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  • Im so proud of you guys for sharing your stories!!!!

  • love this video

  • I support you from Spain

  • Wait,theseguys are gay?! wow...they have my respect,gays have plenty of problems already and being black makes it worse,these guys have balls,way more ballsthan some homophobic trash out there Kudos to these guys!

  • Oh the big guy is soooo damn cute! :)

  • Hi All! I really enjoy this video and want to use it in one of my classes. Would you mind telling me who on screen belongs to the user name? Thank you!

  • kudos!!!

  • everybody need 2 talking about gay people because they the same like everybody else..............

  • everyone's gay. it just depends on the extent.

  • not a single one of them seems to feel fine, in fact they look desperate (this is subjective alright), especially when they really stare at the camera. They are nice but that's about it.

  • @macfreak21 Straight blck men hate the sight of gay black men.

  • @kmcl11 i agree, blacks are extremely HOMOPHOBIC

  • first off dumb ass im a girl. you need to get a life and stop ragging on other people that you dont even know. your a stupid douchebag. i feel sorry for you that you have to be an ass on the internet than hang out with real friends.

  • ewwwwww black and gay, what a horrible life

  • why comment or watch if your just gonna be a giant douchebag!

    

  • @vadapaul i want your dick in my mouth so i can chomp down on it.

  • so much respect for you

  • This is beautiful :)

  • I was expecting you all to rip off your shirts at the end and show the "S" on your chests. Homophobia in the black community is like fried chicken. It is such an accepted norm until you can be ostracized for being gay or for accepting gays without prejudice. I love you brothers and any more like you, sisters too. I pray for you and with you. Let's love each other and especially love our babies.

  • I'm not even gay, someone posted this on Facebook so I watched it..... I think this video is so beautiful and could b very helpful for youth in these situations. Keep them coming. U could b inspiration to those who need it. God put everyone here for a reason and this might b urs. It touched my heart and Ily for this. God bless u bruthas.

  • soooo brave

  • I really do appreciate this video b/c its very difficult to be black and gay in the world today. I myself still sturggle w/ it but thank ppl this this who have positive stories and outcomes to share. PS the guy in the black vest w/h tan shirt is sexy

  • @AQUARIOUS7575 yeeessss!!! I'm bi and it is truely turely hard.

  • AMEN TA S

  • You guys are so amazing!!!! Thank you for sharing your story!!!

  • This is the first time I see gay Black African Americans share! It helps complete a bigger picture of love in the global LGBT canvas. Thank you for sharing! Love from Singapore!

  • Thank You. honest to god, I'm not sure...I'm terrified. It takes so much bravery to even consider this. If I'm ever scared, I'll come to this vid. Thanks.

  • @kikochavis5 I guess it doesn't get better for you.

  • @kikochavis5 get the fuck out u deusch

  • haha why are you watching this video if you hate gays? Time to come out brother.

  • How could anyone dislike this!?? These guys are the best! It's not easy being black AND gay and growing up in religious surroundings with that. Love you guys!

  • LGBT or hetero, we're all the same! Love is loce! Peace.

  • You guys are beautiful. Thank you for your words.

  • @nNYg whatever, you really got to have the last word. Listen here ol' chum, you do not control me, your choice of words does not phase me. And my decision to stop commenting had nothing to do with you...so every nasty word you threw out comes right back to you. I have my sheild up and every firey dart you throw my way cannot touch me. So save your breath. Do not expect another comment, far as I am concern this is over and done with. Why waste my time, when you do not care about your own soul.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 OH BLOW IT OUT YOUR ASS ALREADY! TAKE YOURSELF AND YOUR 2 BIT RELIGION THE FUCK ON OUT OF HERE! BYE! SCRAM! BEAT IT!

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  • You have all the Jesus freaks in here spewing their cheap religion...look closely at their religion its all about fear and hysteria.

    Don't be fooled by the Jesus freaks or intimidated

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  • @COMPASSION2611 I'm not afraid of you or of your cheap religion, you might intimidate others but not me. You are free to believe what you wish and that's fine but leive and let live,

    Stop imposing your bullshit on others.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 There is a God but not yours, that blood thirsty egotistical demon that has to go against the order of His own creation to 'prove " himself to you. The Bible is a book of myth and contradiction which condones slavery , genocide and ethnic cleansing along with untold atrocities by your "god" ...Truth? Prove it! Your rucked up religion is all about fear and more fear . Keep it!

