my opinion: a woman is a human she is flesh and blood just like a man there is no diffrence at all a man should be able to tell his side just the same as her the way people see a woman as a victim all the time is absurd it actully irritates me a little but anyway before i ramble on forever i just leave it at that
The problem with this issue was, that too many people got involved. Whatever was between him and her, it is personal, so in some part it is her fault posting those video. If he is guilty, keep it personal, go to the court, bash him there and put him in jail, and to post videos on you tube, seeking for cover from people who may or may not be complete idiots. Maybe he did hit her, but it is none of my business, as far as I am concerned, he makes good videos, and his personal life is his matter.
my view is that if you attack your other half then what else are you capable of? do you think that before o.j killed his wife and the other bloke, he thought he was capable of it?
What I find most disturbing is how quickly a few male v-bloggers came out, threatening Blunty with violence on their videos. It was like they were waiting for a reason to flex their violent tendency. In that regard, I do not think Blunty is the only person who needs anger management.
to put it simply im glad blunty is not a part of my family or friend circles :) and no its not human beating up someone, hes an aggressive man you see the way he behaves and acts in his vids there is this undercurrent og really scary "vibes" i know my father was the same and i havent spoken to him in near a decade. i hope no one will live with him and put up with his shit.
I really want to thank you for voicing your opinion. I know sometimes it can be daunting to make counterclaims on a video that opposes your own view.
I don't consider "beating up" as the most appropriate term but I can totally understand your viewpoint. I however don't agree that he should be alone. As my cousin mentioned, anger management should be a required class taught in high school. People are ill-prepared for preventing relationships from getting to that point.
To get angry to the point where your frustrations become physical is totally human. It's very natural. It is, however, deemed inappropriate by society and from the viewpoint of a standard code of ethics.
It is my strong belief that it is possible to be put into a situation of extreme enough anger to where you lash out at the target of your aggression; no matter who you are. The trick is to never get there. Do you agree?
Its truly hard for a percen to have controll over him or her self when just every litle detail is used against him or her. Even the most unvilent people lose controll PS sory for my spelling
good point, erm erm erm. did people actually want you to unsubscribe to him. man, whonever asked you to unsubscribe are total idiots like the lesbo. i mean erm erm erm. whoops
You got a point . Alvys when a mean and a woman have a fite its usualy the means fault and well the woman can get more easly backd up then a mean because a woman sometimes makes such a scean out of it that others just feal sad for her and forget to look at both sides thats what i think so please if you want to correct me please do.
The man made a mistake. A common mistake even (domestic abuse has, unfortunately, become quite common). He acknowledged his error, he apologised.
The woman is now abusing her 'weaker position' in society (sexism of this kind is very inherent into modern-day culture) to ruin the man's life. He doesn't deserve this. He isn't a murderer or anything worse.
I agree with everything you say except for ONE GIANT AND KEY POINT: "become quite common". It only seems more common now with the enhanced forms of communication like the internet. If anything, I'd say there is less domestic abuse now than before. I can't back that with evidence but it is my hypothesis.
Hmmm, you have a good point. In older times domestic abuse was much more behind closed doors and kindof a taboo topic. In modern times things get publicised much more, so yeah, we get the illusion it happens more, didn't think about that.
I don't know if there would be less abuse. Care to elaborate on that hypothesis? ^^
i really agree with you on this about a person getting second chances for something like that....the guys that hit women should be punished for what they do to that woman but it shouldn't totally destroy that guys life if he is genuinely sorry for what he has done...and also as you said nothing will really be forgiven by just saying I'm sorry they need to continually say I'm sorry if the woman still talks to them...its great to hear what you think about and you should do it more often
i dont think this blunty should be punished so severly as to basically having to sit in a chair all day and not do what he enjoys...
people make mistakes? and if anyone else were in his shoes they'd want to continue doing what they like to do.
as for hitting a woman basically i look at it as if the bitch just goes crazy and starts knocking the shit out of you... beat her ass but if you fuck up and she hits you basically just gotta take it :/.
Even if a woman starts attacking you for no reason you can't fight back really. And I'm not complaining about that. I'm not trying to be sexist here but a reasonably fit man is around three times as strong as a reasonably fit woman. Except for a few key locations and a few specific attacks, a woman cannot hurt a man. In fact they are more likely to hurt themselves when trying.
The most a man should ever do is pin the woman, but carefully. Try not to cut off any circulation.
