What do you wear to a rave?

[CakesBeTheName]

THIS IS FUCKIN RETARDED !!!! YOU CAN WEAR WHATEVER YOU WANT !!!

[MrEvansjon]

so where's this rave,your elementary school.

[luciblah]

She forgot gogo boots I customize girls just be creative or wear whatever doesn't matter what people dress like a slut don't dress like a slut whatever what's makes you feel comfortable!(:

[ArnoldRulesyou]

What I wear: black dress shirt, Black jeans, Mask with teeth ... Alright time to go do coat check.. :)

[pseudo872]

who cares how do you look like ,..just go and have fun.its as simple as that.

[GingerCandE]

@pseudo872 i was asked to make the video XD It doesn't matter but some people want some ideas.

[marythewolfy]

Also i like the gogo style and thats why i don't care for this video sorry :/

[marythewolfy]

There's not a certian outfit for ravers but some girls wear bikinis and shorts and umm...i'm not hateing but you said don't look like a slut i mean no one looks like a slut but come on girls are wearing fricken bikinis and there dancing like theres no tomorrow,i mean people have different oppinions on things and girls at raves might look like sluts but there having fun so :/ too bad don't tell poeple not to look like this and to look like that and im sorry but this is not right and un-helpful

[GingerCandE]

@marythewolfy from personal experience if you decide to dress in pasties or half naked most guys will try to get into your pants and won't take you seriously. If you want to get respect from people don't dress like you're going to be dancing on stage at a strip club. Most people who watch my videos are under the age of 18. Telling them to dress skimpy is a bad idea. I encourage them to wear clothes so they don't get taken advantage of.

[sahinica]

@GingerCandE It's not like you ever really see people from raves/concerts again anyway. Where are you fluffy boots?! :<

[marythewolfy]

@GingerCandE ok thats for explaining,thats understandable thank you :) keep the videos up :)

[MissMars1109]

Where did you get your booty shorts??

[XsinnesterXspawnX]

*shorts*

[XsinnesterXspawnX]

what i wants to know is what should guys wear to raves iv gone to a few an its fun as hell an i plane on goin to a lot more. all i really have r black shots an shirts

[GingerCandE]

@XsinnesterXspawnX if you look at the updated version of this I talk a little bit more about guys.

[mikyla10]

We're do u get those booty shorts?

[GingerCandE]

@mikyla10 i got them form a  wholesale place in houston

[Quimquat]

the whole point is just to be how you want to be. Not to have some douche preach to you about the do's and don't's

[GingerCandE]

@Quimquat I agree. People asked me to do a video on what I recommend. You can wear what you want. I never said you had to dress a certain way :P

[christian22330]

Okay, how do you distinguish yourself between 'rave' and 'scene'. I do NOT want to look 'scene'.

[GingerCandE]

@christian22330 dress how you want. If you don't dress scene normally then don't dress like that at a party XD

[jsun2021]

what's a rave

[mightydubkat]

I feel you should come dressed how you want to dress. All of that stuff is cute, but there's no certain way you gotta dress to go to a rave. The best thing about the rave/edm/party scene is that it is pretty open and it's ok to do your own thing.

[GingerCandE]

@mightydubkat I agree I just had some people ask me bout it so I made a video

[daisyluffsyewh]

i dont rave ......yet this is reallt helpful i am going to one soon :)

[OFWGKTA666999]

sorry but you need to dress slutty you prude little girl no fuun

[GingerCandE]

@OFWGKTA666999 I am no prude lmao I'm just tired of boys trying to use parties and a place to find a fuck buddy for the night. As long as shit like that is still going on I don't think girls should dress provocative.

[OFWGKTA666999]

@GingerCandE HAHA i see where your coming from but i like slutty women when im rolling balls and you people ruin it

[chrissiexxxscene]

@OFWGKTA666999 She needs to dress slutty?

Wtf? Are you stupid?

[gothdoll907]

Cool

[Awesomenerd007]

YAY! im READY! THXX!!!!! im so exited!

