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  • me and my ex girl broke up in august. shes sitting in jail right now for some dumb warrant. We both write to one another, shes knows i love her but she dont tell me jack shit in her letters wtf. she just says thank you for being there for her through this fucked up situation becuase no one else would have, what should i do?! Also she would text me alot when she was out after our break up.

  • They want you back? Only one simple sign.....they TELL you!!

  • What is the link to the next video please somebody help!!!!

  • @liberalsarebums44 which video specifically?

  • There is some really great information on how to get your ex back at liveforlove.ws

  • heres what happened to me i found out that she liked me now when i didnt know what to say to her because i dated like 7 other girls but when we did date i didnt know what to say when people started saying that she said shit about me and then i broke up with her and she still has a crush and still stares at me lovestruck and when i went to talk to her she said im a jerk HELP!

  • I was talking to a girl for like a month after that we dated for like 2 weeks and she brooke up with me because pretty much I didn't know how to be a boyfriend(not her words but its pretty much what she meant). I wanna try to get another chance with her but I'm not sure how any help

  • I broke up with my girl. and dammn I forgot how easy its to get other bitches. move on its not that hard

  • My ex broke up with me due to my cousin posting things about him, mostly lies, on an ex report website. My ex blamed me and still believes that I'm the person who posted it...and now he doesn't want anything to do with me. Any tips on how to work through this and still be together in the end?

  • alright my boyfriend breaks up with me because someone told him a lie ad than asks out another girl right infront of my face. but i still love him and i dont know why!! someone plz tell me!!

  • @fallaw2cme HE did this to hurt you period and make you jealous. Do you really want a guy that handles a situation like he did? This shoudl have been talked about and not handled the way it was

  • @claimurexback well i mean....... when we were dating he was so super nice and he was such a gentlemen. i mean i know he shouldve handled it another way its just like i ave had a crush on him the firat day i met him. and the fct that he asked me out gave me butterflies. but than he asked out another girl infront of my face bc he as mad at me. maybe he was just confused. idk. i guess i just dont want to except tht he would do something like that to get me jealous.

  • @fallaw2cme I wouldn't expect you to accept this either. You can not sacrifice you being treated good for a crush. You like him more than he likes you and this is a dangerous situation. Unless he comes clean on why he would want to hurt you like that keep on lookin. Just gonna end up in heart break I promise you that

  • @claimurexback i heard today that he still loves me and he is only dating the other girl to get over me. i dont get why..... he has to be like that. i am pretty hurt about what other people have said and what he said. i appreciate him to come and tell me the truth. but he told someone else the complete oppisite and i dont kno what to believe anymore....

  • Im an idiot i dumped my one true love for my friend to hav a chance with her y did i do it.. I miss you shanon!

  • @vROBYx you should try to win her back. is ur friend still dating her? just tell ur friend how you feel. im sure he will understand. and if he is not. ask the girl if she still likes you if she doesnt say ok if she does ask her out :)

  • I did that texting terrorism thing :/ ashamed!

  • ive been doing these things for the past few days and never seen this vid.

  • i fucked up on the first bit, i broke down, i loved her so fucking much and then i got mad so youre totally right

  • i fucked up on the first bit, i broke down, i loved her so fucking much and then i got mad

  • Break ups suck!!

    My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).

    I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!

    Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.

    If you're going through the same, go to:

    Breakups2Makeups. com

    That guide helped me get through it.

  • tough time. but this video give's me kinda inspiration. thx!

  • me and my ex got back together...but for those who didnt find success..well you will meet someone that is more beautiful than your ex and will make you feel special

  • my ex broke up with me because she works all the time and its stressed her out i have told her im cool with it but she says it wont work what shall i do plus ive been texting her all the time its been about 2week now

  • Chris Hanson?

    

  • @soysaucelova same here man : /

  • Excellent Video.  Great job Sweeney!

  • I will never, ever get over her.

  • Good useful tips without the usual fluff.

  • What if she broke up with me because "she might still have feelings for her ex"? Will this stuff still work?

  • @tacospartan il send u a private message bro

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  • @SoySauceLova do what i said to do about 3 or 4 posts ago

  • My ex broke up with me because for what i understand during final exams we didnt see each other for the month and after she said she lost that feeling between us and before we didnt see each other for a month we saw each other every week and it seemed to be going so well.. i didnt see this video for about almost 2 months after the break up. and i still love her but i talk to her as a friend but i dont think she feels the same way anymore i feel as if i dont have a chance i dont know what to do

  • @snuski ...then keep crying

  • now we`ve been together for 2 and a half years, we had our ups and downs but never come close to splitting up. i have no idea where this came from...so i panicked and did everything i shouldnt have done >_>

    what i want to know is ''now we`ve broken up i apologised for all the panicky things i did and said i was pretty much drugged on bad emotions and paranoid thoughts, contact me in a couple weeks so we can go out for a drink and a chat''

    i havnt had a reply in 3 days >_>

    im completely lost O_O

  • majorly confused about life...my gf doesnt really speak when somethings on her mind so about 2 months ago i turnt round and said

    ''the relationships getting stale, we need more space and spice things up and go out more''

    she was pleased with that idea so we worked on it, two weeks later she went on hol with a friend...text me everyday how much she missed me...then she comes home and is acting wierd. the next day she turns round and says ''im thinking about breaking up with you''

    out of the blue

  • lmfao i like this video

  • Well crap, I wasn't good at step 1, because I spent 2 hours cussing out at my computer screen. Not the thing to do.

