i think ur real..... i would like to say ur a man about ur shit.... boys wont forgive shit. but man.... they looking at it in a different way and as a woman about my shit..... i rate u... ur make a woman very happy one day, dats if ur nt doing dat all ready..... keep on xxx
Thank y'all for replying, I got a blowjob one night 8 yrs ago and told her everything in morning. She lost mad weight, didnt want me, did other dudes for a whole month. Says she was wondering how hot she was, now swares everyday she is so sorry wtf
My long distance gf cheated on me and I don't forgive her, I've since ignored her and am working on moving on. Cheating is unaccpetable, I don't cheat and if I'm cheated on she's out.
If you cheated on a woman and than you find out she cheats on you, I feel you should forgive her. That means both of you have some straighten up to do. But if you decide to straigten up and she still cheats. Then you've done everything you could do and she needs to go. At that point its not a mistake any more, that's just who she is. I will say if she screwed the dude it would be hard for me to take her back.
Cause im a man we the ones that put the foot down. A woman "gives" up the sex. As men we the ones "who" take it thats y ee cany forgive. Plus it just means she is easy and weak minded
girls always cheat with someone u both know like a mutal friend, a family member or neighbor, its impossible to forgive n forget when the nigga who fucked ur baby momma leaves around the corner
Once a cheater always a cheater you can forgive and all that nice stuff but falling back into this "investment" that is short coming is a shame. I think if a person cheats it's okay to forgive but never stick with them because it will happen again. You're just giving that person a 2nd chance to out smart you in a sneaker way.
I have to disagree. Yes. People make mistakes but putting yourself in a position to cheat is no mistake you/them know exactly wtf there doing. If you really love/care about someone your not going to even put yourself in a position to hurt the other person..if all you people think oh ppl make mistakes then your not fucking with real people..bar/club whores us what your used to
everybody can't forgive their man and woman. but let double standards go away for the men . yes i said it. i am a man it takes the bigger person to realize what you really want in life. second chances bring happiness and strength to the fore front.
You are TRULY one in a million, not too many guys would be open to forgiveness. They cant get over the fact that there women has been with someone else. That takes a real man to do that, they cant forgive because that steps on there manhood.
Thanx bro, does anybody think she should get a pass bcuz she was big all her life and in a short amount of time, like 1 month, she got real hot and men were hitting on her. She messed around like all of December but now say she so sorry, she couldn't help herself. Is this an excuse being fat her whole life. She had gastric surgery to lose weight
My wife cheated on me for a whole month with different guys. her whole life she was fat, she had surgery and got real nice lookin and said her self esteem was so poor all her life she couldn't help it. She since said sorry many times and her cell is always available. Should I forgive her. She says it was low self esteem from bein fat all her life.
I think that only a fool would try to justify the actions of their partner cheating as a mistake. Having someone pump their dick in and out of you OR pumping your dick in and out of someone is NOT a mistake. BLU3R0S3S was right, people have that excuse already in their mouth before they go out to cheat. That whole “it was a mistake” line is so dead and people need to stop using it. It’s time for people to grow up and handle their business when the consequences arise instead of making up excuses.
Goodness I would really love to make a video response to this! maybe if i have time. I think men who cant forgive a woman for cheating but has cheated and been forgiven are thoroughly selfish. Ive never understood why if a dude cheat or got girls on deck he that nigga, but if a girl do that she a hoe. The person who made a comment that if a girl cheat on you, you will know how it feel and you making videos for the female...he is very naive & makes him & anyone else like him a hypocrite.
i feel like wen a bitch cheat 9 times out of 10 she gon be caught up n her feelings whereas a nigga wont niggas dont really wanna forgive after dat cause dey know how most bitches are shid think about it how many non emotional bitches do you know? dey can't ever be friends wit benifits cause dey start catchin feelins niggas wired differently we don't think with emotions or get caught up we can fuck a bitch n feel nothn 4 her afterwards
But these same men will cheat, lie, steal, give they're partner an STD, yet they couldn't bring themselves to forgive and they may have been the one who influenced her to slip up....I have forgiven a cheater before and it wasn't hard...but would I take him back? Nope---never again, if a man cheats on me the relationship is over, period, point, blank. I have been there, done that and it only gets worse.
OKAY, DANIGGA, BE DAT NIGGA WITH THE BOOK. WRITE A BOOK FOR YOUNG DUDES AND FEMALES, TOO! THEY NEED SOMEONE THEIR AGE TO DROP SOME LOGIC AND REASON ON THEM. ON THE TOPIC- I'D FIND IT HARD TO FORGIVE. I'D STILL LOVE HIM, BUT I'D LEAVE HIM, CAUSE IT WOULD HURT TOO BAD. I'D SHUT DOWN EMOTIONALLY, REJECT HIM EVEN IF I WANT HIM. THAT'S JUST MY NATURE. MEN JUST HAVE A DOUBLE STANDARD ON MOST THINGS WHERE WOMEN ARE CONCERNED--THEY CAN'T EVEN UNDERSTAND IT THEMSELVES.
The problem is that most people don't know what love is. If you ever read the bible then you know that saying you love someone is saying the lords name in vain. It's sinning. When a person finally figures out what love is, thats when all these problems will be solved.
But u kno a man's egotistical manhood can only take so much. Forgiveness is kind of like the painful side of love. Which also reflects on: "Not Caring What Others Might Think." But thats a tough pill to swallow dawg...How can a man deal with the thought of, another nigga banging his chick and 9 times out of 10, dat same nigga enjoyed it, talking and laughing bout it??? U kno how niggas do fam...
so the top comments are from some hating ass niggas who got they dick in everybody pussy but wen karma callin dey name dey cant deal with the shit.be forreal mufuckas talkin some what if u took that bitch serious..shit nigga did you treat her like u was serious?did you give her any reason to question your intentions? I dont believe n dat once a cheater always a cheater shit but I do no dat if dats all a mufucka no bout u den,of course dey less likely 2 take u serious wen u wanna b serious
@Jakayla92 I believe that if they cheat in one relationship and they are caught, they just might cheat in that same relationship again. I forgave a cheater simply b/c I was in love with him and I believed him when he said he was "sorry" and wouldn't cheat again. Well, there are various forms of cheating...not just the sexual part of it, but emotional and mental and although I don't think he cheated on me again as far as sex was concerned, he cheated mentally among other disrespectful things.
@Famfriass i understand where you coming from I just cant generalize a whole group of people based off a situation I went through or a lot of people may have gone through because everyone is different ...yea some cheaters are always gone be cheaters...im not talking about those type of people...thanks 4 da reply
@Jakayla92 No you are right...maybe I should have been more specific...if a person cheats on a great partner, I wouldn't take them back, but say if I was a complete jerk and treated my partner like crap, and they cheated, I would probably give it another chance b/c I would feel as though I influenced them to cheat and maybe had I treated them better, they wouldn't have strayed. If a guy cheats on me and I was a great gf...it's a wrap...I just will not take myself through that drama.
So, it’s safe to say that I’ll more than likely never have something real with anyone because males out here aren’t trying to hear that. Well, unless I get a white man. Haha!! That's cool with me though.
into my mind is that I have AIDS. I couldn’t stomach the thought of my dude being out in the streets with other women then coming over to me. I don’t know who these other women are with, you know? Don’t play with my life like that because if you do, I’ll make your life a living hell, period. And it’s as simple as that. Having sex isn’t a mistake; people can go ahead with the bs excuse right now. I’m actually the type of chick that needs to have my dude tested before we have sex.
@BLU3R0S3S1 ME TOO!!! I believe in getting tested and if the guy doesn't want to, then hey that just means he's up to something. I actually had a guy get angry at me and tell me that I had no right to ask him to get tested as it was none of my business, YET he wanted to have sex with me. I dropped him like a bad habit...if he didn't have anything to hide, he would have gotten tested, but he refused. And then had the nerves to still try to contact me...showing up at my parents house and shit.
@Famfriass Good for you! :-) That's your life and it's your health. He probably had some underlying disease that you couldn't tell that he had from the surface and he would've given it right to you. Just like you said, if he has nothing to hide, why not get tested. He should want to know for himself also, not just for you. Then his thirsty ass had the nerve to still pursue you. Was he black? Ha! That's probably a dumb question. Keep that rule for yourself Hun, don't be fooled by their lies.
@BLU3R0S3S1 He was a Rican.....lol....lol. He was older and he looked good, yet I still wanted him to get tested and he told me after I asked him several times that I had no right to ask him or anyone else to go get tested...that I was dead wrong for doing so an hung up the phone on me only to call me back, but I never answered. I wasn't hurt, kind of shocked that a man his age would be acting up like that over getting tested..can't trust too many people out here on the dating front.
