad truth. 20% of guys get 80% of girls with online dating, more so online actually.
TerminusPro 1 month ago
Do yo even lift?
scarbruh 1 month ago 4
this guy is quite cute, another version of kung fu panda. Come on folks, message him, give a nice man a chance!
MorgunTung 1 month ago
dude. Being a nice guy dosnt mean a thing. Girls dont want nice guys. They want dick. Nice firm dick. Especially hot chicks. So shave that shit off your face, lose like 150 lbs and become awesome at the guitar and you can fuck whatever you want whenever you want. Oh n I hate to be this way.. I was a nice guy to..but those bitches will turn you cold man.
Cody305v6 2 months ago
@Cody305v6 You're an idiot, only whores are like that.
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Princeimasuen 2 months ago
Work on yourself.
76ComicFan 2 months ago
i think this guy has very much potential, he has good bone structure ,lose some weight to reveal that and shave. Blue rain could be lady killer than you can fuck some of the bitches(in the ass) of the guys that are dissing you.
pervmanyesican 2 months ago
LOL!
KingDOLEMITE 2 months ago
bang hookers, problem solved
VisualLearningZone 2 months ago
@DoubleDion97 I am on there and am not a skank, slut or attention whore and certainly not looking for just a "good fuck" as I said before, I have met a very nice man on there and am currently very happy seeing him. Some people do not have confidence to go out and meet the conventional way as they may have had troubled relationships before. I speak from experience. Also internet dating is more common nowadays so dont be that narrow minded to judge when every one is different.
dduummdduumm 2 months ago
EVERYONE is being very harsh. Dont think any one has a right to judge. I have used plenty of fish because my previous relationship, I got beaten up and lost a lot of confidence. I met someone on this website and we get along so so well. He comes to visit and we talk all the time. I thought the men on there were "too good to be true" but there ARE genuine people out there. Don't be so quick to judge. Not everyone is the same.
dduummdduumm 2 months ago
Girls don't like nice guys. Nice guys are weak. Girls like strong, arrogant guys that can beat everyone up. Girls don't want a nice boyfriend. Girls don't like a nice man that treats them like a queen. They don't want that. They want an alpha male.
PanicAttackRelief 2 months ago
@PanicAttackRelief Well, specifically, they're looking for a guy who is assertive, confident, strong (or at least stronger than the woman he's trying to hook up with!) and who stands up for what he believes.
jjobie 2 months ago in playlist PLENTY OF FISH~MORE-8-27-2009
@jjobie No, they are looking for a guy who is tall, not fat and has a nice face. Those are the most important things.
PanicAttackRelief 2 months ago
The biggest problem is that you are ugly. You are fat, you wear glasses and you have no style. You should lose weight and get ripped, get contacts and get better style.
People are very looks orientated. Always have been. So improve your looks, it's the only way.
PanicAttackRelief 2 months ago
This seriously cannot be for real.
jjobie 2 months ago
I've been single my hole life. I am also a virgin and im proud to say so. I don't need a Girlfriend, for now I am happy being single, living free physically and in the mined. I trust that someday God will bring the right girl to me, so until then im not going to worry about it. Maybe what you need is a change in mindset. If you don't want a girlfriend, then there is no pain or shame in not having one! Nobody says you need a girl.
Creighster 2 months ago
@Creighster Lol i never even herd of POF before this, i thought this was going to be a rant on fishing. lol
Creighster 2 months ago
@Creighster Why are you proud to be defective?
PanicAttackRelief 2 months ago
@PanicAttackRelief I am proud because I am not desperate, and i found a way to be single and happy!
Creighster 2 months ago
you got no chance on dating websites, hell you got no chance in life, i'm just playin
yodaddyxx 2 months ago
women on POF are scum.........enough said.
