this is all happened when i was like 4 and i didnt understand now 10 almost 11 yrs have gone by and i understand all of it and ive grow up not having him i have no respect for him at all becuz i no what a dad is supposed to be becuz of my dad and now my father is trying to enter my life again and he is just causeing so much drama that i dont need becuz i just started high school and its pretty stressful and he expects me to want him in my life just cuz im his daughter
aww i'm so sorry to hear about this my father is like this to but luck enough i have my dad (who is really my step-dad but i call him my dad becuz he is more of a dad then my father ever will be to me) my father cheated on my mom when i was very young then ended up getting a devorce and me and my mom moved out we went through a lot and didnt have a lot of money and my father never cared to come see me or anything and one day he even said he did have to see me if he didnt want to. . .
My dad never hung around me and im...well...sorta the black sheep of the faimley i just sit on the computer and talk to my boyfriend all day.I have nobody else except for my teddy bear thats personal but honstly i dont sleep with it i just pull it out when i have no one to turn to. Im 14 and see nothing wrong with teddy bears ^^
If you seem happy and believe it works for you two, how can you expect him to be able to tell you are unhappy?? An involved father needs an involved daughter. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. ♥ It's never too late to try. Maybe even over time you can start involving yourself more in his life little-by-little, and in turn he will start involving himself into yours. This isn't a permanent break, it will just take time. Good luck with everything. <3
@KittyKraz13 Thank you for the advice: it's so true. Relationships are definitely two-sided, he's just the kind of person who acts like you're imposing on his space when you ask him to hang out, so it's kind of frustrating. I don't think I'll ever stop trying, though xD
@WoelfinStrikesBack93 ?! Excuse me if this offends you...but can I kick your father in the face? How dare he insult my friend ESPECIALLY in front of your brother?! That frustrates me soooo much DX Well, I love you and hope you have a wonderful Christmas; don't let your father's negativity ruin anything for you, my friend!
This is such a pretty video and such a great song <3 ^-^ And i'm sorry hon, that must be really hard. I know how much it tears you up. I have no dad and the stepdad who was with me since I was 1 ditched me and stole my brothers away from me when I was 13 and didn't even let me call or see them because of my mom and sister. Then my Mom ditched us all and moved states away. Not that it matters, she isn't and never was a mom so it makes no difference to me. My family doesn't much care about me :)
@CircleofLifex D: Oh, wow, dude! My whimpering looks like a little kid crying over spilled milk compared to that! I really hope something goes right and works out for you, to not have both parents...Without my mom I have no idea what I'd do. Good luck my my friend!
Oh i'm not trying to make my situation seem worse at all, everyone has there own problems of course ^-^ Thank you though, I don't know where i'd be without my husband though that's for certain haha. And thank you, you really made my day by being so kind! <3
Hnng. My Dad used to hate my guts and then I had this complete emotional breakdown and he's trying to be a better parent now...but I have no idea how to like...have a Dad, if that makes sense? It's so jarring for him to try to be a part of my life now. Anyway, I can relate a lot to this and I know a lot of people share that sentiment. Thanks for posting it.
@tribbleofdoom I totally know what you mean. It's just so much easier treating him like an uncle than a father. Like, he sits there and talks about how much he loves his kids and how important relationships are; it's the weirdest thing to hear him say things like that. Thank you so much for the comment, Tribbs, it really is an honor that you liked this vid :)
This is absolutely beautiful. And I know exactly how you feel. My dad was killed in the Mafia when I was 6 years old and I know how hard it is to see others enjoy their lives with a fatherly figure. Just keep your head high, and know it'll all be alright.
I dont know what i would do without my dad, so to hear that you and your father arent that close really breakes my heart! I hope someday you two will talk about this and work it out! One day he'll see that he will want to be involved in your life
I feel your pain man, same thing happened to me when I saw my friend with her mom
Storiesofheroes 2 months ago
this is all happened when i was like 4 and i didnt understand now 10 almost 11 yrs have gone by and i understand all of it and ive grow up not having him i have no respect for him at all becuz i no what a dad is supposed to be becuz of my dad and now my father is trying to enter my life again and he is just causeing so much drama that i dont need becuz i just started high school and its pretty stressful and he expects me to want him in my life just cuz im his daughter
NinjanateKitty 2 months ago
aww i'm so sorry to hear about this my father is like this to but luck enough i have my dad (who is really my step-dad but i call him my dad becuz he is more of a dad then my father ever will be to me) my father cheated on my mom when i was very young then ended up getting a devorce and me and my mom moved out we went through a lot and didnt have a lot of money and my father never cared to come see me or anything and one day he even said he did have to see me if he didnt want to. . .