I listened to a radio show where men called in and said that they'll have wives with children at home, along with several women on the side and if any of the women cheat then they have to go. I personally wouldn’t stay with a cheater. I'm only 22 and I already know of two females who’ve died from AIDS which they both contracted from their cheating boyfriends. One was just a teenager; the other was about 34 years old. If I ever found out that my dude cheated on me, the first thing that would pop
main reason to not forgive is because come on men are expected to cheat, in our nature . but women are allf or that one man thing so you know most of the time if a woman cheats is cuz she tired of how you treating her or tired of being with you and wanna move on i ant gonna lie there are some women that cheat one time huge mistake shit but most of the times cheating they way of moving on and the reason they prolly haven't left is because they still need yo income .
@jian48 Nature my ass....that ain't Biblical...the Bible says all the works of the devil is in the human flesh, there is only ONE FLESH among men. So a man isn't in no more need of sex than a woman...if anything it's just socially acceptable as men run this world, so naturally they are going to make up rules and laws that benefit them. A man can be just as faithful as a woman can---many of them choose not too. Thank God I never bought into that biological seed spreading lie.
As a man of faith i believe in forgiveness. i've been cheated on and it was a tough situation. i forgave her(eventually) and everything was koo till we found out she was pregnant and it obviously wasn't mine cuz i was abstinent at that time. we are still friends till this day an its all good. some men cant forgive cuz of pride and also cuz alot of times we put woman on this pedistool which is very foolish. Teamhavesome all day you already know lol.
U say u can forgive, right? Can u forgive without cheating urself? With putting up 50% of your dough on her for years? And why do you always smoke black n milds on screen?
@blaklungzz Well I can forgive regardless of the situation but thats just me, thats how I am, now there are some extreme situations, but for the most part I dont expect a woman to meet me and I be the last person she ever has sex with, thats unrealistic, and the reason I smoke is simply cuz I want to, on MY videos, sorry of it bothers you but Ima do my shit how I feel. Thanks for watchn.
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS put it to you like this: If you dont have anything invested in the relationship, obviously nobody's gonna givafk bout a chick they just using to fk. Have you ever had a chick cheat on you that you were taking seriously as a real chick? Not a chick that u just met, but a chick that u been with for years? U ever done that? Are u speaking from experience or are u just asking cuz u have no concept? I wouldn't be in tears if that chick cheated, but damn sure wouldn't forgive.
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS dogg, ur so fake. answer the question. u been wit a chick for years, faithful to her, u forgive her? yes or no? just answer the question. and if u smoke so much bud that u always high, how come i only see u smoking blacks, black? how come ur eyes never red or chinky? why do you talk so much about being a player? real players don't make youtube vids about it. anyway, i'm outie. i know u full of that big willie germ. u might be the only mfer that gets "high" off of blknmilds.
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS I'm not gonna lye Dog, its some hard shit. I'm going through that shit right now. She lyed about it and we've split up. She apologized and took the blame. I know I havent been perfect. Should I take her back?
well if my man cheats on me i dont think i will be able to forgive him.. because inside i would feel like he rather have other woman.. plus why would he need me if he got the other girl to fuck with.. and plus my man will be man stupid to cheat cuz im sexy next to his him plus his size isnt that big.. <==3 but if he cheat oh well ill find myself a better man..
Yo shut the fuck up!!! let yo girl cheat on you see how u feel. and stop making videos for these bitches, you just want them to like yo shit. dumb ass nicca. and them earings are fuckin wack. call me a hater nicca w\e. You just make vids for bitches to get likes from bitches wack ass nicca.
@bumbles121 lol cool. I aint going call u a hayter, u just dont know what the fuck talking bout, thats all. U havent watched enough of my videos to make a comment like this.
Me, myself i can forgive my man cuz i do see the bigger picture and that is...that the hoe he messed with untimatly want the title as his women and so why get rid of him when me stayin with him will just pisses her of more than i am at the end of the day. Hell, i'd probaly thank her if she gave him head cuz thats one less thing i got to do. So the girl i guess would b workin for me do the jobs i dont wanna do, lol! Always look for the positive side of thins. lol
@oklove1990 No your perception is all fucked up.Thats whats wrong with women now they allow men to cheat and point there fingers at the women he slept with leaving the man with no accountability for his actions. So long as you in the house?Dont mean shit...Its not about what she doing on the side its about yall two..either he with you or not..You should really hold yourself at a higher standard.If you really handling your business pissing her off would be the least of your concern.
Its easy for me to forgive, when a man cheats for the first time, things happen. Cant help who we are attracted to, but we should be able to control our actions..Not justifying that it is cool to cheat, but as long as i can count on him to come clean and not do it again and if i truly love him...i will open my arms up to him once again. God forgives us time after time, who are we not to give someone another chance? Still i dont know why some men cant forgive a woman for cheating, i presume that
@JsC1290 You can forgive...by all means you should, in addition, I wouldn't take that person back...what kind of relationship would that be if I keep taking the cheater back time and time again??? I can do bad all by myself, I don't need another human being to come into my life and make it miserable. Treat others as you would want to be treated is God's word...so if a man wouldn't want a woman to cheat on him, then he shouldn't cheat.
Its easy for me to forgive, when someone cheats for the first time...things happen. Not justifying that it was cool to cheat on me, but as long as i can count on the cheater to come home clean and not do it again and if i truly love him. I will open my arms up to him once again. God forgives us time after time, who are we not to give someone another chance? Still i dont know why some men cant forgive a woman for cheating, i presume that this is because women are held to hogher standards by some
i can forgive but i cant forget.if that ish happens more than once then i cant forgive anymore.but if you slip up once i might be able to forgive you.but if you tell me you sorry and it seems like you only sorry cuz you got caught then hell no its on to the next one for real. in my opinion i think its the simple fact that dudes cant forgive simply cuz its all in the ego for most.if they slip up a fuck around then we can forgive easier but if we do it then they can drop us in a heart beat.
It's an ego thing with most men. They can fuck a hoe & expect us 2 4give cuz it's just sex, no feelings attached. But wen we fuck anotha dude, he gets crazy & ready to leave ya. My ex asked me if the nxt nigga dick bigger than his or is his sex better than his? Then turns around & calls me a hoe. Negro please! If I cheat, it'll be with 1, not 2, 3, & 4. And if the nigga stop lyin 2 ur girl just so he can get som pussy on the side, u wouldn't hv 2 worry!
I had a male friend tell that if a man really loves a woman and she cheats, is the ultimate act of betrayal because not only is the ego hurt but there will always be that thought that the other man was able to give your lady something you weren't give her. He said sex is just physical act for men but women connect other emotions to sex. For another man to be able to get sex he was able to fulfill other need that her man either wouldn't or couldn't fulfill. IDK we were both toasted, is this true?
@RynnieMa79 Everybody got their own opinion but I cant agree with that cuz some women can just fuck a nigga and move on and some men fall in love off pussy, so the roles can be reversed, just depends on the person
Women's ability to forgive hinges on what she stands to lose and the perceived possibility of his cheating to ever happen again. If a man has reached that place for a woman where he provides mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially and helps her take care of the kid(s) AND she feels it would never happen again, she is more likely to forgive an act of indiscretion. but if he's not meeting alot of other needs and she feels there's a chance it could happen again, game over.
but all the same i can easly forgive them after that but doesint mean i gotta be with them or have anything to do with them, i mean just cus i forgave them dont mean you aint gotta trust'em lol
the reason most men wont forgive a chick that cheats is because 99% of the damn time they do that shit agien because they seem to not give a shit bout you, just sayin
I can and have forgiven and even stayed long after. Nobody's perfect or beyond temptation. It wasn't the same when the role reversed and I stepped out. The relationship continued miserably for a while b/c he couldn't stop reminding me that I cheated. Then came the ridiculous ego-driven questions that he really didn't want any of the answers to. I think for a lot of men it's ego. Things happen, though. And forever is a mighty long time. My record may not be flawless with a forever situation.
@wildbeautifulthing Every man or woman ain't being tempted by sex or the lure of something new. When I decide to get serious with someone, I always check myself first and foremost and make sure I am ready to commit to this one person----if I have any type of doubt, I won't go through with it b/c I don't want to hurt the other person. Most people know before they commit that they aren't up for the commitment but do it anyways for selfish reasons...got to stop being selfish.
if we're in a monogamous relationship i expect both of us to be faithful. when u cheat u sever that trust. so yes i'll 4giv u bt i can't be with u. bt i guess u never no in the situation what u wud do, if u really love that person mayb u can move on and b happier bcus of it
shit man idk, ive never been in a real relationship nd if u watch my videos u'll see why but for men it is a pride thing, nd for women they do love him nd wht not so its a very one sided topic if u ask me
In my opinion, male jealousy has less to do with men feeling betrayed by woman than it does with men feeling competitive with other men. That said, why SHOULD a cheater, male or female, be forgiven? When you forgive cheating, you basically tell the cheater you have no lines that may not be crossed. They'll just cheat again, eventually.
@fileboy2002 Not true...you can forgive a cheater, but you just shouldn't go back to them. It's the taking them back that makes the cheater think he or she can cheat over and over again without any sort of "price" to pay. If they cheat once, I believe they will do it again thus I wouldn't trust them. I would forgive them, but I wouldn't stay nor would I be friends...it's a wrap.
