LACKING CONFIDENCE? FEEL UNATTRACTIVE? LOW SELF ESTEEM? LET ME HELP YOU!

[Kiittenz]

You're really pretty :)!

[kissylilacs]

ur so funny girl!!! i love this

[Brinah]

damn you are right about removing toxic people! I wanted to be an actress, my ex at the time said "why? You're too old!" (I was in my early 30s)...Nothing I did or said was right in his eyes so eventually I cut him out of my life. Thank you!

[zashleyfan2nd]

I was crying. And I saw your video. You're right. Its people in my life that are bringing me down. Thank yoou so much.

[Keyshaw30]

Love this Video!!!! U hit on the head!!! Thanks..

[81kiema]

I don't think I really have low self esteem. I know I look good, & I have a GREAT personality. Sometimes I feel down tho, when I get dudes that say I'm ugly. I don't get it. I know I'm not the finest, but I KNOW there r PLENTY females that look way worse then me. I could understand if I walk around wit my nose n the air, or something. I think those r the ones that should b talked about.(If any)

[glamcam23]

Thank u so much for this vid, ur awesome I'm viewing myself in a whole different way.. I will love to inbox u for an quick question. Once again thanks ur heaven sent... Happy Holidays

[FlowerRFabulous]

lol i love you "watcha wanna go tuh africa foe, u aint african," i needed this this helped me but i kno tomorow ima be pickin at myself agin :(

[savemaat7]

your wonderful. 

[METALSTYGIAN]

fantastic!



[laughrrr]

wow i like the way you express yourself i love your video good looking out girl!!!!!!!

[ligon15]

Wow ur last advice really hit me! Especially since it's my mom who I am the closest 2. She always called me fat when I was wearing a size 3. She said she was so much skinnier than me while she was in a size 11. I really believed her & went down 2 a size 1. She didn't say a single word of me losing weight. Now that I'm pregnant I can look back at pics of myself & think how in the world did she think I was fat!!!?? I think I just need to talk to her.

[stylst0123]

Wow this is really inspiring! I am going to do all the things you said, I really needed to here this!

[nmr20067]

Good video.

[favm360]

I looked in the mirror but I hated what I saw. I don't know, I'm trying to change the way I see myself, but it's hard. I'm a guy btw.

[Veresda]

I am a qualified psychologist, but have surprisingly found myself in a ditch of low self-esteem, anxiety and depression, having to choose between a PhD in Cambridge and the love of my life. Your video made me feel better and for a moment I wished I knew you personally. I thank you for it. Best of luck to you. May God shine His grace upon you.

[krimsonangel]

Yes, Yes!! Surrounding yourself with positive people is right! Thank you so much for this video! You are beautiful and have a beautiful spirit! We are so conditioned to see the outside but that is only the surface! There is a reason that we can't see ourselves unless we look into a mirror. I believe that we were not meant to focus on our own exterior because we might judge ourselves against others. Which is what we do a LOT of the time! Awesome video, sister!

[HotKit]

I'm going to try this one day, your secret photo book idea. The video is encouraging and makes me feel good about myself. Thank you so much for sharing.

[84cincityboy]

Every women is beautiful, ugly women dont exists, i dont care if you think you unattractive, big, small, or whatever the ugly women are the ones that judge other people.

[84cincityboy]

I never thought women is "ugly" why that word even exist, unless you a mean person. I thought women in different races, looks, sizes are attractive to me in their own unique way. a women are beautiful to me.

[xocandyandcupcakesox]

thank you soooo much for this.

you are great, and have helped a lot :) xoxo

[Pathrissia]

girl..wow..a BIG thanks to u, especially the last comment. i have not come across such a great voice, conficence and GIRL who speaks about these things. Thank you! it makes me look up to u. u made me laugh out loud so many times during these 7 mins and realize many things. U are very uplifting and soul refreshing. Keep it coming! Much love

[BitterPearl1310]

This is a great video!

I think I will have to watch this again from time to time... :-)

[teritheprincess]

I am hurting so badly right now and thank you for this video. I cry myself to sleep because I let other people define my happiness and don't know how to stop. I'm struggling.

[raziarenee]

Me too. I'm in 7th grade and people be saying "i feel sorry for that girl sitting next to her" the "her" is me. and a girl calls me ugly, laughs at me. they say "u ugly as hell" and all that. i be afraid to speak and hav no friends. dont know why i dont. i hate my life right know.