[TheKarchable]

This is soooo helpful to me!! I'm going to my second rave tonight so this is really helpful :D

[GingerCandE]

@TheKarchable awesome :D I'm glad you should check out the updated version of this :P

[CuteieBeauty]

I love mai fluffies(: always a must for a rave

[Dsexkitten]

I dress waaay different lol well i like lookin sexy not slutty. And With the fluffies! I love my fluffied

:) love ur advise thou def seen too many sluty girls at raves

[RaveKandiWaffles]

@alanacolleenpark REALLY?!?!?! ME TOO

[alanacolleenpark]

i love raves, ive never been to one, but they look fun! and every day at school i try to look like a raver!:)

[GingerCandE]

@alanacolleenpark Why do you want to look like a raver? XD Look like yourself and don't pretend to be something you're not. It's cool to wear kandi and all but even I don't dress like I'm going to a rave everyday.

[GingerCandE]

@alanacolleenpark Why do you want to look like a raver? XD Look like yourself and don't pretend to be something you're not. It's cool to wear kandi and all but even I don't dress like I'm going to a rave everyday.

[alanacolleenpark]

@GingerCandE actully i am a raver, its just fun to be something cool and uniqe, nobody at school dresses like that, so people think its cool, not that i care what they think, but as long as i like it people cant take it away my style, the way i dress describes who i truley am:)

[GingerCandE]

@alanacolleenpark you just said, "i love raves, ive never been to one" which means you're not a raver. It doesn't matter how much you love or appreciate the scene if you don't go to raves you are not a raver.

[alanacolleenpark]

@GingerCandE ok you know what, im sick of people saying i cant be somthing thats cool and better than what every one around me is, its better to be a raver than a slut or and emo, you even said the goal is to look cool, and im folloing your advice and i love who i am and i think most people do to, and i wasnt mean, i thought you were cool and all, and just 2 days ago i went to my first rave with my older brother , yes im offcialy a raver girl now.

[GingerCandE]

@alanacolleenpark ok now that is different. XD When we first talked you said you hadn't been to a party. lol But now you have. If you've been to a rave you're a raver. If you haven't been to a rave you're not a raver.

[alanacolleenpark]

@GingerCandE ya, the ravei was pretty awsome, and i use to want to be a rave girl, but now i am and i realy want to go to another rave =D

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE Well that's a misinformed opinion.

You don't have to go to events to be a raver. There's a lifestyle that comes with it.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene That's bullshit. A raver is someone who goes to raves. End of story. If you don't go to parties you are not a raver. Not going to parties and calling yourself a raver is like me saying I'm a vegan and then I turn around and eat meat everyday. It's not possible.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE

Uh no. How old are you?

Being a raver is part of a lifestyle.

I'm sure I got this down.

I've been doing it for about six or seven years now.

Try again.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene you can't live a lifestyle if you don't follow what that lifestyle is. EX: being a vegetarian but not obtaining from meat. and that's what not going to parties and calling yourself a raver is. -_-;

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE Wow. You are probably the most retarded "raver" I've ever come across then. v.v"

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE So. I took a poll on my Edm/rave blog.

For Opinions from REAL RAVERS. And here's the verdict:

circularthoughts answered: I think you can be a raver and not go to raves. Its all in the mindset.

nikkidalz said: Nope, definitely don’t need to go to raves to call yourself a raver. Just like you don’t have to go to church to consider yourself a Christian. I know of plenty kids who consider themselves ravers who haven’t been able to make it to a rave yet.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE rigd answered: i say there is a life style to go with it. you need to i dono just feel and be one music and the people around you as corny as that sounds>.>

ohmydubstep answered: idk i dont think that you HAVE to, just as long as you follow PLUR i think they are considered ravers

So, next time you want to make a comment, educate yourself :)

I've been in this scene for quite some time. And I know how things work.