@fileboy2002 You have forgiven them......you can forgive a person and not take them back...I don't understand your question. The Bible tells us to not be unequally yoked...so if you are in the wrong relationship, you can forgive and move on.That person doesn't have to remain a fixture in your life. This is how people end up getting used all over again and they can't move on to greener pastures because, they are trying to keep the person who hurt them around. Just move on.
@Famfriass My question is, if you say, "I forgive you," then completely expel them from your life, how is that different from saying, "I hate you" and completely expelling them from your life? It is not different, at least not for them. I think it just helps you convince yourself that you're a forgiving person rather than an unforgiving one. Words have to be backed by actions, or they mean nothing. It's like if they said, "I'm sorry," and did it again. Were they ever really sorry? Nope.
@fileboy2002 I explained that to you already....I can forgive the robber, but it doesn't mean I have to let him back in my house, I can forgive the employee who stole from me, but I don't have to keep him/her own as an employee. I can forgive a cheater, but it doesn't mean they have to be in my life---I have to protect myself and if a person would go to those lengths to hurt me, why would I want them around me even as a friend? I call it being smart.
@Famfriass Forgiveness means you wipe the slate completely clean. Forgiveness means you do not hold the forgiven person responsible for their past actions. If you're not letting the thief back in the house, if you're not letting your cheating ex back in your bed, if you're not letting the unfaithful friend back in your life, then you're not forgiving them. And you shouldn't forgive them, for exactly the reasons you're saying--i.e. you can't trust them anymore. Forgiveness is overrated.
@fileboy2002 We can agree to disagree...I have forgiven even those people who are no longer apart of my life...and they won't be b/c I don't trust them. Peace.
Men & women are going to cheat because its natural. When a person has their shit together meaning career,money,house & a large friend circle then it wont be as hard when cheating is brought light. Also put the cigar down and save your lungs bro to many young black males are dying because of that shit.
I guess its like this men can't forgive because it puts us into an uncomfortable caring mode we aren't used to, we don't want to worry about her cheating again we might actually be in love with her but it would hurt too much to find out she did it again so we run away so we won't be hurt again yea it sounds weak but well love can make you weak sometimes
Dude, Seriously! Why can't he forgive me!? I forgave his ass many times. he never cheated, but he messed up. we wasn't even dating at the time we were just friends we had dated before though, we just needed some time, and HIS BEST FRIEND, kissed me! i felt bad! i told him and said i made a mistake and apoligiezed for it, and that nigguh is gunna sit there, and get mad at ME and tell ME to leave him alone and say he never wanna speak to me again! That just isn't right. I derserve another chance.
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Guys are really very sensitive individuals even if it comes out as anger most of the time. If a girl that has agreed to be faithful with them cheats, they feel hurt, angry, and as you stated in the video the images of the unfaithfulness will keep popping up in the mans head. It is hard to forgive such an offense partly because of male pride because guys dont want to think another man can make their women happy but also because the trust is gone. I know i would feel like that then id kill the guy
now im not saying this goes for all women or all men but the reason men cant forgive women is partly due to testosterone tht juice gets flowing and images just pop in the mind and it just cooks up anger in the head. the reason women can forgive men is due to estrogen it makes them feel tht their man has learned their lesson by gettn caught and sometimes it makes them think they can change the guy. maybe im right maybe im wrong who knows what do u think
@MyJames12 LOL...that's pure BS...if God says that we should forgive that means he has given us the capacity to do so. Besides, every human being is more so energy than flesh and blood, so all the biological crap is just that...a bunch of crap. LOL...LOL. If a man wants to be faithful he can and will, but only when he feels he has met the woman that just sweeps him off his feet, that makes him weak to the knees.
Women get hit on all the time that's why them bitches can't be forgiven for that shit. A nigga ain't go cheat on you. Unless you being an asshole. or Unless that nigga a player from the begining but yall dumb asses should know from the begining just like I can spot a hoe from the begining
I think it depends on the person, the situation and the outcome of the situation.
Cheating no matter what kind of way doesn´t always have to be sexually, but sexually is the worst way in my opinion is hard!!!
we should always treat ppl how we want to treated ourselves and since I don´t wanna be hurt/cheated on I don´t do it to other ppl and especially not to my boyfriend.
Hell muthafucking no I won't forgive a woman for cheating once that happens it's a wrap I don't want too know her anymore. Btw a woman allowing another man to go up in her is not a mistake.
People who cheat just arent ready for that relationship. If you wanna fuck around then stay single, wtf. When you ready to be in a relationship with someone is when you sure you not tryin to fuck with anyone else. I feel like thats just obvious. I drop a cheater on the logic of it. If I ever want someone else i be out that relationship and move onto the next
more open and maybe have a threesome every once in a while especially if your dude ain't never had one before he will love you even more. but yeah im really mad he's in jail over her it's like i found out in the middle of their affair and still let it go on I wasn't really trippin but she was hella that's sum fucked up shit huh im supposed to be the insecure one yet shes the one smashing out the windows cause he's with me I should've just put my foot down or maybe he just should've avoided her
The lying I just won't tolerate. What sucks though is he's actually in jail right now because one of the girls he lied to me about kept wanting to be his gf he told her from the gate he had a bitch and she had known me too but yeah to make a long story short she called the cops n said he was bustin at her and he's in jail for basically fuckn with a crazy bitch spending 8 months for somethin he didn't even do now he tells me he's cool off the whole cheating thing i do think women need to be a lil
I can't forgive a lying cheater. I'll let my dude sleep with other females but it's like their are rules to it he has to wear a condom #1 but he's shy and their are certain things i know what to do that a brand new girl wouldn't know so it's kinda wham bam thank you mam type thing he only slept with two other females n I told him to sleep with them he ddin't think I was serious then he went behind my back and did it then lied that's why I haven't forgiven him.
it's always a double standard seems like for most guys. I've met so many that say "well if i cheat, it's different because I'm not gonna be emotionally attached" okay well i doubt every female that has cheated got emotionally attached plus cheating is cheating it'll hurt the woman when a man does it but she'll most likely forgive and take him back, so they should have no issue doing the same..
Men and women cheat for the same reasons. The type of person determines the reason why. Dont every say men cheat just for lust or women cheat for love b/c ive seen both genders cheat for both reasons. Some cheat b/c there not happy and some cheat b/c they are horny and lack self control.
well a man cheats off lust ...woman cheat off thrill of something new and that's just not a good enough reason...if your great to your girl and you give her everything! you support her and your really good to her ...and she cheats and doesn't even have a reason besides I don't know I'm sorry I was drunk ...that's not good enough ..
Well my husband is a good man, and if he cheated than i will forgive him because i look toward the future!! if he is not continually cheating im good!! i believe in marriage and will deal with alot so i know in the long run our marriage means more to me than a mistake. im not one to just walk away because of something so foolish!! yeah i will be hurt but in the end he means more to me, to forgive him than to be without him!! i know to some people this may sound foolish but that is the truth
@BeautyCrave1 You keep saying mistakes. That is where you are wrong. Cheating is not a mistake. You can't accidentally cheat, or I made a mistake and cheated on you. WTF. Mistake is the word used when cheating. A mistake is an error of judgement. Cheating is a deliberate act, but you are not delierately hurting your spouse. Mistake is a pacifyng word. When someone apologizes for their "mistake" Our instinct is to forgive, He made a Choice, he had the ability to reason and made a choice. SAT
Men can't forgive a woman for cheating because he is possessive. He can cheat but as soon as he THINKS that she is cheating, he goes into a Hulk rage. Men think that they possess you, and that you are solely theirs. So when the man cheats, you violate her dignity, buty when a woman cheats, you shook the very core of his identity. Men know what it took to get his spouse in the bed, and the fact that you conquered his "mate" fxks with his ego.
Everyone makes mistakes...we're all not perfect so everybdy should practice forgiveness. IDK how Im able to forgive ppl so easily, it could be just because Im a kindhearted person & I knw we arent perfect. But forgiving is one thing, forgetting a whole nother. If I feel like your honestly sorry for what u did & we can get past it..then yeah I'll forgive you & we'll work on it. Other than tht, we're done... Ima forgive u because Im not finna b bitter & angry abt some shit...but I wont forget it.
@BeautyCrave1 WELL IF U 4 GIVE U HAVE 2 4 GET SO DON'T BE SAYING NO ONE IS PERFECT THAT IS JUST AN ESCAPE GOAT THERE IS NO SECOND CHANCE 4 CHEATING AND,KARMA WILL PAY OFF IF U 4 GIVE A CHEATER U MUST BE A LOOSER LOOSER LOOSER,MOVE ON SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE AND FKN LIFE IS 2 SHORT!
On the real I use to be on that everyone deserves forgiveness shit too. Especially after my ex cheated once I forgave the shit against the advice of my close niggas. Well the end story is the ho cheated again lol so now I look at it like if we pass a 6 month mark and you go somewhere else we done no explanation needed. That's fair right lol?
