Should I Give My Cheating Man Another Chance?

[Hwee101]

How can you say i screwed up when you purposely screwed another woman?

[tyler90709]

penis

[deejaystyle1]

cheatings sick but if thay come clean strait away is fair but layinh is really bad.

[crpdm1965]

nope

[oalejis]

no whore dont give him another chance, what a shithead

once a cheating sack o shit, always a cheating sack o shit whether male or female

[taylrusso]

r these ppl together?

[emillyyx]

you guys are really good! finally a usefull vid on youtube.

[xXPaulsgirlXx]

oh I'm sure the wife wont attack him....She;ll just attack his other wife!

[pmentslenchanted]

There is actually a genetic predisposition to polygamy over monogamy, so if he cheats it is completely possible he will do it again, even multiple times.

[taylrusso]

not in all mamals! There are many monogamous animals!

[awood001]

I've recently been studying genes and I ended up "concluding" my own idea that there is a genetic predisposition to polygamy in humans. I mean....we are only human. Not that it's right of course, but the fact that it's in our genes makes me wonder...

[GiselleClaudiaa]

My boyfriend cheated on me like twice .

the first one i had to find out and the second one he told me everything .

i didnt even find out .

he just felt guilty .

so he stayed with me .

but that girl dumped him because he was acting weird .

sooo do you think he loves me ?

and if he cheats again ..

should i give him ANOTHER chance ?

[byecrikey]

No, you shouldn't stay with him, because the more he decides to cheat on you and the more you decide to forgive him, he's going to keep doing it until you have all kinds of various diseases. It's the ONE strike and you're out. He doesn't respect you enough to save his penis for you alone. If there is no respect as a foundation, there is no lasting relationship that can be formed.

[jfgwills5]

you two suck, you havnt achieved anything in life so you decide to put videos on youtube?

thanks for this video, iv come to the conclusion that lying is generally a bad thing, well done. Oh by the way, nice "anal sex" video, youve really helped people realise that if you smear cream on your bitches ass, she'll let you stick your dick in it. Spartan out.

[xenrelic]

I wish people could just be honest about their feelings. Honestly most people desire to have multiple sex partners, that is human nature.

Where people go wrong is the misunderstanding of that fact and the preconceived notion that it is wrong to live that way and that's when people get into trouble. They start to hide things out of fear of being misunderstood and this eventually ends up into the cheating lying arena to fulfill suppressed natural human needs.

[itsTylerandChris]

I agree. It sucks to be cheated on, especially if you expect the relationship to last a lifetime. From experience, I say they cheat once, they're going to cheat again. It sounds harsh, but it's usually true. Then again, it depends on her the person. My best suggestion to everybody is to have a really good communication between your lover, keep lies out of your relationship, and all should go well.

[malleries]

Honesty is key.

[philbio66]

Are there any women in NJ that wouldn't mind dating a guy with a small penis?

[idgirl97]

Small penis can be effective. Just gotta use it right.

[philbio66]

Got any tips?

[Surrealius]

No, don't give him another chance. Shoot him in the knees, cage him in your basement and be done with it. ;)

If someone cheats on you even once, they can never truly love you and only you, and its just a relationship bound to fail.

[ojosazules68]

I agree with you wholeheartedly. Dump the bastard, because he's only going to do it again! Or at least check out other girls. He shouldn't NEED to do that if he has you.

[idgirl97]

They always cheat again...

[djcloudstrife]

before anyone ever cheats think about it rationally, sex is just sex and are you willing to risk your relationship for some easy lay rather than working with your partner to make your OWN personal sex life fun and concrete? Some people are just lazy and love the easy ways out of hard honest work.

[djcloudstrife]

cheating is a pretty bad mistake i kind of think it's really intolerable; however, the context of the situation should be accounted for as well. affairs must be the hardest to get over for the victim

[wazupdowgs]

hell no if he did it once he will do it again.

[firegirlemtcop]

I think it really depends on the relationship... why was he cheating? Was there something missing in he bedroom? Was there just a lack of communication in the relationship? Just don't get along? Or is he just in it for the trill of it... it all depends on why the cheating happened as to whether or not to give him another chance.

[djcloudstrife]

Something missing in the bedroom? If people definitely do cheat just for that reason that is the completely warnging sign that this person doesn't know how to communicate with his loved one or there is no DEPTH in the relationship. think about it logically, if someone loves someone else then why should they EVER cheat on them. love is so strong that it can overpower death- romeo and juliet- so why should something so simple as sex make these people so weak and end up cheating.

[MaliciousYankee]

Hah, I wouldn't. I'd be like, "Bitch please!"

[HugeousErectus]

The girlfriend should have her boyfriend wear a body condom, in public, for at least a week.

Then afterwards tell him, "I'll think about it."

[cypresspuz]

Should you have your cheating man another chance? FUCK YEAH!! you obviously r doing something wrong.

[tlndofa]

love ya attitude..

[gossamerwindweb]

lying is a deal breaker for me. He could forget it if he lied.

