I know the other party could benefit from this kind of therapy yet they're proud. I'm sure after 20+ years of loveless relationships based on sex, a general malaise & depression subtly underlying and poisoning their life's vibe, and many nights of binge drinking to soothe depression they'd look back and realize it's a better idea for them to put pride aside now and privately find & fix detrimental relationship patterns with me, possibly as individuals, so they feel peace and can excel at work
In general, this sounds like good advise, but I think there are other reasons besides physical abuse for leaving. Ongoing emotional and psychological abuse is just as harmful as physical. Emotional withdrawal caused by alcohol or other addictions is not going to allow for mutual growth, especially if there is denial.
@MellyJuffin Yes, I agree. I wrote an article called "5 Reasons Why You Might Want to End Your Relationship" and I refer to addiction, emotional abuse, and other reasons.
@ElohimLee There are many men who act like a bitch not being a man. I am sorry your dealing with a male that does not know how man-up and just be a man.
Basically I'm just tired of weak men and women who cannot get their crap together!
Please tell him that I said he needs to man-up and stop bitching ... tell him to run to work to make money, not his bitching mouth!
You are correct, no one has to live with verbal abuse. So I suggest that it is time for you to leave this relationship. You have no control over what he is doing, only what you are doing. However, I also suggest that you also might have some work to do on yourself to move beyond fear and into what would be loving to yourself.
What does a guy do when he is just tired of bitching?
Some guys can be totally stand up responsible men, yet I see too many women bitching when the man is working his ass off ... Nagging is a deal breaker.
What about when both parties are living a dysfunctional life. Yea, and the man I am with, makes me want to be a lone. Mental abuse is destructive as well.
My fiance is an attorney, and he sabotages everything I try to accomplish. He wants to live off my food stamps, he wants whatever I have.
I have no interest in leaving the relationship with the wrong attitude, just simply leave is all...my end of the system.
i found out about the inner bond process on the internet...i wish i had learn about this years ago it would have saved me many many years of pain and heartache....its not to late. i'm willing to take as many courses as possible....i'm unemployed right now...so my finances are limited but i want to do as much as i can. is there a forum to talk to others?
@tushay67 The forum is on the member site. If you cannot afford our regular fee for membership, then please call our assistant, Valerie, at 888-646-6362 and she will get you signed on for what you can afford.
I concur with psycheeeeee, this is excellent advice. Would the advice remain the same, ie, to perhaps leave, if one of the partners self-harms (mostly for attention/manipulation, I believe) rather than is physically abusive towards the other (although he is very verbally abusive)? I do feel a bit unsafe, but want to help him, though I am not doing a very good job. Is this unwise/impossible? Thanks very much if you have any experience or advice regarding this.
@Saff5 Staying to help him is not a good reason to stay. Does he want help? You cannot help someone who does not want help, and if he is self-harming for attention, it sounds like he is very stuck in a wounded place and just wants someone else to take care of him. You need to ask yourself what is loving to you. I suggest that you take our free Inner Bonding course.
Does bond process suggest anything about my fiance being asked nicely for the past 13 years to not leave his snot tissues lay on the floor. It is disgusting, and a dirty habit. I have been nice. He is an adult, and I should not have to ask him one more time to pick up his snot tissues off the living room floor. comments welcome.....because I would just rather walk than put up with it any more.
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I know the other party could benefit from this kind of therapy yet they're proud. I'm sure after 20+ years of loveless relationships based on sex, a general malaise & depression subtly underlying and poisoning their life's vibe, and many nights of binge drinking to soothe depression they'd look back and realize it's a better idea for them to put pride aside now and privately find & fix detrimental relationship patterns with me, possibly as individuals, so they feel peace and can excel at work
HoiPolloiOhJoy 1 week ago
Leave when your fiance gives you an STD and he said he never cheated...