NinjanateKitty 2 months ago
My dad never hung around me and im...well...sorta the black sheep of the faimley i just sit on the computer and talk to my boyfriend all day.I have nobody else except for my teddy bear thats personal but honstly i dont sleep with it i just pull it out when i have no one to turn to. Im 14 and see nothing wrong with teddy bears ^^
cintay1 2 months ago
If you seem happy and believe it works for you two, how can you expect him to be able to tell you are unhappy?? An involved father needs an involved daughter. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. ♥ It's never too late to try. Maybe even over time you can start involving yourself more in his life little-by-little, and in turn he will start involving himself into yours. This isn't a permanent break, it will just take time. Good luck with everything. <3
KittyKraz13 2 months ago
@KittyKraz13 Thank you for the advice: it's so true. Relationships are definitely two-sided, he's just the kind of person who acts like you're imposing on his space when you ask him to hang out, so it's kind of frustrating. I don't think I'll ever stop trying, though xD
bladethorn 2 months ago
Hmm, I guess I kinda know what you feel like.
I never really had a close relationship with my father and when he moved out 8 years ago everything that was left turned down.
While my brother lives with him today, he doesn´t even greet me when he sees me somewhere and even insults me in front of my brother...
Something that´s especially nice on christmas time.
So great video, dude, I hope your dad will realize your problems and try to do something against them =)
WoelfinStrikesBack93 2 months ago
@WoelfinStrikesBack93 ?! Excuse me if this offends you...but can I kick your father in the face? How dare he insult my friend ESPECIALLY in front of your brother?! That frustrates me soooo much DX Well, I love you and hope you have a wonderful Christmas; don't let your father's negativity ruin anything for you, my friend!
bladethorn 2 months ago
@bladethorn You want to kick him in the face? I´ll give a frickin map to his house! xD
You don´t even want to know what I´d like to do to my so called father >.<
Aww, that´s so nice of you! T^T *sniff*
Thank you; have a beautyful Christmas too, buddy! =)
WoelfinStrikesBack93 2 months ago
This is such a pretty video and such a great song <3 ^-^ And i'm sorry hon, that must be really hard. I know how much it tears you up. I have no dad and the stepdad who was with me since I was 1 ditched me and stole my brothers away from me when I was 13 and didn't even let me call or see them because of my mom and sister. Then my Mom ditched us all and moved states away. Not that it matters, she isn't and never was a mom so it makes no difference to me. My family doesn't much care about me :)
CircleofLifex 2 months ago 4
@CircleofLifex D: Oh, wow, dude! My whimpering looks like a little kid crying over spilled milk compared to that! I really hope something goes right and works out for you, to not have both parents...Without my mom I have no idea what I'd do. Good luck my my friend!
bladethorn 2 months ago 5
Oh i'm not trying to make my situation seem worse at all, everyone has there own problems of course ^-^ Thank you though, I don't know where i'd be without my husband though that's for certain haha. And thank you, you really made my day by being so kind! <3
CircleofLifex 2 months ago
Wonderful job, what program did you use?
stingerscorpi 2 months ago
@stingerscorpi I use Sony Vegas Movie Studios 9 :) Thank you.
bladethorn 2 months ago
Hnng. My Dad used to hate my guts and then I had this complete emotional breakdown and he's trying to be a better parent now...but I have no idea how to like...have a Dad, if that makes sense? It's so jarring for him to try to be a part of my life now. Anyway, I can relate a lot to this and I know a lot of people share that sentiment. Thanks for posting it.
tribbleofdoom 2 months ago 20
@tribbleofdoom I totally know what you mean. It's just so much easier treating him like an uncle than a father. Like, he sits there and talks about how much he loves his kids and how important relationships are; it's the weirdest thing to hear him say things like that. Thank you so much for the comment, Tribbs, it really is an honor that you liked this vid :)
bladethorn 2 months ago
...-faves-
Don't think I forgot about you :( I hope things will pass easy for you.. -pats-. Be safe Blade. And stay strong.
Firewerwolve 2 months ago 4
This is absolutely beautiful. And I know exactly how you feel. My dad was killed in the Mafia when I was 6 years old and I know how hard it is to see others enjoy their lives with a fatherly figure. Just keep your head high, and know it'll all be alright.
DarkWolf267 2 months ago
@DarkWolf267 Losing your father literally has to be worse than losing your father emotionally...I hope you're doing alright, and thank you :)
bladethorn 2 months ago
I dont know what i would do without my dad, so to hear that you and your father arent that close really breakes my heart! I hope someday you two will talk about this and work it out! One day he'll see that he will want to be involved in your life
Sneakylass 2 months ago
aaaww
Drayckar 2 months ago
This reminds me of my dad...He literally signed himself out of my life when I was eleven.... Many sleepless nights.
aleesharose1997 2 months ago 10