While I agree to some extent Arm4gg3d0nX, I don't agree that a women is allowed to hit a man nor do I agree that they cannot hurt one. While it is very true that men are stronger and could hurt a woman more, we can still be injured by punches and kicks. I'm not talking about hits to the groin. Straight kicks to the leg/knee can break bone if you're unlucky/have it planted with some weight on it and punches to the face could break your nose or damage an eye.
I never said they were allowed to hit us. I'm saying if they do.
If you do a straight kick just under the knee and it's locked yes I believe that a fit woman could probably break something. Of course she could damage an eye, a kid can damage an eye.
Much like the leg kick, a strong punch to the nose would have to be completely unexpected. Can it break the nose? Hmmm, probably, I know I'm not going to volunteer to find out.
I'm not going to pretend to know any form of martial arts. I know a somewhat rare stance (and other things). With any level of readiness, a man could get in such a stance and be basically invulunerable. I've always wanted to test that theory though on the stance I know. ^_^
I'm all for talking/runing away ect, if attacked but at the same time if those are not good options (for any number of reasons) then I believe in everyone's right to defend themself regardless of gender.
I didn't mean to imply that you were saying a women was allowed to hit (I would have said much more but the stupid character limit kills me), more like hit without being able to defend oneself.
As for kicking, while it does need to be a bit of a lucky hit, it does not take alot of strength. Most of the force is generated through positioning and proper movement. An adult female is more then able to break an adult males leg in a fight.
It's hard for anyone to do usually no matter how stong you are because if the leg isn't planted and has room to "recoil" from the hit, then alot of the force is absorbed by that movement. If it is planted then the leg has nowhere to go and all of that force (I'd need to look it up again but I once saw a math equation on it) is applied directly to the bone.
As for the overall topic I completely agree that one should not be destroyed for past mistakes nor should society have the views they currently have on this issue. I saw a documentary a while back about child custody (women amost always get the child over the man) in which the father was assaulted with a baseball bat and could do nothing about it.
Frankly I'm all for gender equallity but I firmly beleive it goes both ways.
Well I'm trying to show that even without a weapon a fight is dangerous and should be treated as such. You stop your opponent, period. The fact that this is dangerous for a man based entirely on societies views is wrong IMO.
I'm probably just a little crazy then. I love it at the beach when my cousins, my other cousins son, and all their friends (current age group 13-15) are around. I'm always like, "Everyone! Take me on! I won't fight back." Then they stand there tryin' to punch me or knock me down. I teach them how to follow through with a punch, etc, it's a blast.
After we are all tired I always remind them that it's only acceptable because I know they can't hurt me and that we aren't being violent.
And it is mostly safe, they are not trying to really hurt you (ie eyes/throat) and you're a fair bit larger then they are (this I'm not sure on, being larger helps but is not completely foolproof). If you got unlucky you could still break something but that's life, you could break a toe getting out of the tub/shower.
lol 'key locations' 'specific attacks', i think that more than account for men being stronger than women. One kick in the right place and we are down for the count!
wow this is exactly what I wanted to tell everyone. oviously she wanted bluntys life to be destroyed. thanks for making this video it said alot about what i was thinking about the situation ;)
this is happening to my sister and her boyfriend... i dont know whos fault it is though...i hope they dont break up cuz my sister is going to yell at ME for hanging out with him
You see this sometimes in younger case aswell like the brother does something to the sister and she over exaggerates it and gets him into big trouble for something she should avoid by not egging him on.
I think this is a case of extreme feminism, like when they organized protests so they can breastfeed in public. If a man makes a mistake and loses control of himself once, he is considered a criminal. I think there should be a margin of forgiveness. She didn't lose an arm or a leg, she has a bruise which will heal. He will have to apologize for months and bring chocolates etc. but it shouldn't be the end of his career or life.
He was filled with anger to the point where he couldn't stand still. He was able to shield her from a vast majority of the anger but it doesn't take much to hurt someone, especially a woman. That's the best way to describe it.
I agree with you 100% Arm. It's human nature to be mad about this kind of thin but to totally disassociate yourself from someone because of it is way over the line. Loss of social interaction is not the right price to pay for one mistake, even one like domestic abuse(is that the right term?). However, I do wonder what the RIGHT response would be. What do you feel?
1. Honest admission of whatever fault the offender had.
2. Genuine remorse and apology.
3. The vow that it will never happen again.
4. The willingness to re-apologize to the individual (not random people) as many times or however long from now the victim asks.