MrJulz26 2 months ago
Women are ruthless dude, like seriously. You tell them you work at a grocery store as a cashier and they will start ignoring you because thats not good enough for them. Its really f*cked up. Even if the chick doesnt even work herself and is FAT, they still want some guy that makes 70,000 a year thats going to marry them within three weeks of meeting. They have F*cked up expectations. The ONLY way that MIGHT happen is if she's one of those fat chicks that gives MIND BLOWING head...then MAYBE
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stop using the net for dates!!! theres women out there who would date you an are attractive ou just need to change your attitude, you dont seem confident, yea you seem like a nice guy an blah blah but women like a man with confidence
trust me i seen ugly guys like really ugly with okay or even cute girls
have confidence be outgoing, an you can get women but not on the net
sorry to say only looks wil get you some on the net but not personality
Smokeydabear415 2 months ago
Can someone please keep an eye on this guy because i feel, after watching this video that he is close to the end!!! Don't give up, man. Guys can spend their whole lives looking for nice girls but only two or three will be found. All the rest arnt worth it!! You'll find your girl...just keep your chin up and look forward to meeting her :)))
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MrTLand11 2 months ago
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MrTLand11 2 months ago
The plenty of fish site bullshit bitches playing games. You re only one that dont get replies.
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@hagadaba
yea you are right. we can't demand to have a 'petite' bombshell girlfriend or hot muscular boyfriend when we make zero effort to improve our own body, look or mental state. we attract what we are bottom line. and whiner are never attractive period.
peace.
PONDU111 3 months ago
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PONDU111 3 months ago
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hagadaba 3 months ago
I feel for this guy haha.
Im not into the POF thing but it does suck when u been single for so long n have a hard time getting a lady.
and I have the same problem Im to much of a nice guy n I get shitted on lol.
OutlawJoseyWales909 3 months ago
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one reason why both men and girls are still on plennty of fish for 3 years and still are single people are stereotypeing people on looks like ho i whant to date a girl to look like the models or for girls they say im looking for a guy that are mr calander of the year ,and i think people need to not go by what they look like and go by who they are.
beepsbobby1 3 months ago
Shit this guy looks like perverted justice's xavier von erck. Watch out, he might pose as an underage girl wanting you to hit on him.
tsb049 3 months ago
You say you're a "nice guy". You gotta realize that the only chicks on plenty of fish are skanks, sluts and attention whores. The last thing they're looking for on Plenty of Fish is "nice guys". They're looking for a good fuck. If they were looking for a nice guy they'd go to a library or comicon.
Good Luck, champ.
DoubleDion97 3 months ago 9
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@DoubleDion97 POF SUCKS all Stuck up bitches and Drama! Women can be obese, uneducated, unemployed, have bad teeth, bad skin, and have 4
different children by 4 different men and they will STILL get laid anytime they
want.!!!! its a sick world, 400lb women today can be stuck up and picky!!
unbelievable!!
5tonyvvvv 1 month ago
I've been on POF for 6 months. I've had lots of dates from the site. Most guys on the site are not looking for a long term relationship, but they know they have to say that in order to get dates with the kind of women they want to sleep with. I've also met some really nice people and dated some great younger guys. POF is just one tool for those who are dating. It's not the answer to dating problems and can create it's own problems. julieann6100
freewilljezebel 3 months ago
How about you workout, lose that fat, wear nicer clothes, be clean cut, and then you will get women hitting you up. Also work on your conversation skills! Women love a man that can communicate!
val154 3 months ago 14
@val154
With that comment, you acknowledge that a man must not only be good looking, but have money, or at least APPEAR to look like he has money (wear nicer clothes) in order to attract a woman. Correct?
MrRoboto81 3 months ago
@val154 I can not believe you got 9 thumbs up for this. I am a great communicator. Women do not give a shit! They say they want honest and good comunication. You give it to them then you are an ass hole!
josh19852008 1 month ago
POF is tiring. You get tired of messaging females who most likely won't return your message because of the sheer amount of messages they recieve.
rojman123 3 months ago
pof is for fat chicks
atillerman 3 months ago
@atillerman Big girls need love to bro.
Nothing wrong with a big girl, They end up being better girl friends then most hot skinny bitches.
OutlawJoseyWales909 3 months ago
stop wasting your time beging for dates. confidence is attractive, charisma too! so what if you are overweight or a nerd? i know there is someone out there who will want you. i'm a woman and had no dates and men barely replied to my emails on match.com and eharmony. i didn't waste 2 years waiting for men to notice me! in just 2 weeks i moved on. i now focus on improving my life, my health and my finances. it's when you are secure with yourself that you will find your queen. stop whining!
