Everything you said is happening in my relationship but I don't know how to end it or get away because he always comes back and I fall for it over and over and over again. Is it too extreme to just change my number?
I'm not sure if this has anything to do with this but I have been best friends with someone for about 3 years now and last year she got a boy friend who is horrible and a few months ago he took it too far by calling me fat, lesbian (when I'm not), ugly and lots of other names... now we can't be in the same room as each other and recently I have been noticing that my friend is blocking me out and ignoring me and would rather spend time with him then me :( Can you help?
wow all these signs are to a tee of what my ex-boyfriend was..i did see alot of abuse at home when i was a child and i ended up with an abusive ex...luckily now i have a good man who loves and respects me for me :)
Rach, can you please do a video on how to deal with people who hate you for no reason. Im having this problem and having a hard time coping. Please help :/
You don't believe that if a person is willing to face these issues, that the relationship can get better? I'm just saying, because everyone has at least one of these issues on occasion and to brand someone as toxic for being human in this shameful way.. I don't know, i'd like to have a bit more faith in a person than just stay away from the friendship / relationship straight up coldly
please can u do a vid on how to get a boy friend........ I can't seem to get one..... boys just don't seem to like me...... i know that is an odd request but please!
My best friend is in a really bad relationship & the guy she is with is a very bad influence on her, she has no trust in him as he has mistreated her & hurt her before, but she continues to be with him, its really hard seeing her waste her life with an idiot, idk what to do anymore i've tried talking to her but she just doesnt listen, she needs to get it in her head that she is in a very unhealthy relationship & leave while she still can.. D:
Can you do a chapter on like teen puberty mainly for ladies i dont sugest you know what men go thru in puberty haha x well what i was meaning was like getting your period and acne and (it will not be named) and probally like shaving because im twelve and I look up to you and your really amazing helping me even if its just relationship ussiues and DIY salt sprays (yes i watched that :P) can you help? Thank you so much love love love you! Subscribed favourited all vids xxx
Yes,...lol... if you see signs of a toxic relationship... call the police!!! And whatever you do... listen to NONE of this airhead's youtube advice...arrrghh
I think you should maybe make some videos about different nail polish colors... or maybe how to dress your barbie's? Or maybe "how best to feel sorry for yourself and whine" ? Think those would be right up your alley..lol.
Hey... can you do a video on how not to be SOOO much of a drama queen...lol???? That way other young girls will not end up anything like you...lol. That would probably be the best example you could set for them...lmao
Someone said it right...lol >>>> WHAAAAAAA!!!!! I bet most guys want to jump off a bridge after listening to this child's whining after a couple weeks. I have no problem believing she has had "bad" boyfriends... of course though... she is SOOOOO together. BARF
How could this juvenile, airhead ditz possibly be qualified to give ANYONE advice on relationships...lol? Probably THE last person I would go to for any form of advice..lol. A "toxic" relationship to this chick would be anyone that left her that they could not stand her nonsense after awhile...lol. Of course that would include just about any boyfriend she has ever had... groan
pleaseee talk about your past experiences and how you met chris and all that cause u told us you went through a bad relationship in high school.. i'd love to hear your testimony on that :) i've experience a lot of violence in my home and im always afraid im gonna end up like my parents!
Rach you are so wonderful, this video really helped thank you so much!!! all of your videos are so positive which is really nice because right now, being in highschool there isnt so much posotivity anyway all of your videos are excellent thank you so much, you are such a great role model!
This is great, Rachel! As far as the avoidance thing goes, I do want to point out (as I'm sure you know) that some people just don't know how to have healthy confrontation, sadly. I'm in a long-term relationship and my boyfriend was raised in a home where he taught not to express his feelings. It makes things hard, but then again, we both recognize it and work hard to challenge this. Also...we're adults, not teens and there's no safety issues, so I suppose it's a little different!
WOW thank you so much for this video. All of these characteristics describe my last relationship and I sometimes get sad and think I should call up my ex and get back together, but this video truly made me realize how messed up our relationship was! THANK YOU honestly!
