Wow I really liked this video. Through out part of the video, honestly, it made me think a lot, about my past relationships, and if that's how I was when I was in those relationships. That I was young and naive and if I just didn't realized it because I fell really in love.
I'm 18 and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet :/ because my fukin parents sent me to an all boys school FML what ever you do in life people sent your kids to mixed schools pppplllleeeaaassseee :D
i agree with your views espiecially the domestic violent one. I put up a video about love and the truth behind it, I think you should check it out and anyone else reading this comment
what if your in a relationship with someone who is very self conscious about themselves and they want to do a photo shoot like this for some other guys photography project not nude but in their panty's ext they will be surrounded by friends as well so its not a sexual thing but still is it wrong to feel uneasy about so strange dude taking photos of your wife??? she said she wants to be confident.....
@RickSomchaiAgain This is when you need to step up to the plate. If she wants to do this to become confident, then you should have her back. Be proud that she is doing something to better herself and make sure she knows it. Be her support. Never mind her dressing in panties. It's the reason why she is. With in the reason, you will find the power. Remember that. Grow with each other, mentality, physically, and spiritually.
@atorresmusic A real women will love you for who you are and vise versa. If a girl is only concerned with your dik size, don't waste your time. There are many ways to sexual arouse a women in bed other that penetration with you dik. The more you know how to pleasure a women, they less she will focus on your dik. Pleasure is pleasure no matter how you do it.
honestly, the advices that you gave in this video would probably have been the best and the truest. After watching this video i knew what i had to do with my relationship and the wrong guy who i was with. this was really helpful and thank you so much for making this video. your the best <3
OMG! i just watched this video and i felt as if u were talking to me the whole time. You are really great at this and you are adorably beautiful. My boyfriend still has photos of his ex on his phone, but he says they're just friends. And he wont delete them even when i told him to. Do you think this okay? or is that a red flag? lol
all the bad qualities, including the CLINGYNESS you mentioned, is HOW my ex boyfriend was. & STILL IS. i'm happy to say, i've left him and this video and your advice opened my eyes to alot!
Asalam Walekum ur awesome!! ur like a friend in my head now :) keep doing what ur doing n make new vids!!! Ur beautiful and strong. Thanx fr this advice being in a 4 yr old rel since i wz 14 i still needed this advice jus to keep in my head especially the frst part abt a bf trying to isolate u.
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Contrary to what you said, your advice was very helpfull and useful! Thank you so much. You definitely come off as a mature, responsible, caring and intelligent girlfriend. Pat is lucky to have you. Luv you girlie!
Can you please tell me what haircolor your using? I am in love with this shade...or maybe you could let me know where to find a video that you've done explaining this. Thanks a ton!
i am currently at the point in my relationship where i no that it needs to end, we fight all the time, i no so much about what he has done during our relationship which he doesnt realise and it eats me up. the problem im having is that even though i no it needs to end and i think he does to, im just to scared to do so. your advice has helped thank you xxx
In a way I feel like every girl needs one bad relationship to learn. I went out with this guy who was BEYOND controlling and I was too blind to see it. Now I feel like I have learned so much about myself and don't ever let myself get controlled like that.. PS: So agree with that whole insecure part.
So many young girls need videos like these!!! I am older and married and share my knowledge as well for military wives or wives in general. These videos seem so popular.
I love you for this. I really needed this because I'm going through a rough time right now (pertaining to the whole he's still talking to his ex-girlfriend thing). Your video made me see that there IS somebody better out there for me. Thank you so much. xoxoxo
I agree with everything 100% !! but I have a theory.. if he accuses you of something, there is a good chance that he is doing it (whatever he is accusing you of) himself... insecure people tend to accuse people of things.. and insecure people often are the ones who will cheat, control, manipulate and lie within a relationship/dating context.
I just have to say I have been really into advice videos here on youtube. I don't know why but I am really into them lately. This video... right here... is swag. lol. sorry I just had to say it like that. Basically this is the best advice video I've seen. You have really good points and I learned alot. Thanks for deciding to do it!
i agree with almost everything you said. its just, i think you can be friends with an ex and that it shouldn't be a problem. if you can't trust your boyfriend enough to let him talk to people, or vice versa, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. thats just my 2 cents.