PONDU111 3 months ago
Don't listen to anyone being negative toward you. It's all a crap shoot. I girl wouldn't date me because her friends told her I had the wrong shoes on. "Oh yeah, he's cute! He's got a nice body! But who is he kidding with those shoes!" Women are shallow and superficial and will always date guys who will take a giant shit on them...but at least they have the right shoes. Be cool man. Live life for yourself. You'll be much happier.
Cap285 3 months ago
@Cap285 This is why it is fun to shit on women back.
Take one out for a date, if she obviously isn't in to you or makes disrepectful comments to you as an innuendo, exuse yourself to the bathroom, get in your car and peel out waving at here leaving here to foot the bill and be stuck there. A buddy of mine did this to some superficial bitch LOL.
If you can get them, fuck em' and leave em', ignore their texts and calls. This is a cruel world my friend, it's the only thing they understand.
TropicalConfederate 2 months ago
@TropicalConfederate I have been doing as you have instructed. Roger that,my friend. Your last sentence speaks volumes.
Cap285 2 months ago
wana know why you always get the short end of the stick? Cause woman are self absorbed people. And you have a penis. gt used to it keep slayin but man ull strike out a bunch of times just keep putin urself out their.
twidxxx 3 months ago
stop playing wow shave and workout wtf is so difficult put in the time and the women will hit on you its simple.
sifupintado 4 months ago
dude, wake up. You're fat, wear glasses, don't sound too educated. That's why you don't get responses. I gets almost dozen messages a day and am favorited once or twice a day.
DuhEnlightenedOne 4 months ago
Brother man you will find that person bro their loss!
G30NRCR 4 months ago
Just look at the women's photos!! First, many chicks are popping out of their tops - and when you tell them, they think you are a pervert. LOL Next, many are middle-aged and they are looking for a serious relationship with a guy fresh out of college. Finally, they are just basically looking for either a guy to buy them free dinners because their man can't afford it, and/or they want a 'Santa Claus' for their kid(s). Also, it is free so that should sum it up.
steelerdave2000 4 months ago
I don't get nothin!
aecabanaboy 4 months ago
ZERO!
aecabanaboy 4 months ago
hey did you ever get a date, also being too nice is a turn off, women love assholes,
rustybones3115 4 months ago
qq, self entitled nice guy neck beard.
morbid301 5 months ago
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Don't worry. Everybody has a hard time on that site.
CrimeKittehs 5 months ago
The title and cover are the most important factors in a books sales potential. It's not because people who read are superficial a*holes. It's because we don't have time to read every book and find out if it's quality. Your content is good enough- start working on your 'cover page'.
1) Hit the gym every day until you're toned and have lost all your fat. Then go as needed to maintain.
2) Figure out how to get a higher class respectable job (doctor, lawyer, stock-broker)
SpinningBallOfGoo 5 months ago
Is this guy serious? Do you think self-pity is attractive? You cheated on your last girlfriend with your chocolate bars.
BEGGING FOR A DATE.
Get off the couch, stop wasting valuable bandwidth, and pay for an escort.
Halusinati 5 months ago
BlueRain1986 you would actually be really good looking if you lost weight. I don't think it's fair for you to criticize women for not being interested in you when you're clearly unhealthy. People seem to think we aren't still just biological creatures with hundreds of thousands of years of animal reproductive instincts built in to our genome (but then again, you're from Alabama, so maybe it's only 6,000 years and no instinct. Either way, Adam and Eve were hot and skinny).
Ravvezz 5 months ago
Bro, lose weight, lose the beard, get a haircut, dress nice, and become more confident. And BAM, your problems are over.
JokinJoe 5 months ago
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jdfkjksngkfdgkf 5 months ago
First, i am a straight man.
Bro, i liked u from the first 2 min of ur video.
What u just mentioned was interesting. i mean the comparison between pretentious Guys and real ones. it is sad that most women r picky. in the meanwhile, they dont actually know who is the perfect match or rather the best.