  • @hasngel

    I didn'T contact him for 2 weeks after the breakup

    then i was driving hom and i spotted him having dinner with another woman

    he saw me looking i was at a red stoplight which was a tues night

    then on the sun of that same week i see him at the gym

    i always go at the same time which is 1:00 or 1:30 he knows the timei go there

    however for the last month he hasnt been there @ that time

    now this the 3rd week and he still hasnt contacted me i didnt mean it when i said fff you i was hurt

  • Hey this great. I got my ex back. Hit me up we share stories..

  • Update: Well I'm still with my ex after over a month. She's reading a book behind me. She says she doesn't want it to be the way it was before but it's kinda strange it's the way it was before and she loves it. I don't get it.

  • what if i didnt contact him for 2 wks after the break up

    then i ran into him @ the gym

    he came over said hi and i ignored him

    then i thought i made a mistake & as he was leaving i said hi he said hi back and that was the end of it & then i said fffuck you (out of anger & disappointment)

    going on week #3 with no contact

    i hope he will contact me

    at the breakout told him if he thinks im not the one i will let go accept & move on (i didnt initially agree with the break up)

    am i doomed???

  • what if i didnt contact him for 2 wks after the break up

    then i ran into him @ the gym

    he came over said hi and i ignored him

    then i thought i made a mistake & as he was leaving i said hi he said hi back and that was the end of it & then i said f u (out of anger & disappointment)

    going on week #3 with no contact

    i hope he will contact me

    at the breakout told him if he thinks im not the one i will let go accept & move on (i didnt initially agree with the break up)

    am i doomed???

  • @AQUAMARINETMI you're doomed if you keep saying FU to him when you see him. who normally goes to the gym? Did he go hoping to see you there or did you go hoping to see him? You need a new look and dress up and be happy without him. Have fun with others. See if he gets jealous at the gym if you talk to another guy where he can't hear you. See if he watches you talk but once you catch him watching you talk to another guy there once. Don't look at him again. If he looked once he's curious.

  • @hasngel

    Thank you so much for your feedback!!!!

  • what if i didnt contact him for 2 wks after the break up

    then i ran into him @ the gym

    he came over said i & i ignored him

    then i thought i made a mistake & as he was leaving i said hi he said hi back and that was the end of it & then i said f u (out of anger)

    going on week #3 with no contact

    i hope he will contact me

    at the breakout told him if he thinks im not the one i will let go accept & move on (i didnt initially agree with the break up)

    am i doomed

  • i broke up with my boyfriend a stuburn scorpio , i said if you love me let me go , he did and i no he loves me with all his heart , ive now regreted leaving him and want him back as only friends, its 3 weeks we both have had no contact.. what do i do please reply thank you

  • @rosalinda749 he doesnt wanna be just your friend unless you're gonna live, sleep and make love to him every day and every night. omg. you should fish around more so you can realize what you are going to lose or maybe already lost. if you're regretting then you better make some fast decisions and not to be friends.

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  • i hope this stuff is good

  • What if your ex. Rlly likes u but she cant decide which way to like you. But still wants to hng

  • @Mexicangotskills101 you charm her like no other man ever could and will, then you leave her for a while

  • Yo all ma dudes listen up this shit dont work i say fuck ur ex get ova that hoe, just get them bitches man fuck relationships u sick of gettin hurt from em yet? Just fuck em nd leave bro they aint worth shit hump nd dump, hit nd quit it, smash it then pass it u no fuck bitches ma dudes dnt let em hurt u no mor man

  • @lotrking30 Wow in what language is this written?

  • @lotrking30 and get tons of deseases? and yes you do get that threw oral aswell what r u gona do put a condom on ur mouth??

  • I don't get something, what if she text me? should I reply? is that count like text terrorism? o.O

  • @Darkassasing just reply acting like you dont really care that she texted you

  • @hasngel Ok thanks :)

  • Great concept too long tho

  • The Text Message terrorism is sooo true though

  • I refuse to call a grown man T-Dub!!!

  • i like how you used powerpoint lmao

  • wtf?this didn answer anything?...the videos titled "SIGNNNSS-YOUR-EEEEXXX----WANT­S YOU BACK"?!.where the f**k r the SIGNS?... i obveously clicked on the vid,to find out wat signals i shud look out 4 to know weather my ex wants me back?..but non of that here?douche.

  • If I ask her to do something for me it's always a no. If anyone else in the world asks her to do something or tell her to, it's always a yes. lol, i need to stop thinking of these bad traits and go to bed. Later everyone.

