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  • I no im not the best looking guy in the world but I have confidence in myself. I dress like i know im attractive, I act like i know im attractive, i talk like i know im attractive, and it make other ppl think im attrative. Its all a mind thing....

  • Damn I will never have a gf with a fucken 4.0

    time to drop out and somehow leave :(

  • after seeing this title i couldnt help but too watch it but it is all about confidence. not to sound too arrogant but i attract females no matter and 90% of the time i am just wearing jeans a wife-beater and Jordans if anyting the clothes wear me same goes for my girlfriend who turns heads whether she wears a dress or sweats. so it is all about confidence and knowing you look good no matter what your style is just make sure it yours dont be afraid to stand out

  • It's more about confidence and eye contact

  • It's also mental too. When you dress better, take better care of yourself, you feel better. You want to be seen, and you just enjoy everything a lot more.

  • soo true i used to wear clothes they werent bad but they were not stylish so today i wore red chinos with and blue and white horizontally striped shirt and you would not believe the difference it made on a regular basis i make 0 eye contact but now i made eye contact with about 9 girls today

  • i agree 100%. in high school, i mostly wore black band shirts and had long hair. sure, i had girlfriends, but now that i am in college, i realize that that isn't attractive to most young ladies. i now have a shorter cut and have changed my dress habits. i am a pretty big guy, but i have found that ladies appreciate confidence and pride almost as much as physical shape. i like to go with the jeans and dress shirt look quite a bit. good luck guys.

  • Good advice. Time to start dressing better, I think.

  • Girls like confidence in a guy

  • That sucks if you look like Lady Gaga, Skrillex, or Katy Pary

  • @SkinnykidK5 skrillex gets hella chicks though?

  • @nightfire4107 Uhmmmm Skrillex is a girl.....

  • @SkinnykidK5 u kidding me? what.........

  • @nightfire4107 Wow i just looked it up. I always thought he was a girl. He looks too fcked up to tell

  • @SkinnykidK5 Haha, got me goin there for a second =P

  • haha, remember that episode of Married with Children when Al Bundy used the "I'm attractive" concept and all the women in the neighborhood started falling for him.

  • i trust in what he saying

    cuz my first semaster in college i was dress like shit and i felt like unknowing

    but my second semaster i just change my look not the way i act

    and it's really work and girls start to dig me

    and me i start to look for hot girls instead ugly ones xp and i;m making progress with her.

  • What if you look like Kurt Cobain?

  • The better clothes are just a device used to gain confidence, and the more confidence we get affects our persona and ego, it all about self suggestion, what or who you want to become and using the correct devices/protocols to achieve this.

  • @stephanerdman What if you are a student and don't have a lot of money to replace your wardrobe?

  • 1=get money

    2=get money

    3=get money

    4=get alot of money

    5=give her your money

    6=get her drunk

    thats it she will think you are perfect for her

    she will love you

  • same with girls! like when girls wear sweat pants its like they look okay but when they were skirts and dress up its like wow! ur a genious dude.

  • am i in the Top Comments =='' okayy byeee

  • Man you know ur stuff.. so true.. gotta put my sht together this summer before uni

  • @Om0plata1 Don't be soo dependant on women with your emotions dude, let me give you an idea on what to do in the summer.

    Just travel a place you've always wanted to go and experiance the enviroment and people, then you will see

  • I used to wear tshirts and sweatpants. When I started dressing better, it was like women were interpreting that as, "This is a higher quality male. Only higher quality males would dress like this."

    Funny thing is, I was the same person, I didn't try to act different but my attraction magnet went way up.

  • @JesusManson323 thanks for sharing. You're right. Yes, it's just one aspect...but it's often totally overlooked and really easy to fix and your experience tracks 100% with what I've noticed with guys I've been helping. S.

  • @JesusManson323 what do you mean with High quality male?

  • guys just dress fashionably and have confidence. so in that manner you will attract ladies no matter what.

  • Thnx a lot u gave me some good self confidence and girls r starting to be more attracted to me. Thank you

  • @Molhedim Yes, but when those boobs sag, hair turns grey, butt goes away, you'll wish you'd found someone you genuinely loved.

  • dudes, some advice i can give you....smile, smiling and showing that you are fun is a feature that girl look for

  • what i do is just showing them my huge penis . That usualy gets me laid.