Its an ego thing and like @tangygirl19661 said, sometimes it is the thought is his dick bigger than mine, but then the dude may just be thinking what was I doing wrong that made you think that you needed another nigga? What could we have changed so that wouldn't have happen?
I've never had it happen to me, hope it never does
But if this event does arise it depends on a lot of variables on whether or not I forgive her
You can forgive, but understand that this person put your life at risks. I know a few women who've forgiven and overlooked their husband's affairs, to turn around and get HIV. If you're going to cheat LEAVE the relationship. There are deadly consequences to the deadly game of cheating and infidelity.
so we can disreguard it, we dont luv with our penis, its more about mental connection when it comes to luv for me and prolly many, so in my opinion its not as serious a thing for a man to do it, now in no way am i saying its exscusable for a man, just thats its my look on it. and i dont believe in mistakes when it comes to cheating, u made a conscience descision to give urself to someone else thats why i couldnt forgive-because she knew what she was doing, an didnt have a mind frame
one that only ur man should recieve, almost like a secrete that is between me and her, but one that i told her instead of her me, and cheating on me would be like telling another person my secrete, and though i may not even know the dude, id feel like i did because now he knows my "secrete". dont mean to put it into metaphors but hey. now i cant lie i have messed around on my girl, but to me, and alot of guys we dont see sex as important when it comes to us getting some,
and what i mean to her, she let another man enter her, and claim what i believe should be mines if we are together, so yea its about visual too, the thought that u let another man please u, penetrate u, love ur body... i couldnt except that. if i am enough for u, then i should always be enough for u until u feel im not, and if that day comes, break it off with me, dont go and give urself away to someone else and then come back to me. i look at it as a gift of sorts, but one that is very special,
i gotta say homie i agree with what MsCuutie had to say and Ambi1021, lol i might be one of those guys that would kill a b!tch for that shyt. for me when i am with a girl, it is about loyalty,but also about ego, i cant lie, and the longer im with her, the worse i would feel if she did, because more of an attatchment and trust is established in time, and for her to cheat on me i would feel like, i wasnt enough for her, i didnt matter to her in that one instant she disreguarded who i am to her.
@crimsonhunterzero WELL U 4 GAVE UR GIRL FRIEND 4 CHEATING,WHAT AN IDIOT SHE WILL CHEAT AGAIN DO U HAVE LOW SELF STEEM?OR IS THE SEX SO GOOD?I WILL BET MY LIFE WHILE U R NOT AROUND SHE IS GETTN FKD BY A BIG BLACK DICK!
@solomonpilot767 Actually she aborted our child and left me for a white guy while I was overseas fighting for inbred, insensitive morons like you. Go back to school, go back to the first grade and learn how to spell. That way people might actually take you the slightest bit seriously.
The trueth is a lot of men think loyalty is a huge deal for them.Thats why when a women tell a man that she has been cheating on another man,he cant get over that because he is thinking you could be doing that to him too.If he is a good man,be willing to ride with him and dont cheat on your good man.Thats not cool at all,if you aint feeling him dont wait months to tell that.And a lot of you men are responsible as well, because you are not picking quality women who appreciate what you do for them
If he is working hard to earn my trust back, he has treated me like a queen and he has been loyal to me through out the relationship i wouldnt break up with him if he has a soild reason for why he cheated . For all you ladies if he cheated on you one time and you knew that this man wasnt a good man. You shouldnt havent gotten together with him in the first place.
I would forgive him for cheating on me, because when you have resentment than reall love cant exist. Love and resentment cant occupy the same space at the same time.If he is the type of man that has this attitude like get over it, its nothing, you should be over it now and he wont give me the time out to take things slow and him doing what it takes to earn my trust back, if that means seeking counseling. i wouldnt get back with him.
Cheating is not right. I would never do that because i believe do unto others what u want to be done unto u. If I find my self crying more than am laughing, yelling more than iam enjoying life i will leave him.If he is the type of man that is constantly cheating than am not gonna stay because you cant change somebody. If he is not even trying to change the behaviours that he knows bothers me but does them more, than as far as iam concerned he is not into me.
If my husband cheated on me, I will forgive him. I know he loves me. If he cheated it would probably ONLY be for sex. When men cheat on their main woman its normally just a "fling" Women on the other hand, well I can only speak for myself... Its more emotional. Most men know that when a woman cheats its for revenge led by emotions, and emotions can ruin a marriage/relationship. But there is also the option of forgiving, but still moving on. I have forgiven plenty of men, but kept it moving...
i think ur real..... i would like to say ur a man about ur shit.... boys wont forgive shit. but man.... they looking at it in a different way and as a woman about my shit..... i rate u... ur make a woman very happy one day, dats if ur nt doing dat all ready..... keep on xxx
niamarn 28 minutes ago
Now she always calls me, texts me all day, wants to be with me every second, does anything I want, always apologizing. It's some confusing ass shit.
sepultura7771 7 hours ago
Thank y'all for replying, I got a blowjob one night 8 yrs ago and told her everything in morning. She lost mad weight, didnt want me, did other dudes for a whole month. Says she was wondering how hot she was, now swares everyday she is so sorry wtf
sepultura7771 8 hours ago
My long distance gf cheated on me and I don't forgive her, I've since ignored her and am working on moving on. Cheating is unaccpetable, I don't cheat and if I'm cheated on she's out.
sixstrings209 20 hours ago
If you cheated on a woman and than you find out she cheats on you, I feel you should forgive her. That means both of you have some straighten up to do. But if you decide to straigten up and she still cheats. Then you've done everything you could do and she needs to go. At that point its not a mistake any more, that's just who she is. I will say if she screwed the dude it would be hard for me to take her back.
LAYBACK30 3 days ago
Cause im a man we the ones that put the foot down. A woman "gives" up the sex. As men we the ones "who" take it thats y ee cany forgive. Plus it just means she is easy and weak minded
ebeledi 4 days ago
There's one time things and then there's 4 months of hittin everything while you're deployed. So I guess it all depends on the situation.
beestingrlsh 4 days ago
girls always cheat with someone u both know like a mutal friend, a family member or neighbor, its impossible to forgive n forget when the nigga who fucked ur baby momma leaves around the corner
geekballin216 4 days ago
you shouldnt forgive anyone for cheating its not an ego thing
jprl10 6 days ago
Understanding that I am imperfect allows me to forgive others of their imperfections.
jj1023665 6 days ago
Once a cheater always a cheater you can forgive and all that nice stuff but falling back into this "investment" that is short coming is a shame. I think if a person cheats it's okay to forgive but never stick with them because it will happen again. You're just giving that person a 2nd chance to out smart you in a sneaker way.
Sephirothevil 6 days ago
I have to disagree. Yes. People make mistakes but putting yourself in a position to cheat is no mistake you/them know exactly wtf there doing. If you really love/care about someone your not going to even put yourself in a position to hurt the other person..if all you people think oh ppl make mistakes then your not fucking with real people..bar/club whores us what your used to
DnaAngel33 1 week ago
everybody can't forgive their man and woman. but let double standards go away for the men . yes i said it. i am a man it takes the bigger person to realize what you really want in life. second chances bring happiness and strength to the fore front.
25were1 1 week ago
You are TRULY one in a million, not too many guys would be open to forgiveness. They cant get over the fact that there women has been with someone else. That takes a real man to do that, they cant forgive because that steps on there manhood.
Motiveme32 1 week ago 2
Thanx bro, does anybody think she should get a pass bcuz she was big all her life and in a short amount of time, like 1 month, she got real hot and men were hitting on her. She messed around like all of December but now say she so sorry, she couldn't help herself. Is this an excuse being fat her whole life. She had gastric surgery to lose weight
sepultura7771 2 weeks ago
My wife cheated on me for a whole month with different guys. her whole life she was fat, she had surgery and got real nice lookin and said her self esteem was so poor all her life she couldn't help it. She since said sorry many times and her cell is always available. Should I forgive her. She says it was low self esteem from bein fat all her life.
sepultura7771 2 weeks ago
@sepultura7771 If u love her then i think u shud forgive her. Its gonna hurt you more being without someone that u really love. IMO.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 2 weeks ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS Thats true however. If she truly loved him then being in another mans bed should be infathomable
DnaAngel33 1 week ago
@sepultura7771 No! she's been planning to do it her whole life. takitfromawoman this time, if you keep seein it move on.
ivoryh1 5 days ago
@sepultura7771 No way. You will regret it.
Intelxx01 5 days ago
I think that only a fool would try to justify the actions of their partner cheating as a mistake. Having someone pump their dick in and out of you OR pumping your dick in and out of someone is NOT a mistake. BLU3R0S3S was right, people have that excuse already in their mouth before they go out to cheat. That whole “it was a mistake” line is so dead and people need to stop using it. It’s time for people to grow up and handle their business when the consequences arise instead of making up excuses.
MissLadiee03 2 weeks ago
Goodness I would really love to make a video response to this! maybe if i have time. I think men who cant forgive a woman for cheating but has cheated and been forgiven are thoroughly selfish. Ive never understood why if a dude cheat or got girls on deck he that nigga, but if a girl do that she a hoe. The person who made a comment that if a girl cheat on you, you will know how it feel and you making videos for the female...he is very naive & makes him & anyone else like him a hypocrite.