  • I would like to think she'd live a wonderful life without me. I'm not bragging but it's gonna be tough for another guy to fill my shoes with her. I know her well, that's why I say this. Maybe she ignores me and shows no affection or anything because she's in denial and really doesn't love me even though she claims to. She's so bossy, controlling, yells all the time. Treats me like one of her kids. Lets her kids take over the house.Takes attention and never gives. Always crabby. UGH..

  • @hasngel Nice and I wish u well.

  • and got away with it. She's gonna do it again over something dumb. I think she should have taken me back a month ago. Now with what's going on, I think I'm falling out of love with her. I mean, she broke my heart but at the time we both argued with a mutual agreement to break up. Shortly after, I regretted it but now I think back and maybe I'm just glad she doesn't hate me now. Maybe I just wanna check out some other fish in the sea. But what about her? I'm afraid she lives a poor life.

  • I kind of been getting her or convincing her she doesn't love me. I made the decision to not sleep at her house tonight. I don't like it there. It's uncomfortable and annoying. Kids just walk in the bedroom and wake us up. I'm thinking maybe I don't want that lifestyle. She tells me she loves me but...lol this isn't a good feeling. I'm confused. I love her parents and she does have the best kids but there's something about her I'm not attracted to anymore. I mean and if she broke my heart once

  • Damn, I don't know if I love her anymore. I think I just miss her sometimes and feel bad for her. I don't wanna sound like I'm bragging but when I think about it, I've done so much for her and she's done so little for me. I'm thinking I might not love her anymore and it isn't good. All I ever wanted before was to grow old with her and share our dreams and now I think I magically made up too much. I don't wanna hurt her feelings but I don't think I can be with her for the rest of my life.

  • She used to say that I am her dream guy, that I am her blue prince and she meant it. We couldn't hangout so much cause her mother is overprotective and she always depends of what her dad tells her, she thinks her dads opinion is the most that counts, her dad always make her cry. She haven't acept that he doesn't want her, and she's always looking at the negative side of things. All these things affected on the relation. When she knew about her dad rejecting her, that's when problems started.

  • My ex broke up with me because she at first felt like ''love'' and she looked like she was in love too, but with her personal problems and depresion about her dad rejecting her as her daughter, now she said that she doesn't feel anything for me, not even a sparkle. She asked me for some time to think and she is sad right now, is that a sign? Anyways, i'm gonna follow this to see if I can get her back cause I still love her.

  • All I can say is for people going through a break up with their "peach" all I can say is you are not alone, many people lose a peach, and I've gained quite a few peaches in my life, its cool to think that I banged all these girls for a time, trust me once you get over it, it makes you more attractive.

    I got sent to jail, put on probation, lost my job and my lovely first long relationship all around the same time, you think you got problems, you have no idea how low I felt. Just be cool. cool

  • It dnt nigga

  • @lotrking30 hey whats the update? i havent been on a computer for a couple days. been with my ex and everythings going goodso far. what about you?

  • This shit better work...

  • ...hmm

  • 5 years and 2 kids with her husband, he was boring so she divorced him. 5 years with an abusive dead beat and a kid, broke up with him. 5 1/2 years with me, no kid because her tubes are tied so i cant have one with her unless i come up with money for a reversal and i want a kid and i get dumped because i was pretty much boring i guess. even though i did ten times more than her other exes and gave her kids a life. that doesn't matter i guess. its retarded, it's not me, it's her and im sick of it.

  • lol i'm not gonna date her only when i can entertain her and the rest of the time through text messages. god knows people can live life that way today but i'm not. she either wants me or not. she made the decision for it to be like this, i said fine as i pointed out how all shes ever made was bad decisions in life. i'll give her this decision she wants. hope she's happy with it when she lives a lonely crappy life and im flying high with a new woman. lol and she coulda had it all.i told her too

  • like she says "well this night was a waste" I feel like telling her "ahh I just wasted 50 days and nights and you're gonna bitch about tonight?" She doesn't even get it. Maybe she needs to feel what I felt before she gets it. That's what I'm thinking.

  • lmao this is what shes texting me "whatcha doing?" i didnt answer and then "i thought maybe we could try something tonight" i didnt answer, im guessing phone sex who knows and then "but i guess you are busy so ill just go to sleep and maybe another time you'll want me to try it"" i still ignored her and 20 minutes later she texts me again saying "well this night was a waste" shes so silly. shes starting to annoy me with the text message terrorism lol.

  • i basically got them kids to honor roll material. pisses me off quite frankly that i never was even appreciated for that stuff and the step son can't have a picture of me on his DSI that my mother bought him for christmas or he gets punished by his real father. its friggin stupid. i dont take it out on him you know, i let him take his dsi to his fathers and try to ignore it but its quite irritating. dont even know if i want that crap back in my life now. zzzz

  • omg she wont stop texting, i think tomorrow she's gonna get the no contact. Screw her. She either wants me or doesn't. im not gonna play games with her. she can sleep alone and not hear from me for a month or so. then we'll see what happens. i may wanna see what other women are like. i mean i did so much good for her and she fails to see that part along with raising 3 kids that aren't mine and their fathers tell them to hate me. one father wanted an abortion.laugh when kids do bad in school

  • I just ignored 3 texts of hers, don't even feel like talking to her. i don't think she's had a chance to miss me maybe. I think after tomorrow i'm gonna give her that chance. If she loves me as much as I love her, she'll go through hell and back the same way i did. I'm not just gonna stick around as someone to have fun with when she feels like it. meanwhile she's probably looking for other men on her stupid computer, who knows ya know. i got too many friends who've been in this trap

  • proudeagle does have a valid point, i basically have my ex back now but i'm not sure i want her, shes not making any changes yet and it seems like i'm of no value unless im entertaining her with adventure now. Every night can't be an adventure. A night when I just wanna sit and cuddle or something, she doesn't seem interested in me. i don't know, i'm not sure i even want her back now. i gave all the attention and went to hell and back to get where i'm at now and she doesn't even get it.