If all four of these things are followed, while they are followed, those unrelated to the situation directly should not let it taint their impression of the offender.
my opinion: a woman is a human she is flesh and blood just like a man there is no diffrence at all a man should be able to tell his side just the same as her the way people see a woman as a victim all the time is absurd it actully irritates me a little but anyway before i ramble on forever i just leave it at that
GensokyoDefender 1 year ago
The problem with this issue was, that too many people got involved. Whatever was between him and her, it is personal, so in some part it is her fault posting those video. If he is guilty, keep it personal, go to the court, bash him there and put him in jail, and to post videos on you tube, seeking for cover from people who may or may not be complete idiots. Maybe he did hit her, but it is none of my business, as far as I am concerned, he makes good videos, and his personal life is his matter.
Besko666 2 years ago
how did everyone find out?
liamweight 2 years ago
She made a bunch of videos.
Arm4g3dd0nX 2 years ago
my view is that if you attack your other half then what else are you capable of? do you think that before o.j killed his wife and the other bloke, he thought he was capable of it?
jharristheyamyam 2 years ago
The next question becomes, who is not capable of doing something awful when pushed to their limits?
Arm4g3dd0nX 2 years ago
true. i wouldnt judge anyone without knowing the whole story and have no idea what happened to make blunty do it.
jharristheyamyam 2 years ago
I Want To Know Who Is Blunty3000 Is Can You Tell Me Pls
LordKacj 2 years ago
Ever try a Google search?
Arm4g3dd0nX 2 years ago
Nope
LordKacj 2 years ago
Google?
What's that?
Sounds a lot of fun. :)
MrXevier 2 years ago
lol
LordKacj 2 years ago
This is YouTube, my good sir.
This is an internet idiot gathering spot.
1 popular person makes a mistake, everyone treats them like they're the reincarnation of Hitler.
RandomProduct 3 years ago 6
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Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
Also agreed.
Just because someone did something wrong in some situation, even if they're famous, this shouldn't be a motive to threat them like shit.
We're just humans, and humans do mistakes.
Also, people overreact.
MmSTM 2 years ago
Nah, its just that the most of the people in internet are pieces of shit, always talking shit but not backing it up with actions.
Mec296 2 years ago
@RandomProduct
Like Crytek's Crysis 2, and EA's Origin.
shpladau 8 months ago
Who's Blunty3000?
Kimahri09 3 years ago
There are 143,000 results from a Google search. I would start there for your answer.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
What I find most disturbing is how quickly a few male v-bloggers came out, threatening Blunty with violence on their videos. It was like they were waiting for a reason to flex their violent tendency. In that regard, I do not think Blunty is the only person who needs anger management.
SpankingTheMickey 3 years ago
to put it simply im glad blunty is not a part of my family or friend circles :) and no its not human beating up someone, hes an aggressive man you see the way he behaves and acts in his vids there is this undercurrent og really scary "vibes" i know my father was the same and i havent spoken to him in near a decade. i hope no one will live with him and put up with his shit.
faszika 3 years ago
I really want to thank you for voicing your opinion. I know sometimes it can be daunting to make counterclaims on a video that opposes your own view.
I don't consider "beating up" as the most appropriate term but I can totally understand your viewpoint. I however don't agree that he should be alone. As my cousin mentioned, anger management should be a required class taught in high school. People are ill-prepared for preventing relationships from getting to that point.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
To get angry to the point where your frustrations become physical is totally human. It's very natural. It is, however, deemed inappropriate by society and from the viewpoint of a standard code of ethics.
It is my strong belief that it is possible to be put into a situation of extreme enough anger to where you lash out at the target of your aggression; no matter who you are. The trick is to never get there. Do you agree?
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
about the unforgiving people... that is so accurate, ive lost my best friend because she couldnt forgive me that i cared about her, uuuh ;]
generau666 3 years ago
Its truly hard for a percen to have controll over him or her self when just every litle detail is used against him or her. Even the most unvilent people lose controll PS sory for my spelling
Tman0x99 3 years ago
women bruise easily how do u know DUH DUH DUUUUUH joking
supermario8745 3 years ago
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thegangstajordan14 3 years ago
Who, me? I think I stated it pretty clearly in the video.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
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thegangstajordan14 3 years ago
That is the wrong question.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
good point, erm erm erm. did people actually want you to unsubscribe to him. man, whonever asked you to unsubscribe are total idiots like the lesbo. i mean erm erm erm. whoops
thegangstajordan14 3 years ago
You got a point . Alvys when a mean and a woman have a fite its usualy the means fault and well the woman can get more easly backd up then a mean because a woman sometimes makes such a scean out of it that others just feal sad for her and forget to look at both sides thats what i think so please if you want to correct me please do.