One of the horrible thing happened to me is one of the girls made me regret to be honest
I have my own pof profile, leaving no girls without complements
just write, "u have beautiful broad eyes"
go lu
alglade 5 months ago
I'm not trying to be mean, but have you considered going to a gay bathhouse to get laid? I'm not saying that you are gay, but it would be a good place for you to get some relief from your frustration. If the pervs at the bathhouse won't suck your cock, THEN you will know that you have a problem that needs working on. Once you get past men, then you can graduate to women. I guarantee after a few hours in a gay bathhouse, you will leave with a certain "swagger" in your walk.
visaman 5 months ago
It's quite sad that this guy is so lonely. For all his faults, he is a genuinely "nice guy" who has probably been mothered too much.
He's pouring his heart out here because he has tried every method he knows to try to find someone to share his life with. I hope he at least learned how to be better at online dating after sharing this video.
slugmandrew 5 months ago
An amazing contrast exists between the online and real world: Online, a guy has to strive upstream / up his Game / become James Bond to find even a cow.
In the real world a guy just has to be a homeless junkie in order to get a hot girlfriend.
heavenseek 5 months ago
1) I think POF is a waste of time if you're just an average guy looking for a relationship. A lot of girls misrepresent themselves online - they're not really looking, they're just addicted to serial dates thru POF, or they turn out to be ugly or very overweight, or just plain WEIRDOS. The few that are nice are holding out for someone that looks like Brad Pitt with a nice house, nice car, & a successful career.
JERI0K 5 months ago
2) You can't tell what a person is like online, or if there's a genuine spark, no matter how much you chat with them & how many pics they have. It’s better to meet someone the old-fashioned way… not online, but thru a chance meeting in real-life. In the 18 months I was on POF (2006 – 2007), I met 45 women in person, which was just a fraction of the number I contacted or vice-versa online.
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JERI0K 5 months ago
3) Out of those 45 I met face to face, maybe 3 were women I was genuinely interested in trying a serious relationship with, but they seemed like they were holding out for Brad Pitt. Another seven weren’t relationship material, but I got laid – some ending up being longer term “friends with benefits”. But the rest (about 35) were a waste of time… they had lied about their appearance, or life circumstances, or were weirdos.
JERI0K 5 months ago
4) Another thing that really bothered me, & has only gotten worse, is the guy who runs POF – Markus. He’s an anal, uptight, control freak. He would constantly remove pics that he deemed inappropriate, even if they were just harmlessly funny. I got loads of replies just because of making people laugh, but Markus would routinely remove the pics. He’s an uptight ASSHOLE.
JERI0K 5 months ago
You are pathetic, pathetic, there is no hope for you!!!! Maybe you should be more like Brooke Burke and Orlando Bloom!! hahahahaha
Mistahenigma 6 months ago
You are pathetic, pathetic, there is no hope for you!!!! Maybe you should be more like Brooke Burke!! hahahahaha
Mistahenigma 6 months ago
WON'T DONT LIKE NICE GUYS
MANZANOADRIAN 6 months ago
Nice, nice, nice. "I'm a nice guy", that's the problem... Start to treat women like trash, it's fucking magic!
gameplace123 6 months ago
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gameplace123 6 months ago
Dude, don't base your whole outlook on the dating scene by POF. POF is a joke, I only go on there anymore to troll chicks, it's FUCKING hillarious!!!! I've met a bunch from that site and trust me you aren't missing anything brotha!
DoobiScrew 6 months ago
basically i just
shave my beard ;)
only go for girls who r shorter than me in heels
act cocky and funny
easier to pull women in person bro. it may seem harder, but women arent as bothered about looks as men are. if ur funny an confident enough to chat to her you can get in there pretty quick.
ragglerags 6 months ago
i feel you brother... you say the same as me
Guitarfreak2689 6 months ago
Thanks for the heads up. Take care.
katehoffy 6 months ago
women are really really perticiuler about men,especially their height...atleast youre not 5'1 like me...
god I have to COMPLETELY lower my standards and talk to.....average or BELOW average looking women....or...fat chicks..seriouslly..its the ONLY way I get any...only way...sad but true...yay fuken me
dragonslayerED30 7 months ago
@dragonslayerED30 Plenty of fish is mostly fat chicks, and don't trust the skinny pics either. They post their pics from like 5 years ago when they were young thin and attractive. And there are so many psychotic women on there. It makes sense why they're on there no guys want them in real life.
atillerman 6 months ago
Try single moms, bra.