  • Nd im tryna get her back cuz i wanna make her happy i no she misses me when we hangout i tickle her legs arms nd body nd when i txt she trys grabbing my phone i we were friends would she allow tgat stuff or do that stuff? U think theres hope? Do u think she thinks of me more?

  • Ok i havent txted her at all today should i txt her at all today? Nd proud eagles fan ur also correct but i think she is nd i no theres others believe me but all i think about when im wjt the others r her i messed up the first time...

  • Update: i said goodnight sweet dreams an asked her to go on saturday nd she said yes i asked what she would like to see nd she said watever i wanna see so wat do i do now i got the date set now wat?

  • @lotrking30 does she like x men? you want to look up movies and pick a movie that lasts a long time. more time the better and a late movie so you go to bed happy no matter what the outcome is

  • @lotrking30 x men is the better movie i seen so far, i thought about a romantic one with my ex but she wanted x men so we saw that. its over 2 hours long so... dont forget to pick a flower and dont forget the flirt tomorrow like 5 hours before the movie. just send the flirt text and let her say lol or whatever and say no more til you pick her up

  • Bro*

  • Good job bro ok ill keep u posted check this thing like cnstantly throughout the day i need u to help me throgh this rly bad thanks bo

  • refused to kiss her. lol shes annoying me with texts right at this moment but anyway, i left her driveway and headed home, she called me and asked me to come stay with her the night. so we were both fully clothed, climbed in her bed and well. lmao the next morning we weren't wearing clothes. she cried and apologized to me after we did something in bed. i told her its ok, no need to apologize. she said "i love you" basically were back together again, she told me she would be the one to marry me:)

  • Update: so i picked my ex up yesterday morning and it was the big day like i planned. we went to boothbay harbor maine and had a blast. got ice cream, souvenirs, she wanted to buy me stuff and i told her i had everything i wanted right beside me. had a couple drinks and at 7:30pm we went out on the island princess boat into the harbor of the ocean and watched fireworks and made out. a couple serious conversations throughout the day. drove 2 hours home, she was tired, i dropped her off and

  • We r only 19 bro i cnt get alchohol randomly lol bu i do appreciate ur help plz keep helping me dnt let me fail plz... Should i ask her to go to the movies this weekend or should i hangout wit her a couple times before i ask her to go to the movies?

  • @lotrking30 just say good night and sweet dreams tonight, tomorrow night ask her to go to the movies saturday. if she says yes then saturday a few hours before the movie text her with "you look beautiful today, how do i know, you look beautiful every day :-)" just like that. do it maybe in the morning but a few hours before the movie and thats all you wanna text. then a couple hours before the movie, ask her if she still wanted to go

  • Hasngel i am not rly the romantic type nd the rose idea i cnt pull off its too corny for me ive never done anything like that i dn think i can do it

  • @lotrking30 if you love her you'll do it, i never did either and its working miracles now, shes obsessed with me, she just texted me, "whats up king sugar?" you have to become romeo. you have to show no other man will ever replace you. you have to do it. i tell my real life friends and they wont listen to me either but im telling you, you have to do this, its such a critical move. you have to implant memories. you have to trust me, drink a couple beers and chew some gum first

  • @lotrking30 picking a rose and not buying one and pulling the rose idea off is very crucial. just imagine when she stops to think i could have this guy, i want him to do these corny things for me and not someone else. if you be romantic, shes gonna think twice before making any decisions to lose you because you've implanted this type of you in her head and she isnt gonna want you doing these things for another girl.

  • Also after i txted her when i got home and i said "home gn" she replied saying " goodnight thanks for coming over text me sometime if you wanna hangout now wat

  • Hasngel how do i sweep her off her feet again? Plz help me we hangout as friends but when i leave im so angry i could drive my car into a tree and not give a shit wat do i do now???? We hungout tonigh and i am just furiated with a headache and gettin stupid ideas plz someone guide me i need her back or idk wat i will do plzz... I love her more than my own life...