Hop off the bandwagon and learn something.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I think you need to hop off your high horse. Many people get the "holier than thou" mentality after they've been in the scene a while. It's what tends to push kids away. When you act high and mighty it makes the new generation not want to listen. That's why we have so many problems. I hang around many old skool ravers and almost all of them will agree that you have to go to a rave to be a raver. Yes there is a mind set that goes with it but the mind set alone isn't enough.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@chrissiexxxscene You're what, 16/17/18?

You'll learn soon enough.

Grow up. Educate yourself.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I was brought into the scene and taught by ravers that have been in the scene 12+ years, throw parties, and are djs. I'm pretty well educated, though there is always room for more knowledge. :) A person who doesn't go to parties and calls themselves a raver is what you call a poser. When you have 14 year old kids running around telling people they're a "raver" and they say something dumb or do something bad it can damage your scene. I've seen it and had to do damage control.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE I love how you keep avoiding my question.

And I see what you're saying. But what you're implying is that, this is the only way to be a raver.

REAL ravers live the PLURR lifestyle at and away from the raves. Their entire life is about raving. Even if they're not at one. Because sometimes, maybe they don't have the time/money/ schedule to be there.

Or the means? Maybe their area doesn't have them.

Or let alone, maybe they're not 18 yet?

You're skipping over all of these things.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I'm 18 a week from today. Going to a rave is the only way to be a raver. Yes you can live by PLURR and share the same values but that still doesn't mean you're a raver. Even google agrees. You type in "definition of a raver" first thing that pops up, "A person who goes to raves." I don't see the point of making your entire life about raving if you don't go to a raves. It's like devoting your whole life to the study of a country but never visiting that country.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene you can't fully understand it because you haven't experienced it. I think if you devoted your life to raves I'm pretty sure you'd find some time, money, or means to get there. You can always take a road trip or throw your own party. I throw my own kandi parties all the time. In Houston you only need to be 16+ to go to parties. The people who aren't old enough can wait it out. I did. All you're doing it making excuses. If you want to be a raver that bad you'll find a way.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene Actually making it to a rave is half the battle. If based your life on raving and you're not willing to put forth the effort to make it there, it doesn't say much about your life. If there is a will there is a way. You are confusing wanting to be a raver with being a raver. You can want to be a vegan but unless you stop eating meat and dairy you won't be a vegan. Just as if you don't put forth the effort to go to a party you are not a raver. You have to DO SOMETHING to be it.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE And your answer is still wrong.

I'm sorry, but anyone I talk to has basically called you retarded.

I don't understand how you're comparing vegetarianism(which I'm a vegetarian as well btw) to being a raver.

BIG FUCKING DIFFERENCE.

v.v Lifestyles /=/ eating habits.

Never knew.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene Whether you think I am "retarded" or not is irrelevant. It has nothing to do with our discussion if you feel like trying to insult me is going to help you win a discussion it won't, it just reflects badly on yourself. I don't try to personally attack you. Being a vegetarian is a lifestyle -_-; Dictionary says, "The way in which a person or group lives" If you don't eat meat that's a way you choose to live your life. Just as going to parties is a lifestyle.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE

Still avoiding my question. LOL

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene What question? I answered how old I was.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE OH, you're right. I didn't see it before.

You're only 17. You're young. You'll figure it out when you're older and have been doing it as long as I have :)

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I know people who have been going to parties a lot longer than you and they agree with me. -_-; It's a matter of opinion.

The way to say things it's like me calling myself a skate boarder. I know a lot about skate boarding becuase of my brother and I can take one apart and put it back together. But just because I know about it doesn't mean I'm a skater. I don't skate board and therefore I am not a skater boarder.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE It doesn't matter who you know.

You're figure it out in time. You have plenty of learning time. :)

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I disagree. Doesn't matter how long you've been going to parties. It's about who you know. you can go to parties for however long you want to but if you don't have connections you're not going anywhere in the scene.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE

You are horridly wrong.

I for one am a prime example. I had NO connections and now I'm working for a promotion company.