Hi! I've experienced a controlling boyfriend and, after we split, I realised how insecure HE was. To think how much time I spent thinking he was confident and I was wrong! I lost myself and it took a long time to find that again. In the next relationship, I was with a great guy but that didn't work bc I didn't know who I was or I/we would have seen that we had diff long term goals and diff lifestyle appeals sooner. Got2B honest w urself & others! Life's better that way!!!!!!!!
girl this video literally made me cry!! im 15. my love life is non-existent. i have never had a first kiss or a boyfriend. i feel a lot of pressure cuz highschool and all. i fell hard for this guy but its not gunna happen for him. i think thats why i cried. i want some1 to luv me. i love me. ik im confident but i just want to share something special with some1 special.
omg ur soo right i used to have a controlling bf and i ended things cus of that now i found a great guy who i love and is like the best bf ever great video girly check out my channel
That was really excellent advice. What you said about controlling guys trying to isolate their girlfriends from their friends and families...I've seen it all the time with friends. You really know what you're talking about!
you have the best advice. everything i needed to hear, you said. i was feeling bad today about my relationship and i saw this in my subscription box and you completely brightened my day. thank you so much for taking the time to make this video because you really helped me as well as many other girls. you're a sweetheart and i wish you nothing but the best! =]
loved that ♥ you are so so smart & I love everything about you especially when I see these "off-topic" videos :) could you do a video about getting to know someone better or how you can ask a guy? :)
I must say that line and part that you said how you do not want to date a guy who makes you think that all you need is him is so true and the best piece of advice that my mom has ever given me haha. Great video, I think it will help a lot of girls in bad relationships and maybe open up a lot of girls eyes.
I had this boyfriend who told me that I wasn't allowed to cut my hair ( i had very long hair)...the next day I cut my hair super short and broke up with him. It felt so good.lol
this is sooo me, the advice i give to myyy friends but dont listen to it myself, sounds exactly like my relationship and i know it but just cant ever leave it lol. we both cant lol. wish i had an amazing friend like u to talk about this shit with lol xx
im up to 6 minutes and thinking ohhh bloody hell, hit the nail on the head...THATS my boyfriend...(As u say , its a working progress to get out of it.)
Hey beautiful can you tell me what is the color of your hair ? what do you use to dye it ? im obsessed with this color this is so gorgeous but maybe its just because of you :-)
you know what u made me to comment you and this is my first comment in youtube honestly... you made my day best advice everr :]
xEncorexify 1 week ago
what are you mixed with?
1of111 3 weeks ago
Love this! BGreat video (:
bluberricodi 4 weeks ago
Wow I really liked this video. Through out part of the video, honestly, it made me think a lot, about my past relationships, and if that's how I was when I was in those relationships. That I was young and naive and if I just didn't realized it because I fell really in love.
P.S. Your really pretty -3
biggiantmonster 4 weeks ago
as i was watching this video i felt like u were going to start crying lol
valerie98987 1 month ago
Sweet video,check out my channel and please subscribe :)
JayDismay1 1 month ago
Wonderful video. Great advise. Thanks for this...
lauvielin 1 month ago
@lauvielin ditch her then. she's definitely not worth it.
goingplaces11 1 month ago
Very wise advice!!
stylist1285 1 month ago
I'm 18 and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet :/ because my fukin parents sent me to an all boys school FML what ever you do in life people sent your kids to mixed schools pppplllleeeaaassseee :D
jumpcraker 1 month ago
i agree with your views espiecially the domestic violent one. I put up a video about love and the truth behind it, I think you should check it out and anyone else reading this comment
ArtistSimpleTv 1 month ago
what if your in a relationship with someone who is very self conscious about themselves and they want to do a photo shoot like this for some other guys photography project not nude but in their panty's ext they will be surrounded by friends as well so its not a sexual thing but still is it wrong to feel uneasy about so strange dude taking photos of your wife??? she said she wants to be confident.....