MsKandiiNatural 2 weeks ago
Why in the hell dudes call every female a bitch
do yall even know the real meaning of a bitch
no disrepect ik you care about females but at the
same times yu sittin up there calling female bitches
I hate when dudes do that shit...but anyways nice video
keep making them I enjoy wacthing edcuated black men
that speak the truth
MsJkl225 2 weeks ago
i feel like wen a bitch cheat 9 times out of 10 she gon be caught up n her feelings whereas a nigga wont niggas dont really wanna forgive after dat cause dey know how most bitches are shid think about it how many non emotional bitches do you know? dey can't ever be friends wit benifits cause dey start catchin feelins niggas wired differently we don't think with emotions or get caught up we can fuck a bitch n feel nothn 4 her afterwards
juicemank404 2 weeks ago
But these same men will cheat, lie, steal, give they're partner an STD, yet they couldn't bring themselves to forgive and they may have been the one who influenced her to slip up....I have forgiven a cheater before and it wasn't hard...but would I take him back? Nope---never again, if a man cheats on me the relationship is over, period, point, blank. I have been there, done that and it only gets worse.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
OKAY, DANIGGA, BE DAT NIGGA WITH THE BOOK. WRITE A BOOK FOR YOUNG DUDES AND FEMALES, TOO! THEY NEED SOMEONE THEIR AGE TO DROP SOME LOGIC AND REASON ON THEM. ON THE TOPIC- I'D FIND IT HARD TO FORGIVE. I'D STILL LOVE HIM, BUT I'D LEAVE HIM, CAUSE IT WOULD HURT TOO BAD. I'D SHUT DOWN EMOTIONALLY, REJECT HIM EVEN IF I WANT HIM. THAT'S JUST MY NATURE. MEN JUST HAVE A DOUBLE STANDARD ON MOST THINGS WHERE WOMEN ARE CONCERNED--THEY CAN'T EVEN UNDERSTAND IT THEMSELVES.
CRAYOLACHICABCXYZ 3 weeks ago
forgiving and leaving are 2 different things
BlockFiggaz 3 weeks ago
The problem is that most people don't know what love is. If you ever read the bible then you know that saying you love someone is saying the lords name in vain. It's sinning. When a person finally figures out what love is, thats when all these problems will be solved.
BlockFiggaz 3 weeks ago
But u kno a man's egotistical manhood can only take so much. Forgiveness is kind of like the painful side of love. Which also reflects on: "Not Caring What Others Might Think." But thats a tough pill to swallow dawg...How can a man deal with the thought of, another nigga banging his chick and 9 times out of 10, dat same nigga enjoyed it, talking and laughing bout it??? U kno how niggas do fam...
s0lidified0g0fficial 3 weeks ago
so the top comments are from some hating ass niggas who got they dick in everybody pussy but wen karma callin dey name dey cant deal with the shit.be forreal mufuckas talkin some what if u took that bitch serious..shit nigga did you treat her like u was serious?did you give her any reason to question your intentions? I dont believe n dat once a cheater always a cheater shit but I do no dat if dats all a mufucka no bout u den,of course dey less likely 2 take u serious wen u wanna b serious
Jakayla92 1 month ago
@Jakayla92 I believe that if they cheat in one relationship and they are caught, they just might cheat in that same relationship again. I forgave a cheater simply b/c I was in love with him and I believed him when he said he was "sorry" and wouldn't cheat again. Well, there are various forms of cheating...not just the sexual part of it, but emotional and mental and although I don't think he cheated on me again as far as sex was concerned, he cheated mentally among other disrespectful things.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass i understand where you coming from I just cant generalize a whole group of people based off a situation I went through or a lot of people may have gone through because everyone is different ...yea some cheaters are always gone be cheaters...im not talking about those type of people...thanks 4 da reply
Jakayla92 2 weeks ago
@Jakayla92 No you are right...maybe I should have been more specific...if a person cheats on a great partner, I wouldn't take them back, but say if I was a complete jerk and treated my partner like crap, and they cheated, I would probably give it another chance b/c I would feel as though I influenced them to cheat and maybe had I treated them better, they wouldn't have strayed. If a guy cheats on me and I was a great gf...it's a wrap...I just will not take myself through that drama.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass amen...4 sho
Jakayla92 2 weeks ago
So, it’s safe to say that I’ll more than likely never have something real with anyone because males out here aren’t trying to hear that. Well, unless I get a white man. Haha!! That's cool with me though.
BLU3R0S3S1 1 month ago
into my mind is that I have AIDS. I couldn’t stomach the thought of my dude being out in the streets with other women then coming over to me. I don’t know who these other women are with, you know? Don’t play with my life like that because if you do, I’ll make your life a living hell, period. And it’s as simple as that. Having sex isn’t a mistake; people can go ahead with the bs excuse right now. I’m actually the type of chick that needs to have my dude tested before we have sex.
BLU3R0S3S1 1 month ago
@BLU3R0S3S1 ME TOO!!! I believe in getting tested and if the guy doesn't want to, then hey that just means he's up to something. I actually had a guy get angry at me and tell me that I had no right to ask him to get tested as it was none of my business, YET he wanted to have sex with me. I dropped him like a bad habit...if he didn't have anything to hide, he would have gotten tested, but he refused. And then had the nerves to still try to contact me...showing up at my parents house and shit.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass Good for you! :-) That's your life and it's your health. He probably had some underlying disease that you couldn't tell that he had from the surface and he would've given it right to you. Just like you said, if he has nothing to hide, why not get tested. He should want to know for himself also, not just for you. Then his thirsty ass had the nerve to still pursue you. Was he black? Ha! That's probably a dumb question. Keep that rule for yourself Hun, don't be fooled by their lies.
BLU3R0S3S1 6 days ago
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@BLU3R0S3S1 He was a Rican.....lol....lol. He was older and he looked good, yet I still wanted him to get tested and he told me after I asked him several times that I had no right to ask him or anyone else to go get tested...that I was dead wrong for doing so an hung up the phone on me only to call me back, but I never answered. I wasn't hurt, kind of shocked that a man his age would be acting up like that over getting tested..can't trust too many people out here on the dating front.
Famfriass 5 days ago
I listened to a radio show where men called in and said that they'll have wives with children at home, along with several women on the side and if any of the women cheat then they have to go. I personally wouldn’t stay with a cheater. I'm only 22 and I already know of two females who’ve died from AIDS which they both contracted from their cheating boyfriends. One was just a teenager; the other was about 34 years old. If I ever found out that my dude cheated on me, the first thing that would pop
BLU3R0S3S1 1 month ago
main reason to not forgive is because come on men are expected to cheat, in our nature . but women are allf or that one man thing so you know most of the time if a woman cheats is cuz she tired of how you treating her or tired of being with you and wanna move on i ant gonna lie there are some women that cheat one time huge mistake shit but most of the times cheating they way of moving on and the reason they prolly haven't left is because they still need yo income .
jian48 1 month ago
@jian48 Nature my ass....that ain't Biblical...the Bible says all the works of the devil is in the human flesh, there is only ONE FLESH among men. So a man isn't in no more need of sex than a woman...if anything it's just socially acceptable as men run this world, so naturally they are going to make up rules and laws that benefit them. A man can be just as faithful as a woman can---many of them choose not too. Thank God I never bought into that biological seed spreading lie.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
CHURCH!
Goldie07100 1 month ago
As a man of faith i believe in forgiveness. i've been cheated on and it was a tough situation. i forgave her(eventually) and everything was koo till we found out she was pregnant and it obviously wasn't mine cuz i was abstinent at that time. we are still friends till this day an its all good. some men cant forgive cuz of pride and also cuz alot of times we put woman on this pedistool which is very foolish. Teamhavesome all day you already know lol.
blacknightx1 1 month ago
U say u can forgive, right? Can u forgive without cheating urself? With putting up 50% of your dough on her for years? And why do you always smoke black n milds on screen?
blaklungzz 2 months ago
@blaklungzz Well I can forgive regardless of the situation but thats just me, thats how I am, now there are some extreme situations, but for the most part I dont expect a woman to meet me and I be the last person she ever has sex with, thats unrealistic, and the reason I smoke is simply cuz I want to, on MY videos, sorry of it bothers you but Ima do my shit how I feel. Thanks for watchn.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 2 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS put it to you like this: If you dont have anything invested in the relationship, obviously nobody's gonna givafk bout a chick they just using to fk. Have you ever had a chick cheat on you that you were taking seriously as a real chick? Not a chick that u just met, but a chick that u been with for years? U ever done that? Are u speaking from experience or are u just asking cuz u have no concept? I wouldn't be in tears if that chick cheated, but damn sure wouldn't forgive.
blaklungzz 2 months ago
@blaklungzz I only speak from experience. If it wasnt for that I wudnt have shit to say. Im forgiving cuz Im realistic but thats just me.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 2 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS dogg, ur so fake. answer the question. u been wit a chick for years, faithful to her, u forgive her? yes or no? just answer the question. and if u smoke so much bud that u always high, how come i only see u smoking blacks, black? how come ur eyes never red or chinky? why do you talk so much about being a player? real players don't make youtube vids about it. anyway, i'm outie. i know u full of that big willie germ. u might be the only mfer that gets "high" off of blknmilds.
blaklungzz 1 month ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS I'm not gonna lye Dog, its some hard shit. I'm going through that shit right now. She lyed about it and we've split up. She apologized and took the blame. I know I havent been perfect. Should I take her back?