  • @lotrking30 you can not panic and no angriness towards her. you need to pick a single rose or pretty flower. dont buy it, pick it. ask her to go to a movie for now. tonight only say good night and sweet dreams. friday night, ask her if she wants to see a movie saturday night and keep it a short text and simple. only a couple texts with it ending with a good night and sweet dreams. if she says yes, then you gained. the next day about 4 hours before the movie if you both go, text her and say this

  • @lotrking30 say this "you look good today, how do i know? because you look good every day :-)" she will probably respond with "lol or heheh" something like that. let her mention the movie to you after you text that flirt to her. if she doesn't then wait about 45 minutes and ask her this "were we still going to the movies tonight?" if she says "no" then you must say "ok i kind of figured you changed your mind, i hadn't heard from you" keep it at that. she may go the next day. if she says yes

  • @lotrking30 then dont get too excited, oh and if she says no and you say i kinda figured you changed your mind, add an (lol) at the end of the text like its no big deal. if she says yes just simply say "ok" figure out the time and what not but you have to bring a single pretty flower with you when you go pick her up. keep the passenger side door locked. when you pick her up, get out of the car, dont take her hand yet but go unlock the passenger door for her and open it for her. it keeps you from

  • @lotrking30 touching her but at the same time you start to become her Romeo for just simply doing that. then when you get in the car, have the flower in the back seat, maybe behind the head rest like i did. pull it out and brush it through her hair with your fingers and say "what do you have in your hair?" then hand it to her. If you never been like this shes gonna wonder what the hell got into you. curiosity now strikes within her and she wonders things. She will probably smile or giggle

  • @lotrking30 you have to smile a lot also, look at her once in a while and smile. you also have to dress up like you never dressed in your life for this. every girls crazy about a sharp dressed man, just remember. show interest in her, once in a while, poke her if you feel comfortable. you have to pretend you never met this girl before. like its a first date to be with a major crush. rehearse a couple flirt lines from the internet and use one in front of a crowd of people. embarrass her with it

  • @lotrking30 dont over embarrass but just a little bit, tell her in a restaurant in front of a few people that her parents must be from another planet because she looks out of this world. i had to drink a couple beers when i did my first date with my ex like this, lol. if she offers to pay her share for meals and movie, you have to let her. the flower is crucial though, it sets the night off from the beginning. in the movies after maybe 15 minutes, tap her leg a couple times with a straw or

  • @lotrking30 or a candy wrapper, make sure she has all your attention, i dont mean push yourself on her but dont look at other women. and talk to her about fun things going on in the present, doesnt hurt to talk about cool things that happened to you. it shows you're positive. but pay careful attention for signals from her at the movies. watch for her playing with her hair, go get snacks during a movie, see if she looks for you when you come back to a seat. with me... i had my hand in my exes

  • @lotrking30 hair within 25 minutes, everyones different but i started the night good also. if you get your hand in her hair its a good thing. dont over do it but remember its basically a date so dont be scared to try. if she pushes you away just kind of laugh and say "sorry i forgot this wasn't a date, just hanging out" you have to laugh like it doesnt bother you. if she allows it dont over do it. pull away after a few minutes but she loves the attention if shes allowing it. my ex actually

  • @lotrking30 grabbed my hand after a few minutes when i stopped. she barely grabbed it but its a good thing that she did. It's really kind of like creating new memories with her. if you have the chance to go out, each night has to be special, so special it implants a memory. a nice one. this date wont create a miracle so keep that in mind, it took me 3 movies, a walk on the ocean beach, text flirts, cute new nick names for her and last night i all but sealed us. dont try to kiss her at the end

  • @lotrking30 she'll let you know when you drop her off at the end of the night if she had fun or not, do not try and kiss her or it will set you back to the beginning. took me like 3 dates for a kiss on the cheek. dont text her at the end of the night at all. if you have to text her only say sweet dreams and good night before you go to bed, she will respond and just ignore the response, it will be a good response most likely, like sweet dreams back or good night. let me know whats up after this

  • @lotrking30 yoooo i was recently in the same position as you. And im going to be straight up with you dude. You feel like shes your all and you cant go on without her, you can. Move on. It makes me sound mean BUT its not love man. if it was, she wouldnt be fucking with your head like this. Find something that will get you over it. Personally, i found eminem (the rapper). Listened to his lyrics and realized if he could move on than i can too. IDK how old you are, but i bet you still have your

  • whole life ahead of you. Have fun, enjoy life. Girls will come. You know "the one" when you see her. Think positive my man. Shoot maybe it is true and she'll come around.. play hard to get... worked for me! but i turned her down because i realized if she came back, she would hurt me again. Good luck man

  • She doesn't know if I'm fake or real she says. Well I got news for her, tomorrow night after I take her to a concert and fireworks on the beach I break off all contact. If she wants to know if I'm fake or real, she'll have to take a risk. If she doesn't wanna take the risk then it's not worth my effort anymore anyway. I'll move on because I know what I have to offer is real and if she doesn't want it, plenty of others will.