Give advice how to get over a break up, and then RIGHT after that, on how to break up with someone, then they can refer the one they broke up with to your video. lol might help the process go faster. lol :)
Rachel, I'm 18 years old and I (as well as many other girls on here I'm sure) have been hurt a few times in the past (emotionally speaking) and as a result of that, I have big trust issues ... even with people that I know I should be able to trust. How would you suggest getting over something like that? Can you do a video when you get the time, please?
Hey ladies, and also Rachel! I can personally speak on this topic, and now I may even do my own video. I was in an abusive relationship a few yrs ago, and it escalated very, very quickly! Some things to watch for and keep in mind: He "keeps track" of you, calls or txts ur phone to see where u are, what ur doing etc, or checks your phone& comp. history; He gets angry very easliy and instigates arguments, becoming violent or aggressive by breaking or slamming things;
@honeybee519 There are a lot of different signs, but if any of them are happening find someone you trust and tell them what's going on. Write down the times/dates the person has threatened you, what they said/did etc, so you have a record of everything. Ask for help, trust me I know how difficult it can be. Just being able to get away from my ex was hard but it is possible! Search domestic violence support, or search abused women support and you will find resources! Be careful everyone <3
IF you cant do thats i understand you're busy. BUT I would really appreciate if you can do a video or just talk about this in a video for a little bit about how to get over your nerves and tell the guy you like that you like him and how to give him your number..like you being the one to make the "first move". I really this this guy and the signs show that he likes me but ive always been the kind of girl to wait for him to do something but i dont wanna wait anymore but im afraid :(
How to proceed with a boy you just have a "thing" with (i.e. kiss and flirt with but aren't officially going out) and when you should feel comfortable letting it become more serious?
I don't know if this has happened to you, but my last boyfriend thought I would be a good idea to have another girlfriend at the same time as me. Basically, I'm almost 17 and already been cheated on.
Problem is, I am pretty much over it, but he really scarred me and my trust. Do you know how to get over things like that? How to get back to normal?
- how to find the right group of friends in high school. I find that I don't know where I fit in and my friends don't have the same values and ideas about life as me, and that really frustrates me.
- how to have a good relationship with a sister. My relationship with my sister is not good. We don't connect on a very deep level and she doesn't tend to like being emotional. Some advice on how to fix that would be good.
Please please please do a video on Job Interviews. I just had one last week that couldn't have gone any worse. It was really bad. I really need help on that.
Do a video on how to break up with someone! I'm horrible at break ups because I feel soooo guilty for dumping a guy and I just don't know how to do it without making them feel hurt and rejected
@RachhLoves Well we just have alot of diffirent veiws on things, however we used to be bestfriends. We've both changed and don't get along that well anymore. We also have the same friends,classes, and sports activites together. I don't really know how to handle it exept keep distances from one another. Thanks I love your vedios and hope you have a great day<3
I've seen so many of my friends go through this, not so much me, but I always try and help them to understand whats happening, but now if it happens I'll just show them this video=)
@KatieLoveHope Bad in what way? Bullying? Ignoring you? Gossiping? Many times it can be a lack of communication - have you been open with her about it? <3
@RachhLoves I would also love some info on this! I'm a bit older (+25) but I have a "friendship" with someone who operates like a one-way street or a "fair weather friend". We used to be besties but she has used me and hurt me and she knows but seems not to care. Its like a "Be friends at ur own risk" attitude she has. I want to just move on, but feel like I should confront her first. Advice for "breaking up" with a toxic friend would be awesome! Take care :)
RACHEL!!!!!!! please do like a school priorities organization video!!! Like how to prioritize what you need to do in 11th grade, because that's the grade I'm going in next year. Also, can you make a video on how to prepare for SATs?? Please, I could use your help!!!!
