Narcisism..arranged by Rick bios36 original Doug Payne..guest..Dr Sam Vaknin

[GodlessInfinity]

Narcissists create more narcissists, it spreads like a disease, people who grow to close to them often lose their identities, children raised by them are often never allowed to develop their own identities. I can understand the inhumanity and lack of empathy, only because I've seen it in so many people who weren't narcissists, but what gets me is how oblivious they are to their own flaws, like how can a morbidly obese man criticize a slightly chubby man for being too fat?

[coomadoug]

@GodlessInfinity

Its the great thing about Grand parents. It is an important role. We show the little ones that it is great to be a kid and we love them for who they are and they can be themselves. Everything else seems to reward them for pretending. Narcissism is constant pretending.

[GodlessInfinity]

@coomadoug Very true, it's a constant masquerade.

[DoctrSam]

Excellent, song and video! I work in treating narcissists. I have a video here on YouTube called "How to Spot a Narcissist" if you are interested. Also, I'm not the Dr. Vaknin. Thanks.

[coomadoug]

@DoctrSam

Thats good Dr

Have you seen the original version

[613suz]

This is the most brilliant creative entertaining thing I've seen on NPD. For people to stay involved with a narcissist, they must have a false belief that they are not lovable. Other wise they could not endure the depths of despair and pain that the narcissist is so skilled at sendng their way. The narc is one going around at a party holding a silver tray full of knifes...his mindless victims pick up the knifes and do it to themselves much to his sadistic satisfaction

[Riversleigh1]

hell I loved the other version then I found this! Doug I want to have your babies, oh hell not biologically possible. Well love it anyhow. Wish you could represent other disorders, I study mental health and it helps to understand in greater depth through art. Rare for NPD to take that medium

[Annie0854]

Great work from all three of you. Thank you!

[mummyfunk]

vaknin hasn't got a phd, he bought one from a sawmill uni.

[reddragon7600]

how do you know this?

[marywinmusic]

Doug, Rick and Sam what an awesome performance shining through your recording. Alice lovely video work, syncs wonderfully with the lyrics. The speaking is well placed. 5***** Mary

[TheSongslinger]

AWESOME...5 *****S.

Too much knowledge & not enough wisdom is what steals a person's soul...

But wisdom cannot be taught. It can only be accepted or rejected!

G R

[mummyfunk]

what's wrong with knowledge.

[nokiannie]

I like this video thanks for sharing ur an awesome artist

[plunk52o]

Outcomes flow from thought decision trees,.

Paradigm

[ThePureamerican]

Okay plunk52o

I see you need Mindtools to express yourself, maybe that software is not as good as you think, no problem though, I respect all points of view, especially when I understand them

Have a good one

[mummyfunk]

So you're an indigenous person of the Americas then?

[plunk52o]

Any discussion of personality disorders that evades the proximity of operative thoughts and behavior from life enhancing outcomes fails to establish a foundation of cogent virtues working towards beneficent values or goals. Such eviscerated buzz words need more substantive and empirical criteria on which the judgment of modality may rest

[sandraplumberd]

Any critique that requires a dictionary to read is shit, Live with a Narc for a few years and that is shit too. This video and lyric are cool.

[ThePureamerican]

Hi plunk52o:

My father once told me that if I read something and don´t understand it, "Read it 3 times and if after that you still don´t get it, discard it"

"Operative Thoughts" you mean thoughts that are not "out of service" What´s that suppose to mean?

Maybe you should rephrase what you wanted to say in plain English

I´d like to add that your grammar and spelling are correct, congrats!

[ThePureamerican]

LOL! Forgot to comment on the song, I think the whole package is awesome, great stuff! The songwriting and lyrics are overwhelming and the performance exceptional!

[ThePureamerican]

I´m sort of new here in youtube, this one´s gonna be my first favorite

[coomadoug]

I like your name. When i went to the US last year, I met the nicest people ever.

[mummyfunk]

Yes, same here, but remember narcissists can be very charming at first, then they turn.