Tman0x99 3 years ago
I completely agree with you Arm4g3dd0nX.
nice video.
blueinckproductions 3 years ago
The man made a mistake. A common mistake even (domestic abuse has, unfortunately, become quite common). He acknowledged his error, he apologised.
The woman is now abusing her 'weaker position' in society (sexism of this kind is very inherent into modern-day culture) to ruin the man's life. He doesn't deserve this. He isn't a murderer or anything worse.
Anyway, I completely agree with you Arma.
BoomlalaMetrotab 3 years ago
I agree with everything you say except for ONE GIANT AND KEY POINT: "become quite common". It only seems more common now with the enhanced forms of communication like the internet. If anything, I'd say there is less domestic abuse now than before. I can't back that with evidence but it is my hypothesis.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
Hmmm, you have a good point. In older times domestic abuse was much more behind closed doors and kindof a taboo topic. In modern times things get publicised much more, so yeah, we get the illusion it happens more, didn't think about that.
I don't know if there would be less abuse. Care to elaborate on that hypothesis? ^^
BoomlalaMetrotab 3 years ago
Well anger management classes and the fear of getting caught are new entrants in the domestic abuse scenario.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
i really agree with you on this about a person getting second chances for something like that....the guys that hit women should be punished for what they do to that woman but it shouldn't totally destroy that guys life if he is genuinely sorry for what he has done...and also as you said nothing will really be forgiven by just saying I'm sorry they need to continually say I'm sorry if the woman still talks to them...its great to hear what you think about and you should do it more often
hollowbleach2 3 years ago
i agree to an extent...
i dont think this blunty should be punished so severly as to basically having to sit in a chair all day and not do what he enjoys...
people make mistakes? and if anyone else were in his shoes they'd want to continue doing what they like to do.
as for hitting a woman basically i look at it as if the bitch just goes crazy and starts knocking the shit out of you... beat her ass but if you fuck up and she hits you basically just gotta take it :/.
wthNOname 3 years ago
Even if a woman starts attacking you for no reason you can't fight back really. And I'm not complaining about that. I'm not trying to be sexist here but a reasonably fit man is around three times as strong as a reasonably fit woman. Except for a few key locations and a few specific attacks, a woman cannot hurt a man. In fact they are more likely to hurt themselves when trying.
The most a man should ever do is pin the woman, but carefully. Try not to cut off any circulation.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
While I agree to some extent Arm4gg3d0nX, I don't agree that a women is allowed to hit a man nor do I agree that they cannot hurt one. While it is very true that men are stronger and could hurt a woman more, we can still be injured by punches and kicks. I'm not talking about hits to the groin. Straight kicks to the leg/knee can break bone if you're unlucky/have it planted with some weight on it and punches to the face could break your nose or damage an eye.
Murkglow 3 years ago
I never said they were allowed to hit us. I'm saying if they do.
If you do a straight kick just under the knee and it's locked yes I believe that a fit woman could probably break something. Of course she could damage an eye, a kid can damage an eye.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
Much like the leg kick, a strong punch to the nose would have to be completely unexpected. Can it break the nose? Hmmm, probably, I know I'm not going to volunteer to find out.
I'm not going to pretend to know any form of martial arts. I know a somewhat rare stance (and other things). With any level of readiness, a man could get in such a stance and be basically invulunerable. I've always wanted to test that theory though on the stance I know. ^_^
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
The only reason I mention this is to refute the thought that you have to return harm to prevent getting hurt more.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
I'm all for talking/runing away ect, if attacked but at the same time if those are not good options (for any number of reasons) then I believe in everyone's right to defend themself regardless of gender.
Murkglow 3 years ago
I didn't mean to imply that you were saying a women was allowed to hit (I would have said much more but the stupid character limit kills me), more like hit without being able to defend oneself.
As for kicking, while it does need to be a bit of a lucky hit, it does not take alot of strength. Most of the force is generated through positioning and proper movement. An adult female is more then able to break an adult males leg in a fight.