I've been in a relationship with someone with ALL of these warning signs present. I think I need to let it go...Its hard. But thank you for this video. :/ I know what I need to do :'(
I dated someone who showed controlling and jealous qualities all the time. He tried to push me away from my friends saying they were "bad people" and he tried to control what I did. The sad thing is you don't even realize it's happening at first. I cut him out of my life completely, I feel like my own person again and the happiest I've been in a while. So, if any of you guys have the same problems cut that person off completely and don't talk to them anymore, because it will never change.
can you please do a video on how to make your relationship better that your in?
ive been with my boyfriend for a year in a half, i know we love each other but it feels like it was better when we were datting for 6 months... and im not sure if its me or him or both. But i would love some advice on how to get that spark back :)
I noticed when people tend to go through others quickly (like boys having LOTS of girlfriends and they claim THEY were crazy) that something is wrong with them. They can be any of the things that you mentioned- controlling, jealous, etc. People like that are like tornados- they leave a path of destruction behind.
Also- listen to your gut feeling! If your instinct says 'I don't think this person is good for me' then chances are that they aren't!
@herutura Yes, listening to that inner conscience can be quite helpful. It took me a long time to really teach myself to tune into it properly after ignoring it for so long. I completely agree though :)
can you help please?me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and five months.after a year i found he got really comfortable with me so he treats me like his friends.im really skinny and small for my age but i dont like my stomach and he will say im "fat" i know hes joking but it hurts,also he jokes around by calling me names and it hurts me and i dont do that to him.i know he loves me and i love him but not when he does that.also he always thinks im going to cheat on him,i would never.
@jennaxbenna16 I think communication is key here. Sit him down, tell him that you can appreciate a good joke as much as the next person but it really hurts when he pokes fun at your stomach. Tell him it isn't his fault, he didn't know it made you so uncomfortable but in future avoid any jokes about that. He might be surprised that it hurt you. Have you asked him why he's so nervous that you'll cheat on him? If you tell him straight up that you're committed 100% to him he might feel better.
@RachhLoves thanks we just talked for about 4 hours about it i guess hes just really scared to lose me, and hes been cheated on before. but he said he is gonna try his best to not make jokes like that:)
@RachhLoves thanks:) we just talked about it for 4 hours. he said hes scared to lose me, also hes been cheated on before. but he said hes gonna try his hardest not to joke like that:)
this is just what i needed. my bf and i are on a break as of yesterday.. and no combination of kelly clarkson, avril lavigne, aretha, and TLC was helping :( thanks rachel <3
@chetzalicious *hugs* I bet it hurts a lot but take the time to think about why you're on a break with him. Is there something your conscience is telling you about him? Is he the best fit for you or are you just scared to make a big change? Sometimes girls will take "breaks" with boys when they know they aren't a good fit but are too scared of that unknown world without them. It will take some getting used to but sometimes the best thing to do is move onwards and upwards xox
Everything you said is happening in my relationship but I don't know how to end it or get away because he always comes back and I fall for it over and over and over again. Is it too extreme to just change my number?
p0kediamond 3 weeks ago
I'm not sure if this has anything to do with this but I have been best friends with someone for about 3 years now and last year she got a boy friend who is horrible and a few months ago he took it too far by calling me fat, lesbian (when I'm not), ugly and lots of other names... now we can't be in the same room as each other and recently I have been noticing that my friend is blocking me out and ignoring me and would rather spend time with him then me :( Can you help?
MeggAndria 1 month ago
wow all these signs are to a tee of what my ex-boyfriend was..i did see alot of abuse at home when i was a child and i ended up with an abusive ex...luckily now i have a good man who loves and respects me for me :)
xbutterfly1986x 3 months ago
how to know what your good at please :)) <333
zargbdarzoster23 4 months ago
:(
ThePlaindarkness 6 months ago
Rach, can you please do a video on how to deal with people who hate you for no reason. Im having this problem and having a hard time coping. Please help :/
raveenabhakta 7 months ago 4
You don't believe that if a person is willing to face these issues, that the relationship can get better? I'm just saying, because everyone has at least one of these issues on occasion and to brand someone as toxic for being human in this shameful way.. I don't know, i'd like to have a bit more faith in a person than just stay away from the friendship / relationship straight up coldly
insanekiss 7 months ago
please can u do a vid on how to get a boy friend........ I can't seem to get one..... boys just don't seem to like me...... i know that is an odd request but please!