LAYBACK30 5 days ago
well if my man cheats on me i dont think i will be able to forgive him.. because inside i would feel like he rather have other woman.. plus why would he need me if he got the other girl to fuck with.. and plus my man will be man stupid to cheat cuz im sexy next to his him plus his size isnt that big.. <==3 but if he cheat oh well ill find myself a better man..
nataliacarrion 2 months ago
Yo shut the fuck up!!! let yo girl cheat on you see how u feel. and stop making videos for these bitches, you just want them to like yo shit. dumb ass nicca. and them earings are fuckin wack. call me a hater nicca w\e. You just make vids for bitches to get likes from bitches wack ass nicca.
bumbles121 2 months ago
@bumbles121 lol cool. I aint going call u a hayter, u just dont know what the fuck talking bout, thats all. U havent watched enough of my videos to make a comment like this.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 2 months ago 4
Me, myself i can forgive my man cuz i do see the bigger picture and that is...that the hoe he messed with untimatly want the title as his women and so why get rid of him when me stayin with him will just pisses her of more than i am at the end of the day. Hell, i'd probaly thank her if she gave him head cuz thats one less thing i got to do. So the girl i guess would b workin for me do the jobs i dont wanna do, lol! Always look for the positive side of thins. lol
oklove1990 2 months ago
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Oliviababygirl91 1 month ago
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@oklove1990 No your perception is all fucked up.Thats whats wrong with women now they allow men to cheat and point there fingers at the women he slept with leaving the man with no accountability for his actions. So long as you in the house?Dont mean shit...Its not about what she doing on the side its about yall two..either he with you or not..You should really hold yourself at a higher standard.If you really handling your business pissing her off would be the least of your concern.
Oliviababygirl91 1 month ago
@oklove1990 Wow...ignorance is bliss.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS damn bumbles121 came @
MsBXprincessISBACK 4 weeks ago
@MsBXprincessISBACK *U*
MsBXprincessISBACK 4 weeks ago
I would never forgive my boyfriend for cheating.
hot6235 2 months ago
Its easy for me to forgive, when a man cheats for the first time, things happen. Cant help who we are attracted to, but we should be able to control our actions..Not justifying that it is cool to cheat, but as long as i can count on him to come clean and not do it again and if i truly love him...i will open my arms up to him once again. God forgives us time after time, who are we not to give someone another chance? Still i dont know why some men cant forgive a woman for cheating, i presume that
JsC1290 2 months ago
@JsC1290 You can forgive...by all means you should, in addition, I wouldn't take that person back...what kind of relationship would that be if I keep taking the cheater back time and time again??? I can do bad all by myself, I don't need another human being to come into my life and make it miserable. Treat others as you would want to be treated is God's word...so if a man wouldn't want a woman to cheat on him, then he shouldn't cheat.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
Higher*
JsC1290 2 months ago
Its easy for me to forgive, when someone cheats for the first time...things happen. Not justifying that it was cool to cheat on me, but as long as i can count on the cheater to come home clean and not do it again and if i truly love him. I will open my arms up to him once again. God forgives us time after time, who are we not to give someone another chance? Still i dont know why some men cant forgive a woman for cheating, i presume that this is because women are held to hogher standards by some
JsC1290 2 months ago
i can forgive but i cant forget.if that ish happens more than once then i cant forgive anymore.but if you slip up once i might be able to forgive you.but if you tell me you sorry and it seems like you only sorry cuz you got caught then hell no its on to the next one for real. in my opinion i think its the simple fact that dudes cant forgive simply cuz its all in the ego for most.if they slip up a fuck around then we can forgive easier but if we do it then they can drop us in a heart beat.
hammieworldrox488 2 months ago
I could definitely forgive a female who cheats on me. We definitely won't be dating anymore or stay friends but I won't hate her.
TRILL4EVAMO 2 months ago
@TRILL4EVAMO That's how I feel...no hard feelings, just forgive and move on.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
It's an ego thing with most men. They can fuck a hoe & expect us 2 4give cuz it's just sex, no feelings attached. But wen we fuck anotha dude, he gets crazy & ready to leave ya. My ex asked me if the nxt nigga dick bigger than his or is his sex better than his? Then turns around & calls me a hoe. Negro please! If I cheat, it'll be with 1, not 2, 3, & 4. And if the nigga stop lyin 2 ur girl just so he can get som pussy on the side, u wouldn't hv 2 worry!
Teeboo38 2 months ago 2
@Teeboo38 Your ex sounds like a straight up fool.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
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THERE MORE WOMEN IN THE WORLD THEN MEN BUT YET THERE ALL GETTING SETISFIED WHAT THAT TELL YOU
15heartz 2 months ago
I had a male friend tell that if a man really loves a woman and she cheats, is the ultimate act of betrayal because not only is the ego hurt but there will always be that thought that the other man was able to give your lady something you weren't give her. He said sex is just physical act for men but women connect other emotions to sex. For another man to be able to get sex he was able to fulfill other need that her man either wouldn't or couldn't fulfill. IDK we were both toasted, is this true?
RynnieMa79 2 months ago
@RynnieMa79 Everybody got their own opinion but I cant agree with that cuz some women can just fuck a nigga and move on and some men fall in love off pussy, so the roles can be reversed, just depends on the person
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 2 months ago
Women's ability to forgive hinges on what she stands to lose and the perceived possibility of his cheating to ever happen again. If a man has reached that place for a woman where he provides mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially and helps her take care of the kid(s) AND she feels it would never happen again, she is more likely to forgive an act of indiscretion. but if he's not meeting alot of other needs and she feels there's a chance it could happen again, game over.
RynnieMa79 2 months ago
I MEAN like you said we see the big picture...
MsJaye7 2 months ago
Women fell the same betrayel a man feels when they get cheated on....longer you said we see the bigger picture
MsJaye7 2 months ago
SEXY MAN! haha smdh
sweetlilem05 2 months ago
but all the same i can easly forgive them after that but doesint mean i gotta be with them or have anything to do with them, i mean just cus i forgave them dont mean you aint gotta trust'em lol
Abionx 2 months ago
the reason most men wont forgive a chick that cheats is because 99% of the damn time they do that shit agien because they seem to not give a shit bout you, just sayin
Abionx 2 months ago
@Abionx True that.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
watchn all these cheatn vids is depressing.smg wat a fucked up morning
yazzwitdaazz 3 months ago
I can and have forgiven and even stayed long after. Nobody's perfect or beyond temptation. It wasn't the same when the role reversed and I stepped out. The relationship continued miserably for a while b/c he couldn't stop reminding me that I cheated. Then came the ridiculous ego-driven questions that he really didn't want any of the answers to. I think for a lot of men it's ego. Things happen, though. And forever is a mighty long time. My record may not be flawless with a forever situation.
wildbeautifulthing 3 months ago
@wildbeautifulthing Every man or woman ain't being tempted by sex or the lure of something new. When I decide to get serious with someone, I always check myself first and foremost and make sure I am ready to commit to this one person----if I have any type of doubt, I won't go through with it b/c I don't want to hurt the other person. Most people know before they commit that they aren't up for the commitment but do it anyways for selfish reasons...got to stop being selfish.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
^5 young man. Granny loves ya!
Flolandra 3 months ago
Dude, you sound so much like DMX, have you ever rap?
hazelphine 3 months ago
@hazelphine LOL. No rapping aint my talent and DMX is a crackhead, compare me to somebody else please, thank u.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 3 months ago 4
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS He wasn't always a crackhead now....lol...lol.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
if we're in a monogamous relationship i expect both of us to be faithful. when u cheat u sever that trust. so yes i'll 4giv u bt i can't be with u. bt i guess u never no in the situation what u wud do, if u really love that person mayb u can move on and b happier bcus of it
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Labelmebadd18 3 months ago
cute
MsSUESUE88 3 months ago
I can forgive a girl for cheating, but that doesn't mean the same thing as continuing to be with her.
StopCooningCampaign 3 months ago
U have 2 4give people no matter what.