RickSomchaiAgain 2 months ago
@RickSomchaiAgain This is when you need to step up to the plate. If she wants to do this to become confident, then you should have her back. Be proud that she is doing something to better herself and make sure she knows it. Be her support. Never mind her dressing in panties. It's the reason why she is. With in the reason, you will find the power. Remember that. Grow with each other, mentality, physically, and spiritually.
Bingbongchingchog 2 months ago
What the girls think about size? Does it matter?
atorresmusic 2 months ago
@atorresmusic A real women will love you for who you are and vise versa. If a girl is only concerned with your dik size, don't waste your time. There are many ways to sexual arouse a women in bed other that penetration with you dik. The more you know how to pleasure a women, they less she will focus on your dik. Pleasure is pleasure no matter how you do it.
Bingbongchingchog 2 months ago
@Bingbongchingchog dik size*
Bingbongchingchog 2 months ago
@Bingbongchingchog Thje problem is that I´m very small like 2.5 inches and she says she doesn´t feel me inside her and I think shes cheating on me
atorresmusic 1 month ago
Great video
niqueo01 2 months ago
honestly, the advices that you gave in this video would probably have been the best and the truest. After watching this video i knew what i had to do with my relationship and the wrong guy who i was with. this was really helpful and thank you so much for making this video. your the best <3
93lovebird 2 months ago
haha strangle the shit out of him
carolina7346 5 months ago in playlist More videos from charmingroyalty
OMG! i just watched this video and i felt as if u were talking to me the whole time. You are really great at this and you are adorably beautiful. My boyfriend still has photos of his ex on his phone, but he says they're just friends. And he wont delete them even when i told him to. Do you think this okay? or is that a red flag? lol
fizzle123ify 5 months ago
:) Great advice. Thank you so much!
bonnechou 5 months ago
all the bad qualities, including the CLINGYNESS you mentioned, is HOW my ex boyfriend was. & STILL IS. i'm happy to say, i've left him and this video and your advice opened my eyes to alot!
THANK YOU <3
mrswizkhalifa 5 months ago
you're gorgeous and awesome!
mrswizkhalifa 5 months ago
Asalam Walekum ur awesome!! ur like a friend in my head now :) keep doing what ur doing n make new vids!!! Ur beautiful and strong. Thanx fr this advice being in a 4 yr old rel since i wz 14 i still needed this advice jus to keep in my head especially the frst part abt a bf trying to isolate u.
AISHAkhan1992 5 months ago
this video is amazing thank you soo much for this:)
viaYoona 6 months ago
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MadelynAdelleXOXO 7 months ago
Contrary to what you said, your advice was very helpfull and useful! Thank you so much. You definitely come off as a mature, responsible, caring and intelligent girlfriend. Pat is lucky to have you. Luv you girlie!
sulamith105 7 months ago
Thank you
stygerdatona 7 months ago
youuu shouuld do moree videoss like this ! you give awesome advice !
UhhLiyahBby 8 months ago
is so true...
ELin1 8 months ago
you helped me so much ! thank you
L4br0wn3y3s 8 months ago
aww this was the best video relationship video ever! you're so sweet :) i'm glad you're in a good relationship :)
mahrreesole 9 months ago
Can you please tell me what haircolor your using? I am in love with this shade...or maybe you could let me know where to find a video that you've done explaining this. Thanks a ton!
sweets5260 9 months ago
Omg, I have that dress!! And I love it! One of my fav pieces from F21!!!!
BeeBlakeLee 9 months ago
Amazing advice -3
wandaanabella 9 months ago
why is your face not entirely in the frame? oO I think you are the prettiest girl but you should show us the whole you! :D
beatbonbon 9 months ago
i am currently at the point in my relationship where i no that it needs to end, we fight all the time, i no so much about what he has done during our relationship which he doesnt realise and it eats me up. the problem im having is that even though i no it needs to end and i think he does to, im just to scared to do so. your advice has helped thank you xxx
chickengirl2105 10 months ago
I'm LOVING the girly to girl support coming from all the comments in this video!!
ALWAYS love yourselves && love your ladies!!! They will always be there for u if that guy doesn't work out in the end!
