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  • Welcome to the future of America. Such powerful insights! So articulate! This country is so fucked.

  • i thought it was paul pierce before i clicked the video

  • I like your damn explanations.

  • WATCH MY VERSION OF HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN!!!

    IM NOT SAYIN HE DOESNT GIVE GOOD ADVICE

    BUT MY VIDEO IS MORE ANIMATED AND COMICAL WITH REAL ADVICE

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  • Guys must step to girls that they want. If she is not feeling you, than move on to the next one.

  • this is pretty good actaully...

  • " hello, how are you doing? my name is Temple christian. its a pleasure to meet you. Or whasss good ma, how are you. I mean i got it all. dass really nothing, i can say whatever i want.... " he kills me when he says that ahaahha

    dis guy is my dudeeeee...

  • ure somecalled cockiness is extremely sexy to me

  • I agree.

  • Real TalK!

  • i love u!!!!!

  • you contradict your self sometimes...your need to check your speech before posting it. However, you make some great points though. hope men pay attention.

  • You got game Bruh!!!!!!!!!

  • My problem is she shows signs of interest but will not contribute anything to a conversation? And then when I go and start talking to someone else I get this look from her like what the f#^k !

    Is there something I'm not seeing?

  • @xclusiv118 She liked you, but felt like you couldn't relate to the things she wanted to talk about, so instead she kept quiet. She made that look because she wanted you to take the time out to really get to know her and to find out what her interests are. You talking to another person probably made her feel like you were taking a cheap way out and never really liked her from the beginning.

  • What if you already know her name and she kinda know yours. And how to start a conversation.

  • haahah, this nigha haves a mouth peicee handss downnn

  • confidence is key, but cockiness is annoying, there has to be some subtleness going on.

  • It starts with knowing your self worth. No woman can shake you or anger you if she is blind to what you have to offer. Black men have to also learn to open the set instead of throwing out pickup lines.

  • Aint no woman heaven and earth, problem dudes face in stepping to a woman, is by putting females on a pedestal before even approaching her..

    She eats sleeps, her shit probably stink worse than yours, so what's there to be scared off.

  • brotha, you missing the point here.

  • What point is that

  • This is about the nice women, the 'heaven on earth' women who are worth being worshipped, the way a strong worthy beautiful brother is. This isn't about the bitches, hoes and any other hoodrat you might tap - they're only worth the value of the orgasm you'll get.

  • i completely agree with u..the type of guy that sees that the way u do will get the girl thats worth while in the end..

  • i know i have a great since of humor and im a very transparent guy but why do i still feel doubt with women like i may get dissed

  • i agree with everything he said except for the part when he said a women is heaven on earth, so then what is man? men and women are equal. Alot of Men elevate the female soo much that they' fear to approach.

  • we s'pose to elevate each other.

    women should say the same thing about men

    and men say as he did.

    easy

  • i know right he says it like we are supposed to kiss the fukin ground a bitch walks on

  • Exactly. i wouldnt necessarily call females bitches though.

  • aint nothin wrong wit callin whores bitches....

  • Not all females are whores.

  • did I say that all of them was mydude? if i did my bad cause thats making a generalization..and i cant say that cause i aint met everywoman..but thats just my slang and how the hood refer to a female

  • yes they are....ur are retarded!

  • yo nahh son...aiight listen...a women is jus a woman...she just a bitch...thats all...all dat heaven on earth bullshit..i dont agree wit that all...sayin "she heaven on earth"' thats puttin them harlots on a pedastal....dont do that...i aint even a women hater or wateva..but it is what the fuck it is...

  • @DpLogan I agree. He sounds like a simp with that heaven on earth garbage. The last thing we need is these women getting their head bigger than what it is. I agree that a man should be confident but brown nosing women is negative in my book.

  • bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks....while yall worried about a bitch im gettin dough...

  • nigga

    i doubt that

    and we aint talkin about bitches

    were talking about woman.

  • my dude stay speakin da truth on this shyt

  • This video is proper. It can't get realer than this. To get pussy u need to show confidence and show to fear to a woman.