  • Thanks for the awesome video =D

  • I'm an older gay man and seeing young LGBT people offing themselves more

    fills me with anguish. If any of you reading this are thinking of suicide LISTEN:

    Taking your own life will make YOU and some very special, loving partner MISS

    what will be the best years of your life! I know how it is- I held a gun to my head

    at 14 and almost did the deed. But I heard a voice say: DON'T DO IT- IT WON'T

    ALWAYS BE THIS WAY! I'm so glad I LISTENED. Life did get better, and YOURS

    will too. Hang in there!

  • Amazingly inspiring video, exactly what i needed to see as a 21 yr old mixed race male kinda loosing my footing a little, you guys have re ignited my sense of "i can seize the day" - its rare but so important to see role models like yourselves, because you're a group to look up to and seeing you guys so happy within yourselves and sucessful makes me think i can be like that too! thanks !

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  • Very inspiring, guys :)

  • Excellent video guys!

  • Thank you guys. This was from the heart and more gay youth will be able to relate to your experiences than 'celebrities'. You have created your own gay family that have been your support. Your friendship has empowered you. Everyday is a testament to your survival because many people have rejection/bullying that could have pushed them over the edge. Its a tragedy that those very young teens felt there was no hope and could not continue living, but there memory lives on in this campaign.

  • @Raphaelmonoro

    You have all the freedom in the world and yet you waste your time on here preaching bigotry?

  • Thank you for making this video.

  • Great video guys; thank you.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 : No offense, but I can't imagine that ANYONE could take you seriously, preaching with your 'txt spk'. It's not your place to judge. You aren't God -- Christian, Muslim, Jewish or any other God. You have no place or authority to judge. I would suggest, however, learning how to communicate your thoughts with complete sentences, appropriate grammar, syntax & spelling. A.) It gives your one-sided, selfish message some weight and B.) I hear God's a stickler for grammar.

  • @jahnhall Did I expect any less from you, NO! I'm not concern with writing complete words, you understood. If caring about peoples souls is selfish, than I am guilty. If sharing the Truth of God's Word is wrong, than I am guilty. I apologize for nothing. Do not underestimate me. Oh, you were being judgmental! Now you are wrong my friend, God gave me that right according to 1 Corithians 2: 15,16. So yes, I have that place. It isn't my message, I do not speak from my flesh but from the Word of God

  • @COMPASSION2611  Well whatever 'right' you think you have does not mean you can impose it on my RIGHTS. yOUR 'RIGHT" ACCORDING TO YOUR 2 BIT RELIGION, WHY DON'T YOU SHOVE IT UP YOUR ASS?

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  • @COMPASSION2611 FUCK YOU AND YOUR MYTHOLOGY! WE MUST LEAD GOOD LIVES AND NOT HARM ANYONE OR ANYTHING. AND YES THERE IS A GOD BUT THE DEMON MONSTER YOU CALL GOD.....PROVE THAT THE BIBLE IS 100% TRUE TO BE TAKEN LITERALLY AT FACE VALUE....ITS NOT EVEN HISTORICALLY ACCURATE AND NOTHING WAS WRITTEN AS IT HAPPENED IF IT EVER DID. LIVE IN YOUR TERRORIZED FEAR OF YOUR DEMON.

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  • @jahnall You made a suggestion, now allow me to make one to you. You are intelligent, search the Bible and see what God says concerning the matter for yourself. You don't have to take my word, take HIS. You may say what you please. I know who I am and whose I am. I came to you in love not hate. Receiving negative remarks does not phase me nor shall they stop me from speaking HIS Truth. The devil don't want you to accept the truth, he wants you, God wants you too but which will you choose?

  • @COMPASSION2611 "His word" is a man written book that contradicts itself that condones, slavery, genocide and all sorts of atrocities.

    God exists but I certainly doubt its that evil blood thirsty god of yours which really at times sounds more like a demon.

    So based on "His word" do you condone all the injustices against Gay people? you probably do.

    Do me a favor keep your cheap 2 bit religion to yourself, which btw you can't even prove its true.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 The Noah myth.. if Noah took 2 of each kind on the ark, how the fuck did he fit so many animals into one relatively small boat? How did he get the Kangaroos from Australia to the Middle East? or did God zap them there for the sake of the story?