[hippys6991]

i think she should, maybe he had learnt his lesson the first time

[amadeus2490]

If the person you're seeing is the type to lie to you and/or cheat on you in the first place, they're going to also be the type to always do it. It may not be the answer you want to hear (or well. . .read), but the best thing to do is to dump his ass and find someone who's been in your situation; someone who knows what it feels like to be lied to, and who values honesty and trust as much as you do.

[Roniboney]

i dnt agree with u.my girlfriend cheated on me after 2 years of going out.she was drunk nd cried 4 around a week because of it.if u love someone and they love u and u make a mistake u dnt break up.if they deliberately cheat though i think ur right in telling them to fuk off

[djcloudstrife]

I really think drunk or not you should never ever do it. As people we take for granted the self-control that we actually have. I personally think that when people do cheat on their loved ones it is really just an innate sexual desire that they've conjuring up in their minds for a while.

[Bobzeaux]

MULTIPLE lies and incesant denial? Yes, you're foolish for thinking your relationship can be saved.

It's easier to forgive someone for falling prey to a moment of weakness (depending on the situation), but lose this loser. Stop rewarding his bad behavior with your attention, and start shooting for a guy who's NOT going to cheat on you (and sorry, but you just may have to look at the "boring" guys for that).

[x0xthemadhatterx0x]

Personally...if he owns up to it and comes out and says yes I've cheated, and yes I was wrong please lets give it another chance etc. I'd consider giving him another chance, but if the guy still denies it...come on! I think the level of trust in that situation would like disappear...but that's just my opinion.

[wolfinside]

The world can be a dangerous place. Though most people are good, there are those out there who will try to take what is yours, or damage you just for their own sadistic pleasure. Because of this you have to watch your back. It's good to have friends and lovers. (those you allow on the inside) But you shouldn't have to watch your back with those you trust. Once they betray you, they belong on "the outside". (with the rest of the human population) They have proved themselves unworthy of trust.

[lavinder11]

Yeah, I agree with most of what you wrote. I think "good" is relative, though.

I guess it depends on if he had my trust in the first place. But if I were her, I wouldn't think twice about giving him another chance only because he still refuses to admit it.

[wolfinside]

You're right about the term "Good" being relative. I use it in this sense only to mean that most people aren't out to get you. (but that some clearly are) One of the most hurtful things about being cheated on isn't the sex outside the relationship, it's the lies. And him refusing to admit his cheating is a continuation of those lies. I wouldn't give a lying cheating lover a second chance, especially if she continued to lie. (it probably means she is also going to cheat as well)

[lavinder11]

Yeah, that's true. And the fact that she still wants to continue the relationship even though she knows he's still lying says something about her. I don't know what, but it says something.

[wolfinside]

I hate to generalize, but I have noticed that women seem to be more forgiving about cheating than men. New theories in sexual anthropology suggest there may be reasons why this is so. In this case she is really bending over backward to forgive. It may be a personal problem indeed. Perhaps she picks men who will hurt her or confirm her low opinion of men kind. (shrug)

[jaysirrock]

Trust and honesty are the cornerstone to any successful and healthy relationships. If one or both are missing, it's time to move on.

Mistakes are one thing, but fucking someone else is unforgivable. If that is forgiven, it is like a license to continue that behavior. For the person who got cheated on, you will to be treated like a doormat.

If the cheater acts differently toward you he/she is feeling guilty - if they try and cover it up, they will do it again.

LOOSE LOOSE SITUATION!!

[Kcirdlab]

You daft man racist!

[jaysirrock]

how am I a racist?

[jaysirrock]

I meant LOSE LOSE SITUATION!!

I was tired, lol!

[michaelstanger]

once a cheat always a cheat.

[SWinger7]

What are they drinking/

[DanAndJenn]

Cool aid. :-) Depends on the day; these were blue raspberry martinis, though sometimes we like a good cognac, and lately we've been trying some different, visually appealing martinis that a friend of ours recommended, particularly on the live show.

[dulceinolvidable]

to me love is forgiveness.... the question is do you love and if so how strong cuz we all have millions of questions to give but are we ready for the answers?

[calvin751]

...moron, how can you get caught? I'm no cheater but if I'ma do it, I'll do it right. Use prepaid phones and e-mails, cover your track !

[xixiloveyouxix]

If he truly was in love with you, he wouldn't have succumbed to temptation. The only thing I will absolutely never put up with is cheating, it's just about the lowest thing you could possibly do to somebody.

Find someone new, who is fully committed to you and nobody but you. That's true love, to me.

[momo2525252525252]

I find that giving them another chance CAN work, but its not much fun if they do it again - what is more fun is to take them back, absolutly wrecking their arsehole with your dick, then cheating on them with their best freind - WIN!

[dannykim100]

If i was the g/f.. i wouldnt give him another chance, because its bound to happen again, i know from personal experiances from my rents

[ondjima]

what about cheating women? My wife had an affair.

[halo2994]

Being in an open relationship is one thing. Cheating is flat out wrong. I wouldn't be willing to forgive that.

[mrhappy318]

lololol

[WeaTheRgrlx0x]

first comment, oh and, once a cheater always a cheater, throw him away and get someone else who loves you if he doesn't man up