009thequeen 2 months ago
@009thequeen Yes, this is a very good reason to leave. I'm sad to hear this if this happened to you.
innerbond 2 months ago
In general, this sounds like good advise, but I think there are other reasons besides physical abuse for leaving. Ongoing emotional and psychological abuse is just as harmful as physical. Emotional withdrawal caused by alcohol or other addictions is not going to allow for mutual growth, especially if there is denial.
MellyJuffin 3 months ago
@MellyJuffin Yes, I agree. I wrote an article called "5 Reasons Why You Might Want to End Your Relationship" and I refer to addiction, emotional abuse, and other reasons.
innerbond 3 months ago
@ElohimLee Thank what you need to do is ask yourself if this guy adds quality to your life, or does he tale qaulity of life away?
Where will you be in 10 years with him the way it's going? Sometimes it's less lonely to be alone than with a person as you describe.
This advice I would give for both men and women in relationships.
ben5017 7 months ago
@ElohimLee There are many men who act like a bitch not being a man. I am sorry your dealing with a male that does not know how man-up and just be a man.
Basically I'm just tired of weak men and women who cannot get their crap together!
Please tell him that I said he needs to man-up and stop bitching ... tell him to run to work to make money, not his bitching mouth!
ben5017 7 months ago
You are correct, no one has to live with verbal abuse. So I suggest that it is time for you to leave this relationship. You have no control over what he is doing, only what you are doing. However, I also suggest that you also might have some work to do on yourself to move beyond fear and into what would be loving to yourself.
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What does a guy do when he is just tired of bitching?
Some guys can be totally stand up responsible men, yet I see too many women bitching when the man is working his ass off ... Nagging is a deal breaker.
ben5017 10 months ago
What about when both parties are living a dysfunctional life. Yea, and the man I am with, makes me want to be a lone. Mental abuse is destructive as well.
My fiance is an attorney, and he sabotages everything I try to accomplish. He wants to live off my food stamps, he wants whatever I have.
I have no interest in leaving the relationship with the wrong attitude, just simply leave is all...my end of the system.
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i found out about the inner bond process on the internet...i wish i had learn about this years ago it would have saved me many many years of pain and heartache....its not to late. i'm willing to take as many courses as possible....i'm unemployed right now...so my finances are limited but i want to do as much as i can. is there a forum to talk to others?
tushay67 1 year ago
@tushay67 The forum is on the member site. If you cannot afford our regular fee for membership, then please call our assistant, Valerie, at 888-646-6362 and she will get you signed on for what you can afford.
Blessings to you,
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innerbond 1 year ago
I concur with psycheeeeee, this is excellent advice. Would the advice remain the same, ie, to perhaps leave, if one of the partners self-harms (mostly for attention/manipulation, I believe) rather than is physically abusive towards the other (although he is very verbally abusive)? I do feel a bit unsafe, but want to help him, though I am not doing a very good job. Is this unwise/impossible? Thanks very much if you have any experience or advice regarding this.
Saff5 1 year ago
@Saff5 Staying to help him is not a good reason to stay. Does he want help? You cannot help someone who does not want help, and if he is self-harming for attention, it sounds like he is very stuck in a wounded place and just wants someone else to take care of him. You need to ask yourself what is loving to you. I suggest that you take our free Inner Bonding course.
innerbond 1 year ago
@innerbond Thank you for your advice. I will take the free Inner Bonding course right away then. Saff
Saff5 1 year ago
@Saff5 Great! It will be a big help to you, and we have many articles on the site about relationships that will also be a help.
innerbond 1 year ago
@innerbond
Does bond process suggest anything about my fiance being asked nicely for the past 13 years to not leave his snot tissues lay on the floor. It is disgusting, and a dirty habit. I have been nice. He is an adult, and I should not have to ask him one more time to pick up his snot tissues off the living room floor. comments welcome.....because I would just rather walk than put up with it any more.
getrealthen 11 months ago
@psycheeeeee Thanks for your comment - I'm pleased it is helpful. Blessings, Margaret
innerbond 1 year ago