    What did he feed those animals for 40 days and 40 nights? How much shit did he and his crew have to shovel all day? TRUE?

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  • @COMPASSION2611 ANSWER THE QUESTIONS! so now there are even more animals! how did they all fit, what food did God provide for them? How did the kangaroos get there from Australia...

    So God would destroy all the other innocent animals because of the "sins" of a few people in the middle east, you just gotta love your monster demon "god"

  • @COMPASSION2611 so "god" supplied all the food for the family and all those animals? really? where does it say that? name the chapter and verse.

    And you still haven't answered how did the kangaroos get from Australia to the Middle East?

    Explain that one.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 My temperature has not risen, I just have no tolerance for you fucking Jesus freaks, if its not Gays, then its Catholics or Muslims or Mormons.....

    Live in your fanaticism but leave the others alone, I do respond becuase you people love to talk and spew bullshit but then hate a response.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 YOUR "truth" may not be someone else's truth . It many so called "christians" who spew hate and contribute to the very things you claim to abhor that people do.

    If you are so concerned, then pray for them but keep your religion to yourself please.

    And please spare me of the "Jesus love you" and "God Bless" BULLSHIT.

    And of course like a true Bible thumping Fundamentalist Jesus freak, you can't answer any questions when your beliefs are contested. So tell me about Noah.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 So I'm of the devil, LOL! GO FUCK THE WHORE OF YOUR MOTHER!

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  • @COMPASSION2611 Again, keep your religion and enjoy it, just keep it to yourself.

    Your self righteousness and pompous attitude is anything but ''christian" ...I have my God and I am very happy with Him and my faith in Him is firm and strong. My God is not a bloody thirsty egotistical monster and not hung up on a name. That's in YOUR idolatrous religion not mine.

    You can't even answer any question when the mythology of your religion is put into question.

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  • @COMPASSION2611 Congratulations to you! Good for you! Now move on! This video is about Gay people helping young people who have been taught by people like YOU that there is something wrong with them and are suffering....you have no business in here. Do we go to YOUR sites and get into your business? You don't have to agree or condone anything you don't want to, but do learn to respect others opinions and right to be. Not everyone is awed or swayed by your religion. Keep moving>>>

  • @NativeNewYorkGuy I do not have a sight. And do unbelievers go on Christian sights and leave nasty comments...YES! As I stated, it isn't the person, it's the spirit that's operating in the person. I don't expect you to accept what I say because of your unbelief. You have chose your life just as I have chosen mine. Each choice has a destiny. Unless the LORD says differently, I'm done. Heaven & earth shall pass away but HIS WORD SHALL REMAIN THE SAME. IT NEVER CHANGES. It's your lives, live it:(

  • Respond to this video...You have a right to believe in whatever you wish and Gay people have just as much right to exist as you do. If you don't like it then tough, thats how the world is made.

    Learn to respect other people and other people's opinions. Not everyone shares in your beliefs, nor do we care to, please respect that and move on. I can respect it, so long as you respect me, you come in here with your religious dribble and you will get attacked.

  • @COMPASSION2611 Im a christian and im Bisexual there is nothing wrong with being gay

    You should open YOUR eyes

  • Respond to this video.. Stay in your church, with your holy rolling epileptic seizures and yelling in gibberish, I mean what kind of idiocy is that? Do you dance with snakes too in church?

    So tell me, when this rapture thing happens and a driver get yanked out of the car by your "god" and the car plows into a crowd of innocent bystanders, is it only the non believers who get all fucked up and the believers spared? What a fucked up religion!

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  • THanks you u guys are amazing and thankyou for uploading this

  • its so true that you can help someone by sharing your story!! Love ya Kéan!!!

  • You know what I constantly wonder, is how homophobia started in the first place. What, did someone admit that they loved another man instead of a woman, or a woman admitting she loved another woman instead of a man? And ... why? I'm a lesbian, I covered it up since I was thirteen pretending to be bisexual, and now my so called friends stare at me like I'm going to rape them. They give me the "You're a lesbian and you're standing to close" look. Why be a homophobic? Love doesn't have a gender.

