Thanks for the video Ralph it gives me a good perspective on Japanese women, but if u want a J wife u should not go a one that dresses too sexy, go for at least a pretty one who is an okay dresser and mature My African buddy have been married to a japanese girl for 14yrs with J women if u want love look for one that want love but let her come to you
Loved your thoughts on this subject man. As far as the whole financial success differences, those should not matter either. Society has drilled these things so far into our minds that it causes some type of emotional response. It's crazy to think of the completely different cultural aspect of a relationship in Japan because im sure most if not all foreigners have a very small grasp of the expectations of a native person. Anyways keep on keepin on.
I have fallen to love once and since then I have learned to be in control of myself. Resisting attraction can be difficult but its just as easy as walking away or playing it safe.
@orangedac I tell everyone to listen to "Too Short, Ice Cube, and Snoop Dogg. There music, especially Too Short's, will be the best advice you can get. When you dating them the cultural differences will only arise if you try to get to personal. You are only dating. Have fun and be a man for as long as you can. They are good at what they do. Can't hate though.
@Atakumosa oh man cytology no fair you're choosing home court advantage lol ...ah time to fire up the old brain cells ..cytology was founded by robert hooke in either 1965 or 1665 (cant really remember) & further studied by schwann & schleiden ...wait a minute isnt cytology used in detecting cellular disease i dont see the connection between that & attraction , but its been awhile for me on this . its been fun talking to you whenever i mention this to others the usually go "HUHHHH" .
@Atakumosa Actually, either one is fine. It's just the stuff that you will have to go through with Biochemistry people that you will not face with Cellular ones. I made a video about it but it was way too real so I deleted it.
@Atakumosa agreed on what you said about pheromones triggering attraction in men & women but it is the release of the chemical serotonin in the brain that robs the person of their will for a bit , serotonin causes a kind of compulsive obessive disorder , thats why people experiancing infatuation cannot think of anyone else . so i guess you could say that the release of pheromones is a reaction in the body caused by the reaction in the brain .
and last but not least ..@GS350JPN ...i saw that video you were talking about "being human in japan" & yea i agree that guy victor was looking out to ambush you guys , he was looking for something , ANYTHING to pull down but rhymingaigin really took the highroad , loved his response . thumbs up guys & keep the videos coming .
@Atakumosa all emotion starts as a biologcal reaction in the brain ,anger , sadness , joy , can all be identified in the brain as chemical reaction BUT that is just the start what counts is how that reation effects the person & those around that person . when you look at a painting you dont go "oh that persons brain must have been really active that day "..you basically try to feel that persons emotion through the painting
lol this just proves my point ... love dose not exist. In relationships there is only attraction. Attraction can be created and lost in a instant. Learning how the female mind works will help out alot. Petty arguments in a relationship are subliminal messages saying she is losing attraction for you.
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 actually it does exist as my intelligent friend @Atakumosa pointed out , if you were to actually scan a couples that are deeply involved brains you can actually SEE the reactions in the brains , & yes there have been actual test to show this . say if partner "A" is shown a picture of their loved one you could see the reaction on the scan of the brain ....soooo ...not only does love exist but its also as much physical as emotional .
@yagdrasil The word love is so vague. It is like the word "do" in a question. Do you like to do it? Do what? Do you love her? What do you mean by "LOVE?" Saying "I love you" and fools are satisfied with that has destroyed communication to the core. I love my wife very much, but I rather say "Your lips are juicy." Than to say, "I love your lips?" Which will commence into a conversation. When My wive says "I love you" I have no idea what she is feeling. If she says "You are a great husband"
@yagdrasil I do not know how she feels either, but her words has created an emotional shake up that I can relate to or enjoy." I love you does not always do that. Most of the time "Thank you" end of conversation or "Why" displaying of ignorance on the listener does not allow for a constructive stress free conversation to blossom. OR maybe I imagined this to help me cope with living with a woman who will eventually look older that I will even though she is 8 years young than I am. It still good.