Eleena873 7 months ago
My best friend is in a really bad relationship & the guy she is with is a very bad influence on her, she has no trust in him as he has mistreated her & hurt her before, but she continues to be with him, its really hard seeing her waste her life with an idiot, idk what to do anymore i've tried talking to her but she just doesnt listen, she needs to get it in her head that she is in a very unhealthy relationship & leave while she still can.. D:
RaaahItsNae 7 months ago
:/ how to get rid of a bad boyfriend that won't leave you alone without getting adults involved.
WoahDaltonJade 8 months ago
Please, please, please do a video on how to break up with your boyfriend.
amberleaaaa 8 months ago
how to deal with a breakup :'(
luckynumber13xo 8 months ago
Dear Rachel,
Can you do a chapter on like teen puberty mainly for ladies i dont sugest you know what men go thru in puberty haha x well what i was meaning was like getting your period and acne and (it will not be named) and probally like shaving because im twelve and I look up to you and your really amazing helping me even if its just relationship ussiues and DIY salt sprays (yes i watched that :P) can you help? Thank you so much love love love you! Subscribed favourited all vids xxx
from me x
988GUMMYBEAR2010 8 months ago
where are you from?if i may ask
animallover0603 8 months ago
Why did i watch this....im a boy. I think i have issues.
Kraidworm 8 months ago
GOD, my ex is a douche
Dreamxys 8 months ago
Yes,...lol... if you see signs of a toxic relationship... call the police!!! And whatever you do... listen to NONE of this airhead's youtube advice...arrrghh
crypto0102 8 months ago
I think you should maybe make some videos about different nail polish colors... or maybe how to dress your barbie's? Or maybe "how best to feel sorry for yourself and whine" ? Think those would be right up your alley..lol.
crypto0102 8 months ago
Hey... can you do a video on how not to be SOOO much of a drama queen...lol???? That way other young girls will not end up anything like you...lol. That would probably be the best example you could set for them...lmao
crypto0102 8 months ago
Someone said it right...lol >>>> WHAAAAAAA!!!!! I bet most guys want to jump off a bridge after listening to this child's whining after a couple weeks. I have no problem believing she has had "bad" boyfriends... of course though... she is SOOOOO together. BARF
crypto0102 8 months ago
How could this juvenile, airhead ditz possibly be qualified to give ANYONE advice on relationships...lol? Probably THE last person I would go to for any form of advice..lol. A "toxic" relationship to this chick would be anyone that left her that they could not stand her nonsense after awhile...lol. Of course that would include just about any boyfriend she has ever had... groan
crypto0102 8 months ago
i dont think that there is any one who doesnt do these things to each other in their (dating/married) relationship.
missalyfaye17 9 months ago
pleaseee talk about your past experiences and how you met chris and all that cause u told us you went through a bad relationship in high school.. i'd love to hear your testimony on that :) i've experience a lot of violence in my home and im always afraid im gonna end up like my parents!
xlajimex 9 months ago
i would like to see you do a video on what kind of degree/specialty is best for you.
nkav001 9 months ago
i love you, this video is great. shows how awesome of a person you are, i wish i had you to talk to about my problems! you seem like a great help!
lindsaylou010 9 months ago
can you do a video on how to over come jealousy and to over come being over protective??
bellezzacondolore 9 months ago 2
So looking forward to the rest of the advice videos!
dks123queen 10 months ago
Rach you are so wonderful, this video really helped thank you so much!!! all of your videos are so positive which is really nice because right now, being in highschool there isnt so much posotivity anyway all of your videos are excellent thank you so much, you are such a great role model!
