When you have a woman going around claiming to be "the clean up woman", she is lacking something.. Many have low self-esteem, wasn't shown enough love as a child, and/or has been scorned by someone in the past. What happens to women with this "clean up woman" mentality? They become that old lady on the front porch sitting in a rocking chair surrounded by cats... hmmmmm, think about it ladies... Your worth is more than that... Smooches
You got ur house dogs, ur yard dogs & ur street dogs.
oh! got to go, the wifes gonna be home in a minute...got to get the candle lit bubble bath ready w/ dinner & wine. hehe i get soo excited cuz i get the big prize at the end of the nite...
i can't stand clean up whores....he's gonna do the same thing to the next woman that he did to the last..you can't change nobody...like the saying goes...you lose em how you get em....
That just over my head for the first bit of it. I was going to type something about how cleaning ladies and Janitors played a key role is our everyday lives. But I see now that clean-lady means something REALLY different lol.. The thing about those people is .. just simply why put your trust in to someone that you know is a cheater . That is how STDs spread .
You have to accept people as they are. A woman can motivate or encourage a man to change, but she can't change him and she shouldn't frustrate herself by trying to change him. It isn't fair for the man. How would a woman like it if a man is constantly trying to change her? The person trying to change the other will wind up sounding like an old bitter nag.
That is the mistake that so many of us women make by thinking that we will be the"one" to change a man. Nope, no one has the power to change anyone. So ladies let's stop trying because if a man really wants us and truly love us we will no t even have to lift a finger.
When you have a woman going around claiming to be "the clean up woman", she is lacking something.. Many have low self-esteem, wasn't shown enough love as a child, and/or has been scorned by someone in the past. What happens to women with this "clean up woman" mentality? They become that old lady on the front porch sitting in a rocking chair surrounded by cats... hmmmmm, think about it ladies... Your worth is more than that... Smooches
anngismil 1 year ago
This was such a great video. I found this one watching one of my favorities, Himay10nence.
I'm certainly going to suscribe, well worth stopping at your page, thanks for the vid.
intjurban 1 year ago
thank u for ur words of wisdom, u've lifted my spirits yet again :)
ITSJILLY1 1 year ago
shet shet shet!!! as we say in naij. shay keeps it too real. love you shay
tallnicegyal2die4 2 years ago
You got ur house dogs, ur yard dogs & ur street dogs.
oh! got to go, the wifes gonna be home in a minute...got to get the candle lit bubble bath ready w/ dinner & wine. hehe i get soo excited cuz i get the big prize at the end of the nite...
RonRabbit69 2 years ago
Excellent vid! Sometimes people just need to hear it without being sugar coated!
merceddees 2 years ago
i can't stand clean up whores....he's gonna do the same thing to the next woman that he did to the last..you can't change nobody...like the saying goes...you lose em how you get em....
Machelle3200 2 years ago
That just over my head for the first bit of it. I was going to type something about how cleaning ladies and Janitors played a key role is our everyday lives. But I see now that clean-lady means something REALLY different lol.. The thing about those people is .. just simply why put your trust in to someone that you know is a cheater . That is how STDs spread .
Joeybsmooth 2 years ago
OOOOO SAY SO!
thevoiceofthewounded 2 years ago
PREACH!
trackgrad08 2 years ago
The dirt/mud analogy had me lmao. The snake analogy stung.
trynow11725 2 years ago
You have to accept people as they are. A woman can motivate or encourage a man to change, but she can't change him and she shouldn't frustrate herself by trying to change him. It isn't fair for the man. How would a woman like it if a man is constantly trying to change her? The person trying to change the other will wind up sounding like an old bitter nag.
mindyourbizok 2 years ago 2
" I wrote a song about it and here it goes"
chri8067 2 years ago
Great video.....luv that dirt analogy. lol
BronzevilleLady 2 years ago
Or it he has a wife and is still trying to holla at you he is a hot mess!
Emmarose81 2 years ago
PREACCCCCH!
Emmarose81 2 years ago
why did u bite me?
"cuz i'm a snake" LOL
videoshirt 2 years ago
great, great advice Shay...as usual! Get well soon
blackfemale1971 2 years ago
Shay you really need your own talkshow
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
lol shay . @ get well bed. btw. great vid 5 stars!
fee20luv 2 years ago
"You can't clean dirt" - luv it
MsDivaOneLuv812 2 years ago
U kills it .....I love u girl..... u kills it
HIMAY10NENCE 2 years ago
i love your analogies. they are so on point, and they make complete sense to what you're speaking about.
BaldButWigged 2 years ago 3
That is the mistake that so many of us women make by thinking that we will be the"one" to change a man. Nope, no one has the power to change anyone. So ladies let's stop trying because if a man really wants us and truly love us we will no t even have to lift a finger.
ettisen 2 years ago 3
Wow! Your vids were good before but it seems that since you've got married they are even better!!!!!
krysroc 2 years ago
GREAT ADVICE =]]]]]] AMENNN
cutieheart1 2 years ago 2
Maybe she should clean up 3 men...just kidding...lasies dont clean up.
803HighRollers 2 years ago
"ouch!" ..."im a snake fool" ...LOL!! haha
curlycutie1029 2 years ago 3
AMEN GIRL!!
MoStboOtifuliSt 2 years ago 2
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!
rondaswill 2 years ago 2
Shay, this is amazing... great job!
yowee1234 2 years ago 3
u tell it girl
mirnabear 2 years ago
Tell it girl...(lol)
happydimples39 2 years ago
good deal lol u right" you knew i was a snake when u picked me" lol i can dig it!
HARRIETTECELESTINE 2 years ago
nice video sydd! =]
keep doing ur thing!
marianavickyshow 2 years ago