My boyfriend lives about 4k miles away from me, and we're still together! We've been together since September, and our mothers had to move away in January, but I'm moving back with him in June. Yes, they do work out.
I live in Florida and my girlfriend lives in California, I do see her from time to time, and talk and text with her everyday, And I'm committing to one day moving over to Cali to be with her. :-)
My long-distance relationship isn't exactly long-distance to an adult, but I'm 17 with no car of my own.
My girlfriend lives 30 minutes away by car. I've been with her for 4 months as of tomorrow and we've had our stumbles, but we both love each other a lot. We both see this relationship working well. In these 4 months, we've seen each other about 7 times, having day trips almost every time. We're close, and when I get a car of my own I hope to see her weekly.
Didn't work for me at all. We knew each other since we was little babies and then he moved away when he was 12. He then asked me out when he was away when he was 14. We stayed together for just over a year. It ended because we both just couldn't take a long distance relationship seriously I suppose...We both were too young for paying transport and we got into way too many arguments. I'm now with a guy who I love to pieces who lives much closer. In my experience,no they don't work.
I live in Australia, and my boyfriend lives in Germany. We've been together for 13 months now, and he means so much to me. Often I do get doubts if it would actually work. Will I ever see him in real life? Will this turn out how I hope? Or is my head just in the clouds? But after seeing this, it really put things into perspective for me. Thank you so much <3 :)
I firstly wanted to say that; what if you just somehow online met a person that is so special that finding them in real life near you is pretty much impossible?
although that is true, you're probably right. i'm probably just a loner. if that weren't the case, i'd be satisfied with at least 1 one of the girls i met in real life. but nope.
Actually, no. Not when you come with the expectations of finding a soul mate, rather than *only* a girl/boyfriend.
Look at all the other comments & you will realize this is true.
Everyone who it didn't work for came with the whole wrong idea of what this kind of relationship actually means. it can't only be showing your love to one another.. it also, mainly, means being there for the other one.
Relationship is a very vague term anyway - you even have a "relationship" with your siblings.
I don't like the fact that there's a PROTEST ONISION Add on his fucking video. I've been watching onision since the beginning ( Have him subbed on my other account, forgot the password. ) And I can honestly say haters are welcome.
my ex and i dated for four months and it didnt work out. i have the vid explaining my personal experience of an LDR on my channel. :( i miss him, you really do get attached. but i had a life and its true you do have to be a loner haha wah! oh well if anybody wants some advice watch the vid ! :D LOVE YA GREG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For someone so young, you're so dead-on and man, I wish there were guys like you when I was your age, that's all I can say! I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, Greg! Past ones, present ones and looking forward to your future ones!
I'm a loner. I tried that long distance stuff before, but the first time I got cheated on, and the second time I ended it because it was pointless to "date" someone across the country that you will never meet. It was too depressing. Now I'm alone, but not as depressed.
My exboyfriend and I dated for 2 years but then I moved to HK. After briefly reflecting on your thoughts I'd say I agree. We were very committed to each other but we're young and not loners so it ended. We don't really talk much anymore.
My boyfriend lives about four hours away by car (different state), but we call pretty much every night and we've been together for almost two years come this May and I'll be seeing him again this summer. <3
i got out of my frist relationship with a man i was with for 10 months.. he left me for my best friend.. they didnt last long and i was happy. i liked seeing him alone like i was.i then got connected with a man who lived 2 hours car drive from me , i loved the attention i got...this man helped me get over him... because i started to think of him and how sweet he was.... the words he told me were amazing..and i felt beautiful. long distance can work to get over people but forever wont happen.
my boyfriend lives a decent distance away. it usually takes me 2 buses and a 20 minute walk just to see him, but i see him every weekend :) its been almost a year now <3 he only uses his phone for me as i do for him
my boyfriend and i live apart and i still hang out with other people. yes, we are on the phone as much as possible, but you dont have to be a "loner" to make a relationship like this work. we just love each other to death and i cant see myself with anyone else, and i dont wanna see myself with anyone else. :)
it worked for me basically all my SERIOUS relationships have been long distant... me and Robert have been together for almost an entire year now *From January 1st , its December 29th* :) and im moving to Louisiana in a few days so... yay :D
yeah but if that attraction is going to be felt, why would you not feel that attraction even if you're in a relationship where you see your significant other on a regular basis?
My boyfiend originally lived near me but moved during the school year.. Weve been together over a year, us dating only a month before he moved which other people found stupid. Its worked out pretty great. But as to the people having to be loners i disagree. We are both fairly social people and weve had no relationship problems. Sometimes we feel like we dont talk enough so we slow down and talk for three hours.. But seeing him once a month is ok with me. I mean obviously i miss him and i wish i
I have a girlfriend I met who lives outside in norway (Im scottish) We've been together for about 2 years, and she has gotten her working visa now, so, It works :p
My belief is that some long-distance relationships can work but most of them probably won't. I've had a lot of long-distance boyfriends and it never came close to working out with them. Of course, that's a good thing because a lot of them were slime balls and at the time I didn't really think about what kind of people they were because I was incredibly naive.
My boyfriend lives 2k miles away from me and I hang out with many people which include guys, but I have found if you really love someone then feelings won't arise from someone new or different; so it is possible to have many friends and be in a faithful, long distance relationship.
@corsetfreak13 you do not chose whether or not you have feelings for someone. Eventually if the right person comes along you will end up feeling attracted to that person. To me part of love, is staying faithfull even though you may desire to be with another person from time to time
Well, my boyfriend and I aren't necessarily loners, but we don't have a lot in common with people besides each other. We were friends for 2 years prior to getting together, and we talk 24/7. would you say it works? We see each other a couple times a year
I've known my boyfriend for over 4 years, been together for almost 2 years, 1.5 of them in a long distance relationship, he is perfect, and does not even think about other girls, I am his world, and he is mine, nobody could ever give me that:) Thanks baby:)
wow im amazed at how you nailed that, im in a long distance relationship right now a lil more then a year, and the part of your video that got me was that "you are their world..." you got it right :)
Introvert here. Will never meet anyone "Online" again though. Flew from Florida to Los Angeles after talking to someone for 2 years online. Needless to say, I put this guy on a pedestal buy creating the perfect person (for me) in my mind somehow. It was simply a fallacy and he well, turned out to be a horrible, abusive person. I was stuck in Los Angeles with this freak for a month. The End :/
This may seem..like lame XD but i wanted at least you to know this video is epic. i was in a long relationship and for months iv been blaming myself how i screwed up and its me me me and didn't consider you know ppl coming in and finding something "exciting" you know? well its easier to breath and accept everything . thanks so much <3 Vs
If the persons involved in this are the type of people that are not so crazy about getting out and go to the parties , if they prefer to spend their time reading and they enjoy to be kind of isolated maybe there is a chance that the long distance relationship will work but I still have some doubts. If there's one of them who likes going to the parties and stuff and the other doesn't I don't think that there are too many chances.
