We also need to remember that it is not only single mothers who are raising deadbeats! Deadbeats - or - the attitudes you referred to come also from married parent homes.
I have to agree with you on many things that you have said. I am a single mom who have never been married and i have 2 son's who are in college. You must put your foot down if you are a single mom. Set rules and stick to them. It is not easy but in the end it pays off when you stay on top of your children behavior. And yes you are NOT! your child friend you are the parent. A lot of single moms baby their sons to much. I don't like that you need to be tough on him he is not a female.
It is true fact that the sickly numbers of Black single mothers of THIS GENERATION are raising up a legion of stone cold loser Bitch ass young male childre. Wearing skinny jeans, goofy clothers, and pretty much wasting the oxygen of the atmosphere. Come to DC.
Man thank you so much because I made a similar video like this one but lost it on my hard drive!
You sparked it back in my brain.
I absolutely agree that it doesn't always take a 2 parent household but it does take Good Parents!
You can have 2 parents & if both are negative influences (like Menace 2 Society) then the child will still likely come out damaged, not in all cases though...
A REAL MAN doesn't just place his seeds around, he takes care of them (unless mom is a bitch)...
THANK YOU!! Somebody finally stood up said it right! :D
Man, you've got some great videos. I hope many people watch them, because vids like this one are ones that need to be viewed by everyone in my opinion. Your voice can change people for the better. At least, that's how I see it. :) And you speak so well too! I have the same viewpoints as you on these kinds of subjects but I couldn't express them as well as you do! Hell, I mostly rant. Some of it comes out coherent but the rest...meh. LOL
Well said my friend. And yes there is a double standard when it comes to rasing boys in comparision to girls. Alas what we see nowadys is the end results of those actions. I'm just glad my mother was smarter than that...ditto for my father to...somewhat..lol
thank you so much for this video. this is not just a problem with single moms. in the deep south and i see this and hear married redneck mothers talk exactly the same way about girls, i have a 30 yr. old son whom i didn't raise and my old fashion mother raised him with the double standard. whenever i confronted his bad behavior he claimed i didn't love him unconditionally. i feel that he didn't have to listen to me but his dad in canada taught him the same bad stuff. it makes me cry.
Great job as always Mr. Black. I too, was raised by a single mom, but I still had my father who just happend to live on the other side of town. While my dad was there for me, my mom did a tremendous job or raising my older brother and I. One thing my mom always stressed, was a good education, being a law-biding citizen and staying out of trouble!
Amen to that! It sounds like you had a great mom. You know the crazy part is when your dad can be right in your same house and you feel like he doesn't live there at all. It happens to so many people all the time. Just out of curiosity...what made you respect her? Was it just the way she built your relationship? Was it other sibling influences?
We also need to remember that it is not only single mothers who are raising deadbeats! Deadbeats - or - the attitudes you referred to come also from married parent homes.
imabusysinglemom 4 months ago
Haven't seen them in a while but you make some damn good videos brotha!
Very information rich & accurate.... Great job!
Lilart1981 5 months ago
BW need to stop having sex with low class BM!
BM need to stop being deadbeat dads, it's shameful how so many of you drop out of your kids life like it's normal!
DeeDeeTV 6 months ago
I have heard plenty of women who say that they don't want a man with a child
fmcneillii 6 months ago
I appreciate this post
missf24 7 months ago
Well said!
Gollyman1964 8 months ago
Alright now!
teri1994 11 months ago
Great points - Real Talk
WeKeepItRealTV 1 year ago
Mrcharlieblack, you really make some good points. I appreciate what you are doing here.
MsNJohnson 1 year ago
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! ESPECIALLY FOR GETTING AT THE MOMS OF THESE DEADBEATS!!!!!!
tage27 1 year ago
I have to agree with you on many things that you have said. I am a single mom who have never been married and i have 2 son's who are in college. You must put your foot down if you are a single mom. Set rules and stick to them. It is not easy but in the end it pays off when you stay on top of your children behavior. And yes you are NOT! your child friend you are the parent. A lot of single moms baby their sons to much. I don't like that you need to be tough on him he is not a female.
HarrietS100 2 years ago
It is true fact that the sickly numbers of Black single mothers of THIS GENERATION are raising up a legion of stone cold loser Bitch ass young male childre. Wearing skinny jeans, goofy clothers, and pretty much wasting the oxygen of the atmosphere. Come to DC.
palmares77 1 year ago 5
Man thank you so much because I made a similar video like this one but lost it on my hard drive!
You sparked it back in my brain.
I absolutely agree that it doesn't always take a 2 parent household but it does take Good Parents!
You can have 2 parents & if both are negative influences (like Menace 2 Society) then the child will still likely come out damaged, not in all cases though...
A REAL MAN doesn't just place his seeds around, he takes care of them (unless mom is a bitch)...
Lilart1981 2 years ago
they should of got an abortion ,1 less nigga in the streets!
verynice420 2 years ago
THANK YOU!! Somebody finally stood up said it right! :D
Man, you've got some great videos. I hope many people watch them, because vids like this one are ones that need to be viewed by everyone in my opinion. Your voice can change people for the better. At least, that's how I see it. :) And you speak so well too! I have the same viewpoints as you on these kinds of subjects but I couldn't express them as well as you do! Hell, I mostly rant. Some of it comes out coherent but the rest...meh. LOL
ARabbitNamedAmnesia 3 years ago
Well said my friend. And yes there is a double standard when it comes to rasing boys in comparision to girls. Alas what we see nowadys is the end results of those actions. I'm just glad my mother was smarter than that...ditto for my father to...somewhat..lol
MidnightWanderer 3 years ago
thank you so much for this video. this is not just a problem with single moms. in the deep south and i see this and hear married redneck mothers talk exactly the same way about girls, i have a 30 yr. old son whom i didn't raise and my old fashion mother raised him with the double standard. whenever i confronted his bad behavior he claimed i didn't love him unconditionally. i feel that he didn't have to listen to me but his dad in canada taught him the same bad stuff. it makes me cry.
MadameGarnet 3 years ago
Great job as always Mr. Black. I too, was raised by a single mom, but I still had my father who just happend to live on the other side of town. While my dad was there for me, my mom did a tremendous job or raising my older brother and I. One thing my mom always stressed, was a good education, being a law-biding citizen and staying out of trouble!
MetsMagic0416 3 years ago
Amen to that! It sounds like you had a great mom. You know the crazy part is when your dad can be right in your same house and you feel like he doesn't live there at all. It happens to so many people all the time. Just out of curiosity...what made you respect her? Was it just the way she built your relationship? Was it other sibling influences?
mrcharlieblack 3 years ago