[africazbeauty1on1]

@raziarenee awww bbz!! hows life now?... don't listen to pple and do stand up to them, with age all this would fade away, trust me!! even the best of us have been there and do u know that the pple who are bullying you are 'projecting' their feelings about themselves to u... it probably not even about u at all! (trust me am a psychologist... or i would like to think so, seeing as how am going studying it in Uni - lol!)

[musicofthesoul85]

@raziarenee Please don't let those girls get you down, I don't know you, but you are beautiful, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

[BranFlakes1234567]

You should be like a professor or something, because you're really good at speeches and informing!! :)

[loverofmakeup73]

Great Video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ChocoMMs]

best advice i've heard in a long time

[14XxtictocXx14]

I lack major confidence at age 14 im 150 pounds at 5"5 im curvybut i feel discusting, people have told me imbeautful,sexy,gorgeous even but theres always the negative side but im learning to get past the jealous haters. beautiful im earning to accept!

[14XxtictocXx14]

Im definaetely lacking self confidence at 14 yrs old! i cantfind confidence in my self no matter what any one says because at school i dont hve many friends, but the thing that makes me hae the least confidence is my weight 150 pound at 14 but im curvy im getting better im just ignoring the haters!!holla

>jasmine

[x0carolina0x]

i completly agree w. you :D

& thanks

[Angelothegreatbass]

one of my bestfriends and I love her!!!!

[OneAngelFive]

Every girl is Beautiful take no notice what any one says you are all Gorgeous...people who tell you your not are just talking about them...not you...so you see you are Beautiful...God Bless from Chris...PS all girls deserve Breakfast in bed every single day...Sweet kissssssssssssssssssssssssss. OneAngelFive

[kaylan1913]

i am 14 years old and i suffer from extreme self esteem lows. tried everything you told me to do and i found it really helped me. thank you for your help. your a wonderful person.

Kayla

[trustewiefan87]

@kaylan1913 I FEEL THE SAME WAY SMH :(

[xXcarnage06Xx]

i am think i am ugly

[jambrandon531]

well im a young man with very low confidence especially with women but i know im a handsome brother but i dont know why i feel this way.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Sorry 4 the delayed response jambrandon.. You can try the things that I mentioned in the vid as well. Hopefully your confidence will grow as you get older.

[y2jasoncredible]

i know how you feel bra

[khab285]

Great video! God bless!

[Avilion202]

great vid

[MoDiva38]

Jazzi....this is a AWESOME video!TY TY TY for sharing this information...Wonderful tips and suggestions!!

[DontYouKnowLoveCost]

Such an awesome video! Loves it!

Aaris Zilton

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you Aaris!!!

[vivey623]

yep looking at my rolls now! thank GOD I am doing something about them...trying to stay in a 14! girl...is HARD.....luv this vid...

[MrsRoss02]

Deep.... Love it! As always the make up is bangin!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hey MrsRoss, thanks 4 the LOVE hon!! That means a lot coming from you!!

[BeeTeeV]

I love this video..you helped me feel a little better about myself tonight..so I think the fellas can also get a good message out of this video.. ...

[JAZZIIBOO]

4 real BeeTeeV? Aww, I really only focus on the ladies because I only speak on what I know....but THANK YOU 4 speaking on behalf of the fellas!!!!! You made my day.

[BeeTeeV]

no problem girl..there are alot of fellas out there struggling with self esteem issues too so we are all in this together....

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thanks gunz, I am a taurus.

[SheLuvsHerIpod]

Great video, Jazziboo.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thanks SheLuvsHerIpod!

[HIMAY10NENCE]

Jaz, I LOVe this video soooooo much,I must say this is a great video thanks for the love you give the sistas,we need it !

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hey HIMAY10NENCE!! Thank you so much hon. I didn't expect this video to get such a huge response :)

[HIMAY10NENCE]

You shouldve this is a great topic and you give some great tips.....I want to get with you on some topics too.Let me know and Ill shoot you my #. thanks

[thomasadrianna]

I loved the video im glad it's other sista besides me that's helping women build up their self-esteem! :)

[JAZZIIBOO]

Good Self esteem is a must thomasadrianna. Thank you hon!!!

[anotherlyric]

Wow Jazzi, thank you I needed to hear that. Great Vid!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you anotherlyric!