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Love does exist. Love is what causes the attraction to happen. But its a chemical reaction that weak people cant seem to take control of. Many people, especially Americans, react impulsively to their emotions and have no discipline. If people could just control themselves, failed relationships wouldnt happen as often. But I suppose it cant be helped.
i'm kinda confused by something you said ..you said you married but not for love but for the characteristics of the person but dones'nt that mean that you loved that particular characteristic in that person & in the end ...was in love .
@Cyber2Surfer Not quite the case. When you love you are reacting and not acting. You love the action that a person just acted. Your knowledge of the person has nothing to do with it. This is where people make mistakes. Not be cruel but wonder if you saw a woman who was dressed nice and your emotions went crazy, then let the heat out of her jeans and that was not all that came out, would you continue because you loved her or you are in heat. for lack of words, love is used. That is all. opinion.
@yagdrasil In the end is was the excitement that the characteristic caused in me. In Umeda there are hundreds of fine women walking around. How many times would you fall in love with the tight jeans caressing their legs and hips, the features of their lips, the way they walk, some with a 2 and a half dimensional butt, the smiles they project at you? It would definitely be more that one. Yes I would love the characteristics, smells (good ones), visual and so on. I fall in love constantly.
Thanks for the video Ralph it gives me a good perspective on Japanese women, but if u want a J wife u should not go a one that dresses too sexy, go for at least a pretty one who is an okay dresser and mature My African buddy have been married to a japanese girl for 14yrs with J women if u want love look for one that want love but let her come to you
heybaba77 1 week ago
Loved your thoughts on this subject man. As far as the whole financial success differences, those should not matter either. Society has drilled these things so far into our minds that it causes some type of emotional response. It's crazy to think of the completely different cultural aspect of a relationship in Japan because im sure most if not all foreigners have a very small grasp of the expectations of a native person. Anyways keep on keepin on.
StoicSamurai 2 weeks ago
Nice advice thx
Mikelee19942012 4 weeks ago
I have fallen to love once and since then I have learned to be in control of myself. Resisting attraction can be difficult but its just as easy as walking away or playing it safe.
thewillfulldreamer 3 months ago
good conversation man.
keep it coming.
i have this japanese girl wanting to go out with me but i ain't japanese and I'm a little worried about the cultural difference and what to expect.
orangedac 3 months ago
@orangedac I tell everyone to listen to "Too Short, Ice Cube, and Snoop Dogg. There music, especially Too Short's, will be the best advice you can get. When you dating them the cultural differences will only arise if you try to get to personal. You are only dating. Have fun and be a man for as long as you can. They are good at what they do. Can't hate though.
GS350JPN 3 months ago
Is your wife Japanese?
shenhua10 3 months ago
@shenhua10 Yes.
GS350JPN 3 months ago
hd :)
EbonyDollable 5 months ago
thay came back!??! wtf
maigono2010 5 months ago
@Atakumosa oh man cytology no fair you're choosing home court advantage lol ...ah time to fire up the old brain cells ..cytology was founded by robert hooke in either 1965 or 1665 (cant really remember) & further studied by schwann & schleiden ...wait a minute isnt cytology used in detecting cellular disease i dont see the connection between that & attraction , but its been awhile for me on this . its been fun talking to you whenever i mention this to others the usually go "HUHHHH" .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
@Atakumosa Actually, either one is fine. It's just the stuff that you will have to go through with Biochemistry people that you will not face with Cellular ones. I made a video about it but it was way too real so I deleted it.
LOL!