TheSteelyMan 7 months ago
to be honest...fat+neck beard+desperate=not a good combo
SeptikAvenger 7 months ago
Girls gets like 50 messages a day.
Guys gets like once a month.
Fact is most girls there are looking for attention. Most of them probably have boyfriends, and or just want to get laid by a hot studs. I created account there and 2 days later only 2 returned messages. Most girls there are good looking, so tell me why they need internet for dating? I'm sure there are a bunch of dudes hit on them in real life, but they post up their pictures just to see how much guys they can get in one day.
lilcrazyaznboy 7 months ago 9
@lilcrazyaznboy CORRECTION _Hot girls_ get 50 msgs a day =\
Some females (like me personally) like the guy to make the first move - not ' attention' ( ok well maybe some and those hot girls..)
Same can be said about why hot GUYS sign up for dating sites, so dont start that bulshit- genderism? much
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lilcrazyaznboy 7 months ago
Hot girls don't need internet dating.. If u are hot, just get ur hot ass out in the streets and believe me u will get approach by many dudes. If a hot dude walked the streets, he'll get a stare and that's it. All I gotta say is if you find a dude is attractive, don't be scared to make the first move. Don't be so hard to get, it makes you look like a whore. But since you are on plenty of fish and seeking guys there, I'm pretty sure u have no problems at all. Hot girls on dating sites is a joke.
lilcrazyaznboy 7 months ago
@lilcrazyaznboy They're not really good looking. The pictures lie...
AdamThomas91 4 months ago
@AdamThomas91 Often times, that's true...
ksly2010 3 months ago
@lilcrazyaznboy i get messages all the time,just pose shirtless
justified1975 3 months ago
You're right, dude. The good looking people have to do nothing to win approval. Just the way they look is enough. They could be violent, angry, back stabbing, cheating, boring. It doesn't matter. Women on POF don't give an average guy a second look. And have you seen the complaints women leave on their profiles?
No perverts please. The reason why they're getting all the perverts is because they're not giving the average guys a chance. They're going for the good looking ones who are the worst.
Planetoxo 7 months ago
Plenty of Fish is filled with chicks looking to get an inflated ego and it works. This is why it's so hard to get a date with a girl because so many guys send girls messages.
Netlocd 7 months ago
however, one tip: trim the beard (ie: get rid of the neckbeard, especially), do your hair, and wear a nice shirt :)
ds7202 7 months ago
dude... what do you mean, "guys like me?" I've lost plenty of very very hot women to guys who look like you... simply because they were confident and looked like they could kick anybody's ass!
Be more confident dude, there's plenty of SMOKIN HOT women out there who would love to jump your bones!
ds7202 7 months ago
All these post are from guys. Im a woman and I will tell you one thing.... I dont like wimps and panseys for my man. A man should be strong and confident. I love a nice guy but there is a differnce between nice and wimp and winey. Seriously dude if you were more confident and persistant you would get more dates. Its the crying and the immaturity that turns women off.
myriah9669 7 months ago
@myriah9669 I suggest you be careful....BEWARE of illusions. I found out that most "confident"(or in most cases,cocky show offs) are usually the biggest cowards around! They have some MAJOR insecurity issues, and eventually, the illusion wares off, and the truth is revealed. Many women now a days have a very poor sense of judgement when it comes to character and personality involving men for whatever reason. USE SOME LOGIC LADIES...NOT JUST YOUR TENDER FEELINGS!
ksly2010 7 months ago
im a really nice guy to and ive being single 3 years go figure
TheSheeplealarmclock 7 months ago
when u stop looking u will find the right woman u sound like an amazing guy that loads of women would want to date just be confident in urself hun
jaffabruno64 7 months ago
Its not you. Its the women on these sites. I guarantee you if you beg a girl to contact you you're not going to get anyone worth a shit. You need to act more confident and make HER prove you her worth. Flip that shit around. Stop being nice. Nice guys finish last! Chicks only say they want nice guys. Women want a MAN not a wussy. Start looking offline and STOP being so nice and submissive. Please contact me I will be the best boyfriend? You sound desperate! You're lowering your worth and value!