[slickerflicker]

ANOTHER Great one!!! *****+ ....... Allen

[YrendenQ]

cool

[Mykeya62]

Beautiful and deep as usual, love it. Thanks

[no2hate]

well done! peace2u. eric

[oldcountrytunes]

Thanks.

[TimelessSpace]

Yes, yes, I know this song... :-) And you did a great job with it, Rick!

The writer is ofcourse one of a kind too! :-)

[bios36]

Thank you Timeless, I sang it and played all instruments, Alice did the video editing

Cheers to you!

Rick

[moomay11649]

AWESOME VID AND MUSIC!

Loves,

Mooz

[monicasmix]

Great!!

[metalmarkholland]

Hello my friend, Sharkie here :D

All your video's are a cracker but man, this one is GREAT !

Saying Hi to Proshka

[TimelessSpace]

Agree with friend Sharkie... the editing is perfect too!!! Your job, Rick? :-)

[necrofagg0t]

shit's uninspired, I don't feel art here

[coomadoug]

This is your song Necro. Congratulations

[necrofagg0t]

Maybe its yours, seeing as though you can't take criticism about it. You made it, so it must be perfect, right?

[necrofagg0t]

Thanks for calling me back here doug, because I just realized that the entire song is in rhyming couplets. Jesus Christ doug, attempt a little innovation.

[allanhonicker]

NecrofaggOt

Lets see one of your innovative compositions here. Just attach one and show us what you mean

[necrofagg0t]

well I had planned to write a song and put it up on youtube, but I had planned to learn two others and work on my chops before hand. So, you could probably check back in like a month and a half. it's probably gonna be black metal thought.

[MisterStereo]

Enjoyed.

5star.

[bikesnguitars]

Thanks for sharing this Rick....Dave

[masterrus]

You cant reach my soul.

It's down a deep dark hole......

Thanks Rick.

[Proshka]

great job with this one

Bless Up

PROSHKA

[HaraldPetry]

A great song, a great voice, a great text and a great video! Thanks for sharing it!

Best wishes, 5 *****

Harald

[bios36]

Thank you! Harald

Rick

[catbrush123]

Thanks for sharing. Super song!

[rebel750v4]

Magnifique *****

[urthairish]

....... fantastic.... thanks so much for sharing ur talents..... nice voice and the song was great..... thanks bios36 for sharing...... love it.....

[Escagedo3rd]

Awesome! Love the lyrics and everything! Totally unexpected! Very entertaining!

[bios36]

Thanks Buddy!

Rick

[baldyholly79]

An amazing subject, sung wonderfully.

[charliewilsonswar1]

great embellishment of your original song Doug. Its interesting that Vaknin got his Doctorate from a phony university that has since been closed. Hah! True mark of a narcissist! Vaknin is interesting.....as an narc oddity.

[sandraplumberd]

can a narc do real things I wonder

[willy350z]

TFS Bios, for this superb original & awesome performance!!!Many*****::::)))­Will

[111oldie]

Very interesting, good job and a fine song!

Thanks Doug for sharing!5*

[TheSongslinger]

Awesome song. 5*****s.

Thanks for share BIOS36...

[rainydog]

Nice visuals. I've known a few people like this. Most difficult to relate with.

[lindacrnll]

WOW THIS WAS AWESOME ...rICK LOVED THE VIDEO YOU DID WITH THIS....FITS SOMEONE I NO TO A T....SO GLAD I'M OUT OF THAT NIGHT MARE....FEELINNG BETTER EVERYDAY

WONDERFUL EVEN.....SO VERY GOOD GUYS....

[jimmymac30]

Brilliant song and vid!!

[spookykaat]

I like Doug Payne best

[csscotkin]

Excellent! I was married to someone like this...your lyrics are astounding. I'm sitting in shock.

[coomadoug]

Thanks for the comments from experiance

[bluecarnation200]

Very Very Interesting Rick.

[ruotze]

i didn't know Narcisism was a disease

...i thought they were just having fun ?!