[honeyhued08]

sUBBING*

This is wonderful! I did the "elimination" 'work of negative people years ago, and am a much happier person for it.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Wow, thanks 4 subbing and I had to eliminate some folks as well!!!!

[beauty1114]

Thanks for the advice.Love your videos!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you so much beauty!!

[beauty1114]

You're welcome.Btw,What eyeshadow are you wearing?

[JAZZIIBOO]

Uhh, my eyeshadow? Lemme think...It's a mineralized Mac duo by the name of ILLUSIONARY BURNING AMBITION.

[beauty1114]

hehe Oh okay.Thanks I just loved the color so much that I had to ask.

[JAZZIIBOO]

No problem @ all. I went to the Mac counter yesterday

(don't ask :) and I believe that they are still selling this duo!

[beauty1114]

Yeah I see on the mac website they are selling.I also like the element duo.I will be hopping my behind over to the mac counter this week coming.

[STAYceeHARmal14]

Great advice Jazz, You know you helped somebody today. Bless you.

[candyapple690]

Great advice!!!!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you Candyapple.

[MizFachion]

Thank you for this awesome and yet powerful video! God bless!

[JAZZIIBOO]

MizFachion, Thanks a bunch and God Bless you 2!!!!

[jmurrell2929]

Great advice! Thanks for this!

[JAZZIIBOO]

I'm glad that you liked it jmurrell!

[ShellallDay]

this is the truth... good vid... all [smiles]=D

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you ShellallDay :)

[EbonieButterfly]

great video

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you Ebonie!

[Lucretia65]

I agree Jazziboo you ARE WOMAN! and I love you and your VIDEOS!!!!!! You are smart, you are wise, you are GOD fearing, and you are YOU!!! My hat goes off to you my dear!!!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hey Lucretia!! You are 2 sweet...and I thank you!! My hat goes off to you as well, I hope to have my own business one day. You are an inspiration to me....seriously!!

[Lucretia65]

Girl! Do it (your own business). The sky is the limit! God is GOOD!!!

[larenta09]

One Of My Favorite Videos So Far

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thanks larenta!

[larenta09]

Yes Yes I Feel Ya!!! Women With Low Self Esteem Hate On The Next Women!! Good Video!!!!

[JAZZIIBOO]

So true, so true!!

[nycbarbie03]

Can i get a ...lol You and Kebia are a force to be wreckoned with, between the two of you i get uplifted and a lock jaw from smiling too darn much, lol Bless you both for sharing a lil bit of your beautiful souls ;)

[JAZZIIBOO]

LOL nycbarbie! Thank you so much. Kebia (Kokofemme) is my girl 4 life and yes we are both a HOT MESS!! Thanks again 4 your kind words.

[shearcuts74]

all i got to say is the same thing a friend of yours recently said..JAZZIIBOO,JAZZIIBOO, WE LOVE JAZZIIBOO,... YOUR LIKE A BREATHE OF FRESH AIR< your real and true to thine on self and that's what keeps me and the other viewer's coming back for more..I try to surround myself with positive people and you are one of the many..thank you and GOD BLESS!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hi shearcuts. I LOVE all of you guys too, you really keep me going. You are more than welcome and God Bless you 2 dear!!

[Jojoleesmity]

WOW....I needed this today...I'll be doing this soon....

[JAZZIIBOO]

If you don't mind, let a sista know how it turned out for you jojoleesmity. I would LOVE to know. You can PM me if you wish. Take Care hon!

[Jojoleesmity]

as soon as I get up the courage....i sure will

[JAZZIIBOO]

Take Your Time.

[Jenn78901]

girl I hear you but this is still hard to do. I work in media and I know it shapes everything that we do. Hell i'm 24 but I still get phased by the media..

[JAZZIIBOO]

The media is a strong force but we often forget that everything that we see in the media is not 100% real. Especially the photos...AIRBRUSHED!! Now, don't get me wrong..there is a such thing as natural beauty but a lot of the things in the media are made up.

[venisehughes]

Thank you Jazziiboo for putting this confidence tutorial on. It was much needed, I have witness so many people right on YouTube that are not confident within themselves. You do need your own show, "Holdup The Light TV" or "LoveYourself TV" or "ConfidenceIsEverything TV" or something I'm sure you can come up with something, you are very creative even with words. THis was great girlie, Keep up the great work, got a video response for you.