  • I can feel the love radiating from this video

  • I love love this vid.. once I started watching I couldnt stop. I like how I can relate to you all and your stories are so different yet the same. Honestly it hasn't gotten better for me and I'm a grown woman so not just the LGBT youth are going through this (although they are the most vulnerable) it is effecting us at all levels in our lives. And to hear at the end that you all are very successfull black men is just the icing!! (((HUGZ)))

  • Great video. I really enjoyed listening to the experiences of all 4 men. In a perfect world, people should be able to live their lives peacefully without fear of discrimination. Unfortunately, we don't live in a world like that. But everyone has control of their own lives, and can live a good life. Not just gay people, but everyone. I hope for a world where no one has to hide their true selves out of fear.

  • @bobosharkey Axe murderers, burger flippers, ditch diggers, investment bankers and people who like to have sex on stilts need love too.

  • Aww, baby, I'm so sorry that anything ever seemed so bad as to make you want to commit suicide.  No one should ever have to endure that sort of pain on the basis of their sexuality alone. There are always people out there who will love and accept you for who you are and see who you are as beautiful!

  • You guys are awesome, thank you for making this video.

  • great great video. i know you have touched many young people's lives by doing this. letting them know it does get better

  • I can't imagine what it must be like to have your own family against you. Just inconceivable.

    If that ever happens to anyone, just remember, -they're- the crazy ones, not you.

    Mothers, fathers, PLEASE, love your -own- children.

    What kind of nutty society do we live in where we have to encourage people to love their -own- children no matter what. That should just be instinctive behavior.

    Homophobia has done so much harm. It must stop. 

  • When I fuck my man I like to wear a cowboy hat....

  • I love you all, thank you.

  • @jesterjmac Can you get any more twatish? Its people like you who mess with peoples heads and make them take their own lives. Stop it.

  • Absolutely fantastic video, gentlemen. This is beautiful and to the man that spoke first about his experience, I am so glad that you are still here in this world today. God wasn't ready to bring you home yet because look at all the good work you are doing right here. Keep doing you and bless.

  • that's why he does PR lol

  • Great video, guys. You rock!

  • You guys rock. Very cool to see you guys all talking and showing how friends and community can get you through it. It does get better.

  • That was great! Thank you very much for sharing. This video put the biggest smile on my face. I had a positive affirmation while I was in highschool as well, it was a song: I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor....that song still helps me through tough situations now. Thanks again.

  • why do ppl become gay just dont do it ur not borned gay you decided in your mind or something you make the choice to be gay and if you think your gay you can change it you dont always have to be gay IMO

  • @dannyleeg - in your opinion? Did we say this was open for opinion? Is the existence of gravity up for your opinion? Or the roundness of the earth? Your opinion is just as embarrassingly wrong as your ability to write in English. Please, look up some facts and then, rather than blathering about your opinion on stuff you know nothing about, you might be able to express truth. And then take an English writing class so you can express it like someone with working brain cells. Thanks.

  • @dannyleeg Just exactly when did you choose to be straight? If one's sexuality is a choice, as you so erroneously claim, then being straight is also an arbitrary selection.

  • @dannyleeg Why would I want to change it even if I could? I like being gay.

  • I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS MESSAGE!!!!

  • Lol, at first I was like, "what is this it gets better?". Then the next thing I know I'm watching a pack of wild nigger faggots circle jerking about being rump rangers.  I lold hard! I love u sooo much Internet. :]

  • @Bellerophon2200 Yes, Yes, Yes, I fuckin love you for saying this. Fuck these fags & their down low antics as the black men call it. On the down low or not, it's still disgusting.

  • @MrOlliedodd damn straight Mr. ollie. xD

  • what the fuck! your a complete douche who takes pleasure on making other people feel bad about themselves. i feel sorry for you. so sorry that you have to go this far to make yourself feel better

  • @vadapaul *you're

    Also, homosexuals should feel bad.  Their bad people and they should feel bad.

  • @Bellerophon2200 how does being who you really are make you a bad person. dude get a life and and worry about yourself. because obviously you need a life rather than making fun of people on youtube.

  • I'm straight but... Gay or not. Who the fuck cares? Worry about your self and your lover or lovers.

  • I'm a straight guy...b4 I write this I just wanted to get that out. I don't understand how peeps can be such dicks to gays because of how they are their lifestyle. Yes I am christian but no I won't tell a gay person that they are going to hell because that's just wrong. All the gay people out there I support you. You are different than me and I respect that diference there is no reason for suicides. God bless

  • Good vid guys!! and LMAO to "let the choir say GAYMAN!" YASSSSS lol!!!

