@yummymummy53 PLEASE Google rape crisis counseling and call a hotline in your area. Most states offer free counseling which is state funded. I felt the same way as you do and my 2 years of counseling has totally changed my thoughts and ways of thinking. I would've never recovered if I hadn't had someone to talk to. I too have had trouble in my relationships but with help and with time there are less and less problems. Hugs to you.
@darlingdino im so scared my mum doesnt even know yet my partner lives away and i have to do this on my own with a child i dnt have have baby sitters so i can go to counselling this is hard xx
I was being sexually harassed by a male patient when i was locked up in the psych ward. He touched me inappropriately and said sexual explicit stuff like*I want to make love to you, you can stay in my bed if you want to*. I reported him to the staff at the psych ward, but all they say was*I will keep an eyes on him*. I feel so violated and so disgusted. I can't trust man and i am afraid of sex. I also was inappropriately touched by a man i accepted a ride when i was 19. :(
statutory rape shouldnt even be in the same category as these other forms of rape because both of the individuals are for it. Theres a difference between being forced into rape and actually wanting to engage in sexual activity with another person. As long as it isnt a huge age gap and the individuals are mentally healthy i dont see the problem.
It depends how exposure and voyeurism are used. If they are used to humiliate, violate, and control another they are forms of assault. Everything I talk about in this video relates to nonconsentual acts.
I think of it this way. Looking at the people and the world around you and deriving pleasure from it is human, and totally rocks. Staring at someone who looks like they even probably don't want to be looked at, or who is for some reason skeeved out by it, does no-one any good - at minimum. Looking at someone to assert your power over them and use them as visual decoration in your reality is just bullshit, along with any other form of objectification.
Thank you! And PLEASE NEVER EVER leave your drink unattended in a bar or at a party. That was my mistake. Take it to the bathroom w/you even if you're w/someone you know!
Thank you! I'll send you some photos one of these days ~ I promise! I'm going to bed now. Yeah, I know what it's like too unfortunately. I felt the need to get this out of my system. =)
i feel so alone.
rmr82185 5 months ago
i was raped by my ex last year i now sever deprssion i feel alone its cauing problem between my bf and i
i want to be saved before one its to late to save me
yummymummy53 7 months ago
@yummymummy53 PLEASE Google rape crisis counseling and call a hotline in your area. Most states offer free counseling which is state funded. I felt the same way as you do and my 2 years of counseling has totally changed my thoughts and ways of thinking. I would've never recovered if I hadn't had someone to talk to. I too have had trouble in my relationships but with help and with time there are less and less problems. Hugs to you.
darlingdino 7 months ago
@darlingdino im so scared my mum doesnt even know yet my partner lives away and i have to do this on my own with a child i dnt have have baby sitters so i can go to counselling this is hard xx
can someone come to my house? x
yummymummy53 7 months ago
That video changed me. Wow. Thank u. Wow.
98gleerox 10 months ago
I was being sexually harassed by a male patient when i was locked up in the psych ward. He touched me inappropriately and said sexual explicit stuff like*I want to make love to you, you can stay in my bed if you want to*. I reported him to the staff at the psych ward, but all they say was*I will keep an eyes on him*. I feel so violated and so disgusted. I can't trust man and i am afraid of sex. I also was inappropriately touched by a man i accepted a ride when i was 19. :(
TashaRichardsonFan 1 year ago
statutory rape shouldnt even be in the same category as these other forms of rape because both of the individuals are for it. Theres a difference between being forced into rape and actually wanting to engage in sexual activity with another person. As long as it isnt a huge age gap and the individuals are mentally healthy i dont see the problem.
reaperofgenocide 1 year ago
Thanks for the info. It very informative.
TashaRichardsonFan 2 years ago
very moving
billpeart 2 years ago 2
I don't totally agree with this video. According to me, exposure and voyeurism are not sexual violence.
Helline1978 2 years ago
It depends how exposure and voyeurism are used. If they are used to humiliate, violate, and control another they are forms of assault. Everything I talk about in this video relates to nonconsentual acts.
darlingdino 2 years ago 2
I think of it this way. Looking at the people and the world around you and deriving pleasure from it is human, and totally rocks. Staring at someone who looks like they even probably don't want to be looked at, or who is for some reason skeeved out by it, does no-one any good - at minimum. Looking at someone to assert your power over them and use them as visual decoration in your reality is just bullshit, along with any other form of objectification.
stealthbadger 2 years ago
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Helline1978 2 years ago
Its a painful reminder.
But its also good to watch, learn and understand.
Thanks for posting Darling.
Bec-
Mutilatedminds 2 years ago 3
Thank you! And PLEASE NEVER EVER leave your drink unattended in a bar or at a party. That was my mistake. Take it to the bathroom w/you even if you're w/someone you know!
darlingdino 2 years ago
Ty sweetheart.
You ad me seem to be both healing from something deep.
We will overcome. =)
Take care.
Bec
Mutilatedminds 2 years ago 2
great vid:(
jenn16z 2 years ago
Know there's hurt...but also know you're strong J..xox
Gramsk 2 years ago 2
a few people real close to me was raped in their life time!!! u did a great video sister!! 5 stars
Sidetrack32 2 years ago
Thank you! I'll send you some photos one of these days ~ I promise! I'm going to bed now. Yeah, I know what it's like too unfortunately. I felt the need to get this out of my system. =)
darlingdino 2 years ago
you are very brave for making this video. i know many men and women who have been sexually abused. it is truly devastating. im proud of yah.
leiapeison 2 years ago 2
Thank you =)
darlingdino 2 years ago