  • @Molhedim its funny cause you definetely have a small penis and no experience =)

  • @WTHWTFWTB it's funny cuz you jelly on my big penis xd hahahahaha

  • @WTHWTFWTB 7.5x6 master race, bitches be creamin' as soon as I put it in

  • I didn't know James Bond started a YouTube channel

  • Yo I have no tried this cuz I'm fine with my self but let me tell u those are pretty good tips ;D no homo winking face.

  • please guys,be mature at least on these videos.you got really good material stephan

  • WOW!

  • Check out my channel, we only have 2 vids but more are soon to come

  • All the sucessfull guys among the girls are guys doing sports and having a sixpack, and therefore they can wear other clothes than me without looking wierd. So I need to wear big shirts etc so that my fat won't show that good.... Any half chubby stars with swag?

  • @FallClassics jack blacks fatass has game

  • this man is absolutely right, chicks do look at this kind of stuff, women are so shallow and materialistic.

  • You know, attractiveness is not just about clothing buddy.

  • How many woman have you bone?

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  • @johnson2731 LMFAO!

  • really awesome dude.

    

  • Thanks for the information provided.

  • you look like Edin Dzeko

  • The problem with my clothes is that I can't afford to buy any!!! And I'm skinny and want to bulk up, but that also takes a lot of money. It all revolves around MONEY for me, the almighty dollar. Money would solve 90% of my problems.

  • @bg11215 try with calisthenics for bulking up, try to spend as few money as you can and buy some clothes!!! drop the xcuses!!

  • @mastercube12 They're not excuses, they're facts. Some things in life require money, there's no way around that (gym membership fees, the right FOODS, etc.). Plus I need nose surgery so I can breath in order to exercise. When I work out, I'm going to either do it properly & well or not at all. And calisthenics are aerobic exercises and therefore not for building muscle. The fact that you advised that tells me you don't know what you're talking about!

  • @bg11215 You can still eat well, and do lower intensity exercises outwith a gym. I have an exercise regime that I do at home 3 - 4 times a week. I understand that if you have breathing problems then it might be more difficult, but I still think you're making excuses for your lack of motivation. Set realistic goals, and you can reach them.

  • @bg11215 that nose thing may require some money, but the other thing are just bullshit, its obvious that you havent seen the videos from calisthenic kingz, beast mode, al kavadlo, even i do calisthenics and i am pretty muscular, and the only thing i eat for protein are eggs milk and peanuts. but its your life if you want to still making excuses to do something, do it.

  • Hutch sent me:)

  • Gary coleman got tons of ass!

  • I like girls that wear hoodies, dont shower, and wear sneakers...

    but they have to be hot!

  • @ImmaVegit0 avril lavigne!! :D

  • this is the first piece of advice i can actually try out and get some results. i never did put much of my money into my wardrobe before in retrospect. Now that i think about it, this makes a hell of a lot of sense!

  • i model myself after you

  • I agree here ..you could look like the best looking bloke in the world but if you don't know how to talk to women you're pretty much fucked.

  • Jeff Buckley, who was to me, the most attractive guy of this planet, used to dress very weirdly sometimes, a little grunge, he wore very strange clothes that honestly often didn't fit well to him, on some pics you'll see VERY torn pants, too large checked shirts and T-Shirts, massive rock shoes, he had the look of a rocker and obviously didn't wanna look "attractive", yet I would kill myself in the minute if I knew I could be with him in the other life!! Clothes don't matter, confidence do!

  • I feel very attractive, because I am a Turk :-)

  • look your clothes...

    pick up your clothes...

    put fire on all of then

    find mother credit card

  • If the price of clothes is an issue, it's time to start turning tricks downtown for old guys with money. Oh, and stay off my corner!

  • Wow, free psychology. I just love the internet.

  • im with you here

  • u have to got some game.

    friend of mine ugly as fuck and he be gettin al the ladies a man can get cause hes good with the words

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  • @iHipHopIsNotDead I agree with you! Game is the Fame..

  • @mrjubble im you 100th like yay

  • you talk about all this shit do you even have a wife?

  • Think of a hollywood star that looks like me? Hmmmm I guess i'll be checking out Finch from American pie LOL

  • You are really good looking...

  • I don't like jeans on men, I prefer black pants or suits and men who aren't creepy!! And men with accents!

