How to Deal with Crying When Sleep Training a Baby

[Marco71404]

please flag this shit as juvenile violence

[Marco71404]

i´ll be darnd what a nazi bitch. 3 minutes, 2 minutes? sleep training? reset your baby? the baby is a soul demanding of love and wrmth and attention not a turn on-off toy

[miaaliaspussi]

Sorry, but WHAT??

The baby is "allowed" to suck the pacifier only 3 times?

And then? Babys problem?

If you want a baby what sleeps whole bight, get a dog!

Im happy that my 4month old son sleeps with me in the bed and drinks some time during the night.

[blackstarr5]

And 'close to hysterical'? That's REALLY SAFE. Wtf. How do people who are "experts" not know that is dangerous? 

[blackstarr5]

Are you serious? How old is that baby?! Yeah...make that baby "learn". Learn what, that you're not going to help him get to sleep? Babies don't know how to "self-soothe", that's bullshit.

[ferraribeng]

I agree that babies should not be left crying... not even for 3 minutes... until they are at least about 9 months old where they already learn about how get respond from daddy and mommy. Even then, there is a need to understand why they cry. I still think petting them to sleep is the right thing.

[MsDeriousGirl]

How to deal with crying? Don't make your child cry by abandoning them just because it's not convenient to look after them at that time.

Job done!

[ThenSheSaidOm]

What is your advice based on?

Why should a baby sleep through the night? Why?

Babies cannot self-soothe. This is all well-documented in the scientific community and you are doing a great disservice to people watching this video who are assuming you are an expert.

Please look at the work of Dr. Becky Bailey who is making great strides in helping children feel safe in school so they can thrive and learn. When a baby is left to cry it out, their amygdala is greatly overstimulated!

[raystheman84]

that is abusive, neglectful, and just horrible. I can't believe anyone would do this to their baby. Whoever thinks this is okay doesn't deserve children.

[savvyscalibra]

Baby 'coach'? This is more like baby-boot-camp!! A baby's cries are communication not manipulation.

[tess2626]

By the way cozmikgate, you are rude. You obviously don't have much experience with children....maybe try reading a book.

[tess2626]

This is good advise.

[cozmikgate]

leave the baby till he is hysterical wow you dumb bitch

[cozmikgate]

LAME abusive advice

[jillbiggs]

ive been doing this for 3 weeks now and she is getting better day by day.. just gotta stick to it even if at first you dont feel its working

[jatsq]

I'm not even Chinese...but still hated your Chinks comment!

[samface182]

that baby is far too young. babies need their mother! makes me feel sick :(

[happygolucky127]

oh thats east to sleep train a baby. . .Throw at the wall until its unconisoucs and the put it in the crib and then you can sleep all night...

[salenafab2]

@happygolucky127 I hope someone throws you at wall

[happygolucky127]

@salenafab2 oh sorry my brother hacked me

[hcmontessori]

Finally! A video that is helping me to get my baby to sleep thru the night. The more my baby learns, the better she gets. (At first, it seemed to be more of a torture for me than for her.) She seems to get better and better each night. YAY!

[costicost]

Teach your baby to self soothe and spect your teenager to not count with you for confort or help

[3Chappells]

the baby in the video is way to young to be able to self soothe. Babies cry to communicate, not to annoy parents. So by letting your baby cry it out you're telling your baby "your needs do not matter." and they will eventually fall asleep from pure exhaustion and defeat. Hysterical crying releases cortisol in a baby's brain creating permanent damage. Good luck sleep training your babies and dealing with deteached children later on.

[AriesXDiamond]

@3Chappells Um No, thats not what she said..did you watch the WHOLE video or did you jump to comment the second she started talking about letting the baby cry?...Because she said 3-5 minutes of the baby crying (3-mellow and 5-agressive)..than go and tend to your baby and also stand close by in case the paci keeps falling out etc! Trust me the professionals no what they're talking about!

[TheShasiti]

Ya monkey blankets, if you hold that baby everytime he or she needs to sleep you will create a pattern that will continue until he's 18! Good Luck with that!

[happycoook12]

Love the rule of "3x" on the pacifer!

[jatsq]

so horrible!! it would be much faster kinder nicer to hold your baby to sleep and then put her down. think of the psycolojical damage your doing to your child!

[my3monkeyboys]

Ohhh...you must not have children. Well, good luck with that.

[jatsq]

I must not have children? ha ha I actually have four. This method has been connected with lower IQ scores.

[AriesXDiamond]

@jatsq You chinks are so dippy and uneducated...she's not saying throw your baby in a crib and let him/her cry it out....PAY ATTENTION and LISTEN SLOWLY! AND LEARN SOMTHING!

[jatsq]

I am not even Chinese, but still offended by the Chinks comment, and yes those Chinese are so well known for being uneducated. lol That is possibly the stupidest thing I ever heard. It shows your education level! Very funny!

[TDLakaDavidLover]

monkey blankets!