    Much love, Tay

  • you guys should have your own show. i'm serious. i'd watch it. and i'm a straight white guy.

    and btw, @preachtheword100, if you're gonna preach the word, learn how to spell.

    thanks.

  • Thank you for doing this :))

  • Yo, I'm not downing you guys, so just here me out... Homosexuality is sin, it can be overcome by the grace of God. If you want to no how to overcome just ask and I will show you. I speak the truth because I love you...

  • NIGGA U GAY !!

  • THANK U

  • And gay-men!

  • so classy!! =)

  • This made me really happy. Thank you.

  • GAY

  • You guys are amazing. I just wish that there would be no it gets, just an it is better if you come out.

  • @quarvis ok, stop saying "interesting" cause you don't sound sophisticated or clever or intelligent. You're actually saying i'm in the wrong here? These bullies, do you think they'll stop if you reason with them? they don't understand anything that's WHY they bully others. They need to see how bullying can hurt, or in other words, receive a taste of their own medicine. Hmm... interesting isn't it?

  • @AdventLMT hmmm...so you are saying the best way to confront something you despise is to become that which you despise. hmmmm....intere.....I mean, intriguing....

  • @AdventLMT hmmm...so you are saying the best way to confront something you despise is to become that which you despise. hmmmm....intere.....I mean, intriguing....

  • @quarvis *heavy sigh* what is with you? I mean honestly? I'm asking you. What is wrong with you? You keep manipulating what i said and twisting my words. I never said that. I said that these bullies need to understand the pain they are inflicting. I never said go and bully them back or become bullies. I NEVER SAID THAT. STOP TWISTING MY WORDS.

  • @AdventLMT " or in other words, receive a taste of their own medicine" ? hmmm.....seems like you are prescribing something there....

  • @quarvis huh? why are you deflecting? classic psychological symptom of fear and/or intimidation. Triggered your fight/flight reaction and you ended up choosing flight or in this case, defense. I exposed your tendency to manipulate so you responded by utilizing your defense mechanism to help you cope. Classic fear response. You know what, forget this, you're completely childish and ridiculous. I don't even know why i bothered talking to you. completely wasting my time. i'm done.

  • @AdventLMT Hmmm...curious that you need to tell me you are "forgetting this" instead of just "forgetting this", this must be of some import. Was a fight or flight reaction what you were looking for in your attempts to speak out against bullying...very interesting.

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  • @AdventLMT how about two messages.....

  • @quarvis or three?

  • huw is gay

  • @funniboii08 hahaha!!! "however I firmly believer that my faith fulfills all scientific logic. Thats the kind of God I serve." You are a fucking retard! You are one of those "God put dinosaur bones on earth to test the faith of his people" dipshits aren't you? In that fancy bible that is riddled with contradictions (12 years of catholic school so I have read it a few times and have come to the conclusion it is nothing but bullshit scare tactics) love thy neighbor? That's in the first chapter. T

  • @AdventLMT GOOD! i hope they all die!

  • i hope every gay person rots in hell

  • @jaredjx And I hope you get shot down where you stand, have a nice day :D

  • the first gay couple is SUCH a HUGE INSPIRATION to me!

    i`m so tired of this promiscuous, cheap and dirty gay lifestyle thrown at me everywhere i go.clubs,people`s believes,television -everywhere.

    sometimes i get severely depressed cause i am a very lonely guy and thinking that i will always be alone makes it even worse.much worse.

    so AT LAST(!) i see it can be BEAUTIFUL.

    i can hav a husband.i can have a family.

    it`s such a relief.

    i thank to that couple from the bottom of my heart.

  • @soulsuvivor714 PLEASE SUPPORT GAYS AT THEHOMO,ORG. HAVE A NICE DAY!

  • They got their bak? Better stop messing with them...

    Seriously though, most LGBT are really decent and good people.

    I do not understand why people have double standards and hate on them for sexual orientation.

  • @funniboii08 Alright, seriously. Stop fucking comparing gay people to rapists and people that are committing CRIMES. Bigot trash. You're not being constructive, and you aren't backing up any of your fine "points". God pities your ignorance.

  • Love this!! Thank you for sharing! 

  • Love this amazing this is so important! Sincerely, lslrjpda