OsamaPersona 7 months ago
Another helpful tip. You are too NICE! Females say & act like they want a "Good Hearted Man". They'll dump you fast with your nice guy vibe. Sorry dude, you need to snap out of it! Like i said get to a gym, change your wardrobe & attitude, and you'll get pussy on and offline buddy. Listen to Tom Leykis too. Youtube him...He might help you as well. But change your look up ASAP! Tale the shades off & hit the gym, take new cool pix & i bet you get some girls off POF. Take it from a real player!
MrPutOn 7 months ago
Me & my friend banged a ton of girls of POF! There are fakers on there using webcam models ECT. You can easily weed them out by using reverse search engines for pics. You can tell the real females right away. Ask a specific question. I'll get right down to it buddy. It's all about looks in this world.Your on the fat side. Get to a gym, dress better, & take some nice pictures with you boy. Get some swag going partner! I reject BBW's all the time! I log on & the FAT females always IM ME on POF! GL
MrPutOn 7 months ago
LOVE isnt free you pay for it neither is sex you take a girl out spend a fortune on them with the hope at the end of the night she will stamp your card might aswell hire a prostitute at least your garanteed a shag just make sure you put something on the end of it .as for POF try having a shave and a haircut new clothes take a shower loose a few pounds then set your sights a bit lower dont go for the gorgeous maybe go for the older ones that have been around a bit you might just get your leg over
dummyspitter 8 months ago
Dude, I don't think it's you. Women all the time complain about guys being jerks, assholes, whatever. I tried being a good guy my whole life, but noticed that women only liked guys who are mean to them so I said "fuck it!" I've experimented by treating women like crap, and holy hell do I get results!
BTW, I've seen friends use dating sites, and I don't go near them myself. From what I gather they mainly consist of annoying, skanky single moms who think their pussies are lined with gold.
AxBunny 8 months ago
Hey man, keep your head up. This video will help put things in perspective for you.
Check out the video titled: "Online Dating: Why Didn't You Hear Back From Her?"
trinidadrrc 8 months ago
The plenty of fish website is just a back up plan for me. i don't expect anything big from that site.
wrestlemania1992a 8 months ago
This guy is creeping me out. LOL. Online dating sites are fine as long as u dont soley rely on them.
LegendarySkypenis 8 months ago
So i married an axe murderer. My life is now a huge cliche'
MrZeroCide 8 months ago
POF and Misandry go hand in hand. If you are good looking, muscular and have money and can show that on there, you're good. You will get attention and get to play. Then those girls go back on POF to complain about a lack of "good" men - only again to choose Mr. wrong over and over.
You are a heavy average dude on a site full of women who crave above average everything. Never go by the trite crap girls say they want on their profile. Females crave looks and pampering even more than men.
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Are you the angry video game nerd?
GoreDepeche 8 months ago
My advice --- try to look like an axe murderer.
sieracki001 8 months ago
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Jameshimselfff 8 months ago
YOUR WRESTLING SHOW LOL WOW YOU HAD TO SAY THAT SO GIRLS WOULD COME RUNNING TO YOU
sentaiprojectsback 9 months ago
you have to understand your average woman on dating sites dont think logically on how to respond to a msg it seeems...but dont ever expect a yes from a lady if you ask her out on a dating site chances are unless you have talked to her on the phone a couple times a date is a long shot
uzavas 9 months ago
"True love" is not free. You will pay for it(patience,heartbreak, etc)...and in the end, you win.
ksly2010 9 months ago
You may have wised up, but in case you haven't, and I don't mean this in the wrong way, but dude, you *must* lose some weight, trim the excess stored energy and man the fuck up. We are all pitiful descendants of CAVEMEN, but CAVEMEN we remain, the caves now have lights and xboxes in them. CHANGE your programming. Watch a lot of james bond films and note how he behaves to chicks, watch californication, read up David DeAngelo and Tucker Max's philosophies and restore you man-ness. Go do it now!
bad4ever2001 9 months ago
I had one reply from there. You'd never guess. I said "hi" to a woman. Her reply was "do you want to purchase a penis". I said "why". She said "so you can rape my ass". I mean what the hell is that lol
dsgsu 9 months ago
You gotta learn some game. I've met probly 15 girls off that site. You gotta be funny and confident. You can't come at them with the say "hey, what's up?" crap they get a million times a day.