My boyfriend and I live an hour apart and we both i quess you can say are..social? I completely trust him and the same in me so we dont worry that. :) we usually meet up twice a week
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. We've never met once. We talk on the phone all the time and on the computer all the time. There have been times where him and I could hardly talk for like a month or so at a time, but we still stayed strong and look where we're at now. (: Long distant relationships can work out. (: ♥
@newtard95 you gave me hope :) me an my long distant boyfriend haven't talked very much lately and when you said it worked out well it gave me hope :)
depends on how busy you are - if you both have high intensity jobs, kids, a full life, then maybe meeting up once a month or so works for you...if not, one person will always want more than the other is able / willing to give.
I am etremly dedicated then :) I love him..But i think hes cheating on me cuz he really doesnt want to talk to me as much and his mood has been changing bad..:/
well actually i have a long distance relationship with a girl, we are not really loners, but we are together since 3 years and half, on march she is moving here, and yes, we are planning marriage : )
I really wish I found this video sooner. My last relationship was a long distance one. And I trusted him completely. He always hung out with his friends and I still trusted him because he truly loved me and I love him. However, the stupidest mistake I ever made? He told me his friend Michelle was going to stay the night because of family issues. I said its ok. I'm not sure about the timing but I think that's when she ruined our relationship later on. It's been 5 months but I still hate her.
it's not that difficult and you don't have to be indoors with nobody to talk too just because your man is away... if I did that I'd go insane cause I never know when i will hear from him due to him being in a war zone. IJS
That's not true... my husband and I have been apart for 3 years due to us both being deployed one after the other... I am a very active person... a very out doors type of person and I love hanging out with friends... You don't have to be a loner to have a long distance relationship or marriage.... you just have to be wise about choosing who you hang out with... like for girls find a group of girls and there ya go... males same thing...
you spend most of your free time in front of the laptop/pc, talking with the person you love per skype/msn/etc. and end up neglecting your friends in rl life, basically it makes you a loner.
Bah... I'm pretty much a loner. i was so used to long distance relationships. im a very dedicated person too though. even if i did meet some new people id keep in mind that i had a girlfriend and whatnot. but my ex girlfriend met new people almost everyday. it was hard for her to even make time for me. :l however i was so dedicated and in love i didnt care. then she dumps me for one of her best friends. shes a bitch. i was lied to quite often. bah.
idk i half agree with you on that idk i think they can work and stiff but idk you dont have to be a loner to idk just just have to have self control and know that it is stilll cheating if its long distance
I think this is really wrong... no offense. I think that it is really easy to get caught up in the moment with someone else but if you truly love the person who's far away, they'll come to your mind first.
Well, personal experience dictates that for the most part, I agree with Onision; however, personal experience also holds me to attest that 9,999/10,000 long distance relationships absolutely suck. More or less just chasing the donut faery and hoping she'll drop down from heaven with all you've ever dreamed of. I'm marrying the girl of my dreams from a Psychic site; go figure.
You knw what i think..if u have a long distance relationship the best thing to do is to have two girlfriends it saves you the embarassment after the break up and it also helps you to decide which one u want to stay with...afterwards when u make your decision leave the other or just keep both meet with the other one in real and then make your decision...atleast that's my plan :/ sighhhhhhhh
i honestly believe that long distance relationships can work as long as your not dramatic about it. i understand that it sucks but its easier to think " boy i cant wait for them to get home" then "damn it sucks that they are gone" my best friend in the whole wild world moved and we talked on skype every day and the day she came back i wept i was so happy to see her :D
It's true what onision said, you can't really have friends and a long distance relationship, i found this out when i had to leave the U.S. to Mexico soo i had a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, everything went well for about 7 months up until she started to go out more and such, since i was diferent from the other people i don't tend to get along with them, when she finnaly broke up with me she went out with another person within 3 weeks, sadly i still can't get over her:/
I had to leave the U.S. temporarily (because of reasons not to be mentioned) and I had to leave my boyfriend whom I got into a relationship with just a couple weeks before. I told him I had to leave but he still wanted to go out with me so we continued dating. We text each other every single day, send pictures, email, webcam, etc. Its been 3 months and we're still together, anticipating the day I come back =)
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months and have already met online. Yes you have to be dedicated, but it's okay to have friends in person and be busy irl too. It's good for your gf/bf have a life irl too. Its great when you can share your daily experiences with each other and game together on the computer in the evenings. You really get to know someone this way and webcaming isnt too bad either. ;p Meeting in person is the most important though cause there needs to be chemistry.
I've been going out with my gf for 6 months as of 4 days ago. ^^ She's over 2,000 miles away and her and I have been working out fine. But yet, I'm both a loner and extremely dedicated, and so is she....
II see my girlfriend once every three weeks,but the thing is that she doesn't loves me,so every time we see,is be case if begged her to go out,it's sad if you knew
All of your videos make me feel.... Sad ( in a good way? No, I am not emo xD ) like you talk about your heart and soul and... Ok, I feel weird saying stuff like that, anyways! I luv your videos there so... Ok, I can't think of a word at the moment , but you ( maybeee? ) know what I mean
You are completely right. ( of course) I met my boyfriend online. It's been pretty rough, and hard when I started hanging out with people a lot. You gotta be careful and remind yourself how much you care about that person...since they're not around.
I used to be a loner, until I met someone online. We got to know each other and then we started a long distance relationship. It lasted two years. I found out he cheated on me, But we got back together because i was willing to forgive. But then a month or so later I got really mad and cheated on hi. We broke up for about 6 or 7 months. we actually just got back together three days ago because we never actually got over each other. So, Was I wrong to take him back?
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and i have been for 19 months now, yes it is hard, and we fight every now and then, but it does work. We see each other every 3 months, and we got together before i moved away. With your conclusions about them either being committed or a loner, haha i'm both. Mainly because i have to be, because yeah long story.. But lets just say its ok for him to do what he wants, but when its me its completely different,,, How is that fair?