You need to come to Baltimore. Obviously the scene in Texas is pretty close minded. You come here and your eyes will be opened and your opinions will change. And you won't be so ignorant.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene If the promoters don't know who you are they don't give crap about you. I didn't have any connections but I made my own. I volunteered to set up, helped out, and promote parties. Now most people know who I am or at least have heard of me. Hip-e agrees with me, he was the one who taught me most things about the scene. He's a LA raver and if what you're saying is true he knows a hell of a lot more than you do. He's been going to parties for 12 years.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE Okay, so the promoter I had never met before and who didn't know me, Doesn't give a shit about me? Funny. Considering I WORK FOR HIM NOW. Considering, I get into these events for free now. WITH A PLUS ONE. Hmmmm AND GET PAID FOR IT. I find your logic hilarious.

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene How do you get in to these parties free? YOU HAVE CONNECTIONS. It doesn't matter if you've been in the scene 10 years if you don't have connections you're not going anywhere. I've been in the scene for a year and I get the same treatment as you :)

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE I never had the connections before. I busted my ass to get where I am.

You're argument is invalid. Come party in Baltimore. The scene is 100% different obviously. v.v"

[GingerCandE]

@chrissiexxxscene I never had any either. I made my own and that's why I am where I am today. But once you got your foot in the door you got connections. Thus you are actually doing something in the scene. Most people don't get that far. Thus who you know is better then how long you've been there.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE

1.You've contradicted yourself.

2.Not everyone wants to "go somewhere" or "do something" in the scene.

Some people are there to just fucking enjoy it.

It's official. Any argument you give is now invalid. Goodbye.

[chrissiexxxscene]

@GingerCandE Think about it.

So really, how old are you?

[alanacolleenpark]

@GingerCandE actully i am a raver, its just fun to be something cool and uniqe, nobody at school dresses like that, so people think its cool, not that i care what they think, but as long as i like it people cant take it away my style, the way i dress describes who i truley am, becides, your cool to like that:, your like a rave expert:)

[GingerCandE]

@lolikittyx a tank top or a fishnet shirt.

[babyflaks]

Your like a true raver ;O i wanna be like that <3

[GingerCandE]

@babyflaks awwwwwwww <3 thank you I have an updated version of this video now you should check that one out ^_^

[amalialovesyuh1]

so its gonna be my first rave in 1 week&this helped me a lot! i know what im gonna wear now, but still dont know how too doo my hair ? help ?!

[GingerCandE]

@amalialovesyuh1 oh awesome! :D I do have a new updated version of this video i would recommend looking at that one as well. I usually put my hair up in a pony tail or clip it up doing pig tails is popular and cute. anything you want but don't go too elaborate you're going to get hot and sweaty so keep comfort in mind. If you want anymore tips message me and I'll help you out. :3

[Scone54]

that was cool.

[GingerCandE]

@Scone54 I have a more recent update to this video if you're interested.

[31flowerstars]

Where do you get the ity bitty shorts at

[GingerCandE]

@31flowerstars a wholesale warehouse.

[ShootingFourStar]

@GingerCandE What type of wholesale sarehouse, because yours are super cute and I really love them <3 and My friends always know when raves are coming up and I really want to start going how do you know when they are coming up?

[GingerCandE]

@ShootingFourStar It was in china town you need a business permit to buy stuff there. You have to talk to people and you can check websites like ravelinks(dot)com

[icevirgo99]

I'm going to dayglow any suggestion of what to wear I am a guy.

[GingerCandE]

@icevirgo99 All white. Things you don't mind getting stained forever.

[WakeyWakey27]

Someone should make a guy's guide lol



[GingerCandE]

@WakeyWakey27 Ok I can do that :3 I was thinking about making an updated version anyway.