[blackjoh1]

awesome

[TiffanyAnneMusic]

This is AWESOME! I love it! :) 5 stars and favorited! :) -Tiffany

[SharineONeill]

Hi Rick, hi Doug, greetings and 5 glittering stars with lots of Love to both of you! Thanks for sharing another great song... so enjoyable - Sharine

[Tadek59]

Amazing song and excellent interesting video !

Great job !

5*****

Thanks for share bios36

[leftysergeant]

It is kind of hard to say which version of this I liked the best, since both are great, really. As social commentary, this version has an impact that cannot be ignored. The visual images clearly support the ideas expressed here. Over all, it is absolutely stunning.

I think, though, that the main difference shows in the line "I'll make your life hell." In the original, it is delivered with a flat affect that just sucks the life from a room. I think that was more effective. Still,5*

[bios36]

Hiya Lefty, I truly thank you for your insight and wisdom, so encouraging. Really glad you stopped by

Rick

[coomadoug]

Thanks Lefty.

I think you could make money commenting. I think the voice of Sam Vaknin is the spookey thing here. The legendary example of his own science is a fascinating creature to work with,,,a Rick

[bios36]

Whadya think Doug, it would be good on stage "a"

[coomadoug]

Yes it has a lot of potential. the message pounds away at most people just a tad cause we all know someone at least a little like this. We all remember Spock

[markgalloway]

This is pretty deep.

I suppose a lot of us musicians can relate.

A nicely crafted song. *****

[bios36]

Hi Mark, thanks pal, you´re channel is great!

Rick

[anden4fr]

THATS COOL

[cather333]

So good one Doug

*************

Catherine ♥

[Lillemy1]

AWESOME song!

*****

much love

Hilde

[1975Pontiac]

Nice one Doug.

5*****

Indy

[arromac]

...Keep up the excellent work...

[arromac]

...Huge improvement gentlemen & lady... Everything blended together extremely well and the video was unordinarilly interesting. Original, timely & powerful! This song proves your making changes to your 'sound,' and for the better, that most artist's are incapable of. Bravo to you & yours...

[allshookup77]

Wow, an amazing production Rick and Doug! It sounded great! And the video was superb! The song and video were very interesting and thought provoking! Very well done, I enjoyed it! ... FrAnK (★★★★★)

[blackblade789]

I like the other version much better,.. it had a real johnny Cash feel to it.

[sandraplumberd]

Both versions are good but this one has wonderful details and the inclusion of Vaknin is something special here

[sherrywine1941]

Outstanding video . Rick you did Doug's song proud. (5*) Sherry

[bdendooven]

My very own N husband is 79 years old. N's don't get better with age. "You can't reach my soul. It is down a deep dark hole. And if you look, I'll make your life Hell" . . . . Doug Payne has summed up N. Believe me I know. I bless Dr. Sam's work to help the world understand this pathological disorder. If your life's partner is N, quite hoping for change. Look again at this video.

[smyth94Isles4eva]

well done...another great song and video.

michele

[senilitysux66]

Rick, Doug and Alice, I often see here on YT wonderful talent being used to the best possible purpose. That is, to call attention to an area or subject where attention is much needed. You three amazing talents have done that so very exceptionally well here with this extraordinary song, performance and imagery. I applaud you all and say, "Bravo"!!

Mattie

[timdoog42]

Great cover Rick.Doug would be proud .Nice picking dude. loved it.:)

[SherifG1]

Just Great no doubt

>>>Sherif

[willy350z]

Doug, u alway come up with such fantabulous original, and the video images are awesome!!!Many*********:::)))W­ill

[davemorag1]

Nice one good video too

[Eddie629]

wow Rick !!...great vid !!...and song man...really great...I really liked the spoken word parts too...very cool !!! Amazingly done !!*****

[jtls8]

Thank you for posting!

[sweetthing77203]

As always Rick, you did a super job! 5*

[blackjoh1]

good job as usually!!!

[Bluefroger]

very powerful song!

Sarah x

[ElemeFF]

Perfect song and great imagery!