I met my gf in Greece at a training-camp, but then I of course had to go home to Norway. We have been together for a month now, and we're gonna see eachother soon. People say I should let go and move on, but I love her! I don't know what to do! I would do anything to make it work!
I found my love over facebook... hes in India and i am in Indiana... I truly love him and i am not a loner whatso ever.. its that he was the sweetest and cutest guy i have ever met... He is better than anyone where i am..
Its just that...my one and only... is in a different country.. which is not fair ): I am into being with him for year until the day we WILL meet and stay forever..together :D♥
Lol, I'm not a loner and neither is my boyfriend. We've been in a successful long distance relationship for the past 4 years. Being a loner is not necessary, if you love your partner enough, what is a little distance? If you can't put up with distance, you probably don't really love your partner and shouldn't be in a relationship with them in the first place. Physical contact isn't the only way to show affection.
Two years we've been together I'm 17 he's four years older I'm his first love and girlfriend he is not my frist boyfriend, but my first love I hang with only girls he only has guy friends, we know and like each others friends meeting for the first time this summer We spend all our time together that he isnt at work, i dont have many friends close by so it's hard to see them anyway I know I can make this work advice: never let anyone convice you your LD boy or girl is cheating, or anything, ever
Everyone has the ability to fall for someone other than their partner, regardless of whether they're in a long distance relationship or not, I think people fail to realise this sometimes. So yes, I do agree that you have to be extremely dedicated to make an LD relationship work, definitely, and you can hang with other people without being a loner as well, as long as that dedication to your partner is there.
i met my boyfriend on youtube :) we still only know eachother over the net tho xD gonna meet him in real life on day :3 we've done webcam, he's my everything now<3
''Don't feel anyless of her, cuz we fell in love over a messenger' <3
i agree if yur obviously not their world, there can be room for a new person that might take yur spot. ive been thru it, i hated it, i never want to do it again:\
They can work but only if you are in a serious (and I mean very serous) relationship before you embark on the long distance part. I have seen many relationships work and fail for soldiers on active deployment. It really does depend.
ive gotta ask like not being mean but, i guess u would caall me a loner i dont have alot of friends but like any girl i see i cant see myself with, like the only person i could ever see myself with is the significant other with lives in pennsylvania, so my question is, do you think u can be in love with someone that youve never met face to face? like i see her on skype all the time like every single night, but do you think its possible to still be in love?
@deadfrost46 I do think it's possible, me and my boyfriend have never met in real life, but im madly inlove with him, and i do know he feels the same way. So yeah, it is possible to love someone you have never met face to face with,
@kglovesplaydough it was just a question cause i mean im in love with her we met on myyearbook and weve known each other for 3 years and just recently decided to date because well we have been in love for a few mnths before that just wasnt sure to date and we figured we would since i mean we dont wanna be with anyone else and i mean its amazing shes so wonderful <3
I had a gf that lived in Albania, we loved each other for more than a year. We spent almost six months of relationship full of fights, ache but most of all LOVE. Why love? Because LOVE isn't measured by what the eyes see, the hands touch but what the HEART feels. :)
You don't necessarily need to be a loner to be dedicated. I hung out with my friends almost every day, yet I talked to her every single day as well and never fell for anyone but her.
It's been three years since I started my first relationship, which was also long distance. He has remembered our monthly anniversary ever since then, too. Last December he sent me a ring, with a note inside asking me to marry him. In our three years I've only seen him twice, 6 days total. But I've never felt better then I did those 6 days.
I've learn that "i wash my back so you won't stab mine" and yes there is room for caution but for being a loner basiclly my hole life for but because of my hard times in my past made me want to be alone amonges othere reasons and the reasons that i need to get out of so in a way i need to change and give a little trust there and a littler there and i had long distance relationships but they never worked for me. My idea on that Go for someone near but thats just my idea.
I must not be a loner. Ha. I have tried long distance relationships and literally just broke one off yesterday. It has worked in the past, however, before I became more mature. When I started to think for myself and become a better person, my ex felt uncomfortable. I do not know why he felt uncomfortable. Maybe he is significantly older than me and has yet to think for himself. He could not understand me thinking for myself. That is too bad. Ha.
things just work out. you gotta have ALOT of trust, and it doesnt matter how much time you spend with the person in real life, i fell in love with who he is, and i take along all his flaws.
I'm not a loner, and neither is my boyfriend who lives in a different state. We call each other as often as possible, which is at most once a month because he and I are so busy with school all the time. Even still, I know that I am his everything and he knows that I feel the same way. So in a way, you are very correct, unfortunately this doesn't apply to absolutely everyone. :3
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and ive only met him face-to-face twice. The fact is yeah, there has to be ALOT of dedication, but that doesnt mean im a loner. I go to parties and hang out with friends AND ex's, but i love the man im with, so there is no other men i want to be with. Its about learning to accept that distance has its flaws, and continuing to go for it because love isnt an easy thing to find. So i fight or the love i have, but is that wrong?
@tinkerballez Twice in four years? Don't you think you idealise a person in that situation? I mean, how can you really know them? Isn't it just the image you have of them that you know inside out? I mean, yeah, you probably chat and webcam etc but the fact of the matter is you don't get to see how they interact with other people in their environment. I'm not saying that they necessarily put up a facade. Anyway, I'm not judging. I just have questions. I'm glad its working out for you.
oh we'll talk ok i have an objection all seriousness here i do ill wait for ur response not that ill get one cuz ur onision u dont respond to anybody ur the big name on YT and were just little ppl
I agree on some things, except the loner part. I think that is completely wrong. None has made me feel like my current person. And he happens to be miles away. You just never know who you'll fall for. I meet tons people daily,and so does he, due to our jobs.He is a musician and I'm a model. But no matter how much people I meet, I'll always think of him more than anyone else. =) We're just waiting to see where work takes us, so we can plan some future. It can happen, you just need effort.
Honestly? I always made fun of that stuff until it happened to me. And I object to this cuz I don't consider myself or my boyfriend to be loners. We trust each other :) But most importantly I'm happy. And I wouldn't change what I have now for any relationship with ANY local guy.. ♥
my ex lives in well use to love in raleigh NC and i live in NY. we dated for 3 years with alot of problems behind our relationship. now she has moved back to NY and where not together and i havent seen her since she moved back here:( its so hard knowing shes back and she wants nothing to do with me
my girlfriend lived in Sacramento, CA and i live in New York, NY. we met each other in a chat service 3 years ago, long story short, now we live together! , long relationships do work BUT only if both parties are willing to make it work.