3DChris82 9 months ago
A lot of girls don't say their physical preferences in their profiles which makes it a harder sell. I've seen a few that just post pics and fill their profiles with random characters: fhlsadhfl jflsfjlal. I replied to one of those girls with random characters. LOL. I bet half of them just log on there because they use the computer at work and are bored. Time to make a hot hockey player profile...
ccricers 9 months ago
This guys seems like such a sweetheart :)
dirtriderchick69 9 months ago
ZRaden is somewhat correct. I wont say that its all crap cause i get women off of there. However, ***Nothing beats interacting with them in the real world***. It a pub, coffee shop, library, movie shop, anything with your buddy. Just talk to them. Dont go up with the intention to date them, just talk and trust me someone will bite.
I know everyone is telling you about appearance, and its not that people are attacking you, but initially appearance does matter. it really does.
trinibwoy007 9 months ago
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trinibwoy007 9 months ago
Silverboyzzz is right, he knows what he is talking about. Dating is all about confidence. You need to be confident in yourself, and that means taking care of yourself. That includes looks. Im on PoF as well, now Im not the most attractive person in the world but I still get messaged.
I was the "nice" guys for many many years, it really doesnt work as a dating strategy. You need to be a bit mean initially, c ocky somewhat.
trinibwoy007 9 months ago
@trinibwoy007 Can someone please hit my brain's frontal lobe so I can be more cocky :P I don't necessarily agree with that advice, but I do know that if you can make her want you more than you want her, she's in your hands.
ccricers 9 months ago
@ccricers Its fine to disagree, there is no clean-cut strategy. Cocky not in the bad way but in the way that your confident with yourself. This video shows him kinda begging, althgouh he states in a "rant", its really more of a beg and look at me girls on youtube. You make her want you more than you want her, yes, I agree, however you need to her get to talk to you first right? Girls like they mystery, thus the cockiness makes them wonder "why is he not falling for me"
trinibwoy007 9 months ago
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trinibwoy007 9 months ago
@trinibwoy007 Exactly! Be confident, be cocky and love yourself. You attract bees with honey. If you're confident you are more attractive. When my GF and I go to a mall, restaurant, wherever, both of us get "checked out", I've been given numbers a few times but discarded them/turn it down since I'm with her (I've never been offered numbers, I would always have to ask) . When you feel good about yourself it shows!
silverboyzzz 9 months ago
@trinibwoy007 I agree the "nice guy" thing doesn't work. Remember what Charlie Sheen said "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. AWESOME GUYS FINISH ON HER FACE"
silverboyzzz 9 months ago
@silverboyzzz Not really. Nice guys finish last...ok fair enough, but bad/awesome guys never finish at all....they just keep going in circles until they die out. When you finish last, you get rewarded.
ksly2010 9 months ago
@ksly2010 you get rewarded with what??? Palmala? Wristina? Handrea?
silverboyzzz 9 months ago
@silverboyzzz Not at all....nice guys will live happily ever after with true love...bad boys DONT win at all! For example, my roomate was a bad boy(at 37yrs old). He could generally have sex with any woman he wants, but that lifestyle gets old quick! When he finally came "close" to true love, she dumped him. Later, that night,he went from a bad boy to a whinny little bitch. I also ended up on a suicide watch with him, which drove me NUTS. I was thinking this is a bad boy? Right...
ksly2010 9 months ago
@silverboyzzz This is the typical bad boy life...whether you know it or not, they are suffering at a magnitude beyond anything we can imagine(lonliness). Learn from my roomate...
ksly2010 9 months ago