Prima20Ballerina 10 months ago
This is great, Rachel! As far as the avoidance thing goes, I do want to point out (as I'm sure you know) that some people just don't know how to have healthy confrontation, sadly. I'm in a long-term relationship and my boyfriend was raised in a home where he taught not to express his feelings. It makes things hard, but then again, we both recognize it and work hard to challenge this. Also...we're adults, not teens and there's no safety issues, so I suppose it's a little different!
MicheleMakeupAndMore 10 months ago
thank you for doing this video and other advice videos you will be doing thank you i love advice <33 xoxo
anntess0913 10 months ago
WOW thank you so much for this video. All of these characteristics describe my last relationship and I sometimes get sad and think I should call up my ex and get back together, but this video truly made me realize how messed up our relationship was! THANK YOU honestly!
Kandi8027 10 months ago
i love you! hahahaha :)ur amazing!
PhenomenalAbby 10 months ago
Give advice how to get over a break up, and then RIGHT after that, on how to break up with someone, then they can refer the one they broke up with to your video. lol might help the process go faster. lol :)
beju9091 10 months ago
Rachel, I'm 18 years old and I (as well as many other girls on here I'm sure) have been hurt a few times in the past (emotionally speaking) and as a result of that, I have big trust issues ... even with people that I know I should be able to trust. How would you suggest getting over something like that? Can you do a video when you get the time, please?
Thanks <3
(LADIES, LIKE THIS SO SHE SEES IT PLEASE :])
somethingspecialxox 10 months ago 43
@somethingspecialxox If you want my advice on getting over something like trust issues, don't date as many guys. Date ones you know very well.
RemysWebpageMaker 8 months ago
saw it n subscribed!!!
plz advice on how to nurture a relationship
rubinathoudam 10 months ago
i love you! you're so down to earth, and beautiful. :) love how kind you are, and the fact you're doing these kinds of videos to help others. :)
XBexxehKitteh 10 months ago
Hey ladies, and also Rachel! I can personally speak on this topic, and now I may even do my own video. I was in an abusive relationship a few yrs ago, and it escalated very, very quickly! Some things to watch for and keep in mind: He "keeps track" of you, calls or txts ur phone to see where u are, what ur doing etc, or checks your phone& comp. history; He gets angry very easliy and instigates arguments, becoming violent or aggressive by breaking or slamming things;
honeybee519 10 months ago
@honeybee519 There are a lot of different signs, but if any of them are happening find someone you trust and tell them what's going on. Write down the times/dates the person has threatened you, what they said/did etc, so you have a record of everything. Ask for help, trust me I know how difficult it can be. Just being able to get away from my ex was hard but it is possible! Search domestic violence support, or search abused women support and you will find resources! Be careful everyone <3
honeybee519 10 months ago
Wow Great Ideas! Can't wait to see those videos of advice, I just subbed :)
andreaclement 10 months ago
great video, can u do a video on homesick plz?
misaki52008 10 months ago
Can you do a video about what life is like in Canada? Vs. the US.. Thanks!
hef107 10 months ago
Please do a video on how to kiss another girl
DoBe0001 10 months ago
@DoBe0001 hahahahahaha my guess is i don't think Rachh will have any experience with tht. just my guess,but that's a good one :)
saltvspepper733256 10 months ago
IF you cant do thats i understand you're busy. BUT I would really appreciate if you can do a video or just talk about this in a video for a little bit about how to get over your nerves and tell the guy you like that you like him and how to give him your number..like you being the one to make the "first move". I really this this guy and the signs show that he likes me but ive always been the kind of girl to wait for him to do something but i dont wanna wait anymore but im afraid :(
BellaMarie23 10 months ago 2
thank u thisss hass helped me alot .... this is something we need to worry about
Mandaaa03 10 months ago
how to get over a breakup, pleaseee(:
itsdaniellebabexo 10 months ago 7
all those sounds really gooooood!! :)
paryse17 10 months ago
Ill have your bone structure please k thanks bye
sarafritsch123 10 months ago
How to proceed with a boy you just have a "thing" with (i.e. kiss and flirt with but aren't officially going out) and when you should feel comfortable letting it become more serious?