This kinda gave me some hope!(x My baby lives in Texas, and I in California. It's so hard on the both of us. We're both kinda loners, for our own reasons, but we're just so drawn to each other. Infatuation, yes, but it's young love. Our motto is 'When.(:' as in, 'When we'll finally be together for good.' I don't know how this will work out, but, we're both hoping for the best because, well, we love each other. I'd be devastated if I ever lost him, for any reason.<3
I'm a Huge loner and I say long distant relationships suck ass. Not cause oh I'm some horny ass dude and crap but because of just a million reasons and like you can't actually hang out or anything. They totally suck and I'll never be in one again, Idk why I tried one out. Well I do but it wasn't a good enough reason and I knew it at the time. Not the best decision on my part.
Your right. You do kinda have to be a loner to make it work, or at least put yourself in the other person's shoes to see if your doing anything wrong. I've been in a long distence relationship for about 3 years, and will soon be visiting My Love. But long distence does take a lot of effort, stubbornness sometimes, and lots of trust.
if your strong enough you can make it. Thats just what I think tho. :O
My boyfriend lives about 4k miles away from me, and we're still together! We've been together since September, and our mothers had to move away in January, but I'm moving back with him in June. Yes, they do work out.
iCookies4Lifexx 1 week ago in playlist Relationships
I live in Florida and my girlfriend lives in California, I do see her from time to time, and talk and text with her everyday, And I'm committing to one day moving over to Cali to be with her. :-)
TheVblogs 1 week ago in playlist Relationships
....wow. Mine is a long distance and I NEVER see her!! >_< But watevs we still love eachuder
TheCreepsAreAlright 1 week ago in playlist Relationships
My long-distance relationship isn't exactly long-distance to an adult, but I'm 17 with no car of my own.
My girlfriend lives 30 minutes away by car. I've been with her for 4 months as of tomorrow and we've had our stumbles, but we both love each other a lot. We both see this relationship working well. In these 4 months, we've seen each other about 7 times, having day trips almost every time. We're close, and when I get a car of my own I hope to see her weekly.
I love her.
moocow6699 1 week ago
Didn't work for me at all. We knew each other since we was little babies and then he moved away when he was 12. He then asked me out when he was away when he was 14. We stayed together for just over a year. It ended because we both just couldn't take a long distance relationship seriously I suppose...We both were too young for paying transport and we got into way too many arguments. I'm now with a guy who I love to pieces who lives much closer. In my experience,no they don't work.
xbrionybabex 2 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
I live in Australia, and my boyfriend lives in Germany. We've been together for 13 months now, and he means so much to me. Often I do get doubts if it would actually work. Will I ever see him in real life? Will this turn out how I hope? Or is my head just in the clouds? But after seeing this, it really put things into perspective for me. Thank you so much <3 :)
ImmaBeANinjaBunny 4 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
guilty - 1 and 2.
I firstly wanted to say that; what if you just somehow online met a person that is so special that finding them in real life near you is pretty much impossible?
although that is true, you're probably right. i'm probably just a loner. if that weren't the case, i'd be satisfied with at least 1 one of the girls i met in real life. but nope.
Avian98X 1 month ago
no no no. Those fucking things fail miserably.
TisJacob 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
@Tis
Actually, no. Not when you come with the expectations of finding a soul mate, rather than *only* a girl/boyfriend.
Look at all the other comments & you will realize this is true.
Everyone who it didn't work for came with the whole wrong idea of what this kind of relationship actually means. it can't only be showing your love to one another.. it also, mainly, means being there for the other one.
Relationship is a very vague term anyway - you even have a "relationship" with your siblings.
Avian98X 1 month ago
Go die Onision!
TheToilet21 1 month ago
I don't like the fact that there's a PROTEST ONISION Add on his fucking video. I've been watching onision since the beginning ( Have him subbed on my other account, forgot the password. ) And I can honestly say haters are welcome.
NitrousTS 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
@NitrousTS Onision sucks grandma vagina. FLAP-FLAP!
TheToilet21 1 month ago
Forever alone
0B00BY0 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
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my ex and i dated for four months and it didnt work out. i have the vid explaining my personal experience of an LDR on my channel. :( i miss him, you really do get attached. but i had a life and its true you do have to be a loner haha wah! oh well if anybody wants some advice watch the vid ! :D LOVE YA GREG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rissababyrawr 1 month ago
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rissababyrawr 1 month ago
just for my sake, i hope they can work out
i so hope you are wrong
but, yeah, not blind, your statements are valid.
xxveskoxxbg 1 month ago
My girl and I worked out a long distance.
leavinghoperecords 1 month ago
For someone so young, you're so dead-on and man, I wish there were guys like you when I was your age, that's all I can say! I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, Greg! Past ones, present ones and looking forward to your future ones!
NancyGooGoo 1 month ago 4
I'm a loner. I tried that long distance stuff before, but the first time I got cheated on, and the second time I ended it because it was pointless to "date" someone across the country that you will never meet. It was too depressing. Now I'm alone, but not as depressed.
saiyanblade84 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
My exboyfriend and I dated for 2 years but then I moved to HK. After briefly reflecting on your thoughts I'd say I agree. We were very committed to each other but we're young and not loners so it ended. We don't really talk much anymore.
ThirtyCentHelicopter 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
Im a loner! :) :D :D :D
DaRealProto 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
I'm really really dedicated to my long distance relationship <3
thewolf528 1 month ago
My boyfriend lives about four hours away by car (different state), but we call pretty much every night and we've been together for almost two years come this May and I'll be seeing him again this summer. <3
Jalex016 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
i got out of my frist relationship with a man i was with for 10 months.. he left me for my best friend.. they didnt last long and i was happy. i liked seeing him alone like i was.i then got connected with a man who lived 2 hours car drive from me , i loved the attention i got...this man helped me get over him... because i started to think of him and how sweet he was.... the words he told me were amazing..and i felt beautiful. long distance can work to get over people but forever wont happen.
ladydie1234 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
Good video ....