  • Update: So today I went over my exes house to sell a van. We made out in the car until the guy showed up to buy it. My ex went into the house while I sold it. After selling i went inside the house and she was wearing a skirt. She says "lets go for a ride somewhere" She told me she wasn't wearing underwear. long story short we almost made love and then I stopped us. I told her "no we can't do this because I love you" Now she's obsessed with me lol. we talked some serious issues on the way home

  • Next thing I know she takes her hand and reaches to you know where in a kind of like (if you're gonna touch me im gonna touch you) thing. I kept telling her don't be scared and that I respected her. Finally after close to 45 minutes I stopped and said "are you gonna call me later?" she said "yes" I said "promise?" she said "yes" and I let her go. lol, so thats where i'm at. I don't know if it's good or bad but that's where it's at. lmao what a crazy world. i'll keep updating ;-P

  • and she was sucking on mine, she kept saying "i should go inside" I'd say "yeah you should" and she didn't lol. She said "i need to go inside before I can't stop". I said "I'll stop you, don't worry".Man there was a lot of heat in the car tonight, I wonder what the neighbor thought. It was so intense at one point I had my hand down between her legs and she was grinding on it. She said "I need you to come inside the house with me". "I need to go inside or I wont stop". I was thinking "umm".

  • cheek a couple times. Finally pulled into her driveway to drop her off, she got everything of hers together and then moved towards me pouting her lips making the kissing noise. i didnt know if i was suppose to put my cheek there or what. I laughed and said what do you want? She said kiss me. I leaned in thinking ok this is gonna be just a peck on the lips type of thing, whatever its fine. Then our lips met and umm, lmao. they didn't disconnect until 45 minutes later. I was sucking on her neck

  • Update: Whew, wow. things are heating up now. Brought my ex to Augusta Maine today, she asked me to go with her. She bought some clothes. She bought me a pair of sunglasses and shorts. Then I bought us KFC, we went to the park and ate it, then went for a walk. She kept looking at me today also non stop. held hands, laughed and listened to music in the car. On the way home i took a couple right veering corners hard so it through her closer to me, as it moved her closer to me i kissed her on the

  • Update: My ex texted me first thing this morning and asked me if I had any plans today, She wants me to go shopping with her. lol she was almost doing text terrorism on me this morning. I was like wtf woman, let me respond already. things seem to be going good

  • Heartbroken here! 6 weeks later and still so un-happy! I hate it, I just hate it!!!

  • @HSDDTS pull yourself together. dont give up. nothings impossible

  • lol, its not easy, its very frustrating and hard at first but it will come together if you play your cards right. my ex is basically craving me now but shes just afraid to show it. shes enjoying our time right now immensely. soon, im thinking after the 22nd, i slowly veer away from her, maybe talk about dating other people and seeing what the options out there are. but dont rub it in about seeing others, signal perhaps. if she wants more of me then i will be first come first serve. i'll update

  • atleast the first two dates. The first date is extremely important. do not screw it up. Only happiness can be in it. attention, smiles, good hygiene, dress up and laugh. tell her flirt lines or dish out pick up lines. she either laughs thinking you're retarded or its cute, either way doesnt matter because they want someone that makes them laugh. laughter is medicine. i embarrassed my ex with out loud pick up lines. if she cant go out the next night... just simply say ok. then go cry somewhere

  • flirt texts and pick good ones, not dirty ones. try to think of a romeo and juliette scenario. listen to music thats positive. Within a week of flirt texts she said lol to and the sweet dreams i sent her, she finally asked if i wanted to see a movie on a friday night. This part is crucial. This means the door has been opened but just a crack. do not force the door open, that little crack means she's afraid but shows a willingness to possibly take you in. You must not talk about the past on

  • basically what i did was text terror the first month, completely ignored. listened to TW Jackson. I didn't break contact, I minimized texts to just a good night and sweet dreams and slowly tried to reverse things. My situation was pretty darn horrible the first month, like a wave of sickness going through me and cried every day and couldnt get through to her. after three days of just good night texts I started sending a flirt text each day a few hours before the good night text.look online for

  • So anyway, you guys out there can get your ex back if you want, lifes too short to dwell on past problems though they came into my head a couple times tonight. I ignored them, I'm winning her heart back and thats the direction to continue in for now. The single white rose I picked for her was more precious than the 75 dollar bouquet i got her 2 months ago. dont talk about old memories, create new memories. new ones are fresh and stick. Sweep them off their feet like you just met them. trust me

  • "Now we have an excuse to hang out tomorrow hehehe" I waited 15 minutes and responded with "lol". Then she texts right back and says "Im in my pjs and tucked under the covers going to sleep sweet dreams (MY NAME) and thank you for the wonderful night". I waited a couple minutes and said "thanks also for the wonderful night and sweet dreams". She texts back right after "smiles". So... lol this is where i'm at. This is totally unlike her, shes in an incredibly good mood. lol, crazy stuff people

  • she would have. she rated the date a 10 out of 10. I picked her a single white rose before I picked her up and a pink flower at the beach when we left. First things she grabbed when I dropped her off at home at the end of the night. I did only get a kiss on the cheek again but that's okay. After dropping her off I texted her telling her she should have grabbed her food from the cooler. She says "oops". I didn't respond. 20 minutes later she texts again saying.......