  • women r attracted to personality , and clothes r just lil part of it ,generally women like to see men wearing dark shirts and blue jeans , u dont have to be a copy of a celebrity , u have to be confident within then make sure of wat ur saying to them , if u feel unattractive just jump off the highest building in NY

  • this is shit

  • I'm sexy and i know it

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  • You look like Tiesto.

  • im with you im with you!!!

  • Girl look at that body

    I'm sexy and i know it

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  • one thing i like about this video, as well as your others is that you give advice which is different from the cliche, that i have not heard before from hundreds of other self improvement gurus.

  • i wanna tare ur face open 

  • his voice reminds me of buzz killington, but he is still an attractive man...therefore IT WORKS!!

  • That's the real thing. Good work

  • Now, who wants to hear a story about a bridge?

  • he is right also the most famous people are not attractive they just wear realy good clothes

  • Eye contact of the year

  • i thought of all of this when i was in like grade 11, suddenly i started getting laid.

  • i hawe 1 Jens and 2 sweaters, shold i throw away something ? :D

  • Dude u look like tiesto!!!

  • i had a date with a girl, on a restaurant, and when we started to laugh, I farted Loud. is this a realy bad sign. can i still win the girl ?

  • @stosje45 if you sweet with her you can

  • @kate6990

    thats true, cause we ended up at my house inn the bed, playing big man in the cave of sweet pink dreams!! :D

  • @stosje45 you just go, "oops, i wonder if my penis would do the same sound going into your ass, as wind does going out of mine, hahahah, haha, hhh" bitches love that.

  • @PurpleMoonYef Which means that either you have a small dick or your ass hall is too damn wide *Trollface*

  • @emGiinKO i applaud your humble attempt, i was a newfag once too :D

  • @stosje45

    The girl farts too, probably louder and even stinkier.......

  • @stosje45 Yes you can. Just act like it wasn't a big deal and that you didnt got too worried and all shy for having farted in front of her. Be man. You farted, so what, we all do. Make a joke to make her feel more confortable around you.

  • @stosje45 And remember one important thing. If you ever want to make a girl feel a specific emotion just go to there before her so that she can follow you. Women don't like to make decisions or take a step. For example : You farted. If u did get all shy and worried ..oh i farted shes not gonna like me im fucked. Shes gonna feel the same. Now if you act like it's ok to fart , or didnt worry at all and you're happy or other good emotion she's gonna try to follow it and be like you.

  • This guy's the truth

  • Whats the point? Heres some dating advice: MAKE A LOT OF MONEY and get a high priced hooker in vegas. That way you get all the hot chicks that actually put out and you don't have to dress like a metrosexual to get laid.

  • I look like Lil B and since he thinks he looks like evry celebrity i must be really attractive :D

  • just googled a celebrity I resemble and most of the pictures are showing him in shorts at the beach. I'm screwed.

  • damn he must be have a bad date, but there are people who takes this serious like me not that i would need it i'm black lol. don't hate on the internet suckers... GoodJob Stephanboyy ur my white homie tho

  • this guy looks like tiesto all over the cheek bones the hair style minus the dark hair

    

  • This guy is trying to give advice to people who are supposedly unattractive? Oh, the irony. LOL

  • Its true. I figured this out recently and have been building my new wardrobe. Clothes are a mans makeup. Not every girl is as beautiful without makeup as they are with. Its all a coverup and bring your confidence through the roof. Confidence is what is truly beautiful anyway.

  • hey could you say that again i fell asleep sorry ..... whats that you're video

  • Any guy who puts up a 240p video can't be all evil right?

  • Ok STOP u just said buy more clothes or try to dress better what if u dong have much money and the clothes u have now suck ass what do u do then?

  • @mrjubble I think you were being sarcastic i am a men and that sounds sexy.

  • if a smart, healthy and highly attraactive girl dressed horribly i honestly wouldnt give a fuck

  • @shadowvowed187 Well Yeah, that is the point. We men don't really care that much do we.. But women do, and because of that, we have to fake that we care ;) 

  • Uhm sorry..i didn't really pay attention to what you were saying...i just kept drooling at you..your so hot! I love your accent/voice..

  • wow.. good job man. I like your advice

  • IF YOUR THEORY HOLDS HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN JOHNNY DEPP?? he dresses like he's homeless

  • yeah I dress like Tom Cruise ! 