RichMrRichie 1 month ago
my boyfriend lives a decent distance away. it usually takes me 2 buses and a 20 minute walk just to see him, but i see him every weekend :) its been almost a year now <3 he only uses his phone for me as i do for him
CaitlinChemicals 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
lame
maxgrewe 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
my boyfriend and i live apart and i still hang out with other people. yes, we are on the phone as much as possible, but you dont have to be a "loner" to make a relationship like this work. we just love each other to death and i cant see myself with anyone else, and i dont wanna see myself with anyone else. :)
melaniescavinox 1 month ago in playlist Relationships 7
16,000 miles away here...kinda makes me feel far away when I think about it. But hey, it's only a 5 hour flight in a fighter jet= )
IIproductionsII 2 months ago
i think i like this channel more than the main one
JassWondering 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
I've been going out with my boyfriend from Canada for a year now. I live in England and we're not loners :)
misscathygeorge 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
I totally understand this Its like what dating online is
aleclally 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
I'm a loner, cause everyone thinks I'm crazy. I'm just weird and love to be me OUT LOUD!!!
SuperToxicBitch 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
@SuperToxicBitch <3 u being u
thethreeamazingmen 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
I agree with you on this one!
TaysieGraves 2 months ago
it worked for me basically all my SERIOUS relationships have been long distant... me and Robert have been together for almost an entire year now *From January 1st , its December 29th* :) and im moving to Louisiana in a few days so... yay :D
DeathIIV 2 months ago
yeah but if that attraction is going to be felt, why would you not feel that attraction even if you're in a relationship where you see your significant other on a regular basis?
redheadpyro89 2 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
i have a boyfriend who lives 5 hours away, and weve been dating 8 months lol
DaiBeet 2 months ago
Works for me.
I'm dedicated LOLOL.
ieatsoulsjustsaying 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
could be with him all the time but that just isnt ossible at this point in time in our lives.
Hypoglypasta 2 months ago
My boyfiend originally lived near me but moved during the school year.. Weve been together over a year, us dating only a month before he moved which other people found stupid. Its worked out pretty great. But as to the people having to be loners i disagree. We are both fairly social people and weve had no relationship problems. Sometimes we feel like we dont talk enough so we slow down and talk for three hours.. But seeing him once a month is ok with me. I mean obviously i miss him and i wish i
Hypoglypasta 2 months ago
I have a girlfriend I met who lives outside in norway (Im scottish) We've been together for about 2 years, and she has gotten her working visa now, so, It works :p
Dparkes26 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
My belief is that some long-distance relationships can work but most of them probably won't. I've had a lot of long-distance boyfriends and it never came close to working out with them. Of course, that's a good thing because a lot of them were slime balls and at the time I didn't really think about what kind of people they were because I was incredibly naive.
dealwiththetruth767 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
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I've watched a lot of your videos and they are amazing, you give great advice to people and that's what I love about you Greg <3
fieldmj92 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
My boyfriend lives 2k miles away from me and I hang out with many people which include guys, but I have found if you really love someone then feelings won't arise from someone new or different; so it is possible to have many friends and be in a faithful, long distance relationship.
corsetfreak13 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
@corsetfreak13 you do not chose whether or not you have feelings for someone. Eventually if the right person comes along you will end up feeling attracted to that person. To me part of love, is staying faithfull even though you may desire to be with another person from time to time
TheDeviantGamer 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
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NyaFrigqinMeowMeow 2 months ago
Well, my boyfriend and I aren't necessarily loners, but we don't have a lot in common with people besides each other. We were friends for 2 years prior to getting together, and we talk 24/7. would you say it works? We see each other a couple times a year
Saffyart 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
I've known my boyfriend for over 4 years, been together for almost 2 years, 1.5 of them in a long distance relationship, he is perfect, and does not even think about other girls, I am his world, and he is mine, nobody could ever give me that:) Thanks baby:)
BeautyNatural1 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
Ive know
BeautyNatural1 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
in my opinion i dont think it can work out because that person may be cheating on you with someone closer than you are.
luvyougranny 3 months ago in playlist Relationships
wow im amazed at how you nailed that, im in a long distance relationship right now a lil more then a year, and the part of your video that got me was that "you are their world..." you got it right :)
muffineater4545 3 months ago
yeah but what about military relationships
FloganFly 3 months ago
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fnizzledizzle 3 months ago
Introvert here. Will never meet anyone "Online" again though. Flew from Florida to Los Angeles after talking to someone for 2 years online. Needless to say, I put this guy on a pedestal buy creating the perfect person (for me) in my mind somehow. It was simply a fallacy and he well, turned out to be a horrible, abusive person. I was stuck in Los Angeles with this freak for a month. The End :/
JanaINJax 4 months ago
I'm a loner :(
SheDropsDead 4 months ago in playlist Relationships 42
@SheDropsDead same /:
xGothicXRosesx 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
This may seem..like lame XD but i wanted at least you to know this video is epic. i was in a long relationship and for months iv been blaming myself how i screwed up and its me me me and didn't consider you know ppl coming in and finding something "exciting" you know? well its easier to breath and accept everything . thanks so much <3 Vs
VanillaSparx 4 months ago
Known my boyfriend 3 or 4 years? He lives 3k miles away. Coming to visit me next summer. It works. (:
iTehHolli 4 months ago in playlist Relationships 35
@iTehHolli Good for you! over a year just sounds depressing. I hope that visit goes amazing for you!
Hypoglypasta 2 months ago
@iTehHolli I'm in the same situation <3
MidnightDream241 1 month ago in playlist O ni si on Speaks.
If the persons involved in this are the type of people that are not so crazy about getting out and go to the parties , if they prefer to spend their time reading and they enjoy to be kind of isolated maybe there is a chance that the long distance relationship will work but I still have some doubts. If there's one of them who likes going to the parties and stuff and the other doesn't I don't think that there are too many chances.
RaduBigGun 4 months ago
most of these people are talking about second life or imvu or some other bullshyt that makes them loners
Shippudencave 4 months ago in playlist Relationships
I'm in a second ldr and i couldn't be happier
butterslacks109 5 months ago
i miss when speaks videos were like this
TheFrag1le 5 months ago 2
this helped me so much:) thank you greg:)
edwardcullenluvr1000 5 months ago
My boyfriend and I live an hour apart and we both i quess you can say are..social? I completely trust him and the same in me so we dont worry that. :) we usually meet up twice a week
monkeysoxsproduction 5 months ago
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. We've never met once. We talk on the phone all the time and on the computer all the time. There have been times where him and I could hardly talk for like a month or so at a time, but we still stayed strong and look where we're at now. (: Long distant relationships can work out. (: ♥
newtard95 5 months ago 2
@newtard95 you gave me hope :) me an my long distant boyfriend haven't talked very much lately and when you said it worked out well it gave me hope :)
alebre12 2 months ago
depends on how busy you are - if you both have high intensity jobs, kids, a full life, then maybe meeting up once a month or so works for you...if not, one person will always want more than the other is able / willing to give.