[WakeyWakey27]

@GingerCandE Do it! Aha; I'm a guy who's new to the rave scene, and I'm constantly confused what to wear, cause i wanna stand out, but i dont wanna over do it~ Get me? BTW Your awesome! :D

[GingerCandE]

@WakeyWakey27 OK I will :) Thanks ^_^

[ItzSoSticky]

@GingerCandE Do it!

[UhmazingKayluh]

"the goal is to look good. not like a slut" xD i lovee that

[GingerCandE]

@UhmazingKayluh Me too XD

[ShineoneDiamondeyes]

I'm a kandi kid, follow me tumblr! Thankyousatan13.tumblr.com

[ZombifiedCandyGuurl]

Thanks ya(:

[frozenkumiyumi28]

"Don't look like a slut!" XD epic! That's pretty true though! I love your Penguin backpack! Im now making my build-a-bear unicorn into a bag!

[GingerCandE]

@frozenkumiyumi28 lmao I know right? XD

:O THAT'S AWESOME!

[swagner2222]

WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE BOOTY SHORTS?!?!?

[GingerCandE]

@swagner2222 lmao XD I got them at a wholesale store in china town :P

[GingerCandE]

@thepsychiatrist2 lol XD Kind of :P

[PurpleHeaven7]

Where Can I Buy Bracelets?

[GingerCandE]

@PurpleHeaven7 You don't buy them! You make them and trade them with people you become friends with. My channel teaches you how to make all kinds of kandi. At your first party most of the time if you talk to people they'll give you some :)

[PurpleHeaven7]

@GingerCandE Ok Great..I Just Started Getting Into Raves..So I'm Starting Fresh :)..Thank You

[GingerCandE]

@PurpleHeaven7 awesome :) You're welcome ^_^

[nessamonique91]

Where did you get your booty shorts

[GingerCandE]

@nessamonique91 I got it from a wholesale place :)

[olivesya12]

Thanx 4 makin this!

[GingerCandE]

@olivesya12 you're welcome :)

[twist3dd]

any girl wit booty shorts is gonna look slutty lol..

[GingerCandE]

@twist3dd Not true. If you look at some go-go dancers they pair them up with fishnets and ripped stockings and they look really nice :) Hot but not slutty. There's a fine line. :P

[idance4life]

maybe this is what they wear in the states... but not what you wear in canada... or europe for that matter

[GingerCandE]

@idance4life well i just recently got fluffies and cyberlox and a few new outfits. :) This is more of what I improvised out of my closet a while back. Some simple ideas to help people. 

[Sparkle4Ashley]

I went to my first rave last night i wore a bikkini top and booty shorts :l I felt like a slutt but i saw this girl with X tape on her boobs and a thoung and she got let in

[GingerCandE]

@Sparkle4Ashley It really depends on where you live and what your rave scene is like because some are more accepting on walking around pretty much naked and others are not. XD My new rave outfit hardly shows any skin at all but that's what I feel most comfortable in. :P I just made a video showing it off ^_^

[Sparkle4Ashley]

@GingerCandE I think the dress code for the king cat in washington is 1inX1in on your boobs and no showing your front ya know (:

[GingerCandE]

@Sparkle4Ashley oh wow as far as I know here there's no dress code but I've only seen 2 girls wear Xs most people wear clothes XD

[GingerCandE]

@Mcrmichick np ^////^ awwwwe thanks :D

[KaylaaKupcake]

@GingercandE can you show us you in your favorite rave outfit? (:

[GingerCandE]

@KaylaaKupcake Well I don't have one specific one because I'm always building on it. Like just recently I got some cyber lox and fluffies. I try to get things I can always mix and match if I want to.

[bonanaboatful]

Yea Don't Be A P-TOT

[GingerCandE]

@bonanaboatful lmao

[TheLeahMel]

this was cool =] may i ask did you make the kandi bikini top or did you buy it somewhere? because i want one haha ^^

[GingerCandE]

@TheLeahMel thank you :) I made it and I made a tutorial on how to make it on my channel as well.

[freakchick21]

this was really helpful :)

[GingerCandE]

@freakchick21 :)