  • you are a marvel this is good advice not that crap " OH BE YOURSELF" people say i look like jay z minus the lips i like his style a bit but i normally wear tight black jeans a grey coat and ny hat im almost there baby

  • @OzzTonWentToSpace Jay Z minus the lips?! Lol ;-)

  • @stephanerdman I have a skin condition called pstoriosis.. its like light pink spots on my arms and legs... So i typically wear pants and a hoodie.... What would be better... wearing a hoodie? or wearing a "attractive persons shirt"

  • @stephanerdman

    Who do you try and dress like?

  • @OzzTonWentToSpace jay z is all about the lips lol haha 

  • my sister thinks i look a little like ashton kutcher

  • How To Easily Become More Attractive To Girls

    step 1. stuff your tighty whities

    step 2. flaunt your package

  • I agree on the most part, but the short guys who are famous have MONEY and EXPOSURE, so they attract certain kinds of woman, and woman like money

  • i like this tip...i actually already do this, good that you're sharing it :-)

  • Very smart advice. My over-sized Khaki slippers are definitely on their way out. BTW I now realise I look like Ben Kingsley. I'm going shopping for V-neck sweaters and black sports jackets. Wish me luck.

  • Yea some girls care about the inside not about what your wearing or how much it was. I mean you may be good looking, but remember this looks fade but what's inside never does. =p

  • Just be yourself. Not every girl is shallow and caring all about looks. Those arent the girls you should be going after anyway

  • I feel SEXY because i took the EFFORT to change my IMAGE. Guys, spend time looking at yourselves and feel IMPORTANT. Make sure your comfortable too. Good luck.

  • It's elementary stuff, but very true. I was a total geek for many years, then revamped my image to a fantastic response.

    However, so many young women today go for asexual guys, emos and nerds.

  • Charlie Shean

  • Your eyes are scaring me

  • i am also a heterosexual male and you are one fucking hot dude

  • Thank you very much!

  • People tell me I look like Johnny from The Outsiders lol

  • You know what you're doing. thank god, we need more people like you :)

  • I'm with you.....yep, still with you!

  • when i saw the youtube account name i thought it was something like stepha-nerd-man

    but that is totally NOT true =/

  • Awesome advice.......thank you very very much Stephanerdman you are awesome.....keep up the good work

  • I'm with you

  • polo and leather shoes haha

  • people say i look like jay-z but i dress like sum1 from cali. im from VA btw.

  • I like how you interact with your viewers like.."are you with me here?" Like it's good to see how you keep the audience engaged and make them understand haha

  • i love you

  • the problem is that cloths are pretty expensive... and especially the cool ones!

  • The other tip that I find that can help a man including myself become more attractive is not only improving your looks alone but its two words :ATTITUDE & BODY LANGUAGE. I agree that improving on your looks alone do help you with attracting women but trust me attitude and body language is another big part probably a even bigger part than looks alone for becoming more attractive. I say this from personal experience.

  • i look like tom cruise but i dress like snoop dogg

  • I need a video like this for 4th graders. I also don't like wearing to much cloths. It bothers me.

  • some people before said i kinda look like johnny depp from secret window.

  • omg man.... i have to throw away all my clothes, i don't think i can get the kind of clothes George Clooney wears lol.... no homo... but you make me wanna be sexy XD

  • Shall we go eat some crumpets and have a cup of tea while we watch some telly and talk about cornation street!

  • Lol theres no way in hell I'm getting rid of my "not attractive clothing" that shit cost money and it's comfy

  • i look like james franco but i dont dress like him but i like his style

  • people say i look like Eminem! i dress like he used 2 dress n everythin like the baggy clothes, hat, bandana n all tht! lol the girls that have been attracted to me have all said it's bcuz i look like him! is that a good thing? cuz i seen wot the girls r like wen they see him but i dnt know lol!

  • ok im good looking person well im satisfied from my self i am the best well dressed person in my community but still girls dont get attracted to me even if i approach them

    please reply

  • People have said that I look like Taylor Lautner. So I should take my shirt off?

  • this guy knows his stuff but i want to disagree with this point srry stephan i wear what i like i don't try to look others b/c it takes away from identity

  • I really look like Billy Idol, but I had no idea of that a few months ago. After that a lot of girls said to me that I look like Billy and I started wearing leather and got his haircut just for fun, but now it really works!

    Thanks for the advice!