AnthonyCobb27 3 months ago
shit man idk, ive never been in a real relationship nd if u watch my videos u'll see why but for men it is a pride thing, nd for women they do love him nd wht not so its a very one sided topic if u ask me
wisdomsine 3 months ago
In my opinion, male jealousy has less to do with men feeling betrayed by woman than it does with men feeling competitive with other men. That said, why SHOULD a cheater, male or female, be forgiven? When you forgive cheating, you basically tell the cheater you have no lines that may not be crossed. They'll just cheat again, eventually.
fileboy2002 3 months ago
@fileboy2002 Not true...you can forgive a cheater, but you just shouldn't go back to them. It's the taking them back that makes the cheater think he or she can cheat over and over again without any sort of "price" to pay. If they cheat once, I believe they will do it again thus I wouldn't trust them. I would forgive them, but I wouldn't stay nor would I be friends...it's a wrap.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass But If you don't take them back (or even remain freinds with them) then in what sense have you really forgiven them? You haven't.
fileboy2002 2 weeks ago
@fileboy2002 You have forgiven them......you can forgive a person and not take them back...I don't understand your question. The Bible tells us to not be unequally yoked...so if you are in the wrong relationship, you can forgive and move on.That person doesn't have to remain a fixture in your life. This is how people end up getting used all over again and they can't move on to greener pastures because, they are trying to keep the person who hurt them around. Just move on.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass My question is, if you say, "I forgive you," then completely expel them from your life, how is that different from saying, "I hate you" and completely expelling them from your life? It is not different, at least not for them. I think it just helps you convince yourself that you're a forgiving person rather than an unforgiving one. Words have to be backed by actions, or they mean nothing. It's like if they said, "I'm sorry," and did it again. Were they ever really sorry? Nope.
fileboy2002 2 weeks ago
@fileboy2002 I explained that to you already....I can forgive the robber, but it doesn't mean I have to let him back in my house, I can forgive the employee who stole from me, but I don't have to keep him/her own as an employee. I can forgive a cheater, but it doesn't mean they have to be in my life---I have to protect myself and if a person would go to those lengths to hurt me, why would I want them around me even as a friend? I call it being smart.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass Forgiveness means you wipe the slate completely clean. Forgiveness means you do not hold the forgiven person responsible for their past actions. If you're not letting the thief back in the house, if you're not letting your cheating ex back in your bed, if you're not letting the unfaithful friend back in your life, then you're not forgiving them. And you shouldn't forgive them, for exactly the reasons you're saying--i.e. you can't trust them anymore. Forgiveness is overrated.
fileboy2002 2 weeks ago
@fileboy2002 We can agree to disagree...I have forgiven even those people who are no longer apart of my life...and they won't be b/c I don't trust them. Peace.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
@Famfriass I am pretty sure the only thing we disagree about is the definition of forgiveness. I think your logic is 100% correct.
fileboy2002 1 week ago
Men & women are going to cheat because its natural. When a person has their shit together meaning career,money,house & a large friend circle then it wont be as hard when cheating is brought light. Also put the cigar down and save your lungs bro to many young black males are dying because of that shit.
Tierren32 3 months ago
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itsyurb0ylayy4 4 months ago
They must forgot folk! Smoking gives you knowledge! Pass that shit over here homie! lol
jcjjcc 4 months ago
Even when they say they forgive you... they throw it in your face later on during fights and shyt... NOT COOL!!
uramoron2006 4 months ago
I guess its like this men can't forgive because it puts us into an uncomfortable caring mode we aren't used to, we don't want to worry about her cheating again we might actually be in love with her but it would hurt too much to find out she did it again so we run away so we won't be hurt again yea it sounds weak but well love can make you weak sometimes
JconChicago2007 4 months ago
Dude, Seriously! Why can't he forgive me!? I forgave his ass many times. he never cheated, but he messed up. we wasn't even dating at the time we were just friends we had dated before though, we just needed some time, and HIS BEST FRIEND, kissed me! i felt bad! i told him and said i made a mistake and apoligiezed for it, and that nigguh is gunna sit there, and get mad at ME and tell ME to leave him alone and say he never wanna speak to me again! That just isn't right. I derserve another chance.
Icouldbee 4 months ago
we stronger than man in that situation an u men might not love her that much to stay!!!
carmel25able 4 months ago
Well, would a GIRL forgive her man for cheating on her?? No double-standards, people! :P
thebobbalo1 4 months ago
i feel u yo i forgave my girl wen she did tha shyt u feel me we still cool an shyt man
kingrayben800 4 months ago
@kingrayben800 Thats real shit my nigga.
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sharvae12 4 months ago
Guys are really very sensitive individuals even if it comes out as anger most of the time. If a girl that has agreed to be faithful with them cheats, they feel hurt, angry, and as you stated in the video the images of the unfaithfulness will keep popping up in the mans head. It is hard to forgive such an offense partly because of male pride because guys dont want to think another man can make their women happy but also because the trust is gone. I know i would feel like that then id kill the guy
JMADBZfan 4 months ago
now im not saying this goes for all women or all men but the reason men cant forgive women is partly due to testosterone tht juice gets flowing and images just pop in the mind and it just cooks up anger in the head. the reason women can forgive men is due to estrogen it makes them feel tht their man has learned their lesson by gettn caught and sometimes it makes them think they can change the guy. maybe im right maybe im wrong who knows what do u think
MyJames12 4 months ago
@MyJames12 LOL...that's pure BS...if God says that we should forgive that means he has given us the capacity to do so. Besides, every human being is more so energy than flesh and blood, so all the biological crap is just that...a bunch of crap. LOL...LOL. If a man wants to be faithful he can and will, but only when he feels he has met the woman that just sweeps him off his feet, that makes him weak to the knees.
Famfriass 2 weeks ago
man,are you permanently stoned?hahahahahaha
onlyjoetee 4 months ago
@onlyjoetee lol not at all
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 4 months ago
u smoke alot lol
xombie12052 4 months ago
Women get hit on all the time that's why them bitches can't be forgiven for that shit. A nigga ain't go cheat on you. Unless you being an asshole. or Unless that nigga a player from the begining but yall dumb asses should know from the begining just like I can spot a hoe from the begining
theright1allthetime 4 months ago
men cheat constantly
invincible221 4 months ago
Regarding being made in the image of God who forgives, that's a real good reason TO forgive. God Bless.
mike115888 4 months ago
I think it depends on the person, the situation and the outcome of the situation.
Cheating no matter what kind of way doesn´t always have to be sexually, but sexually is the worst way in my opinion is hard!!!
we should always treat ppl how we want to treated ourselves and since I don´t wanna be hurt/cheated on I don´t do it to other ppl and especially not to my boyfriend.
great topic and like your view on it!
much Love!
MsCinnable 5 months ago
Hell muthafucking no I won't forgive a woman for cheating once that happens it's a wrap I don't want too know her anymore. Btw a woman allowing another man to go up in her is not a mistake.
Apaphis 5 months ago
People who cheat just arent ready for that relationship. If you wanna fuck around then stay single, wtf. When you ready to be in a relationship with someone is when you sure you not tryin to fuck with anyone else. I feel like thats just obvious. I drop a cheater on the logic of it. If I ever want someone else i be out that relationship and move onto the next
baby9007 5 months ago
you should make a video on bitches to avoid so niggas don't go to jail
ebblondie 5 months ago
more open and maybe have a threesome every once in a while especially if your dude ain't never had one before he will love you even more. but yeah im really mad he's in jail over her it's like i found out in the middle of their affair and still let it go on I wasn't really trippin but she was hella that's sum fucked up shit huh im supposed to be the insecure one yet shes the one smashing out the windows cause he's with me I should've just put my foot down or maybe he just should've avoided her
ebblondie 5 months ago
The lying I just won't tolerate. What sucks though is he's actually in jail right now because one of the girls he lied to me about kept wanting to be his gf he told her from the gate he had a bitch and she had known me too but yeah to make a long story short she called the cops n said he was bustin at her and he's in jail for basically fuckn with a crazy bitch spending 8 months for somethin he didn't even do now he tells me he's cool off the whole cheating thing i do think women need to be a lil
ebblondie 5 months ago
I can't forgive a lying cheater. I'll let my dude sleep with other females but it's like their are rules to it he has to wear a condom #1 but he's shy and their are certain things i know what to do that a brand new girl wouldn't know so it's kinda wham bam thank you mam type thing he only slept with two other females n I told him to sleep with them he ddin't think I was serious then he went behind my back and did it then lied that's why I haven't forgiven him.
ebblondie 5 months ago
it's always a double standard seems like for most guys. I've met so many that say "well if i cheat, it's different because I'm not gonna be emotionally attached" okay well i doubt every female that has cheated got emotionally attached plus cheating is cheating it'll hurt the woman when a man does it but she'll most likely forgive and take him back, so they should have no issue doing the same..
lachicasabrina 5 months ago
i guess because when i guy cheats he's getting a nut. When a woman cheats she's most likely emotionally invested and that hurts more.
aadescorbet 5 months ago
Men and women cheat for the same reasons. The type of person determines the reason why. Dont every say men cheat just for lust or women cheat for love b/c ive seen both genders cheat for both reasons. Some cheat b/c there not happy and some cheat b/c they are horny and lack self control.