crfx14 10 months ago
good advice. but i kind of find it ridiculous that i had to wait halfway through your video to finally find out what the warning signs were.
acerscrubs 10 months ago
please do a video about picking university or college! (:
kurtsangel01 10 months ago
Define fashion sense would be awesome!!
hihomatey10 10 months ago
You just described my entire relationship. Ugh.
dasisosa23 10 months ago
college advice vidsss plz ;););')
loveenusia28 10 months ago
I don't know if this has happened to you, but my last boyfriend thought I would be a good idea to have another girlfriend at the same time as me. Basically, I'm almost 17 and already been cheated on.
Problem is, I am pretty much over it, but he really scarred me and my trust. Do you know how to get over things like that? How to get back to normal?
chinesepicklegirl 10 months ago
especially about figuring out what your good and university stuff
lu8889 10 months ago
rach , all your "advice videos" all the ones you named.
And your videos are like my life and you help me so much i love em just as much as your makeup videos <3
lu8889 10 months ago
Do a video on how to prepare for job interviews please! :) it would be soooo helpful
miss3skimbe3rly 10 months ago
Great video, Rachel! It was really helpful.
I have some requests:
- how to find the right group of friends in high school. I find that I don't know where I fit in and my friends don't have the same values and ideas about life as me, and that really frustrates me.
- how to have a good relationship with a sister. My relationship with my sister is not good. We don't connect on a very deep level and she doesn't tend to like being emotional. Some advice on how to fix that would be good.
TheGoldenPhoenixSong 10 months ago
please do an advice video about college (how you mentioned) thank you so much!!!!
essargee14 10 months ago
I love you as a youtuber because you reaally seem like you care about your viewers:) love you!!!
DaisyStar27 10 months ago
Please please please do a video on Job Interviews. I just had one last week that couldn't have gone any worse. It was really bad. I really need help on that.
Thank you :)
helena9382 10 months ago
did you ever do a video on t?
midniteangel123 10 months ago
wow, you are so mature for your age :)
sweetilleyad 10 months ago
Do a video on how to break up with someone! I'm horrible at break ups because I feel soooo guilty for dumping a guy and I just don't know how to do it without making them feel hurt and rejected
LINDSAYLIKEOMG 10 months ago
@RachhLoves Well we just have alot of diffirent veiws on things, however we used to be bestfriends. We've both changed and don't get along that well anymore. We also have the same friends,classes, and sports activites together. I don't really know how to handle it exept keep distances from one another. Thanks I love your vedios and hope you have a great day<3
KatieLoveHope 10 months ago
I've seen so many of my friends go through this, not so much me, but I always try and help them to understand whats happening, but now if it happens I'll just show them this video=)
summerluv888 10 months ago
are you wearing one earring .? o.O
sparklysparkle21 10 months ago 3
@sparklysparkle21 Nope two - just hiding in my hair ;)
RachhLoves 10 months ago 7
@RachhLoves LOOL , oh
and oyu live in ontario, right ?
i know cause im a stalker like that ;)
LOOL , do you have NYX products ?
do you know if shoppers sells them ?
and do you go to the forever 21 on yonge ??? ? ?? ?
please answer :D:
sparklysparkle21 10 months ago
@sparklysparkle21 No shes clearly not look at 0:03 lol :)
melaniebaker 10 months ago
Love all the new video ideas!!! Thanks Rachel!
great video as always!
massiekurxx4 10 months ago
thank you for this rachel.... great vid xxx
katrinam123 10 months ago
What you're good at/ picking a major and job would be super helpful!! Thank you
reilly9331 10 months ago
How do you get out of a relationship if you are seeing one or more or these signs?