  • Update: tonight I took my ex to Old Orchard Beach Maine, we walked the beach as the sun set, played some games and browsed the souvenir shops and stuff. Brought a cooler with some food and ate some fresh seafood. on the almost 2 hour ride home she couldn't keep her eyes off me, she rubbed my neck. she also fed me an almond today lip to lips but no kissing. It's quite amazing really tonight. She also rested her head on me on the ride home. sang songs out loud, didn't fall asleep like i figure

  • if love is dead even coming back may last short not all relationships last for ever.i tried all even this and seems he just wanna move on i came back after split like twice and is not guarantee someone stays with you if love is ending it is a reality.

  • I need help I think I'm a complete failure on getting her back, I almost did all the not to do here., We broke up 3 years ago and now we only communicate thru texting. I felt a little chance this past few months because we finally meet again after 3 years. We have seen each other now twice, first I asked her out and 2nd she called me and just wanted a company for her lunch. Currently she is giving me hints that she likes someone and dating. What can I do? She knows I love her and want her back.

  • I know people who are going on a couple years or more trying. Begging and telling them how much you love them will not work. You have to sweep them off their feet again. If you really do love them, you'll do what it takes and do not worry about what she is doing. It's hard, I almost screwed up a few times and had to take a breather but believe me, when you finally see it coming back together, its very rewarding, i'm winning what most would claim to be an impossible battle. I'm going to win.

  • Sooo..... From what I've gathered, being counter intuitive really is vital for getting back with them, along with making yourself confident and feeling better. Women fell in love for a reason. Some say they change over time. Maybe we made them change? You really have to stay focused, happy, no anger, no arguing and all romantic and show her you're like the guy in her favorite movie. wont happen over night either. it takes work. but it can happen faster than fighting for her love your whole life

  • tomorrow. Then something unexpected and amazing happened, she put her feet out the door and started to get out of the car and leaned over real quick and put her lips onto my cheek kissing me. That was her first move to kiss since the break up almost 2 months ago. She said good night as she got out of the car and walked inside. lol wish I saw it coming, I would have turned my lips towards hers. So I had another successful night. She said she wanted to go out tomorrow night also, we'll see.

  • When I came out I honestly don't know if she looked at my phone or not but she seemed a bit upset sort of, or a noticeable mood change. I sang a song to her that I liked on the way home while holding her hands, complimented her nails. She told me she had fun on the way home, I told her I did also. We pulled in the driveway at her house and I asked her if she was going to call me tomorrow. Told her she would be ok with her depression. told her we could go for walks and stuff. She said she'd call

  • same things and thought the druggy in the movie looked like someone we both knew. After the movie I opened the door up for her and closed it. She tells me it's embarrassing. I said but this is the way life use to be like all the time. no reason to be embarrassed. I complimented her on how nice she looked all night. On the ride home I stopped for gas and left the phone in the car that has texts to my friend about my interest for another girl. I let her know I was using the bathroom in the store.

  • I explained a bit about the girl and she held hands again with me. I asked if her future dating site profile will match what i want out of life or not. I told her that her addiction is unattractive and we talked about how she doesn't have many friends. She needs friends but she needs the right friends. Anyway we held hands into the movie theater, sat in the back row and she fed almonds to me while rubbing my goatee every so often. I rubbed her neck and back, caressed hands. We laughed at the

  • I said "it's not so much I'm gonna change, I'm gonna grab my life back, the real me, the one you never met. I think you saw a part of it in me when you fell in love with me but it didn't show after. I'm taking my life back to who I really am". I think it caught her attention. She held my hand. I told her the 22nd may be the last time I date her. Told her there's a girl from town that seems to like me and then said "we wont talk about it though, let's have fun". She pulled her hand away angrily.

  • update: well, she halfway stood me up tonight but we went out, i told her basically we made plans for tonight so id like to go tonight. didn't play pool, went and saw the movie Super 8. wasn't as good as I thought but didn't matter. On the way to the movies I explained to her about my child hood from about 13 and up. I told her "I know you don't believe me when I say I will change right?" She said "No I don't believe you".

  • I promised her son i wouldnt say anything about him telling me so i asked her to go for a ride with me before her daughters graduation. she was hesitant at first and i said just a friendly quick ride? i held my emotions in and we went for a ride. she told me about the shoes she got, we laughed about things, i held her hand and we got ice cream, the i went to her daughters graduation with her. we have a date set for tomorrow night, playing pool and a movie. then on the 22 were going to a festival

  • update, i was smooth that night but she only rated it 5 out of 10, said i embarrassed her when i said things out loud in the restaurant like "if you stood in front of a mirror with 11 roses youd see the twelve most beautiful things in the world". lol and a few others. so i picked her son up today to bring him fishing. i almost lost it when he said that she wanted to look good for this guy from montreal incase he comes to see her. i texted her right away and said "nice to know" she says "what is?

  • what if she knw the way i act based on this methods, will it still work?? hehe

  • lol, update: Dinner and movie in an hour with the ex. i start counseling tuesday and she starts when she makes a damn appointment!!! Monday she said. i gotta be smooth tonight ;-P

  • LMAO HELP!!! My ex wants me back as of today and theres a chick stalking me and looking for me in my town. HELP!!!!

  • The best way to get revenge is to get visitation

  • My ex wife did some messed up stuff lied and said I beat her

  • My girlfriend said we can't date because her parents say she can't date me and she had to break up but she's still in love with me Help???