MicaelaBella07 10 months ago
Your voice is incredibly calming!
This video is one of my favourites of yours!
trulyfirefly 10 months ago 7
awww i didnt want this video to end it felt like u were talkin directly to me this is goin to my faves :D
sofia07b3r3nice 10 months ago
Audrey Hepburn said if u cant be with me at my worst u sure as hell dont deserve me at my best......its something to think about
melissaahmad78 10 months ago 2
@melissaahmad78 U go girl! <3 Audrey <3 <3 <3
MicaelaBella07 10 months ago
@melissaahmad78 and that should work in both directions
masterknaster 2 months ago
In a way I feel like every girl needs one bad relationship to learn. I went out with this guy who was BEYOND controlling and I was too blind to see it. Now I feel like I have learned so much about myself and don't ever let myself get controlled like that.. PS: So agree with that whole insecure part.
LilBabe074 10 months ago
Change your video title to "Relationship Advice" its misspelled right now lol.
Outofcontroldesi 10 months ago
You are the best.
Outofcontroldesi 10 months ago
you have the cutest accent :)
lovelylilsoldier 10 months ago 3
Really great advice :).
SelBelStar 10 months ago
i agree w. you 100% i feel like its good to go through the bad relationships because you know now what you want/need in a REAL relationship!
hisprincesaa 10 months ago 3
Thanks for this video, the advice you gave is really important esp. the domestic violence you mentioned. Awesome job :)
SkittlezAddict4Eva 10 months ago
So many young girls need videos like these!!! I am older and married and share my knowledge as well for military wives or wives in general. These videos seem so popular.
SofiaAlejandra9 10 months ago
I love you for this. I really needed this because I'm going through a rough time right now (pertaining to the whole he's still talking to his ex-girlfriend thing). Your video made me see that there IS somebody better out there for me. Thank you so much. xoxoxo
LoveTheLeft 10 months ago
Can you plsss show ur whole outfit!!!?? the top looks so cuteeee PLEASEEEE
Hopeful0o 10 months ago
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jejuneraccoon 10 months ago
I agree with everything 100% !! but I have a theory.. if he accuses you of something, there is a good chance that he is doing it (whatever he is accusing you of) himself... insecure people tend to accuse people of things.. and insecure people often are the ones who will cheat, control, manipulate and lie within a relationship/dating context.
87Rachael 10 months ago
I just have to say I have been really into advice videos here on youtube. I don't know why but I am really into them lately. This video... right here... is swag. lol. sorry I just had to say it like that. Basically this is the best advice video I've seen. You have really good points and I learned alot. Thanks for deciding to do it!
xoxo
ohhmygosh23 10 months ago
this was a really great advice Alyssa. I agree with you 100%
asianbeautyification 10 months ago
i agree with almost everything you said. its just, i think you can be friends with an ex and that it shouldn't be a problem. if you can't trust your boyfriend enough to let him talk to people, or vice versa, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. thats just my 2 cents.
BunnyRabbitD 10 months ago
you hit the nail on the head :)
Dazleu 10 months ago
Hi! I've experienced a controlling boyfriend and, after we split, I realised how insecure HE was. To think how much time I spent thinking he was confident and I was wrong! I lost myself and it took a long time to find that again. In the next relationship, I was with a great guy but that didn't work bc I didn't know who I was or I/we would have seen that we had diff long term goals and diff lifestyle appeals sooner. Got2B honest w urself & others! Life's better that way!!!!!!!!
ifthesh0efits 10 months ago
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ifthesh0efits 10 months ago
Wow ur so true that's my bf rite now
JordanNdshortiey 10 months ago
girl this video literally made me cry!! im 15. my love life is non-existent. i have never had a first kiss or a boyfriend. i feel a lot of pressure cuz highschool and all. i fell hard for this guy but its not gunna happen for him. i think thats why i cried. i want some1 to luv me. i love me. ik im confident but i just want to share something special with some1 special.
ladybugluvsmac 10 months ago 2
i.love.you!<333333333333333333 perfect video<3
limababiix12 10 months ago
omg ur soo right i used to have a controlling bf and i ended things cus of that now i found a great guy who i love and is like the best bf ever great video girly check out my channel
abcg11 10 months ago
This advice is sooo true, ahhh now im thinkingg -___-
LovelyShirley28 10 months ago
"strangle the shyt outt him"-Charmingroyalty haha that was funny..