Murkglow 3 years ago
Really? I would of never guessed. I have a LOT of difficulty believing anything but it being REALLY hard for a woman to pull off.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
It's hard for anyone to do usually no matter how stong you are because if the leg isn't planted and has room to "recoil" from the hit, then alot of the force is absorbed by that movement. If it is planted then the leg has nowhere to go and all of that force (I'd need to look it up again but I once saw a math equation on it) is applied directly to the bone.
Murkglow 3 years ago
As for the overall topic I completely agree that one should not be destroyed for past mistakes nor should society have the views they currently have on this issue. I saw a documentary a while back about child custody (women amost always get the child over the man) in which the father was assaulted with a baseball bat and could do nothing about it.
Frankly I'm all for gender equallity but I firmly beleive it goes both ways.
Murkglow 3 years ago
Ah and the use of weaponry SIGNIFICANTLY reduces the strength advantage men have over women, obviously.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
Well I'm trying to show that even without a weapon a fight is dangerous and should be treated as such. You stop your opponent, period. The fact that this is dangerous for a man based entirely on societies views is wrong IMO.
Murkglow 3 years ago
I'm probably just a little crazy then. I love it at the beach when my cousins, my other cousins son, and all their friends (current age group 13-15) are around. I'm always like, "Everyone! Take me on! I won't fight back." Then they stand there tryin' to punch me or knock me down. I teach them how to follow through with a punch, etc, it's a blast.
After we are all tired I always remind them that it's only acceptable because I know they can't hurt me and that we aren't being violent.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
Sorry that was rather tangential. :)
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
No, I've done something like that too. =)
And it is mostly safe, they are not trying to really hurt you (ie eyes/throat) and you're a fair bit larger then they are (this I'm not sure on, being larger helps but is not completely foolproof). If you got unlucky you could still break something but that's life, you could break a toe getting out of the tub/shower.
Murkglow 3 years ago
lol 'key locations' 'specific attacks', i think that more than account for men being stronger than women. One kick in the right place and we are down for the count!
cazmaestro 3 years ago
I'm not sure.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
I just watched this video and said "...wut?" afterwards. What is this?! :D
Coredo 3 years ago
wow this is exactly what I wanted to tell everyone. oviously she wanted bluntys life to be destroyed. thanks for making this video it said alot about what i was thinking about the situation ;)
tailsdarcy 3 years ago
I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks this stuff. ^_^
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
I totally support you Arm4g3dd0nX!!!!
skittlesaretasty 3 years ago
this is happening to my sister and her boyfriend... i dont know whos fault it is though...i hope they dont break up cuz my sister is going to yell at ME for hanging out with him
stealinstuff 3 years ago
You see this sometimes in younger case aswell like the brother does something to the sister and she over exaggerates it and gets him into big trouble for something she should avoid by not egging him on.
Gh0sty1 3 years ago
wait so what are you talking about in this video,i know that chris broun hit rihhana but are you saying that blunty is rihhana
bonemantis 3 years ago
Blunty3000 had his own fight with a significant other like 6 or so months ago.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
I think this is a case of extreme feminism, like when they organized protests so they can breastfeed in public. If a man makes a mistake and loses control of himself once, he is considered a criminal. I think there should be a margin of forgiveness. She didn't lose an arm or a leg, she has a bruise which will heal. He will have to apologize for months and bring chocolates etc. but it shouldn't be the end of his career or life.
garrythegeld 3 years ago
It wasn't Blunty that broadcast this information over the internet. His significant other made two 10 minute tear-filled videos.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
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garrythegeld 3 years ago
By what you said in this video he hurt her in some way?
neo960 3 years ago
He was filled with anger to the point where he couldn't stand still. He was able to shield her from a vast majority of the anger but it doesn't take much to hurt someone, especially a woman. That's the best way to describe it.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
I agree with you 100% Arm. It's human nature to be mad about this kind of thin but to totally disassociate yourself from someone because of it is way over the line. Loss of social interaction is not the right price to pay for one mistake, even one like domestic abuse(is that the right term?). However, I do wonder what the RIGHT response would be. What do you feel?
AlmightyElemental 3 years ago
Four things:
1. Honest admission of whatever fault the offender had.
2. Genuine remorse and apology.
3. The vow that it will never happen again.
4. The willingness to re-apologize to the individual (not random people) as many times or however long from now the victim asks.
If all four of these things are followed, while they are followed, those unrelated to the situation directly should not let it taint their impression of the offender.
Arm4g3dd0nX 3 years ago
"Ok." Brett, 200X-2009.
I agree with this... don't hit anyone at all.
TheFMC 3 years ago
good update
newcombandrew 3 years ago