Hawaiiansky11 5 months ago in playlist Relationships
yeah long distance blows. Im a loner so I didnt feel any need to wander. Him not so much. I got cheated on majorly. Super devastating. Dont do it!!!
LindaTheFantastic 5 months ago
I am etremly dedicated then :) I love him..But i think hes cheating on me cuz he really doesnt want to talk to me as much and his mood has been changing bad..:/
iZzYiFlY1 5 months ago
well, no, I made my proposal in real life. We didn't meet on the internet.
MrEvrit 5 months ago
well actually i have a long distance relationship with a girl, we are not really loners, but we are together since 3 years and half, on march she is moving here, and yes, we are planning marriage : )
MrEvrit 5 months ago
@MrEvrit Planned marriage over the Internet? Woah, never heard of something like that before. I wish you good luck.
Setobear 5 months ago
Grey I love you for saying that :)
loveisgreat41 5 months ago
I really wish I found this video sooner. My last relationship was a long distance one. And I trusted him completely. He always hung out with his friends and I still trusted him because he truly loved me and I love him. However, the stupidest mistake I ever made? He told me his friend Michelle was going to stay the night because of family issues. I said its ok. I'm not sure about the timing but I think that's when she ruined our relationship later on. It's been 5 months but I still hate her.
OperaGhostObsession 5 months ago
it's not that difficult and you don't have to be indoors with nobody to talk too just because your man is away... if I did that I'd go insane cause I never know when i will hear from him due to him being in a war zone. IJS
februarygirl19 5 months ago
That's not true... my husband and I have been apart for 3 years due to us both being deployed one after the other... I am a very active person... a very out doors type of person and I love hanging out with friends... You don't have to be a loner to have a long distance relationship or marriage.... you just have to be wise about choosing who you hang out with... like for girls find a group of girls and there ya go... males same thing...
februarygirl19 5 months ago
you spend most of your free time in front of the laptop/pc, talking with the person you love per skype/msn/etc. and end up neglecting your friends in rl life, basically it makes you a loner.
iCookiesh 5 months ago
I see my boyfriend about once a month-he lives about an hour away. It's works completely fine.
cerystalkstoyouall 5 months ago
Bah... I'm pretty much a loner. i was so used to long distance relationships. im a very dedicated person too though. even if i did meet some new people id keep in mind that i had a girlfriend and whatnot. but my ex girlfriend met new people almost everyday. it was hard for her to even make time for me. :l however i was so dedicated and in love i didnt care. then she dumps me for one of her best friends. shes a bitch. i was lied to quite often. bah.
PaulinaH727 5 months ago
Psychology -> Buffers
That is all.
Edge0fPain 5 months ago
idk i half agree with you on that idk i think they can work and stiff but idk you dont have to be a loner to idk just just have to have self control and know that it is stilll cheating if its long distance
janniewhite106 6 months ago
.... Good god. I don't even have words to describe how much this upsets me.
ijustmaybe 6 months ago
I think this is really wrong... no offense. I think that it is really easy to get caught up in the moment with someone else but if you truly love the person who's far away, they'll come to your mind first.
kiwwikat 6 months ago
i love my husband and I stayed dedicated when he went to Iraq for 2 years.
ChristinaDuffer 6 months ago
@ChristinaDuffer
That's so great :D
Edge0fPain 5 months ago
Well, personal experience dictates that for the most part, I agree with Onision; however, personal experience also holds me to attest that 9,999/10,000 long distance relationships absolutely suck. More or less just chasing the donut faery and hoping she'll drop down from heaven with all you've ever dreamed of. I'm marrying the girl of my dreams from a Psychic site; go figure.
XenonDiosmitide 6 months ago
You knw what i think..if u have a long distance relationship the best thing to do is to have two girlfriends it saves you the embarassment after the break up and it also helps you to decide which one u want to stay with...afterwards when u make your decision leave the other or just keep both meet with the other one in real and then make your decision...atleast that's my plan :/ sighhhhhhhh
KyleAlex92 6 months ago
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VideosByNicky 6 months ago
i honestly believe that long distance relationships can work as long as your not dramatic about it. i understand that it sucks but its easier to think " boy i cant wait for them to get home" then "damn it sucks that they are gone" my best friend in the whole wild world moved and we talked on skype every day and the day she came back i wept i was so happy to see her :D
snailioful 6 months ago
It's true what onision said, you can't really have friends and a long distance relationship, i found this out when i had to leave the U.S. to Mexico soo i had a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, everything went well for about 7 months up until she started to go out more and such, since i was diferent from the other people i don't tend to get along with them, when she finnaly broke up with me she went out with another person within 3 weeks, sadly i still can't get over her:/
itzkidfresh 6 months ago
I had to leave the U.S. temporarily (because of reasons not to be mentioned) and I had to leave my boyfriend whom I got into a relationship with just a couple weeks before. I told him I had to leave but he still wanted to go out with me so we continued dating. We text each other every single day, send pictures, email, webcam, etc. Its been 3 months and we're still together, anticipating the day I come back =)
chocolatemilk7894561 6 months ago
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months and have already met online. Yes you have to be dedicated, but it's okay to have friends in person and be busy irl too. It's good for your gf/bf have a life irl too. Its great when you can share your daily experiences with each other and game together on the computer in the evenings. You really get to know someone this way and webcaming isnt too bad either. ;p Meeting in person is the most important though cause there needs to be chemistry.
ItsAngelx33 6 months ago
This actually really helps, thanks Onision XD
LunatikProductions12 6 months ago
I've been going out with my gf for 6 months as of 4 days ago. ^^ She's over 2,000 miles away and her and I have been working out fine. But yet, I'm both a loner and extremely dedicated, and so is she....
Lawlipop1022 6 months ago
ive been with my boyfriend for a year and and he lives 7,1423 miles away i talk to him a lot but he know lots of people should i worry
EMOHELLOKITTYLOVE1 6 months ago
@EMOHELLOKITTYLOVE1 i ment 7,142 miles away sorry
EMOHELLOKITTYLOVE1 6 months ago
II see my girlfriend once every three weeks,but the thing is that she doesn't loves me,so every time we see,is be case if begged her to go out,it's sad if you knew
darklordofkickingass 6 months ago
im both..