crystaltwinkle123 10 months ago
i really wanna see a how to put together outfits/ how to define your style
joactive 10 months ago
You are one of few gurus I look to for quality advice videos. I am looking forward to all the videos to come.
mzmochaberryz 10 months ago
@mzmochaberryz I am honoured. Thank you so much for your support :)
RachhLoves 10 months ago
Great advises! Very helpful. A video that brings up such important matters, it is a big deal. So a great video, happy you did it :)
MsSnowflake87 10 months ago
can you do one on how to get over shyness and talk to your crush or something like that? :) thanks
12dancerella 10 months ago
what about how to tell ur crush you like him!!?!!?!?!?
that would ROCK
like if you want that video XD
CatStudios99 10 months ago
REQUEST: How to deal with a bad friendship
Thanks!(:
KatieLoveHope 10 months ago 25
@KatieLoveHope yes yes yes!! RACHEL, DO A VIDEO AOBU THATA !!
sparklysparkle21 10 months ago
@KatieLoveHope Bad in what way? Bullying? Ignoring you? Gossiping? Many times it can be a lack of communication - have you been open with her about it? <3
RachhLoves 10 months ago 5
@RachhLoves I would also love some info on this! I'm a bit older (+25) but I have a "friendship" with someone who operates like a one-way street or a "fair weather friend". We used to be besties but she has used me and hurt me and she knows but seems not to care. Its like a "Be friends at ur own risk" attitude she has. I want to just move on, but feel like I should confront her first. Advice for "breaking up" with a toxic friend would be awesome! Take care :)
honeybee519 10 months ago
How did you get throigh your marketing bachelor degree? I cant cope llol x
miriamou 10 months ago
Most interesting! Could I ask a little question? When should I attend to my heart and when should I trust my brain?
onenightraven1978 10 months ago
Cold Shoulder. :P
ILuvPuck1 10 months ago 3
@ILuvPuck1 LOL what did I say?!
RachhLoves 10 months ago 6
@RachhLoves lol u said, "The cold treatment."
beju9091 10 months ago
This is really great. Thank you for talking about deep issues a lot ppl struggle with
themakeupaddict86 10 months ago
Your and T's relationship.
MiMi4169 10 months ago
I was in an abusive relationship. I should have known it was bad when we got together on 9/11.
hecklesmear 10 months ago
Please ! I need to learn how to break up with someone ! :)
mrs0serena 10 months ago
RACHEL!!!!!!! please do like a school priorities organization video!!! Like how to prioritize what you need to do in 11th grade, because that's the grade I'm going in next year. Also, can you make a video on how to prepare for SATs?? Please, I could use your help!!!!
LiquidPaper14 10 months ago
when i started to see this video of your i thoght that how many girls must think idolise you and think you as their sister!!!!
jellybelly1011 10 months ago
I've been in a relationship with someone with ALL of these warning signs present. I think I need to let it go...Its hard. But thank you for this video. :/ I know what I need to do :'(
LaurenAnchor013 10 months ago
loved this
u r gawjuss and so brave for doing this xxxxxx
eyeheartmakeupxx 10 months ago
super lovin' this video Rache.. Keep it up beautiful! :)
leanakasandra 10 months ago
college tips!
11phillygurl 10 months ago
I would love to see videos related to Universities and degrees and careers! I am going into gr. 12 next year and this would be SO helpful! :)
hannak26 10 months ago
how to break up with someone
bealoveuty 10 months ago
I dated someone who showed controlling and jealous qualities all the time. He tried to push me away from my friends saying they were "bad people" and he tried to control what I did. The sad thing is you don't even realize it's happening at first. I cut him out of my life completely, I feel like my own person again and the happiest I've been in a while. So, if any of you guys have the same problems cut that person off completely and don't talk to them anymore, because it will never change.
ambermarie221 10 months ago
i love these advice videos!!!So helpful!