5*

[tps607]

Michael...we're on the same page!

[amazongift]

great again 5****...Mel

[foo2Le]

wow.........very beautiful vid&song......thanks

[mariuszevo]

Fantastic Music & Song!.Thanks for share!.bios36.Five ***** Stars!.

[newsichome]

good song!..

by the way.. what video tool do you use?

thanks

[bios36]

Hi, thank you I use Adobe Premiere Elements V4.0

Cheers!

Rick

[lefthooklyrics]

my new theme song.

[GVB1939]

Rick

Thanks for Posting. Thats One for Bios36 My Male Singers Playlist . Have you looked at my latest video uploads. A Selection of Music From Rick. A Selection of Videos I think you might find interesting. Thanks for posting Rick. Regards GVB1939 Gerald Victor Broad. :o).

[jcmegabyte]

Spock and Hitler - interesting combination! XD Nice work on this one - combination music/video/documentary... Well done :-)

[marycigarettes]

you men really put your shoulder to the wheel here and dug deep into yourselves to make a really substantial song..and the vocals are mighty...i love the deep timbre in the voice thats been recorded so well.....proper work here by men who have lived and are still alive creatively

[bios36]

Thank you for that Mary

Cheers!

Rick

[jugnutgut]

Wow, now that's something different! Very original, great job Doug and Rick!

[dgcmusi]

My wife and I like this very much.... This is some topic !

Great song my friend .

Top notch production...

Dave...

[johnnyboydmusik]

nice video alice .....

great vocals and lyrics are awesome,

take care..........JB

[tomvband]

Fabulous production! All the way around.  Very cool! I really like the musical arrangement.

[RobJamesPaynter]

Interesting song and video works well with the recorded inserts on Narcissism.

[uncledave10]

Very good song Video and performance , I think there are levels of Narcissism and YouTube is built on one level of that .

:o)tm *****

[tomvband]

Astute observation there Dave.  Seriously.

[uncledave10]

Thank You Tom there are no absolutes in any analogy . :o)tm

[ciuffolina1]

ci state abituando troppo bene...5* e grazie

[LoveMusicForever1234]

That was great Rick.

Tks for share.

huggies

Tatiana

[6K6R]

Great posting sounds very well 5*****

Claude

[coomadoug]

I shall be writing to all or you to thank you for your comments here. The subject has become a source of fascination for so many people these days as they strive to cope with heartless people in everyday life.

[boogieman079]

yeah..great job Rick..cool man

[emjaysmusik]

Awesome video Rick and a terrific song,very thought provoking lyrics,,top marks!!!

[sandraplumberd]

brill as usual

[elczanka]

Rick, Doug very beautiful. A wonderful romantic song. Beautiful video. Thank you for sending. I wish a good week.

Alicja

[downhill240]

5 Wow! the music and vid mix was excellent and the lyrics soooooo perceptive!!! I hope this helps someone.

[AndreasBusshart]

Rick and Doug that was great...peace...Freddie

[coomadoug]

Thanks matie for you support that is always well recieved here

[sabbia12]

GREAT 5 STARS

[Fr3derick]

Great video!!

Grandma mary

[rhopen]

Awesome track as always, and lyrically very compelling. -Ron

[harleyhawgn]

Wow, what a excellent video and the material is certainly thought provoking. A super great job and I enjoyed this 5* video alot. THANKS FOR SHARING, C.W.

[99BlakeandAngel]

Excellent!!!

Blake and Angel

[archtopbrownie]

Well conceived and performed. Didn't know much about the subject. Do now. Visually and musically compelling.

[cmandaro]

very different for you Doug!I like it-i think,lol kinda Pink FLoyd esque i think

5 stars

Charlie

[gerdenshed]

Excellent my friends 5*s to each of you ;-)

Mark....

[coomadoug]

Thanks Mark...I am really interested in what you might thuink of the content of this vid. What do ya recon? I actually got onto Sam Vaknin...in far away Macedonia. He and Rick had some interesting talks.\ preparing this