MrBanbanbo 6 months ago
All of your videos make me feel.... Sad ( in a good way? No, I am not emo xD ) like you talk about your heart and soul and... Ok, I feel weird saying stuff like that, anyways! I luv your videos there so... Ok, I can't think of a word at the moment , but you ( maybeee? ) know what I mean
xRinnyxchanx 6 months ago
Measure the love, not the distance (:
Sayitright90 6 months ago
You are completely right. ( of course) I met my boyfriend online. It's been pretty rough, and hard when I started hanging out with people a lot. You gotta be careful and remind yourself how much you care about that person...since they're not around.
xxdamianaxx 7 months ago
hes so hot.
Shimmerwave 7 months ago in playlist Relationships
5 years together in High school+ College + Long Distance = me getting hurt
Wiiwii91 7 months ago
ur right.. makes sense.
alizzzzzza 7 months ago
I used to be a loner, until I met someone online. We got to know each other and then we started a long distance relationship. It lasted two years. I found out he cheated on me, But we got back together because i was willing to forgive. But then a month or so later I got really mad and cheated on hi. We broke up for about 6 or 7 months. we actually just got back together three days ago because we never actually got over each other. So, Was I wrong to take him back?
tiffany14587 7 months ago
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and i have been for 19 months now, yes it is hard, and we fight every now and then, but it does work. We see each other every 3 months, and we got together before i moved away. With your conclusions about them either being committed or a loner, haha i'm both. Mainly because i have to be, because yeah long story.. But lets just say its ok for him to do what he wants, but when its me its completely different,,, How is that fair?
sjaiinee12 7 months ago
I met my gf in Greece at a training-camp, but then I of course had to go home to Norway. We have been together for a month now, and we're gonna see eachother soon. People say I should let go and move on, but I love her! I don't know what to do! I would do anything to make it work!
Fr13dN3wb 7 months ago
it's so fucking difficult!!!!
EvilDarkAngel6669 7 months ago
I found my love over facebook... hes in India and i am in Indiana... I truly love him and i am not a loner whatso ever.. its that he was the sweetest and cutest guy i have ever met... He is better than anyone where i am..
Its just that...my one and only... is in a different country.. which is not fair ): I am into being with him for year until the day we WILL meet and stay forever..together :D♥
cally31371 7 months ago
Um..
I'm either going to have to deal with a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.
Or break up with him.
He's moving to California, And I am living in Alabama.
I just really need some advice, minus the loner stuff.
Just somebody on these comments.. could somebody give me some advice.
jaayebaaye2Oll 8 months ago
@JaNae052 funny my boyfriend moved AWAY from colorado recently
SoWrongItsHolly 8 months ago
Lol, I'm not a loner and neither is my boyfriend. We've been in a successful long distance relationship for the past 4 years. Being a loner is not necessary, if you love your partner enough, what is a little distance? If you can't put up with distance, you probably don't really love your partner and shouldn't be in a relationship with them in the first place. Physical contact isn't the only way to show affection.
saccopharyngiformes 8 months ago
@saccopharyngiformes I so agree with this
alicejoel 8 months ago
My boyfriend moved to Colorado almost two years ago, and were still going strong. :P We're not loners.. ._.;
JaNae052 8 months ago
bellaboo182 8 months ago
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bellaboo182 8 months ago
Totally agree.
598146543 8 months ago
Everyone has the ability to fall for someone other than their partner, regardless of whether they're in a long distance relationship or not, I think people fail to realise this sometimes. So yes, I do agree that you have to be extremely dedicated to make an LD relationship work, definitely, and you can hang with other people without being a loner as well, as long as that dedication to your partner is there.
Twigglet13 8 months ago
i tried moving on after my boyfriend moved but i couldnt and we got back together, i trust him and (even tho he shouldnt) he trusts me <3
dancefohhheva 8 months ago
i met my boyfriend on youtube :) we still only know eachother over the net tho xD gonna meet him in real life on day :3 we've done webcam, he's my everything now<3
''Don't feel anyless of her, cuz we fell in love over a messenger' <3
TheMarshtomp1001 9 months ago
i agree if yur obviously not their world, there can be room for a new person that might take yur spot. ive been thru it, i hated it, i never want to do it again:\
M5T0K10H0T3L98 9 months ago
Sadly I fall into BOTH categories xD
krameralexander 9 months ago
i'm a loner, but my partner is not... we're both extremely dedicated, though.
could it still work out despite the fact that my partner has a lot of friends?
cuteyay 9 months ago
I fall into the "extremely dedicated" category.
MewVenus 9 months ago
They can work but only if you are in a serious (and I mean very serous) relationship before you embark on the long distance part. I have seen many relationships work and fail for soldiers on active deployment. It really does depend.
lkaasikmae 9 months ago
ive gotta ask like not being mean but, i guess u would caall me a loner i dont have alot of friends but like any girl i see i cant see myself with, like the only person i could ever see myself with is the significant other with lives in pennsylvania, so my question is, do you think u can be in love with someone that youve never met face to face? like i see her on skype all the time like every single night, but do you think its possible to still be in love?
deadfrost46 9 months ago
@deadfrost46 I do think it's possible, me and my boyfriend have never met in real life, but im madly inlove with him, and i do know he feels the same way. So yeah, it is possible to love someone you have never met face to face with,
kglovesplaydough 9 months ago
@kglovesplaydough it was just a question cause i mean im in love with her we met on myyearbook and weve known each other for 3 years and just recently decided to date because well we have been in love for a few mnths before that just wasnt sure to date and we figured we would since i mean we dont wanna be with anyone else and i mean its amazing shes so wonderful <3
deadfrost46 9 months ago
I had a gf that lived in Albania, we loved each other for more than a year. We spent almost six months of relationship full of fights, ache but most of all LOVE. Why love? Because LOVE isn't measured by what the eyes see, the hands touch but what the HEART feels. :)
You don't necessarily need to be a loner to be dedicated. I hung out with my friends almost every day, yet I talked to her every single day as well and never fell for anyone but her.
Everything's possible when it comes to love!
SlaytanicForce 9 months ago
looking at your newest video...you seem to have changed your opinion alot!
daniellexblack 9 months ago
It's been three years since I started my first relationship, which was also long distance. He has remembered our monthly anniversary ever since then, too. Last December he sent me a ring, with a note inside asking me to marry him. In our three years I've only seen him twice, 6 days total. But I've never felt better then I did those 6 days.