[JAZZIIBOO]

THANK YOU for the response vid venisehughes and THANK YOU for your words of kiindness. Now my own show....hmmmmm!! LOL!

[SimplyTT]

You need your own show! You are so inspirational! Keep it up!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hey TT! Thanks hon!!

[milesshakira]

all i can say is i love ya

keep it real love your video's

[JAZZIIBOO]

Wow, thank you boo!!! I try to keep it real, lol!

[athomas1124]

Thanks Jazzi, you don't know how many people you just helped...Thanks again, I'm one of them...Thanks, Be blessed...

[JAZZIIBOO]

Hi athomas, I had no idea that I was going to get so many responses (some of them have even been sent to me via a private message).

I am so glad that you enjoyed my vid, THANK YOU & you be blessed as well!

[tobemeis2bfree]

It is true..you are confident just natural born confident. I totally agree with everything you said in this vid. Every tip is what I did to help myself---after all self-esteem is mine right? Thank you for this vid....i'm favoriting this vid---5 stars.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Now I LOVE that statement....SELF ESTEEM IS MINE! You are so gr8 tobemeis2bfree!!!

[Thykness]

Loved this video Jazzii you were on point with every statement....most importantly...YOU practice what you preach and it is good to hear this message from someone that can walk the walk instead of telling you about you and when they look at themselves they are a hot ass mess....but coming from you, it will hopefully reach the masses that needed to hear this, I know it hit home with me...thank you sis.

[JAZZIIBOO]

THYKNESS!!! Hey girl!! Thank you for your kind words. I had NO idea that my YT fam was going to welcome this video the way that you guys are..WOW!!

Miss Ya Hon!!!

[MUSTSEEVID]

what happen if the people who tear you down is your family?

[JAZZIIBOO]

If the people that tear you down is your family then you just continue to LOVE them (sometimes from a distance) and stop telling them all of your business. You can choose your friends but not your family...even though we all wish that we could sometimes, LOL!

[MUSTSEEVID]

thanks for the advice it was on point...

[MUSTSEEVID]

your co-worker has neva lied... you do exudes confidence... in your vids i see a proud black sista ....lmao you said take pics of your self not penthouse.. that is so funny.

[ladyrose01z]

Gread Advice!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you ladyrose!!!

[naija86girl]

your hair and makeup look good!

this video is so on point. the most importnat change i had to make was getting the unsupportive people OUT of my life. but it's hard sometimes because they've been there for so long but, for me, it was the most effective change i could make.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you naija,,,I'm about 2 cut this hair ALL off again!!!

I agree, removing certain people from your life can be hard and you may even miss them at first BUT after a while you will feel like a weight has been lifted. I'm telling you what I know hon!!!

[Blakpeaches]

Preach!!!! I feel you! Someone needed this message today. Thank you. By the way i like those earrings.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you so much Blakpeaches, I was only speaking from the heart!!!! Thank you 4 the earring compliment 2!

[lovingmycurls01]

Amazing Video !!!! Perfect 5 ; )

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you lovingmycurls01!! That really means a lot!

[lovesdresses1]

I so LOVE this message! Thank you!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Wow, I am so glad! THANK YOU!! Muaaah!

[TheSagaciousGirl]

This is a great video Girl!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Aww, thank you TheSagaciousGirl!

[Godiva217]

Auntie Jazz I swear you be getting these hidden messages that something is going on in my life cuz this video is ON TIME! Thanks for another great video.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Well PTL for being ON TIME!! You are 2 sweet Godiva!!

[blkbarbie29]

thank you i need to here this advice.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you 4 watching my vid blkbarbie29. I hope that it helps you hon!

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you very much Brissosweet87!

[Brisosweet87]

Wonderful Message!!!

[TheKillerBurrito]

Awesome video, Jazziiboo! Good advice! :D

[sj2008]

I could not say it better myself. I do those things and they work. I have a friend who calls herself stupid but I told her she can't say that especially around me. I love this video.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Thank you so much sj2008.

[lilofleurs972]

what a nice message, thank you.

[JAZZIIBOO]

Aww, no need to thank me lilofleurs972, I'm just speaking from the heart!

[dslim37]

I totally agree with you. I did the picture thingy and I carry them in my wallet. I might not be perfect in everyone eye, but I'm the bomb to myself!!!!!!!! and thats all that matters

[JAZZIIBOO]

I feel the same way dslim37. Yaay for carrying the pics in your wallet!!!