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Atakumosa agreed on what you said about pheromones triggering attraction in men & women but it is the release of the chemical serotonin in the brain that robs the person of their will for a bit , serotonin causes a kind of compulsive obessive disorder , thats why people experiancing infatuation cannot think of anyone else . so i guess you could say that the release of pheromones is a reaction in the body caused by the reaction in the brain .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
and last but not least ..@GS350JPN ...i saw that video you were talking about "being human in japan" & yea i agree that guy victor was looking out to ambush you guys , he was looking for something , ANYTHING to pull down but rhymingaigin really took the highroad , loved his response . thumbs up guys & keep the videos coming .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
@yagdrasil Thank you!
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Atakumosa all emotion starts as a biologcal reaction in the brain ,anger , sadness , joy , can all be identified in the brain as chemical reaction BUT that is just the start what counts is how that reation effects the person & those around that person . when you look at a painting you dont go "oh that persons brain must have been really active that day "..you basically try to feel that persons emotion through the painting
yagdrasil 5 months ago
lol this just proves my point ... love dose not exist. In relationships there is only attraction. Attraction can be created and lost in a instant. Learning how the female mind works will help out alot. Petty arguments in a relationship are subliminal messages saying she is losing attraction for you.
Cinnamonpoptarts1 5 months ago 2
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 actually it does exist as my intelligent friend @Atakumosa pointed out , if you were to actually scan a couples that are deeply involved brains you can actually SEE the reactions in the brains , & yes there have been actual test to show this . say if partner "A" is shown a picture of their loved one you could see the reaction on the scan of the brain ....soooo ...not only does love exist but its also as much physical as emotional .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
@yagdrasil The word love is so vague. It is like the word "do" in a question. Do you like to do it? Do what? Do you love her? What do you mean by "LOVE?" Saying "I love you" and fools are satisfied with that has destroyed communication to the core. I love my wife very much, but I rather say "Your lips are juicy." Than to say, "I love your lips?" Which will commence into a conversation. When My wive says "I love you" I have no idea what she is feeling. If she says "You are a great husband"
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@yagdrasil I do not know how she feels either, but her words has created an emotional shake up that I can relate to or enjoy." I love you does not always do that. Most of the time "Thank you" end of conversation or "Why" displaying of ignorance on the listener does not allow for a constructive stress free conversation to blossom. OR maybe I imagined this to help me cope with living with a woman who will eventually look older that I will even though she is 8 years young than I am. It still good.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 It takes a lot to keep things going. That's why keeping a dairy is good. LOL!
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 True. OR you don't treat me like you did when we first me. Or I am sleeping with your best friend or whatever. LOL!
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN I think it's about finding someone you can tolerate.
tokutom 3 weeks ago
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Love does exist. Love is what causes the attraction to happen. But its a chemical reaction that weak people cant seem to take control of. Many people, especially Americans, react impulsively to their emotions and have no discipline. If people could just control themselves, failed relationships wouldnt happen as often. But I suppose it cant be helped.
thewillfulldreamer 3 months ago
i'm kinda confused by something you said ..you said you married but not for love but for the characteristics of the person but dones'nt that mean that you loved that particular characteristic in that person & in the end ...was in love .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
@yagdrasil When you love a person, you accept EVERYTHING about the person.
Cyber2Surfer 5 months ago
@Cyber2Surfer Not quite the case. When you love you are reacting and not acting. You love the action that a person just acted. Your knowledge of the person has nothing to do with it. This is where people make mistakes. Not be cruel but wonder if you saw a woman who was dressed nice and your emotions went crazy, then let the heat out of her jeans and that was not all that came out, would you continue because you loved her or you are in heat. for lack of words, love is used. That is all. opinion.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@yagdrasil In the end is was the excitement that the characteristic caused in me. In Umeda there are hundreds of fine women walking around. How many times would you fall in love with the tight jeans caressing their legs and hips, the features of their lips, the way they walk, some with a 2 and a half dimensional butt, the smiles they project at you? It would definitely be more that one. Yes I would love the characteristics, smells (good ones), visual and so on. I fall in love constantly.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@leon8chicken. Cool! Lol.
GS350JPN 5 months ago