07lovelylauren 10 months ago
you're so sweeeet! haha could you do a video on how to talk to a guy that goes to the same gym as you? or something like that hah
juicyburtonluver 10 months ago
great video!
can you please do a video on how to make your relationship better that your in?
ive been with my boyfriend for a year in a half, i know we love each other but it feels like it was better when we were datting for 6 months... and im not sure if its me or him or both. But i would love some advice on how to get that spark back :)
ericaalovesscott 10 months ago
thank you this helped so much!!!
eriqt2 10 months ago
i cant wait for all of those advice videos esspecialy how to know what your good at and all the highschool ones!!
peacelovexoxo123 10 months ago
Thank you so much Rachel..! This has made things so much clearer for me! You are amazing! :) x
melissasloyan 10 months ago
Great advice!
I noticed when people tend to go through others quickly (like boys having LOTS of girlfriends and they claim THEY were crazy) that something is wrong with them. They can be any of the things that you mentioned- controlling, jealous, etc. People like that are like tornados- they leave a path of destruction behind.
Also- listen to your gut feeling! If your instinct says 'I don't think this person is good for me' then chances are that they aren't!
herutura 10 months ago 4
@herutura Yes, listening to that inner conscience can be quite helpful. It took me a long time to really teach myself to tune into it properly after ignoring it for so long. I completely agree though :)
RachhLoves 10 months ago
Was it raining outside?
gaspOMG 10 months ago
Great vid!!
Do one on picking university or college! And majors! I am applying this summer
peppermintwiz 10 months ago 39
your amazing thank you for this video
BJAluvxx21 10 months ago
great video rach! xoxo
HollyGoLightlyxox 10 months ago
@HollyGoLightlyxox Thanks sweetie xoxo
RachhLoves 10 months ago
can you help please?me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and five months.after a year i found he got really comfortable with me so he treats me like his friends.im really skinny and small for my age but i dont like my stomach and he will say im "fat" i know hes joking but it hurts,also he jokes around by calling me names and it hurts me and i dont do that to him.i know he loves me and i love him but not when he does that.also he always thinks im going to cheat on him,i would never.
jennaxbenna16 10 months ago
@jennaxbenna16 I think communication is key here. Sit him down, tell him that you can appreciate a good joke as much as the next person but it really hurts when he pokes fun at your stomach. Tell him it isn't his fault, he didn't know it made you so uncomfortable but in future avoid any jokes about that. He might be surprised that it hurt you. Have you asked him why he's so nervous that you'll cheat on him? If you tell him straight up that you're committed 100% to him he might feel better.
RachhLoves 10 months ago
@RachhLoves thanks we just talked for about 4 hours about it i guess hes just really scared to lose me, and hes been cheated on before. but he said he is gonna try his best to not make jokes like that:)
jennaxbenna16 10 months ago
@RachhLoves thanks:) we just talked about it for 4 hours. he said hes scared to lose me, also hes been cheated on before. but he said hes gonna try his hardest not to joke like that:)
jennaxbenna16 10 months ago
this is just what i needed. my bf and i are on a break as of yesterday.. and no combination of kelly clarkson, avril lavigne, aretha, and TLC was helping :( thanks rachel <3
chetzalicious 10 months ago
@chetzalicious *hugs* I bet it hurts a lot but take the time to think about why you're on a break with him. Is there something your conscience is telling you about him? Is he the best fit for you or are you just scared to make a big change? Sometimes girls will take "breaks" with boys when they know they aren't a good fit but are too scared of that unknown world without them. It will take some getting used to but sometimes the best thing to do is move onwards and upwards xox
RachhLoves 10 months ago
thank you for this video <3 you're really a fabulous young lady
15ohjamxo 10 months ago
It's the first time in my life that I put the first comment :D
noemylevesque 10 months ago 29
@noemylevesque fail.if you want more first comments, go to videos that barely anyone wtach and then comment on it :D
YAY
sparklysparkle21 10 months ago
@sparklysparkle21 pfffff. don't pop my bubble.
noemylevesque 10 months ago