  • your sexy is showing. :wink:

  • bad girl

  • You speak the truth dawg, 100% true

  • But, i cant find my confidence

  • FIND THAT SHIT....YOU CAN DO IT.

  • you forgot to mention "body language" playboy...

    lil niggaz take notes! LMAO

  • your confidence is shown by your body language, he didnt have to say that! :-/

  • come correct fo, straighgt up real talk foeva

  • you are a knowledgeable brother! fist video i've watched but i already am looking forward to the book.

    stay blessed

  • "Not every woman is meant to see my truth!!"

    FELLAS REMEMBER THAT MORE THAN ANYTHING!

    Looking forward to the Book.

  • I approach women with the same thing my dad used to bring me into this world...

  • i look my best everyday just in case lol hahahah !!!!

  • bullshit ,its all about having what she wants, if u do she will take ANYTHING U HAVE good bad whatever ( the confidence comes with knowing that she really digs u ) ! why u making these guys hope that they can go out there and get what they want when its all about her looking for what she wants ?

  • thanks man.

  • Thank you for saying this!!!!!!!!!!!

  • The black man's guide on how to pick up "fe-males":

    "Yo yo yo!"

    "Aay bay bay!"

    "Ay shawtay!! Lemme holla at you fo a minute!"

    "Damn grrrl look at all dat ass! Can I get in dem jeans?!"

  • the gettho rats guide on how to pick up "fe-males"

    too bad you can't edit your comments on youtube...But that,s good ...makes you look like an ass for as long as the vid is up :)

  • this was on sum daddy shit lol but its true should of came more correct wit this one

  • Your vids are really a blessing. Real talk, humor, and wisdom all rolled into one. Much respect.

  • ohh i like that what you said at.. 4:20.

  • lol @ in between her thighs she has heaven on earth

  • It's a pleasure to meet you too Temple Christian.. ^_^

  • MY Favorite pick up line is "Girl who is you playin wiff back dat ASS up!!!!"

  • The black man's guide to picking up "fe-males" PART DEUX:

    "Ay bitch come here! Lemme get dem digits!"

    "I got money in the bank shawty what you drank!

    To be continueed...

  • The black man's guide on how to pick up "fe-males":

    "Yo yo yo!"

    "Aay bay bay!"

    "Ay shawtay!! Lemme holla at you fo a minute!"

    "Damn grrrl look at all dat ass! Can I get in dem jeans?!"

    *edit

  • LOL

  • The black man's guide on how to pick up "fe-males"

    "Yo yo yo!"

    "Aay bay bay!"

    "Ay shawtay!! Lemme holla at you fo a minute!"

    "Damn grrrl look at all dat ass! Can I get in dem jeans?!"

  • DOMASS!!!

  • nice

  • This is only half of the reason.

  • Good points bra, but I like to add that it takes practice too. Hood thugs, pimps and ladies man always practice. The practice builds skills that build the confidence. The shy guys and quiet guys don't practice and get beat at the game.

  • GOod Shit as always man keepem comin bein ureself is always watchu needa do and bein confident bout it.

  • I am with you on this!!! I found out my sophomore year of college that a young man that i went to high school with was interested in me. Unfortunately for him, he was (is) shy, withdrawn, scared basically. He never approached me neither did he lead on that he was interested during that time. So, needless to say, when i was told that he liked me, i did not want him.

  • amen. heaven on earth my nig

  • this is so true.

    all you guys need to pay attention to this. oh, and ASK FOR HER NAME BEFORE YOU ASK FOR HER NUMBER

    i also love the way you say process lol

    much love xx

  • Luff the waii yooh say process:D lol Ohhh this is alll true (L)

  • Yes we love a CONFIDENT MAN! We can sense a man with low self esteem. GOOD ADVICE! Listen brothers!

  • You're brilliant!

  • "It is our job to step to them" yes...please remind these boys!

  • @BlackGyrl87 Girlll ya'll want us to put the seat back down, and come step to ya'll... lazy

  • Now that's what I'm talking about a man with a plan and action. Thanks for posting.