TheJPSurrealChannel 6 months ago
well a man cheats off lust ...woman cheat off thrill of something new and that's just not a good enough reason...if your great to your girl and you give her everything! you support her and your really good to her ...and she cheats and doesn't even have a reason besides I don't know I'm sorry I was drunk ...that's not good enough ..
Twannyboiiii 7 months ago
Well my husband is a good man, and if he cheated than i will forgive him because i look toward the future!! if he is not continually cheating im good!! i believe in marriage and will deal with alot so i know in the long run our marriage means more to me than a mistake. im not one to just walk away because of something so foolish!! yeah i will be hurt but in the end he means more to me, to forgive him than to be without him!! i know to some people this may sound foolish but that is the truth
prettycurves 8 months ago
@BeautyCrave1 You keep saying mistakes. That is where you are wrong. Cheating is not a mistake. You can't accidentally cheat, or I made a mistake and cheated on you. WTF. Mistake is the word used when cheating. A mistake is an error of judgement. Cheating is a deliberate act, but you are not delierately hurting your spouse. Mistake is a pacifyng word. When someone apologizes for their "mistake" Our instinct is to forgive, He made a Choice, he had the ability to reason and made a choice. SAT
valerie1029 8 months ago
Men can't forgive a woman for cheating because he is possessive. He can cheat but as soon as he THINKS that she is cheating, he goes into a Hulk rage. Men think that they possess you, and that you are solely theirs. So when the man cheats, you violate her dignity, buty when a woman cheats, you shook the very core of his identity. Men know what it took to get his spouse in the bed, and the fact that you conquered his "mate" fxks with his ego.
valerie1029 8 months ago
dude your HOT !
neshalovesnesha100 8 months ago 5
@neshalovesnesha100 Thank u:)
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
Forgive to be forgiven. ^^)
zakkie88 8 months ago
Everyone makes mistakes...we're all not perfect so everybdy should practice forgiveness. IDK how Im able to forgive ppl so easily, it could be just because Im a kindhearted person & I knw we arent perfect. But forgiving is one thing, forgetting a whole nother. If I feel like your honestly sorry for what u did & we can get past it..then yeah I'll forgive you & we'll work on it. Other than tht, we're done... Ima forgive u because Im not finna b bitter & angry abt some shit...but I wont forget it.
BeautyCrave1 8 months ago
@BeautyCrave1 WELL IF U 4 GIVE U HAVE 2 4 GET SO DON'T BE SAYING NO ONE IS PERFECT THAT IS JUST AN ESCAPE GOAT THERE IS NO SECOND CHANCE 4 CHEATING AND,KARMA WILL PAY OFF IF U 4 GIVE A CHEATER U MUST BE A LOOSER LOOSER LOOSER,MOVE ON SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE AND FKN LIFE IS 2 SHORT!
solomonpilot767 8 months ago
On the real I use to be on that everyone deserves forgiveness shit too. Especially after my ex cheated once I forgave the shit against the advice of my close niggas. Well the end story is the ho cheated again lol so now I look at it like if we pass a 6 month mark and you go somewhere else we done no explanation needed. That's fair right lol?
naythanyel777 9 months ago
My GOD! Your hella FINE! Lol
floridaqueen2010 10 months ago 14
@floridaqueen2010 Thank u:)
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 10 months ago
Its an ego thing and like @tangygirl19661 said, sometimes it is the thought is his dick bigger than mine, but then the dude may just be thinking what was I doing wrong that made you think that you needed another nigga? What could we have changed so that wouldn't have happen?
I've never had it happen to me, hope it never does
But if this event does arise it depends on a lot of variables on whether or not I forgive her
Corbenik 11 months ago
men i can't forgive especially if she fucked the nigga thats an automathic end game for me
evilmickey100 11 months ago
men i can't forgive especially if she fucked the nigga thats all automathic end game for me
evilmickey100 11 months ago
You can forgive, but understand that this person put your life at risks. I know a few women who've forgiven and overlooked their husband's affairs, to turn around and get HIV. If you're going to cheat LEAVE the relationship. There are deadly consequences to the deadly game of cheating and infidelity.
Craverofchocolate 11 months ago 9
@Craverofchocolate Thats true the consequences can be life changn or in the case of HIV life ending.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 11 months ago 5
@Craverofchocolate I AGREE WITH U ,I HOPE ALL CHEATERS DIE OF AIDS!
solomonpilot767 8 months ago
to think about what she was about to do, understand what she could loose, and understand the reality of the impact it would have on me
poetcstyle 1 year ago
so we can disreguard it, we dont luv with our penis, its more about mental connection when it comes to luv for me and prolly many, so in my opinion its not as serious a thing for a man to do it, now in no way am i saying its exscusable for a man, just thats its my look on it. and i dont believe in mistakes when it comes to cheating, u made a conscience descision to give urself to someone else thats why i couldnt forgive-because she knew what she was doing, an didnt have a mind frame
poetcstyle 1 year ago
one that only ur man should recieve, almost like a secrete that is between me and her, but one that i told her instead of her me, and cheating on me would be like telling another person my secrete, and though i may not even know the dude, id feel like i did because now he knows my "secrete". dont mean to put it into metaphors but hey. now i cant lie i have messed around on my girl, but to me, and alot of guys we dont see sex as important when it comes to us getting some,
poetcstyle 1 year ago
and what i mean to her, she let another man enter her, and claim what i believe should be mines if we are together, so yea its about visual too, the thought that u let another man please u, penetrate u, love ur body... i couldnt except that. if i am enough for u, then i should always be enough for u until u feel im not, and if that day comes, break it off with me, dont go and give urself away to someone else and then come back to me. i look at it as a gift of sorts, but one that is very special,
poetcstyle 1 year ago
i gotta say homie i agree with what MsCuutie had to say and Ambi1021, lol i might be one of those guys that would kill a b!tch for that shyt. for me when i am with a girl, it is about loyalty,but also about ego, i cant lie, and the longer im with her, the worse i would feel if she did, because more of an attatchment and trust is established in time, and for her to cheat on me i would feel like, i wasnt enough for her, i didnt matter to her in that one instant she disreguarded who i am to her.
poetcstyle 1 year ago
I forgave my girlfriend for cheating, which backfired.
crimsonhunterzero 1 year ago
@crimsonhunterzero Aye its not guaranteed, just like nothn else in life. To me its just makes more sense to be forgiving
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 1 year ago
@crimsonhunterzero WELL U 4 GAVE UR GIRL FRIEND 4 CHEATING,WHAT AN IDIOT SHE WILL CHEAT AGAIN DO U HAVE LOW SELF STEEM?OR IS THE SEX SO GOOD?I WILL BET MY LIFE WHILE U R NOT AROUND SHE IS GETTN FKD BY A BIG BLACK DICK!
solomonpilot767 8 months ago
@solomonpilot767 Actually she aborted our child and left me for a white guy while I was overseas fighting for inbred, insensitive morons like you. Go back to school, go back to the first grade and learn how to spell. That way people might actually take you the slightest bit seriously.
crimsonhunterzero 7 months ago
@crimsonhunterzero well she left u cause u have 2inch dick head,please go fk ur self!
solomonpilot767 7 months ago
The trueth is a lot of men think loyalty is a huge deal for them.Thats why when a women tell a man that she has been cheating on another man,he cant get over that because he is thinking you could be doing that to him too.If he is a good man,be willing to ride with him and dont cheat on your good man.Thats not cool at all,if you aint feeling him dont wait months to tell that.And a lot of you men are responsible as well, because you are not picking quality women who appreciate what you do for them
MsCuutie 1 year ago
If he is working hard to earn my trust back, he has treated me like a queen and he has been loyal to me through out the relationship i wouldnt break up with him if he has a soild reason for why he cheated . For all you ladies if he cheated on you one time and you knew that this man wasnt a good man. You shouldnt havent gotten together with him in the first place.
MsCuutie 1 year ago
I would forgive him for cheating on me, because when you have resentment than reall love cant exist. Love and resentment cant occupy the same space at the same time.If he is the type of man that has this attitude like get over it, its nothing, you should be over it now and he wont give me the time out to take things slow and him doing what it takes to earn my trust back, if that means seeking counseling. i wouldnt get back with him.
MsCuutie 1 year ago
Cheating is not right. I would never do that because i believe do unto others what u want to be done unto u. If I find my self crying more than am laughing, yelling more than iam enjoying life i will leave him.If he is the type of man that is constantly cheating than am not gonna stay because you cant change somebody. If he is not even trying to change the behaviours that he knows bothers me but does them more, than as far as iam concerned he is not into me.
MsCuutie 1 year ago
If my husband cheated on me, I will forgive him. I know he loves me. If he cheated it would probably ONLY be for sex. When men cheat on their main woman its normally just a "fling" Women on the other hand, well I can only speak for myself... Its more emotional. Most men know that when a woman cheats its for revenge led by emotions, and emotions can ruin a marriage/relationship. But there is also the option of forgiving, but still moving on. I have forgiven plenty of men, but kept it moving...
passionateOne32 1 year ago
@passionateOne32 i agree with u completely, there usually is more emotion invol