  • Now I want him back lol. Life is a bitch, it always comes back to bite you in the ass. I'm think she's a rebound, because during the times that they are talking to each other, he's hanging out with me. I know he still have feelings for me, he tells me all the time, now I need to make him respond to that feeling. I hope this work.

  • This person was from his past, someone whom he has dated back when he was a young buck. I've just recently have the password to his email and discovered that 3 months into our break up, he has inniated contact with her, trying to left off where he had left with me.

  • My ex pleaded and begged me to come back to him, which I didn't beause I couldn't stand his desperation. We have broken up for 1.5 years now, and we still talk and hangout still makeout together. Then finally in March 2011 he tells me that he's seeing someone. He said he waited 1.5 years for me to come back and he couldn't wait any longer.

  • I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years and I've decided that we weren't working out anymore, because he stopped giving me what I needed which was his love and affection, he spent it most on the golf course. As a result I ended up falling for someone else that was giving me everything that I needed from a man.

  • fine, we wont get back but i didn't wanna do it through tricks. You do have to be completely cool about not being with her though and in the end if you really do love your woman, you'll give her the space and be happy with yourself. So, now I don't know if I should text her tonight or not? lmao. I got myself in a situation, I may send one text before i go to bed saying. "hope you feel better tomorrow, headed to bed, good night :-)" . tw is right though, he saved me so far, tho i bent some rules

  • driveway, my ex step son got out and she sat in the car a moment while i rubbed her back. she still was tearful. I slowly pulled away from her back and at the same time she opened the door and said "text me later if you want" as she walked in the house. I also told her about how i learned about text terrorism and to get her back was to break off all contact with her. i told her it's not me to do that and i don't want to play tricks to get her back. I told her if she doesn't wanna get back its

  • began to shed tears and sniffle not knowing what to say. I did something brave next, lol. Knowing I was taking the chance of rejection and being fully aware and not gonna let it bother me if I did. I placed my right arm around her back and neck and she didnt do anything. my ex step son says "i think shes just ignoring it and doesn't like it" so i asked her "do you like it?" no answer, then i started caressing her neck and rubbing it all the way home as we had peaceful talks. we pulled in her

  • don't ever look back again and remember, the grass is only greener where you water it, not the other side. She says "what girl told you that?" i just shook my head and said just dont look back, admitted i was a monster. I wasnt a monster before i met her and i'm not not and don't want to be one. I said i know i have a problem but it can't be fixed without help. So... she finally looked me in the eyes and started expressing herself a bit while we parked for a moment Before I knew it, she

  • im not a whore, i have strictly platonic friends and waiting for the love of my life. im not screwing multiple women and im not after one girl. Anyhow, i just layed it out and said i wasn't desperate either by going after the first person i knew. kind of leaning it in her direction a bit but without her knowing what i was up to. I said I'm not desperate and not a whore, just waiting for the love of my life. There were a couple arguments that she almost started, I'd interrupt and say look ahead,

  • Today, I sent her a poem first thing in the morning only to set myself in her brain when she first wakes up. I simply said "roses are red, violets are blue, wishing a wonderful day for you :-)" she thanked me a couple hours later when she woke up and said feeling a bit better. I didn't text back for a couple hours. Anyway, i went with her to pick her son up from his deadbeat dads house. She called me a whore, said my friends were whores so im in the whore scenario, i cracked jokes and said

  • I was laying in bed and got a text, i thought it was one of the other chicks and it was my ex, she asks "are u busy?" I said "just laying in bed" no answer so i texted her again and asked "why did you ask me that?" She says "i don't know" I said "you ok?" she said "I guess" I said "lol you texted me, asked if i was busy, i dont know and i guess?" she says "weird, maybe it's because i still feel sick, good night" I said Good night ;-P" lol. so i went to bed, no more texts.

  • next thing she said was "yeah it sucks, I wish I wasnt sick and could have gone with you this weekend. I ignored texts after that for about 40 minutes. Texted her back and said "nah no big deal, it was too expensive anyway, 315 bucks a night." she said "it still would haven" messing up, then she texted right after "been fun I bet" I told her a bit about it and she texted back "maybe we can go another time and it can still be a surprise" I ignored her for 2 hours, something amazing happened...

  • Completely she said and don't text my ex like i had agreed to earlier. Well, I dropped her off and texted my ex, lol. But I was to a point where I started feeling good and said to myself what's it matter. I asked my ex what she was up to, knowing she would ask me what i was up to, lol. I said I just dropped an old friend off on severy hill. She says "oh". I said "after I dropped Justin off I went to the bar in town and had a couple drinks and watched a hockey game" she said "cool" Anyway...

  • an old friend of mine, brought her home from the bar and talked to her about exes and from her being a woman, how do i play the game? She first said take a pic of my face and breasts and send it to her. lol, I said that's probably not a good idea. She said it's hard telling but how she was with her ex, if he kept calling and saying he loved her and stuff, she just used him up because she knew she could and she didn't love him. kinda cruel but at least she was honest. She said break off contact