LovelyShirley28 10 months ago
make more videos talking about this kind of stuff. please :)
iLexayy 10 months ago
Wow..u were so sincere each line u said..I honestly loved it..wish u n pat good luck :)
laligal07 10 months ago
Do more videos like this!!!
chickachickajenna831 10 months ago 4
I liked your advice and it's great how you kept it real :)
ftegger4347899 10 months ago
you should do these more often, you look even more of a role model!(:
Jessiion 10 months ago
That was honestly the best advice I've heard. You really know what you're talking about.
frenchcroissant321 10 months ago
1 person who disliked is probably an ex hahah
judsa2008 10 months ago 4
that whole isolation thing definitely happened to me...:/
sum1sumday 10 months ago
Really excellent advice!!! It's as if you know my ex boyfriend!!
xxprincessparklesxx 10 months ago
That was really excellent advice. What you said about controlling guys trying to isolate their girlfriends from their friends and families...I've seen it all the time with friends. You really know what you're talking about!
CarlyBabe1092 10 months ago 3
You're a wise girl!
lilmich28 10 months ago
you have the best advice. everything i needed to hear, you said. i was feeling bad today about my relationship and i saw this in my subscription box and you completely brightened my day. thank you so much for taking the time to make this video because you really helped me as well as many other girls. you're a sweetheart and i wish you nothing but the best! =]
CristinaIsabel107 10 months ago
loved that ♥ you are so so smart & I love everything about you especially when I see these "off-topic" videos :) could you do a video about getting to know someone better or how you can ask a guy? :)
x3jojoo 10 months ago
so helpful<3
kissndMAKEUP 10 months ago
I must say that line and part that you said how you do not want to date a guy who makes you think that all you need is him is so true and the best piece of advice that my mom has ever given me haha. Great video, I think it will help a lot of girls in bad relationships and maybe open up a lot of girls eyes.
honeyflower3 10 months ago 3
I had this boyfriend who told me that I wasn't allowed to cut my hair ( i had very long hair)...the next day I cut my hair super short and broke up with him. It felt so good.lol
moonightlight1990 10 months ago 113
@moonightlight1990 you go girl!!
shuqahx3 10 months ago
@moonightlight1990 good for you girl. :)
sslala156 10 months ago
@moonightlight1990 F that. good for you. lol
melodramakid 10 months ago
@moonightlight1990 i love you for that! XD
SkittlezAddict4Eva 10 months ago 2
@moonightlight1990 Hell Yeah Girl ! He Should Like You For You Not A Hair Type?
LipGlossLover048 10 months ago 5
@moonightlight1990 LOL You're awesome!!!!!!!!!!! <3
Zeal42 4 months ago
Thank you for the advice! :)
moonightlight1990 10 months ago
this is sooo me, the advice i give to myyy friends but dont listen to it myself, sounds exactly like my relationship and i know it but just cant ever leave it lol. we both cant lol. wish i had an amazing friend like u to talk about this shit with lol xx
catrintube 10 months ago
' you're gonna look like ugly betty' LOL! You're too funny. And great advice girly. I agree with you :) Love Sonia xxx
soooonia 10 months ago
im up to 6 minutes and thinking ohhh bloody hell, hit the nail on the head...THATS my boyfriend...(As u say , its a working progress to get out of it.)
catrintube 10 months ago
Hey beautiful can you tell me what is the color of your hair ? what do you use to dye it ? im obsessed with this color this is so gorgeous but maybe its just because of you :-)
TheNwitty 10 months ago
Thanx for the great advice :)
CindyCx3 10 months ago
awesome advice you go girl!!!
lylababe09 10 months ago
Your eye look is pretty
mOcosHOT 10 months ago
Could you do a school/career vlog?
mOcosHOT 10 months ago
First (:
heartsandstars1303 10 months ago