BosoGaSuki 10 months ago
I've learn that "i wash my back so you won't stab mine" and yes there is room for caution but for being a loner basiclly my hole life for but because of my hard times in my past made me want to be alone amonges othere reasons and the reasons that i need to get out of so in a way i need to change and give a little trust there and a littler there and i had long distance relationships but they never worked for me. My idea on that Go for someone near but thats just my idea.
Thornageable 10 months ago
ive been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now =] they do work out if you and your partner really work towards it and trust each other
ButterFlyStlerXoXo 10 months ago
I must not be a loner. Ha. I have tried long distance relationships and literally just broke one off yesterday. It has worked in the past, however, before I became more mature. When I started to think for myself and become a better person, my ex felt uncomfortable. I do not know why he felt uncomfortable. Maybe he is significantly older than me and has yet to think for himself. He could not understand me thinking for myself. That is too bad. Ha.
GabrielleBiggs 10 months ago
@Aura021190Lee
things just work out. you gotta have ALOT of trust, and it doesnt matter how much time you spend with the person in real life, i fell in love with who he is, and i take along all his flaws.
tinkerballez 10 months ago
I'm not a loner, and neither is my boyfriend who lives in a different state. We call each other as often as possible, which is at most once a month because he and I are so busy with school all the time. Even still, I know that I am his everything and he knows that I feel the same way. So in a way, you are very correct, unfortunately this doesn't apply to absolutely everyone. :3
Fuhlishiz 10 months ago
Heeeey, what about the people they meet online?
sasukejemino 10 months ago
that explain pretty much why I always get long distance relationship. thanks man
oly355 10 months ago
imma banana imma banana imma banana!!! yeah they do work..... but it takes time to find the right person i guess
DedBassPlayer 11 months ago
ALMOST 2 months Engage and long distance
chesleycareystar 11 months ago
me and my boyfriend have never seen each other in person. been together a long time(: were happy loners ^-^
deidarafangirl777 11 months ago 81
@deidarafangirl777 mine too
memeandme0321 10 months ago
I'm a loner, he's not... probably wont work out.
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Nlla546 11 months ago
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and ive only met him face-to-face twice. The fact is yeah, there has to be ALOT of dedication, but that doesnt mean im a loner. I go to parties and hang out with friends AND ex's, but i love the man im with, so there is no other men i want to be with. Its about learning to accept that distance has its flaws, and continuing to go for it because love isnt an easy thing to find. So i fight or the love i have, but is that wrong?
tinkerballez 11 months ago
@tinkerballez Twice in four years? Don't you think you idealise a person in that situation? I mean, how can you really know them? Isn't it just the image you have of them that you know inside out? I mean, yeah, you probably chat and webcam etc but the fact of the matter is you don't get to see how they interact with other people in their environment. I'm not saying that they necessarily put up a facade. Anyway, I'm not judging. I just have questions. I'm glad its working out for you.
Aura021190Lee 10 months ago
Yeah you have to be dedicated and put efforts into it. You explained it perfectly.
Sal0ry 11 months ago
oh we'll talk ok i have an objection all seriousness here i do ill wait for ur response not that ill get one cuz ur onision u dont respond to anybody ur the big name on YT and were just little ppl
xEricTheGothx 11 months ago
I agree on some things, except the loner part. I think that is completely wrong. None has made me feel like my current person. And he happens to be miles away. You just never know who you'll fall for. I meet tons people daily,and so does he, due to our jobs.He is a musician and I'm a model. But no matter how much people I meet, I'll always think of him more than anyone else. =) We're just waiting to see where work takes us, so we can plan some future. It can happen, you just need effort.
Lilich69 1 year ago
Honestly? I always made fun of that stuff until it happened to me. And I object to this cuz I don't consider myself or my boyfriend to be loners. We trust each other :) But most importantly I'm happy. And I wouldn't change what I have now for any relationship with ANY local guy.. ♥
sonia14way 1 year ago
On the upside, we both know we're loners.
So it's all good. So I can't really object to this. Lmbo.
puppylover258 1 year ago
Im a loner... she's not... going through the breakup currently
vvv0305 1 year ago
my ex lives in well use to love in raleigh NC and i live in NY. we dated for 3 years with alot of problems behind our relationship. now she has moved back to NY and where not together and i havent seen her since she moved back here:( its so hard knowing shes back and she wants nothing to do with me
13jasonX 1 year ago
I wish I lived near him...
roxas97531 1 year ago
My girlfriend lives in Ireland and I feel in scotland :)
VangeistXIII 1 year ago
my girlfriend lived in Sacramento, CA and i live in New York, NY. we met each other in a chat service 3 years ago, long story short, now we live together! , long relationships do work BUT only if both parties are willing to make it work.
darkstarXSI 1 year ago
Move on...TT__TT
Zamouzik 1 year ago
This kinda gave me some hope!(x My baby lives in Texas, and I in California. It's so hard on the both of us. We're both kinda loners, for our own reasons, but we're just so drawn to each other. Infatuation, yes, but it's young love. Our motto is 'When.(:' as in, 'When we'll finally be together for good.' I don't know how this will work out, but, we're both hoping for the best because, well, we love each other. I'd be devastated if I ever lost him, for any reason.<3
rocketstarcat 1 year ago
I'm a Huge loner and I say long distant relationships suck ass. Not cause oh I'm some horny ass dude and crap but because of just a million reasons and like you can't actually hang out or anything. They totally suck and I'll never be in one again, Idk why I tried one out. Well I do but it wasn't a good enough reason and I knew it at the time. Not the best decision on my part.
MrEllisRedding 1 year ago
Im in one going on two years and im not a loner haha
derekhough123 1 year ago
im with onision b/c i was in one and i dont have any friends and she did and i lost her to her ex tht cheated on her
COMPAQbrother1 1 year ago
I'm a loner in a long distance :D
WildKurtisTrent 1 year ago
@WildKurtisTrent same here :Dd
3s4m0r3n4 1 year ago
Your right. You do kinda have to be a loner to make it work, or at least put yourself in the other person's shoes to see if your doing anything wrong. I've been in a long distence relationship for about 3 years, and will soon be visiting My Love. But long distence does take a lot of effort, stubbornness sometimes, and lots of trust.
if your strong enough you can make it. Thats just what I think tho. :O
xLadyxMariskax 1 year ago