  • Wow-you are good!! I give you ten thumbs up! LOL

  • hey partna and thanks for great advice about the ladies cause i'm real confident to talk to woman even hold good conversation with her

  • cool

  • Here's a tip. Don't step to a woman while she's concentrating or shopping for the perfect outfit. You will either scare her or piss her off. LOL, hope that helps.

  • LOL

  • Okay! lol Tell'em again

  • juz one of da best tipz.keep up da work bro...i needa learn mo...im juz a yungin at 13 yrz old...tryin pikup a gurl

  • confidence is key homie!

  • yo u real brother i like this video

  • A+ video!

  • Confidence is the key, you are on point with that. Your channel should be called Real Talk... with yo cool azz. :)

  • BEAUTIFULLY said!!

  • Another great vid.

  • Real respect real. Woman to a man? That was just generally true but relevant. Take notes fellas..please. I implore you even!

  • Your pushing out perfect blueprints here lol. Truly on point advice.

  • I really dont like men approaching me at ALL. It doesn't matter what they say or how they look. I cant holla at a stranger that approaches me because the only thing he knows about me is that I'm cute. I meet men through other friends or at work etc. They have to know me unromantically for a while before I can see them as a mate. Is that wrong?

    Good video, TC. 5 stars.

  • If a man approaches you, it COULD mean that he likes what he sees on the exterior and now; he wants to get to know your personality. Can you really knock a man for that? You say you meet men through other friends or at work etc. What do you HONESTLY think your friend's friend is going to say first? "How does she look?" Now I'm saying ALL men are like that. But, I would say the majority are.

  • And TECHNICALLY your friend's buddy is still a stranger to you, because a stranger is a person with whom one has had no PERSONAL acquaintance. Even though, your friend knows him, you have yet to encounter his presence. Just because a man thinks your cute, it doesn't mean you're the only one that caught his eye... trust me mama. But the fact that he approached you COULD mean that he wants to see beyond that.

  • All in all, I still like your message... it shows that you're a strong woman, and it would be hard for a guy to play you because you are aware. SO you're not "wrong" you're just very cautious, which is good to a certain extent. I've said too much, I will leave this one to the doctor... where you at T?? lol

    Samantha<33

  • T would probably say: They just aren't saying the right things when they approach you. LOL!

    It could be that I'm TOO cautious. Maybe I scare the good ones away because I automatically look like I don't want to hear it when they catch eye contact with me. I have cussed several people out for approaching me in cars like I'm a hooker. Makes me so mad! LOL! Perhaps I shall lighten up in the future. I aint gettin no younger afterall! LOL!

  • Yeah, I feel ya. Most of the people I hook up with I do know something about their interests, so that helps a little. I guess it's hard to differentiate between the ones who just want sex or the ones who want somebody to spiritually relate to when you get approached by strangers on the street that say: "Dayum, girl! You look gooood!" It just pisses me off sometimes, that's all. hehehe!

  • LOL! I hear that mama! But you'll never know what seed will bloom into something beautiful, if you don't plant them. By that I mean, sometimes it's good to take the risk... even if it does mean going through a couple of rotten seeds. Because at the end, all you're gaining is experience and then you will know how to choose your seeds wisely. But you'll never truly know what you want in a man if you shut yourself down to all men. You get the idea love... lol Keep ya head up!

    Samantha<33

  • would you rather they say omg put a mask on! take the complement and challenge us to follow up. say ok I look good now what?

  • lol...so true and so funny! :)

  • lmao.. u are a damn trip!! loved it!

    -whit-

  • Great video.I love Confidence in a man but I hate Cockiness.Some people get confused on that.I hate a man that thinks he's God's gift to women.

  • What about Will Smith

  • Confidence is an attractive trait for men and women to have.

    Its something that is obvious and seeps through your pores.

    But...what about a woman that has been labeled "intimidating"??

    I get this a lot and it causes some people I'd be interested in *when i wasnt attached..lemme clarify that..lol* to go in the other direction.

    You think its their lack of confidence and they could be using "intimidating" as a lame excuse??

    Hmmmm.....

  • the determination and the means to follow through to do you and make good business and not to mention the great long sex drive is what turns me on. you have to be confident for all of the above to happen.suaveness will keep my interest to a line it with intelligence and common sense as well as street smarts.

  • Man, you give good advice. I also got to say. that beat that always come at the end of your vids be fire.

  • correction: real talk from an intelligent mature young BLACK man...

  • Hmm...I see it was no mistake to subscribe to your channel...you have a very sensible, respectful head on your shoulders and your advice is on-point...real talk from an intelligent, mature young man...youtube aint ready for ya bruh...

  • There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. I love a strong and confident man. But I don't find anything attractive about a man who approaches me as if he is "God's gift" and I am lucky to be in his presence. It is also unattractive for a man to act as if I am disposable.

  • you looked so sexy in this vid!

  • Great vids T...loves that northern accent *grin*

  • 01:29 - 1:30 made me say "DAMN!!!!" you are one smooth talker Temple

  • confidence.. and great conversing always gets me..lol

  • first of all don't step to a girl if you anit got your stuff together ; that is , you need to have a jod, homie .

  • o my god i love these vids of your so glad you found me cuz they are so educational and i cant wait for the another parts to come =]

  • great advice man

  • definitely confidence is so sexy.

    love ya temple!

  • As usual..good advice and I agree totally. The mature woman will want to be approached by a confident man who knows what she's about. We want to support and love who you already are, not build you from scratch! (Mature women that is..)

  • I agree fully. Hunters of the hunter=) I was just reading last night about wild animals, and noticed how much they are like humans.The male competes for her attention and will display their abilities, in the end the female chooses the best suited. Love your video as always=)

  • i no how to step to womam,don,t she will come,hahah i am 1000% a man you no what i mean

  • To say the least, you are just too much. Lol. You are absolutey right. A man steppin' to a woman without confidence is like telling her, " I don't know who I am and trust me, you really don't need me in your life."

  • where is the KING magazine display, i started to look for it when you where talking about playboy x i love your videos x

  • LOL...thought I was the only one that noticed that!!! We be looking tooooooooo hard!

  • loool his house looks nice can you blame us !

  • TC`s the truth. no bullshit.

  • I'm glad you rephrased that twice. I've had to explain to several men that just because I am what they want and they are technically "a good man", they may not be MY good man and vice versa.

  • For the first couple of points, I concur FO' REAL! The huntress concept is somewhat new to me, although I have seen it in films(but then again, a lot of guys write the scripts). Yet I would imagine that a lady could prove quite the hunter if she wanted to!

  • i no girls like confidence but dont they have a limit to it, like if your so confident your a arrogant cocky s.o.b. it becomes worser then being shy doesn't it?

    good vid though :)

  • There is a rhythm to approaching a woman and some men don't have rhythm. If you tune into the rhythm of the womana and how she is vibing with you that will help a man as well. But if a man has not found his own rhythm or his rhythm is too fast then he is always going to have problems.

  • Ok. Imma need you not to tell those XY chromosome species how we think. Thats taking the fun away from us! lol

  • LOVED it

  • Agreed! Looking forward to the rest of the series. Love your raw, undiluted, realness. I find some of your words too strong, (in my opinion, vulgar) but I stay tuned because it is information that I need. Thank you!

  • I do sincerely apologize for the vulgarity of my words, but I need to be as raw as possible to drill it into the thick skulls of men. I know mine is thick, so it is what it is. So ladies please forgive me if I offend any of you, because it is certainly not my intention.

    1Luv,

    GurlTalkkTV

  • No offense taken, ladies should know by now that what people say isnt necessarily what they are thinking. Not all men are dogs, but most of them fall short where vocabulary is concerned. No offense to anyone in particular...well, off glass, I could think of a few! lol

  • oh well, almost first lol. I'm lovin your show

  • yay first comment lol. I love your show!!

  • I'm first today. Hi Temple;o).

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